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On your wedding day, you and your partner get to call all the shots. Planning to wear a camouflage dress? Interesting choice, but go ahead. Pressuring your guests into buying gifts that cost at least $1,000? Probably wouldn’t recommend it, but I can’t stop you! Hosting the ceremony on a trampoline? Just be careful not to fall down!
Brides and grooms are entitled to have the weddings of their dreams, even if they have pretty bizarre dreams, but that won’t stop people online from mocking them for their choices. Bored Panda has scoured the internet to find photos of the most questionable and trashy decisions couples have ever made when tying the knot. So enjoy scrolling through these pics that might make you cringe, and keep reading to find a conversation with Jhona Yellin, Editor at Bespoke Bride!
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#1
My Mum Is An Artificial Florist And Had An "Influencer" With 70k Followers Ask For Free Wedding Flowers For Exposure
Sierra Tide 1 year ago
I once asked an influencer what the statistics were for sales from posting products from a company on her Instagram account - She wanted me to give her free s**t. She said I have $100,000 Instagram followers. I let her know that wasn't an answer and I would like to know how many of those clicks from her Instagram to the company's website resulted in a sale. She said she has no idea. That's not what she does. 🙄
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
And even if her 100,000 followers were real people and not bots, how many of them are in your local area or country? How many have disposal income? Are they mostly teenagers who like her pictures but buy nothing she recommends? I think that if an influencer’s channel is focused on a certain topic then people might be more likely to buy their recommendations. If she is a baker and recommends baking products people might trust her knowledge. If she’s a make up artist and posts about make up people might buy what she recommends. And if someone recommends a ton of different brands then surely people won’t engage but if they only recommend good products then they might be seen as more honest.
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CBolt 1 year ago
An artificial florist? That's a thing?You pay somebody to arrange fake flowers?
AsylumWalker 1 year ago
Yep, some people like bouquets that look real but will last forever
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#2
Influencer Requests Personal Song And One-Hour Set At Wedding For Free
Michelle Randazzo 1 year ago
Ahh the stupidity of today's youth! I am an influencer! In your dreams lol!
Roan The Demon Kitty 1 year ago
here's a song specially for them, I like to call it "pay me, you cheap a$$ motherf***ers"
#3
Bride Gets RSVPs From Wedding Guests And Only After The Fact Tells Everyone Who Said They Were Coming That They Need To Pay $75 Per Plate
Nina 1 year ago
They even gave her an opportunity to learn from it, but apparently they didn't want to.
Toothless Feline 1 year ago
People rarely take such an opportunity when freely offered.
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Bettye McKee 1 year ago (edited)
I could get a great meal somewhere else for less than $75. I have to wonder if anyone attended.
EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 1 year ago
I'm baffled by this one. In my country we pay for everything, bridesmaids dresses with accessories hair and makeup, the groomsmen outfits and shoes. We also feed everyone. I've never in my life heard of anyone having a wedding and expecting the guests to pay! Even the idea of asking someone to be my bridesmaid and then saying you have to pay for everything yourself makes me so uncomfortable and quite frankly, sick.
busymum 1 year ago
My sister has gone to a wedding before where only after them had bought gifts at the registry from the shops they chose, the guests were then told the reception was at a restaurant and each person had to pay their own meal. They never went to the wedding, many of my friends didn't go for the same reason. I wasn't in the country at the time.
Tiny Dancer 1 year ago
I do love the language, don't you? "Caveats beforehand ..", "Our acceptance is rescinded ..", "Terminates call .." Who talks like this in 2024?! Gotta love it.
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JenniB 1 year ago
So I have a slightly different perspective... When we attend weddings we generally put enough money into a card to cover what would be the cost of our meals (usually around $300) but that is the "gift" to the bride and groom as well. If they have paid for their own wedding they aren't out any money and if the parents have paid the couple has received a gift. If you are invited to a wedding set a budget you are comfortable spending for the gift and if you're expected to pay for your meal remove that cost from the gift cost IMO. Is that bad? Have I been doing it wrong all these years? Let me add I have never been to wedding where we were specifically asked to pay for the meal...
XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧 1 year ago (edited)
I don't think you're doing it wrong at all. The difference is that you've made this decision and not had someone decide it for you & demand that you pay. I've been to weddings before where it was requested to pay for your own meal, and there's nothing inherently wrong with that. Sometimes people are on a super tight budget, but most people put it in the invitation so that the guests are aware of the expectation before they decide to rsvp. Though I can definitely say that the people who asked certainly didn't act like this person. Yikes 😬
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Wolf princess quinn 1 year ago
We were invited to FAMILIES dinner which has always been...we'll, free.y bil had bought $$$ cut of meat and asked guests to pay up. Idk but this has never sat right.
B Jones 1 year ago
If it was a wedding I wanted to attend the. I'd just assume paying for your meal was what they wanted instead of a gift. 150..00 might be big for a gift but is not really high. It's be great then if every guest just paid for their dinner instead and no gifts.
CBolt 1 year ago
You'd be assuming incorrectly - people with the gall to charge admission to their wedding/reception also expect a gift.
Load More Replies...We've all been to a wedding or two where the bride and groom made some questionable choices. Perhaps they demanded that all guests dress to fit a very specific color scheme, or they informed guests on the day of that they would be expected to pay for their food and drinks at the reception. We tend to overlook these annoyances when we're celebrating people we love, but it's a lot easier to judge strangers online for making bizarre choices at their weddings...
The photos on this list might give you strong secondhand embarrassment, but spreading awareness about bad bridal behavior might convince some couples to tone it down. Your wedding should absolutely be a wonderful day that you remember for the rest of your life, but it should be a great memory for all involved. And if your best friends are pouting the whole time because you forced them to get hair cuts for the ceremony or spend $500 on shoes, your priorities might be a little bit out of whack.
#4
Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" $1,500 Each To Fund The Event
Couragetcd 1 year ago
Oh, promises promises. My crazy uncle has disowned the rest of us a dozen times, he keeps wandering back.
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#5
I Paid For The First Slice After It Was Announced On The Day We'd Be Helping To Pay For Their Cake. Apparently, Didn't Count For The Second
8Yorkies-and-33cats 1 year ago
But... for the small price of £3.66, you can get rid of these people from your life, who just revealed how cheap and awful they really are.
Oskar vanZandt 1 year ago (edited)
The fact that they checked the CCTV footage to check how many slices of cake the guests each had is ridiculous!
Robert T 1 year ago
"I graced you with my presence. I should be charging you a £500 appearance fee!" ;-)
Alexandra Nara 1 year ago (edited)
This would be my answer alternative I would offer them to post the cake on my glorious instastory to my followers
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Lost Penny 1 year ago
Here's five bucks, Jill. Keep the change & treat yourself to something pretty.
Angela C 1 year ago
Contrary to popular belief Americans don't have a monopoly on being stupid, rude a******s. It's a worldwide problem
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Wedding Shoot
SweetCheesySpaghetti 1 year ago
I photographed a 6 hour wedding for $150. Got harassed for months because I didn't "give [them] enough photos." It was the last time I took a paying photography gig (this was 10 years ago).
Lost Penny 1 year ago
Wasn't there a post about someone 'firing' their photographer because they found somebody who'd do it for $50? And then after the pictures turned out badly (shocking!) because they were taken by a Lenovo knock-off phone, the bride started pestering the original photographer to reimburse her for the pictures because it was the photographer's fault she did not have a single decent photograph. "You should've warned me that I was making the wrong decision!!!"
kath morgan 1 year ago
We got our photographer for £400 and that was mates rates as he knew our planner.
weatherwitch 1 year ago
They should have replied with an apology saying they'd realised they'd missed the 1 off the front of the 400.............$1400 👍It's ridiculous to underprice work like that 🤦🏻♀️
Patti Hampton 1 year ago
They want professional services at yard sale prices. Let them use their phones for pics... or get some of those disposable cameras to hand out to guests - if they still make those things, that is.
To gain more insight into this topic, we reached out to wedding expert and Editor at Bespoke Bride, Jhona Yellin. Jhona was kind enough to have a conversation with Bored Panda about some etiquette brides and grooms should keep in mind, while still making their big day all about them.
"When it comes to gifts, we tell our brides-to-be to always think of their registry as a treasure map for their guests. Provide a variety of price points to make everyone comfortable," she shared. "And if Aunt Marge gifts you a third toaster, smile, thank her, and quietly handle the return. Nobody needs to know about the great toaster swap of 2024. By the way – we created a fun guide on curating a wedding registry for the home of your dreams."
