30 Wildly Expensive Things These Adults Thought Were Very Cheap When They Were Kids
InterviewMany things change when you move out of your parents' home and start your new chapter as an (official) adult, but money is often the most pressing concern. Taking care of your financial matters usually helps alleviate stress in numerous areas of life.
However, that's easier said than done. Reddit user ForeignReviews asked everyone else on the platform "What item did you not realize was expensive until you became an adult?" and their question immediately went viral.
As of today, it has 6.1K upvotes and 5.6K comments, proving that managing your personal budget can be harder than it looks. From owning a vehicle to grocery shopping, here are some of the areas that were mentioned the most.
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my parents split up when I was a kid in the 90s, and I remember going to my dads apartment in another city, and him cooking us steak on the grill. I always loved that.
Once I moved out I was like "wait steak is how much? Why the hell did Dad keep feeding us this?"
Then I realised he was eating poverty meals all week to treat his kids on the weekend.
For his 60th birthday us kids pooled our money and took him to arguably the best fine dining restaurant in my province for the full tasting menu. Seeing him light up at trying things like caviar and truffles for the first time made me realize how much he has sacrificed for us.
So yeah, steak is expensive.
Ninja onions...... they are everywhere.....
Load More Replies...I haven't had beef except for hamburger since childhood. But not because of the cost. I just don't like it. Lucky me, I guess.
Well done, OP. I don't mean to detract from OP's father's grace and sacrifices but this may have been back when people were paid a living wage. It seems like a fantasy now to recall a time when a single middle-class salary could support a wife, children, a house and an occasional steak dinner.
Pets
Hairhelmet61 replied:
They’ve gotten so expensive over the past few years. It used to be $50 for a yearly exam with shots for each of my pets. Then it went to ~$100. Now it’s over $200. That doesn’t include any flea treatments or medications for minor things they might find. Those also cost about double what I used to pay. I have four pets, and three are geriatric. I went from being able to afford their care for most of their lives to having to save up for their checkups.
They just double the prices for vet treatment in Germany. Mine has a operation insurance and a savings account just in case. Add to that food, tax and daily stuff. It's an easy 100€/month for kibbel/snacks/vaccination/minor treatments +132 yearly tax + 335 yearly for insurance + savings. I calculate with 200 a month just to be safe. Lou is medium sized and generally healthy. My first dog did cost 50-80 a month in meds and another 50 in shoes a month when she got old. Add to that the standard costs... please plan ahead.
Vet prices here (SoCal) can vary a LOT. Luckily, I can afford one of the better vets in my city now, but back when I was broke and had to use the cheapie vet, I had experiences like the time my cat had a bad abscess and I had to take him in. Checked in, waited about 15 minutes, then they called me in and showed me to an exam room. After about two hours, someone came in... with a ladder. He was there to change the air filter. Dust clumps fell everywhere. At some point in the next hour, my cat's abscess burst, which was very smelly. Finally saw the vet after more than three hours waiting. Other than the air filter thing, though, that was an average visit. But it only cost, like, $200 or something, and they allowed payment plans there, so it was my only option.
Load More Replies...The new arthritis shot your dog or cat can now get. I got one for my cat. What a difference. Found out it’s a monthly shot. $130 for one shot each month. Not fair that my cat is in pain and her activity is restricted because I can’t afford it. Also, please check if this is allowed in the area where you live. In Ontario (Canada) if a medication that can also be given to humans you do not need to get it at the very expensive price they sell it to you for. Get an actual prescription from them and take it to your local pharmacy. They will fill it even with your pet’s name on the bottle. Much cheaper.
My previous cat was asthmatic. I had to give him a daily inhaler and I had a rescue inhaler as well. The daily inhaler was brand name only for humans, and with discount card, cost $400. I instead got it filled through a Canadian pharmacy. Same manufacturer, but in generic form, made in Turkey. $56 with shipping. I would have budgeted to ensure he got his medicine if it was $400, I signed up to be responsible for him, but I'm relieved I paid a lot less.
Load More Replies...prices increased because veterinary medicine made a huge step forward in the means of knowledge and care standards. vets are now as close to human doctors as they never were before, they use medical equipment same as human doctors, pay a lot for conferences and workshops. vets want to earn like human doctors because they put the same amount of effort to give your pets the best care there is. and also there are more and more veterinary corporations with a ton of non-veterinary staff to feed, so the prices must now be sufficient to pay not only the vets but the office workers too.
