User submission 49.4K 801.1K OtherFeb 14, 2018 Woman Asks Why A Guy She Turned Down Didn’t Try Harder, Gets The Perfect Response Multiple authors Community member Open list comments 237 Vote arrow up Vote arrow down 238 Open list comments 237 Checkmark Link copied! Share icon Share Checkmark Link copied! Share icon Share Modal close ADVERTISEMENT A guy invites a girl on a date, tries all of his best moves, but she says no. A guy has to move on. Otherwise, it’s harassment. Unless it isn’t? Recently, a girl surprised the internet when she posted a stupid question on Quora, asking why her date wasn’t a mind reader and didn’t pursue her after a negative answer about a first date. She wrote, “A guy asked me out today, and I told him “no,” but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn’t he try again?” Naturally, a question like this deserves something more than a simple answer, but a comeback that’s written in the same language. Luckily, Ron Rule typed a response the inquirer should’ve understood. Scroll down to check out what he wrote!After this word exchange the relationship advice and dumbest questions to ask poured like rain, demasking the silly games girls try to play with unsuspecting guys sometimes. Someone surprised Quora with a strange questionShare iconLuckily, this guy responded with an example the inquirer had to understandShare iconAmused by the exchange, people started sharing their own experiencesShare iconADVERTISEMENT Share iconShare iconShare iconShare iconADVERTISEMENTShare iconShare iconShare iconShare iconADVERTISEMENT Ic_puzzle Games View all games Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! 801Kviews Share on Facebook Multiple authors Author, Community member View profile Follow Read more » This lazy panda forgot to write something about itself. Read less » Multiple authors Author, Community member Read more » This lazy panda forgot to write something about itself. Read less » View profile Follow Get the latest inspiring stories via our awesome iOS app! Download Bored Panda app! What do you think ? Add photo comments POST Suzi Gauthier Suzi Gauthier Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report I think any guy who goes out with a girl who plays these kinds of games is in for a rough time. No one is worth that kind of crazy. Vote comment up 81 81points Vote comment down reply Juana Juana Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Guys play games too. It's called being passive aggressive. I wish everyone would just say what they mean. Vote comment up 65 65points Vote comment down reply Lotta Roos Lotta Roos Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report And mean what they say! Vote comment up 41 41points Vote comment down reply Load More Replies... Matthew Hyder Matthew Hyder Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report "Because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."? o.o Vote comment up 5 5points Vote comment down reply Mihaela Šagadin Mihaela Šagadin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Lol, I just want to add that I had this experience as a woman with my ex, so yeah, guys do this too, maybe less often since they're taught to be more direct than women, but it exists. I hate that passive aggressive b******t Vote comment up 4 4points Vote comment down reply Kuma Tenshi Kuma Tenshi Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Being passive aggressive simply means you're downplaying your emotions. Flat out telling someone the complete opposite of what you want is playing MIND GAMES. Vote comment up 2 2points Vote comment down reply Chris Cook Chris Cook Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report We play games because YOU make us. trust me if you let it be simple we'd be happy. Vote comment up 2 2points Vote comment down reply Matthew Fitch Matthew Fitch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Well, when men say what they mean, women get butt-hurt and start World War III. A woman is willing to fight for hours, while the children are being neglected and the house is a mess (because women are emotionally-driven). A man will evaluate the situation and decide that there is no point wasting that kind of time, only to discover that nothing will change by the time the argument is over (since men are more logically-driven). Vote comment up 2 2points Vote comment down reply Joshua Nix Joshua Nix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report You sir are 100% correct.. At least for a lot of women.. Vote comment up 0 0points Vote comment down reply Jace Jace Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Logically driven or not is entirely cultural. Vote comment up -1 -1point Vote comment down reply Chris Daniels Chris Daniels Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Juana, you confuse passive aggressiveness with someone not wanting to be your servant. Vote comment up 2 2points Vote comment down reply Juana Juana Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Haha maybe. But why not just come out and say "No, I don't want to do that." Instead it's games. Vote comment up 1 1point Vote comment down reply Linda Gulley Linda Gulley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report They love you when you're alone and ignore you when you're not. Vote comment up 1 1point Vote comment down reply Chris Daniels Chris Daniels Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Women do transference, too. It's called the above post. Vote comment up 1 1point Vote comment down reply Gerald Del Giorno Gerald Del Giorno Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report When Men do say what we mean, you Women don't believe, or being needy, and pull away from us? Relationship Sabotage! Vote comment up 0 0points Vote comment down reply Brittany Walker Brittany Walker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Yep guys play so many damn games or whe they are evasive about what they want and lead you in for a year in a half or say little saddle hunts that clearly mean something then when you bring it up they change the subject or walk away from you Vote comment up 0 0points Vote comment down reply Sam Kunz Sam Kunz Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Passive Aggressiveness is the bane of my existence. My ex boyfriend used to do that all the time. I would say "Where do you want to go to eat?" He would say "Oh, I don't care...Anywhere is fine"...."Are you SURE?" "Yes, Anywhere is fine"....I would say "Alright" and go to Red Robin.....30 min in and him picking at his plate I would say "What's wrong" and it would