We’re all in need of a little pick-me-up from time to time. Some of us are exhausted, demotivated, burned out, and we’re finding precious few things to be happy about (well… besides junk food…). The world’s so full of darkness after all. But life’s got plenty of wonderful things to bring us joy and make us smile, too! Sometimes, it just takes a gentle reminder. This one’s from us.

Dumbledore said that happiness can be found in the darkest of times “if one only remembers to turn on the light,” and we’re huge believers in that. So here’s us flicking on the lights for you! Our team at Bored Panda has put together this list of some of the most wholesome, heartwarming, and uplifting pictures and stories to bring that spark of happiness back into your lives, dear Readers.

As you’re scrolling down, remember to upvote the pics that made you smile the widest and be sure to share ‘em with those of your friends who you think might need a virtual hug. In the mood for some chicken soup for the soul? Check out Bored Panda’s other recent super-wholesome posts here, here, and here.

Sarah Vero from 'Action for Happiness' went into detail with Bored Panda about finding real happiness and how to move forward after the exhausting year that we've had. You'll find her insights below.

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I Don't Have Anyone To Celebrate With But I'm 7 Years Clean Of Heroin Today. Yey Me

I Don't Have Anyone To Celebrate With But I'm 7 Years Clean Of Heroin Today. Yey Me

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The Cute Cat
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9 months ago

Yeeeeeeyy

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A Single Gay Man Is Only Allowed To Adopt A Child With Disability, So He Adopts A Girl With A Down Syndrome, That Was Rejected By More Than 20 Families

A Single Gay Man Is Only Allowed To Adopt A Child With Disability, So He Adopts A Girl With A Down Syndrome, That Was Rejected By More Than 20 Families

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Lauren Caswell
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9 months ago

So glad they found each other :)

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My Son Always Texts To Say He's On His Way Home. So I Open The Door, Letting His 17-Year-Old Cat, And 16-Year-Old Doggo Know That He's On His Way. This Is Them Waiting For Him

My Son Always Texts To Say He's On His Way Home. So I Open The Door, Letting His 17-Year-Old Cat, And 16-Year-Old Doggo Know That He's On His Way. This Is Them Waiting For Him

Thought it was adorable and wanted to share.

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

The perfect welcome!

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For Sarah from 'Action for Happiness,' living a life of happiness and a life of duty and purpose aren't polar opposites: they're both closely interlinked with one another. "Finding real happiness isn't about always seeking a temporary state of feeling good. A lot of what actually makes us happy relates to duty and purpose," she said.

"The 10 keys to happier living are giving, relating, exercising, awareness, trying out, direction, resilience, emotions, acceptance, and meaning. We are likely to be happier if our lives have direction, meaning and purpose and if we are part of something bigger than ourselves," Sarah said that living a life full of purpose with a clear sense of direction while also lending others a helping hand is a more fulfilling one than blundering about aimlessly.

#4

After Stage 4 Cancer & 20 Months Of Chemo, My Kid Rang The Bell

After Stage 4 Cancer & 20 Months Of Chemo, My Kid Rang The Bell

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

Congratulations!!!

Teli
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9 months ago

Yeah congrats!

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littlesaresare
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9 months ago

What does ringing the bell mean?

spirit wolf
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9 months ago

It means she has successfully completed her treatment and well on her way to make complete recovery. I am very happy for this little lady and also my own frind who has recently rang her bell and looking full of life. <3

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Equine_Ravenclaw_Directioner
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9 months ago

Yay!

Fixin'Ta
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9 months ago

My brother never got to ring the bell, so I'm always so happy to see pictures like this of those who got to!

Elaine Mattingly
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9 months ago (edited)

It's heart breaking for those who fell on the battlefield , who did all that could be done. You all deserve our utmost respect and prayerss.

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Dana Ward
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9 months ago

Prayers and support with hugs for a beautiful future❣

The_tattered_hippie
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9 months ago (edited)

My 6yo son did this Oct 3rd 2020 after 3 years and 4 months of chemo. 🥰

Elaine Mattingly
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9 months ago

God bless his heart and yours, you know about the truth behind the bell and the journey they took to get there.

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deanna woods
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9 months ago

Congratulations!!!!!!!!

Christina Schulte
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9 months ago

She's a warrior.