#7
Hey, I Know That I've Given My Wedding No Thought But I Want You To Dedicate The Next 48 Hours Of Your Life To It
Fire Singer 1 year ago
I just have to appreciate the bakers response of "Have a good night". Good on you. It would take a lot of self control not to try and put this person in their place so way to take the high road! I don't' think I could have! :P
ConstantlyJon 1 year ago (edited)
Apparently she's a beginner on common sense and critical thinking.
Lost Penny 1 year ago
They can also travel across the ocean in some measly 10 minutes on TV. All those pilots in real life must be beginners. Sigh. How do people like that even make it alive and relatively unharmed to their current age?
XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧 1 year ago
I...I don't have words.😦 ok maybe I have words...this reminds me of one of my friends growing up telling me she wanted to be an actress because people on TV only work for 30 minutes a day. Like her little aquarium gravel brain legit thought that TV actors only worked whatever length of time the show was on for. It genuinely made me question whether I'd had a stroke because who could be that dense? Now I know
TheGoodBoi 1 year ago
"Have a good night", I feel there are other words that want to be said lol.
#8
Not Invited To The Wedding, But Still Pay For It
Kiss Army 1 year ago
My husband's uncle should have put a cap on the amount he was willing to pay for his daughter's (first) wedding... it was well over $20,000 in the early 90's and it didn't last a year. He was paying off the bills for years after the marriage was over. Then she had the audacity to be angry that he wouldn't do it again for the second marriage... it's a good thing he didn't because that one didn't last either.
Fire Singer 1 year ago
Wow...when I got married I found out it was apparently pretty common for bridesmaids and groomsmen to pay for their own dresses/suits. I couldn't even ask them to do that (not judging anyone whose bridal party paid for themselves just stating my experience)! I couldn't imagine asking someone not even invited to give me money for my wedding! How crazy!
Display_Name 1 year ago
If I'm not sleeping with the bride, groom, or both then I'm not paying.
Karen Bryan 1 year ago
I just don't get the whole wedding-industrial complex. You just don't need all that stuff! Have the wedding you can afford.
kimkats 1 year ago
SO. MUCH. THIS. I can’t believe how many otherwise sensible women get sucked into the vortex of the whole “it’s—the-most-important-day-of-your-life” c**p and then spend unholy amounts of money on it when they(or their families) can’t possibly afford it. I just don’t get it…..
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Sue Phillips 1 year ago
A friend and I were invited to my (I thought) best friend's church wedding, but not to the country club reception. She told us we were invited to go to her mother's house after the wedding for "cocktails". All we could think was "Is she not inviting her own mother to the reception? Are we supposed to break in and help ourselves to the liquor?" We were the female half of the wedding party, but not invited to the reception? She had a 100-person limit, so she dumped us, but still expected us to be in the wedding. Luckily, she was stupid enough to tell us this before our dresses were done, so we were able to cancel them. We never set her straight about not coming to the wedding, either. Since we didn't know anyone who attended, we have no idea how it turned out. I know I would have been uncomfortable being married with only family and strangers, but no friends, in attendance.
#9
My Friend Saw This Sign At Her Hotel This Week. Oh Yeah, That Guy Jon Is Coming Too
Lydsylou (she/her) 1 year ago
This is actually kinda funny. Especially if Jon knows and also finds it funny and so do their family and friends
Gwyneth Jones 1 year ago
I'm thinking (hoping!) this was an inside joke with family & friends.
Stephanie A Mutti 1 year ago
I think this is a little bit funny. It requires a certain target audience but they should know who they are inviting.
Jhona also noted that setting a dress code can be fantastic, but it's important to be reasonable. "Asking your guests to show up in ball gowns and tuxedos might be a tad much for a beach wedding," she shared. "'Black tie optional' is sophisticated; 'lavender sequin jumpsuits' is a bit... Eccentric. Also for this, by the way – we created a post about creative wedding dress codes that are in fashion today."
"Just remember, these wedding guests are your friends and family who love you enough to wear matching outfits," the expert added. "Appreciate their effort, don’t turn them into personal assistants, and remember they have lives (and wallets) too."
#10
This Literally Just Happened - "I Want My Own Wedding Year"
María Hermida 1 year ago
You are not a bad person. You are an entitled imbecile who thinks the universe revolves around you.
quentariel 1 year ago
Same week would be a bit rude, same month would make it a bit too busy for everyone, but same year is 100% normal and acceptable.
Yu Pan 1 year ago
I wonder what type of life she must have that makes this wedding the only time she gets any attention/validation from others.
Papa 1 year ago
She probably demands, and gets, plenty of attention. Just because she said "for once in my life," that doesn't mean it's true.
Load More Replies... Sue Phillips 1 year ago
Why are there so many brides that want the wedding to be about "them", like there are no grooms involved. Why do these men want to marry women like this?
UnicornSnotRules 1 year ago
Three of my friends had their weddings in the same year as me, two of them in the weeks surrounding mine. I guess I should've been extremely upset and disowned them?
#11
She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous... Except She’s Not The Bride
Shark Lady 1 year ago
It's the groom and his sister. I saw this on a similar post a few years back.
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StumblingThroughLife 1 year ago
Bad taste, future issues, with a SiL like that, who just HAD to wear a 'wedding' dress and feels comfortable in such an intimate post with her BROTHER? (Unless this is an error/bad taste joke, and is really the B & G?)
Sue User 1 year ago
I want to get married and invite all my besties to wear their wedding dresses. I think it would be so much fun. For me , its about celebrating with the people i care about.
ILoveMySon 1 year ago
I have heard of brides doing this and feel it is brilliant. 🙂
Load More Replies... Sandra Morison 1 year ago
Bad taste .....unless the Bride is wearing a coloured gown. My daughter in law asked us all not to wear blue
Mary Gibson 1 year ago
What is wrong with her to be dressing like a bride at someone's wedding?
Ruth Watry 1 year ago
That is why every bride needs a bottle of red wine in her bridal suite, and a bridesmaid willing to walk with a glass and "trip" by the other woman wearing a wedding dress.
#12
A Photographer Friend Of Mine Posted This (We Are In Louisiana). I Can't Wait To See Some Of The Mashed Potato Pictures
Shark Lady 1 year ago
Why not just buy rice, which is traditional anyway, a large sack of rice would be cheaper than multiple boxes of instant mashed potato.
Nina 1 year ago
Iirc people stopped doing that because it's bad for birds when they eat it. (Cooked rice seems to be less popular 😆)
Load More Replies... Lost Penny 1 year ago (edited)
"Honey, just hear me out. Instant mashed potatoes that could serve as confetti AND dinner?" "Brilliant! And if the guests lick the potatoes off each other, we might even end up with an orgy! They won't stop talking about our party for decades!" "And this is why I am marrying you, Joe. You're a Piggly to my Wiggly."
Doctor Strange 1 year ago
Do you love me? (I can really move) Do you love me? (I'm in the groove) Now do you love me? (Do you love me now that I can dance?) Watch me, now (Work, work) ah, work it out baby (Work, work) well, I'm gonna drive you crazy (Work, work) ah, just a little bit of soul, now? (Work) Now I can mash potatoes (I can mash potatoes) I can do the twist (I can do the twist) Tell me, baby, do you like it like this? Tell me (tell me) tell me
We also asked the wedding expert how friends and family members can know when it's time to speak up and try to reign in the bride and groom. "When the bride or groom’s requests start sounding like they belong in a royal decree, it’s time to step in," Jhona says. "Close family or friends are the best candidates to have 'the talk.' Pick a moment when the bride or groom isn’t mid-meltdown — preferably over a calming cup of tea or a stiff drink."
#13
Asking The Girl Your Fiancé Groomed To Be Your Photographer For Free
Michael Largey 1 year ago (edited)
She might be willing to show up at the courthouse to take some candid shots when they divorce.
#14
The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mum! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates
Ripley 1 year ago
Don't propose or announce a pregnancy at someone else's wedding. It's not that hard.
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
But how else can they be the centre of attention at somebody else’s wedding? Do you expect them to spend all day being happy for another person when the attention should be on them? They’re the main character not the bride and groom. And clearly that’s what his mum believes as well.
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Marianne 1 year ago
It's not rude to ask something like that. I have seen many brides online who make that possible for friends. However, they have to accept a No if the bride and groom don't want an engagement to happen at their wedding.
kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
You got down voted yet you are absolutley right! I have seen many instances like you said. Friends getting narried and they set it up for their friend to be surprised and proposed to. Obviously friends talked about doing it before hand or the friends suggested it or the other one asked. I 100% agree with you. It is only okay if everyone is cool with it. If I ever get married I would definitley do something like this with a friend. Weddings are not about a specific individual anyway. They are about 2 families and 2 people coming together to have and to hold and to love unconditionally. Yet for some selfish and self serving reason some brides make it only about them. That really tells you all you need to know about a person for real. It's just wild to me that folks are like that. :/
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Lara Verne 1 year ago
Someone proposed at friend's wedding. But couple did it in private, without anyone around, and didn't tell anyone until it was few weeks after wedding. I guess they didn't have the best timing, but OK. I think that proposing in front of audience is tacky.
