“Today Vs The Good Old Days”: 23 Things That Changed And You Decide – For Better Or For Worse
From handwritten letters to text messages and from landlines to smartphones, a lot of things have changed. Some think things change for the better, however, others think they change for the worse. Whether you're nostalgic for slower days or thriving in the modern digital world, you can vote on 23 drastic changes over the years that affected us all. Share whether you would prefer the way things used to be or as they are now. Heads up: Some of these choices are hard! 👀
This post may include affiliate links.
Do you prefer the smell and feel of a paperback book to the convenience of carrying thousands of books on a Kindle and bringing them anywhere you want?
When you start getting older you appreciate the ability to enlarge the font and the backlight.
Would you prefer living your life with social media and global access at your fingertips or without it?
I read "global access" to mean the internet. I'm not giving that up just to avoid social media.
Do you prefer browsing through a store, feeling fabrics and trying them on, or online shopping with endless options and fast shipping?
Unfortunately, shopping in store is becoming more difficult as stores are disappearing :(
Would you prefer to have a private handwritten journal or document your thoughts in the notes app?
Writing a handwritten birthday card or sending a text to wish someone a happy birthday?
I like making cards for people. It's more personable and appreciated. I find texts are fair-weathered and passive. But can appreciate a text as someone has thought about it enough to care to reach out.
Would you prefer long phone calls or quick & convenient texting anytime?
Depends on who it is. I love longer calls with my boyfriend. I would like more quick texts from others.
Reading a thick Sunday newspaper over breakfast or catching up on headlines through notifications?
Having close relationships with neighbours or not even knowing their names?
I used to know our neighbours. I miss hanging out with people next door. But not all of them made good friends.
Waiting for the new episode to air each week on TV or binge-watching the whole season in one sitting?
There was something about the anticipation of waiting and then talking about the episodes with your friends at school. The episodes became immortalized and memorable. I've binged watch shows and I gotta say, I felt exhausted and near nauseated once I got to the later seasons. A couple of episodes a day I can do. But then I have to take a break and move on to something else. I follow a youtuber that does rewatches who uploads an episode once a week, whenever she's up to it. It's nice. Then I can watch other stuff in between.
Going in line for a midnight movie premiere or watching a brand-new release from your couch in pajamas?
If I went to a midnight movie at my age, I'd fall asleep waiting in line.
Playing board games with your friends (without anyone looking at their phones) or playing online games with them?
Watching general knowledge competitions on TV or streaming a new show on Netflix?
The simple, unbreakable flip phone or the all-in-one, newly released power smartphone?
Pros and cons for each ones. Personally, I need to a smartphone just to find out what time the bus comes, and many other things. But I would love to have a less fragile phone.
Listening to the radio and discovering new music by surprise vs algorithm-perfect playlists based on your taste?
Radio usually plays the most mainstream music or the classics. With a music platform you're probably gonna find a wider variety of artists and genres
There is such a thing as streaming radio. Two that I listen to are Epic Rock Radio (Canadian?) and Antenne Symphonic Rock (German). While they have a core set of songs that get played, they do throw other stuff into the mix, especially Epic as they use a listener request system.
Load More Replies...I don't like to listen to the radio. All that talking, publicity, more publicity and almost no music.
WAY too much talking. Whoever invented morning zoos should be shöt. And I’d be delighted if nobody ever tried to sell me anything again for the rest of my life.
Load More Replies...I found some cool, random music by buying albums blind, based solely on the cover art. Now I often buy music blind because the limited edition LP will sell out before the release date. I prefer the former.
Nah, I like how it is. Although, I never went by the radio to discover new music. All that played was the same songs on repeat multiple times a day. I used to use Much Music to find new music. That's how I discovered Delerium and Holly McNarland, among many others. I've discovered even more music, stuff from the 90s and early 00's online from recommended music based on what I already like.
Most radio stations in the UK play the same dozen or so songs over and over again, day in, day out. Radio is so boring these days.
I'm into some very strange micro-genres that the radio would never play. Dreampop, Electroclash, Acid Jazz, Triphop, Filk, Italo-Disco, Bardcore, Synthwave, Vaporwave, Retrowave, and more that I can't even think of right now. Zero chance you'd hear any of that on the radio. That said I do prefer human curated playlists.