Deep
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9 months ago

And from that moment onwards the kid was always happy and healthy

Parmeisan
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9 months ago

She doesn't look happy, she looks tired - but that's fair, with what she's been through. She's healthy now and the happy will come soon. :)

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Lynn Morello
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9 months ago

Wonderful news.

Patzpie
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9 months ago

I’m not crying, you’re crying!!!😅☺️❤️

Stephanie IV
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9 months ago

My heart jumps with joy for you! Be blessed!

Dispatcherqueen
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9 months ago

Such a huge day!

Johanna-Nicollette Kidd
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9 months ago

Congratulations, anyone who has survived cancer+its treatment is very brave!

Diane Packard
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9 months ago

Yay!!

Danny Ruiz
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5 months ago

This makes me incredibly sad and happy. Only because I lost my younger brother to cancer but he was 70 years old. Makes me sad because cancer attacks such young innocent children that are full of life.

Bill Puka
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6 months ago

Fantastic!

Jackie Nettleton
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6 months ago

Congratulations I’m glad she beat it

Marisa Caputo
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8 months ago

Thank goodness. Congratulations!

BG Rey
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8 months ago

Awesome!

Gitta Landgraf
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9 months ago

Lots of hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jacqui Steward
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9 months ago

Yay!!!!!!!!!!

Kim Lorton
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9 months ago

Wow! Congratulations! May he always be free of cancer from now on!

Elaine Mattingly
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9 months ago

Only the child knows ALL that went into her ringing that bell. Prayers have been answered that she brought about with her strength, faith, determination and love. She didn't give up and only she and her family know what it took to survive. May the Lord bless her and her family and may they have days and nights of rest without worry and pain.

Bunny Lady
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9 months ago

Omg!!!! Amazing for you all! Sending big hugs! ❤️❤️

Marisa Caputo
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9 months ago

That is terrific. Congratulations, warrior princess.

Teri Campisi
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9 months ago

Congrats and have a wonderful life!

Mechelle Hailey
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9 months ago

Wonderful!

Sue Clasen
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9 months ago

Great achievement!

bernie spina
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9 months ago

Great news!!!

Zella Haesche
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9 months ago

👍🏼 big congrats to you young lady!

Joanna Kern
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9 months ago

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Valerie S. Mayer
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9 months ago

Yasssss!

Peter Beal
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9 months ago

Was there ever a more glorious sound? I think not.

Zosia Connaughton
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9 months ago

You badass!

backatya
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9 months ago

May she stay healthy the rest of her life

P Brixey
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9 months ago

Well done that child, may she live forever.

Susan Mercurio
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9 months ago

Wish I could upvote this 1000X!

Meg Needler
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9 months ago

Hallelujah! Congratulations!

Elizabeth Gardner
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9 months ago

how wonderful so very happy for you done well.

Julia Young
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9 months ago

💕

Becky Rademacher
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9 months ago

Cant express how happy I am for this young lady

Pat Wooster
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9 months ago

Now I am crying.

KAREN
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9 months ago

⭐💫🌠

Julieta S.
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9 months ago

Hugs!!!

Annie
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9 months ago

Wonderful news! So happy for her!

Julie McCann
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9 months ago

Congrats

Jeanne Clapper
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9 months ago

You rock!

Jo Ellen Washburn
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9 months ago

What a courageous, awesome kid!

Anne Julio Amaral Cordeiro
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9 months ago

💞

sharron lynn parsons
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9 months ago

God Bless you little girl, may you have a life of good health, and happiness !!!

Merilyn Horton
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9 months ago

Fantastic

TinTin
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9 months ago

i wish i could upvote 1000 times more! ❤️

Thomas Turnbull
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9 months ago

Wonderful news

Brenda Swann
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9 months ago

Bless you darling’. It’s been five years since I rang the bell. God bless a stunning beautiful future. 🥰💫💫💫

Bernardita Valdés
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9 months ago

KIDS SHOULD NEVER FCKIN EVER HAVE CANCER WTF THAT SHOULD BE AN ADULT ONLY S**T THEY DONT DESERVE THAT MONSTRUOSITY AT SUCH YOUNG AGES. congrats to aaaaaaaall those awsome brave kids who endured those fckin treatments and got rid of that pest and completed the game 100%. U all are the bestest of the best and deserve a happy life.

