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Barely eight years ago, most Americans believed that being gay is "just the way some choose to live." You know, like choosing your diet or hairdo. And while the tide has shifted, with society being more accepting, more folks are coming out as LGBTQ+ than ever before - some chose to and still do forget that it's as real as global warming or Christmas.

The subreddit Sappho And Her Friend, then, is a godsend which sheds light on cringeworthy instances of LGBTQ+ erasure from academia, pop culture and real life. Who knew that straight people completely ignoring the fact that LGBTQ+ is a thing can be so absurdly amusing.

#1

What To Call Your Straight Aunt's Husband

What To Call Your Straight Aunt's Husband

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H Nunya
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for your service.

DannX68
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And all those #s and missing punctuation drives ME insane.

Pamela24
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is what an actual ally does!

Laughing Orc
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The hashtags are hurting my eyes, but I approve of the message.

liam newton-harding
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The...pauses...are what drives it...home.

Androgyny Lunacy
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ohhh I've been there. When I was a kid my mom mentioned my girlfriend as my "friend," too. I brought my long term girlfriend to my paternal relatives' for Xmas one year and everyone told my 85 year old great grandma that she was my friend and told me that she wouldn't understand what I meant by girlfriend. Psshh.

L
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How annoying for you. I'm always blown away by this idea that older folks are naive. You live to be 85 chances are good you met a few people who were not straight... maybe she wasn't straight and would be thrilled to meet your girlfriend and have her actually called your girlfriend.

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A Wild Bean (they/them/any)
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2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you me from an alternate dimension or something?? We both have "Bean" in our names and "transphobes can go step on a Lego" in our bios (which is only two similarities, but still a cool coincidence) (Edit: oh and you have "pride" in your name and I have a pride flag in my pfp, and we both use they/them)

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In a world that claims progress and inclusivity, it is disheartening to witness the persistent shadows of prejudice cast upon the LGBTQ+ community. From the humblest corners of society to the grand stage of global politics, there exists a myriad of reasons, however wrong, why some individuals remain staunchly ignorant when it comes to accepting and embracing diverse sexual orientations and gender fluidity.

While significant progress has been made over the years, including a growing number of individuals, particularly Gen Z, feeling more comfortable and open about their LGBTQIA+ identities, there remains much work to be done. Unfortunately, even during Pride Month, which spans the entire month of June, incidents like the recent vandalism of the LGBTQIA+ community's flags at Stonewall National Monument in New York City, the birthplace of the modern LGBTQ rights movement, serve as a reminder that challenges persist.

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    #2

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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    KindnessMatters
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So funny. Way to go dad! All parents should be that supportive.

    MJisME
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a great Dad 😊

    Purple_bio
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bored panda, why can't i upvote these

    Boootifull Unicorn
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    loving your dad doing a "and they were roommates"

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    "Pride Month — and the pride parades — continue to be deeply important in the continued solidarity, fight for human rights, and visibility of the LGBTQI+ community. Additionally, and equally important, is the label 'pride'," Samantha Stein, a licensed psychologist based in San Francisco, told Bored Panda in an email. In 2019, Pride celebrations in San Francisco included 289 parade contingents and held "the largest gathering of LGBTQ+ people and allies in the nation."

    "Over the years, it has continued to increase in size and scope, and I haven't seen or heard of any displays of prejudice there since the 1990s," Stein said. "In some ways, it has lost some of its original power: many of the young people from the Bay Area who attend are not aware of the history and courage of the original PRIDE celebrations. That said, we can view that as a positive change since they haven't had to be!" 

    #3

    The Apostrophe Is Not In The Wrong Place

    The Apostrophe Is Not In The Wrong Place

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    Annik Perrot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Grammar, and inclusiveness. Well done.

    Minh Châu Đỗ
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well done kiddo. For reminding the teacher about this.

    John George
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That kid's smarter than too many adults.

    Nitka Tsar
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What DOES the „right“ apostrophe stand for? Not a native english speaker and I am a bit confused

    Danger Bunny (She/Her)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It stands for something belonging to more than one person. That is why if you have 1 mother, it's mother's day. If you have 2 mothers, it's mothers' day

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    #4

    “I Think Emily Dickinson Was A Lesbian”

    “I Think Emily Dickinson Was A Lesbian”

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    Hex Gurls
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    just a couple of gal pals doing girly things

    Subaru645
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That glue back then must have been something else…

    Ghaniyah Verma
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah yes, friends wanna taste someone's taste (I had no idea how to word it lol)

    Vallen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And historians will call them...

    Ms.GB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well idk about you but I always taste m6 friends spit...

    John George
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't sound like they were enemies.

    honey_milktea
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes because friends love to taste each other. definitely

    S Mi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my goodness, that's so funny

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    June, for those of you who don't know, is a month of celebration that aligns with a significant event in the history of the Gay Liberation Movement known as the Stonewall Uprising. In the early hours of June 28th, 1969, a gay bar called 'The Stonewall Inn' in New York City's West Village was targeted by a police raid. Such raids were common at the time, but on this particular occasion, the patrons of the bar resisted and fought back, leading to what became known as the Stonewall Riots. These protests continued for several days.

    #5

    Who's Gonna Tell Them

    Who's Gonna Tell Them

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    Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, so it doesn't count if it's not p in v and no one gets pregnant 🤣

    Robert T
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would it all go to buggery if they were all male?

    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, you'll avoid pregnancy at least *shrugs*

    Will Cable
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the Picard face palm meme was ever needed.....

    Adam Chang
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last trip to mars: Houston, we have a problem...We need a baby car sit on the way back.

    User# 6
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd imagine zero-g sex would be akward and difficult, gay or otherwise.

    MadOrca99
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They censored her name but not her @? Also how does bp censor cøx and doesn’t censor penis?

    CatLady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sex isn't sex unless a dude is getting pleasure from it.

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    #6

    Her “Friend “

    Her “Friend “

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    Soton_Sherpa
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yeah, that's definitely a "friend".

    SheDeM
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope Auntie Mary and Ruth lived happily ever after

    Rizzo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope they had a happy life. :)

    Tee Rat
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a picture of myself and a friend that could be very questionable if others were unaware of the context. We were giving him a hard time about his gf and him being connected at the hip and I jumped on his lap and said"love me, you can never get rid of me", and another friend snapped a picture just as I was puckering up. A second later he pushed me off and I hit the floor. But for one moment in time we look like a playful couple.

    El Cucuy
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Their body language should have been the big hint here.

    LokisLilButterknife
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awww, this is such a beautiful and sweet photograph. I hope that Aunty Mary and her “friend” had a happy a wonderful life together.

    John George
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In those days they couldn't afford to be out. Quotes & an uspoken understanding ftw.

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    Recognizing its historical significance, the city of New York designated the Stonewall Inn as a historic landmark in 2015, and it was further honored as a national monument by President Barack Obama in 2016. This June marks the 53rd anniversary of the first Pride parade, which took place in 1970, a year after the uprising at Stonewall.

    #7

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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    Marcos Valencia
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If your job is selling bride dresses, you can't be that idiot.

    El Howard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe they were being intentionally obtuse. But I've learned from experience to never make assumptions! They were fishing for you to spell it out.

    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, some people get offended when you assume they're gay, so there's no winning here (although the vendor could definitely have been less assuming here)

    OmBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait. So to avoid potentially offending a breeder, the vendor who IS aware of queer couples is supposed to offend them & assume they’re straight best friends??? Literally the f*****g problem we face every day. Don’t you think we’re constantly offended having our identity erased every single day of our lives??? But god forbid you possibly offend the straights? You error on the side of the most logical assumption without the bias rather than perpetuate the bigotry and homophobia.

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    Niall Mac Iomera
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, when working in retail it's pretty easy to go into autopilot and default to the norm.

    Charity Angel
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How does one have a double wedding without being at the same venue?

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    #8

    Sit On My Face But Just In A Friend's Way

    Sit On My Face But Just In A Friend's Way

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    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, I would take this answer as a very polite, but clear, "no, thank you".

