Valentine’s Day is like the anise seed or olives of holidays - you either love it or despise it to the point you’re trembling with hate at the sight of hearts, heart-shaped chocolates, anything pink, and more heart-shaped stuff (which isn’t even anatomically correct! The horror!). However, if you like celebrating Valentine’s Day, you know how romantic it can get and how truly beautiful the feeling of celebrating love is. However, even the real devotees might get lost in choosing the right ideas to commemorate this event, but fret not - we’ve gathered some of the most romantic, original, cool, and cute Valentine’s Day ideas, so you won't have to strain your brain on figuring out how to please your date and instead just please them.
So, what should you expect from this Valentine’s Day ideas list that we’ve so carefully crafted? Well, for starters, an honorary mention of all the classic ways to spend this heart-filled evening you might’ve forgotten. Then, there are date ideas for daredevils and adrenaline lovers because, you know, strong feelings breed strong connections. Then, there are a couple of thoroughly original ideas for Valentine’s Day, and if you thought of them before we did, congrats to you for being absolutely unique! And lastly, you should absolutely expect this list to answer the What to do on Valentine’s day question!
Right, ready to check out our top picks for Valentine's ideas? If so, you know where to find them! Once you are there, rank these submissions by giving your vote to the best ones, and lastly, share this article with your date if they are the one to like surprises!
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Reenact your first date.
The laughing girl, the corny jokes he told, and the sneaky glances... Oh, and that restaurant with the strange food and moody lighting that nevertheless managed to become one of your favorite places. Do you two want to go back to that evening? Plan to meet at 8 o'clock in formal attire, wearing that same cherry-red lipstick and green tie. Your Valentine's Day this year will be a special one! Marriage proposals often involve simulating a first date—just a thought.
Cook something new.
Try out your culinary abilities and prepare a beautiful supper together instead of going out to dine. If you prepare a dish you've never tried before, bonus points.
It doesn't have to be new or difficult either. Team up and make pizza, or some ramen. Make a meatloaf. It'll all be fun! I'm single so I could be wrong. Lol
Make a time capsule.
This is a wonderful hobby that keeps an enduring friendship alive. For your personal time capsule, collect mementos of your love, such as pictures and letters. This Valentine's Day, bury it and promise to unearth it the following year.
Or if you don’t want to dig something up, I’m making a book time capsule for my partner of a photos together and all our favorite memories
Create a waffle bar.
Is brunch your preferred meal to enjoy with friends? By constructing a DIY waffle bar, you may create the waffles of your liking. Waffle batter, a waffle maker, and any toppings you like are all you need.
Share a fondue meal.
Are you two foodies who prefer to forget about everything else and indulge in fondue? Grab some bread, a big pot of fondue, and some forks, and dig in! It is a Swiss and French Savoyard meal cooked on a portable stove with melted cheese. A chocolate fondue with delicious morsels of fruits and pastries is an option if you prefer something sweet over something savory. Doesn't that sound divine?
And feed each other. You know what they say when eating fondue?! Fork you
Watch one of your favorite love stories.
To express your adoration on Valentine's Day, watch a romantic film together. Have a movie marathon or stick to your all-time favorite, whether it's a romantic comedy like You've Got Mail or a moving one like Titanic. Enjoy some popcorn and soda, make love, and laugh at jokes.
Make a jar of dates.
Who said that love was exclusively on Valentine's Day? Ideas for enjoyable dates should be written down and placed in a jar. Then, pick it's time for date night, pick an idea from the jar, and get ready for an adventure with your significant other.
Reserve a suite.
Take a brief getaway as a pair by packing up a few items. If you are an overworked parent or workaholic, I would especially suggest this to you. Send the kids to their beloved grandparents, reschedule everything, and reserve a comfortable suite for the two of you. Spend the day lounging in bed together, watching a romantic movie on Netflix, ordering takeout, and engaging in uninterrupted conversation free from distractions and diaper explosions.
"Send the kids to their beloved grandparents" and... they'll end up staying home. Both asleep within the hour - in their "comfortable suite"! (heard from friends)
Create a cocktail.
What stops you from having your unique cocktail when you can dance to a specific song? Something that you cannot just pick up off the shelf or purchase at your neighborhood pub. Make a cocktail that embodies the ferocity of your feelings and the flaming flavors of your love to celebrate the day of affection and love. Raise a glass in honor of your union and enjoy yourself!
Feed one another.
