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Women Share Unexpected Responses They Get After Asking Out Their Crush On Date, And It’s Too Entertaining
Remember how last year women were sharing the responses they got after asking out their crush on a date? Well, it's that time of year again and the same British relationship blogger named Oloni has once again asked her followers to pursue the people they have so desperately fallen for.
"I came up with the idea [for the challenge] by thinking of ways I could push women to be more confident within themselves," Oloni told Bored Panda. "The challenge was an exercise for women to practice making the first move." The rules are simple - women summon the courage to ask their crushes out for Valentine's and share the reponses they get. Dami picked this special day because it's an honest celebration of love, "It shouldn't be exclusive to those who are in relationships alone."
Even though the pariticipants of Oloni's challenge can receive only one of two possible answers, the staggering amount of different shapes and forms they come in is insane. Not all of them, however, are what you'd expect. Nonetheless, Dami thinks you just have to be straightforward and reveal your feelings. "It's better to get it off your chest, instead of thinkinging 'what if?'" Scroll down to check out what happens when you face your fear and go after you crush, and upvote your favorite entries!
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Heather Johnson 7 years ago
I like all of these but reading them can be a huge pain. I just don't understand why people don't type out full words. I have never texted or messaged anyone like some of these people do. I'm not a grammar nazi but damn.
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Lisa Reuss 7 years ago
“I went down my list.” Yikes. Don’t say that. I’d have turned him/her down, too.
Thomas Alegre 7 years ago
You know what they say, aim for the moon, and if you miss, well, you ‘ll drift endlessly into the cold, solitary emptiness of space...
Marty BlackEagle-Carl 7 years ago
Ouch.... i'd just be happy she asked.. (at least u made the list).. not why so late, unless u already have a date.
Emily Hisel 7 years ago
this guy needs to find a better use of his time, and let the girl ask.
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Vlad Horobet 7 years ago
Why are people not cropping the pictures instead of covering half the screen with a manga-abstract death star?
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Chyppa Homer 7 years ago
I`d rather sandpaper the behind of an alligator in a phone booth ! :D Where have I heard that ?
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Peter Rogers 7 years ago
all these "Black Panther week" responses- lame ditch- it doesn't come out until the 16th ;)
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Prashant Chaudhary 7 years ago
I think they should start talking about it a year or so before to keep the roster clear. I'm not serious, of course.
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Lisa Reuss 7 years ago
Some of these people are finding out who they should no longer even be friends with. Brutal.
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What do you think ?
GlassOfWater 7 years ago
Whether you're female or male, asking someone you like out on a date takes serious courage. If someone brave enough asks you out and you don't want to date them (for whatever reason), be polite about it. Don't try to be cool and shut them down brutally. Rejection hurts enough as it is. It's the very fear of rejection that makes asking people out a brave act.
A Ghost 7 years ago
I think brutal rejection is ok the 10th time someone is asked.
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Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago
I got an impression that many of those are conversations between bf and gf.
Lauren Herrmann 7 years ago
"you're married" Is she a whore or does he just think she's married due to some romcom style b******t? I need to know that story here.
Lynn Peach 7 years ago
I honestly feel bad for a lot of the guys in this. When they reject the girls, people freak out and assume it’s always a jerk move on their part. Maybe I read too much of r/nicegirls, but honestly, maybe they have legitimate reasons. Obviously , they could also just be rude in the ways they say no, but there might be more to the stories than we know...
Quinn Purdy 7 years ago
Idk how these people do this! It literally took me two hours to talk myself into asking my crush for his number...
Julie Lynn 7 years ago
It goes to show, many times the men we would like in our lives are pretty shy. Sometimes that little bit of courage we muster up leads into the beginning of beautiful relationships. Showing the strength to take that first step also leads by example. It might give that shy guy the "UMPH" you had and show them they can continue to do the same! Great article and good for the women who did ask their crushes out! :)
BREAK YOUr perceptions 7 years ago
YES more strong women in the world is what we NEED! loven these!
GlassOfWater 7 years ago
Whether you're female or male, asking someone you like out on a date takes serious courage. If someone brave enough asks you out and you don't want to date them (for whatever reason), be polite about it. Don't try to be cool and shut them down brutally. Rejection hurts enough as it is. It's the very fear of rejection that makes asking people out a brave act.
A Ghost 7 years ago
I think brutal rejection is ok the 10th time someone is asked.
Load More Replies... Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago
I got an impression that many of those are conversations between bf and gf.
Lauren Herrmann 7 years ago
"you're married" Is she a whore or does he just think she's married due to some romcom style b******t? I need to know that story here.
Lynn Peach 7 years ago
I honestly feel bad for a lot of the guys in this. When they reject the girls, people freak out and assume it’s always a jerk move on their part. Maybe I read too much of r/nicegirls, but honestly, maybe they have legitimate reasons. Obviously , they could also just be rude in the ways they say no, but there might be more to the stories than we know...
Quinn Purdy 7 years ago
Idk how these people do this! It literally took me two hours to talk myself into asking my crush for his number...
Julie Lynn 7 years ago
It goes to show, many times the men we would like in our lives are pretty shy. Sometimes that little bit of courage we muster up leads into the beginning of beautiful relationships. Showing the strength to take that first step also leads by example. It might give that shy guy the "UMPH" you had and show them they can continue to do the same! Great article and good for the women who did ask their crushes out! :)
BREAK YOUr perceptions 7 years ago
YES more strong women in the world is what we NEED! loven these!
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