    Céline Dumont
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Buuuut at the same time, straight girls absolutely talk to each other like this lol

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    Libstak
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would be a perfectly reasonable response from a straight girl, so....

    Skye Ragsdale
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me, the aroace, being completely unaware a flirt just happened 🤣🤣

    Adam Zad
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the opposite problem. Even when I AM just being friendly, women assume I'm hitting on the them. I could say "That's a beautiful dog! May I pet her?" and they'll say, "Get away from me, you creep."

    jennifer brinkman
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone asked me to sit on their face i would be offended. Man or woman

    CatLady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be very uncomfortable if someone said that to me.

    El Howard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We used to have coded objects to signal whether a woman was "taken" or not. Seems like we need coded objects to signal whether people are looking for men, women, both, or asexual. I guess we sort of had that for men wearing one earring on left for straight or right for gay. My coworker used to joke that his wearing two earring meant he was bi... at least, I think he was joking. We need an equivalent system for women. Gay men came up with a quite elaborate hanky system to signal sexual preferences. The problem is that nobody that isn't gay knows the signals, although I usually have a pretty good idea when gay men are hitting on me.

    RAM31280
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm interested in jeans 70% off, but all in at 100% off

    Chilli
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    stores can't just give clothes away for free

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    TeenieMeanie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got hit on like this. I was drunk and said, “thanks girl!” I’m not gay, just really really vain.

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    "Regrettably, prejudice, oppression, violence, and even loss of life persist as harsh realities for individuals within the LGBTQI+ community, both in the United States and worldwide. Alarmingly, numerous states in the US are enacting legislation that actively undermines the rights of these individuals," said Stein.

    #9

    Hitting With That Self Sappho

    Hitting With That Self Sappho

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    Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you're so homophobic you don't realize you're gay yourself... I hope she is now a happy queer

    Robert Beveridge
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, the louder a homophobe is, the closer they are to the closet door. Every single time.

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    Toxic
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think she just outed herself

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once a month? She was looking for answers, apparently.

    Zoey Rayne
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bigger question: why do humans care if the population dies off? 99% of all other species on the planet would be better off without humans. And once all the humans are dead, who will be left to care? There will be some sad pets or zoo animals for a few years, but they will die off, and humans will be forgotten. So what? Are most of us too egotistical to accept extinction of our species? I am just unable to relate because, while I like being around children, I have never felt any desire to reproduce? Is there some biological emotional reaction I am missing that leads people to believe human extinction would be a problem? Because it would really do more good than harm.

    Me.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have evolved in the ways that are beneficial to our species continued survival, so it makes sense that part of that would be wanting the species to survive

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    Couragetcd
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The cries for help are awkward and sad, but funny.

    Floyd-the-Queer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women would prefer the women because who wants a man?

    Max Pasterski
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, at this point in time, if we were all gay, people would be less interested in having kids all the time, and the growth rate of the population would go down.

    Spannermonkey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, high-school-age boys.....eugh.

    Jen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gonna go against the grain and suggest this probably reflects more on the guys she'd dated - it was high school after all.

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    #10

    And They Were “Color Enthusiasts”

    And They Were “Color Enthusiasts”

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    Feathered Dinosaur
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to wear rainbow colors and bright colors in general, just because they're pretty. I'm cis-hetero btw, but I don't mind being mistaken as LGBTQ+

    Anya Beboop
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many people wear rainbow items that are not lgbtq. It's not like we own rainbows? Sounds like she was just trying to make conversation.

    Mike Hunt
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You could love colours, as a kid my favourite colour was rainbow

    Phil Green
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am straight, been married to a beautiful woman for quite a while. I wear whatever the f*** I want - bow-ties, rainbow ties, waistcoats, shirts with flowers on. When people first meet me, on my own, they make the assumption I am gay. I love their treading on egg-shells for the first few days...

    Oana Alexandra Niculcea
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no problem with gay people but when they reduce their personality only to 'i'm gay ' and nothing more, this starts to p**s me off. Why should people assume that if you wear rainbow color this automatically means you're gay? If you're straight you're not allowed to wear them or what?

    Bryan W.
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can tell this is one of those people, because of their ageist mention of this person being ~30 y/o. Like, how does that matter? Other than you trying to say low key "lol these olds don't get us." Sorry honey, there's 60+ y/os who fought battles you couldn't even imagine just so you could even make this dumb joke in the open.

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    Adam Chang
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a pair of Nikes "Be ture" (Pride) running just because I liked the colors. And to support pride is just bonus.

    Soton_Sherpa
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad you've cleared that up for us! People were starting to wonder. 🤭

    El Howard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, rainbows are awesome, with or without a connection to pride! That's why I can't fathom some right wing extremists getting triggered by kid's clothes with rainbows on them. Dude, it's JUST A RAINBOW!

    Colin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My 6yo like rainbows because they are rainbows. I hope the idiots with an agenda never spoil that love because they hate the community also represented by a rainbow.

    Dodo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonder if Cheryl was about to ask and then realised it could be taken to HR...

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    According to The American Civil Liberties Union, there were 19 bills introduced this year so far undermining freedom of speech and expression for LGBTQ people, including ones that target drag show performances.

    #11

    Happy Thanksgiving To All Aunties With Lifelong Roommates

    Happy Thanksgiving To All Aunties With Lifelong Roommates

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    KJ
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They even share a bed, purely to cut down on expenses though, honest!

    Regulus Black
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they shower together, also to cut down on expenses

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    Annik Perrot
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My best friend and I were roommates for over à year. She got married in 77, divorced in 78, and I offered her shelter in my 1 bedroom apt. We found more practical to both sleep in the bedroom, rather than have to fold out the couch every night in our tiny living-room. I'm sûre there were some of our friends who wondered, but she was only, and still is 45 years later, my best friend. She and her second husband are coming to lunch on friday.

    Kristiina
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both are beautiful people and I'm sure good "roommates".

    uber_flubber
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember my one auntie A being introduced to my auntie B's "partner". Auntie "Oh, great! What business are you in?"

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they are still roommates, I would start making theories.

    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe the theories already existed back then

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    Androgyny Lunacy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All of the couple photos get an upvote from me. Awww the love.

    El Howard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, 15 years? They've been in college a LONG time!

    Ghaniyah Verma
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, and they share the same room and even probably shower with each other, too!

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    #12

    Oh My God, They Were Manicurists

    Oh My God, They Were Manicurists

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    Siddharth Krishnaswamy
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is in Saqqara. And the tour-guides tell everybody that the 2 were "brothers"...and you as a tourist try not to snort and walk on.

    Mike Hunt
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course! Incest is way better than the gays

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    MiriPanda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The word 'roomates' looks like it has been pasted over some other word, what was there originally?

    Pamela24
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well...what else could they be?

    Skye Ragsdale
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe someone took the time to edit the caption, and then passed on tomb-mates 🤦🏽‍♀️💀

    Floyd-the-Queer
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was originally gay couple guys...

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    "For a group of people who are told continuously — through laws, religions, media, bullying, and directly — that LBTQI+ people are less-than or should not exist," Stein explained, "it is deeply psychologically important that there be counter-messaging."

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    She argues that this continuous messaging of inferiority often takes a toll on their mental well-being and can result in profound consequences such as mental illness, addiction, isolation, and even loss of life. "People fear and hate what they are taught to fear and hate, and they often fear what's unfamiliar." 

    #13

    Ultimate Gal Pals

    Ultimate Gal Pals

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    Kel_how
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wth is a friendship wedding?? 🤣🤣

    Bored Retsuko
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok but I don't understand how they've been a couple for two yrs but living together only 1 year 9 months??? What the heck, we usually move in LATEST after 2nd date! /jk but not really jk

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a stereotype that lesbians do move in very quickly...

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    Say No to Downvoting
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look, maybe we should take the idea of a “friendship wedding” on? It’s sounds cool

    Skye Ragsdale
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Friendship weddings are what aromantic people have 🥰 💚🤍🩶🖤

    Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm calling my best friend and we are planning a friendship wedding IMMEDIATLY! If my wife has any issue with it, I will tell her she's being prejudiced.

