30 Bizarre Situations Women Found Themselves In Because Of Their “Baby Faces”, As Shared In This Online Community
Looking young – is it a blessing or a curse?
Some might argue that being the owner of a "baby face" has its perks; for instance, you might get away with a couple of cheeky discounts here and there, plus you are bound to keep your young demeanor for a little longer than most.
Now, even though you are probably tired of people exclaiming "really?" every time you tell them your age and of all the embarrassing inside jokes your pals are ready to use at any given chance – looking younger than your age also comes with a side of giggles:
“Women who look young, what’s the funniest/strangest/most memorable comment about your age you’ve ever received from a stranger?” – this online user turned to one of Reddit’s communities to find out what noteworthy remarks women with young features received. The thread has managed to receive 1.8K upvotes and 1.5K worth of amusing tales.
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Too many funny ones to count, but I’ll give my favourite interaction award to one where it benefited me
A year ago I was involved in a car accident, 100% my fault, was distracted arguing with my mother on hands free and ploughed down the side of an articulated lorry. Was driving my ‘100% a parent’ SUV but thankfully no kids in the car at the time
I got out in shock, really worried as the man driving the lorry was pissed (rightfully so) he got out and saw me holding back tears and said ‘do you need me to call your parents to come and get you?’
His attitude changed in seconds and was so caring, talking about how it must have been a shock having only been driving a short while (assumed I was still a teenager) and how he had a 17y/o daughter and was worried something like this would happen to her when she passed her test
I was too deep at this point so had to carry on the charade, he even got me a McDonald’s breakfast to calm me down (crashed near a service station)
It was the day before my 30th birthday
Last year I was asked to show my ID, 34 years old, while purchasing beer. It still happens quite often, starts getting weird :D
That's a law in some places, no matter how old the person may look, they have to show their ID.
Load More Replies...The exact same thing happened to me on my youngest child's 11th birthday--guy pulled right out in front of me--I was furious has he had a beer can in his hand. The cop said, "do you want me to call your mom? Should you call your mom?" I said "I AM the mom!"
I'd let-encourage- the cop just see the look upon hearing REALITY! lol
Load More Replies...I was still getting carded for everything until I was 38. Then I went to Target. Kid said, "Ma'am, do you have your I.D.?" I said, "Wow, this is the first time I have ever been carded!" Kid said, "Well, I wasn't going to, but you look over 40 so I have to." Gut punch. Still in existential pain.
When buying alcohol in my country it's mandatory to show your ID if they think you could be under 25.
I bought a bottle of wine, and this kid behind the counter asked if he could see my ID. 'Uh, sure. Thanks, I guess'.
Him: 'Woooah, you're 35?! You don't have wrinkles or anything. I'm 16 and I have classmates who look older than you!'
That was pretty good for the ego. :')
Odd, where I’m from You have to also be an adult to be able to sell Liquor in any type of store
I was thinking the same thing. I've never been/worked where a minor could sell alcohol. Even in grocery stores they have to call a supervisor
Load More Replies...I got carded into my 40s, except during winters when I had a beard. Talking to the chair of my department yesterday, I mentioned that I was within about 5 years of retirement and he was surprised, because he thought I was in my 50s. I'm 66.
I remember trying to buy wine at the self-checkout at a shop in England. They didn't ask for ID, but they had to put in the supervisor code so the sale could go through. That's the only time something like that has ever happened to me.
You know, men have this issue as well. I'm 45 and I have kallmann(s) syndrome. There's a reason why I never share my photo. Aside from the fact that I now have salt and pepper hair, I still look like a teenager. I have never shaved and I probably never will...unless you count shaving my head every spring. Just once, just for one day I'd love to be able to look my age. They (,practically everyone I know) said I'd appreciate t after I turned 40. They were completely wrong.
I'm over 50. I went to the store to buy some beer. The cashier asked for my ID to prove I'm over 21. Then they had to call another cashier over because they weren't old enough to handle the beer. But not as bad as being asked to show ID to buy cough medicine to prove I'm over 18. The cough medicine was for my granddaughter.
OP seems to be Canadian - saw the sign at liquor stores that if you look younger than 25 ID must be shown, although the drinking age is 21 (if I remember correctly, haven't been in a while)
Drinking age in Canada is 18 or 19, depending on the province. They do check ID for people who look under 25 here in Ontario. I am 39 and just now seeing a significant drop in the percentage of times I'm getting carded (though it still happens).
Load More Replies...was buying wine for my just turned 21 daughter, and i got carded!
I had a police officer ask me where my daughters parents were and why we were out alone. I didn’t have any proof on me that she was mine lol I ended up just showing him my stretch marks. He was pretty embarrassed
Some police look so young these days I want to ask where there parents are.
That is sooo true 🤣🤣🤣🙈 I think I'm just getting old 🤣😇
Load More Replies...And yet, at age 18 no one batted at an eye my friend having a 5 year old with her constantly, and I can honestly say we looked 14-15. It was her brother, in case ya’ll were wondering, but he actually looked like my kid. 😂
My friend got dirty looks and rude comments when she took her much younger foster brother out in her late teens/ early 20s.
Load More Replies...That reminded me of my time in the UK, where I worked in a shop. We often had to ask for ID, and lots of people did not carry any, even though they looked very young and confirmed that they were asked for an ID all the time... They never wanted to show us stretch marks per se, but there were several with "but I'm here with my kid", "look, I have a tattoo/piercing", "I have my car keys with me!", "this is my husband", and my favourite: "you can call my mom, she will tell you".
A cousin off mine has a baby face. Her parents are from a small village where the police would let newbies, just out of the police academy, perform a stop on her. They would even tell them that she couldn't be more than 16. She was 25 when she finally threatened to report them. 🤣
You showed your stretch marks? I had my daughter really young but yeah I'm calling BS on this one
I asked on an makeup Facebook group for tips to help me appear more mature as I felt it was holding me back at work. Someone replied telling me that I should stop complaining about looking younger and that I'll be grateful for it when I'm 30. I was 34 at the time.
