34 Things Most Men Fail To Grasp, Yet Every Woman Knows

I would say that 90% of women want pockets in our clothes. And for some reason, nobody wants to give us pockets. Either top company execs want to sell handbags, or they just think they know what we want more than us... which would be typical.

Why would anyone think that someone would want an unsolicited pic?

What is nagging after all? It's asking someone to do the same thing over and over and over again... The first time, it's just a request.

2 bits of advice: If you have sons, teach them how to cook and clean and sew. My Mom taught my brothers and they taught me. Did me no end of good. Second, if your "guy" tries to do housework, let him. I was at a guy's house one time, and while he washed the dishes, his wife stood behind him, criticizing him brutally, non-stop, until she finally pushed him out of the way and said "Forget it. I'll do it." I saw a different guy fold laundry, and as soon as he was done, his wife undid it all and redid it. Now, yes, I can see that maybe a guy should learn how his wife wants her laundry folded or how she wants the dishes washed. I get it. BUT, give a guy some time and space. If you want him to do it, and do it often, take it a bit easy on the critique.

Don't help. F****n do your part.

General advice: teach your kids to take care of themselves, and they'll do a good job taking care of others. Teach your kids to cook, clean, sew, fix stuff. It's really important. Second: when your significant other cooks, or cleans or fixes stuff, go easy on the criticism if you want them to do it again. Not everybody has the same level of experience or expertise, and even experts will do stuff differently. If you over-criticize, or push them out of the way with a "Oh, here, I'll do it!" or come along behind them and redo everything they just did because they didn't do it to your satisfaction, don't be too surprised if they don't jump for joy at the chance to do it next time. So be a little accommodating and show a little appreciation.

I always tell my boyfriend - if I'm asking like the third time for something, I directly tell him - "Look, if I'm going to have to ask you one more time I'll get really angry and annoyed." It mostly works and if it doesn't, he knows it's his own fault he didn't do that particular thing.

Stop pretending that you are 'helping' out. It is your house too. Ran your house do your dishes

F*****g really? Who the he'll did you marry; a 1940s a*****e? This stereotype needs to end. I travel over half the year for work and most Saturdays I spend cleaning, vacuuming, doing at least 4 loads of laundry and making dinner. I do it because I know my wife has to keep the house together all week while I'm gone and she deserves/needs a day off. Now that our daughter is getting older I'm teaching her to help too.

This goes both ways

Nagging is NOT the way to motivate us to 'just get up and do it'. Nagging saps all of our strength and motivation. Be a good woman and we'll be much more motivated. Respect us and take good care of us. That will motivate us. The anger and whining only serves to make us do the bare minimum. Besides, you'll just complain about HOW we do it.

Just be straight to the point and don't start your Mind games.

This!!!!!

Exactly. Grow up and stop being 5 years old.

So f*****g true.

NO S**T

This.

Ohhh yes! I love it, thanks!

Men, refer to hashtag #20 and sit back and watch your football game 😆 ( just joking )

How about simply accepting the mess? We do...

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Well we do not run on your time. Things will get done when they get done. Here is a simple solution to that. make a list. I cant tell you how much more effenct I am when my girl friend leaves me a list. Nagging me just makes me not do it at all. A cute nice list, NOT A LIST OF CHOIRS, goes alot lot further. Most men dont want to talk, but we listen and talk because we know you need need it. When it comes to asking to do things, thats just pointless convo we dont want. Make a cute note, make a list, and watch the difference, I have heard women say this plenty of times. Men are action based. I feel more accomplished when I can cross something off my list then your mental check box.

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Ofc...women only nag when they are right. They never nag when they are wrong :)))

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I thought nagging is the official past time of women everywhere

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No your not asking your telling..men aren't children..we are adults so please treat us as one

The fact that the term friend zone even exists just shows that some men think they're entitled sex if they show women basic human decency

We do however need to acknowledge that men are not there to pay for our dinners, fix our broken s**t and treat us like princesses either. We all need to be equal.

This one is so important. The men who understand this one suffer from much less stress, once they know they don't really need to do anything, besides a hug and consolation.

The struggle is real. Because just bleeding and cramping weren't bad enough.

... and that doesn't mean "I was nice to you all week. You OWE me." - that does not make us feel secure, respected or loved. We don't OWE you for temporary niceness.

The women who don't dare go out without a ton if makeup on? They don't do it for themselves. They do it because they've been made insecure about how they look.

And she's not obligated to go out with you just because you asked.

Wow, lucky for anyone who only has periods for 3 days, I can only dream lol.

Never understood the logic behind this mentality - instead of being glad to having encountered a fellow geek, you blame her (or him) of fakery? Was this ever supposed to be a competition? See, this is why you have no friends.

I wholeheartedly agree that swearing is a bodily function.

Meh, my hubby and I use the same shampoo, conditioner and body wash so this doesn’t bother me at all.

Do you honestly believe men fail to grasp this? A small minority of men do, butthe vast majority are well aware of this (I'm not wrong here)!

Being reliable and noticing/doing the mundane things, waaaay more sexy than ignoring it all and throwing in the occasional grand gesture.

However, this can be abusive too. Men, you don't have to let a woman you're dating to invade your privacy and show her your texts etc! You're entitled to not show them. And if she looks at your phone without your consent, then it's a big red flag.

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