    ILOVEBAMBOO
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "i now pronounce you gal and pal" lol I laughed so hard XD

    Bols
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gal and pal, I love this :D

    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My best friend of 30 years and I are constantly being mistaken for a couple. We’re even starting to look alike… I’m married and we think it’s adorable.

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    #14

    Stop Saying You're Lesbian

    Stop Saying You're Lesbian

    that1lesmafia Report

    Chilli
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's almost like... it's almost like that's the whole point

    Muzan MJ Kibutsuji
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @Buster, f**k your couch. - Any Gender-fluid

    Brainmas
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is unfortunately not true. Many men will take it as a challenge.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, then you get your wish. Thanks!

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    #15

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    lulugingerspice Report

    CarpeDentum
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I take a break from the gay between 11pm and 8am, just a regular tired, coffee driven woman living with my galpal during those hours.

    SheDeM
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This cracked me up so much! At least you realized your faux pas and had the good sense to politely dematerialize

    Toxic
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I prefer to wait till 12pm to be bi

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    TBH, at 6:30 in the morning my coffee hasn’t kicked in and cleared the fuzz out of my brain. I probably wouldn’t have noticed the wedding rings either—-or much of anything else, for that matter. I probably would’ve just babbled something sleepily and incoherently, then handed them whatever I was supposed to hand them (badges, passes, schedule, whatever).

    Jessica Bertram
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh this is sweet though, and a brain fart can happen to anyone

    ThreeAngryLlamas
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, I, a LESBIAN, was at PRIDE LAST WEEKEND with my GIRLFRIEND OF NEARLY FIVE YEARS, and I was surprised when a woman there mentioned her wife. In my defence, she was there running a booth with my straight grandmother for a club of which my straight father also used to be a member, so I forgot they were token straights and that it wasn't just an ally club.

    Edgar Rops
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A was asked surprisingly often whether my wife is my sister, since people saw some resemblance. Looking at happy couples I know, I tend to agree. So, if asked whether you are sisters, I'd say, don't think of it as a cringe mistake, but as good omen.

    Lukas (he/him, it/its)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I just stop existing from like 11 pm to about 9 am, sooooo

    Roy Briggs
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahahahaha..... the honesty is the funniest part imo

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    #16

    💅

    💅

    humanpartyring Report

    Patrick Linnen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then there was the idea in ancient Greece (and maybe Rome) that "Women were for bearing children, Men were for companionship/love."

    Ghaniyah Verma
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently, according to google, Achilles and Patroclus were platonic friends. And that Achilles was straight. And wikipedia said they both were lovers. I'm thinking lovers. What about you guys?

    mandy the capibara
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think google and wikipedia may not be your best sources in this case. I'd say: read Homer's Illias, and decide for yourself! Ps: I would definitely go for lovers in this case.

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    SkyBlueandBlack
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG my sister and I went to see this when it came out, and I don't know how we didn't get thrown out, we were so loudly objecting to Achilles being straight! I mean, Patroclus was RIGHT THERE!

    Ashley Bushaw
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Considering it was Brad Pitt, there may also have been some ulterior motive 😅

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    Corvus
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's still a little ambiguous, I think. There isn't definitive consensus on whether Achilles and Patroclus were lovers or just "very close friends" (yes, this phrase appears very often in this thread, heh heh).

    Colin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with Cù Chulainn and Ferdiad.

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    cartoon.ghostss
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess what my sexuality is? Achillean. Guess what that means? Masculine person attracted to masculine people. Guess who it's named after?

    Melody Invisibilia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually laughed at this. I wish I could upvote this post multiple times.

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    #17

    Vivianne Miedema - All Round Legend

    Vivianne Miedema - All Round Legend

    golfbuggysareawesome Report

    Annik Perrot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    French singer Juliette, when asked about "her Romeo" answered " My Romeo is a Juliet."

    Thenatural
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why on earth would an interviewer think it appropriate to ask questions like that after a football match anyway?? What the f**k has her personal life got to do with the game she just played in?? I hope they get sacked! (The interviewer)

    StrangePenguin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ikr like pay attention to the (assuming she an athlete?) sport like ask about training instead of something that isn’t your business! but good response on her

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    Pamela24
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would it be really that difficult to (if you desperately need to) ask these questions in a gender-neutral way? Like...they could have so easily say "Do your parents like them?" or something. Or not ask at all, she's an athlete, I don't really need to know about her personal life.

    Roger9er
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's a great soccer player! But of course I also say that because she is Dutch, just like me.

    Dean Armstrong
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The doctor asked "Are you.sexually active?" I said yes. He said "Do you need birth control?" I said no! He looked confused!

    Sofiya Aghouchy
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Juliette is a real Super Heroin Badass

    Jac Carr
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody would ever ask a male sportsperson if they had a girlfriend; mainly because it's just pathetic

    #18

    It's Perfect

    It's Perfect

    Thedepressionoftrees Report

    SheDeM
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Comparing a flower to an old shoe! :D Perfect. I hope the light turned on in her attic

    Ghaniyah Verma
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You find girls prettier than guys, enough that you think of girls as flowers and guys as old shoes. You're a girl. And you're...not lesbian?

    UpupaEpops
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel zero attraction to women, but thinking back on my teenage years, guys were smelly, sweaty, dumb brutes. Meanwhile, girls cared about how they looked. I really don't get this. If two gym bros are fawning over each other's gains, that's cool. But god forbid I say that an exceptionally attractive girl is beautiful because suddenly everyone will want to convince me that I'm a lesbian. No babe, I'm just deeply insecure and wish I could look like that.

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    Claire Green
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, can you grab my shoes from the closet?

    jennifer brinkman
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In school most of my friends were guys. Im straight. So what???

    cal da trans emo rat (he/they)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well if men are old shoes then i want to kiss an old shoe 💚🤍🩵

    #19

    The Opposite Of Erasure, For Once!

    The Opposite Of Erasure, For Once!

    chaosgirl93 Report

    Sandella
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is OG in this context? Original God?

    K W
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Based on sources closest to her time period Sappho was not a lesbian in the way we use the term today to mean women who are only attracted to women. The reputation of women from Lesbos was actually that they were notorious chasers of men and the ancient Greek verb associated with being from Lesbos was to give blow jobs. Sappho's individual reputation during the classical Greek period and afterward was actually for being a sex crazed man chaser. Without a doubt she wrote romantic poetry(lyrics) about women and while nobody can say for certain her sexuality is more likely to be something akin to bisexual or pansexual than exclusively attracted to women.

    Kitty1019
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OG stands for "original gangster", meaning the first to do something or the longest-lasting at something.

    Harper
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My brother always does "straight erasure" when watching tv. P!sses our parents off but it's hilarious

    firecrackershrimp
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sad everybody asking what og stands for when I'm like who's Sappho 😕 gotta go Google that

    Fenchurch
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean it's right there in the post. Sappho was the OG lesbian. 🤪

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    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the classical Greece, I would have chosen homescooling for both my son and daughter. [Edit: is only about teachers having sexual relations with teenagers, not about teaching quality, curricula or sexual choices].

    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the classical Greece, perhaps you would have spelled "homeschooling" correctly ;-)

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    #20

    Oh, Yeah, Definitely Cis, Just Pretending To Be A Man...for 50 Years

    Oh, Yeah, Definitely Cis, Just Pretending To Be A Man...for 50 Years

    Allygatornado Report

    HannahNo
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, in that time it could be possible, that she loved the job and not women. It would have been impossible to achieve this much as a woman back in the days. There are records of successful men that suddenly got pregnant. Think about Mulan :D

    Jaya
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But, there isn't anything in the post suggesting loving women, or am I missing something?

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    Jaya
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the kind of person I would talk to if I had a time machine, I would love to know whether this person was transgender or was living as a man because it was impossible to have this career as a woman.