Oh this is a thing I know from experience. Looking young does hold you back. I've had clients call my boss at the time to complain about "sending a junior to do [whatever]". In all those instances, I was the project lead, and have completed similar or bigger projects across multiple countries. I wear what everyone wears, work shirt, tie, work trousers, the male white collar uniform. But as long as I'm not a balding, rotund fella with a beer gut, I'm not "old" enough.
I'm not sure if you're M/F but my husband had that problem too until he let his beard grow (I'm not saying a woman can't have a beard...). Because he kept saying "I have over 25 years experience" "No you don't". Now they keep telling him "I thought you were the granpa of ....".
My brother did the same thing. He never lost his baby face and the beard was the only way he could look over 21.
Load More Replies...I got carded all the time until the end of my thirties, and in general, nobody ever believed my actual age and thought I had fake IDs. Always hated to hear that I should just take it as a compliment. Yes, what a great compliment to be treated like a child all the time. Really, great!
Getting carded by someone in a customer service job is quite different from getting your career stuck because you look too young, imho. The cashiers and such could lose their jobs if they get it wrong, so they kind of have to ask and then they get yelled at by some customers, so I tried always to be at least nice about them asking. The job situation on the other hand is just ageist bigotry and should never be brushed off as a compliment.
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We had our holiday luncheon last week, and talking with a coworker, he asked about kids. I said yes I have a 28 year old.
He said “holy s**t! Your kid is older than you!”
My oldest (30s) looks like a clone of me. We've been asked more than once when out together if we're sisters. Glad I look good, but the daughter isn't amused.
Had this when travelling to Vienna with my mom as a teen. Every waiter wanted to know if we're sisters. My mom was 22 yrs when she had me, and still looks much younger than her 63 yrs.
Load More Replies...My new coworker kept asking me how ols my kids are (both teens) and I always had the impression that he was holding something back.. after months he finally asked 'but how old ARE you?'.. told him I was 41, he would have guessed me 10 yrs younger. I don't necessarily have a babyface but I apparently act younger than the 'usual' 41 yr old momma :)
I had something similar happen to me. I was at work, on break and the subject came to age. I'd asked one girl how old she thought I was and I told her I had (at the time) a two year old grandson. She thought I was 24 or 25 (my daughter was 22 at the time.) Other coworkers thought my daughter and I were actually sisters.
Most recently, on an airplane, wearing a university hoodie (I'm a grad student) and carrying a backpack. It's 6am, I have on no makeup and my hair is in a messy ponytail and ofc a mask is covering half my face. I ask an elderly couple if I could have their window seat. They say yes, and the woman helps her husband up, explaining to me that he's blind. I slide into my seat and the woman starts describing the scene to her husband.
Her: you're sitting next to a sweet little girl, she's got a (university) hoodie on and her bag. She's probably - how old are you dear?
Me: I turn 27 tomorrow.
Her: oh! Oh wow. I thought you were much younger. Like a high school senior.
The husband is absolutely guffawing. They were a dear couple. We had a great flight.
You made old blind people get up so you could take THEIR window seat?
And the blind man was going to exactly what with the window next to him?
Load More Replies...I thought it said fight at the end. Was imagining this elderly couple plus the girl fighting on an airline. Weird
I had a similar experience several years ago. I was flying to Europe for business and a passenger seated next to me offered some sweets mid-way through the flight. I politely declined. She smiled and whispered, "You're very brave." I looked at her and said "Huh?" "You know, for flying by yourself at such a young age," she continued. I was 37 at the time.
Had a couple of young women (twins) visit church with their parents while they were all in town a couple of weeks ago. Folks wondered why they didn’t come up for the “young people’s homily”, but whatever. After church, while everyone was snacking, our congregational President was chatting with them and asked if they’d be starting high school this fall. One is a grad student in journalism. The other is in grad school for communications. Oops. 🤣
Had been seeing a new hairdresser for several months. One day she announced she was having a baby. I congratulated her and added that she was braver than me as I didn’t want kids. She said “you might change your mind someday”. I said “I think at 42 I’m pretty sure that’s not gonna happen”. She bopped me on the head with the brush (not hard) and laughed and said “you are not 42”. I pulled out my drivers license to prove it. She went on for awhile about me not having gray hairs and I had to explain that I have my dad’s hair and he didn’t start graying until his mid 50s. But the bop with the hair brush was pretty funny.
Is that funny? I would find this whole conversation patronizing and annoying
I agree that making her have to pull out her drivers license to prove her age was really rude. You shouldn't need to explain yourself to strangers. My comment "boop" was one of those "that's a fun word" kind of comment. So hope you didn't find it to inappropriate.
Load More Replies...I had grey hairs since I was about 22. Had high school classmates who had them at 15. Mom had a high school mate who was fully grey at 17. (No trauma, just weird genetics.) Partner at 41 has zero grey hairs. So that's not much of an indication.
Genetics can be a bastard like that. I've been steadily going grey since 17. At 30 I am now greyer than my grandmother was at 60.
Load More Replies...When my dad died at 88, he had about 10 gray hairs. My mom was completely gray before 40. I had about 5 gray hairs until lockdown happened. I'm 66 and blonde, so the only grays that are visible are around my face.
I'm 47 and I don't have any gray hair yet. My dad went bald in his late 20's. Genetics are weird!
I'm 48 (well, in two weeks) and I've got about ten. My mom was the same way though. She passed at 74 and had very few gray hairs.