Mumal
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9 months ago

What a superhero!!!

Lauren
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9 months ago

Amen! I was so honored to be there last month when my best friend rang the bell. The nurses we able to bring it outside so all her friends and family could watch. One of the best days of my life.

Mingi Football
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9 months ago

That's wonderful!

Peter Liddle
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9 months ago

Fantastic news, great!

cursed--alien
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9 months ago

That kid is a survivor

Alison Vickery
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9 months ago

So happy she gets to ring that bell, it's such a victory for you all!!! She gets a future and you get to see your baby grow up, nothing but happiness there!!!

Hilzillah
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9 months ago

YAAAAAAAAAAAS!! The best Bell ring EVER!

Tizz2013
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9 months ago

Congratulations 👏😍

Sarah Grape
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9 months ago

what is the bell for?

Joshua Varela-Broska
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9 months ago

whats rang the bell mean

Susan Bosse
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9 months ago

Congrats, little one!!!

Jackie Nettleton
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9 months ago

Wonderful I hope they have beaten it for ever

Susan Russell
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9 months ago

Good for you.

Rens
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9 months ago

Fantastic news! What a warrior!

PuRPleDrAgON1
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9 months ago

YAY Congrats!!

Scherer Official
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9 months ago

Congratulations from Germany

Tinykame
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9 months ago

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Piet Puk
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9 months ago

Best sound ever!

Canlyn62
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9 months ago

WOOT!!!!

Madelyn Price
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9 months ago

Yayyy!

pusheen buttercup
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9 months ago

What does the bell mean? :)

Zena Marsh
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9 months ago

Good for you'!

John C
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9 months ago

I work in a cancer clinic (have worked in many, actually) and the bell thing is no more because: imagine being a patient with a poor prognosis - hearing that bell ring means a very different thing to those patients.

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#5

The Client Was Supposed To Wear This Dress For Their Session That Was Canceled, So I Asked My Husband's 87-Year-Old Grandma If She Wanted To Model The Dress For Me

The Client Was Supposed To Wear This Dress For Their Session That Was Canceled, So I Asked My Husband's 87-Year-Old Grandma If She Wanted To Model The Dress For Me

After a little hesitation, I convinced her to do it. I did her make-up, brushed her hair and put the dress on her, she was the happiest little old lady I’ve ever seen. She said she felt like she was a bride again and how she wished her husband was still on this earth with us so she could remarry him again. Btw, it was also her birthday, so it was the perfect little gift to up her spirits

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Princess Toadstool
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9 months ago

Your grandma is rocking it

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#6

The First Selfie My Grandpa Took With His New Phone

The First Selfie My Grandpa Took With His New Phone

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Lauren Caswell
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9 months ago

Squirrel: s**t, I wasn't ready for a photo!

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"Giving or doing things for others is another example. Relating is about being connected to other people and being part of a community. Duty and purpose don't have to be serious things, being part of a cause that you care about or taking part in charity fundraising, all these things make us happy and fulfilled. We should see these things as acts of service that help us to be happy and help other people at the same time. Awareness is about appreciating each moment no matter what we are doing at the time."

Sarah gave us some very tips on how to deal with our current feelings of isolation, burnout, and exhaustion. She also shared how we can rediscover our joy of living. First of all, she highlighted the fact that it's perfectly "ok not to be ok," since it's normal to feel isolated and burned out "during a traumatic experience like a pandemic." The key is not to punish yourself for struggling during these difficult times.

#7

The Very Last Message My Lil Girl Minnie Made Sure I Had Before She Passed Away This Year

The Very Last Message My Lil Girl Minnie Made Sure I Had Before She Passed Away This Year

Daddy can hear your voice every time I read this and I miss ya more than you'll ever know.

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Lauren Caswell
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9 months ago

Best reason for a tattoo ever

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#8

Today I Have 2 Years Sober From Fentanyl, Meth, Crack And Alcohol! This Is A Day I Felt Like I Would Never See, Definitely Smiling Today

Today I Have 2 Years Sober From Fentanyl, Meth, Crack And Alcohol! This Is A Day I Felt Like I Would Never See, Definitely Smiling Today

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Courtney Sych
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9 months ago

Amazing!