Flea collars went from around $5 to $ 25 in year. I can't believe the medicine in them suddenly go that more expensive.
We managed to get in touch with ForeignReviews, and they agreed to tell us more about their now-viral post.
"My friends and I were complaining about the price of groceries, especially produce," the Redditor explained its origins to Bored Panda.
"We were reminiscing about the quote 'money doesn't grow on trees' but juxtaposed that with why something that literally grows out of the ground could be so expensive. Then as the conversation developed, we talked about things we thought were much more affordable as a child, such as McDonald's or going to the doctor's, which eventually resulted in me posting this question."
Kids. I'm amazed how my parents could afford me
314159265358979326 replied:
My grandfather never earned more than $35,000 a year, raised five kids, and died a millionaire. WTF.
New tires. Most unexciting $1,000 purchases I have ever made.
CunnyMaggots replied:
Right? I remember buying new tires for my car for $20 each. Then I remember that was in 1999 and my car had tiny 12-inch rims.
Move someplace snowy so you have to buy 2 sets of tires and pay 2X a year to get them swapped out.
When I had my first car I bought tyres that were budget remoulds, £20-30 for all four. We used to call them Pirelli Ditchfinders 😂
I drive a small car, but ex's truck tires were over double of mine. Ouch
they probably did when you were a kid but then inflation happened.
Load More Replies...Yea, I just paid $1700 for 4 new tires and front end alignment. I was like wtf?!!
If you live in the north and have a garage I recommend getting 2 full sets of all season and winter tires w/rims. Invest in a hydraulic jack and 4 locking stands, you can use the emergency factory bolt wrench with some elbow grease. You can rotate your own tires and be much safer. If you wear only 1 pair of shoes, they will wear more quickly and not ideal in half the seasons
It's so expensive. I just bought a set a couple of days ago of winter tyres and new wheels (new car, needed a new set of wheels to swap out for the wheels with the summer tyres). What's really annoying is that unfortunately you aren't going to find a bargain with regard to quality; this is one of those areas where, genuinely, the higher the quality, the more expensive they are. So, I had to balance decent quality with reasonable prices. I ended up buying last year's model tyres, but it was still the equivalent of $700US. In the grand scheme of things, that's not a huge amount, but it's so much more than I used to pay.
After going through the answers to their question, ForeignReviews noticed some common themes that are trending with this generation, such as gas, rent, medical care, education, and life in general, but a couple of items that seemed to be recurring and made them chuckle were Legos and cheese.
Interestingly, nowadays, adults in the United States are reaching key life milestones later than they did four decades ago, according to a new Pew Research Center analysis of Census Bureau data.
Adults who are 21 are less likely than their predecessors 40 years ago to have reached five frequently cited milestones of adulthood: having a full-time job, being financially independent, living on their own, getting married, and having a child.
Glasses. I have awful eyesight and an astigmatism and got quite a shock when I had to pay for my own prescription glasses for the first time.
The eyeglass/frame industry are almost 99% monopoly run by some scumbag in Italy. Go to online sites like zennioptical.com where the glasses are more affordable and of high quality.
Zenni Optical online. Good glasses with UV protection, under $50, sometimes under $20.
YES. I have astigmatism and other eye issues and my glasses have been typically $600-$800 my entire life. From Zenni, they’re like $60-$90 each, and identical quality. I have like 6 pairs of glasses because I occasionally just browse and buy a new pair to treat myself :)
Load More Replies...Yup, you all should really appreciate people who wear glasses because they paid A LOT of money to see you.
I wear daily contacts. I pay a lot to not crash my car into you, lol. With astigmatism, I paid around $40 for frames and lenses. Frames were $12.
Load More Replies...This is such a scam. All frames cost less than $5 to make, and progressive lenses (no lines) are about $60. Get your prescription and shop around. Try social service agencies. The rescue mission where I live used to make glasses for the general public at cost (that's where I got these numbers.)
Then when your close up eyesight goes when you’re older, astigmatism and progressive trifocals will bankrupt you. Exaggeration, but incredibly expensive.
Legos. My god. How my parents ever got me any, I'll never know.
they're just building bricks unless they come from the Lego region of Denmark.
The name "LEGO" is a contraction of the words Danish: "leg godt" (English: "play well").
