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Article created by: Austėja Akavickaitė

To put it simply, gatekeeping is an act when someone takes it upon themselves to decide who does or does not have access or rights to a community or identity ("You can't be a real Phoebe Bridgers fan, you just discovered her. Real fans follow her since at least Stranger in the Alps.") If this sounds ridiculous to you, don't worry. You're not alone.

There's a subreddit called r/GatesOpenComeOnIn and it describes itself as the polar opposite of gatekeeping. Created in 2018, this online community collects and shares pictures of wholesome acts of kindness when people had each other's backs. Whether it's encouraging everyone to share their Spotify Wrapped or simply allowing someone to feel tired, it doesn't take much to acknowledge another person's emotions, thoughts, experiences, values, and beliefs. Continue scrolling and check out how it's done.

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Halloween For Everyone!

Group of kids dressed as secret service agents showing wholesome support and having each other's backs online in a creative way.

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    Come On In And Long As You’re Nice

    Church sign promoting kindness and understanding, illustrating people having each other's backs online in a wholesome way.

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    #3

    Everybody Say Thank You To Andy

    Twitter exchange showing online support as one user invites everyone to celebrate Lunar New Year, highlighting wholesome online moments.

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    #4

    Gates Open Slide On In!

    Pug playing on a small slide, showing wholesome moments of people having each other's backs online.

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    #5

    Read Whatever You Want

    Tumblr post showing a wholesome online exchange about a funny and supportive list of books to read.

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    #6

    Shout Out To The Solo Eaters

    Two tweets showing wholesome online support with one highlighting loneliness and the other praising confidence in public dining.

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    #7

    Do What Makes You Happy For You

    Tweet promoting wholesome online support, encouraging enjoyment of hobbies without pressure to monetize, highlighting online kindness.

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    #8

    Unexpected Pet

    Muscular man adopts a small animal from shelter, showing wholesome support and care in a heartwarming online moment.

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    #9

    Family Is A Family Is A Family

    Tweet discussing the definition of family with wholesome support and people having each other's backs online.

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    #10

    Southern Hospitality

    Young man smiling and holding a sign about southern hospitality welcoming immigrants, showing people having each other's backs online.

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    #11

    Anyone Can Be Tired!

    Tweet by Mike Reynolds offering supportive words about exhaustion and rest, showcasing wholesome online support and people having each other's backs.

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    #12

    Never Too Late To Join A Movement

    Two people respectfully discussing Black Lives Matter, showing support and understanding in an online wholesome interaction.

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    #13

    Felt Like This Might Belong Here

    Screenshot of a tweet appreciating people who laugh hard at their own jokes, showing wholesome online support.

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    #14

    It's The Thought That Counts

    Professor with face paint and red hat teaching a class, showing wholesome moments of people having each other's backs online.

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    #15

    Never Too Late For New Beginnings

    Tweet about overcoming trauma in teen and early 20s years, showing people having each other’s backs online in a wholesome way.

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    #16

    We Are All Nerds Together

    Text post about people sharing deep knowledge on hobbies and interests, showing wholesome online support and having each other's backs.

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    #17

    Does This Truck Count?

    Pickup truck with a rainbow flag message supporting pride month, showing people having each other's backs online in a wholesome way.

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    #18

    Good Guy Owner

    Sign offering free food and water to those in need, showing people having each other's backs online in a wholesome way.

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    #19

    Hi Milly

    Social media post showing wholesome support as people have each other's backs with kind comments and encouragement.

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    #20

    Stress Relief

    Tweet encouraging people to enjoy things freely without stress, showing wholesome online support and kindness.

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    #21

    Money Is Power, But Also Not

    Tweet showing support for working people celebrating each other's wins in a wholesome online moment.

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    #22

    Better Late Than Never

    Twitter conversation showing wholesome online support about returning to college and overcoming challenges together.

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    #23

    Oh Thank You

    Sign at a private dock inviting people to sit and enjoy the view, showing wholesome online support and kindness.

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    #24

    Gay Pride Can Be Whatever You Want/Need It To Be

    Illustration of a rainbow-colored turtle partially inside its shell with the text about support and readiness, showing online wholesomeness.

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    #25

    Friendly Encouragement

    Tweet encouraging support and understanding online, showing people having each other's backs in a wholesome way.

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    #26

    Ok Zoomer

    Three people sitting on a bench using smartphones in a museum, showing people had each other's backs online wholesomely.

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    #27

    They Had Us In The First Half

    Tweet from user God humorously defining marriage, showcasing people having each other's backs online in a wholesome way.

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    #28

    I Love Sharing My Book Collection

    Tweet about encouraging kindness and support in reading, showcasing people having each other's backs online in a wholesome way.

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    #29

    Just Flush

    Two colorful restroom doors with inclusive gender and disability symbols representing people having each other's backs online.

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    #30

    Speak Everything

    Fence with graffiti showing multiple languages spoken, highlighting a wholesome online community response to xenophobia.

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    #31

    Learning Is Awesome

    Tweet explaining the difference between Science Fiction and Fantasy, showing people having each other's backs online in a wholesome way.

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    #32

    Read What You Love

    Tweet encouraging readers who love contemporary fiction, showing wholesome online support and people having each other's backs.

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    #33

    You’re Doing Just Fine

    Encouraging message about quarantine struggles, emphasizing support and people having each other's backs online in a wholesome way.

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    #34

    Blake Knows What's Up

    Text message exchange showing wholesome support as one person embraces being a nonbinary adult with kindness online.

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    #35

    Gonna Remember Who Spoke To Me And Who Didn’t

    Tweet by Thomas Ridgewell reflecting on remembering friends who offered support during lockdown, showcasing online wholesomeness and backing.

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    #36

    Accept Everyone And Respect Their Decisions Y’all

    Tweet showing a wholesome online exchange supporting trans people with respect and kindness, highlighting having each other's backs.

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    #37

    Do Whatever Makes You Happy

    Tweet encouraging kindness and support online, showing people having each other's backs in the most wholesome way.

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