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#9

Spent The Second Half Of 2020 Homeless, NYE In A Mental Hospital, Then Caught Covid The Week I Was Released. Tonight Is My First Night In A Proper Bed, And I Built It Myself

Spent The Second Half Of 2020 Homeless, NYE In A Mental Hospital, Then Caught Covid The Week I Was Released. Tonight Is My First Night In A Proper Bed, And I Built It Myself

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WildHoneyPie
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9 months ago

Go you!

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"Don't be down on yourself for struggling, most people are in the same boat. If we admit that we are struggling we can start to take steps to get better. Don't suffer alone, talk to friends and family, let them know what's going on, and make time for meaningful conversations," Sarah from 'Action for Happiness' suggested that we open up to our loved ones more. However, that's not all.

"Start taking small steps to support your mental health and wellbeing. Are you getting the basics right? Eat healthy food, get enough sleep, and daily exercise. Take time for yourself, go outside and be in nature, notice the way the seasons are changing at the moment. Plan time in your diary to do something you love like creating art or music," she said.

#10

The French Welcome

The French Welcome

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Gin Marie
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9 months ago

This is wonderful.

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#11

8 Years Sober From Heroin Today And A Week Without Cigarettes (Though I'm Having Trouble). I Don't Have Anyone Really To Share With So Here I Am. Here's To The Future

8 Years Sober From Heroin Today And A Week Without Cigarettes (Though I'm Having Trouble). I Don't Have Anyone Really To Share With So Here I Am. Here's To The Future

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Gin Marie
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9 months ago

Good going!

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#12

Anxiously Awaiting Toy Retrieval

Anxiously Awaiting Toy Retrieval

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

Aww hugging also

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What's more, even though we might be feeling sapped and down, it's the perfect time to think about others, not just ourselves. "Think about how you can reach out and do things for others, help a neighbour or volunteer for a cause, we get happiness high from helping other people. Or start small and simply list three things that you can be grateful for each night before bed. Take it slow and be kind to yourself, the world is starting to open up but go at the pace that feels good for you," Sarah advised us how we can take the first steps to step out of the pandemic lockdown fog and into the sunlight.

#13

I Lost My Baby And Stranger From The Internet Made Me A Bear With The Same Size And Weight

I Lost My Baby And Stranger From The Internet Made Me A Bear With The Same Size And Weight

It is so beautiful to have a physical representation of my baby that I can hold and I am so thankful.

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rgr8
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9 months ago

beautiful!

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#14

Our Cat Had Kittens Two Days After We Had Our Baby Girl. This Kitten Climbs Into Her Lounger Whenever He Has The Chance. I Think These Two Were Destined To Be Best Buds

Our Cat Had Kittens Two Days After We Had Our Baby Girl. This Kitten Climbs Into Her Lounger Whenever He Has The Chance. I Think These Two Were Destined To Be Best Buds

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

Omg cuteness overload🥰🥰🥰

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#15

My Husband Passed Away 2 Weeks Ago And In The Garage Behind A Piece Of Paper Hanging On The Wall I Found This

My Husband Passed Away 2 Weeks Ago And In The Garage Behind A Piece Of Paper Hanging On The Wall I Found This

In the months before his passing he was unable to talk due to his brain cancer, so finding this note from him meant the world to me and is something I will cherish forever. We were married for 24 years. I hope this post inspires people to take time to leave little notes for their loved ones. The comfort they can give is priceless.

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Princess Toadstool
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9 months ago

I’m sorry for your loss

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Previously, I spoke about the relationship between helping others and happiness with Vanessa King, the Head of Psychology at ‘Action for Happiness,’ a movement that’s dedicated to creating a happier, more caring society. The Dalai Lama is the movement’s patron and King is the author of '10 Keys to Happier Living.'

King told Bored Panda that an important part of being happy is helping others and doing kind things for them.

"If you think about it human beings are social species, we evolved to live in groups so working together and doing things to help each other is the social glue that keeps us together,” King explained.

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Happy I Got The Happiest Photo With My Best Friend

Happy I Got The Happiest Photo With My Best Friend

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Mr. Derpy Dino
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9 months ago

omg its beautiful! I WANT ONE!(anyine have any clue what it is?)

