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Sharing a home with someone can be a great way to save money on rent and utilities, but it can also push you to the very edge of your limits.

The subreddit 'Choosing Beggars', a place where people shame those who are being way too picky when asking for things, has plenty of types of recurring characters. There's the shameless parent who uses their child's birthday as leverage for negotiation, the art "critic" who lowballs every piece they get their eyes on, and many, many more.

But among these infamous personas, roommates are arguably one of the most frustrating. Whether it's disagreements over household chores, personal space, or guest policies, they have the ability to quickly become a painful source of stress.

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Roomates Response To Me Asking About The Electricity Bill She Hasn't Paid In Months (That's In My Name, Leaving Me With The Debt)

Roomates Response To Me Asking About The Electricity Bill She Hasn't Paid In Months (That's In My Name, Leaving Me With The Debt)

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Chances are that if we do not become kinder to one another, there will be many more similar screenshots. American adults are increasingly sharing a home with other adults with whom they are not romantically involved.

This arrangement, known as “doubling up” or shared living, gained notice in the wake of the Great Recession, and the prevalence of shared living has continued to grow since.

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Roommate Doesn't Buy Own Groceries, Complains About What I Buy

Roommate Doesn't Buy Own Groceries, Complains About What I Buy

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Feathered Dinosaur
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do people even endure these leeches for so long? I'd pull out all of my feathers long before that 😅

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Looking For A Roommate: I'm Quite Easy-Going

Looking For A Roommate: I'm Quite Easy-Going

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tldr; basically this person is a controlling d**k who thinks they’re better than everyone else

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Facebook Cb Wants Roommate To Pay More Rent Because She Makes More

Facebook Cb Wants Roommate To Pay More Rent Because She Makes More

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While the rise in shared living during and immediately after the recession was attributed in large part to a growing number of Millennials moving back in with their parents, the longer-term increase has been partially explained by a different phenomenon: parents moving in with their adult children.

In 2017, for example, nearly 79 million American adults (31.9% of the entire adult population) lived in a shared household. For comparison, in 1995, the earliest year with comparable data, the number stood at just 55 million (28.8%), and in 2004, at the peak of homeownership and before the onset of the home foreclosure crisis, 27.4% of adults shared a household.

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The Gag Is...she Had Already Eaten All My Hash Browns The Night Before, This Text Was Just An Attempt To Cover Her Ass!

The Gag Is...she Had Already Eaten All My Hash Browns The Night Before, This Text Was Just An Attempt To Cover Her Ass!

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Seeking Female Roommate: Rent Will Be On A Sliding Scale Depending On Your Looks

Seeking Female Roommate: Rent Will Be On A Sliding Scale Depending On Your Looks

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Sue Denham
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nigel was mystified by the lack of applicants to be his housemate.

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crowspectre (he/they)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Jesus christ what the f**k I hope no one got into this this is screaming 'I'm gonna SA you'

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Willikins
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd say never trust someone who refers to other human beings as females rather than as individuals

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Paddling Panda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And someone who scores people on a scale out of 10. What a misogynistic piece of dung.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think half my non-existent brain cells just died… the other half is focused on shuffling away from this disgusting s**t of an inferior being as possible

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Feathered Dinosaur
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's good you have some left, because mine have all died on that other post about 'parents' 😅

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Leigh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy is probably really ugly so maybe he should be paying $950

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Liam Lowenthal
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's probably loaded and thinks he's using big brain talk to avoid just saying "looking for a sugar baby to leer at day in and out at my discretion In hopes she'll let me touch her bewbies". I mean that's the bout of intelligence I'm getting from this peice of s**t.

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Lisa H
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't even read this one, somehow I already know it's some incel posting a roommate with benefits kind of thing and I have seen WAY too many similar postings in my own misadventures of trying to find a place. No, thank you.

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Junebugjump!
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure this dude also says: "I'm a nice guy. I just don't get it."

