Determining whether or not someone is a lousy person isn't easy. Most people have the capacity for good and bad behavior.
When we're judging others, Dr. Maury Joseph, a psychologist in Washington, D.C., says we must consider the context of their actions.
"If a person makes the only choice available to them, based on their developmental history, the prejudices of the country in which they were born, and their current environment, does that make them bad?" Joseph asks.
Everyone has a backstory that explains why they act a certain way. Can we convict them without it? Let's do a test.
Here's a list of situations in which the internet (most notably, this subreddit) thought individuals proved themselves to be rotten from the inside. Upvote the ones you agree with and let's see if there are deeds that don't need the context Maury Joseph was talking about to earn you some pretty nasty labels.
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Karma Is A B*tch
Very nice! :D So that's what assholes look like, who never learned a decent job and need to blackmail people to make a living.
He Spent 20 Years Breeding A Super-Bee That Could Survive Attacks From Mites That Kill Millions Of Bees Worldwide
In a 2018 research paper, psychologists M. Moshagen, B. E. Hilbig, and I. Zettler suggest that what they call "D," or the dark factor of personality, lies at the root of unethical or cruel behavior.
D-factor traits include narcissism and psychopathy, along with:
- sadism
- spitefulness
- self-interest
- entitlement
- moral disengagement
- egoism
All of these traits imply that someone will pursue their own interests at the expense of others.
Stealing From A Disabled Man
That is absolutely horrible. Im so sorry you had to experience such assholeness
How Terrible Of A Person Do You Have To Be To Do This
Falsifying Results To Save Money - Impacting How Many Families?!
Maybe you’ve noticed some D-factor traits not only in these pictures but in your behavior as well. However, that does not automatically make you a bad person.
Many of the choices you make affect people besides yourself, so before you do something (especially if you have doubts about whether it’s the right thing to do), it's wise to stop and consider whether your action might hurt someone else.
Passing on a workplace rumor to your boss, for example, could make you look good, but it certainly won’t help your coworker — especially if the rumor turns out to be a lie.
But if you don't care about the potential impact as long as you benefit, or you have a hard time considering consequences for others, you might want to explore your personality a bit deeper.
This Is Exactly Why I Hate Seaworld
When Not Even Your Own Spouse Dying From Covid Will Convince To Change Your Habits And Keep Safe...
There are people who really, truly don't get it. My dad is a hospital chaplain. He's had patients with COVID who don't believe they have COVID. He's had other patients die of COVID and furious family members unwilling to accept that COVID killed their family member. It's ridiculous and sad. Get vaccinated. Social distance. Wear your mask. This s**t is real. Protect yourself and those you care about.
If You’re A Parent And Let Your Kids Make A Mess Like This Then You’re A Piece Of Sh**
I'm sorry to the staff that have to clean this up. I mean, the parents could leave a reasonable tip to try and make your night/day better whilst cleaning this up..
Or just... not let thier kids do this in the first place? I have never left a restaurant table or floor looking like this and I've dined out with my kids plenty.
Load More Replies...This doesnt look too bad and Im talking from the perspective of someone who works in a cafe and not a parent
I agree. As both a parent and a former server, the table looks pretty standard. The floor is messy because it looks like they had one, maybe two, little ones. Most servers understand that little ones are extra-messy. It's what they do. What I hope this family did was tip extra for the mess. I always did when my kids were young and most parents I served usually did.
Load More Replies...To be fair, kids in highchairs are messy monsters BUT yes, LEAVE a HUGE tip and do your best to tidy somewhat. We had a toddler totally barf on a table... We left a huge tip and apologies
Oh just clean it up, it's not that bad. Most of it's on the table. The food on the floor is from the toddler, and anyone who doesn't understand that this is just what happens with toddlers is either childfree or a very cruel parent. Yes, the mum could crawl around on her hands and knees picking it up with her fingers, or the paid staff with the equipment could clean it up. Yes, that's a mess, and no I wouldn't leave a table like that, but seriously, compared to some of the heartbreaking stories on here, an employee complaining when their job gets a bit challenging is just annoying. They need to get a grip or a different job (I have also worked in hospitality and cleaned up after people).
I’m ex McDonalds and same, and I say this as someone who doesn’t want kids.
