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While some might say that a wedding is just a big party, this underscores just how much planning and organization actually goes into putting together a party. So it’s no surprise that, despite people’s best intentions, sometimes things just don’t go as planned. 

People from across the internet share the things they hated about their own weddings, as well as some of the things they loved. From good ideas implemented poorly to folks who cheaped out at the wrong moment, get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your own examples in the comments below. 

#1

“Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Stuffing cake in my wife’s face. No exaggeration, i regret it to this day. One of the traits of a successful marriage is to protect your spouse, with words, with your actions. Protect in this case has the meaning of upholding their dignity, their honor, etc. shoving cake in their face is not doing any of that and it’s very very public. Don’t do it. Plus it messed with her make up, I really really wish I hadn’t. :(.

Derekeys , Stephanie Lima/pexels Report

Anna Ekberg
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do people do this? I don't think it's fun when it's at someone elses expense and this is just humiliating.

Royal Stray
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it began with a little bit on the nose, because that would happen anyways if you did the feed each other the first bite thing, but then it spiraled because way too many people are AH who like watching others feel uncomfortable for their own enjoyment

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sbj
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is such a stupid trend

PSimms
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's start our marriage with me humiliating and abusing you!

StretcherBearer
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Completely stupid tradition. It ranks along with gender reveal and public proposals and every other stupid sexist joke surrounding weddings. Burn these 'traditions' to the ground and fire the ashes into the sun.

cerinamroth
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never seen it done and would hate it for the bride. Unless it turned into an all-out food fight with the leftovers. Then I say it's OK.

roddy
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's far too recent to be considered a tradition. And even if it were a tradition (which it is not), that doesn't mean it's a good idea.

Namea
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My spouse and I fed each other small bites and then dabbed a bit of frosting on each other's noses.

Negatoris Wrecks
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even worse, sometimes jerks do the face shove. Tiered cakes have supports, people

Rebekah Fuentes
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This just sets the stage for how the marriage will go.

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    #2

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Letting my Ex-MIL dictate pretty much everything. It stopped being our wedding and became her wedding. And she is crazy. The whole wedding was no longer focused on my wife and I but my MiL handing my wife off to me. Which is really ironic because after that moment MiL became even more controlling. Some things she did.... * She had a mommy daughter dance. * Made an 30 minute long speech about raising my wife, including playing several inappropriate baby videos. * Made a toast to herself * Cut the cake with my wife * Tossed the bouquet herself * Tried to outcast my small family (party of 6) to the corner * Departed the wedding in our limo with us * This is the weirdest one. The bridal lingerie literally said "mommy's girl". The wedding was ruined for me. The worst part? It set a precedent that my MiL can do whatever she wanted in our relationship and my wife would always choose her side. This eventually caused a split after MiL spanked the hell out of my daughter and my wife took her side.

    anon , Maycon Marmo/pexels Report

    Royal Stray
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm getting big icks from this one in so many ways

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    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be pressing charges if she'd touched my kid.... That's @ssult right there!

    daniel ikelman
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    1 year ago

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    Are you too fragile to write assault?

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    SkippityBoppityBoo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The lingerie said - "Mommy's Girl"???????????? The whole thing just seems like she wanted to marry her daughter herself and... Just... Nope, can't.

    Sue
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have walked out of the wedding.

    Lin Andrews
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Daughter and MiL looking like they might hook up

    Tara L.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet you married her anyway & had a kid with her.....pretty stupid

    Nitka Tsar
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she was pregnant before the wedding? Or even had the kid before

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    Leslie B
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone should have reminded MIL that the umbilical cord had been cut years earlier

    Floeckchen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you report your MiL for child abuse?

    Full of Giggles
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reading this triggered my anxiety. My ex-MIL was the same exact way.

    Joanne Earle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I hadn't resisted at every turn, my smother would've taken over my life like this.

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    #3

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Getting separated from my wife while at the wedding. She went to the bathroom and then got swarmed by friends and family and she disappeared what seemed like hours. Also, in general getting pulled away from eachother. When I would get a drink or talk to someone. The reason I regret it, is because my wife looked so absolutely stunning that day and I just wanted to look at her the entire time. My wife is still hot but something about that dress.

    Ezzy17 , HONG SON/pexels Report

    Shannimal
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still wear my wedding dress. Every 5 years, my husband and I put on our wedding attire on our anniversary and take pictures. Even if we don't fit into our wedding clothes, the deal is we still have to try and take pictures, no matter how it looks. :) So far, we've done it twice since the wedding.

    #4

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had I regret spending so much on my dress. And my parents paid for it! It was beautiful but I feel like I could have bought a cheaper one and still had a great day.

    Garp5248 , Tara Winstead/pexels Report

    sbj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes more sense to hire a dress

    Royal Stray
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or if you're not traditional you could always just buy a nice dress to use for other occasions as well

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    nancy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember going to the bridal store and asking for the cheapest wedding dress they had. It was gorgeous and only $200... I was expecting to pay at least $1500.

    Bec
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dress was reasonably priced and I loved it, but 20 years later it was just taking up space in a closet. I don't have kids. I ended up selling it for $20.

    Granny's Thoughts
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Renting a dress is the best idea. You'll only wear it once anyway and you'll have pictures. Do you really want to lug a dress around the rest of your life?

    JLo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's no point to spend a fortune on the dress. Just make sure you love the dress and feel great in it. You wear it once and then it's never seen again. Most likely your daughter will not want to wear it because it is dated. After a few months, no one will be wanting to watch your wedding video or look at your album, not even your husband. So save your money!

    Biytemii
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It literally spent I think $40 on a white kind of I wouldn't say cocktail dress but it was a little bit by my knees with lace on it. From Amazon for my wedding.