always be "Well, I really wanted to go to TGI-Fridays, Why didn't you pick that?" OOoooOOoooOoooOOOOooo How I spent over a year with that turd is beyond me. Vote comment up 0 0points Vote comment down reply Alfred E Newman Alfred E Newman Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Juana, that would take away all of the excitement from the game of "Catch me if you can". :D Vote comment up -14 -14points Vote comment down reply Carmen Elena Carmen Elena Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report He didn´t bc he didn´t want to be accused for harassment. Hate those games. I you mean no, say no. If you mean yes, then say yes! Vote comment up 37 37points Vote comment down reply Kjorn Kjorn Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report agree with you.... you can see all those who write something like that has been downvoted. Vote comment up 6 6points Vote comment down reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments POST Suzi Gauthier Suzi Gauthier Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report I think any guy who goes out with a girl who plays these kinds of games is in for a rough time. No one is worth that kind of crazy. Vote comment up 81 81points Vote comment down reply Juana Juana Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Guys play games too. It's called being passive aggressive. I wish everyone would just say what they mean. Vote comment up 65 65points Vote comment down reply Lotta Roos Lotta Roos Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report And mean what they say! Vote comment up 41 41points Vote comment down reply Load More Replies... Matthew Hyder Matthew Hyder Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report "Because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."? o.o Vote comment up 5 5points Vote comment down reply Mihaela Šagadin Mihaela Šagadin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Lol, I just want to add that I had this experience as a woman with my ex, so yeah, guys do this too, maybe less often since they're taught to be more direct than women, but it exists. I hate that passive aggressive b******t Vote comment up 4 4points Vote comment down reply Kuma Tenshi Kuma Tenshi Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Being passive aggressive simply means you're downplaying your emotions. Flat out telling someone the complete opposite of what you want is playing MIND GAMES. Vote comment up 2 2points Vote comment down reply Chris Cook Chris Cook Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report We play games because YOU make us. trust me if you let it be simple we'd be happy. Vote comment up 2 2points Vote comment down reply Matthew Fitch Matthew Fitch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Well, when men say what they mean, women get butt-hurt and start World War III. A woman is willing to fight for hours, while the children are being neglected and the house is a mess (because women are emotionally-driven). A man will evaluate the situation and decide that there is no point wasting that kind of time, only to discover that nothing will change by the time the argument is over (since men are more logically-driven). Vote comment up 2 2points Vote comment down reply Joshua Nix Joshua Nix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report You sir are 100% correct.. At least for a lot of women.. Vote comment up 0 0points Vote comment down reply Jace Jace Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Logically driven or not is entirely cultural. Vote comment up -1 -1point Vote comment down reply Chris Daniels Chris Daniels Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Juana, you confuse passive aggressiveness with someone not wanting to be your servant. Vote comment up 2 2points Vote comment down reply Juana Juana Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Haha maybe. But why not just come out and say "No, I don't want to do that." Instead it's games. Vote comment up 1 1point Vote comment down reply Linda Gulley Linda Gulley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report They love you when you're alone and ignore you when you're not. Vote comment up 1 1point Vote comment down reply Chris Daniels Chris Daniels Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Women do transference, too. It's called the above post. Vote comment up 1 1point Vote comment down reply Gerald Del Giorno Gerald Del Giorno Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report When Men do say what we mean, you Women don't believe, or being needy, and pull away from us? Relationship Sabotage! Vote comment up 0 0points Vote comment down reply Brittany Walker Brittany Walker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Yep guys play so many damn games or whe they are evasive about what they want and lead you in for a year in a half or say little saddle hunts that clearly mean something then when you bring it up they change the subject or walk away from you Vote comment up 0 0points Vote comment down reply Sam Kunz Sam Kunz Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Passive Aggressiveness is the bane of my existence. My ex boyfriend used to do that all the time. I would say "Where do you want to go to eat?" He would say "Oh, I don't care...Anywhere is fine"...."Are you SURE?" "Yes, Anywhere is fine"....I would say "Alright" and go to Red Robin.....30 min in and him picking at his plate I would say "What's wrong" and it would always be "Well, I really wanted to go to TGI-Fridays, Why didn't you pick that?" OOoooOOoooOoooOOOOooo How I spent over a year with that turd is beyond me. Vote comment up 0 0points Vote comment down reply Alfred E Newman Alfred E Newman Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report Juana, that would take away all of the excitement from the game of "Catch me if you can". :D Vote comment up -14 -14points Vote comment down reply Carmen Elena Carmen Elena Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report He didn´t bc he didn´t want to be accused for harassment. Hate those games. I you mean no, say no. If you mean yes, then say yes! Vote comment up 37 37points Vote comment down reply Kjorn Kjorn Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Round attention Svg Vector Icons : http://www.onlinewebfonts.com/icon Report agree with you.... you can see all those who write something like that has been downvoted. Vote comment up 6 6points Vote comment down reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments Related on Bored Panda
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