    Lea
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They may have just presented as such at work which is what I'm thinking. They knew she was actually a woman so it could be that she was just that talented, that her dressing as a man was the compromise they made with her. I mean she very well could've been gay or trans, but to me she just sounds badass.

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    percy (he/him)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ive actually researched this person before because i find him quite interesting. He definitely wasnt just dressing as a man because he had to in order to become a doctor. he lived and dressed and acted as a man in both private life and public life.

    eame
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happened a lot. Women, like LGBT, were written out of history by men.

    Florence O'Grady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men have always kept women in their "proper" place.

    cartoon.ghostss
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, Albert cashier (I think). Trans men have been being awesome for hundreds of years and that's not going to change anytime soon

    Andy Frobig
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anybody read Monstrous Regiment?

    Fenchurch
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like a lot of Pratchetts work it's based on fact

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    Colin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women were not allowed to be doctors in many nations at that time. For example women were not allowed in med school in Canada until 1883.

    cal da trans emo rat (he/they)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ayo this is just like the lore of an oc of mine!! except he’s a soldier lol

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    #21

    They Were Roommates!

    They Were Roommates!

    Sister_Rebel Report

    Juniper_theBoredPanda12
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All jokes aside I think this is so beautiful as a homosexual my self and a trans young woman I love all of these post but this is my favorite and I love the support of the community🥰🥰

    SkyBlueandBlack
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, when this news broke, I was confused. I mean, I'm 43, and my childhood was full of Sesame Street. And I had no idea people thought they were straight.

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    David Wambold
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone knows. I saw a protest in the Middle East where they were carrying a NO Bert and Ernie sign. I laughed for about 10 minutes.

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They probably didn't care for Morecambe and Wise either then

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    Red_panda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now I want to know if Mark Saltzman was the butter grumpy one or the oblivious innocent one.

    Thom Serveaux
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine your partner makes a famous puppet character based on you and its a crotchety old cone head.

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    Mike_The_Nike (He They)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wait i literally thought they were roomates my whole life. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    Robert Beveridge
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just kinda thought everyone always knew that.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bert and Ernie are still just as awesome as they were before I knew this. Maybe I'm weird, but I don't ever sit around and think about the sexuality of puppets.

    Sean
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    now that i think about it even as a kid i thought they were pretty close for friends

    Chilli
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    throwback to the time I said I thought they were dating and someone said "They're muppets, stop giving them sexualities!" ...miss ma'am, the pig's canonically f*****g the frog.

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    #22

    People Acting Like Gay People Didn’t Exist Until 2020

    People Acting Like Gay People Didn’t Exist Until 2020

    willeezer Report

    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah because we all know gay people were invented in the 90's, silly

    WFH Forever
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, Freddie Mercury and Elton John (and Liberace before them) were no not-gay 😆

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    Eastendbird
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can assure you there were plenty of gay people around in the 1980s. I studied drama at uni in that decade, so I should know...

    Tinykame
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem was Reagan and his refusal to mention aids or acknowledge gay people, put a whole continent in fear.

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    Cactuar Jon
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's hilarious when people (homophobes) refer to the 80's as being not like it is today (meaning no one was gay). If I'm not mistaken... EVERYONE was gay in the 80's!!!

    John George
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WTF? Gay people existed in the 80s.

    Luna
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People saying gay people are new when ancient men would sleep together regularly,

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone knows that gay people didn't exist until the late 1990's.

    Arenite
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Little Mermaid is a horrible story. Why is everybody so obsessed with it?

    ur_fav_tranny
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GUYS BYLER IS REAL! TRUST ME, PLEASE!

    Brainmas
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There were no gay people in the 80s! (Watches Mannequin again because "Hollywood" is so fun and obviously straight)

    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who was a teen and young adult in the 80’s trust me on that one.

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    #23

    Roommates

    Roommates

    LilliputianMouse Report

    Monday
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean....technically....

    KB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Granny is taking a very long time to knit whatever it is they're knitting

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    spiderweb clothing for spiderman? 🙂

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    atje
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I assume that my family is around the bend crazy bc living in AL and GA, but Cousin Gordan is 91 and still lives with his 70-something "roommate", we've got a transwoman, a transman, and a plethora of proud and out teenagers and adults. /we have enormous family parties 3-4 times a year. I'M the freaky one bc I'm 45, cis-het and not married woman. The only person who doesn't harass me is my grandmother. She eats gummies, hates "Ridiculous-ers" as she calls red, and nearly got us evicted (again, Northern Alabama) for standing up and shouting to a full restaurant that Trump should be assassinated. I don't even know...

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your family sounds wonderful, especially your Nan

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    Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have two teenage daughters and right now I feel more like a landlord and head of transportation services than I do a dad, lol.

    Couragetcd
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gonna take a while before they can expect the rent to go to thirds

    Helen Taylor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, I know many older people who would've taken that in their stride without the "roommate." Myself included.

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    #24

    "Neighbours"

    "Neighbours"

    RaptureInRed Report

    Eastendbird
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The way he is so gently touching grandpa's arm is just *swoons*

    Andy Frobig
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You could burn hundreds of calories a day doing the work to not see it

    Ashley Bushaw
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely his boo. But even straight men used to hold hands and express affection for other men. What happened??

    Andy Frobig
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I expect after Stonewall, people lost plausible deniability that there's such a thing as homosexuality and that there could be something other than just a couple of straight dudes who are really good friends. Why that's threatening, I don't know

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    #25

    "Twisting Classical Characters Like Dorian Gray Into A Homosexual"

    "Twisting Classical Characters Like Dorian Gray Into A Homosexual"

    issiautng Report

    Dani M
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    reading is hard for some i guess? lol

    RabidChild
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reading is easy, it's the comprehension they struggle with.

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    Deborah Rubin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By the flamboyantly gay Oscar Wilde. Who would have thought?

    Ghaniyah Verma
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now I wanna read the book. Also, just looked up the book. It's called The Picture of Dorian Gray.

    Deery Lou
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the first time I read Dorian Gray I honestly had no clue he was gay. then i re-read it, and he is quite fabulously gay

    Fenchurch
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first time I read The picture of DG I was 10/11 I had no idea he was gay. I didn't know Oscar Wilde was gay. Re reading it at 16? Yeah he's wonderfully gay.

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    Sandella
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm I wonder if the show in question is the new Netflix adaptation of Sabrina?

    Princezz Puffypants
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of that broad who threw a tantrum when Othello was played by a black dude....

    Brainmas
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nevermind Basil, the one who was actually obsessed with Dorian.

    Artist FKA Ramsey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like someone only read/skimmed the cliff notes.

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    #26

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, I can understand being personally confused, but at a hotel reception desk? Both women could even be married to other two women and just cheating... Hotels usually handle things with total discretion, not with "horror and confusion".

    Anya Beboop
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, depending on location, you can be thrown out or refused service still. Even in this day and age at hotels strictly for the purpose of couples.

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    Angieeee
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why even mention the wedding rings...just shut up and book the couple in. Is nun yo bizness.

    M O'Connell
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My partner and I were once mistaken at a hotel reception desk for mother & son! The look of horror on her face when she realized her mistake was priceless.

    H Nunya
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “…WE must be getting away from the husbands for the weekend.” Did she have a mouse in her pocket? 😂

    SheDeM
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm going to guess you were in FL. :D

    #27

    Ms. And Mrs

    Ms. And Mrs

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    H Nunya
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Misogyny right there

    TTorrest Author
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    More like MS.ogyny I'll show myself out

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    Florence O'Grady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She assumed what a man wants, is more important than what a woman wants!!!

    SheDeM
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yuck! What a 1950s think to do. Gack

    Tracy Sellars
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why in this day and age do we still distinguish between married, not married and child for women.

    Hex Gurls
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    rlly hope that nurse is super old so those belief die off with that generation goddamn

    Lea
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wtf would it have mattered what her husband wanted either way?!

    rullyman
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm married but also go by Ms. My husband is Japanese so there it's "san" for everyone, male or female, married or single

    Couragetcd
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The audacity of that nurse. I'm surprised they weren't asking Mrs. or miss

    Nightshade1972
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm married, to another woman, and I've always preferred Ms.