    Susan
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you look at the average price of food, flowers, and DJ, photographer, etc. the dress is just a fraction of the cost. Because even an expensive dress is still such a relatively small percentage of the budget I would splurge on the dress and cut back on the food (which is never really great) or the center pieces instead.

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    #5

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Well, we could have had the wedding in fall 2019, but my wife wanted more time to make sure everything was perfect, so we decided to have it in April 2020.

    anon , 戴 宇扬/pexels Report

    Anna Ekberg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Around december 2019 we started to realise what was coming but nobody was prepared.

    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could see where it was heading then, too. After SARS, we didn't take things like that too lightly. But it seemed as if a lot of people had forgotten. Watch out for animal-to-human transmission of bird flu, people. You heard it here first!

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    sbj
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You, along with rest of us, didn't see the 2020 nightmare coming

    Betty Swallocks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Still, she's dead now and you're shacked up with Greg, so every cloud ......

    Helen Rohrlach
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My 50th birthday was in April 2020. I got the cake I wanted because I baked it myself.

    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The absolute worst time for a large gathering.

    mulk
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    1 year ago

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    Sh*t happens...

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    #6

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Buying the suit I wore...As a groom I rented and nothing fit right. All of my pictures showed. As much as my wife spent on her dress I could have spent the $500 to buy the perfect fitting suit. Really short sighted on my part.

    tits_tuo_verbo_perso , Lawrence Suzara/pexels Report

    Royal Stray
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially since you can wear it again (as long as it wasn't white)

    Floeckchen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would be the perfect outfit for a nuit blanche

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    Blue Bunny of Happiness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Dad hired a morning suit for my sister’s wedding. He collected it from the hire shop in a large shopping centre. Walking back to the car, over the tannoy came “Could Mr X return to Burtons for his trousers?”

    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband and his best man/ushers all wore kilts, which several of them didn't even own because they weren't Scottish, so we hired them. Even the hiring place did a fitting!

    Royal Stray
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just curious about how the kilts looked like since the pattern/colours are unique to each clan. Did they wear the same ones or did they just pick the best looking ones (Not judging, it sounds great, I'm just genuinely curious)

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    JLo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just be glad you didn't have to rent a powder blue tux!

    PSimms
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, I bought my suit, $500, and that was MORE than my wife spent on her dress.

    sbj
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should have tried the suit on first

    #7

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had I regret not turning around to watch my wife walk down the aisle. It was an outdoor wedding with no music, and I was told to stare at the nearby ruins so I didn't accidentally see my wife as she made her way to the back of where we had the ceremony. With no cue, I had no idea when to turn until she tapped me on the shoulder and giggled a small "hi". Her dress was amazing, and the ceremony went well amidst a surprise downpour (two hours earlier than expected), but I really wish I had been able to watch her walk the aisle.

    Wintersteel89 , Dimitri Kuliuk/pexels Report

    sbj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The small 'hi' and giggles sounds so sweet

    JLo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who told you not to watch her walk the isle? They robbed the two of you of a special moment. The bride gets to see her intended gasp in amazement at her beauty, or get teary eyed with love.

    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because you let others tell you what to do. It's your wedding, not theirs.

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    #8

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Not dancing more with my dad. He passed away a few years later. Not eating the food I spent so much time picking out!!!!!

    linsrae , Becerra Govea Photo/pexels Report

    H_NGM_N
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is so sad! I hope OP found peace!

    Max Fox
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Traditional Jewish wedding have a time for the couple to be alone in the room. It's not certain whether this was for consummation, or to declare that they are now married (unmarried men and women are not allowed to be alone in a closed room). Whatever the historical reason, it is now where they have time to grab something to eat. Most places which are familiar with Jewish wedding will have food waiting for the couple, but a family member can be tasked with that instead.

    #9

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Wearing heels. Also letting my sister in law convince me to stay at her house the night before instead of a hotel. I slept on a tiny, uncomfortable futon with my giant future husband, and slept maybe an hour.

    anon , Lera Yuryn /pexels Report

    sbj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wear a full length dress then nobody can see what's on your feet

    Nika the Great
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think it’s about how they looked, but that it’s hard to wear heels all day

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    silverbluesilk
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    had a family member wear blue heels for her wedding (no one could see them under her dress) then swapped into blue converse—everyone thought it was super cute and she was so comfortable!

    Carl Bro
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a shoemaker my recommendation is that if you do not get hand made måde to measure shoes (let's be honest no one can afford that) Get an old pair that you know are comfortable and warn in, take them to your local shoe guy and get them covered in matching fabric (or contrasting) to your dress. It will look like a million dollars, the shoes will be unique to you, and you will be comfortable all night! And it won't bankrupt you.

    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop letting other people rule your life.

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    #10

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had My husband and I went off alone to be married in the woods. No regrets on that, but I regret not going further off-trail for the actual vow exchange. A lady on horseback yelled at me that the "white thing on your head is scaring my horse".

    WithEyesWideOpen , Wolrider YURTSEVEN/pexels Report

    HF
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you should have yelled back: "or maybe your horse is afraid of commitment!"

    Ephemera Image
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm, rider here. If her horse was that afraid of things maybe she should have stayed in the kiddie corral.

    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Either the horse was poorly trained, or just too excitable, or the rider was inexperienced. In any case, they shouldn't have been riding out in the open instead of in an enclosed arena or pen.

    Betty Swallocks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happened to me. I just yelled back at her - "I'm wearing a thigh holster. Are you wearing kevlar fatty !?"

    JLo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Oh, I thought that was your face!"

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Lady, your face is on your head. And if he can take that, it means he doesn't scare so easily."

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    #11

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Hiring a s****y photographer. At the end of the day your photos are the only tangible thing you pay for.

    aprunty773 , Orhan Pergel/pexels Report

    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about the wedding rings?!