Load More Replies...Obviously not a single one of you shamers has young children and knows how hard it can be to take them out to eat and keep the place spick and span. When we take our toddler out and he does this we always apologize profusely, we do our best to clean up his mess, and always leave a generous tip as apology. Shame on the rest of you for what you don't know.
I saw something similar to this just a month ago at the local Denny's. The father just let the kid dance around and actually eat his food without a fork including the brat putting his face into the place and picking up the food with his mouth and the little bastard would drop it on the table or floor and he was just looking at his phone most of the time. The little bastard would not sit down and wandered around. He was NOT some toddler, he was around 10 or 11. THEY were sitting less than ten feet from us. The waitress even tried to clean up while the little asshole was dropping food on the floor and all the father said was thanks and went back to his phone and I just wanted to scream. I was going to say something when we left but he left before us. The little bastard just left a mess. I asked the waitress if they left a big tip. She said they put $1 on the bill for a tip and then we saw the syrup all over the table as we walked by. My brother and I left he an extra ten on top of the twenty percent we always leave.
This reminds of my first babysitting job at 14, a couple wanted to go to the movies, fed their kids, the kitchen was worse then this, I had to clean this up and the 3 kids before they came home in 3 hours, got 3$ an hour
Saw a similar scene in a public park after a kid's birthday! Balloons and plastic cups everywhere. Honestly broke my heart
Karen: When the waiter forgets one sauce packet out of 10 vs when her kid wrecks the restaurant. I’m sure you can imagine what her facial expressions would be.
Used to wait tables in high school. THAT is nothing compared to some of the messes I have seen. Dirty diapers on the table, broken dishes, etc. Ugh
Years ago I was a waiter, and a family of four(mom, dad, son, daughter) suddenly got up and left right after finishing their food. The daughter came up to me as the other three were leaving, said "We're sorry...", handing me a wad of cash, and quickly left with her family. The cash was almost twice the bill, which was great, but I was confused until I started clearing the table: The son had vomited ALL over... at least I got a good tip :D
To be honest my nephew probably would have made about the same amount of mess as a toddler. He was a very sweet and well behaved child but he's always been a really messy eater. What makes the parents in this situation bad is the fact that they made no attempt to tidy up the mess, My sister always requested a dustpan and brush to tidy up when we were done and my nephew knows to pick up dropped food and stack his plate now he's older.
Manager should AUTOMATICALLY impose the MANDATORY TIP for THIS level of disrespect!!! Put a notice on the wall BESIDE the one indicating Mandatory tips for groups of 8 or more!
I know it will never be a popular opinion, and could never actually be done...but for years I've felt that there should be a space for restaurants to apply a cleaning charge to your bill if the server sees this sort of thing. The time employees spend cleaning up after you is taking them away from duties helping others, and should be compensated. Mostly, I just believe it would impact anyone selfish enough to leave their table like this into also being the type to feel it's not worth losing a few bucks and take a couple seconds to be a human being
Well, kids tend to imitate their parents. It's not like parents were any better, they left mess on the table.
No respect for other people. I'm afraid I would ban them from eating in the establishment , they wouldn't be much of a loss!!!!
The one thing I hated about working at the Black Eyed Pea was parents with toddlers who only wanted CORNBREAD instead of our rolls....I knew I'd have to clean this mess up...
Those people are everywhere. They never learned to be a grown up person, so they teach there kids.
If they do this in public, I'd hate to see what their house looks like. Disgusting and disrespectful.
It looks like most of the mess was on the parent's side. Judging on where the credit card holder is.
This phenomenon has been happening since restaurants were invented. Social media is making it more visible to those who would never allow this, and make the parents out to be the problem. Ever see the kitchen at home after young ones have dinner? Society expecting perfection is the problem. Perfection does not exist and those who make this a big deal need to walk a mile in their shoes.
Maybe they did not have any time to help it. However I hope they left a big tip.
Do you really think that was a reason for being pigs?
Load More Replies...A good follow-up question to ask yourself would be "do you take time to consider the emotions of people around you in everyday life?"
Showing interest in the well-being of others is vital to maintaining interpersonal relationships. And it usually doesn’t take much to demonstrate that you care. It's often enough just to offer emotional support or a listening ear.
But if you feel indifferent, or if you believe others deserve the distress they experience, you might benefit from talking to a therapist.