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#17

Jamie Couldn't Play Sports Because He Has Cerebral Palsy, But The Team That He Works For As A Janitor Awarded Him A Ring

Jamie Couldn't Play Sports Because He Has Cerebral Palsy, But The Team That He Works For As A Janitor Awarded Him A Ring

"I'm not a player or coach, yet greatly enjoy serving the Greenwood football program as their janitor. I was humbled today as they shared their state championship with me by gifting me with a ring. What fun it is to be a Greenwood Bulldog!"

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Raine Soo
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9 months ago

Jamie seems like a great guy and good on the Greenwood Bulldogs for giving him a ring. It makes him feel like part of the team.

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#18

I And Two Coworkers Realized We Were Wearing The Same Coat. The Only Option Was To Zip Them Into One Three Person Coat

I And Two Coworkers Realized We Were Wearing The Same Coat. The Only Option Was To Zip Them Into One Three Person Coat

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Princess Toadstool
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9 months ago

Clever!

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"Participating in group activities and community events makes us happier too. When we do things for others it activates the reward center in the brain, so when we give a gift it feels the same as receiving a gift," King detailed to Bored Panda in an earlier interview.

Even if we’re not usually altruistic, King had some wonderful news for us: it’s a learned skill that we can develop step by small step. It all comes down to consistently working at it every day. “At Action for Happiness, we provide daily actions and advice on small changes you can take each day to start bringing more kindness into your life. Small daily actions one at a time can help us to make altruism a lifetime habit. You could start out small by deciding you are going to smile at everyone you meet or pay three people a compliment today."

#19

Retired Chemistry Teacher Bro. Martin Sellner Shared His Triumph Of Completing A Cross-Stitch Periodic Table After Two Decades Of Stitching

Retired Chemistry Teacher Bro. Martin Sellner Shared His Triumph Of Completing A Cross-Stitch Periodic Table After Two Decades Of Stitching

The 82-year-old Lasallian brother meticulously hand-stitched every inch of the 58" x 54" embroidery. ⁠

"The table and border took six years. Then finally the last nine elements were named by the IUPAC and I was able to complete it."

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Princess Toadstool
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9 months ago

Masterpiece!

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#20

I’ve Made A Commitment To Stay Sober And Take My Life Back. I’ve Made It 2.5 Days, Which Is The Longest Streak I Can Remember

I’ve Made A Commitment To Stay Sober And Take My Life Back. I’ve Made It 2.5 Days, Which Is The Longest Streak I Can Remember

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Gin Marie
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9 months ago

Bravo! Every journey starts out with one step.

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#21

My Father Meeting His First Grandson

My Father Meeting His First Grandson

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

Aww

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There are other ways to develop your altruistic inclinations, too. For instance, giving money to charity, donating to a food bank, or volunteering your time for a cause that you think is worth it. “You can leave a food package or a note for an elderly neighbor,” King from ‘Action for Happiness’ said.

“All of these actions help others and boost your own happiness and if we are happier, research shows we are even more likely to help others.”

There’s some more good news on the altruistic front. We know that not everyone is willing to help others purely out of the goodness of their heart: they’re constantly thinking about what they get out of it. Fortunately, King told us that it’s perfectly fine to “fake it ‘till you make it” and not worry too much about whether you’re actually being self-interested or kind.

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The Late Great Black Panther Chadwick Boseman Visiting And Making The Absolute Day Of Cancer-Stricken Kids In The Hospital, All The While Quietly Battling The Same Disease

The Late Great Black Panther Chadwick Boseman Visiting And Making The Absolute Day Of Cancer-Stricken Kids In The Hospital, All The While Quietly Battling The Same Disease

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

Rip😥😥

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#23

We Fed Our Backyard Squirrel ONCE... Meet Frankie At Our Backyard Door Waiting For More Nuts

We Fed Our Backyard Squirrel ONCE... Meet Frankie At Our Backyard Door Waiting For More Nuts

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

Hello? Anyone inside?

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#24

My Great Grandma, Who Turned 103 On Valentine’s Day, Laughing With My 2-Month-Old Daughter

My Great Grandma, Who Turned 103 On Valentine’s Day, Laughing With My 2-Month-Old Daughter

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Equine_Ravenclaw_Directioner
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9 months ago

Precious!