Load More Replies...Oh for goodness sake - it isn't LegoS - it is Lego - how many times? They are Lego bricks or Lego
Why does this regional variation bother people so much? Please don’t downvote, I’m genuinely asking. I’m confused as it’s not even that unusual of an alteration (adding s to indicate plural amount of something is pretty standard procedure in the English language).
Load More Replies...Lego Lego Lego. When will americans ever get it into their thick heads?
Please mind your manners. And Americans takes a capital
Load More Replies...Now what's more expensive: Lego, or a hospital trip because you stepped on one?
Buy secondhand - pop them in a net bag and wash with some towels and they are as good as new.
As a child I knew how expensive they were. Only millionaire parents could afford them. Mine couldn't.
In 2021 (the most recent year with available figures), just 39% of 21-year-olds were working full time, compared with 64% in 1980, and only a quarter of people this age in 2021 were financially independent of their parents, meaning that their income was at least 150% of the poverty line, compared with 42% in 1980.
gas
caffeine5000 replied:
I recall one glorious summer in the mid- to late '90s when it was 79 cents a gallon. My friends and I would just drive around and hang out because it was cheaper than mini golf or the movies! My little Toyota at the time got 38–40 miles per gallon!
I paid 17 cents a gallon in Florida in the mid '60s during a gas war.
I remember when I first started driving I was able to fill up a take for $5 USD or less! Sometimes that would be premium grade! Now, it's on average $5/gallon
In the 60's, I had a small motorbike, and my father, who had an account at a local garage, allowed me to have 2/6d (12.5 pence) worth of fuel every month. And it did me well, except when I visited my aunt about 100 miles away, and I had to pay 2/6d from my own pocket.
19 cents a gallon in the 60s and when it climbed to 24 cents...........well it was the end of the world.
gotta be furniture
Stetikhasnotalent replied:
When I bought my house, I only had a bed in the master bedroom, and all my friends kept saying, 'You make good money, just buy furniture — you could have it furnished in a month.' Then they bought houses and now understand why it took me a year to furnish my house.
Thrift shops. Especially in cities where retirees relocate. They downsize and all have that living room furniture than no one was ever allowed to sit on.
I buy most furniture from 2nd hand stores. Usually better quality, often unique pieces.
All my furniture was used when I got it. You get better quality for the same price buying the old stuff, but there are two things that make that hard for some people: 1. Thrift stores and antique stores won't give you financing, and 2. they won't deliver. But if you have some cash and know someone with a truck, you'll save a ton of money.
When I moved to Dallas I survived for months sitting in a blow up chair my BFF loaned me. Her 10 inch black and white bunny ears tv on the trunk I brought my stuff in. I slept on an air mattress for months. Compared with my income back in 1987 the furniture was very expensive. I compare income in relation to furniture prices for any year. I was determined to buy everything with cash. The very first credit card I ever got was a Foley’s because there was a huge discount in the price of a bed. A real bed! It took a very long time, bed, pull out couch I had been sleeping on before the bed. Strategic purchasing. A long time. But cash for everything. If you live someplace where you can get great furniture toss outs, you’re very lucky. Made a rush to buy a regular size color TV when the Calgary Olympics were happening. 8 months on a 10 inch black and white🤪
I bought cheap second hand stuff off my parents friends (dining table, washing machine, fridge) some stuff I acquired when former housemates moved out (chest of drawers, coffee table) Doesn't have to be the best quality as long as it does the job it's supposed to do
ForeignReviews thinks it's natural that as we grow up, we start to see the amount of effort we need to put in to purchase even basic items.
"Along the lines of making a living wage, we find out that after someone spends hours dealing with terrible people or does physically demanding work but cannot survive," the Redditor said. "There does seem to be a disruption in some of the values we were raised on."
"It just doesn't seem like the idea 'hard work pays off' really means anything these days other than to allow corporations to reap the benefits of our labor. Maybe to summarize it more succinctly, we were raised to believe hard work will result in some reward, but the reality is that some of the hardest working people can barely make it, let alone live in some level of security, comfort, or luxury."
Cars, all grown ups had them, maybe even multiple. I still think its insane that some cars are more expensive than a 2 bedroom apartment
Some shoes cost more than a 2 bedroom apartment, which doesn't mean shoes, as a rule, are expensive. I recently bought my first car for 2500€ and was amazed by the amount of technology and raw materials I got for just double the price of my computer.
I think this post is talking about new vehicles. In North America at least, it’s becoming pretty common for a new vehicle to cost $1,000-$1,200 a month :( which is more than my 2br apartment rent!