Load More Replies...I'm almost 49, just starting getting a few grey hairs last year. Today I checked my head to see how many grey hairs I had now, the grey strands have started coming through brown again. No new grey strands at all. I get asked frequently by strangers, how often do you dye your hair to cover the grey? I haven't dyed my hair for over 20 years. My hair apparently wants to stay brown. I'm not taking supplements or changed my diet and at this rate I'll still be brunette at 80😂
My mother had only some streaks of gray hair when she died at age 69. She also never looked her age as far as wrinkles were concerned. I will be turning 58 soon and so far no gray hairs. Also had a baby face but at least to me I look old now. Maybe more sags than wrinkles but they still bother me.
something similar happened to me - my hairdresser was commenting on how well I covered my gray hairs (we've been friends since I was 6 and she was 4 so she knows hold old I am). She was quite taken back when I told her I had virgin hair. I hadn't touched it with dye since I had to shave my head due to a bleaching incident.
"And why do you think you can just sit in the teachers lounge?! Get back to class immediately!!!"
Me with my head bent over a stack of exams holding a red pen looking like a surprised pikachu. In fairness I was only 22 at the time but she really thought I was 12..
(It hasnt gotten better. I'm 27 and I am ALWAYS IDed for alcohol. The drinking age here? 18.)
So was I! The funniest time was when I went to a county fair with my brother and his wife and kids one year, right before I turned 31. My brother bought us each a beer at lunch, and later, when we both were in the mood for another, I paid for them. When I showed my ID to the guy as I did, the man looked at me, cracked up, and said something like, "Must be nice."
Load More Replies...In university I had one teacher who would always wear a jacket. My guess was that it was so he wouldn't be taken for a student...
In my case, they didn't really speak out. My old professor mentioned about seeing me in the staff office but dismissed the thought. I've at that point, graduated for a over decade. I was there to collect info about a week long seminar I was invited to speak in. When we finally did meet up at the seminar, he can't believe I still looked like I was back in college, but all dressed for work.
My teacher colleague tried to kick my husband out from our table at a school ball because he had just shaved and looked 15. He was 30. The students keot arguing whether he was my younger brother or what.
38, always asked for my ID. I think it's because I have a round face shape and a bubbly personality.
I was dragged to the Vice principals office my first week of teaching at the high school where I was employed. The security officer had asked for my identification and I told her that I was new here and hadn’t been issued one yet. I was 32 at the time.
At least you didn't get stopped while walking to work by a cop. He drove me to a local school and tried to figure out who I was. Dude thought my if was fake. Now that was truly embarrassing, lemme tell ya. This happened about 27 years ago.
Mine was when I was at a golfing range with my high school boyfriend. We were both 18 and he was teaching me how to drive. A man in his 60s came up to me, started to give me advice on how to swing, and then asked me “do you and your father golf together often?”
Guy thought I was like, 12 and that my boyfriend was in his 30s. Very awkward situation all around
I've had the opposite. Went to a car show with a friend and his family. His daughter wanted a ride in my car (two-seater) and he followed in his with the rest of the family. When I arrived someone made the assumption that the daughter was my girlfriend. She was about 14 and I was rapidly approaching 40! Granted at that time she was nearly as tall as me, but she still had a young face. That was a few years ago - she's 6ft4 now and towers over me!
People often assume that of my dad and I, because I look in my twenties (I am NOT), but he's 45, and looks 57, so it's incredibly awkward all around.
Load More Replies...Once we were buying groceries at local store and grabbed couple beers. The man on till asks my ID and was shocked to see I'm 31. He then turn to my partner and apologies him that sorry mate, she looks very young 🙄😂 like wtf? People usually guess that he is 45 and I'm teenager, when as a matter of fact, he is younger than me
For like two minutes I was trying to figure out why you were learning to drive a car at a golf course.
Went with my husband and his sister to the cemetery on father’s day. Afterwards we stopped for lunch. Waiter hands me the bill and says “Daughter’s treating Mom and Dad, right?” When I said, no, my husband was paying for his sister and me, waiter’s face fell - guess he figured there goes my tip.
My prom date, who I had known since we were in kindergarten, looked 35. I looked 15. I saw the picture recently and ROFL.
That happened to my mother and oldest brother. Some of his friends would see them in the mall "Hey, aren't you going to introduce me to your new GF?" "That's my mother, you creep". To be fair, my oldest brother always looks so old (to me anyways) but my mother did look young most of her life and they only had 18 years apart (she married at 17 not pregnant).
My dad was working the local fair with the chiropractic office he worked in as a massage therapist. He needed a spikey ball to assist in massages. He found one with one of those guess games. We both played. His was weight and i said age. Ive never looked my age. The guy running the booth guess wrong on both. Not because i looked younger i was between late teens and mid twentys. But because the guy that my dad was my date so he guessed older. We had a laugh and got our prices. I love those games. I did it once at universal studios Florida while on a choir retreat and came home with a pink angel bear bout as big as me. That time it was birthday. Im not a traditional Capricorn.
People often assumed my father was my boyfriend/husband. I'll never understand this - my father was 40 when I was born and looked his age! (And I've always looked younger.)
I was in Atlantic City with my parents and siblings years ago, one day we decided to eat breakfast at a diner. I am the second oldest in my family with an age gap ranging from 6-13 years with my younger siblings, I'm also only 5 feet tall. The hostess bent down to eye level with her hands on her knees and went down the line asking all of my younger siblings their ages. When she got to me, she asked me the same question "and how old are you?!" in the same patronizing voice only to be visually surprised when I answered very flatly, "19."
Even as a young child, I disliked it when people would say things like that, with fake enthusiasm. It felt condescending, as if they were mocking me.
Even when I was small, I felt so belittled by this type of condescending - false enthusiasm. Once when I was about 9 years old a lady said the same thing to me in a patronizing voice and I responded in the exact same tone with my hand on my knees "I am 9. Aww and how old are you?"
My niece was 20 when she came with us to Germany as our kids nanny. But everyone thought she was 12! My husband and I were given complimentary schnapps in most restaurants but she wasn't so I had to explain to the waiters that she was actually 20 so she could try the schnapps.