    Pamela24
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We don't have an equivalent of Ms. in Czech. I'm not married but very much prefer to be called Mrs. instead of Miss. Soooo many people don't respect it. Like I don't have the ring, doesn't matter my age nor my preference. I'm gonna be a miss 'till the day I die, if I don't marry.

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    #28

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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    Regulus Black
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's kinda weird how random strangers just stop someone and tell them stuff like this or "I thought that you two sisters look so cute together" or something like that. So weird

    UpupaEpops
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Southern "pleasantries", I suspect. The number of backhanded compliments I would get whenever I was pushing my younger half-sibling's pram. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Ma'am, I'm 13. The only "person" sharing my bed is a stuffie.

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    Anyone-for-tea?
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it when people assume connections. I know it’s tricky when you’re out with a child, but please stop assuming I am said child’s mother, I’m a very proud auntie or godmother! And it just diminishes that there are other relationship options available. Oof, I’m grumpy today, and I can’t suggest a better alternative. Sometimes my niece and play along and laugh about it afterwards.

    Jcusack
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true!! I was carrying my niece while grabbing a coffee and the lady goes, "she looks just like you!" and I, "Well, she's not mine, so she shouldn't." Her face = Priceless.

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    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was this at that f*****g Hobby Lobby or something?

    T'Mar of Vulcan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The opposite thing happened to me. My mother (literally 40 years older than me) and I were on holiday and we invited a lady back to our hotel room to give her some medication as she had the flu. Later she came back with the bottle and said, "Fine this back to your friend please!" I was only about 18 and said, "That's my MOTHER!!" LOL.

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    #29

    Me_irlgbt

    Me_irlgbt

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    Feathered Dinosaur
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She just wants the other girl to be her roommate. Like, share the house. And the bed, of course.

    Commander Ducky
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To more more than friends... To be best friends!

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    René Sauer
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well... She could also just idolize her, without sexual untertones.

    SkyBlueandBlack
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... Tomoyo's room looks like this, just with pictures of Sakura.

    Anya Beboop
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If we are talking about this character and characters exactly like this that have legit altars and photos and idols, sure.

    HisseeFit
    Community Member
    2 years ago

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    This looks like a child. Maybe she is a lesbian or maybe that is her hero. I am not gay but I had Lita Ford posters growing up as I wanted to be a "rocker" like her. I'm not sold on this one being gay. Either way, children shouldn't have to define themselves. Let them like who they want, time enough for personal decisions later. Sorry but my daughter had to "announce" in 1st grade school what she was, and she hated boys. So she thought she was gay. Either way is fine, but she can decide in her own time.

    SkyBlueandBlack
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This looks like a cartoon, which was created by adults, and nothing in the frame is accidental.

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    #30

    Tumblr

    Tumblr

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    Blue_Mouse (queen)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn. Betcha they tried turning it into “well you seem more gay than bi…”

    Sinnsyk Jakte
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sit the f**k down and shut the f**k up.

    Jeremy James
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never minded being mistaken for a girl or, later, a woman. But I drew the line at being called, "Ma'am." That will be "Miss," or "Young Lady," thank you very much! It used to make my coworkers laugh.

    #31

    I Believe This Man Is Really Close To Having A Realization About Himself That He Is Going To Be Uncomfortable With

    I Believe This Man Is Really Close To Having A Realization About Himself That He Is Going To Be Uncomfortable With

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    Tiramisu 🇵🇸
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a Muslim, I am DYING of a combination of laughter and second-hand embarrassment

    Vic
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude.. My face is clean shaven down there.. * winks *

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    Rizzo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Religions are so funny. :) No, I think that's the wrong word. Ludicrous! That's it! :)

    SheDeM
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awwww he's just so cute when he's self-delusional

    Ghaniyah Verma
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Soooo...you're type is guys without beards?

    eame
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should get more upvotes. It makes me laugh every time I see it.

    cecilia kilian
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So let me get this straight ( pun intended) ; men with beards cause women to have indecent thoughts, men without beards attract lesbians? Color me confused /s

    Roger9er
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Long beard and short-sighted.

    Bill Richman
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's right. The only thing keeping my husband and me apart is our beards.

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    #32

    What Is A Gay Bar For?

    What Is A Gay Bar For?

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    OmBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, aren’t gay clubs synonymous with cis-hey bridle intentional misspelling) showers anyways? I can see the mistake here, given the queers are often marginalized in their own spaces for the sake of some weird tokenism. I bet the grossed out girl has a GBF (🤮) she thinks of like an accessory.

    Snorkeldorf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm heterosexual but I was always flattered and kind when anybody of either sex hit on me (unless they were being totally obnoxious). If someone finds you attractive, that's a compliment.

    CatLady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to think that until a former female friend drugged my drink. I very much wish she had never found me attractive.

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    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Ugh, I was at a grocery store and there was food there! It was so gross and uncomfortable!"

    Colin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been to one gay club with a friend. At the door she told them I was straight and they gave me an arm band. I asked why and they said so the other guys know you're not interested. I thought that was a cool idea.

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar to traffic light parties where the colour you wear signals whether you are single or taken

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    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I used to go to clubs to see drag shows (those women are gorgeous!), I got more male attention than female, tbh. I also danced with more handsome men than I ever did at a straight club. Felt 100% safe the whole time, too. Absolutely loved it!

    El Howard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been to gay clubs, and getting hit on by same sex should not come as a surprise there! Best time was when my gay housemate, his boyfriend, and his two lesbian besties took me to the IBeam in SanFran and we group danced. Weird being the straight Fifth Wheel with two gay couples, but we had fun.

    Norman Beattie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Went to a Gay Club and someone hit on you... Hmmmmm, Imagine That !

    Bec
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My (F) college roommate was a gay male. I was at the (one and only) gay bar in town with him one night and I get that the guys were not going to be attracted to me but they were amusingly rude to me - roomie was a cutie but very gay, I assure you I was not competition.

    MurderMittens
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only time i went to a gay club, it was 99% men. I'm not sure there were any lesbians there. Just a few girls with male dates.

    Crep 105
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her going into a lesbian club is not an invitation to hit on her.

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    #33

    And They Were Shipmates

    And They Were Shipmates

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    Anya Beboop
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so cute oh my goodness

    Stephanie A Mutti
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She was just pointing when a rogue wave rocked the boat, causing her hand to just bump the chest....

    strawberry.panda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, just shipmates. Definitely, totally not anything more!

    Bill Richman
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's she doing there? Sounding the foghorn...?

    professor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my God they were shipmates

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    #34

    [insert Joke Title Here]

    [insert Joke Title Here]

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    rullyman
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A huge amount of research into sex and gender was burnt by the nazis at one of their big book burnings. They targeted the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft.

    Nikki Sevven
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a 58yo cishet white woman, and I don't understand why anyone cares about other people's genders or sexuality, especially other people who are strangers to them. It's not difficult to be respectful of others.

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Society was so f****d up—-and in some circles still is—-that being your authentic self was something for you and your family to be ashamed of, thereby shoving you further back into the closet to live in fear of being found out, and to chafe at the lie of being forced to pretend to be heterosexual in order to navigate through a cruelly flawed society.

    rob
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't it still? Not like everything is accepted now either

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    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Church to all records of trans people in history - there, fixed it for you.

    Anya Beboop
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, there are other major offenders but mainly The Church, yes.

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    Niall Mac Iomera
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If black people never wanted to be slaves in the USA, why didn't they speak up during congressional hearings?

    CatLady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    PBS has an awesome interactive map where you can click on different areas of the world and learn about the history and traditions of gender-diverse people of different cultures.

    Sami-Jo Ross
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If memory serves, a certain man with a moustache everyone makes fun of has something to do with that?

    mulk
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, "insert Joke Title Here".. I wanna read it

    Luna
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Albert C.J Cashier, my only words for that.

