We aren't trees. We're allowed to move. And many people do... Some much further than others.
A travel blogger thought she had it all figured out when she decided to move across the world to Germany. For some reason, the American thought it would be a piece of kuchen. But boy, was she wrong!
In a series of entertaining and eye-opening videos, Helene Sula has spoken of the massive culture shocks she's faced since arriving in Europe. The "Helene in Between" blog founder touched down in Heidelberg, Germany with just two suitcases, her husband and their two dogs. But she had to jump through rigid hoops to get there. Here's what she wants us all to know about the German way of life and thinking...
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Very much the same in France. It's delightful, and their independence soars, which is why I guess some helicopter parents don't like it. When I am at cafés and marchés and such I notice that everyone keeps an eye out for any children in the area to make sure they don't wander off too far, etc. "It takes a village" - and you don't see French parents screaming at strangers who correct their children if they need it.
Helene Sula started her travel blog, Helene in Between, in 2011. At the time, she wasn't sure if it would bring in any money. But after experimenting, and a few hits and misses, Sula finally found a way to monetize the blog. This allowed her the freedom to live out her dream of moving abroad.
The Dallas-born American had previously spent time traveling Europe with her husband, and she wanted to see more of the continent. The couple felt the best way to do this was to relocate to Europe. In 2016, just five years after she started her blog, Sula and her husband moved to Heidelberg, Germany - a city and country they'd never set foot in before.
Sula says many people had told her things about Germany before she moved there but not all of it was true. For one, the travel blogger was led to believe that German food was bad. “It's just potatoes and Sauerkraut,” is how they described it. Sula says while Germany does have that on the traditional menu, it's definitely not the only dish on offer.
"Germany food is divine. Some of the best meals I've ever had," she once wrote. "When we go out to eat we try to eat at the traditional German restaurants. Every single time I've had phenomenal food."
I mostly stopped doing that, but sometimes I have to because a customers accent is so thick that I do not understand them. I always explain the problem (I have problems understanding accents and dialects for some reason) and most often than not, they understand. We each want something from the other and communication is key. I understand its frustrating though if you wanna learn and speak the language.
Only a few motorways are still unlimited. We had one in Australia until a few years back, too. Not a freeway, though!
Sula adds that the best potatoes she's ever had in her life have been in Germany. This includes fries, potato salad, mashed potatoes, and any dish containing a potato.
"Some typical German dishes are Bratkartoffeln which is fried potato slices, usually with dried bacon," explains Sula. "Currywurst is sliced sausage, heavily seasoned, with fries. They serve a lot of hearty meals with meat and potatoes and a salad SWIMMING in dressing. That is one thing that I find hilarious, the salads have half a bottle of dressing."
Lidl's comes to mind. I just shove it all into the cart and bag it at the car.
Sula also says she was told that Germans are cold and unfriendly. "Even when we moved to Heidelberg, many people asked us if we were getting accustomed the rudeness," she reveals. "I have to say, I disagree emphatically with this. Germans are kind, genuine, and helpful."
However, the blogger says the service industry in Germany leaves much to be desired... "They do not really care about helping you, getting a tip (if service at a restaurant is truly exception you can leave a couple euros), or making sure you are satisfied. Not a thing here," she reveals.
Rename 'influencer' as a real job name..... First response is valid!
This really gets old. There is no beverage consumed more than water in Germany. You get in everywhere, but you usually have to pay for it (some restaurants may offer free tap water, though, which is safe to drink everywhere because of the extreme high regulation).
I've lived in Germany for 41 yrs. Never once have I heard this term. And I would say it's the opposite: we don't stare at people. It's considered impolite, even rude. And that is something we teach our kids.
Sula also praises the Germans for their fitness. "In general, Europeans are much thinner than Americans," she explains. "But Germans seems to really love the outdoors and being active. On Sundays, the stores all close (all of them), and they are seen riding, skating, and running the various paths."
Another difference she noticed after moving to Heidelberg was the culture of recycling. "They are NUTS about it here," she wrote on her blog. "We have 5 different trash cans for our apartment. It's insane. I do not agree with it because it's so confusing and ends up being such a hassle. I love the environment, but come on… 5 different trash cans?"
Elaborating on the 5 different trash cans, Sula explains that one is restmüll (trash), the others are for plastic and metal, paper, glass, bioabfall. "Oh, and you take in your plastic bottles (my Coca Cola Light bottles) in to the grocery store for a pfand (a refund)," she adds.
I've never seen a German supermarket have roach poison in the same aisle as any type of food, let alone right next to it.
first of all supermarkets don't sell roach poison, you need to go to a garden center (nursery) or a hardware store and then you need to ask someone to get it for you. 2nd if supermarkets would offer poison it would be separated from groceries and under lock and key as in the garden centers.
Lived in Germany and visited countless times, I don't recognize half of these situations.
Bad list. Looks like a list a tourist "living" there for 3 weeks would do.
Another country has different customs than America - whoda thunkit? Americans, please take note. I was soooooooo grateful to go on-line and learn about France and many of its customs before I moved from the US - it made the transition SO much easier. I still make the occasional slips, but I just say, "Nous sommes anglais" in a pitiful voice and they excuse me because I pretend to be English, as the French generally can't tell the difference between American and English accents. Sorry about that, Brits.
Well, given the general feeling towards the British, especially after brexit, we say we're Australian. Everyone loves Australians!
Load More Replies...I see a lot of these, and people having very different experiences than mine in Europe. Perhaps Americans behave differently?
It's incredible. This women appears to have lived in Germany and yet still doesn't understand it.
So far I've had nothing but fascinating experiences in other countries. Germany was where I remained the longest (a long time ago) and got to know an old gasthaus owner who was a veteran of the Leibstandarte SS. He had a humorously cynical view of everything back in 1977.
Lived in Germany and visited countless times, I don't recognize half of these situations.
Bad list. Looks like a list a tourist "living" there for 3 weeks would do.
Another country has different customs than America - whoda thunkit? Americans, please take note. I was soooooooo grateful to go on-line and learn about France and many of its customs before I moved from the US - it made the transition SO much easier. I still make the occasional slips, but I just say, "Nous sommes anglais" in a pitiful voice and they excuse me because I pretend to be English, as the French generally can't tell the difference between American and English accents. Sorry about that, Brits.
Well, given the general feeling towards the British, especially after brexit, we say we're Australian. Everyone loves Australians!
Load More Replies...I see a lot of these, and people having very different experiences than mine in Europe. Perhaps Americans behave differently?
It's incredible. This women appears to have lived in Germany and yet still doesn't understand it.
So far I've had nothing but fascinating experiences in other countries. Germany was where I remained the longest (a long time ago) and got to know an old gasthaus owner who was a veteran of the Leibstandarte SS. He had a humorously cynical view of everything back in 1977.