I have a female cousin who is even shorter than that. She also has a baby face and no wrinkles, even though she is in her 50's. I wouldn't be surprised if she has experienced this, and maybe still does.
in high school I was in homeroom by the door studying-a little short teacher stopped and asked if I was lost or waiting for someone-told her I was studying-she asked if I needed to get back across the road to the grade school-lol I had to tell her I was in 10th grade-I am still not 5 ft tall
My youngest daughter is 25 but she has been tiny since being a small baby. She was sitting at 6 months and I got told off by other mums how wrong it was that I'd forced a 2 month old baby to sit up. She was the size of a 2 month old baby. Crawling at 7 months, again judgement because she was the same size as a 3 month old baby. Walking 12 months and looking like a 6 month old baby. Again cruel comments. She gained height and weight very slowly. Took her to a pediatrician who ran loads of tests and said that it was just how she was. She would probably be like a dot her whole life. Still very short and small. So even at 25 she still looks no older than a 10 year old.
I'm only 5 foot tall and when I was a teen many people assumed my brother (2 years younger than me) was older and I was asked my age in the same manner a few times.
"Here's your menu."
It was a kids' menu. I was 22.
Same. Also wasn't going to be let in for a PG-13 movie. I was at least 17 or 18.
I would sometimes really like to get the kids menu if I'm not too hungry as long as they serve the same food in smaller quantities rather than junk food =<
When we went out for dinner my dad would often order from the children's menu because he prefers smaller meals. Cue a few raised waiter eyebrows.
My sister does the same with the seniors meals. (shes's 22) :)
Load More Replies...Ugh. Up until I was 17 my dad always forced me to get kids menus when we would go out to eat. I'm 18 now and I sometimes still order from some kids menus at specific restaurants due to me having autism. Autistic people thrive off routine (doing the same morning routine, ordering the same thing at a restaurant each time, etc). I also once saw a news article where a man that had dwarfism was out on a romantic dinner date with his girlfriend and he got handed a coloring book and crayons.
I would get into movies half price-got into a drag race when about 23 ys old free-guy came to our home-asked to speak to the lady of the house-told him that was me-people thought I was around 10 years old in my wedding photo-lol
I've had some unpleasant experiences eating alone in restaurants over the years because of how I looked. A lot of these people assumed I am too young to "afford" eating there. Regardless of how I dressed, I still get the "what's this kid doing here?" look from wait staff. I travel a lot for work in my younger days and eating alone is the norm back then.
I paid 6 dollars for a kids buffet. Not my fault, thats how they rang it up... I was 30 at fhe time and a guy... SHEESH
I was 24 and had a 6 months old baby. A cashier thought my husband was my father and wouldn't accept his ID. Another time I was out with my husband and my 13 yo daughter and my 5 year old daughter and someone thought we were all sisters. They were praising my husband for dealing with all his kids by himself. I just died laughing. He didn't think it was quite as funny. I was 36.
Time has since caught up with me but it was nice for a while. I still occasionally get carded tho.
I sound like a small child on the phone apparently. When landlines were still a thing, telemarketers would always say, "Can I speak to your mommy please?" I would pretend to be clueless and say she wasn't home. Now they ask to speak to MRS Surname. I just reply, "This is MISS Surname!"
This is why I trained my voice. Was 17 and due to my hormone disorder my voice never changed. Went to order a game through PC...err, I forget the rest of the name, but anyway..the woman wouldn't believe me about my age and kept referring to me as a girl. Pissed me off so bad I spent the next 6 years training my voice to be more masculine. In the last two years I figured out that singing in a bravado helped immensely. Nothing is more infuriating than answering the phone and being called miss when you're a Mr. I now have two voices. My regular voice for immediate family and my fake baritone voice for everyone else. Very wide singing range now too. No falsetto here, I can hit high notes at ease, though I prefer low alto and tenor. Can also sing baritone and then go into a bravado for lower notes.
Praise the dad for apparently watching all his own kids by himself? I wish I would get praised for basic parenting
The dentist thought my husband was my son and told him his mom needed to sign papers before he saw him. Let's just say I have never lived that down....13 years later...
It isn't as common for me as before unless the lighting isn't so good. Otherwise they would be able to see the gray hairs.
I had someone tell me that it was really nice of my son to c e and pick up his sister from work so often. It was my husband who was picking her up!! My husband is of Chinese heritage and always looks a lot younger than he is.
Like my mom! 😍 May mom had my sister at 18, and me and my twin brother at 25. 23 years later -now 48 years - she was visiting me , together with my dad, in my new flat. My roommate asked me afterwards: " So, this was your dad and...your sister?" Told my mom that she was an estimated 30yrs old and she v e r y liked it. -- Now I'm 43 myself and people regularly think I'm 28/32/34-ish. (5ft1, fit and slim)
I went to get the flu shot while running errands with my mom. The lady at the counter asked my mom to sign the forms for me because she thought I was a minor. I was 30.
I broke my arm mountain biking. I was with my younger sister, who was kinda freaked and she called our parents when she called 911 (I had to be hauled off the mountain). Anyway, we got to the ER, and they told my parents what was going on, completely ignoring me, and gave my mom the pre-surgical paperwork. She actually completed it (how, I don't know), then, after signing everything, finally asked "Shouldn't she be doing this herself?" They said "She's over 18?" Mom said "She's 28." [frustrated tearing up of forms to have me do them] I don't get ID'd anymore, but people usually think I'm mid-30s. I'm 56.
When I was 24 I had a Police Officer approach me in a Target one day and basically accuse me of truancy. There was a high school nearby and he apparently thought that I was skipping school.
Oh yeah, getting stopped by cops while picking younger siblings up from school in my 20s. The school has uniforms, so that made it worse for me.
You see children around any time of the day here and nobody asks them why they are not at school - they might have a free lesson, be sick, have a day off, anything! In addition, you would most definitely be told to mind your own business if you did ask...