    Helen Taylor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, there are transgender people throughout history. They're also homosexuals and lesbians throughout history. It's all normal.

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    #35

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    soloeject Report

    witchling
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really? My bff and I were out once and I told a couple of guys that we were married so they'd back off. Backfired terribly.

    Hiro Lee
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My guess, the typical "can we watch" BS.

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    #36

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL reminds me of how when they dubbed season 3 of Sailor Moon into English and suddenly Sailor Neptune and Sailor Uranus were cousins. Like y'all actually just made it ten times worse because now it's definitely incest. xD

    Charmaine Swart
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny. We also get that... and look NOTHING alike

    JoNo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sisters don't always look alike.

    Bored Trash Panda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had an ex girlfriend that someone called my sister once lol we didn't even look alike

    Colin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend looks nothing like her sister either.

    Anya Beboop
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Husband and I get asked about being brother and sister, it's just normal couple's stuff.

    User# 6
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    2 years ago

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    Perhaps they meant scissor sisters?

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    #37

    Ah Yes, Clearly Just A School Friend

    Ah Yes, Clearly Just A School Friend

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    Dani M
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    .... and they were school mates

    Ellinor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Woah, he sure knew how to write...

    strawberry.panda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this true? If so, this is really cool!

    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is, years ago we studied the letters in school

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    Ghaniyah Verma
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet the person who wrote this paragraph called them friends

    #38

    I Am A Very Clueless Individual

    I Am A Very Clueless Individual

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    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But that's OK. They just were handling things with discretion.

    El Howard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amen. Do what works for you, but nobody else needs to know about it. I had a gay housemate that that used to go with his boyfriend on double dates with a lesbian couple, tell everyone they were on a double date, and just let people draw their own conclusions. Granted, it took me a few weeks to figure out he was gay...

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    Monday
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had that too, but with professors. Had our prof tell us all these stories about how him and his partner were going volunteering, or working with some NGO and the ENTIRE class just collectively assumed he meant business partner since he was an entrepreneur. It took us actually meeting said partner the following year to realize they were a couple.

    freakingbee (they/them)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NO CAUSE THIS WAS LITERALLY ME WHEN I FOUND OUT THESE TWO GIRLS IN MY CLASS HAD BEEN DATING FOR LIKE A YEAR I JUST THOUGHT THEY WERE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS-

    Claire Green
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I as hanging out with my *very obviously gay* friend gossiping about a girl I liked, and my mom walked up and said "can't wait for the wedding" me being very deep in closet, said "uh- yeah- maybe- Idk- then threw up 😐

    jennifer brinkman
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    2 years ago

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    They ARE besties. Just with benefits

    #39

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    TBH, I’m heterosexual and as a child, there were many times I shared a bed when I slept over at a friend’s house. Hell, I also did it as an adult when traveling with a group, and hotel rooms were scarce. Wasn’t considered an unusual thing back in the day. Friends and siblings often slept in the same bed. Big whoop-de-do!

    El Howard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've shared a twin bed with my frat brother at their parent's cabin in Flagstaff. It doesn't mean anything, and wasn't as uncomfortable as I had expected.

    Leigh
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've shared beds with friends of all genders to save $.

    René Sauer
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once was on a ski tour with my class and had to share a bed with a classmate for a week. Was really weird...

    Mike Hunt
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obvs the rule is if you share a bed with someone, you need to fiddle

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    #40

    "When Did You Stop Being Gay"

    "When Did You Stop Being Gay"

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    LK
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps the poor waiter has never heard of bisexuals, or pan...

    Justin Smith
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or maybe he was being a sarcastic little s**t cause he saw his bf, or who he tought was his bf, on a datw with a woman.

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    Sean
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    2 years ago

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    El Howard
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    2 years ago

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    Incredibly poor taste to say that in front of the girlfriend, although I suspect she already knows.

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also poor taste to take the girlfriend there

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    #41

    Well, An Attempt But A Failed One Thank Goodness

    Well, An Attempt But A Failed One Thank Goodness

    mrmeeseekslifeispain Report

    Sandella
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And given enough time I'm sure it'll be outlawed in America next sigh

    Raven Sheridan
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think threatening lesbians with prison time in an all female environment, won't have the effect that the lawmakers had hoped for. 🤨

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    Rizzo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let me guess ... only men in both cases? Am I right?

    Von Thompson-Wynn
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is why most straight men are bad at het sex.

    Ace
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All-male lawmakers...

    Aileen Grist
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lesbians aren't mentioned in the original divorce bill as Queen Victoria didn't believe such a thing could happen. Therefore 2 women living together don't get their wages merged for child support unlike a man and a woman - or 2 men - even though it was illegal at the time.

    Sean
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the fact that the probably only men didnt know how to women could have sex is kinda funny to me.. although i grew up with the internet so i guess its easy to make fun of peoples ignorance in the past

    CatLady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I spent my formative years without the Internet. I'm straight, but it seemed pretty clear to me. But then again, I'm also female, so I think it was a matter of "well, this feels good so that must be how it works."

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    Deborah B
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pity the poor wives of those (presumably male) German lawmakers who couldn't figure out how two women could have sex.

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    #42

    Definitely Not Gay

    Definitely Not Gay

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    #43

    I Mean... Isn't It Obvious?

    I Mean... Isn't It Obvious?

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    Daria
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    TBH that could've been me because I'm really bad with social clues and romantic hints.

    cartoon.ghostss
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly same I absolutely suck at social cues my ex pretty much told me straight up he was attracted to me like five times before we dated and i was still clueless

    René Sauer
    Community Member
    2 years ago

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    A vegan Café? No thnx.

    Isa's left eye
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has nothing to do with you and your preferences, let them have their vegan cafe

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    #44

    Has Scantily Clad Male Dancers, Sings About Bussy, But Still Probably Straight

    Has Scantily Clad Male Dancers, Sings About Bussy, But Still Probably Straight

    nastyjman Report

    Dodo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then the comments on the stream would be 'Nah, he's just doing it for the likes' and 'Wow, that's some great editing, it almost looks like you're really blowing the guy!'

    Betsy Ray
    Community Member
    2 years ago

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    Did the Met Ball up right!

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    #45

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Prosecco787 Report

    OmBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh! All. The. Time. Try being two married men with a 9yo son. That literally blows their minds if they’re not calling the cops assuming we’re kidnappers or pedophiles.

    Monday
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ever get the "but you're going to make your son gay?" comment? Friend of mine had to point out that she was raised by straight parents and turned out gay.

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    Hiro Lee
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Think about this ... how many times have you seen "homosexual pedophile" compared to "heterosexual pedophile" in news reports? Yup.

    Nizumi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Where's your friend?" instead of using a name indicates to me that the asker doesn't actually know the OP very well. In that case it's not off-base to go with "Friend". "cos if you don't know someone very well, you don't know if they're dating, married, cheating with each other... Stick with friend and don't be so offended about it.

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    #46

    How Many Here Are In The "More Options" Category?

    How Many Here Are In The "More Options" Category?

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    Rizzo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet if one presses "more options" a popup appears with the message: "Are you sure?". 🤣🤣🤣

    Sean
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so either youre straight, or they dont care. why even ask in the first place?

    SCP Panda [REDACTED]
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am more fruit than cake, I am BEYOND the "More Options" button. (Trans, Pan, and Poly)

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, you have a lot of options for saying nothing.

    Ghaniyah Verma
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Straight and heterosexual are the same thing

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    #47

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Puzzleheaded_Tree290 Report

    H Nunya
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Little sister knows what’s up.

    Aboredpanda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair it can be confusing to a kid when the mom genuinely called the gf a friend. Children tend to take things very literal. When I was 13 I still had trouble understanding sarcasm. (Yes. I was definitely one of the popular kids...)