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Aidan Pite
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One time when I was 18 and looking for an apartment, one of the responses was from a 40-year-old gay man that was very up-front about the fact that he was a bottom that wanted a live-in-lover. Somehow, he managed to have more class than this guy.

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Pheonixvatoreii
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So basically wants a girlfriend... I hope nobody accepted that offer

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Lori Harper
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Meanwhile he looks like one of the trolls under the bridge...

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adam craker
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dude I live in Chicago near wicker park. Use to be a cool neighborhood full of interesting bars and restaurants. Could go see a local punk bad any time. Affordable rent. Now it's a ritzy neighborhood full of guys like this

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Liam Lowenthal
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*heavy breathing intensifies* Man: Me lyke purty girlz. Daddy says I get purty girlz." *Breathes harder* F*****g creepy is what this dude is. This has "You're my new basement toy" written all over it. Run. Run quickly.

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Nathan Wolfe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How to say "I'm looking for a live in hooker who pays me" without actually saying it.

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Argie Smith
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this the modern equivalent of cash, grass, or a*s - no one rides (stays) for free?

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Josh Lindberg
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well if his intention was to dissuade females from applying id say this was ingenious, but lets be fair thats probably not the case

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Jodie daubenmire
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy thinks he is all that. Probably a troll, who plays with Star Wars Lego's.

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My Ex-Roommate, After 2 Months Of Leaving Piles Of Stuff At My Place, Finally Returns To Pick It Up

My Ex-Roommate, After 2 Months Of Leaving Piles Of Stuff At My Place, Finally Returns To Pick It Up

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The nearly 79 million adults living in a shared household include about 25 million who own or rent the household. An additional 10 million are the spouse or unmarried partner of the head of the household.

Another 40 million, or 16% of all adults, are the “extra adult” in the shared household. This share of living in someone else's household is up from 14% in 1995.

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Had To Text My Roommates This Because Of What They Did. Came Home To My Cat Trapped In The Bathroom Yowling

Had To Text My Roommates This Because Of What They Did. Came Home To My Cat Trapped In The Bathroom Yowling

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seems like they mighta "forgot" cat in bathrm on purpose. I wouldnt trust them then alone in apartment again with said cat to move out and not be spiteful .

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College Girl Is Looking For A Roommate But Is Homophobic/Transphobic, Rude, Wants Silence Almost 24/7 And Overall Has Unrealistic Expectations. (I Wonder Who Her Roommate Ended Up Being... And If She’s Still Sane)

College Girl Is Looking For A Roommate But Is Homophobic/Transphobic, Rude, Wants Silence Almost 24/7 And Overall Has Unrealistic Expectations. (I Wonder Who Her Roommate Ended Up Being... And If She’s Still Sane)

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Adira Bennett
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"As a young intellectual, I prefer to only tolerate the presence of people who mimic my values and opinions because I find those who challenge my ways of thinking terribly offensive."

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In 2017, just 18% of extra adults lived in a household in which the head was unrelated (typically a housemate or roommate).

Interestingly, living with nonrelatives has become less prevalent since 1995, when 22% of extra adults were doing it.

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Room Mate Refuses To Take Any Less Than 1 Hour + In The Shower With 5 Of Us Living Here

Room Mate Refuses To Take Any Less Than 1 Hour + In The Shower With 5 Of Us Living Here

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

oh i would out-petty this crazy bîťch the MOMENT she said she doesn't care about her roommate's well-being

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My Freeloading “Roommate” When I Asked That He Fill The Amount Of Gas Back Up In My Car That He Used To Go See His Boyfriend

My Freeloading “Roommate” When I Asked That He Fill The Amount Of Gas Back Up In My Car That He Used To Go See His Boyfriend

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No Loud Music, But My Music Will Be Loud

No Loud Music, But My Music Will Be Loud

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s what you see just before you are blindfolded and stuck in a basement.