Years ago, my wife had a coworker who'd been blessed with good genes. They did "casual Friday" at my wife's workplace. One Friday, Coworker had to leave early to attend a parent/teacher conference for her younger son--he was in HS, his brother was in college. Coworker shows up for the HS kid's c onference, on Friday, wearing a ballcap, tshirt, jeans, and sneakers (trainers for the UK crowd). When she arrives, she's accosted by a faculty member who demands to know "why she isn't in class!" Coworker blinked, looked Faculty Member in the eye, and said, "Hi, I'm Son's Mom, I'm here for a conference with Teacher? Can you direct me to their classroom, please?" Faculty Member blinked, stammered, gave her directions, and scurried off.
I don't get why they would do that since in HS you have all kinds of schedules. You could have one course at 8 and be let go until 2, depending on the day.
That's not the case everywhere. At some schools you are scheduled all day and aren't allowed to leave the building even for lunch.
Load More Replies...I'm in my 50's now but 30 years ago (21 yrs old) I was stopped at a bus stop waiting for a bus to go to the university I was attending when a cop pulls up and starts questioning me on where I was going. I made the mistake of saying I was going to school. (up the road was a high school that I lived across the street from) The cop thought I was a high school student playing hooky. I showed him my university ID to no avail. He dragged me up to the high school, itching to write me a truancy ticket and get his quota in. He marches me into the high schools office, and asked the school secretary to confirm that I'm a student there. The secretary takes my university ID, looks at it, and says that I am not a student at the high school. I was running late for class by this time and asked if I was free to go, the secretary dismissed me and I left. I got to class late and had to explain the fiasco with my Prof. He laughed and said, "Well when I first saw you, I thought you were 15 too!" ---Kristy
When I worked at a cafe for a while and all my coworkers were shocked to find out that I was married “at such young age!” (their words).
I was 29.
I was meeting with some pickers (I'm an antique jewelry dealer) a few weeks ago. I mentioned that I got married at 29 and both of the pickers were shocked I was that old when I got married. (blue collar town)
I had a co-worker who was married at 14 because of their culture. But no action until she was 18 and first kid at 19. She was a happy woman and he was really nice so I didn't understand people putting it against them.
I think my parents got married when my mom was 23 (?) I know it was early twenties, and then had me at 27.
They met at 19 and 24 if my math is mathing correctly. Introduced by friends.
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I went to a bank to apply for my first ever credit card. They told me "Sorry, we do not allow minors to open their own credit cards. You need to have your guardian as the primary card holder." I said "... you have my current payroll account...." then they caught the hint, checked my information and figured out I was in no way a minor. I was 25 years old.
Probably didn’t want to ‘waste’ their time.. and, “Next!”
Load More Replies...I still have that problem if I go to a branch office outside of local areas.
I was damn near 30 and some older woman *tsk'd* and remarked "Babies having babies" while I was in the family area of the hospital my youngest was in with my older son.
I said, lol "No, thanks though. I'm almost 30".
She was like; "OH! Sorry!"
I guess I look like a teenager.
I had my son when I was 16. I went to lunch with some old school friends when he would've been only a couple of months old. I had to go change him, and as I neared the door, this elderly lady rushed up to open it for me. She said "he looks so well taken care of and loved. You're doing a fantastic job. Don't you ever let anyone pull you down". I'm 44 now, my son is 27. I always remember her kindness whenever someone snipes about teen mums. We did just fine, in part because of her words. Thank you.
my daughter was 22 yrs old & in heavy labor, hour 18 when a nurse stepped in and decided to tell her all about "this is what happens when you play adult games" lecture. lucky for her I had stepped out for a moment & yes I did report her
What the actual hell, like this person is literally pushing out an entire freaking child and all you can think to say is some judgemental c**p about being a teen mom, and the mom in question ISN’t EVEN A TEEN! Glad you reported her.
Load More Replies...Babyface me, 25, walking with my infant and my dad at the mall. SO many people giving my dad dirty looks, because my son looks like him, including the bright red hair, and I looked 13. It was horribly awkward.
I was pregnant at age 15. My dad and I have the same sense of humor, so we always walked hand in hand in public to see how people reacted.
Load More Replies...That’s a shitty thing to say. Like it’s hard enough being a parent, and on top of that you’re a teen, and on top of THAT you have judgemental assholes with their stupid little tuts.
My brother is 14 years younger than me. We were very close as I would be left to look after him when our mum went out drinking (whole other story) Anyway, we'd gone to the supermarket, my mum was shopping and I was carrying the baby who must have been between 1&2 at the time. I heard some old couple say something along the lines of "babies having babies" with a judgemental look. I told my mum what they had said and she laughed and made a loud scene about us both being hers. She was 42 or 43 at the time.
I started working at a high school and a fellow teacher turned to me and said "I know you're new but freshmen should not be up here until 8:30." Freshmen in my country are 14 I was 26-27 at the time.
Another was my first date with my ex, the bounder said now man I know you not trying to sneak this teen in here. My ex said she is 24, he said let me see. Shocked him.
She must work at a school that doesn't use quotation marks. Somewhere in the South perhaps?
Right, because proper punctuation is so important on social media...
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I was working at a pizza place and we had a new hire who was 16 (I was 25 at the time). We were chatting while making pizzas, and I don’t remember what he said but my response was something like “Yeah, I went to culinary school actually” and he said “Idk where that is, I go to *name of local high school. Have you graduated yet?”
And I was like “no, _culinary_ school” and he said “oh, none of my friends go there”
And I was like dude, I’m 25 lol. I went to cooking school. And he just stared at me for a second and said he thought I was 16
Or didn't know what the word "culinary" means
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Got carded at the liquor store two weeks ago, with my son who’s almost 21. She carded him as well and I was like “oh that’s my kid” and she gave me the “sure it is” look.
But then I was at the park over the summer with the toddler I watch and the old ladies that walk the park loop asked if I was his grandma.
I don’t know what’s happening anymore.