You can find new gems on playlists too. What I hate about radio is all the talking in between the music. Or should I say shouting.
Both for different reasons/times. I listen to the radio in the car, then write down names of songs/artists to add to playlists I listen to off the computer while I'm sewing etc.
Again, neither. A playlist will only give me similar music that I already listen to. While radio is a steeping pile of dung that might have something nice. Honestly I prefer grabbing an amv playlist about a show I like and listen to what other people liking the same show like. Found a few bangers I would have never bothered to even look at cause I don't respect the artist.
Radio doesn’t provide that any more, sadly. I’m OK with getting notifications that say, “Since you like X, you might also like Y.”
YT has a very good algorithm in my opinion. I don't even have an account, I can't like or subscribe to anything: the automated playlists are only based on what I'm listening to at the moment. Those playlists are always very nice, I got to discover several artists through them. It's very different from SF that'll make you listen to whatever cr*ppy artist they're being paid to push forward regardless of what you like - they're hoping you'll pay the outrageous price for Premium just to be able to skip those songs. (Also, as far as I know, artists also benefit more from YT than SF.)
Owning shelves of CDs, vinyl, or books vs. having unlimited access to music and books but nothing physical to show for it?
I've been collecting LPs and CDs for over 40 years. I'm not stopping now!
Doing research at the library vs. Googling anything or asking ChatGPT in seconds?
If only I had kept my encyclopaedia Brittanica from when I was growing up in the 60s😂
Owning fewer clothes and wearing them for a long time or buying something new each month and refreshing your wardrobe?
Is hard for me to find clothes that fit. When I do, I didn't want them wearing out after a few washings.
Printed family photo albums or instantly accessible photos on your phone gallery?
Walking the aisles of a video rental store and hoping they’ll have the tape you’re searching for versus endlessly going through streaming platforms but nothing you’d like to watch.
Buildings with classical design details or modern designs that are sleek and efficient?
Flirting and dating through mutual friends or serendipitous meetings vs swiping and matching at lightning speed?
I was way too shy and anxious to flirt with someone that may or may not be interested in dating. Online, I could at least assume they're looking.
Talking to a friendly customer service rep who may not be able to solve your problem vs a bot that’s fast but cold?
Would you prefer buying magazines to keep up with celebrities and what’s trending or checking it on your phone anytime you want?
most of these options are still available today so luckily we don't have to choose between the one and can just select whatever is convenient.
Just going out to rent a video is no longer possible
Load More Replies...Read a book, listen to some vinyl, walk to your local, independent shop, stop using social media, wait to watch an episode, be disciplined, step away from your digital device, disconnect, live in the moment and stop whinging about the modern world. It is what YOU make it, not what the world demands, the power is all with you if you choose to be in control, if you don’t choose then it’s your fault not theirs.
I wonder how many people who claim they prefer doing things the old way actually do.
Hey you all anty-social media, paper book, offline shop lovers... what are you doing on a WEB site anyway? Are you been dishonest with yourselves?
It's another option. I don't read books on the internet, but that doesn't mean I don't use it for anything. We do some shopping online, but not all. You're assuming that everything is all or nothing (much like the "quiz") when it so obviously isn't. PS it's "anti" and "being".
Load More Replies...most of these options are still available today so luckily we don't have to choose between the one and can just select whatever is convenient.
Just going out to rent a video is no longer possible
Load More Replies...Read a book, listen to some vinyl, walk to your local, independent shop, stop using social media, wait to watch an episode, be disciplined, step away from your digital device, disconnect, live in the moment and stop whinging about the modern world. It is what YOU make it, not what the world demands, the power is all with you if you choose to be in control, if you don’t choose then it’s your fault not theirs.
I wonder how many people who claim they prefer doing things the old way actually do.
Hey you all anty-social media, paper book, offline shop lovers... what are you doing on a WEB site anyway? Are you been dishonest with yourselves?
It's another option. I don't read books on the internet, but that doesn't mean I don't use it for anything. We do some shopping online, but not all. You're assuming that everything is all or nothing (much like the "quiz") when it so obviously isn't. PS it's "anti" and "being".
Load More Replies...