    Bec
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We got tattoos - diamonds are forever 🙄, tattoos are forever!

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    arthbach
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the 30 years we have been married, we have looked at our wedding photographs maybe 5 times. For us, it was a waste of time and money.

    Lori Bartlett
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My regret is not getting a professional photographer. I bought a new expensive camera and a family friend said they would take the pictures. He did a good job but there were pictures that I wished we had taken at the time but didn't (we don't have many with just my husband and I). A professional not only can take great pictures but knows which pictures should be taken.

    Hugo
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not many pictures with I: me doesn't appear in many.

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We ordered our wedding pictures to fit the frames we bought. The photography studio did them in different sizes, with the explanation that they had given us an "outdated ordering form" and refused to print the sizes ordered. Took the negatives and left. They never had the gall to send us a bill. (If they had, I would have told them that it was an outdated billing form.)

    #12

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had I remember early in the process telling my wife-to-be that if anyone is talking about the chair covers, napkins or plates after the wedding then the wedding must have sucked. Relax.

    TheMightyRicardooon , Craig Adderley/pexels Report

    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. I remember the make-up lady and hair stylist doing me up before my wedding saying that I was the calmest bride they had ever seen. If they knew my back story, they'd know I don't sweat the small stuff! Other things trigger crises instead, but definitely not some sodding origami or whether people notice the place settings!

    Ephemera Image
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You and me both! Glad to hear there are others who don't sweat the small stuff! Things will happen. Laugh and move on.

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    Helen Rohrlach
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just had a think about what I've eaten at various weddings over the years and can't remember any of them.

    Donkey boi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm middle ground on this one. Nobody comments on the little things if they're good, they'll remember them if they are bad, and won't notice if they are not even there. My sister had some god-awful table centrepieces, and an appalling cake! Guess what the guests were talking about! However, none of them noticed that there were no flowers at the reception. Nobody noticed there were no favours.

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They should instead be talking about how the mother-in-law hit the groom's uncle over the head with the wedding cake stand?

    Royal Stray
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or everyone are designers or work in catering, not really a common occurrence

    sbj
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's your wedding and your big day so have it your own way

    #13

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Not a bride but a recent groom. I regret not having the priest not announcing "No photography" at the beginning of the service. We have some awesome shots ruined by people sticking their heads out in the isle while she was walking down.

    incubus512 , Pavel Danilyuk/pexels Report

    sbj
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It wouldn't have made a difference , those people would have behaved in the same way

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would have actively encouraged some of them "Oh, boy, I'll get pictures no one else gets!"

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    Hugo
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You got married on an island?

    Maartje
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one woman got a new Ipad! Yes! and she had to film the bride coming down the isle with the Ipad! And film her walking away! So she stepped on her train and the bride almost landed on her face.

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    #14

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Letting the photographer dictate where we should be for the entire night. Going back I would have told him do all the photo poses you want in the first hour then leave us alone. Also would have had someone walk around with us when we said hi to each table to help us get out of drawn out conversations to make it go faster.

    ocean5648 , Masood Aslami/pexels Report

    arthbach
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The key is saying, "Thank you so much for being here today. It means a lot to us. But, please excuse me, I must keep moving, and talk with all of the guests." It's kind, loving, and so utterly reasonable.

    Russell Tilling
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell the photographer(s) to f*** off after 0.5-1 hours!! Or they don’t get paid!!

    OneHappyPuppy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unrelated, but is that the Parliament in Budapest?

    nancy
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We hired a photographer to shoot for 30 minutes following the ceremony. That's it. It was affordable and enjoyable.

    Binky Melnik
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoa! The “bride” in this photo looks like a miserable b***h. I’m gonna assume it’s a model and that she’s hungry for a cracker; if she’s a real bride, I wanna scream “RUN!” at the groom.

    #15

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Not eloping. Our wedding was relatively small and inexpensive (less than 10k, less than 60 guests) but we could have spent that money on a sweet beach elopement and doubled up our honeymoon to be two weeks.

    BrightFireFly , Andrea Piacquadio/pexels Report

    Royal Stray
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That still sounds like a lot of money to me, but I'm broke so what do I know

    Suzie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly that is quite inexpensive even a small er and less frilly wedding here in the UK will be 20k obv you can find it for just the licence fees but I'm talking about hiring a nice venue not massive maybe a converted farm etc and food and reception for maybe 50 that all racks up IV seen it so many times where even on a budget it's the same as a house deposit

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    nancy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We only had 25 guests, but I still wish we had eloped.

    brittany
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    our wedding costs 65$. paid 10$ for my dress from a thrift store, 5 for the flowers (which i left in the car the day of lol) and the rest of just marriage registration and license fees at the court house.

    Robert Davis
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    1 year ago

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    Robert Davis
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife and I were married by an official and went on our honeymoon to. Loray Caverns. That was 22 years ago. Best decision ever .

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    #16

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Posing for pictures. Ended up putting so much energy into getting perfect pics we didn't spend time in the moment. Just ask your photographer to do candid shots only and focus on enjoying the day. Your pics will be great whether you try hard to have perfect photos or not and you won't look at the album nearly as often as you might think.

    ABAFBAASD , Ulyana Tim/pexels Report

    SweetCheesySpaghetti
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the exact opposite wish... we told our photographer to focus on candids, and we actually do not have any great shots of just the two of us. It always makes me sad.

    Captain Kyra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We set a time limit for posing. Family pictures before ceremony, couple photos for 30 minutes after. To the reception!

    #17

    Thinking it was so important to get all of my family there. In retrospect, those that had to be convinced and accommodated shouldn't have been there.