I should have added, I’m 48. So I definitely don’t look that young.
My wife was taking our eldest to Primary school one day for a Meet the Parents morning. The woman & child ahead of her entered the classroom & the teacher said 'Oh, you've brought your grandmother, that's nice'. Only problem was, as the woman loudly pointed out, she was the child's mother
People used to assume my mom was my grandmother all the time. She had me in her later 30's and had gray hair. I used to get so mad when people said that though. I yelled at every one of them!
Load More Replies...61 years ago I was grocery shopping with my mom. Cashier asked if I liked shopping with my grandmother. I was 5, she was 41, but completely gray. Most of my 1st grade classmate's mothers had been taught by my mother. Most married young and were 23 or 24.
Ladies, if your get carded when you're in your mid 20s or older, "Take the money and run." That's a compliment.
Carded at liquor store when I was 32. Six months younger than my husband, people thought he was my father and our son was my baby brother.
In the US, state liquor boards are known to send undercover secret shoppers to entrap the bar tender or cashier into selling alcohol without checking ID,. And a common trick is for the older “customer” to claim to be the younger “customer’s” parent (“oh you don’t need to check his ID, he’s my kid!”) If the bartender or cashier falls for it and sells them alcohol, the business can lose their liquor license, face fines, etc.
Well, maybe old ladies are more likely to recognise the "grandma vibe" while teachers, professors, cashiers and cops expect to see minors, so they will rather err on the youth side. Like when I'm usually taken for my actual age or a little younger (I'm 30 now), but when I was babysitting my niece, who's 12 years younger than me, I was always mistaken for her mother, even when she was 3 and I 15...or when my niece, now 18, had a part in a local play, and everyone took her for a drama student, because everyone else was one.
Told a group of new coworkers about my 8 year-old son starting 3rd grade. One of the ladies said she was impressed I was able to finish high school, finish college and earned my CPA with being a teen mom. I must have had a supportive family. I was so confused because I am 37 years old, had my son well after high school and college. My new coworkers thought I was 25 years old and assumed I had been a teen mom.
I work with a lovely lady who appears to be in her early 20's. She was telling me about her having twins right out of the college so I assumed that the twins were babies, maybe toddlers at the most. When she said the twins were about to turn 19, I almost fell over. This woman is in her 40's and I would never have been able to tell just from looking at her.
I'm 5ft and 32 years old. My new boss is at least 6ft and is 22 years old. The kids at work get really confused trying to work out who's older lol.
I was working in finance, dressed professionally and one of the customers that came in said, "Do your mommy and daddy know you aren't at school?" And he just kept going on and on about how I didn't look old enough to work here, and thought he was so hilarious. I had been working in finance for 5 years at the time. Still the most frustrating comment about my age that I've ever heard.
That one sounds a little different. Like the guy KNEW who she was but was being a condescending jerk.
I would have been tempted to come back with "Do the nurses know you're out of bed?"
Working in a school, walking with a 5th grader down the hall (I was 25 at the time) and being told we looked like twins. In a high school, I've been mistaken for a student. Had bars question my real ID and refuse to serve me. When I was 22 I got carded to see a rated-R movie. People think it's cute and funny to tell me that I just look SO young. Truthfully, it's been an insecurity for me most of my life. I just want to be taken seriously.
I looked 18 when I was 14. It had it's good and bad points. I had a 40 year old ask me out.
Yup I had the same issue. At 13 I was hanging around pubs and nightclubs and usually ended up having s*x with loads of older guys. I was very self destructive between 13 and 15. I looked like I was in my 20s so never got asked how old I was. No drugs or alcohol just s*x. My psychiatrist asked how many I'd been with, probably over 1000.
Load More Replies...I am 49 and get called "kid" all the time by people in my apartment building. It hurts to not be taken seriously, especially when I have been bullied my entire life.
“Wait till you’re in your thirties, it won’t be so easy to stay in shape” “Ma’am I’m 35”
Just tuned 39 four days ago so now it's my coworkers saying "wait til ur 45!!"
Had a person tell me to wait until I was their age , I was 3 years older ... Mind you it was while I was a general manager of a p**n shop and a lot of our clientele where into experimenting with drugs ... Ok that a lie they were in full scale drug research.
My Dad still gets people telling him he'll feel differently when he's "old enough to retire." -- He's 84.
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I was asked if I was at least 21 by a female bartender. I said "I'm actually 31, this has been the second time in 24hrs someone thought I was younger...maybe it's the backpack?"
Second female bartender said "ya probably Dora." As is Dora the explorer.
My mom laughed hard. I said ouch. And now I don't use my enamal Pin backpack for non theme park activities anymore.
As a 34 year old with a backpack decorated with k-pop pins I understand that. Backpacks are easier for commuting! Besides I like what I like. 🤷♀️
I have a backpack shaped like Toothless' head, which I take to work with me every day! Kids love it. XD
Load More Replies...Had issues with bars as well. So I ended up going to a bar where I knew someone I worked with elsewhere. Bouncer let me in and then the poor guy had to explain to the bartenders that I was in fact over 21 and no, my id wasn't fake. That place became my go to to vent off steam for the next 3 years.
A girl I had casually known for a year found out I was in my 30s, looked at me with complete shock and whispered “Lady Bathory”…
I took it as a compliment!!!
That is very much an insult for hungarian people. She was a great politican, and had a lot of properties, men feared her wealth and power, and that is why they tried to shame her and killed her at the end with such stories. So that sucks to read as a hungarian, that one of our ancestors are accused of wichcraft.
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a TSA officer looking at me on my way to Florida checking my boarding pass and asking me "umm how old are you?" Insinuating I might not be old enough to fly unaccompanied. I told him I'm 31. He almost fell off his stool. I mean I look a bit younger than my age but under 18 is pushing it.