Load More Replies...I just went and browsed in a motorcycle showroom and some of the prices were more than what my parents paid for our house back in the 70's. Shocked at the prices would be an understatement!!!!
When,1960? It helps to give a date on comments like this.
Load More Replies...Something European’s know that Americans are learning. It’s ok to rent a flat most of your life and owning a car is a huge obligation financially and also a privilege.
Getting something framed. Holy cow!
VIDCAs17 replied:
I'm getting two 130-year-old maps framed. After I factor in nice frames, preservation glass, and other custom details, the total is over $500. And there was a sale going on during my purchase.
There's a difference between 'buying a frame' and getting something framed. 'Buying a frame' is just getting something the right size and putting your picture into it. "Getting something framed" is a bespoke piece where you choose the materials for the framing, getting a matte cut for the piece (proper color to accent the art) and choose the type of glass... preservation glass will block UV light to protect the artwork from the suns rays... Non-reflective glass will allow the piece to be seen from all angles... and then it's all put together add a backing and hanging hardware. I had a couple pieces framed that were about 250 each, but I just went with the non-reflective glass. For important pieces of art, the money's worth it.
Load More Replies...Thrift store frames can be a great find, then just have a new mat cut to fit your project.
I have never in my life understood why anyone would pay to have something professionally framed. Usually the frame they use is nowhere near as decorative as what you can get from the store yourself and its way more expensive.
Because they thing they're having framed is worth a lot of money? Because they can customize it to an incredible degree? (My mom recently had a signed print framed using checkerboard fabric as the mat, and two frames affixed together because it was appropriate for their style and width). Also, I'd love to know where you can buy fancy frames that are decorative. The whole minimalist "farmhouse" has infected everything, including frames.
Load More Replies...Imagine being an artist and having to frame artworks for exhibitions with the HOPES of selling them. Bruh...
Owning a house. Not so much the mortgage, but everything else that you don’t really think about when you’re young and dumb. Insurance, yard upkeep, tools, routine maintenance, emergency maintenance, misc supplies, etc.
People who complain that they pay $1500 a month in rent but can't get a $1200 a month mortgage are not factoring in all these things.
Yep. We bought our house recently and within the first month the boiler broke and the hot tank needed replacing (we've been living here for years previously, so this wasn't entirely a surprise). Then there's general wear and tear, general maintenance, a fresh coat of paint every so often, appliance repairs (which, thankfully, I've been mostly able to do myself). Every month there's just SOMETHING that crops up.
I pay $875 PITI mortgage on my home, 1900 sq/ft on a 1/2 acre block fenced lot. Before you say it sounds like a dream remember there's a ton of upkeep that goes on. I just got hit with the dreaded "bad things happen in threes", a complete re-roof, a new water heater and a new washer dryer because everything decided to go to hell all at once.
Upkeep is way more expensive than you'd expect! Water heater failed? That's $1500 in extra power and water bills for a bit before you realize what went wrong, plus another $2500 at minimum to replace it and get it certified up-to-code. Floor starts caving in? Hope you have a line of credit!
not until you finish that 30-year mortgage, it isn't...
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Food is both more expensive and goes bad quicker when you're an adult.
ariana61104 replied:
I honestly love grocery shopping, but it's just so expensive. I often look for deals and will buy generic/store brand on most items. My biggest tip for 'goes bad quicker' is to always get from the back because usually that's where the longer-lasting stuff goes.
It’s even harder when you are single. Most portions sold are for more than one person. Take 1lb of ham for instance. Unless you are eating ham sandwiches for every meal or freezing some of it, you will be throwing quite a bit away by the end of the week because it only lasts a few days.
In the UK, all fresh groceries have a best before date - don't they have that in the US? (note, best before is NOT the same as a use by date)
We do a massive cook and container most of it for the freezer. Started freezing leftover vegetables and lamb bones to make a soup. We even make our own chicken stock. Buy things like rice and pasta in bulk. We very rarely throw out food
In 1986 when my eldest was a baby, I could get a gallon of milk, two loaves of bread, and a pound of ground beef for $5.00. I cannot begin to imagine trying to buy groceries for an entire family these days.
Uh, don't reach to the back, you're just pissing off the employees who now have to throw out a bunch of wasted food.