Tiny Dancer 1 year ago
I'm getting old. Haven't seen SM written for Social Media before. My brain automatically read it as S&M and everything kind of tilted for a sec, lol. Okay, back on track, don't mind me.
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Maisey Myles 1 year ago
Uninvite, unfriend, unbelievable. Unacceptable! After a scathing reply
Rhodri Terrell 1 year ago
That's fine. Well, ish. Some people like it and find it wholesome wanting to share the great day to others. On the other hand some others it should be a special day for the husband/wife and it's their choice to have some attention taken from their special day or not. Both or equally in the right however if the bride/groom don't want to do it, then don't. It's their choice
#15
Saw This At A Wedding
Farnzy 1 year ago
We had a Halloween themed wedding and these would've been perfect!
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White Sauce Hot Sauce 1 year ago
This seems like it would be found at a fun wedding that isn't so uptight about everything. 10/10 Would Attend
It's also important to tread lightly when addressing a bride's unreasonable behavior. "Use 'I' statements to keep it gentle," Jhona recommends. “'I’m worried that asking guests to arrive by helicopter might be a bit much. Not everyone has their pilot’s license, you know?' This approach keeps the conversation constructive and less confrontational."
#16
Bride Is Expecting Everyone To Spend $400 Or More On Her Wedding Gifts
BossyHossy1 1 year ago
Did anyone else notice all the I, my and me's?? Also, all gifts seem bride oriented. ; - (
Daya Meyer 1 year ago
I am sure the groom just wanted a wedding ceremony and maybe a party. And then his soon-to-be-wife got excited about the decoration, the dress, the gifts... So he sighed saying to her: Okay honey, it is your big day, do whatever you like. Just remember that it needs the two of us in church to get married.
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Tamra 1 year ago
I'm actually curious as to how someone develops that level of audacity and entitlement. I mean, seriously...to put something like this out into the world...and apparently it never occurred to her how greedy and tacky this was? Damn!
shankShaw deReemer 1 year ago
For some reason this one just screamed Kartrashian to me. IDK why.
Load More Replies... ConstantlyJon 1 year ago
RIP those who have RSVP'd already. Also, how have 12 people liked or loved this?
Jenni Pasini 1 year ago
Maybe it’s the 12 people responsible for making her this way.
Load More Replies... Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
You don’t have to buy her a car. You could pay for floors for the entire house. She’s “appreciate” it.
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TheRightToArmBears 1 year ago
I really need closure on so many of these to see what the end result was.
#17
A Guest Filled 7 Tupperware Containers With Food From The Wedding Reception And Gave The Couple 5 USD As A Gift
Maisey Myles 1 year ago
Send her a bill like the woman who ate 2 slices of cake. If it had been me, I would’ve taken the containers from the rude guest and say “ thank you so much for your help. I wasn’t sure how I was going. to get all of this home or to the homeless. You are just so helpful!! I’ll get your Tupperware back to you as soon as I can. See you next Tuesday!
Michael Largey 1 year ago
A party of groomsmen should have stopped her at the door and threatened to call the police.
Karen Bryan 1 year ago
My sister's mother-in-law used to take whatever wasn't nailed down whenever she ate out. We're talking dinner rolls, pats of butter, plastic forks--even ketchup, mustard, and mayo packets at fast-food joints. This woman is more than well-off. I think it's a symptom of a mental disorder.
Patti Hampton 1 year ago
I know some in-laws that showed up to their son-in-law's birthday pool party. His mom and sister had a bunch of pizzas delivered and furnished all the drinks. The in-laws showed up, took several boxes of pizza, and left. They didn't put anything into the party. These people weigh about 400 pounds each... none of them work.
#18
A Pregnant Alien Officiant
Carole 1 year ago (edited)
I've seen this one before and iirc there was context that said the bride and groom loved it (though I admit that the title is clickbaity). I'll try to look for it. Edit: "FOR THE RECORD: the original poster shared context in the comments and this was absolutely loved by the bride and groom, who approved a wild character officiant, and who have a thing for aliens and cryptids. There was no shame here. Only delight. I guarantee if they'd wanted her in something plain, that's what she'd have worn. Not everyone has the same vision for their wedding, and this one was loved."
Karen Bryan 1 year ago
Lots of people appaently want to be married by a fake Elvis, a fake Captain Kirk, etc. Big business in Vegas.
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Lorrie Crabtree 1 year ago
My youngest daughter's close friend was the officiant for her wedding, and she wore one of those inflatable T-Rex costumes (with the bride and groom's permission, of course). She even found a lovely formal dress to fit it. It was awesome!
JoNo 1 year ago
Which part didn't she tell them in advance - the pregnancy or the alien. Or was it both? If they didn't know about her being pregnant, just how often do they see each other? Also, I would not be happy if the celebrant turned up at my wedding as an alien without giving me the heads-up (the pregnant part is totally okay).
Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 1 year ago
Good thing the aliens in question don't reproduce with spores. Too dusty.
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Jhona says that, yes, the wedding is all about the happy couple. "But let’s not forget about the lovely folks who are there to celebrate your love. Your guests have put in effort to be there—time, travel, and probably a new pair of shoes," she explained. "Make sure they’re well-fed, entertained, and can hear the vows without needing binoculars and a sound system worthy of Coachella."
#19
Father Is More Interested In The Aesthetics Of His Wedding Than A Lifelong Relationship With His Daughter
Shark Lady 1 year ago
Poor child, her mother abandons her and her father is choosing his fiancee over her. I hope she has other adults in her life who can show her love.
Lil Miss Hobbit 1 year ago
I hope the older sister has the little sister's back because this is a mess.
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Kylie 1 year ago (edited)
WOW. I feel So sorry for this guy's children, especially the youngest. If the mother left when she was 6 and she's now 9 and this creep has been with his "exquisite" fiancee for 3 years, is the now fiancee why the mother left? And this poor child has to LIVE with these 2?
StumblingThroughLife 1 year ago
WTF did I just read?!!! Poor kid. Is it unrealistic to hope the older sister, at least, kicked off about it?
Tirza Sprong 1 year ago
damn if I was the older sister I would ditch both of those a******s and go take my baby sister to do something fun instead. That poor kid. Not only does her father start dating as soon as he was divorced but his new chosen spouse hates her enough to exclude her from the wedding?? she is 9!
Caroline Nagel 1 year ago
Just the fact that this man will marry a woman who openly hates one of his children tells me he is scum. He does not derserve children. Poor poor kid. I hope she has a good mother and stepdad because her biodad obviously does not care for her in any way.
shankShaw deReemer 1 year ago
All he cares about is his precious fiancée and her wants and needs, really expensive wants and needs obviously.
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Interesting Dress Choice For The Mother Of The Groom
Beak Hookage 1 year ago
Oh dear let me help you clean that up. Oops, I just spilled mine as well!
Load More Replies... Maisey Myles 1 year ago
Bride could’ve asked everyone to wear white. It has been done before. I read a story here where MIL planned to wear a white dress because she didn’t like her future DIL. Bride sent email to guests asking all to wear white
Mrs. Joe V 1 year ago
To be 100% honest- I don't think I would mind if the mother's wore white gowns at my own wedding.
Elle Roque 1 year ago
My mom, my MIL and my bridesmaids all wore white. I liked it.
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Michael Largey 1 year ago
A mil wearing white to the wedding is an unmistakable declaration of war.
#21
Wedding Photo Contract Request
Fussy1 1 year ago
Wonder if she asked the same thing about her wedding dress? Does this work both ways? Will guests have their monetary and material gifts returned should you divorce?
Michael Largey 1 year ago
And if they have children, can they return them to the maternity ward?
Wang Zhuang 1 year ago
Hahaha some of these people are deranged! Why should the photographer have to suffer if a couple breaks up after the wedding? Do they expect a refund from the wedding venue too?
Jhona also added that we should never underestimate the power of appreciation. "Gratitude is your best accessory," the expert says. "Thank your guests, your vendors, and especially the person who managed to find your lost ring. A simple 'thank you' can make everyone feel like they’re part of something special."