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    Just-4-2day
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is something that so many people don't realize. If they want to be at your wedding, they will be. You don't have to "convince" them, just invite them. You can always find the time and money to do what you want.

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    #18

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had A reception line. I got talked into it, I didn’t want to do it but felt pressured. All I did for 3/4 of my reception was stand and say hello to people it was miserable and took a lot of the fun out of the day.

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    Biofish23
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If greeting your guests takes that long and makes you miserable, you invited too many guests.

    Svenne O'Lotta
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Orrrrr you're just an introvert and this is a nightmare situation

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    sbj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And half the people you greet you don't recognise

    Rebekah Fuentes
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reception lines are tedious and uncomfortable for everyone involved.

    DogsAreLife
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is super common where I live, and takes up the entire wedding. We decided against a line (freaked some family out a bit) and it was the best decision ever. Lines are the worst!

    Bettye McKee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's your wedding; do it your way. I don't know who pressured you, but they weren't getting married that day.

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    #19

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Letting a homeless guy into our reception venue to use the restroom. Half-hour later, he's still in there. A few of my guests jimmied the door open and found him passed out on heroin.

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    sbj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This wasn't a mistake you can't change the fact that you're obviously a kind person

    Joanne Earle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Proving once again that no good deed goes unpunished.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There have been weddings where the person so found was the bride or the groom, so count this as a lucky escape.

    Lin Andrews
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't regret this! you are kind x

    #20

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had My regret is not taking the time out to enjoy myself. Both my wife and I spent a lot of time going around and talking to people, making sure we got through everyone and not missing anyone out, and doing things to make sure everyone felt included. Since then, we’ve found out that everyone was super happy and we didn’t need to spend that time seemingly appeasing everybody. We both regret not taking a bit of time out and just enjoying ourselves with our immediate friends. We’re desperate to go to another wedding at the same venue as guests, so we can get the experience we created for ours.

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    Papa
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who gets pissy that you didn't spend enough time with them at your wedding reception is someone who doesn't deserve having you spend time with them anyway.

    Captain Kyra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At my wedding nearly 22 years ago anyone who wanted to talk to me had to come dance with me. Our wedding was so much fun. We danced with our friends and the dance floor was packed. One song near the end of the night they cleared the floor for my in laws. My father in law is in a wheelchair and it was lovely for he and his wife to dance together.

    jonesnori
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's amazing that OP and wife made sure every guest felt welcome. That was kind, and a good start for their marriage. You can get together with your friends another time.

    Sarah Ellison
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was lucky enough to attend a wedding at the same venue as my wedding as a guest, it was so much fun being unfettered and able to go where we wanted when we wanted, enjoy the meal and drinks to the fullest, and hang out with the people we wanted to hang out with. Hope you get the same opportunity!

    Joanne Earle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After attending a few big Italian weddings in NY when older cousins got married, I knew I didn't want anything like that. The thought of being on display like that was terrifying. My first marriage we eloped and went on Dead tour for our honeymoon. My second marriage was extremely small, only 11 people total. As a result, I have clear memories of both days rather than being overwhelmed by all the sensory overload.

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    #21

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Actually it's NOT doing something..my wife's uncle ,as our wedding gift,hired the dj. I wanted to talk to the dj to make sure that he'd have the songs we wanted "don't worry about it he has everything" so I didn't..... Don't get me wrong he did a good job it's just that he had every song but the couple that ment something to us!

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    Susan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have special songs you want played telling your DJ is a must! They're not psychics

    Chris Ramage
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a wedding DJ myself I always sit down with my clients at least twice and work with them on what they want for the day and make sure they know what they are paying for. Sure I will make suggestions if I don't think something will work, but it's their day not anyone else's

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    #22

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Getting a friend to video, it's c**p.

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    sbj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, this happens often, my sister let her brother-in-law do it and he got drunk and lost the camera

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I filmed my sister's wedding in 1985, but I borrowed some professional equipment that I was familiar with.

    RabidChild
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I filmed my brother & SIL's wedding. They deserved far, far better. lol

    #23

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had I should have made my wife eat her meal. We sat at the table alone and chatted while everyone else was eating and she said she wasn't very hungry after eating like 1/4 of her plate. Turns out that half hour was the only 30 minutes of the day she wasn't hungry. I finally went downstairs and got her a plate of hors d'oeuvres after her trying to politely sneak down for two hours. They spirited her food away some point after dinner and she still regrets not getting to eat the great food we picked out.

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    howdylee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a fairly tight corset to hold up my wedding dress. It was mostly okay, but just tight enough that I could barely eat even though I know I was hungry.

    Tereza Cervenakova
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know it's late, but if you couldn't eat, the corset was most likely ill-fitted, and too tight. Did you spent some time "breaking in" into the corset? If well-fitted and worn right, corsets are one of the most comfortable underwear (or overwear, if you prefer). You absolutely should be able to eat, sing, run and do light exercise while wearing corset.

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    Sparky
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your wife has a grown up, this is on her, not on you.

    Captain Kyra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was the only place my nerves showed. I wasn't hungry all day. I had the ceremonial bite of cake. I drank tea and water. An apple at 10 pm

    jonesnori
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a standup reception with nibbles (and chairs around the edges), and I was too busy visiting with people to get anything to eat. A cousin brought me some punch, so at least I had something to drink. It was worth it.

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    #24

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had I would move speeches to before dinner is served, people are quicker when they're hungry and not drunk yet. I personally wouldn't bother with the first dance, we're not dancers, it was really f*****g awkward. The one thing I would reccomend to everyone is having party bombs - like mini indoor firework and inside theres silly stuff to play with. We had groups of people from different places who didn't know each other, it was a brilliant icebreaker and so much fun!