As they say, delicious cuisine is the quickest road to the heart! Feed each other a plate of delectable treats, smile, and fall in love again. Although it may sound corny, the intimate exchange is the ideal way to rekindle the passion in your relationship. Don't hold back on anything, from spicy sandwiches to sweet candy. Avoid biting each other's fingers, but a slight nip might be acceptable.
Make a work of art.
Get artistic and create a memento of your relationship using paint, sculpture, drawing, or other media. Long-term couples can celebrate their years of memories with a sculpture or photo collage, while new couples can create something that can be added to, like a series of matching painted mugs.
Make a scrapbook of your dating life
It's time to fight back! Making a relationship scrapbook is one of the best understated but heartfelt Valentine's Day ideas. While remembering your finest romantic encounters, gather some photos and unique remarks to place into the book. If you record funny Valentine's Day pickup lines in the pages for later laughter, you get bonus points.
Make a playlist of songs that reflect your relationship.
Create a CD with all the songs that are significant to your relationship. What music did your first date have playing? Before, you had a boyfriend or girlfriend, right? What song was played at your wedding? Is there a band that makes you think of happy times? You can make it a tradition to play the music on Valentine's Day every year.
Tell the reasons you fell in love with each other.
That is my preferred game! My spouse will inevitably ask me if I inquire about his romantic history and when he first fell in love with me. In the middle of a hectic existence, it enables us to revisit the pleasant moments and reminds us of our compatibility. Remind your partner of why you choose to be with them and what makes them unique this Valentine's Day.
Take a pottery class.
If you think about pottery, ceramic bowls may come to mind. You understand why I am bringing up the pottery on Valentine's Day, though, if you have seen the film Ghost. One of the most romantic scenes in the movie revolves around pottery! So take a private pottery class and recreate the famous scene if you and your special someone would like some creativity and romance mixed.
Stick romantic messages throughout the house.
Do you and your hubby enjoy writing each other romantic letters and small notes? Do you leave them in each other's wallets, on the bathroom mirror, or even on the refrigerator? Finding a love note and discovering how much you mean to someone is a great surprise. There may be things you want to say but are unable to. Sticky notes come to our aid!
Make a picture album.
Put your most excellent photos in a digital album honoring your love after looking through them together and pausing to chat about all the experiences. It has a sweet caption for a pair, and you can print it off or post it online. Add some greetings for Valentine's Day.
Enjoy a day of your favorite things.
To share with your companion, choose a handful of your favorite items. They could be modest—like a favorite lotion or shade of rose—or substantial—like a hike to your favorite viewpoint. Your link will deepen once you understand why it means so much.
Play love song karaoke.
Make a playlist of love songs, especially the finest ones, and sing karaoke for each other. It's one of those Valentine's Day suggestions that will make you smile and swoon simultaneously (but mostly laugh).
Make a vision board together.
Discussing and planning your future together is an excellent technique for developing a stronger bond with a partner. Make a vision board with the goals you both want to achieve, then decide what you can do jointly. As a result, you'll bond with your significant other and enhance communication.
Gift an experience.
Flowers, chocolate, and candies are lovely, but experiences are frequently far more valuable than material possessions. So plan a particular activity for the two of you, like a paint-and-sip class, a morning hike, or an escape room.
Count the stars.
Nothing is more romantic than lying together under the stars. Take a blanket, a stargazing app, and spend some time alone admiring the night sky if the weather allows.
Go to a comedy show.
It can be immensely seductive and romantic to laugh together. Observe live improv with Valentine's theme or get tickets to a comedy show.
Gift-buying at secondhand stores.
A tight budget? Go to your preferred consignment shop. You have 30 minutes and $15 each to find the ideal cheap Valentine's Day gift for the other. Choose the ideal date-night clothing if you have a little more cash, but you must wear whatever your spouse chooses!
Enroll in a dance class.
It takes two to tango, as the adage goes. For a special Valentine's Day experience, put on your dancing shoes and enroll in a dance class with your significant other.
Plan a holiday for two.
Planning a romantic getaway for your special someone is one of the most significant possibilities if you want to go all out for Valentine's Day ideas. Even a tiny weekend break with your significant other can be pretty special. So get ready to go and celebrate your unbreakable bond.
Walk dogs at an animal shelter.
Is this a covert ruse to get a new furry friend? Maybe. Even if you choose not to adopt, you can still experience puppy love by showing some cute dogs some love and care.
Keep the night long.