This just happened to my daughter yesterday. She’s 18 but looks about 12 poor kid
On my way into a grocery store, I was stopped by someone who was looking to get people to register to vote. Her question: "Are you registered to vo----Are you OLD enough to vote?" Voting age in my state is 18. I had just turned 30.
I was 28 and had recently bought a house. Had someone tell me I'd understand things better when I was older. Dude, how old do you think I am. Turns out he thought I was 19.
At the pet store with my best friend who is in her 50s and her daughter (13) who wanted to hold a Guinea pig but her daughter was standing about 50 feet away from us, looking at hamsters they have for sale. My best friend asks a store employee if her daughter can hold a Guinea pig.
The store employee goes on about how their store policy is that any potential buyer needs to be at least 18 years old to hold a pet and assumed that I was her daughter. Then he says to me “May I ask how old you are?” I was 35.
Okay, but what kind of store policy is that? I can understand toddlers/small children, but only 18 or older is harsh.
Tbh, I've known plenty of teenagers who would be waaaaayyyy more irresponsible with a poor little defenseless animal than a younger child would. Selfies with a guinea pig? What could go wrong? Oh, that gecko would look great on my timeline! Look how cute this ferret is, let's make a TikTok! You get the idea. Teenagers are often times just children in an almost-adult body. If some random teenager were to grab my cat out of nowhere and without asking, I'd drop-kick them into oblivion. Many, many teenagers are responsible young adults who are more than capable of gently handling animals... and many, many other teenagers are not. I'd rather not take the risk. The lives of those little critters are at stake and I'd rather not place them in the hands of some 13-year-old. Unless, maybe, under parental supervision. But even then...
Load More Replies...I still get carded. Sadly, it’s for the seniors discount now but I’ll take it as it comes. 😉
Being asked if I was the high school work experience girl on my first day at a new job.
Or being asked if I was lost, and a stranger offering me her phone if I wanted to call my parents. I was 22.
My mum made me get my hair and makeup done for my Year 12 formal, when I was 17. The lady doing the makeup was talking about not putting too much makeup on me, because she thought it was for a Year 6 graduation. I should have played along rather than blurt out I was Year 12, because then I wouldn't have had to wear too much of that gunk on my face.
The make up lol! I'm glad my family was poor and found it a waste of money to get hair and make up done for the formal. I just had mascara and a bit of eye shadow because I didn't know how to apply eyeliner yet :)
My husband got asked what his daughter was drinking, I'm 55 .. he's 65 lol
I was walking my dog on a beautiful summer day and walked past a man maybe 10 years older than me. He said "Hey, beautiful day!" and I agreed with him. Then he looked at me a bit closer and said: "You must know my son Brandon." I don't know any Brandons. I asked him how old Brandon was and he answered "He's 24." Nope, not a friend of 24 year old Brandon and I am old enough to be his mother.
I went to a single's conference at a hotel with a bunch of people from our church. There were singles all ages there. I had a guy come over to me and acted very interested. We were talking for a while and comparing schedules. Found out he was in the 30's group. I was in the one two levels above that. I was 20 years older than him. I walked away from that one. He thought I was in his group. Thanks for the compliment but too much age difference for me.
Not a stranger but I contractor I hired for my home. I'd been coordinating for weeks to have a new garage door and opener installed. Contractor shows up and goes Him: ....so.....you're the owner? Me: Yes Him: Oh...you just look really young. Me: Yeah I get that a lot. How old did you think I was? Him: Umm like 16? It killed me. How many 16 y.o.'s out there coordinating contractors for their homes?? Yeah that's what I thought LOL
Yep if this is the other side of shallow. I may look like some college kid, but Mr. Contractor I drew those plans and a proper chartered engineer signed-off on it. Does that ring a bell?
I used to work in geriatric health care and many disoriented patients would refer to me to the other nurses as "the little black girl" "that little girl who was just here" while I was in my mid 20s!
I frequently got asked when I was starting college at one of my previous jobs. At the time I had just started my last year of a master's degree.
I was shopping with my mom one day and was buying things for a new apartment I was moving in to. A lady walked past us and said, "oh are you going away to college for the first time?" I was in my 30's......
I was in a cab with 3 of my friends (all 25f) with three of us in the back and my friend up front. The cab driver asked us why we put the 12 year old in the front seat, genuinely concerned.
When I was in college (20) I was a camp counselor for a middle school summer camp (12-13 year olds) and the class instructors would constantly scold me for not doing the work and being on my phone
I was working in a mall for ~2 years and one client came to me one day to ask me if I'm on my school internship (in my country we're supposed to do an internship at ~14 to help us choose our future high school). Her face when I told her that I did this internship 10 years ago xD Now I'm 28 and some bartenders still ask for my ID
My fiancé and I were in queue at a deli, mild PDA was happening and an elderly woman in front of us gave him a horrible look and said “you should be dating someone your own age, shame on you!” I’m 26 he’s 32.
*Turns to the old lady* "Sorry, dearie, but 26 year old men bore me, so I started looking for older men..."
Eh, I'd say after 25 age difference isn't that big of a deal... Unless it's a HUGE difference...
Load More Replies...I was getting a massage and my massage therapist was asking me about my pets and it turned into a conversation about the house my partner and I recently bought and she said: “You must be rich because that’s such a big house for such a young woman.” It’s not that big of a house and I’m 43. I then told her my age and she said oh I thought you were 30 tops
I was sent to Bangkok years ago for work and had to go back and forth every few weeks. Anyway, one weekend after flying in, I was absolutely knackered and went for a massage. The masseur "advised" me to not do that too often because at that age, I am not fully developed yet. I was in my early 30s.
I went to a famous historical museum with my family, all of which are EXTREMELY tall except for me. I’m 5’8”, while they’re 6’0”+.My middle school cousin and I were the same height and she’s 12… so I got into the museum for free because children don’t need to pay, & they thought I was a child! =_= I HATED it… but I’ll take the free pass, thank you! Haha!