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“Maybe at first, you start out doing things to help others only to get attention and praise, but you will find that doing things for others helps you feel good and when you see people’s responses. Once you see the difference you can make in the world and to your own happiness and altruism can grow naturally," the Head of Psychology at ‘Action for Happiness’ said.

Kindness, according to King, has a ripple effect. We’re more likely to be kind when we experience kindness in turn. So helping even one person with a seemingly trivial task can have a knock-on effect that’s far bigger than we initially think.

#25

Our Daughter Wasn’t Eating For Weeks Due To The Effects Of Chemo And Being Very Sick. Finally Home From The Hospital, I Made Spaghetti And She Finally Would Eat

Our Daughter Wasn’t Eating For Weeks Due To The Effects Of Chemo And Being Very Sick. Finally Home From The Hospital, I Made Spaghetti And She Finally Would Eat

Celebrating small victories here

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

Hope she is healthy and strong soon!!

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#26

This Little Guy Came To Say Hello While Walking My Pup This Morning. Am I Officially A Disney Princess?

This Little Guy Came To Say Hello While Walking My Pup This Morning. Am I Officially A Disney Princess?

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Lunar Bicycle
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9 months ago

House Finch! I love these guys.

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#27

My Dad Was Worried My Deafblind Dog Wouldn’t Recognize Him After A Year Of Quarantine But I Think She Did

My Dad Was Worried My Deafblind Dog Wouldn’t Recognize Him After A Year Of Quarantine But I Think She Did

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

They never forget🥰🥰🥰

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It’s best to do kind things without expecting anything in return. First of all, because it’s the morally correct way of living life. But secondly, because of one very practical aspect: we can never be sure that we’ll be rewarded for our troubles, so it’s best to have very low expectations (or none at all!) so that we’re not left feeling disappointed.

"It may also be helpful for the person to think about why they are seeking attention and reward from an external source, a key part of being happy is feeling comfortable with who you are and accepting life the way it is,” King suggested.

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Forgiveness Can Actually Heal Us. He Got His Life Back. May We Find It In Our Hearts To Forgive Those Who Are Truly Sorry And Need Us To Free Them

Forgiveness Can Actually Heal Us. He Got His Life Back. May We Find It In Our Hearts To Forgive Those Who Are Truly Sorry And Need Us To Free Them

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Vicky Z
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9 months ago

It's hard but so true

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#29

Becoming Mothers Together

Becoming Mothers Together

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Princess Toadstool
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9 months ago

Awww

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#30

I’ve Been Biking To Work In The Cold Every Morning, My Coworker Noticed And She Made Me This Scarf And Beanie

I’ve Been Biking To Work In The Cold Every Morning, My Coworker Noticed And She Made Me This Scarf And Beanie

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rgr8
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9 months ago

matches the coat!

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She continued: “I’d suggest that the person taking time to build up their self-care to become happier and more resilient. Perhaps start with a personal gratitude practice to appreciate what they already have in life, writing down three things each day that we are grateful for can boost happiness.”

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Elementary School Kids Raised Over $7000 To Buy Their Janitor A Car, Whose Commute Was 4 Hours Long On 3 Different Buses

Elementary School Kids Raised Over $7000 To Buy Their Janitor A Car, Whose Commute Was 4 Hours Long On 3 Different Buses

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I I
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9 months ago

heart warming stuff

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#32

Twitter Can Be The Cutest App Ever

Twitter Can Be The Cutest App Ever

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LuckyL
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9 months ago

That's so sweet

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#33

A Factory In Turkey Started To Produce Roof Tiles That Serve As Bird Shelters

A Factory In Turkey Started To Produce Roof Tiles That Serve As Bird Shelters

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kasa alex
Community Member
9 months ago

I want one of these! How wonderful

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#34

My 10-Year Cancer-Versary: Full Circle From Cancer Patient To Oncology PA Working In The Same Clinic That Cured Me

My 10-Year Cancer-Versary: Full Circle From Cancer Patient To Oncology PA Working In The Same Clinic That Cured Me

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Susan Green
Community Member
9 months ago

Damn! Good for you!!