    #48

    But Boys Don't Get Periods??? Lol

    But Boys Don't Get Periods??? Lol

    _DonkeyPigeon_ Report

    Remi (He/Him)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Boys also sometimes do get periods. It's not like coming out as a trans dude magically summons a fairy godbro that "bibbiti bobbiti boos" away your uterus and such. Even though that would be kinda awesome now that I think about it.

    cartoon.ghostss
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    O s**t?? NOBODY TOLD ME TJIS WHY DO I STILL HAVE MY PERIOD I CAME OUT LIKE 8 MONTJS AGO SERIOUSLY

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    #49

    Two Men Having Sex Is Unheard Of

    Two Men Having Sex Is Unheard Of

    shmupied Report

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, boy... Anyway, there were much more "trading" in the train station in my city when bathroom were free. I remember being 18-19 yo and old, creepy men approaching me while using the bathroom. Now, for €1 you have a piece of heaven for yourself.

    TheDemonicCat
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know right?! I thought guys were a myth too!

    Nizumi
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you, Jean Drapeau. Instead of making public toilets free, thus cancelling out the "pay for space, expectation of privacy" argument, he just had them all removed back in the 1960s and 1970s. So now there are no public toilets in parks or metro stations or train stations, and you have go wandering around trying to find one. It's easy-ish if you live here and you now where to find them, but tourists must be constantly frustrated.

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    #50

    There Was An Attempt

    There Was An Attempt

    JohnZ117 Report

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's like idiocy... there is a gradient.

    rullyman
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Land and sea. And estuary. And tidal mudflats. And sand bar. And...

    twilight (he/they)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bro thought colors were binary 💀💀💀

    CatLady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1.7-4 percent of humans are born intersex.

    #51

    Where Are Their Wives

    Where Are Their Wives

    Duchess_satine_stan Report

    Tiramisu 🇵🇸
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Off topic but those nails are scaring me

    Benita Valdez
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know right? I'd definitely hurt myself if I had them

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    Rizzo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, and he stole their nails. ;)

    Laila Sanabria
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The nails are amazing!!! I love it!!!!

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    #52

    Such Friendship, Much Platonic

    Such Friendship, Much Platonic

    romuald244 Report

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I expected a post about a gay couple.

    Sean
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wouldnt be surprised if some gay couples have this running gag

    Highwaytozen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me that I should re-watch Scrubs again

    OwenHasADHD
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All I see are two very good friends.

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    #53

    They Must've Been Such Good Friends

    They Must've Been Such Good Friends

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    starsailor (they/he)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hope aunt cecilia and her "best friend" had a good life together with lots of wine, cheese, and chocolate!

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    #54

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    xain_the_idiot Report

    Nano Iders
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember when one of my grandmas was still alive, back in the 90, she had very strong opinions about gay people. Like very homophobic opinions. I'm not gay, but one of my best friends was (is). He was very, very openly and obviously gay. But my grandma never picked up any clue. She once asked my mom "what would you think If your son was friends with *gasp* a gay man!?" while discussing homosexuality. My mom and I looked at each other in confusion, but told her nothing to not make things awkward when my friend was around. In her defense, I have to say that my grandma was also very dumb.

    Sean
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ok but how can you be that oblivious..

    Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess the girl has clearly seen Sense8 and you two reminded her of Lito and Hernando and she wanted to be Daniela? Or *looking at this thread* maybe she did totally forget homosexuality exists irl.

    #55

    Friendship Is A Blessing

    Friendship Is A Blessing

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    KJ
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never out someone else, not your news to share regardless of how obvious it is!

    Amy Taylor
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter is bi and that’s her news to share with the family. I completely respect that.

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    René Sauer
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, this one is kinda BS. So people can't become close enough friends with their college room mates to occasionally invite them for family parties? Maybe the room mate just couldn't go to her own family, so Kimberly invited her to hers. Happens all the time.

    #56

    I Have To Go Before I Put Your Head Through A Wall

    I Have To Go Before I Put Your Head Through A Wall

    reddit.com Report

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    #58

    Yup… Just Friends

    Yup… Just Friends

    TheCoonManYT Report

    Dani M
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they´re barber mates. same hair since ages

    ILOVEBAMBOO
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that guy got -108 downvotes >:)

    CatLady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG they both look like my dad.

    #59

    Aunt Pat And Her "Roommate", 1986

    Aunt Pat And Her "Roommate", 1986

    Snukes42Q Report

    Dani M
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    good for them.... but the sartorial choices in this pic are the really hard pill to swallow... gotta love the 80ies

    Red_panda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love the lady in pink's smile. It looks so mischievous. Like "I know something you don't know".

    #60

    How Could The Artist Have Seen This Naked Man? How?

    How Could The Artist Have Seen This Naked Man? How?

    thehatter6453 Report

    Phendrena
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I imagine he was quite hard!

    Isaac Nemo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Classically trained painters did nothing but study nudes and life drawing nudes for years. When you go far enough back (I assume way pre-Caillebotte but I don't know) women weren't even allowed (or were discouraged) to be the models (Hence why Michelangelo's women tend to be very jacked and masculine). The whole premise of the label is rather shockingly naive, at best.

    Betsy Ray
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Saw a museum exhibition of his work. Just stunning.

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    #61

    Author Of The Book Behind A New Bbc Drama

    Author Of The Book Behind A New Bbc Drama

    princemephtik Report

    Monday
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Honey I'm so sorry to tell you this but according to twitter I'm not gay".

    Eastendbird
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is actually funny. In the book he doesn't make it clear whether his partner is male or female, you could read it either way. This person clearly assumed the partner was female. However, if you read any interviews with the author, or articles about him, he makes it quite clear that he's gay.

    Fenchurch
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the book it is made clear right at the end. However the book isn't about his personal relationships, but his professional ones. In the drama, they did bring in a lot of stuff that simply wasn't covered in the books diary format. That's something you often see when turning a book into a drama, they add dramatic stuff!

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    #62

    How History Will Remember Pride Parades

    How History Will Remember Pride Parades

    Navi1101 Report

    #63

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    SuspiciousPaperclip Report

    Eastendbird
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Annnnd there it is. An actual roommates reference, in the wild.

    Anyone-for-tea?
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What’s it to her what they are to each other? Why even ask in the first place?

    #64

    Should We Tell Her?

    Should We Tell Her?

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    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just put another dish in the Christmas table.

    Sandella
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok even if they were straight and not together, 27 isn't too late!!

    Sean
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    but ... but.. the boilogical clock!!11!

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    Rizzo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Using all caps is so ... straight! ;)

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    #65

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    SuspiciousPaperclip Report

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But did you have pillow fights AT LEAST?

    Mike Hunt
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Legit question, when you come out as non-binary what do you look like?

    Sean
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you metamorph into a genderless humanshaped being

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    H Nunya
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think he asked one two many questions.

    Bored Trash Panda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ew, that's really creepy to ask someone.

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    #66

    Rewrite History

    Rewrite History

    Sapphos_room_mate Report

    Aidan Pite
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love how despite the 'censoring' you can still clearly read that the poster's username is a lesbian joke.

    Mike_The_Nike (He They)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    maybe explicitly include the words “for anybody who may find this and is confused: We are dating and not just close friends we are in love. NOT JUST CLOSE FRIENDS!!!”

    Betsy Ray
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have quite a few amazing love letters my uncle received from his partner. No one ever sent me letters like that.

    #67

    Just Another Gal Pal Meme Lol

    Just Another Gal Pal Meme Lol

    basura911 Report

    Adam Belaire
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the safest response they could probably program in since there is no real romance option in AC.

    #68

    1 Month After My Mom And Uncle Came To The Conclusion My Cousin Isn't Gay:

    1 Month After My Mom And Uncle Came To The Conclusion My Cousin Isn't Gay:

    DenikaMae Report

    Say No to Downvoting
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Literally saw my mother in law introduce her daughter’s partner-of-10-years-fiancé-and-co-parent-of-their-three-children to some visiting distant relatives as her “friend”. Funnily enough, mother in law doesn’t see her daughter much any more,

    Chilli
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a lesbian OC named Gina

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    #69

    Me But It’s All Trans People

    Me But It’s All Trans People

    newme_noobie Report

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    #70

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    asuperbstarling Report

    ThatCapybara
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    …no sh!t Sherlock 💀jk

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    Ria C.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom is a red head, freckles and blue eyed and dad Mexican. Mom actually got asked where she got us (3) from. Since we all matched and looked nothing like her, dark hair and eyes with olive skin tones.

