Online Thread Has Folks Pointing Out Simple Things That Can Make People Look More Attractive, And Here Are 30 Of The Best Ones

I totally agree. Even household plants would be fitting. I can't stand to see unkempt plants. Takes my breath away.

I get made fun of for being a couple inches lower than average. Every. Single. Day. I used to not mind but not so much anymore...😢

Not only smaller and weaker. It's how person treats anything living. If someone randomly breaks /tears off branches from trees on walk in forest or kick mushrooms, that's no go to me. Might have a grave or two in that forest.

Don’t know where it was yesterday, but it’s now #2. Also, your little Shilo looks utterly adorable!

Having a joke is fine, fun, and in everybody's interest. If someone's sensitive about something, humour is often a good way to approach it. Fine to joke at someone's expense. Promotes give and take. Allow for traffic in both directions, drive for others, and what's the problem? But I don't agree that the current trend of dragging someone's face through s**t just because is particularly humourous. It's insensitive by nature, on purpose, intended to be, and as such people who have learned that as normal will have a difficult time recognising that it's just simply not for everyone, and be of a certain mindset that expects everyone to be the same, just as people who are overly sensitive and can't tolerate jokes will set rules for other people to follow and expects everyone to be the same. People who insist that everyone needs to take their jokes, they are also people who carry checklists and set themselves as arbiters of appropriateness. Birds of feather. They often maintain separation, but if people have any regard for self awareness then they might care to examine the other as a reflection. Hard jokes might be better thought of as a little like BDSM. Same with sensitivity, and with rules and expectations. And it's just occurred to me that perhaps we should be teaching BDSM in schools. Of course I'm joking, but maybe you get what I mean. Teach your kids to do the push/pull thing efficiently. Go easy on the whips and chains. But, that kind of simultaneous sensitivity and sadism. Going beyond your boundaries and letting go of yourself. I think that kind of exemplifies not taking yourself too seriously, whereas what other people seem to label not taking yourself too seriously often seems to me just being a fool, a goof, a pushover, or a gimp.

Of course self roasts don't count. Selves aren't others. But a certain way to create a person who does take themselves too seriously is to carry a checklist on what behaviour is and isn't OK for others and to set yourself as the arbiter of appropriateness. Opening with one's expectations of others, and not really mention any expectations of oneself suggests taking oneself seriously. I personally don't mind people who do take themselves seriously, to a degree or in a certain way. Not a complete narcissist or spoiled adult brat. I think if a person takes themselves a little seriously then they can sometimes tolerate more in other people, because they know they are themselves and the other person is their self, and put things in their place. I've known people who are particularly rigid in certain ways, extremely stoic in certain contexts or at certain times, but who are at other times as open, accepting and inspirational as imaginable. The people I have in mind have had very difficult lessons, very charactered lives. I wonder if you think of having a checklist as taking yourself seriously?

No

Not only does it not count...you earn actual points for doing so.

Same wondering here

It just makes it look like you have your head on upside down!

Exactly. This specific post about male baldness is shite, and whoever concocted it should go f**k itself. Male baldness is an issue for many, noto something to be joked about.

You sure did the right thing with shaving and a very good thing with donating! I know a „real life Riff Raff“ who wears his hair in a ponytail thin as a pencil. He would look so much better without that, but I also understand why he just can‘t let go. He‘s a metalhead and long hair has always been very important for him. A friend of mine who used to have long curly hair shaved it off when his hairline started to recede noticeably. He still rocks the moshpit and looks really good. I’m sure, you do too!

Wait… I AM a smol bean in an oversized hoodie… *Le GASP*

I AGREE

people will embarrass u if you are not mannerous* and then u wil be a giant bean in too small shirt. *dont ask

The child doesn't illustrate sexy. The child illustrates good manners. I guess that it's just how your mind works.

Here's a few thoughts: a) Herd immunity was the goal, that goal had a limit, and that limit had been reached. Again, and again. If the goal has not also been achieved, then how is that the fault of anything but the vaccine and those promoting it in that way? b) Vaccines never were designed to be used during a pandemic, in response to a pandemic, to control a pandemic, nor as a substitute to treatment. c) Does saving lives needlessly lost to experimental gene therapies also count? Look at their websites - trials end in 2022/23. Look at the definition of vaccine. Look at the unprecedented skyrocketing of VAERS statistics. Look at the countless articles expressing grave concern about spike proteins and nanoparticles entering heart tissue, resulting from misadministration that puts the substance in the bloodstream, exactly where it should never go and the worst place for it to be. Look at the mind-boggling evidence that those performing the administration of these things have no idea about the most basic safety precaution that might have averted this. Look at the hubris demonstrated by those same people frequently ignoring the concern when it's brought to their attention and putting it straight into the bloodstream anyway. The precaution: pull the plunger out, and if blood enters the chamber then relocate. It couldn't be more simple, and they ignore it, just have no f*****g idea whatsoever. Look at the man behind the curtain. d) If lives are important, then shouldn't we try anything that might help, such as the horse medicine of which about 4 billion doses has been administered to people in the 40 years of its existence, with a record of almost 0% complications, a safety record that dwarfs penicillin? Save a life: demand the end to the blockade of every treatment proposed for almost 2 years, while an experimental drug that is not even out of trials is used in a manner never intended, to poor and further diminishing effect, and at significant cost to human life and health, while the same corporations and government official benefactors enormously enriched throught this saga scramble to produce a treatment, 2 years later, that mimics the same mechanism as a horse medicine that won the creators the nobel prize for relieving humanity from several global health crises and saving millions of lives, with the added benefit that they can patent it and make several thousand percent profit on it. The buffoonery of people who are still in denial... You serious? Then quit signalling and start being consistent. Demand an end to the blockade of treatments, perpetuated by the very same who stand to benefit, the very same who have appointed themselves the one and only possible saviour from the situation of needless death that they themselves are compounding. One last thought: why are the people who have your health and best interests at heart making such absurd claims as that such a drug with such a reputation, known to all of them, is a horse medicine? That says it all right there. Wake. The f**k. Up. It's about money, control, power. To some people, it's always about money, control and power. You should be angry. You should be enormously angry. You've just been misled as to who your anger should be addressed to.

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Well, I'm not sure about the "save your life" part. Sure, I'm more protected thanks to the vaccine, but given the endemic nature everyone is going to catch it. So vulnerable people will have to get vaccinated and minimize risk of severe disease (i.e. don't be fat). Or am I missing something here?

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Vaccinated people have the same chance of catching and spreading it

The vaccine doesn’t stop you spreading the virus at all. See: Omicron

That’s entirely different from choosing not to.

If you're allergic, you're completely fine. It's the people that choose not to, even though they can.

Well wilful ignorance is a choice.

You can keep your mind healthy by eating well, moving around through the day (working out ideally but work makes it hard). Also, the most intelligent thing is recognizing that you aren’t always right

Well… you can decide to be stupid.

You can decide to use the intelligence you have to learn more, expand your mind. Joining the Dunning-Kruger Gang and decide that you already know everything, is decidedly unattractive.

You can decide to try. That in itself is a display of intelligence.

Yep, otherwise it won't work. And have the person you want to attract watch you doing it, obviously.

Hahaha multitasking

Yes, or at least cut after the shower, then they are soft.

Once every month, at least

I enjoy showering my fingernails