Do you recall the early days of your relationship, when the two of you would converse on the phone into the early morning hours? Then, plan an all-nighter that may include conversing, laughing, dancing, or taking a late-night stroll to recreate that memorable time.
Dine in an expensive restaurant.
Sometimes it seems like eons have passed since you and your partner enjoyed a lovely meal without checking the time. Plan to spend the evening enjoying a fine supper at a five-star restaurant without having to worry about any unfinished housekeeping or upcoming obligations. Unwind, go to your preferred upscale eatery, and indulge in fine cuisine while enjoying the peace.
Oddly, this can easily be counter-effective. The sheer number dining out on Valentine's Day can often tax many local restaurants. Impossible to get reservations, jammed venues, overworked servers and kitchen/ingredient exhaustion can often make this less than the ideal experience! Never audition a new restaurant... on Valentine's Day!
View the setting sun.
You don't have to be on a distant tropical island to enjoy a beautiful sundown across the horizon. A beautiful sunset can be seen right in your town. A clean view is all you require. When dusk falls, my husband and I frequently stroll to the field across from our home, sit on a seat, and watch the sun slowly sink below the horizon. It is merely peaceful.
Have a picnic.
You will need to dig out that stale old picnic basket for this romantic Valentine's Day project. Choose a remote outdoor hideaway, add some of your favorite wine, and make memories.
Watch a drive-in movie.
Drive-in theaters are still in operation, believe it or not! Head to the closest drive-in theater and watch a romantic movie to get you in the mood if you're missing love and memories. Instead of watching the movie, cuddle with your lover. It will bring back your first romantic experience and the fluttery feelings accompanying it. And all of that is easily transformed into the hot make-out session that a drive-in movie is meant to be.
By coincidence, I saw "A New Hope" (on release) at the drive-in with my first wife. We had a basket of ham and cheese baguettes and a few Beaujolais. Make-out session goes without saying! Second wife and I had three kids and our entire family regularly visited drive-ins even 20 some years later.
Create love diaries.
The present that keeps on giving this Valentine's Day is this: Create or purchase a love notebook with prompts for writing a funny recollection, a short narrative, or something you like about your significant other on each page. On Valentine's Day, give each other a book. This is ideal for those who prefer writing over speaking when expressing affection.
Try a new dessert recipe.
Put on your aprons and prepare a brand-new Valentine's Day dessert. Search for one online or make your own. After that, alternate feeding it to one another.
Volunteer.
On Valentine's Day, give back to your neighborhood by helping at a nearby animal shelter, soup kitchen, or other nonprofit organization. It's a beautiful method to strengthen your relationship and communicate your love with your mate.
Exchange love poetry.
Choose your favorite love poems and recite them aloud to your spouse if you both appreciate poetry. Or you could compose your love poetry and trade them. You get to retain the poetry as souvenirs of an excellent Valentine's Day, and it's a romantic, intimate, and incredibly charming pastime.
Solve a murder mystery.
There's nothing more romantic than solving a make-believe crime. Spend Valentine's Day with your special someone immersed in mystery by ordering a fun detective game (Hunt a Killer is an excellent subscription choice). There are numerous thrills and chills to experience.
Visit a museum.
On Valentine's Day, going to a museum is a great date idea because you get to spend time with your date while also learning something new. An actual win-win situation!
Read a book.
This concept is for all you bookworms. On Valentine's Day, visit your neighborhood bookshop and choose a book for you. This may be a romance, a thriller, or another genre you both enjoy. Read it slowly, then gather with others to debate it. It will be your own book club!
Create a spa at home.
Create an at-home spa for your sweetheart and indulge them without leaving the house. For a peaceful evening at home, stock up on face masks, massage oils, and other spa supplies.
Go for a hike
Even if it's cold where you are, for Valentine's Day, unplugging and relaxing by going on a beautiful trek is a great idea. Perhaps you have a favorite place near your home, or you want to attempt one of the top treks in the United States.
Pretend to be a tourist.
Do you have a local landmark that you've always wanted to see? or perhaps one you've never been to? Become a tourist in your city and cross off a few of the tasks on your to-do list that you've been putting off. Take numerous photos during the day to adopt the role.
Make candles.
It wouldn't be Valentine's Day without burning many candles, so why not make your own? Take a lesson or get a kit from Amazon and go for it. The most excellent part, in my opinion, is blending your oils to provide a distinctive aroma for your relationship. Cute, right?
Camp out.
