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Women Are Sharing The Responses They Got After Asking Out Their Crush On A Date, And It’s Too Entertaining
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You might not be scared of lions, tigers, and bears, but the thought of asking your crush out on a first date probably sends a shiver of dread up your spine. A British relationship blogger named Oloni recently pushed her followers to face their fears and ask men of their dreams out - and, of course, share their responses after completing this viral Internet challenge. The results of this experiment will have you rolling on the floor laughing, deepen your expertise on how to ask a guy out, and may even give you a boost of confidence.
The brave women from this list didn't need any help in deciding how to ask someone out; they just plunged forward with the riskiest of texts received some good news and bad news. By that, we mean that some of the guys were more than happy to take the ladies up on their offers, and others... Well, let's just say they made a hard left on 'Nope' street. Just cringe from your seat and be glad it wasn't you learning the hard lesson on how to talk to your crush.
Scroll down to see how #DateChallenge played out in the funny comments below, and share the most interesting response you've received to asking out a crush in the comments.
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The Favorite Part
Straight To The Point
Happy Ending
I'm guessing this isn't a guy but another gal ( judging by the screen wallpaper) and the crush hasn't come out yet?
Short And Simple
Wourld Lorve To
The Fun Part
Date Challenge Response
Do Sharks Walk?
Awkward Chat
Never Ever
Bounce Away Now
Ew No
This could seriously hurt that girl. Fine if you want to say no, but say it nicely
That Requires An Explanation
Why Not
There are a lot of people making assumption about these guys being jerks in their answers, without knowing any of the history of the people involved. We have no idea if the person who sent the message is a creepy stalker type, a crazy ex, etc. Maybe the person who received the message REEEEEAAAALLY hates the sender, and has made it obvious in the past. Maybe the person receiving the message is actually homosexual, and out and open about it. There's just not enough context.
I was thinking the same thing. For all we know these people could be really good friends, they could have had a terrible falling out, they could be married to each other for all we know. I know if I asked my bf on a date he'd probably say something like "ewww hell no not with you" and we have been together for 8 1/2 years so I don't think there's a need for all these pissy comments. Some people are shitty but you never know.
Literally just what I was going to say, people are forgetting the pre-context of the existing relationship between these people... Maybe things weren't so great. Maybe she shut him down hard or has been know to string him along in the past. How did she pick who to ask, was it a random from her past or someone with a connection.
If they were that bad, surely you'd block them before it got to the point where you felt frustrated enough to respond in such a way. Even if you don't respect them, surely you can respect yourself and act like a decent human being.
They can't all be creepy stalkers/homosexuals. There are way too many jerky responses for that to be the case. I would never be mean to someone who asked me out because I know how scary that can be. It's just not nice.
But you just don't know, do you Claire? You just don't know anything about any of these people, or their personalities, because you don't have any CONTEXT. I wouldn't normally be a jerk to someone asking me out either, but if they were overly persistent, aware that I am not and never will be interested in them, my ex, etc. I might not be as kind (especially if it was my ex!). If I was a very out homosexual, and some girl asked me out, and she was perfectly aware that I'm gay, I might be quite offended by her advances, and tell her off, in a less than pleasant fashion. If my fiance asked me out on a date, I would probably give her what some would consider a jerky response in jest. Without knowing us though, it would come across all sorts of wrong. My point is, we just don't know, so to automatically label all these people as jerks, is just ignorant.
I'm guessing(hoping) that more than a few of them are fake
Thats also a huge possibility
This is true. I had an absolutely beautiful girl (way out of my league) that I would avoid like the plague. She wouldn't say anything, just creepily stare. When I politely asked her not to do it, she got all kinds of pissed off...ain't nobody got time for that.
lol some of these were harsh as hell but fuck it, i've curved people just as hard. can't have a double standard.
Ouch. I asked a guy out once and he laughed at me. Hard. I never asked another guy.
Yeah? Welcome to the club.
There are a lot of people making assumption about these guys being jerks in their answers, without knowing any of the history of the people involved. We have no idea if the person who sent the message is a creepy stalker type, a crazy ex, etc. Maybe the person who received the message REEEEEAAAALLY hates the sender, and has made it obvious in the past. Maybe the person receiving the message is actually homosexual, and out and open about it. There's just not enough context.
I was thinking the same thing. For all we know these people could be really good friends, they could have had a terrible falling out, they could be married to each other for all we know. I know if I asked my bf on a date he'd probably say something like "ewww hell no not with you" and we have been together for 8 1/2 years so I don't think there's a need for all these pissy comments. Some people are shitty but you never know.
Literally just what I was going to say, people are forgetting the pre-context of the existing relationship between these people... Maybe things weren't so great. Maybe she shut him down hard or has been know to string him along in the past. How did she pick who to ask, was it a random from her past or someone with a connection.
If they were that bad, surely you'd block them before it got to the point where you felt frustrated enough to respond in such a way. Even if you don't respect them, surely you can respect yourself and act like a decent human being.
They can't all be creepy stalkers/homosexuals. There are way too many jerky responses for that to be the case. I would never be mean to someone who asked me out because I know how scary that can be. It's just not nice.
But you just don't know, do you Claire? You just don't know anything about any of these people, or their personalities, because you don't have any CONTEXT. I wouldn't normally be a jerk to someone asking me out either, but if they were overly persistent, aware that I am not and never will be interested in them, my ex, etc. I might not be as kind (especially if it was my ex!). If I was a very out homosexual, and some girl asked me out, and she was perfectly aware that I'm gay, I might be quite offended by her advances, and tell her off, in a less than pleasant fashion. If my fiance asked me out on a date, I would probably give her what some would consider a jerky response in jest. Without knowing us though, it would come across all sorts of wrong. My point is, we just don't know, so to automatically label all these people as jerks, is just ignorant.
I'm guessing(hoping) that more than a few of them are fake
Thats also a huge possibility
This is true. I had an absolutely beautiful girl (way out of my league) that I would avoid like the plague. She wouldn't say anything, just creepily stare. When I politely asked her not to do it, she got all kinds of pissed off...ain't nobody got time for that.
lol some of these were harsh as hell but fuck it, i've curved people just as hard. can't have a double standard.
Ouch. I asked a guy out once and he laughed at me. Hard. I never asked another guy.
Yeah? Welcome to the club.