#22
This "Vegan Pizza" Was Provided At A Wedding Last Night
kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
That is a terrible catering service. Not so much the bride and groom being horrible. I'd definitley like to know who they hired to cater their wedding. That way I know who not to contact while planning a wedding.
Donald 1 year ago
Any decent catering service can roast or pan fry some veggies with olive oil and some seasoning to accommodate a vegan diet
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shankShaw deReemer 1 year ago
I wouldn't even consider this pizza. I'd call it pizza-shaped bread and a 1/4 order of veggies.
8Yorkies-and-33cats 1 year ago
This single sliver of bell pepper looks like malicious compliance by the catering service. "You want vegan pizza? I'll show you vegan pizza!"
RaisedByCats 1 year ago
Tasty vegan pizza is easy (and I'm a meat eater). pesto makes a great sauce for start
Mrs. Joe V 1 year ago
Why?..... there is vegan sauce and "cheese" out there in this world- any "chef" would know that! Smh
#23
Her Sister And Niece Just Died Two Months Ago In An Accident. This Is Her Sister's Husband. Like... They Couldn't Have Even Waited 6 Months? What Exactly Did She Pray For?
Fussy1 1 year ago
"I love you more than life..." WTF?! Apparently more than you sister's and niece's life as well!!
bookbuddy 1 year ago
Could this have been a religious cult thing? I've heard of a sister marrying a guy to take care of the kids. But probably not--she sounds WAY too happy about this.
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Mrs. Joe V 1 year ago
So basically she was sleeping with her brother-in-law while her sister was still alive. Shamelessly scandalous!
#24
Friend Won’t Gift Me A $300 Wedding Cake. The Entitlement Is Strong With This One
Marianne 1 year ago
300$+ is much for a present. Even if she consideres it as a present, the bride should definitely pay for the ingredients.
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
Is it $300 for ingredients alone? Because if it is, then baking and decorating time means this “present” is worth much more than $300.
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Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 1 year ago
My mom baked wedding cakes as the present for several family members. She went to them and offered. No one ever demanded it of her. She also wasn't a professional baker. It was a side gig. Mind you, they were nice cakes, but just your basic wedding cake. The weddings were all in the late '70', early '80's.
Rebel Peewee 1 year ago
Because i'm so sure the op gives $300 gifts / makes incredibly expensive gifts for her friends' weddings.
Alexx Liindholm 1 year ago
I made my own wedding cake, not the prettiest but it was tasty and I had fun making it.
Finally, Jhona urges couples not to lose sight of what the day is really about: your love and commitment. "No one will remember if the napkins were periwinkle or powder blue, but they’ll remember the heartfelt vows and the epic dance moves," she told Bored Panda. "Many guests appreciate these days eco-friendly weddings, so if you can - add some sustainable elements to make your wedding a bit 'Greener.' Here are some tips and ideas for a sustainable wedding."
"In the end, weddings are about celebrating love, surrounded by those who matter most. Keep it joyful, keep it real, and most importantly, keep it fun," the expert added.
#25
This Person Doesn’t Want To Drive A Free BMW Or Tesla To His Wedding
Papa 1 year ago
My wife and I met on a trail ride. We rode from the church to the reception in a wagon that was pulled by mules.
Duvet Woman 1 year ago
And my husband and I arrived together tandem bicycle, towing our corgi bridesmaid in her own flowery carriage.
Oskar vanZandt 1 year ago
What a complete, and utterly pathetic dillhole the guy begging for a freebie is... Let him rent his own prestige motor!
Jason 1 year ago
Being in the business of renting nicer cars I have had a lot of people rent the cars for weddings. Usually looks awesome. With the amount of people that wreck the cars and her criteria being "an expensive car" I would be double checking her insurance limits and driving record. Plus I'd personally roll up on either a model 3 or an M3 and be happy, not to mention appreciate from a friend.
Doctor Strange 1 year ago
Who needs a car? My plan is to get married on a pirate ship. During a swordfight. This might explain why I am single.
#26
A Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion For The Wedding. Also Told To Change Centerpieces As The Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons (The Kid Is This Person's Mother’s Best Friend’s Child)
Jason 1 year ago
My son wants to dress up crazy for stuff too. A school party, just hanging out, etc cool np. Someone else's wedding isn't the time for it though.
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Cathy Jo Baker 1 year ago
I'd station a very firm and strong person at the door to turn them away when they appeared.This is c**p. Parents need to learn that NO is a complete answer.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Remind the mom that when lions are around people they get put in a cage.
Tirza Sprong 1 year ago
If your kid cannot behave at a wedding then you don't get to bring them. simple as that.
#27
What A Lovely Wedding Dress
Meaghan Stewart 1 year ago
As a former Arkansan, I can assure you it’s NOT satire. Even the nephew comment.
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Jihana 1 year ago
Son in law is already her nephew? Whut? Is this a case of a circular family tree?
Heir of Durin 1 year ago
Terrible dress, but I’m more concerned that the bride and groom are cousins?
Tamra 1 year ago
The photo is definitely real, but that caption is satire.
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If you're currently planning your own wedding, we hope you've gotten some inspiration for what not to do, pandas! Keep upvoting the pics that you find most amusing, and let us know in the comments what the trashiest moments you've ever witnessed at a wedding were. Then, if you're interested in checking out even more wild behavior from brides and grooms, we recommend reading this article next!
#28
Wedding Favors Are Engraved Bullet Casings With The Date And The Couples' Names On Them
I can't think of anything more cringe or out of touch. Actually, turned my stomach the first time I saw them. Hope none of their guests have any family or friends who have been victims of gun violence! Shame on this couple for being so totally tone-deaf in today's climate.
Southern California wedding, by the way. Not that it matters. I wouldn't find this acceptable in any state.
kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
Isn't the phrase here's a bullet with your name on it something negative and bad? I'm pretty sure it is, and that is exactly why this is absolutely ridiculous and insane. Some peoples mental heath is so concerning. Seriously though, these gun obsessed folks are scary as fũćķ and I'm tired of acting like it's normal when it's not.
Grenelda Thurber 1 year ago
Yes, it's a threat, as in "This bullet will be used to shoot you." Not cool.
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Lost Penny 1 year ago
Why do I have a feeling that they own quite a few red hats & worship the orange?
Beth Wheeler 1 year ago
Very poor taste and this is from the mother of a gunsmith. I don't care for them myself, I have done some target practice here and there to get familiar with what he has if I ever needed to protect myself from an intruder. Hopefully the 2 85 lbs German Shepherds will give anybody a clue to stay away.
Angie Davidson 1 year ago
We don't necessarily know the context here. I know people who own a gun range, they would find this an amazing wedding favor.
Bradlybad40 1 year ago
The fact that this triggered so many of you is hilarious.....is it a bit redneck? Yeah! But the extent that you guys are freaking out about it is too funny.
GalaAmbrosia 10 months ago
I guess it could be considered funny if you have the IQ of a fellow redneck.
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#29
There's A Time And Place To Be This Trashy, And It's Not At Your Wedding
Anna Stephenson 1 year ago
As a straight person, we don't claim these two! (Also obviously the idea of "straight pride" is RIDICULOUS!)
Load More Replies... Bettye McKee 1 year ago
I'm looking for their picture in the dictionary, alongside the word trashy.
Kari Panda 1 year ago
"A girl if possible" really rubs me the wrong way. If you want a specific gender, go adopt.
#30
Gifts Determine Where Guests Sit At The Wedding
Heir of Durin 1 year ago
And don’t you open gifts after the wedding? Who is standing there checking all the presents as people come in?
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Marianne 1 year ago
Apart from the fact that this is super rude, how would they manage that? Do they open every gift before the guest enters the venue and decide on the spot where they will be seated? Sounds like a total mess for me.
kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
I was thinking the same thing. Which kind of leads me to believe that this is just fake. Someone just posting it for outrage and to get a reaction maybe? I know that there are definitely people out there that would act just like this. But it wouldn't even be possible because they wouldn't know who's giving what gifts. Just seems unlikely to me.
Load More Replies... Lost Penny 1 year ago
"Since I am not giving you anything, I guess I'll have the best seat in the house -- my couch."
Ruben Schelstraete 1 year ago
I like this, by not buying an expensive gift you can make sure you are not sitting at a table full of boring people.
Grietjie Roos 1 year ago
You are the @$$hole here. Really? How? I would go home AND take my gift with me
StumblingThroughLife 1 year ago
I'm hoping no -one, except immediate family (maybe), attended. It's the only way these entitled money grabbers would (maybe) learn.
Mel Colley 1 year ago
It's easy to assume it's the brides idea but who's to say it isn't the grooms?