A good quality vacuum sealer is our salvation especially with meat and vegetables as it prevents freezer burn and meat will last an ungodly amount of time without going bad. Last week I pulled some 3 year old ribeyes out of the freezer for the grill and they were fantastic.
My teeth.
NoThanksJustLooking1 replied:
Seriously! I have almost all filled-in teeth from not taking care of them as a kid, but now every time I go to the dentist, they want to charge me $10,000-plus after insurance to fix stuff that's been fixed before. Almost every year! I can't afford that!
In romania it costs about $100 to get a dental IMPLANT, compare that to the $1-$2000 per tooth in the US. Getting a full set of dental implants can be done for around $1200
$1-2K for an implant? That's cheap, in UK my husband's implant cost £3K and that was six years ago
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A good pair of shoes will set you back a bit, especially if you need more specialized ones for whatever reason.
But most important, it can prevent so many problems with your posture later in life!
I refer you all to the Terry Pratchett Sir Sanuel Vimes boots conundrum, enjoy
Load More Replies...Posting for convenience - The reason that the rich were so rich, Vimes reasoned, was because they managed to spend less money. Take boots, for example. He earned thirty-eight dollars a month plus allowances. A really good pair of leather boots cost fifty dollars. But an affordable pair of boots, which were sort of OK for a season or two and then leaked like hell when the cardboard gave out, cost about ten dollars. Those were the kind of boots Vimes always bought, and wore until the soles were so thin that he could tell where he was in Ankh-Morpork on a foggy night by the feel of the cobbles. But the thing was that good boots lasted for years and years. A man who could afford fifty dollars had a pair of boots that'd still be keeping his feet dry in ten years' time, while the poor man who could only afford cheap boots would have spent a hundred dollars on boots in the same time and would still have wet feet. This was the Captain Samuel Vimes 'Boots' theory of socioeconomic unfairness
On topic, look up Sir Terry Pratchett's 'Boots Theory'. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boots_theory
Health Insurance
Beverice replied:
My employer health insurance would cost me ~20% of my paycheck, so now I don't have health insurance.
Personal anecdote, but as a person front a country with socialised healthcare, I never really thought about it... Them as a teenager I watch the episode of Friends where Joey can't get surgery because he didn't have healthcare, and even though it was played for laughs, thinking about it now makes me horrified!
I live in Canada. Ontario to be exact. After Covid everything is falling apart. Much of it is due to shortage of doctors and nurses. Left after due to PTSD and can never do those jobs again, or said to heck with this. I’m doing something else. Can’t blame them. New nurses? Reality hits and it’s not good. Our system DOES NOT pay for everything (Bernie Sanders, looking at you) physio, dental, eyes, medications. Kids! You need to have extra insurance. It costs a lot and if you have or have had anything wrong with you you are automatically bumped down to lesser coverage. I’m a senior and extremely fortunate. I can get my extra insurance through my previous employer. No need to re apply. It costs a lot and luckily I can afford it. For seniors who can’t, the government coverage is appalling.
Our Medicare costs us 2% of our taxable income. I've only had to pay for various prescriptions, never paid for any ER visits, surgical procedures (3 in the past 20 years) or doctors appointments.
Electricity, I thought it was as free as the air we breathe so would have my bedroom lit up like a Christmas Tree 24/7, my poor parents!
Honestly, when I have a house of my own, I am going to never turn on the lights and probably not have a tv, also no hair dryer/straightener/thing that makes it curly, just to get around some of the expenses of living.
I remember my first electricity bill.... almost had a heart attack. You learn very quickly or you go into debt.
Load More Replies...I thought electricity, internet, and rent was all free as a kid what the heck was i thinking
Bras
Delouest replied:
I went through breast cancer treatment, which includes a mastectomy and reconstruction. My old bras didn't work for my current chest, so I had to replace my entire bra drawer. It cost more than I paid for my surgeries after insurance.
This is not the reason I go bra-less (my chronic pain disorder and easily dislocated joints are the real reason) but not paying through the nose for even poorly built bras is definitely a perk!
Bras have so many different finicky bits and pieces in them that their price makes sense to me. They have multiple kinds of elastic and fabric that have to be sewn together.
Not really. You can easily spend $100 on a WELL-MADE bra. Mine are, at the very least, $65, and they're not the quality I'd really prefer.
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Groceries
People who used to be able to afford to eat now are visiting food banks. And those in the military. Their families are needing food banks. So much so there aren’t enough food banks to cover it all. Their families should be able to afford to eat. They give a lot too, what with frequent moves, kids always going to new schools and learning to establish friendships they know are short term. Paying those on the military a livable pay check. It’s the least we should and can do.