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    Helen Bennett
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad had the wonderful idea of giving little bottles of bubble mix to all the kids (also available for adults ;-) ) and party squeakers, and they were great ice-breakers too. Small silliness is a beautiful thing.

    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aussies: - 'party bombs' are they sounding like christmas crackers/bon bons?

    Jessie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry but who gets drunk at a wedding? I’ve been to a lot of weddings and have never seen anyone getting drunk, only heard of an uncle getting drunk at a wedding once and it was a huge scandal in the whole acquaintance group even though nothing really major happened.

    Spannidandoolar
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We did the speeches between courses, worked nicely as it broke them up and my dad got his out of the way early enough to be able to enjoy his food

    #25

    Txting my wife “yo, are we still on for today?”.

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    #26

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had In all honesty, I regret dancing so much. We danced so much, we forgot to go around to individually thank everyone for coming. They all came to us on the dance floor to say hello. 10/10 still dancing.

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    sbj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is how it should be

    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a Scottish ceilidh, so everyone dances with everyone else. If you can't quite remember who someone is, you can just fake breathlessness - perfect!

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    #27

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Tiny wedding in a beautiful state park. I forgot the rings in the car and my dad was kind enough to jog back and get them. That's the only regret I have for that day.

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    sbj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like it was a great Wedding day to me

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish more people who use public spaces had the sense to keep it small.

    #28

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Using a friend to take the wedding photos instead of paying a professional photographer. I was in grad school at the time and we were trying to save money, so we asked a friend of my wife’s to take the photos. He was an amateur with a new camera. Nearly every one of our wedding photos is either grainy or blurry. Some of our family in the wedding has died, and it really makes us sad to not have good photos of the family together.

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    Joanne Earle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with my second wedding. I thought my friend was a competent photographer but all the pics are blurry! I was really disappointed. She wasn't used to using an actual DSLR camera instead of a cell phone. Despite my settings being on 'auto'....just basically point and shoot....somehow they were blurry.

    Bettye McKee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had at least three people taking photos at our wedding, including my sister who is a professional photographer. I combined all the photos in my album and have lots of good memories when I look at them.

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    #29

    I wanted a small event for about 20 people. My fiancée agreed, but then her mom insisted they have a lot of very close and important family members, they JUST HAVE TO invite. So we agreed on a bigger wedding, but parents suppose to pay. We searched for a wedding venue and estimated a cost for 90 guest (less then 30 where from my side of the family), but everyone was happy about it (including me at this point) They all agreed for the costs except my mom, who was widowed for 10 years at this point and couldn't afford it. So I offered I'll cover her part myself. I was working abroad and sending most of my money to my future wife and let her organize everything and trusted with wathever she was doing with that money. A few months before the wedding was due and I came back to my country I discovered my money covered the whole wedding. Her parents ghosted the subject. That marriage didn't hold up. I calculated how much money I've put into the wedding just because of my ex-mother-in-law's delusional thinking and I'm still goddamn mad at this waste of money. Also... only 20 members of my family showed up against 60 of hers (that totally had to be invited) and the ratio of money in the envelopes from both sides was still 50-50. I'm even more mad.

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    PurpurLapsa
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar story. Me and my husband wanted small ceremony with immediate family - parents and siblings only. We lived together for 8 years so why not make it official. We paid for everything ourselves and wanted to invest money in a new apartment instead of big wedding party. So, some time later we found out that my MIL started to invite people behind our backs to the wedding. She thought we will give in, but my husband called every relative she invited and explained, that wedding is only for parents and siblings to attend and this is what we want. (To be honest, we wanted to marry without any ceremony at all.) In the end my husband had a huge fight with his mother and she didn't came to wedding. *edited, because english is my second language.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you and your husband for not giving in to her. Also, your English is fine (and I'm one of those people who hates typos, and poor grammar and spelling).

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    Just-4-2day
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never ask someone to pay for your wedding. Only plan a wedding that YOU can afford. If the family(s) insist on paying for something, have them put the $$ into a savings account. You can have a pot-luck wedding, invite the whole world, but don't go into debt for a party.

    Joanne Earle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew my mother would insist on inviting this person and that person and there was no way I was gonna be able to have anything small. It's why I eloped the first time. I felt bad that my dad had to be collateral damage with a lot of my decisions in life but my smother was sucking the life out of me bit by bit.

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    #30

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had I did have video and im glad but I wished I’d splurged on a better videographer so I agree on that especially if you’re doing a micro wedding or know people won’t be able to come who matter to you. My husband and I gave our vows to a trusted friend to review and she gave us feedback about how to align them better.

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    #31

    Invited everyone back to our new house to bbq. Was exhausted after the wedding then had to cook for 50+ people. Who talked all night wouldn’t leave and trashed our house. The next day we cleaned all day long. Our family’s rarely get together so we wanted to make it a big family thing. We have never done it again lol.

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    Jonathan Labelle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ``Our family’s rarely get together ``I think i know Why

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    #32

    Seems like most people's regret can be drilled down into doing what their parents wanted them to do.

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    Firefly
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine is. I wanted a very small wedding. A friend to marry us and then a group of friends going out to a restaurant. My mom pressured us into having a wedding. I told her I would do it as long as she handled everything. She did for the most part, but I still got more involved than I wanted to. She told me that I would regret it, as she had had a courthouse wedding and regretted hers. Almost 30 years later, the only thing I regret is not going ahead with my first plan. People are different, and I know I wouldn't have regretted that choice. The funny thing is, that even though my wedding was still relatively small and simple, she said afterwards she wished I would have eloped.

    Kylie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't please everyone, so you might as well please yourself/ves.

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    #33

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Having one. The marriage was enough for us but we were pressured into having a wedding. It was fine, I guess, but I wish we would have just gone on a better, longer honeymoon.