#31
I Really Hope She Finds Someone For Her Wedding
Agfox 1 year ago
Welcome to the little town of Fat Chance, Alaska - population 1 deluded bride-to-be
K Miller 1 year ago
Based on these posts it looks like the population is a lot larger than 1 lol
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 1 year ago
If the photographer gets no breaks, when will he eat the food he had to bring himself?
Jason 1 year ago
I did wedding photography for friends for free since I enjoyed the hobby. It's so much work and stress to do it for money. No demands were included and I told them they get what they pay for. All said they were happy but if someone included any of the demands this person had would have told them to kick rocks for sure.
ILoveMySon 1 year ago
I got married on the beach with the only attendees being my husband, the officiant and me. It took less than an hour and we paid $800.00 in 2001. We tipped the photographer as well as it was an early morning wedding. These people are DELUSIONAL.
Load More Replies... Grietjie Roos 1 year ago
Cheaper, you can't get. Why not give him food? No toilet break NO FOOD AND FREE?
Bettye McKee 1 year ago
This is laughable. With professional photographers in my family, I can't imagine anyone would accept these terms.
Display_Name 1 year ago
This sounds like most of the job descriptions I've seen lately. "8 yrs of exp. $9.50 per hour, 30 min lunch." Maybe she's a job recruiter?
#32
A Guest At My Cousin's Reception Changed Into This Outfit Halfway Through The Night
Grenelda Thurber 1 year ago
I choose "Pathetic people desperately looking for some attention for $600, Alex."
Lost Penny 1 year ago (edited)
At least there is no Nazi paraphernalia in sight. Or personalized bullets. Or dead deer.
Lara Verne 1 year ago
Geez, poor person couldn't find anything better to change into than summer/ beach outfit. No semi-formal clothes in her closet
#33
Seen On Facebook. What Is This Kind Of Trash
ggus44 1 year ago
Well, I wouldn't call it a tip, but here in Brazil it's pretty common to give some money to the couple to "start their life together".
Nina 1 year ago
In most weddings here, the pair gets an envelope with money as the gift, so they can spend it how they like. (Netherlands) These U.S. stories are wiild to me.
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Emily Pegram 1 year ago
Honestly I think this one is funny. Plenty of people have a little jar or box people can drop money and envelopes in. This one is just creative.
#34
She Wants A Deposit From Her Bridesmaids
Robert T 1 year ago (edited)
If it is a downpayment on a larger sum, yes it is. And by the look of the line immediately above, that is exactly what it is.
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GirlFriday 1 year ago
My niece was asked to be in a wedding and she accepted. The Bride and groom sent out "rules for the wedding" one of which was that they expected every each member of the wedding party to pay $3,000 for the privilege of being in the wedding. That was on top of the clothes, parties, food, etc. Also, if my niece posted anything on social media and got money for it, that money had be turned over to the bride. My niece noped right out of that wedding party.
Tirza Sprong 1 year ago
yeah, if the 100,- is ADDED to the dress cost then you and I have very different ideas on inexpensive babes.
ShaZam 1 year ago
what's the penalty for not following the rules ... because I'm totally doing that ..
#35
Come To Our Wedding And Pay $700 To Stay In The Guest House But You’ll Be Sleeping On The Pullout Couch Because You’re The Only Singleton
Also, did I mention you’re cooking for everyone?
Ru Bee 1 year ago
I'm sorry I can't afford to pay 800 pound to sleep on a couch and cook for you... This POS wouldn't be getting a gift either.
Lorraine R 1 year ago
Wouldn't be surprised if they were also expecting her to buy, and posibly pay for, all the groceries for the house party too. And not to mention that little wrinkle to her until eveyone had already showed up.
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 1 year ago
If you speak the truth, be prepared for them to cut you off completely. Virtue is sometimes rewarded.
Mike F 1 year ago
And being cut off by a bunch of entitled mooches has a downside?
Load More Replies... Fire Singer 1 year ago
As a childless person, who often attended family vacations as a single person, but was expected to pay the same amount as everyone else when I wasn't even given an actual room I feel this so deeply! If I don't get a room I don't pay the same. If I'm sleeping on a couch/air mattress/floor while everyone else gets a bed "because they're married" and even their kids get rooms because "they need privacy" then I'm not paying the same amount as everyone else. Period. I don't care if that makes me a brat.
Weim Central 1 year ago
You're not a brat and not childless. You are fine and childfree!
Load More Replies... Danish Susanne 1 year ago
Tell the truth as you see it. If that upsets her, she needs to be upset. If she drops your friendship over it, it was never a true friendship.
#36
An Actual Wedding Someone I Know Attended This Weekend
Avoidance_Panda 1 year ago
No way would that s**t fly anywhere in Europe, I'd only guess from the khaki pants, polos and golf shirts with a possible open carry on his hip were looking at America.... Sorry if I'm wrong... Either way... Total toss pots all of em...
Carrie B 1 year ago
Yes this is the US and complete trash. But, didn't Harry wear a nazi armband to a party? Pretty sure he's European.
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LakotaWolf (she/her) 1 year ago
This is the best I've got, sorry :( IMG_0666-6...0b5d03.jpg 
MsLou 1 year ago
I just learned that Nazi chic weddings are a thing in Asia...and there was a couple in Mexico who got married in honor of Hitler. Absolutely vile
You're Gonna Need A Bigger Boat 1 year ago
Terrible pic but not a gun. Guy on right has a phone clip/phone on his belt.
Heir of Durin 1 year ago
I might be dumb, but I’m not sure what’s wrong with this one? Too casual?
Jrog 1 year ago (edited)
Guy is in an SS uniform. Bride has "88" on her, that is neonazi code for "heil hitler". Looks like the guy on the right has a holster and gun in the open.
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Max Fox 1 year ago
That isn't an SS uniform - it's a regular WWII German army uniform. SS uniforms have the "lightning" SS insignia on the collar. This one has the typical army bars. That is a Nazi eagle on the right breast, swastika and all, and a ribbon bar on the other side. Not clear enough to see what rank and military branch this numbnuts is pretending to be. The a*****e in white does have the 88 of the American Neonazis.
Lost Penny 1 year ago (edited)
My thought process: "What's wrong with this picture? I mean, it's not super-fancy, but it doesn't look so bad that it would need trashing! And the groom looks fancy, sharp uniform. What's that symbol? I can't really see, let me zoom in... Oh."
#37
“I’d Rather Take A Pic On My iPhone Lol”... For A Wedding Photographer
Anywhere but Here 1 year ago
Yup add a zero and you’re more in the ballpark of typical photographer rate.
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Pay For My Historic Wedding
Blue Bunny of Happiness 1 year ago
Work for exposure, when she hasn’t even started an Instagram account? This one is simply delusional!
Mike F 1 year ago
My park just recently began accepting exposure in lieu of lot rent. NOT! Delusional if they actually think folks will be tripping on themselves to work for free.
Load More Replies... Sophia Athene 1 year ago
I'm dying over gimmepig! I'm in love!!! May I steal that?
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Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
I know. If they stayed in Dubai for a week and they’d have more money to spend on the wedding. Because there’s no way that they’re getting a free wedding photographer, caterer, baker, dress designer, florist and orchestra. Especially if she’s asking for professionals who usually get paid. They know better than to work for free.
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Karizma Kaliko 1 year ago
I would love to know the outcome of most of these stories! Like, did people actually pitch in? Or, or did someone with an eye phone snap a Pic of them in an empty hall?
ShaZam 1 year ago
well we were warned about her attitude when she said early about marrying David .. lol ... I deserve it!
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
I know. Her “n David afe getribg married!” But you’re discounting the possibility that David is as bad as she is and they do indeed deserve each other.
Load More Replies... Lost Penny 1 year ago
And she is allowed out in public, all by herself, without any supervision. Let that sink in.
Sophia Athene 1 year ago
An orchestra?!?! A FREE orchestra? As a former orchestra player, oh h€11 no!
Jay Scales 1 year ago
That was the bit that made me laugh the most - where's she gonna get a free orchestra??
Load More Replies... Toothless Feline 1 year ago
The only way it’s appropriate for a photographer to provide their services as a wedding gift is if the photographer themselves suggests it.
#39
When Trashy Gets Married
Jason 1 year ago
Bro I tell my son to get off the floor 100x a day maybe someone forgot to tell him.
Penny Hernandez 1 year ago
NOT funny or cute and especially NOT appropriate. I wonder just what the bride's plans for the marriage are.
Roan The Demon Kitty 1 year ago
I don't kinkshame but jfc, leave your kinks in the bedroom, people. ffs.