(The mixture of having a shorter height PLUS looking young helped me get into a museum for free.)
Edit: >_> I was 22…
A friend & I went to a Sizzler one night mid-week where Seniors (over 65) were offered a discount. In front of the cashier - you paid in advance at Sizzler in Australia - my friend jokingly said 'Oh look, you get a discount'. The cashier, who looked to be in her late teens/early 20's promptly gave me the discount when I paid. I was 51 at the time & my friend was 54, she consoled me by saying that to the young cashier anyone over 45 probably looked old enough to qualify
Age is such an ambiguous thing so truly someone who's 45 could look more 65 than some 70+year olds. On my 18th birthday I went and bought alcohol by myself the first time I was all excited to get carted and be old enough but then toy disappointment they didn't even ask and I realized I could have probably gotten away with buying my own booze for at least like 4 years, I'd just never tried lol 😂
Load More Replies...I loved getting in places for cheaper when I was a teen/ early 20s, but I am a bit of a spend-thrift :)
I went to a high school graduation party and had on a new dress. One of my sister's friends who is a freshman in college went up to her and said, "Man who is that, she's really hot". She responded, with the most dead-panned expression, and said, "She's my thirteen-year-old sister, you perv". So yeah, not so much funny, but I still laugh about it!
Looking significantly younger than your age, whilst daring to be female, can result in a boat-load of condescension. It is not at all amusing when face with this in professional, or medical circumstances. And, no, looking young at 30. 40 or 50 is not compensation, It's just more of the same!
It isn't much better being male and looking younger. I've had to deal with power plays far too often than I'd liked. People are shallow. And some of these t*ssers want to remain relevant despite being rubbish at their jobs. Hence the politics and power plays.
Load More Replies...When I was in high school, I was always mistaken for being much older. I had someone warn me that as fun as that was, I probably wouldn't appreciate looking older when I was 40. Well, ironically, I am constantly mistaken for being younger. Not decades or anything. But when I say I'm 52, I usually hear, "I thought you were like 40!" LOL!!! I guess I got lucky. (Plenty of other thing about the way I look that aren't wonderful, so I'll take it!!!)
I was the same. At 17 I had "Ugly Betty" glasses and was asked if I was my 9 year old sister's mother. 50 years later people ask which of us is older.
Load More Replies...My wife was asked if she was a half-fare (under 16) on the bus. She was 32 at the time!
Similar problem. I'm eligible for all sorts of discounts at 70 but most people assume I'm in my 50s. No grey or wrinkles and the mask hides my lower face that's just starting to sag a bit.
Load More Replies...I got one - I met my mom at her hair salon to pick her up to go to dinner. Hair stylist asked me if I was 18 and I jokingly said yes because I thought she was just being funny. A few minutes later she asked me if I was heading to college in the fall. I had to tell her I was 30.
These stories make my blood boil. Things like this happen to me all the time. I get it that you are confused by my appearance, but you are not giving me a compliment when you tell me I look young, you're just commenting on something that's none of your business. Making friends is hard for any adult, but I feel that looking like a teen has made it even harder for me to make friends in my 30's. I've started introducing myself with my name and age.
This 1000 times! I've even stopped saying "thanks" when getting the inevitable "you look so much younger!" because, no, I don't consider it a compliment, I want to be taken seriously and not judged based on their assumptions.
Load More Replies...I seem to have a face like that. When I'm with my kid, many people think I'm the babysitter. When I'm with my dog, people tell me I might have kids some day, too. Either way, men and older women assume I'm dumb.
I was asked for ID to purchase some behind the counter painkillers as you have to be over 16. I'm 40.
Looking significantly younger than your age, whilst daring to be female, can result in a boat-load of condescension. It is not at all amusing when face with this in professional, or medical circumstances. And, no, looking young at 30. 40 or 50 is not compensation, It's just more of the same!
It isn't much better being male and looking younger. I've had to deal with power plays far too often than I'd liked. People are shallow. And some of these t*ssers want to remain relevant despite being rubbish at their jobs. Hence the politics and power plays.
Load More Replies...When I was in high school, I was always mistaken for being much older. I had someone warn me that as fun as that was, I probably wouldn't appreciate looking older when I was 40. Well, ironically, I am constantly mistaken for being younger. Not decades or anything. But when I say I'm 52, I usually hear, "I thought you were like 40!" LOL!!! I guess I got lucky. (Plenty of other thing about the way I look that aren't wonderful, so I'll take it!!!)
I was the same. At 17 I had "Ugly Betty" glasses and was asked if I was my 9 year old sister's mother. 50 years later people ask which of us is older.
Load More Replies...My wife was asked if she was a half-fare (under 16) on the bus. She was 32 at the time!
Similar problem. I'm eligible for all sorts of discounts at 70 but most people assume I'm in my 50s. No grey or wrinkles and the mask hides my lower face that's just starting to sag a bit.
Load More Replies...I got one - I met my mom at her hair salon to pick her up to go to dinner. Hair stylist asked me if I was 18 and I jokingly said yes because I thought she was just being funny. A few minutes later she asked me if I was heading to college in the fall. I had to tell her I was 30.
These stories make my blood boil. Things like this happen to me all the time. I get it that you are confused by my appearance, but you are not giving me a compliment when you tell me I look young, you're just commenting on something that's none of your business. Making friends is hard for any adult, but I feel that looking like a teen has made it even harder for me to make friends in my 30's. I've started introducing myself with my name and age.
This 1000 times! I've even stopped saying "thanks" when getting the inevitable "you look so much younger!" because, no, I don't consider it a compliment, I want to be taken seriously and not judged based on their assumptions.
Load More Replies...I seem to have a face like that. When I'm with my kid, many people think I'm the babysitter. When I'm with my dog, people tell me I might have kids some day, too. Either way, men and older women assume I'm dumb.
I was asked for ID to purchase some behind the counter painkillers as you have to be over 16. I'm 40.