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Roommate Invited A Random Girl Who Doesn’t Pay Rent And Isn’t On The Lease To Live At Our House. He Demanded That She Would Have The Only Parking Spot In The Unit. After Telling Him I’d Share The Spot With Her He Responded With This:

Roommate Invited A Random Girl Who Doesn’t Pay Rent And Isn’t On The Lease To Live At Our House. He Demanded That She Would Have The Only Parking Spot In The Unit. After Telling Him I’d Share The Spot With Her He Responded With This:

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With so many adults living together, Apartment Guide conducted a survey of over 1,000 Americans to learn what determines a good and bad match.

According to the findings, people who had more than one roomie were less satisfied with their living situations than those with just one. Also:

  • People living with their friends, family (32%), and co-workers were the most likely to be happy with their roommates;
  • People living with an acquaintance were the least satisfied with their living situation;
  • Living with one other roommate who happens to be related to you is the most satisfying roommate situation.
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He Used To Be My Best Friend. But We Had A Falling Out, And He's Recently Decided He Didn't Need To Pay Half Of Utilities Anymore

He Used To Be My Best Friend. But We Had A Falling Out, And He's Recently Decided He Didn't Need To Pay Half Of Utilities Anymore

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*Asks Roommate To Pay Utilities Bill That Is 9 Days Past Due*

*Asks Roommate To Pay Utilities Bill That Is 9 Days Past Due*

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World's Worst Roommate

World's Worst Roommate

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dirty dishes, sitting in the sink for days and slowly putting on mold... yeah, the bin it is.

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Roommate Cancelled Netflix. Time To Move!

Roommate Cancelled Netflix. Time To Move!

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Followed the Reddit rabbit hole/paper trail and OP said that they're pretty sure the person is referring to THEMSELVES with the term "little one" and NOT their child... ew.

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41% percent of people identified keeping shared spaces clean as the top source of tension between roommates.

The topic of cleanliness was highest among people living with friends (47%), followed by strangers (43%), acquaintances (42%), and family (32%).

Paying rent (9%), communication (7%), and violating boundaries (7%) were the next biggest issues between roommates.

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Looking For A Girlfriend, Iq Under 130 Need Not Apply. Roommate Too

Looking For A Girlfriend, Iq Under 130 Need Not Apply. Roommate Too

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I Guess My Latino Culture Triggered My Roommate 😔

I Guess My Latino Culture Triggered My Roommate 😔

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gross. Disgusting human. Leave your ridiculousness behind and go take manners and etiquette classes.

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Roommate Sent Me A Video Of Herself And Our Other Roommate Going Through My Room And Things While Sh**talking How It Looks (I’ve Been Staying With Family But Emphasized My Room Is Still A Private, Personal Space I Don’t Want Others In) — Love Them :)

Roommate Sent Me A Video Of Herself And Our Other Roommate Going Through My Room And Things While Sh**talking How It Looks (I’ve Been Staying With Family But Emphasized My Room Is Still A Private, Personal Space I Don’t Want Others In) — Love Them :)

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Nearly 47% of people surveyed were friends with their roommates before moving in together, but only 32% were satisfied with their current living arrangements. So just because you get along with someone doesn't mean you'll be compatible.

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I Want A Naked Female Roommate And A Room At Half The Market Rate For My City

I Want A Naked Female Roommate And A Room At Half The Market Rate For My City

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Free Non Working Roommate. What A Deal

Free Non Working Roommate. What A Deal

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Cb Gets So Mad About Roommate Buying Store Brand Garbage Bags That She Felt The Need To Come To A Fb Group For Advice

Cb Gets So Mad About Roommate Buying Store Brand Garbage Bags That She Felt The Need To Come To A Fb Group For Advice

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We are literally talking about an item whose only use is to be thrown out. But it should have a brand label?

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Looking For Roommate To Pay Rent And Not Be In Apartment

Looking For Roommate To Pay Rent And Not Be In Apartment

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tbh, this sounds like a concierge at the Ritz compared to most of these other douchcanoes.

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My Roommate Spent Her Paycheck Too Fast Again, So I Offered To Get Us Liquor. It Devolved Into This

My Roommate Spent Her Paycheck Too Fast Again, So I Offered To Get Us Liquor. It Devolved Into This

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