#40
So I Went To A Wedding And A Guy Showed Up Wearing This
Nea 1 year ago
I am just hoping its not a prank on him and that he knows.
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Ellinor 1 year ago
Oh my god. I refuse to think this exist for real, and I refuse that someone thought it would be appropriate to wear at a WEDDING !!! (or anywhere, really)
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Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 1 year ago
I sure hope the print isn't in the front, too.
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Woman Tries To Get Me To Take A Day Off School To Take Photographs Of Her Wedding
Anywhere but Here 1 year ago
Childhood taunt: “Gimme gimme never gets. Don’t you know your manners yet?”
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Matt Wheeler 1 year ago
This person must be challenged? The X's after every text, what are they six?
Danish Susanne 1 year ago
What a generous bride. 100 dollars for a days work and you may even have food!
#42
Bridal Parties Pretend To Be Shot Like Deer And Dragged Into Reception
kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
I really do think a lot of these people on this list have borderline mental health issues that havent been diagnosed yet. Selfish, grandiose, self serving, entitled, Arrogant, vain, and all the other behaviors of a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath. Just yikes!
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
It seems more like something that is culturally okay in whatever state they are in. If the whole wedding party is doing it then I assume it’s an area where hunting is a common hobby. It’s tacky and tasteless but hardly indicative of mental health issues.
Load More Replies... Lil Miss Hobbit 1 year ago
Redneck and tasteless as anything. I'd laugh and cry at the same time.
#43
Wedding Proposal Involving Chewing Tobacco
Avoidance_Panda 1 year ago
Not in itself an issue, possibly an interesting story behind this....
Kylie 1 year ago
You do have to wonder. I don't think I've ever seen a female use chew.
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Stephanie Trump 1 year ago
Chewing tobacco is disgusting. In my imaginary country where I’m the dictator, chewing tobacco would be illegal
EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 1 year ago
All i would be thinking about is a spittoon 🤢🤮 disgusting habit.
#44
Why Should The Future Father-In-Law Visit His Dying Father “Who Probably Won’t Even Recognize Him” When The Bride's Special Day Is On The Line?
DC 1 year ago
... it's that one and only time those sort of people should trust their feelings ...
Load More Replies... kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
This makes no sense. She's worried about him putting everybody at risk. Yet she's about to get people together and put those people at risk as well. Her argument is silly and hypocritical.
Julia Cargile 1 year ago
I am truly stunned that you would voice this in public. Your fiance needs to drop you like a hot potato.
Stephanie Trump 1 year ago
I’m sure the future FIL will be able to make it to his son’s next wedding
Mel Colley 1 year ago
FH..Make sure your Future divorce lawyer takes your dad's place at the wedding.
#45
Bride And Groom Trying To Sell Presents From Their Wedding On Instagram… A Place Where Many Of Their Wedding Guests Follow Them
Lara Verne 1 year ago
I don't blame you for selling unwanted gifts, but you shouldn't do it right in front of people, who gave it to you.
#46
Woman Wants To Pay A Photographer Only £100 For 11 Hours Of Work To Cover Her Wedding. But Only Wants Professionals. She Was Absolutely Roasted In The Comments
Karen Bryan 1 year ago
It is the height of thoughtlessness and stupidity to ask a professional ANYTHING to do a job gratis--no matter how long-standing the friendship or how close the familial connection. You just don't DO that!
#47
A Wedding Ring Set With A Confederate Flag Design
Penny Hernandez 1 year ago
How nice. Has anyone told the bridal couple that that symbol is a battle flag used by the treasonous side that LOST a rebellion more than 150 years ago?
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
People like this probably have their own “truth” about the historical heroes who carried the flag and died heroically fighting for America.
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 1 year ago
A ring that proclaims you're literally a loser and a despicable one at that.
lovemy suffolk 1 year ago
This mentality is why Trump has a cult following. Every country has zealots, ours are just so, I don't know, revoltingly clownish, damaging and dangerous, yes; but laughably clownish all the same.
Load More Replies... Sue Phillips 1 year ago
We need to outlaw this s**t like Germany outlawed nazi memorabilia. In what other civil war in history are the losers glorified? Ridiculous.
John Murphy 1 year ago
I am an "imported Alaskan" meaning I wasnt born here but it is where I decided to call home. I am from the deep south and when I tell you just as many black/white people fly that flag I mean it. Sure it can be a cymbal of racism but oddly some people view it with as much loyalty as a country flag
Sue Phillips 1 year ago
I live in the deep south, and this is absolutely untrue as far as black people flying that flag.
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#48
Wow... There Are No Words
Diana Lucas 1 year ago
The casual xenophobia and racism displayed here does not flatter this bride.
Cee 1 year ago
Who knows? Maybe that is the best part of her. For all we know, she may also kick puppies and trip the elderly but couldn’t work that into the post. Haha
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 1 year ago
Shame that there are absolutely no wedding dresses produced in her country.
Agamemnon O'Neill 1 year ago
Should have given the dress to an illegal resident to bring over with them.
GalaAmbrosia 6 months ago
Bettye McKee, go suck an egg and choke on it please. The world would be better off.
#49
When The Guest's Presence Is Not A Good Enough Present
AP 1 year ago (edited)
Some people are just too poor to be buying extra stuff in life that aren't necessities. Being that broke myself, I get it. There have been times I wanted to refuse going to someone's birthday party because I couldn't afford to get them or make them a gift, but I showed up anyway because it would look more insulting if I didn't; as if the person's birthday wasn't important to me and I had something better to do that day.
Lil Miss Hobbit 1 year ago
For many people...especially extended family and friends...being there is a big contribution. They took time off and spent money (gas, food, etc.) to celebrate your day.
Christos Arvanitis 1 year ago
In the US, and I suspect other countries, you have a year to give a gift.
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
Is that a historical tradition or is that something you have actually seen? Because that sounds like something that might have been okay a long time ago but stopped being done in modern weddings.
Load More Replies... Patti Hampton 1 year ago
I was under the impression that wedding gifts are given at the shower beforehand. Or delivered to the residence if those who got invitations weren't invited to the shower, or couldn't make it that day/evening. I realize some people bring gifts to the wedding but not everyone does that.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
For some people, not showing up would be the gift.
Load More Replies... kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
You can't expect it yet you're literally literally expecting it. Woooshhh! Also, you did kind of post it online. Saying what you would do or what you think. Big wooosh! :/
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Bride Flips Out When Husband Tries To Input Suggestions For His Own Wedding
Blue Bunny of Happiness 1 year ago (edited)
The only thing the groomzilla did wrong was actually going through with the marriage!
BoredHouseKitty 1 year ago
I hate it when vocabularies to talk about unhealthy relationship are coopted to express what's basically entitlement.
Undercover 1 year ago
To be fair, he tried to incorporate the horses as part of the menu 🤷🏻♀️😁
Nina 1 year ago
Imo it's rather unhealthy to be planning your wedding since your six years old. Why didn't the parents put a stop to this? By the time she got married it was such a fixed idea in her head that there wasn't any wiggle room left. You can have ideas for your wedding, but you're getting married to someone else, not to your clone.
FABULOUS1 1 year ago
I feel like I am the only female who never had a dream wedding growing up, I dont eve recall having the thought of wanting to get married when I got older.
#51
Multi-Level Marketing Making Its Way Around The Wedding Photographer Groups. The Photographer Was Blocked When She Declined
#52
Can You Imagine What The Rest Of The Wedding Was Like?
Avoidance_Panda 1 year ago
I don't see an issue here.... I think some people need to be a bit more tolerant of how other people are.... Just because you find it weird dose not give you the right to poke fun at someone on their special day.
*raspberry sound 1 year ago
I don't see an issue either, in fact I don't see anything at all, but some sort of vehicle. Is there something wrong with the trailer?
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Lil Miss Hobbit 1 year ago
As far as camo wedding dresses go, this is gorgeous!
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aubergine10003 1 year ago
Sorry, what's the problem here? This isn't even a "camo" wedding dress... it's a white dress with a pattern of bare branches and leaves on it. I like it.
Cathy Jo Baker 1 year ago
There's nothing wrong with this. It's not my vibe, but it's not evil like the Nazi wedding one. Live and let live, in this case.
Doctor Strange 1 year ago
It's not my style, but its also not my wedding. So why should I care?
#53
This Woman Is Probably The Biggest Narcissist. She Wore This To Her College Friend's Wedding (The Groom). She'd Never Met The Bride Prior, And The Bride Was Wearing A Very Simple Relaxed Gown
ShaZam 1 year ago
I really don't get this .. is this a new thing? I got married 27 years ago and I didn't have to tell people not to wear white ...