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    Howl's sleeping castle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We wanted a court wedding with just our families but as it was literally the last wedding before our nephews (currently 5 and 7 years old) are old enough to get married, every one from both families and relatives wanted a grand wedding. It was fun but yeah all the money we spent, could have been used for something important.

    sbj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When it comes to getting married you should always put yourselves first

    Biytemii
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I technically had 3 weddings it was ridiculous and too much work 2 were small because our first one the real one was just mine and his immediate family at a park it was amazing but then I have family in north carolina and my grandfather just died a year before and I know my grandmother wanted to have a catholic sort of priest and ɓe there for the wedding as well so had one there with alot of my family there, the last one and hugest most ridiculous one was in india with him family and it was nothing I have ever experienced I was so overwhelmed by over 200 people to meet and take pics woth but it was amazing overall just wish i could have done one bigger one or just the one small original one...

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    #34

    I actually had a fantastic wedding. We got married in Vegas at the Luxor hotel. All we had to do is show up and say “I do”. Pics were easy, ceremony was easy, buffet after was easy. It took about 15 minutes and because it was a destination wedding, we only had very close family and friends there. Total cost was under $5k including flights. I wouldn’t change a thing.

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    #35

    Giving in and allowing children to attend. They interrupted the ceremony, broke shit at the reception, stained my husband's vest, etc. Trusting my MIL to not fuck things up. Never trust crazy people.

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you ban children from being involved in your wedding, you must realize that some parents belong to that category.

    alaina66
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well then those parents have to decide...go to the wedding or stay home with your kids...

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    Susan
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd say the children at wedding situation depends on the couple's tastes, the venue and time of day/night as well as whether those children are typically well behaved or not. I've been to plenty of child friendly weddings and there was never an issue because the kids just had fun on the dancefloor the whole time (especially when all of he adults were afraid to get out there)

    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago

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    Well, you do you, but children are part of the society we live in too. Isn't a wedding a community coming together to wish you well? Or is it just a fake and bland Instagram stage?

    devotedtodreams
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because children are a part of our society doesn't mean they can be very disruptive too. Not all events are supposed to be "kid-friendly", as in children are allowed. If the bride and groom choose to have a child-free wedding, that's their choice and theirs alone.

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    #36

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had Getting a s****y photographer my mom recommended (someone from her church). As we're taking pre-wedding pictures (part of the wedding picture package), I asked him during one of the breaks what got him into photography. He answered "it's just something to do while I try to open my restaurant". That should've been the red flag.

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    #37

    Going into labor.

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    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha!! Babies definitely pick their moment. I hope it went well and your child's timing has got a bit better! ;-)

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    #38

    Well, not the wedding day precisely, but the next day. A) F**k Carnival cruises and B) What idiot books their honeymoon travel requiring them to get up at 6am the day after the wedding? Oh wait. Us. We're the idiots. Other than that, my wife is a phenomenal planner so our only real regret day-of (and after..) was relying on other people for key points of transportation. My best man was an hour late picking me up (unclench, I planned on being their hours early to help the vendors set up, so I wasn't anywhere close to late for the wedding); then my parents were late getting us to the airport for our honeymoon flight and we almost missed a) the flight and b) the bus to the cruise line because of delays. Shout out to the limo driver with the 1920s rolls who was driving my wife and the bridesmaids/MIL before the wedding (and the two of us after) though, he and the car were top notch. Things we did not regret: * Not overspending on flowers. Our florist was **AMAZING** at working within a fairly tight budget - giving her a dollar range and very general color theme instead of demanding specific flowers paid ***incredible*** dividends. She was able to build amazing displays that weren't very expensive at all and tied in beautifully to the venue. The only thing my wife really had her heart set on was mango calla lillies for her bridal bouquet, but we gave orange roses to the bridesmaids and everything looked brilliant. * Getting the drink upgrade package. Venue specific but the difference between full open bar vs 3 bottles of wine on each table and cash bar was like $3 per guest. Kindof a no brainer. * Venue. To each their own, but if you're near any kind of wine country, it's shocking how reasonable prices are for events - competition in a free market occasionally does work for consumers. Rustic stacked-stone barrelhouse with outdoor string lighting, full catering and the ambience of a vineyard in late September, all for about $10k all-inclusive. Beat the hell out of the local golf courses, elks lodge, and other venues we looked at in terms of both absolute price and what we got for our money. * A great DJ. Seriously, whoever DJs is going to be more than half of the time your guests remember. Get some personality and someone you can count on to *lead* the event. (I had a slight advantage there since I used to work as an event DJ and hired the guy i used to work for.).

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    Susan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dang, a vineyard sounds like an amazing location. Now I want a redo!

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    #39

    Then? I would say not giving more money for booze upfront because we ran out and my in-laws quietly added $2,000 to the bar tab during the reception, which I’m sure cut into their fun a bit. Now? The groom.

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    Davinia Fox
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. 100% the groom. Had the most perfect wedding. Actually don't regret that... best wedding ever... except the groom. Can still recall that first big red flag waving frantically and me ignoring it, and the next, and the next. Can also recall thinking about divorce the morning of the wedding. Took 15 years to unravel that disastrous union. Later married the right man with a smaller unique wedding. No regrets there.

    Blue Bunny of Happiness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With you on regretting the groom bit. Advice to everyone, never settle. You deserve someone amazing. No one is perfect, but don’t stay with someone simply because you think you can’t do better. Stay with someone because you truly love them and their morals and values align with yours.

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's fine to say to never settle, but that is only valid if you have realistic expectations. If you're living in your parent's basement, aren't going to school or working, and don't really have a plan for your life, Miss America is probably not in your future.