I’m sorry, but I was in the US Army for over a decade and took a pay cut when i got out. I started as an E-3 and got out as an 0-2. There is ZERO reason anyone in the military needs to go to a food bank unless they are literally burning their money in a fire pit. The US military pays very well and many of the benefits are tax free (bah, bas, clothing entitlement).
Load More Replies...It's amazing how much money you save if you skip the soft drink and chips/lolly/chocolate isles. Buy in bulk where you can and do big cook ups and freeze them. My partner takes leftovers for his lunches.
I have a friend that recently, have a wife and three kids, told me he spends a thousand dollars a month on groceries. That is 12,000 dollars a year. Ridiculous.
Rugs
[deleted] replied:
I’ve never been able to get my head around why rugs are so expensive! And I’m not even talking a handmade, intricate one. Just a standard mass-produced thing.
Exactly! IKEA has affordable and really quite pretty rugs. Also, check out thrift stores. I see some nice rugs thereevery now and then.
Load More Replies...Look on eBay. They have large authentic Persian rugs (used) for $200. Buy the best padding you can afford for a great look.
Life itself! EVERYTHING!
Work done by tradesmen. Plumbers, carpenters, masons, etc. If you have to pay someone to do it for you, it's going to be cost prohibitive.
Nanojack replied:
I wanted to save up a bit, so I waited a year. I called him again, and he said it was $6,500. I had only saved up $4,000 and wanted to do some other things as well, so I waited another year. Called him again and he said $8,000. At this point, I didn't see the price ever going back down, so I pulled the trigger in June this year and gave the dude $8,500.
Reconsider going to college. Trades will always be needed. And you’re not in crushing debt when you’re done. My nephew got a degree in a specialty you’d think there’s no problem getting a job and would pay really well. Not like it was a field that had a glut of people either. Ha! His parents worked their backsides off to ensure he started out without debt. Now? He went to community college and learned refrigerator repair. Now he works for the largest appliance repair company in the country. Regular hours and makes great money. No stress. Happy, and doing well. Trades!
My nephew learned a trade, went thru a 2 year apprenticeship and now makes 60-75 dollars an hour.
Load More Replies...The US has a deficit of well over 7 million skilled workers, something like welding doesn't even require you to pay for classes, invest a few hundred bucks in the welding gear, watch some youtube videos and practice. Then you take a test showing that you're capable of basic welding skills....after which you'll be an apprentice, and get paid north of $22 an hour, with an earning ceiling north of $150k. Same for plumbers. A buddy from high school, 39 years old makes $170k a year as a plumber. Pulls another $40-$70k doing welding jobs, and doesn't come close to clocking 40 hours a week.
Going to restaurants to eat. Of course as I child I never paid for anything, so I was admittedly shocked when I became an adult and had to pay my restaurant bill for the first time. Had no idea it was so expensive.
Grokent replied:
When I was a young man in 1999, I remember a date at Olive Garden cost me $32 on the high end. Now I can hardly go to dinner for less than $90.
I had gastric surgery 8 years ago. So I stopped eating out. Wanted a good burger delivered and was shocked to find it would be $30. Same for a delivered pizza!
My partner had one 13 years ago. We don't go out for dinner a lot coz he never get thru the whole meal. We always need a doggy bag and he will just take the leftovers to work for lunch
Load More Replies...Went to get Indian take out for 2 the other day. Butter chicken was $20 JUST for one serving of butter chicken, no rice. Naan was $5 each. So that’s $50 already for butter chicken and naan for two. One side of pakora and two canned drinks were $18. I didn’t want to spend $70+ on dinner so we made bacon and eggs at home instead. It’s not even that one restaurant either, those prices are normal here.
Travelling
ChuushaHime replied:
When I was a kid, I thought the expense was in the plane tickets and in the sightseeing. The cool stuff, right? Nope. Turns out it's pretty easy to find reasonably priced plane tickets, and sightseeing really isn't all that expensive at all. But lodging? The barrier to entry is stupidly high. There isn't a hostel culture in the US, so you're facing a barrier to entry of like $80/night for a total shithole, $120/night for a barebones economy room, or $150-plus a night for actual comfort. And that's before the high taxes and fees that hotel rooms incur.