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
I’m sure people did it 27 years ago but unless you have a crazy mother in law or cousin or a narcissist +1 then most people would never think about doing this. You have to have severe Main Character Syndrome to think that this is okay. It’s because the internet has Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, etc we’re seeing stories like this more. 27 years ago the internet was new.
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Imagine Ranking Your Friends In Such A Way. Sorry Number 5
#55
Bridezilla Is Upset That The Florist Is Having Surgery 8 Weeks Before Her Very Important Wedding
Michael Largey 1 year ago
I normally hate reading an unpunctuated text wall, but here it perfectly conveys how batshit crazy she is.
#56
The Dress, The Hair, And The Make-Up A Girl Wore To My Friend's Beach Wedding. At First Glance, She Looked Nude
Blue Bunny of Happiness 1 year ago
That’s impressive make up and make up that changes her face to a perfect emoji
#57
The Winner Gets The Better Dinner
Blue Bunny of Happiness 1 year ago
WTAF. Just invite the number of guests you can afford to feed, rather than playing games.
Diana Lucas 1 year ago
I'd leave that wedding immediately. No way I'd dress up for a wedding and then be told to play a physical game to win decent food.
#58
Bride And Brejudice
Blue Bunny of Happiness 1 year ago
Is that the groom sporting a black eye? I’m trying to avoid thinking about the “veil”…
Amy Manzanares 1 year ago
I've never seen a dunce cap veil before. Go to the corner young lady!
#59
Nothing Says Classy Like Shotgun Shells
#60
This Guy Goes Nuts When He Finds Out He's Not Invited To A Girl's (From His School) Wedding
Agamemnon O'Neill 1 year ago
Yup, that exchange reeks of him being over her
Load More Replies... kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
He thinks her getting married is throwing it back in his face? Lord help this man and his delusions.
Lorrie Crabtree 1 year ago
How to say you're an incel without actually saying you're an incel...
EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 1 year ago
You know that fool will probably show up with a weapon. He sounds nuts
#61
Nothing Says Love Like A Sports-Themed "Dragging The Groom To The Altar" Cake Topper
Michael Largey 1 year ago (edited)
Since they're Patriots fans, I can only assume that the romance became deflated.
Load More Replies... kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
Why would you want to marry someone who you have to drag to the alter, who clearly does not want to marry you? I get it is a joke thing. But most men agree with it feeling like being forced into and don't really want to get married and display that attitude proudly, from what I have seen and heard over the years. That doesn't make sense at all.
#62
Cringe Cake Topper, Not To Mention The Fondant
Agfox 1 year ago
I'm an old guy who hasn't been to a wedding in more than 50 years, so I'm out of touch with cakes & cake toppers but this doesn't seem cringeworthy to me
General Anaesthesia 1 year ago
At least the bride knows what she's getting in to.
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You Have To Keep It Classy
Upstaged75 1 year ago
No, it's a thing girls with long hair do. Guilty of it myself, but not at formal occasions.
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Meagan Glaser 1 year ago
so worried about being classy they demand no beer bottles, so stupid they don't know there are GLASS BEER GLASSES specifically for this very situation
EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 1 year ago
No breathing. Bowel movements will be monitored. Silence only. For gods sake she sounds like a dictator
#64
The Two People At The End Could Have Dressed A Little Better. The Red Pants Are Pajamas. Groom, Bride, Bride's Best Friend, His Girlfriend, And His Sister
The one in red pants continued to be trashy the night of the wedding as most of the guests partied with the newlyweds at their house.
Richard Graham 1 year ago
I think that it is nice that two people suffering from "Scribble-Face" syndrome could meet, fall in love, then get married. They even invited other sufferers of "Scribble-Face" syndrome to their wedding.
kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
Not everyone can afford wedding attire. Besides, if the bride and groom don't mind it, why would you be bothered by it? Serious question.
#65
This Truly Unhinged Theme, The Table Names Are Their "Favorite Criminals"
Michael Largey 1 year ago
I definitely won't be eating anything served at the Jeffrey Dahmer table.
#66
Imagine Picking An Engagement Ring Based On The Fact It Has A Herbalife Symbol
Michael Largey 1 year ago
When confronted with MLM, pulling the trigger seems a very appropriate response.
kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
It's a pretty ring. As long as they like it, why would it be an issue with anyone else?
#67
"Must Be A Skilled Professional With References Willing To Do It On Three Days' Notice, But Also I Only Have $20"
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Guess who still hasn't been able to hire a photographer and still doesn't get it?
#68
This Was How A Burrito Was Served At A Wedding I Attended
#69
Spotted In A Charity Shop's "Wedding" Window
kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
She's gonna knock him out while he knocked her up. Or something like that. :/
#70
Getting Married On A Trampoline
Evan not Hansen 1 year ago
It's so after the officiant pronounces them married he can bounce out of the way so they can kiss without someone in the background. (maybe idk I'm just making stuff up)
Michael Largey 1 year ago
All marriages have their ups and downs. You just have to bounce back.
Liz Siemens 1 year ago
I don't think I could have climbed up that ladder in my wedding dress. I'd be like "honey, toss me on up!" Lol
EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 1 year ago
This looks like a bit of a laugh. At least they're not taking themselves too seriously
#71
Thoughts On This Theme? Buck And Doe With A Camo Dress
#72
My Friend Got Married At A White Castle Today
Farnzy 1 year ago
My friend got married at a local pizza place because it's their fave. Lame to others, but if it means something to the couple who cares?
Mike F 1 year ago
I could think of lots worse places for a wedding. Wally World ring a bell?
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#73
A Friend Who Is Getting Married Abroad Sent This
Lil Miss Hobbit 1 year ago
I never really understood shaming this one. Some family and friends would love to send a gift even if they can't come?!
AnkleByter 1 year ago
The idea of telling people if they want to send a gift they can isn't necessarily bad (a bit weird, maybe). It's the fact that they are literally saying "We're going on a trip, please fund it for us". They don't want gifts, they want money.
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 1 year ago
Wait till after someone explains the van part to you and then judge the overall tastefullness.
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From A Wedding Shaming Group I'm In. Bride And Groom Requested A Child-Free Wedding. Entitled Guest Writes This Message On Their Invitation
#75
Another Golden One Found On Facebook
Upstaged75 1 year ago
A friend of mine can't wear heels due to an old injury. So her MIL made her a pair of bedazzled white sneakers. The were adorable. You couldn't see them under the dress anyway.
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
That was my first thought. Maybe OP has medical reasons for wearing comfy shoes.
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#76
Bullet Boutonnieres
Mariska Hoeijmakers 1 year ago
Thought it was a wine-stopper or whatever you call these things they use to close an opened wine bottle
#77
Hot Topic Wedding
the_avenging_knight (her/she) 1 year ago
I don't hate this, everyone seems to be happy, what's the problem?
Lost Penny 1 year ago
Why not? Clearly, this is fun for everybody in the picture, and it's the only thing that matters.
#78
Was Scrolling Through My Favorite Bakery’s Wedding Portfolio
Shark Lady 1 year ago
I love this, it's a nice mix of traditional and the couple's personality.
#79
I Get Liking Sports But God Damn
#80
Facebook Friend Of Mine Posted Pictures From A Taco Bell Las Vegas Wedding
#81
Lord Vader Is Getting Married In Vegas
#82
The Couple Wants To Feed Guests Only Charcuterie And Ice Cream
Ripley 1 year ago
Not all weddings need to have sit down receptions. Cocktail, morning tea, buffet, sit down . . . the list goes on. Charcuterie and an ice-cream bar is fine.
Guy-Incognito 1 year ago
Much prefer cocktail style weddings. Much more fun than sitting down and listening to hours of speeches.
Load More Replies... quentariel 1 year ago
Sounds quite normal to me. Although weddings I've been have been much smaller and more relaxed than anything I've seen from the internet. My best friends wedding had a soup as the main food, with fresh bread, and then cake with some selection of cookies and such. No one missed anything.
#83
All Jokes Aside, Please Don't Do This To Your Daughter
Shark Lady 1 year ago
If they were wrapped in ribbon it would be fine, as no one would notice.
kelsischloe1986 1 year ago
I think it says that the holder for the bouquet is the most expensive thing. So I'm guessing she put each of those inside the holder. Think she'd show a picture of that. But I'm probably wrong all the way around anyway. Lol!