You and your spouse could go camping and toast your love with marshmallows over the campfire if you live somewhere where it doesn't literally freeze in February.
Have breakfast in bed.
What about making your significant other an excellent breakfast and serving it to them in bed? They say that the route to someone's heart is through their stomach. Make waffles or pancakes and dress them up with strawberries and whipped cream. Even some chocolate syrup can be used. With some toast, scramble some eggs and make a delicious cheese omelet.
"... making your significant other an excellent breakfast and serving it to them in bed" How actually might this work? Rather mobious - Escher-esque...
Dance to your favorite songs.
Don't we all have music that conjures up our first romantic encounter? Remember the early days when you were both jittery and giggly, and holding hands gave you the jitters while also making you feel warm and cozy? The first kiss, even the first argument over the ridiculous matter... Oh, those wonderful times! Play YOUR song and slow dance to it to get them back.
Share strawberries in chocolate.
Do you want to spend Valentine's Day quietly without expensive presents or a fancy dinner? Simply grab some strawberries and Nutella and swallow them all at once. You really can't go wrong with it!
Spend the night at B&B.
Spending a romantic night in a charming bed and breakfast should be at the top of your Valentine's Day bucket list. B&Bs make an excellent hotel substitute. You will be served a great breakfast in the morning that is far superior to the average continental buffet, in addition to the fact that they are typically more affordable.
Purchase a lottery ticket.
Sometimes we get so caught up in just getting by and trying to make ends meet that we lose sight of our goals and ambitions. Plans we have for achieving our objectives start well, but obligations and an ever-growing burden soon appear. Some of our dreams inevitably end up being stored away before being forgotten. Rekindle your dreams and leap of faith this Valentine's Day. Purchase a lottery ticket. Although it seems absurd, you might be fortunate enough to win.
Make breakfast for dinner.
Do you want to celebrate Valentine's Day despite a hectic schedule? A buffet of delectable breakfast fare at supper can add a gourmet touch to your day! Who says you can't eat pancakes with strawberries and maple syrup in the evening with eggs and sausages? The delicious evening brunch will cheer you up after a long day and liven up your evening.
Make your own presents.
Make it a rule that you can only give each other homemade gifts if you are on a tight budget or attempting to be more creative. Finish it with one of these free, printable Valentine's Day cards.
Stay in and relax.
Because Valentine's Day activities don't have to be elaborate, we adore this low-key game. The ideal Valentine's Day celebration may be to avoid the pricey meal and do something at home if your lives are busy and you're constantly on the go.
Share a kiss on a Ferris wheel.
Funny enough, theme parks can spark romance and adventure. Celebrate Valentine's Day in a busy park with cotton candy, hotdogs, and the chance to win a sweet teddy bear for your partner. Take a ride on a Ferris wheel and look up. Share a passionate kiss while surrounded by stunning city vistas and sparkling stars.
See a burlesque performance.
A good burlesque show can make you feel naughty. Just remember that it takes two to tango! Purchase tickets for a Burlesque performance on February 14 if you're searching for a unique way to celebrate Valentine's Day. Swing to the exotic dancing scenes while you watch the drama. You'll have a great time and return reenergized for a thrilling evening.
Play bingo for Valentine's Day.
Take turns challenging each other to complete as many tasks as you can during the day by printing out our Valentine's bingo card. Whoever wins bingo first gets to choose what to do that night.
Go on a shopping spree.
Go shopping with your partner instead of worrying about finding the ideal present (and then picking something random). It's a fun game; you'll discover what your companion enjoys. Or, spend Valentine's Day taking one of these intimate weekend getaways.
Play the "Newlywed Game".
This timeless game is equally as enjoyable for relationships that have lasted a year as those that have lasted fifty years or longer. Play it with other married couples of different ages for greater enjoyment.
Visit a botanical garden.
You may be surprised to learn that winter is actually a good time to visit the botanical gardens in your city or town. Numerous botanical garden facilities provide events like light works, art displays, and winter-specific tours. In addition, February is usually far less congested than spring.
Go rock climbing.
If a rock climbing gym is nearby, you and your companion may scale a rock wall to get your heart racing. It might end up being your new joint activity.
Host a little gathering.
Valentine's Day celebrations aren't limited to fancy bars and elementary schools. Invite your best friends over and host your own fiesta complete with themed décor, sugar cookies in the shape of hearts, and strong alcoholic punch. Play classic games like Spin the Bottle or Seven Minutes in Heaven for a nostalgic and naughty evening.