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    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish we had also run a paid bar but tbh we had all sorts of family dramas bubbling away under the surface and I was worried it would turn into some ugly brawl if too much alcohol was added into the mix. We paid for reception drinks, wines with the meal and put a bit of money behind the bar but not too much. My uncle added quite a bit but I do feel bad about that now looking back. It's hard to get the right balance sometimes. I was genuinely more worried about the family drama at the time and it's easy to forget that in retrospect.

    #40

    Getting married publicly and changing my name. I only wanted a court house wedding and desperately wanted to keep my name. My x would only marry me if those conditions were met. I should have known then.

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    #41

    Not eloping and leaving my mother-in-law in the dark. I could have had hair and makeup done. Could have had the dress of my dreams. And may even have pictures on my walls from a day I loved. I had none of those things and it still hurts.

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    #42

    Interesting how quite a few say they regret *not eloping*, but so far nobody said they regret doing it.

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    PurpurLapsa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, we do regret not eloping. We went with small ceremony instead but the drama was there, ughh...

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    #43

    Getting married in A church. it was OK and didn't ruin our day at all, both of are parents are Catholic, and it just made everything easier to make out parents happy, but It got weird when they asked us to promise to have children and we were like no. we had a ceremony that meant nothing to us, for our parents, and a reception for us after.

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    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We compromised and got married in a ruined church by the sea by a Humanist celebrant. I'm Jewish, he's undecided and his family is super Catholic. Luckily, they are accepting of me and the way our kids are being raised.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At our Catholic wedding, we had to promise to "be open" to having children. Ok, if the stork delivers any, I'll swing the front door wide open.

    #44

    Not a blessed thing. Got married with plain silver bands ($16 ea.) at the courthouse ($50) and went out for chili dogs at Dairy Queen after. Be 10 years ago this coming summer.

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    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If both parties are in agreement with this sort of wedding, it's probably going to last. It's your wedding, do what YOU want.

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    #45

    Picking the longest song ever for a first dance.

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    #46

    Having a cake because you "have to have a cake." Our dinner was fairly late and came with desert, and then an hour later there was cake that literally everyone was to full to eat.

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    #47

    Nothing. My wife and I eloped with one guest in attendance, the officiant, and a photographer. I wouldn’t change anything that we did. No drama, no stress.

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    #48

    Including religious elements, and Biblical readings, out of tradition. I also thought my family expected it. Really wish we would’ve left that out. Also, inviting most of my extended family.

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    #49

    Not renting my wedding dress. What a huge waste of mo eye to look great for 2 hours. Besides I had a boy so couldn't even pass it down.

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    Angela C
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even if you had a girl there's no guarantee she'd want your dress. Styles change over time.

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hard to see in the future... you could have had a girl as a second child, or your son may get engaged and your future daughter in law maybe could have used it.

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    #50

    My wife and I had a couple try and crash our wedding during the reception. Looking back I might have just let them stay.

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    #51

    “Several Inappropriate Baby Videos”: 30 Horrible Or Wonderful Wedding Experiences Folks Had My wedding was a month ago, so I've taken the time to let the dust settle before making this post. I wanted to recap my learnings in hopes that it's useful to anyone out there. Overall, I had a fantastic covid era wedding. It was held at a beautiful, premiere location and my guests told me how much they loved everything. Guest enjoyed a five course dinner in a beautiful garden setting, with a great live band and magician. My virtual guests got to witness the ceremony via the Lovecast App - which is truly AMAZING. It's so easy, very high quality and they got throw virtual rice. I highly recommend this app to anyone wanting distant guests to partake on the festivities. I wish I had it running the whole time to be honest with you. Now here are my regrets...I didn't get to enjoy my wedding at all (and I didn't get to relive it in an enjoyable way). :-( So, firstly, REALLY REALLY consider getting a videographer. My initial budget for AV was sizeable, so I could afford a boutique photographer, but I felt bad to push for a videographer as well. As my husband is working right now and I'm not....I wish I followed my instincts because as a bride I missed every important moment that mattered to me. I had a surprise set up for my groom before walking down the aisle, and no one took video of it. Even my volunteer camera person, who was filming with the app, filmed the floor half the time. The reality is, you cannot replace a professional with an amateur (and I'd know because I have an AV background). All the video and pictures I got back from my guests were AWFUL. Im talking videos of me eating, videos up my nose...just awful. This is going to happen, so if you want lasting memories, do not skimp on your AV. If the emotions and the sounds matter to you, video is the way to go. Photography is also important, but its a different product. Secondly, I did too much DIY. I did almost everything from my make up, to the cake, to the florals...I practiced and planned ahead but I was so exhausted going into my day. If you can afford it (and we really could but I am too financially cautious) always hire out for any tasks that need to be done close to the wedding. Take the day off before your wedding to decompress. No one should break the bank for their wedding, BUT don't compromise on important things, because you will be reminded by those pictures and videos on how you comprised yourself. Thirdly, if you are getting a budget wedding dress, don't share it with anyone. Because everyone has an opinion (sometimes a rude one), and it will make you doubt yourself. Not all of us can have that bridal, say yes to the dress moment, so just enforce, "keep your opinions to yourself moment". Finally, if you choose to write your own vows, make sure you clearly state an outline of expectations for each vow. Give it a word count and a deadline. According to my officiant, everyone waits last minute to write their vows (as did we). I ended up with a long heartfelt essay and surprise presentation for my groom; and he wrote maybe 3 lines...I felt disappointed. So be clear with expectations. Anyways, hopefully you all can learn from my mistakes and have the most wonderful wedding experience. May your big days be filled with joy and love!

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    #52

    I absolutely adored my wedding. If I would change one thing though, it would have been to hire a hair and makeup artist. My MIL did my hair and it was fine and I did my own makeup and it was fine, but I wish I had just let myself spend that little bit extra on myself looking back. Even though we did get caught in the rain so it all would have been ruined the same either way haha. Made for a fabulous waterfall photo though!