This Kid Will Never Live This Photo Down
This is how children react when they're caught with their hand in the cookie jar
Absolute Human Waste
Still Hasn't Been Turned In
Or just sue the delivery company for leaving your medicines unattended at your door. In the Netherlands it's quite common for delivery people to ask neighbors if they can leave packages for other people. Why wouldn't you do that for your neighbors?
This Is Beyond Stupid
The Person Who Did This
How Dare My Dying Father Live Out The Rest Of His Life!??!?!
This Chinese Policeman Arresting A Medic Helping Wounded Protesters In Hong Kong
Ashton Kutcher Took A Photo Of A Paparazzo Camping Outside His 2 Year Old’s Daycare Trying To Get Photos Of The Toddler
Just Discrediting Someone's Death Because Of The Brain Dead Narrative You Believe
Some A-Hole Abandoned This Poor Tiny Baby In Our Stuffed Animal Bin At My Workplace Last Night
that poor kitten - how awful do you have to be to do something like that.
My Son Is Asthmatic And Is Very Unwell Currently. We Pay To Get Milk/Eggs/Bread Delivered 3 Times A Week And Everyday This Week Someone Has Stolen This Before 7am
Goldman Sachs Asking The Real Questions
MacBook Jerk
People Queuing For Up To 6 Hours To Get A Covid Test And Police Think It’s Acceptable Behaviour To Fine Them 100s Of Dollars For Looking At Their Phones
Really doubt if the fines will stand up in court. You're not allowed to hold a mobile device when you're driving, but in most countries it's perfectly legal to use it when you're stationary. Like when you're waiting for a traffic light or when you're trapped in a congestion.
This Must Be So Emotionally Hard To Go Through
"She's Around 11 And Im Just Tired Of Her To Be Honest"
Bumblebee Didn’t Want To Be In Their Possession
I Wish There Were Stronger Drunk Driving Laws
Wrong Car
Graffiti "Artist" Trashes The Work Of A Well Known Cartoonist Who Was Recently Invited To Paint A Mural In Mexico
Poor Sarah, her work is millions of miles better than that rubbish on top of it
This Person Who Refuses To Return My Friend's Dog
This person who stole the dog can rot in hell. The dog is obviously depressed, I feel so bad for the the person who it got stolen from 😭😭😭
Hospital Worker Uses Dead Patients Bank Card To Buy Snacks
Pastor Who Begged His Followers To Send Him Their Stimulus Checks And Almost Backed Over A Protester Is Bailed Out By His Wife
Putting Gum In The Charging Slots On Public Transport...
The "Beautiful" Town Of Harrison In Arkansas
During An Active Shooting
A Former Teacher Of Mine Publicly Ridiculing And Passing Judgement On Someone For Being Proud Of Their Sobriety
What?
Mr F Thinks It's Unfair That His Wife Doesn't Want To Get Tortured For His Pleasure
Serial Killer In The Making
If people would put their ingenuity toward something positive imagine how great the world would be.
"My Son Must Have A £25k Car As A Present, It's An Emergency"
So Many Wrong Cars In This List
I Guess I’ll Eat Somewhere Else?
During a flood, a jeep drove by to rescue people and stopped to pick up a man. The jeep offered to help him evacuate, but the man said, "No thanks, God will help me, I have faith." As the flood worsened, a boat came along and made the same offer, but this time also, the man refused. "God will take care of me." The flood worsened even more, and the man had to climb up to the roof of a building. A helicopter came by, and its pilots tried to convince the man to grab onto the rope ladder. The man went, "Yes, the flood is higher, but I know God will save me." In a shocking turn of events, the man drowned to death, and ended up at the gates of heaven. "You betrayed me, God. I had faith in You yet I died." God replied, "I sent you a jeep, a boat, and a helicopter. What else could I have done for you?"