    Max Fox
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mt wife has dark and curly hair and dark eyes, our daughter is dark blond with blue eyes, and our daughter's regular babysitter/nanny and her daughters are also blond with blue eyes. When my wife would stop by the park to pick up our child, everybody would assume that my wife was the Mexican nanny...

    #71

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    TenThousandKobolds Report

    ThatCapybara
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That might just be an honest mistake, but it’s still pretty funny

    OmBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But honest mistakes are kinda the point. It means that queer invisibility & erasure exist in a hetero dominant society that even those with the best intention “forget” (in the context of this topic) rather than question the possibilities. It was also a common form of erasure of interracial couples decades ago and is still a form of marginalization for both. It shouldn’t have to be that the assumption (forgetting queers exist) of heterosexuality is the default when one sees a conflicting circumstance. Two women in matching dresses and bouquets getting photos together before a wedding ceremony: they’re EITHER marrying each other or having a double wedding. That’s a big part of breaking down the institutionalized part of homophobia. Not assuming gay or or straight, but assuming possibility when the “conflict circumstance” presents itself. A lesbian wedding may not be the default, but should have been a ***consideration**

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    Monday
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Well we thought about it, but realized it would be cheaper to merge them into one and just marry each other!"

    Sean
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    tbh i couldve thought about the same thing, but shouting it out before thinking is kinda dumb. honestly assuming anyones relationship shouldnt be a thing. just ask or wait until they tell you

    eame
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ALl the "straight people forgetting gay couples exist" should also add "gay and straight couples forgetting bi people exist".

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    #72

    For Those Who Don't Get It, "Alta" Is Feminine, And This Guy Is Gay Trying To Say His Type Is A Tall Male "Alto"

    For Those Who Don't Get It, "Alta" Is Feminine, And This Guy Is Gay Trying To Say His Type Is A Tall Male "Alto"

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    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to teach Spanish at a Spanish university, and I would have never correct it. Maybe I would have given also the "alta" for other preferences in the classroom.

    Kel_how
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While I understand this guy's perspective, the mix up of masculine and feminine in Spanish is very common and the teacher was probably trying to be helpful. I'm sure it would've been fine to clarify for the teacher.

    starsailor (they/he)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i subtly use bajo. moreno, etc to describe myself cuz i prefer he/they.

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    #73

    True Friendship

    True Friendship

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    Anna Listler
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you like unfrosted pop tarts you're gay

    Stephanie A Mutti
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, I prefer my pop tarts unfrosted AND I'm gay, soooo,,, in a very limited sample size its 100% accurate.

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    Casey Carpenter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a gold star lesbian likes pop tarts unfrosted. Is it too late to date Frank Ocean? My mother would be so happy to see a man at holiday dinners.

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    #74

    Ah, Yes. I Love My Pda-Filled “Friendships”

    Ah, Yes. I Love My Pda-Filled “Friendships”

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    Dodo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know Cara's dated women but I have to admit I don't think she ever dated Rihanna or Kim K (not sure who that is in the centre). So I think maybe the caption is half right here.

    K W
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agree about Rihanna and Kim K. I think that might be Paris Jackson in the middle. And they've sparked dating rumors for years but claimed to be only friends even though they've been caught kissing. Although it's worth pointing out FWBs exist as does trying something romantically that ends up going nowhere. Also Cara has admitted that a lot of her handsy or crazy behavior over the years is the result of not being sober. So there's a lot going on.

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    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a little gay for Cara too, tbh

    Alexandra Davis
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yet she has made actual documentaries about LGBT+ themes and said explicitly in these more than once that she is bi.... gosh people are dumb sometimes

    Mimi La Souris
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    pda-filled ? i can't find the meaning

    PurplePringle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Public displays of affection. It means she is often seen touching other girls in a romantic way in public. In the first picture, the other girl is holding her a&& and in the next, they are standing super close, closer than most people stand for photos, and in the last she is touching the other girls a&&

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    Sue User
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the fence here. This could be her liking these women. But i also dobt want the narrativve of female ckoseness to be " oh she nust be gay". Like the terrible people that say if men hug they are gay.

    #75

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Lesbefriends_2 Report

    #76

    She Literally Has A Girlfriend

    She Literally Has A Girlfriend

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    #77

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

    ericaferrica Report

    Sandella
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder how many of his good male friends he routinely makes out with then haha

    Isa's left eye
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tbf a lot of female friendships are very physically affectionate

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    #78

    Is It Straight For A Woman To Have Crushes On Women?

    Is It Straight For A Woman To Have Crushes On Women?

    glittermunster Report

    Marcos Valencia
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On one hand, it's true that teenagers can have (and have) moments of uncertainty. On the other hand, your role is being an adult who cares, gives support, love and guidance. Maybe she actually doesn't know what she wants, or what she is... This was your moment to say "I just want you to be happy and a good person, and you to know that I will always be on your side". And you missed that magical moment. You should run a little to take this train, since you're absolutely on time, just run!

    Needmorecowbell
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This parent doesn’t sound like an a*****e, she just sounds like someone trying to navigate a sensitive and confusing topic. And she is reaching out for guidance. My son came out to me as gay at 12. We just shrugged and said “Cool—we love you and thanks for the heads up.” But the whole time inside my head I was screaming, “How do you know? You are 12!” A year later he told me he was bi. Again, our response was “Ok!” And again in my head I’m thinking, “WTF I can’t keep up.” He just turned 14 and let me know he is in fact, not gay, nor was he bi. 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Same response, “Oh—ok. We love you!” And my internal dialog is, again, “Child WTF make up your mind.” And at the same time reflecting and obsessing on whether I had screwed up some how. Luckily I kept my mouth shut. But for even the most “woke” parent it is hard to navigate. And if a parent can ask for help, or ask someone if they made a mistake handling when a child comes , then how is anyone supposed to learn?

    Sean
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you should be glad that he is so openly telling you. i know i was/am confused and i never was confortable telling anyone in reallife

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    LB
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So this one is an easy fix...

    Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you're in the closet about being bi. Being bisexual doesn't mean your sexual attraction has to be 50/50 split or if you are with a woman you will miss the d, or making out with girls/crushing on girls in your youth is just practice until you're ready for the ReAL tHiNg.... And some bisexuals are sexually attracted to more than one gender but they have a romantic preference for a specific gender.

    Rizzo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice. One only has to read the headline to answer this. :)

    Amy Taylor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter came out to me as bi at 13. She’s nearly 16 and has been with her girlfriend for a year or so. We totally embrace it. Her girlfriends parents are super religious and said they would pray the gay away at first, but still accepted it and aren’t nasty to them. Just recently, her mom went to Target and bought them some Pride items ❤️ so I think she’s coming around. It’s so lovely to see.

    Anna Listler
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's okay to not know. And she is 15, after all. If I had a kid, I feel like I'd also be hesitant to go along with anything, just because I'm responsible for her emotional well-being, you know? What if it turns out she's something else, and she just doesn't know it yet? I feel that treating her as if she's a (lesbian), no questions asked, might inhibit her ability to explore that. I wouldn't want to accidentally screw her up

    Thom Serveaux
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But would you do that if she told you she was straight?

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    cartoon.ghostss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not everything thinks of women as being attractive i am gay

    K W
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew I was bisexual at 15 and that hasn't changed in 30 years but sexuality can be fluid and that's normal or it can be that someone discovers a description that fits them better as time goes on, like many of my bi friends who found a better fit with the pansexual term. Regardless just supporting your kid where they're at is the most important thing. They're already doing a lot of scary questioning, they don't need you questioning them too.

    Synsepalum
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like mom is, at a minimum, bisexual.

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    Isa's left eye
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would they assume that they were dating? How should they know?

    cecilia kilian
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is not really the host's business to know the nature of their guests' relationship.

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