Load More Replies... SweetCheesySpaghetti 1 year ago
I made napkin rings out of toilet paper rolls... covered them in fabric and lace. My whole wedding was DIY.
the_avenging_knight (her/she) 1 year ago
These don't look bad, if they're on a budget this might be the best way to get flowers.
quentariel 1 year ago
You can use toilet paper roll and with a minimal effort make it look like something else. Little bit of fabric, pretty paper or anything like that would go a long way. But plain cardboard rolls look awful, no matter how minimal your budget is.
Lorrie Crabtree 1 year ago
You know, weddings have gotten ridiculous. If you can save money, there's no shame. But... maybe decorate the TP rolls just a little bit better?
*raspberry sound 1 year ago
Maybe it was during the lockdown and toilet paper rolls signified greed
#84
Guests At My Parents' Wedding. They Were Married On Halloween 30 Years Ago
Kiss Army 1 year ago
Absolutely! This is a wedding that I would have loved to be on the guest list for!
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A Family Wedding In India. The Groom's Sisters Had Dresses, Makeup, Jewelry, And Hair Done Similarly To The Bride. The Only Difference Is The Bride's Red Wedding Bangles
Trisec Tebeakesse 1 year ago
Sounds like Americans judging. Other cultures do things differently - this may be the norm in their part of the world.
Kiss Army 1 year ago
I have seen pictures like this before and the comments indicated that it was culturally acceptable.
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Papa 1 year ago
One of the craziest I've run across was a letter to Dear Abby from the bride's mother. There was an uncle whose political views were different from the bride, and she said having him there would make her uncomfortable (though there was no indication that he was a jerk, or had behaved inappropriately in the past), so he wasn't invited to the wedding. Then the mother went on to say that this uncle had always been very generous with wedding gifts to his other nieces and nephews, and she and the bride were upset because he hadn't sent a gift for this wedding.
Mike F 1 year ago
I remember seeing the DA post you mention or perhaps it was a "best of" but her taking that bunch (verbally) to the woodshed was priceless.
Load More Replies... JoeKing 1 year ago
People who DEMAND money (For whatever reason) are Scum!! If you want money, then work for it. Your Parents and/or Friends money is NOT yours!
Will Cable 1 year ago
It seems that getting married for love is long dead these days in so many of the cases shown above.
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Tempest 1 year ago (edited)
I haven’t been to a wedding in over a decade (missed out on two last year cause I was away at uni and unable to pay for flights home) but I’ve been invited for a friend’s wedding this year and it got me thinking of all these “trashy wedding” posts. Just a reminder to people that the whole “guests should not wear white” isn’t exactly a wedding rule everywhere in the world. I bought a gorgeous silver coloured dress recently for a different event and my parents suggested I wear it to my friend’s wedding. They were so surprised when I told them of the “no white” rule cause they’ve never heard of such a thing (they’re not very active online but have been to several weddings in the past few years). I’m still not gonna wear white but it got me thinking that people shouldn’t go around bashing guests if they wear white cause there’s a chance that such a restriction doesn’t exist where they’re from.
Richard Graham 1 year ago (edited)
So many "rules" are cultural. Everybody does not know every culture's "rules" so should not be bound to them. For example, in many cultures wearing white is a sign of mourning for the dead. Also in many cultures the bride wears red, or other colors. Remember, "the bride wears white" was originally a European cultural sign of Virginity. The bride wore white to show she was a virgin.
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ThisIsMe 1 year ago
My niece asked me to help plan/organize her small-ish wedding at a local hotel. My gift to her was a photographer - friend of mining starting up her business, but would cut me a deal for the day for experience and portfolio shots. Niece was aware of this. Photographer provided a list of traditional photos, asked niece to eliminate what she didn't want and add any that she did. She eliminated almost everything on the list and opted instead for what she considered highly artistic photos of just her and the groom in bar (they allowed us to use for pre-wedding staging with bridal party). Things like him hiking up back of her dress to grab bum with both hands and show off her tattoos. Photographer explained that these were not in her area of expertise, but she'd accommodate the bride. The photos were amazing, even if not what you'd expect, and the bride complained about every. single. picture.
Mike F 1 year ago
Perhaps she should have had her tattoos touched up for the occasion, lol.
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Dream 1 year ago
Doubt anyone will read this but I came to comment on the vegan pizza. That picture is SO close to an actual good dish and it's SO simple. Warm pita, caramelized onions & red peppers & fried goat cheese and it's the BEST DISH. I promise. Use the cheese as dip with your triangle pita pieces with some onions and pepper on it and enjoy. I promise you'll love it.
Richard Graham 1 year ago
I once went to what was described as a "Gong Show" wedding. Everybody (including the Bride, Groom, and Minister) wore a funny costume. During the vows everything stopped for acts; the Groom Juggled, then the Bride yodeled, then the minister played the accordion. Everybody else was expected to give a novelty performance. Tackiest thing I ever witnessed. (I sneaked out half-way through.)
Alyssa Phillips 1 year ago
Our wedding was right at 5k. But most things were donated as gifts. Photographer, dinner, flowers, etc. but THEY offered. I didn't demand or even ask.
Papa 1 year ago
One of the craziest I've run across was a letter to Dear Abby from the bride's mother. There was an uncle whose political views were different from the bride, and she said having him there would make her uncomfortable (though there was no indication that he was a jerk, or had behaved inappropriately in the past), so he wasn't invited to the wedding. Then the mother went on to say that this uncle had always been very generous with wedding gifts to his other nieces and nephews, and she and the bride were upset because he hadn't sent a gift for this wedding.
Mike F 1 year ago
I remember seeing the DA post you mention or perhaps it was a "best of" but her taking that bunch (verbally) to the woodshed was priceless.
Load More Replies... JoeKing 1 year ago
People who DEMAND money (For whatever reason) are Scum!! If you want money, then work for it. Your Parents and/or Friends money is NOT yours!
Will Cable 1 year ago
It seems that getting married for love is long dead these days in so many of the cases shown above.
Load More Replies... Tempest 1 year ago (edited)
I haven’t been to a wedding in over a decade (missed out on two last year cause I was away at uni and unable to pay for flights home) but I’ve been invited for a friend’s wedding this year and it got me thinking of all these “trashy wedding” posts. Just a reminder to people that the whole “guests should not wear white” isn’t exactly a wedding rule everywhere in the world. I bought a gorgeous silver coloured dress recently for a different event and my parents suggested I wear it to my friend’s wedding. They were so surprised when I told them of the “no white” rule cause they’ve never heard of such a thing (they’re not very active online but have been to several weddings in the past few years). I’m still not gonna wear white but it got me thinking that people shouldn’t go around bashing guests if they wear white cause there’s a chance that such a restriction doesn’t exist where they’re from.
Richard Graham 1 year ago (edited)
So many "rules" are cultural. Everybody does not know every culture's "rules" so should not be bound to them. For example, in many cultures wearing white is a sign of mourning for the dead. Also in many cultures the bride wears red, or other colors. Remember, "the bride wears white" was originally a European cultural sign of Virginity. The bride wore white to show she was a virgin.
Load More Replies... ThisIsMe 1 year ago
My niece asked me to help plan/organize her small-ish wedding at a local hotel. My gift to her was a photographer - friend of mining starting up her business, but would cut me a deal for the day for experience and portfolio shots. Niece was aware of this. Photographer provided a list of traditional photos, asked niece to eliminate what she didn't want and add any that she did. She eliminated almost everything on the list and opted instead for what she considered highly artistic photos of just her and the groom in bar (they allowed us to use for pre-wedding staging with bridal party). Things like him hiking up back of her dress to grab bum with both hands and show off her tattoos. Photographer explained that these were not in her area of expertise, but she'd accommodate the bride. The photos were amazing, even if not what you'd expect, and the bride complained about every. single. picture.
Mike F 1 year ago
Perhaps she should have had her tattoos touched up for the occasion, lol.
Load More Replies... Dream 1 year ago
Doubt anyone will read this but I came to comment on the vegan pizza. That picture is SO close to an actual good dish and it's SO simple. Warm pita, caramelized onions & red peppers & fried goat cheese and it's the BEST DISH. I promise. Use the cheese as dip with your triangle pita pieces with some onions and pepper on it and enjoy. I promise you'll love it.
Richard Graham 1 year ago
I once went to what was described as a "Gong Show" wedding. Everybody (including the Bride, Groom, and Minister) wore a funny costume. During the vows everything stopped for acts; the Groom Juggled, then the Bride yodeled, then the minister played the accordion. Everybody else was expected to give a novelty performance. Tackiest thing I ever witnessed. (I sneaked out half-way through.)
Alyssa Phillips 1 year ago
Our wedding was right at 5k. But most things were donated as gifts. Photographer, dinner, flowers, etc. but THEY offered. I didn't demand or even ask.
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