Wait until you go to Vegas and discover that in order to stay in your pre-paid $150/night room you must pay a surprise non-optional "resort fee" of $65/night. How that does not break at least a half dozen federal laws I have no idea, but I guess that's the benefit of being run by the mob.
I always thought I was pretty use to comfort and also that I know extreme discomfort (was in the Army for over a decade). If you need a $150+ room a night for “basic comfort” then you need to check your privilege I believe. I’ve traveled all over the US and been perfectly comfortable in 70ish dollar rooms.
Airfares are the one thing that is still the same price as in the 80s. There are hostels in the major cities (several in SF alone). Less than for a day of parking or even a single cab ride. They often have communal kitchens so you can eat in for at least one meal and avoid crazy restaurant prices (see above.) And learn how to use public transportation (who doesn't like a cable car ride?)
Daycare. It’s like buying a new car every year.
If they’re still alive, still fit, live close by, aren’t still working themselves, don’t hold wildly different views from your own and, crucially, are willing…
Load More Replies...My nephew and his wife are so lucky. Both sets of grandparents cover Monday - Friday. But, there comes a time, and soon, she’s going to need to go to daycare to learn to socialize with other kids. That’s going to be a lot of money.
Mattresses
Yeah, but not the pillow tops. Can't flip it, can only rotate...never another pillow top
Load More Replies...A good orthopedic mattress is worth it's weight in gold, when you get older you'll realize this.
$700 for a high quality memory foam mattress direct shipped from the factory. Will never wear our. Lifetime warranty. Many foam brands to choose from these days.
Pizza was always chalked up to me as “cheap food for a big group,” and it’s definitely cheaper than taking people to a sit down restaurant, but, unless you’re buying BOGO pizza from Domino’s, it’s ridiculously expensive.
The run-of-the-mill local pizza place across me has a large cheese pizza for $22… with toppings some of their large specialty pizzas top $31. And an extra large with toppings can go as high as $36. All of this is before tax and tip and—*gasps* delivery fees.
I live in a more expensive area of the US for sure, but it’s hard to justify grabbing a pizza for myself when I could get a pretty nice Italian dinner for the same price at a fairly upscale place.
Or buy a frozen pizza from the supermarket and cook it when you want it.
Little Caesar’s still rocking a price that cannot be beat by cooking at home or any other tactic.
And they are continuing to improve! Last I had was a large supreme, $12, and it beat any other big chain.
Load More Replies...I work at a pizza place and get a 50% discount...the cost with my discount is what I used to think the full price would be.
Or wait for the 1/2 price online and pick it up at the place.
This is why we do home made pizza. It's easy, the results are way tastier, and it costs at most $15 per pizza if you load up on the toppings and cheese types.
I'm curious where you live. Good luck topping a pizza from NY or NJ in your own home. If you live in the mid west or another country you might have a point.
Load More Replies...I only eat frozen pizzas now because of the cost. On another note entirely, we Toms kicked butt on this thread!
There's a chain in the US that does $5 cheese or pepperoni pizzas.
Load More Replies...True for the US but (fortunately enough for me) not for Italy! Here a good pizza is rarely more than 10€. We’re a family of 3 and our standard pizza delivery order totals 23 euros, delivery included. Even with the horribly low salaries that we get here it’s still pretty affordable.
Property taxes. My property taxes were about $4500 when I first bought my house in 2019. Increased to over $9200 this year.
Homes value has gone from $145k to appraised value of $420k.
I just saw a YouTube short that showed a woman's trick to keeping home values low. She'd stand outside the door and fire her gun about 6 times into the air. ***I'm totally kidding and do not recommend this!! It's illegal and could hurt someone. I just thought it was funny. Modern problems require modern solutions***
Well, his home's value almost tripled, but the property tax only about doubled. And he's complaining?
So, I've done this and my daughter and SIL did too...assessed value, if you paid less than that do NOT hesitate to contest your rate. If they want to pay/charge assessed value... offer it to them. Mine was lowered, in 1986, by 20k value, kids was lowered 25k.
Try almost $40k. I'm paying for nothing, all the leaves are piled up in the street, which could really use a resurfacing (that will NEVER happen).
Patio furniture cushions. Seriously WTF?!?
My love seat cushions were custom so they were $300. I made the chair cushions myself for about $40.
Toilet paper! Like talk about actually flushing money down the toilet.