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#35

Lost 200 Pounds In A Year. Just Did The 20:4 Fast And Walked ~5 Km Every Day (360 Lbs To 160 Lbs)

Lost 200 Pounds In A Year. Just Did The 20:4 Fast And Walked ~5 Km Every Day (360 Lbs To 160 Lbs)

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Vicky Z
Community Member
9 months ago

Wow great job

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#36

My Son's Gymnastics Teammate Didn't Get Any Medals, So He Offered One Of His. "But I Didn't Earn It", His Friend Said. My Son Replied "You Earned It By Being My Best Friend"

My Son's Gymnastics Teammate Didn't Get Any Medals, So He Offered One Of His. "But I Didn't Earn It", His Friend Said. My Son Replied "You Earned It By Being My Best Friend"

Made me tear up, what a good little man.

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Princess Toadstool
Community Member
9 months ago

That’s a lot of medals!

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#37

Some Kids Made A Stick Pile For Dogs Walking By

Some Kids Made A Stick Pile For Dogs Walking By

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The Cheshire Cat
Community Member
9 months ago

Aww, those kids are gonna make some doggos very happy indeed! <3

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#38

My Dad Poured A Trail Of Salt From My Vehicle To The Front Door Of My Work Building So That I, His 38-Year-Old Daughter, Wouldn’t Slip And Fall On The Ice

My Dad Poured A Trail Of Salt From My Vehicle To The Front Door Of My Work Building So That I, His 38-Year-Old Daughter, Wouldn’t Slip And Fall On The Ice

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Vicky Z
Community Member
9 months ago

That is so sweet!!

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#39

A Very Awesome Mom

A Very Awesome Mom

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Vicky Z
Community Member
9 months ago

Teaching the importance of saving money

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#40

Sweet Rat

Sweet Rat

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rgr8
Community Member
9 months ago

I want to give my rat pasta now!

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#41

Remember Me? The White Blood Cell Immunotherapy Girl? Well, Update: It Worked. Stage 4 To No Cancer In 3 Months! Science Is Magic

Remember Me? The White Blood Cell Immunotherapy Girl? Well, Update: It Worked. Stage 4 To No Cancer In 3 Months! Science Is Magic

Zero evidence of disease at 3mo scan, and staying that way. 

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Princess Toadstool
Community Member
9 months ago

Congrats!!

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#42

Little Victories

Little Victories

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rgr8
Community Member
9 months ago

a very big victory!

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#43

Little Boy Receives His "Salary" From Wholesome Electricians

Little Boy Receives His "Salary" From Wholesome Electricians

"Possibly the sweetest act of kindness I’ve seen. Family had electricians in every week for the past 6 weeks and their little boy was obsessed with them. He hounded them with questions, kindness and constant offers to help!"

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Raine Soo
Community Member
9 months ago

This is lovely. My mom remembers me being about 3 years old, and badgering the house painter whilst he worked. Apparently, I was quite the chatterbox.

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#44

She's Just So Happy

She's Just So Happy

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Bardhi's Dad
Community Member
9 months ago

Nice photo!

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#45

Every Morning, Our Cat Patiently Waits At My Sons' Bedroom Door For Them To Wake Up. And It's Not To Be Fed - He Just Can't Wait To See Them

Every Morning, Our Cat Patiently Waits At My Sons' Bedroom Door For Them To Wake Up. And It's Not To Be Fed - He Just Can't Wait To See Them

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Princess Toadstool
Community Member
9 months ago

I have that same wall decal!

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#46

So This Happened To Me Today

So This Happened To Me Today

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Lauren Caswell
Community Member
9 months ago

'Sup

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#47

The Whole Family Lost Weight By Working Out Together

The Whole Family Lost Weight By Working Out Together

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Vicky Z
Community Member
9 months ago

Wow!!! In my family we are all putting on weight together😭😭

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#48

An Act Of Kindness

An Act Of Kindness

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Vicky Z
Community Member
9 months ago

Perfect

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#49

Adorable Meetings

Adorable Meetings

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River Webb
Community Member
9 months ago

both girls seem to adore him

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#50

The Firefighters That Helped Deliver Our Baby In Our Driveway Last Week Just Dropped Off Flowers

The Firefighters That Helped Deliver Our Baby In Our Driveway Last Week Just Dropped Off Flowers