Woman Leaves Out Poison For Animals That Are “Trespassing”
Imagine Being This Spoilt, Sometime Didn't Get You Anything On Christmas So You Spend A S**t Ton Of Their Money, I Hope The Dude Wasn't Broke
Umm, someone tell this genius she bought the wrong case for that iPhone and also what in the name of f**k is SKOOL LUV AFFAIR?! lmao
Regardless Of How You Feel Politically, Actions Like These Show How Little Some People Give A S**t About Others
People Want Things To Get Back To Normal Hey, Screw Em'
What An Ask
Entitled Kid Thinks Being Pregnant Isn't An Excuse For Him To Move
Entitled Rich Kid Asks For Birthday Money
Charging 6x The Price For Hoarded Gas
My Friend Asks Us To Donate Money Towards Her Temporary Car She’ll Use For Year Until Her Dad Buys Her A Cadillac. She Doesn’t Even Have A Permit. Shortly After This She Left Our Group Chat And Made A Post On How Annoying People Are. Blue Is Her And Green Is The Other Person In Our Group Chat
Lazy as hell. AND what is with the bad English? I swear the language is getting harder to understand in some parts of my city. No clue what they ae saying and now they want daddy to buy them a new Caddy? WTF.
Reading through this was a mistake. It made me so angry >:[ People can be so trashy..
You and me both! We don’t need this crap right now.
Load More Replies...I gave up at number 8, just made me angry. The behaviour is absolutely disgusting, these people should be ashamed of themselves. Unlikely that they are though.
Usually people who do stuff like can barely be considered human.
Load More Replies...Those are bad, but today I read about 3 boys that pushed a man in front of a tram in Den Haag yestetday. The man died. I don't know if there was an argument or something but wtf... why...
And it's getting worse. Their self-worth-overestimation is showing and it's killing people.
Load More Replies...How about the train full of assholes who took pictures while a woman was actively being raped in front of them on the train yesterday? https://www.cnn.com/2021/10/18/us/philadelphia-train-rape/index.html
I saw a headline about that & couldn't read it, I get too enraged. I did see that the police are looking for the witnesses who did nothing to help & the witness could be charged with aiding & abetting. I sure hope so.
Load More Replies...And now I'm wondering (afger reading the first three) why exactly I want to save human lives... Should've been a veterinarian.
Please stay in there, Leo - there are a lot more of us good people out here with common sense, dignity, and empathy who need people like you than there are a**holes - the problem is the a**holes get clicks & are more visible.
Load More Replies...It's amazing how people can harness all this energy for evil, but can't redirect it for the good of humanity. We could be such a better world. 😢
This made me sad and angry at the same time. Some people suck beyond measure
All these people need to eat a rat poison sandwich and down it all with liquid nitrogen
Dear Bored Panda, avoid this type of posts, as a person who struggles with sadness and depression, I come to this space to enjoy, laugh a little and forget about how ugly the world and people really are. Thank you 🐼😽💋
The title makes it pretty clear what the article's about. I know it can be hard not to click, especially when you're wallowing, but it's probably worth it.
Load More Replies...I have suddenly discovered a great use for Australia's gympie tree. Need to plant me a valley of those and push some people in there.
This whole f*****g thread is just the worst. Not being able to do s**t about any of it sucks. Where the f**k is Batman???
Fuming!!! What is wrong with people? I have never gotten so angry at a feed before.
I just want to punch all these people right now in the pictures. Theya are just so horrible 😫
It's times like these I get the feeling the world will burn and am actually glad I am not immortal.
After reading these, I want to install a 3-meter-tall fence around my entire property and never leave again.
I cried for the victims of these horrible acts and for the people that committed them who must lead miserable lives. I'm not perfect, and I feel contrition for my mistakes. I hope my actions never end up on a list like this. I prayed the Divine Mercy chaplet after I read this: "For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world."
Sorry boredpanda collected these abominations... what had been a lovely, up light experience- as boredpanda had until now only showing uplifting stuff, this post crashed all! Why? Is not there enough horrors in our world already? If we want to see stuff like this, there are millions of sites to go! Very sad boredpanda... very sad you turned into one.
I stopped reading at the 4th post. I'm already disappointed in society in a broad scope and this wasn't helping.
well....i am going to go read www.goodnewsnetwork.org and www.happyeconews.com to recover.
Couldn't read past the 4th post, some people deserve the worst life possible.