YES! When we make hygiene kits for our neighbors who live on the street, I always insist we make some of them for women that include these. And I always donate some to the food bank whenever I donate to them.
Load More Replies...Which country is this? I pay about £3 for 9 'mid range' rolls - 33p per roll, so not actually expensive (but not as cheap as pre pandemic)
In the US, a roll with 1000 single-ply sheets is around $1.00 per roll if buying in bulk. Alone, that roll would likely be double that amount.
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Entertainment. I didn’t understand why we never went to the movies or Chuck E Cheese or out to dinner as a family of 5. I get it now.
Almonds and other nuts and seeds. Some of them can get really expensive for how little you get lol
Auto insurance. At least when I was younger. I added my 18 year-old and my insurance tripled.
It's only a 'racket' if you never need to use it. One accident can cause thousands in damage, let alone personal injury, and if the other guy isn't insured, you will foot the bill most likely. Car less is one thing, but leg less is another.
Load More Replies...Nice pots, pans, knives.
I’m lucky - 25 years ago, my dad did a trade with a friend for some high end pots and pans. We each got a set and I use mine every day. They still look like new.
In my house, we buy Kiwi brand knives now. Its WAYYYY cheaper than any knives you can get and they are extremely sharp. Even if we replaced the entire set every single year instead of sharpening, it still would not add up to the cost of one of those fancy chef's knives.
free time
as a kid I had loads of it and gave it away. now I can't afford even a minute !!
Sounds like an artificial scarcity or poor planning. Of course, none of us have time for every possible thing, but if it's important, do it.
Cheese. I had no idea it was so expensive
Types and qualities vary tremendously. Our Aldi cheese is well priced and surprisingly tasty
Yeah, cheese in our house these days always comes from Aldi. So much cheaper than any local grocery store.
Load More Replies...Quality makes a difference though. And the price tag being high encourages you to not just wolf down a quarter of the loaf in 2 days flat.
Heating and air conditioning.
Saving for retirement. I’m mid 30’s and still can’t believe there’s a minimum paycheck deduction for your company to be willing to add to your retirement plan.
Trash bags!
Buy them at Costco. I think it was $15-$20 for like 150. I bought them at the end of march, and still have 1/4 left. I mark the box to see how long they last, it's a long a*s time.
Pro tip...visit hospitals, rest stops, local gas stations and go to the bathroom. Most janitorial services leave estra bags on the bottom of the trash can! (Again, I'm kidding. I purchase my bags st Sam's).
Agreed, where I live 1 bag costs 1,4 euro. But it's more that the bag, it's the collection and the disposal of your garbage you pay for.
I used to use the freebie plastic bags from the supermarkets for my trash bags. No longer being used at the supermarkets, we have to take our own bags now, so yes, I have to buy trash bags...for trash... and throw them away :(
Leaving the house. Every time I do it, it costs me $100!
I used to stay at home to avoid buying stuff when I went out. Now I have to go out to avoid buying stuff at home.
Paper towels.
Almost thinking of washing them, drying them out and reuse...
Velveeta cheese. My mom had to buy two blocks a week because I ate it with everything. It was the first thing to go when I had to buy my own groceries. The other thing was horses. I was fortunate I grew up on a farm and my dad grew all their feed (hay, straw, oats, corn, etc). I would buy colts, break them, and sell them to earn the money for showing. They didn't really cost us anything to have them. Then life got in the way, and I went without horses until recently. Dang, costs have increased over the last 25 years, lol!!
Spices
Don't buy pre-mixed spices! Unless it's something that's hard to replicate on your own (like 99-X), it's always cheaper to blend your own spices.
Nope. I knew every one of those as a young child. Couldn't afford most of them, turned off lights whenever we left a room, etc.
Right…if you grow up poor you definitely know how expensive stuff is
Load More Replies...Everything in the known world is wildly expensive when you become a responsible adult.
I stopped reading very quickly. I never thought of any of these things as cheap.
You can likely find a local who sells their own eggs for much cheaper, and almost guaranteed they're coming from happier chickens
Load More Replies...Nope. I knew every one of those as a young child. Couldn't afford most of them, turned off lights whenever we left a room, etc.
Right…if you grow up poor you definitely know how expensive stuff is
Load More Replies...Everything in the known world is wildly expensive when you become a responsible adult.
I stopped reading very quickly. I never thought of any of these things as cheap.
You can likely find a local who sells their own eggs for much cheaper, and almost guaranteed they're coming from happier chickens
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