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    #53

    Not eloping. I just had a no frills courthouse wedding, it did the job, but the magistrate was really serious. it might have been better it was some Elvis impersonator.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A friend of my wife used to date an Elvis impersonator until she figured out he was also a boy friend impersonator.

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    #54

    Not wearing sunscreen. As it turns out the rules don’t change because it’s a special day.

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    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A few of our guests were caught out on our beautifully sunny wedding day in Scotland! They just hadn't expected it.

    #55

    The closest thing to a regret that I can muster about that day was drinking the previous night. I had a rule of no shots. I broke that rule. As a result, I upheld the proud tradition of being borderline dead on my feet and made it through the ceremony on little more than gumption and the matrimonial equivalent to [stage health.](https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Stage%20Health).

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    #56

    Making sure I said hi to everyone. I remember a table with my husband's aunt and cousin who I had never met and as I walked past I realized later they were getting ready for me to come over and say hi. I had just got done walking away from my step-mom who was causing all kinds of drama and it didn't dawn on me until later that I didn't make sure I said hi to them. It was a very small wedding and I said hi to a lot of them but I know I missed a few and regret it. Oh, and ignoring all drama. I had an amazing night but I should have ignored my step-mom and I should have made my maid of honor take a cab instead of being her DD on my wedding night.

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    #57

    Played pickup basketball with wedding guests the morning of. Played too competitively in like 90+ degree heat; everyone who played was just too gassed to keep the party going late night.

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    #58

    Don't do the box cameras on the tables thing, that you develop later. Be glad you have a camera in your hand at all times, instead of this disaster. We developed, this pile of anonymous cameras, and to say we didn't expect what we saw would be an understatement.

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    #59

    All this ties in together: The wedding package fee went on my credit card, when my husband could have easily paid for it in cash, as he'd just received a large settlement that I encouraged him to pursue. I could have reimbursed him with payments for my half. I'm still struggling with the interest. Also, I reluctantly agreeing to a more expensive package than I wanted, so that he could invite a lot of family--most of which cancelled due to Covid (March 2020). The cancellations took place last minute, leaving no time to find replacement guests that we had wanted to invite, but couldn't because of space. My husband's parents thoughtfully sent a large monetary gift as a wedding present. My husband assumed he was going to keep the funds to do as he wished. Eventually, I spoke up and asked for a portion to help cover my credit card costs, but by then the interest had done a lot of damage. I should have spoken up sooner when it became obvious he wasn't going to send over any to my account. To sum everything up: I wish I would have put common sense ahead of my romantic feelings, and looked out for my own interests better. I've taken a hit to my credit score that could have been avoided if the planning had gone better.

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    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This may not be a popular opinion, but if one spouse has money to pay for the wedding, but the other one goes into debt to pay for her half, they aren't in a committed relationship. They're roommates with benefits.

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    #60

    Rushing through it. I had all the things we "needed" to do as a checklist in my brain and I was just going through checking them off instead of enjoying all the moments. Now I see pictures and remember the little moments (thankful for a wonderful photographer who was also a friend), but I do wish I had done it at the time.

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    #61

    For some god unknown reason my mother recommended my dad and I dance to “Sunrise, Sunset” from Fiddler on the Roof. I was in a hurry and took her word for it. OMFG what I wouldn’t give to just dance to literally anything but...longest a*s song, I was visibly in pain.

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    Cora Han
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My father requested this song for our dance. He complained halfway through about the length of the song.

    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's also a very sad song. What a bizarre choice!

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    #62

    Not losing the 20 lbs i was suppose to lose.

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    Blue Bunny of Happiness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only an issue if you bought a dress/suit a smaller size than you are. Your future spouse loves you as you are and not what you would like if you were 20lbs lighter. If they only love you as 20lbs lighter, you shouldn’t be marrying them!

    #63

    Letting the guy who owned the place where we had our reception order the cake. He asked if we wanted whipped cream or marzipan, we said marzipan and the cake we got was whipped cream. Excellent cake so no biggie but we should have gone to a bakery ourselves.

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    #64

    I forgot to tell my vegetarian friends there were more options for them, they just needed to ask. They were actually really surprised there were already so many things they could have and didn't feel like they missed anything. I felt vaguely guilty, even though they were happy as it was. Other than that, well, the only not great things were out of my control.

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    #65

    I thought I wouldn’t want it, but now I wish I had hired a videographer. My pictures are amazing, but I would have liked to be able to watch it.

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    #66

    I have a couple of things I’d change... in no particular order; Not putting disposable cameras on the guests tables. Cheesy I know, but it would have been great to have some pictures of things I missed. Videographer. My mother was adamant this was the way, and I thought I knew better. Sadly, at lot of things happened on the day spur of the moment which I remember now, but who knows in 10 years time. Evening guests. I wish I’d upgraded my evening guests that I was on the fence about to day guests and been done away with the rest. We had some amazing people show up, but when the evening portions is 6/7 hours into the swing of the day, a new group of arrivals really did slow the pace. Plus, you want to show your appreciation to them for coming, but as they’re on a different level, you’re not all in the same headspace and you need to say how ‘lovely’ the day was and how much fun you’d had. Go with your gut on a photographer. I loved out photographer, I didn’t/don’t love our photos. Just because some one is awesome, doesn’t mean you will get the end result you desire. Spend some time scrutinising their work to make sure you get what YOU want.

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    Davinia Fox
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disposable cameras? What a waste. Is this the dark ages? Have your guests upload their photos to a designated site.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People on this site are of all ages. No one at our wedding uploaded any photos to anywhere. Because it was 1987. 1987 AD, in case you're wondering.

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