Just saying... I agree with all of Eva the Egg's comments :D perfectly said. Rot in hell motherf&#*s
I've told this story before but this collection of the worst of humanity brought it to mind again. About 10 years ago, I was homeless and sleeping in a tent. I would hide it by a wooded area on some parkland and return when night fell to set it up. One night I arrived, found my tent at the same spot I had left it and started to put it up. That's when it became clear that someone had carefully slit long holes all along it, rendering it useless. Some people had obviously seen me take the tent down and stash it, and they thought it would be hilarious not only to destroy my home, but to be sly and wreck it unobtrusively and put it back, just to further mess with me. Not ashamed to say I cried like a baby that night lol. All faith in humanity was destroyed. For a long time
Reading through this was a mistake. It made me so angry >:[ People can be so trashy..
You and me both! We don’t need this crap right now.
Load More Replies...I gave up at number 8, just made me angry. The behaviour is absolutely disgusting, these people should be ashamed of themselves. Unlikely that they are though.
Usually people who do stuff like can barely be considered human.
Load More Replies...Those are bad, but today I read about 3 boys that pushed a man in front of a tram in Den Haag yestetday. The man died. I don't know if there was an argument or something but wtf... why...
And it's getting worse. Their self-worth-overestimation is showing and it's killing people.
Load More Replies...How about the train full of assholes who took pictures while a woman was actively being raped in front of them on the train yesterday? https://www.cnn.com/2021/10/18/us/philadelphia-train-rape/index.html
I saw a headline about that & couldn't read it, I get too enraged. I did see that the police are looking for the witnesses who did nothing to help & the witness could be charged with aiding & abetting. I sure hope so.
Load More Replies...And now I'm wondering (afger reading the first three) why exactly I want to save human lives... Should've been a veterinarian.
Please stay in there, Leo - there are a lot more of us good people out here with common sense, dignity, and empathy who need people like you than there are a**holes - the problem is the a**holes get clicks & are more visible.
Load More Replies...It's amazing how people can harness all this energy for evil, but can't redirect it for the good of humanity. We could be such a better world. 😢
This made me sad and angry at the same time. Some people suck beyond measure
All these people need to eat a rat poison sandwich and down it all with liquid nitrogen
Dear Bored Panda, avoid this type of posts, as a person who struggles with sadness and depression, I come to this space to enjoy, laugh a little and forget about how ugly the world and people really are. Thank you 🐼😽💋
The title makes it pretty clear what the article's about. I know it can be hard not to click, especially when you're wallowing, but it's probably worth it.
Load More Replies...I have suddenly discovered a great use for Australia's gympie tree. Need to plant me a valley of those and push some people in there.
This whole f*****g thread is just the worst. Not being able to do s**t about any of it sucks. Where the f**k is Batman???
Fuming!!! What is wrong with people? I have never gotten so angry at a feed before.
I just want to punch all these people right now in the pictures. Theya are just so horrible 😫
It's times like these I get the feeling the world will burn and am actually glad I am not immortal.
After reading these, I want to install a 3-meter-tall fence around my entire property and never leave again.
I cried for the victims of these horrible acts and for the people that committed them who must lead miserable lives. I'm not perfect, and I feel contrition for my mistakes. I hope my actions never end up on a list like this. I prayed the Divine Mercy chaplet after I read this: "For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world."
Sorry boredpanda collected these abominations... what had been a lovely, up light experience- as boredpanda had until now only showing uplifting stuff, this post crashed all! Why? Is not there enough horrors in our world already? If we want to see stuff like this, there are millions of sites to go! Very sad boredpanda... very sad you turned into one.
I stopped reading at the 4th post. I'm already disappointed in society in a broad scope and this wasn't helping.
well....i am going to go read www.goodnewsnetwork.org and www.happyeconews.com to recover.
Couldn't read past the 4th post, some people deserve the worst life possible.
Just saying... I agree with all of Eva the Egg's comments :D perfectly said. Rot in hell motherf&#*s
I've told this story before but this collection of the worst of humanity brought it to mind again. About 10 years ago, I was homeless and sleeping in a tent. I would hide it by a wooded area on some parkland and return when night fell to set it up. One night I arrived, found my tent at the same spot I had left it and started to put it up. That's when it became clear that someone had carefully slit long holes all along it, rendering it useless. Some people had obviously seen me take the tent down and stash it, and they thought it would be hilarious not only to destroy my home, but to be sly and wreck it unobtrusively and put it back, just to further mess with me. Not ashamed to say I cried like a baby that night lol. All faith in humanity was destroyed. For a long time