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Hello, dear Readers, welcome to Bored Panda. We’ll be your witty servers this evening. We have something tantalizing to share with you. The main dish consists of hilariously relatable server life memes with a side dish of, “Oh, God, that’s literally my life.” And for dessert, we have a fabulous concoction that we like to call Laughing Through The Pain(™). What can we get you to drink with that?

Working as a server or waiter can be utterly exhausting, thoroughly frustrating, and make you reevaluate what you think you know about humankind. It’s a tough job that can leave you daydreaming about greener pastures. The r/Serverlife subreddit is an online community that is dedicated to servers to talk and vent about work. Some of their memes are absolutely hilarious… and incredibly relatable to anyone who’s ever waited tables.

Scroll down for their funniest and most accurate memes, Pandas. While you’re upvoting the memes that hit waaay too close to home (or, well, work), have a think about what tips you’d share with someone who just started waiting tables. Don’t forget to tip your servers!

#1

A Spanish Speaking Couple Came Into The Restaurant Today. She Translated This On Her Phone For Me. Made My Day

A Spanish Speaking Couple Came Into The Restaurant Today. She Translated This On Her Phone For Me. Made My Day

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Blurryface
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hello Pandas, and a pleasant evening to you all. Burnt Bagel has chosen to try and become banned tonight, but can we try not downvoting him, instead, we could each leave a mildly disapproving comment, or a wickedly sarcastic one. No worries if it’s a bad idea. :) Have a happy day!

Mary Elliott
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why should I deprive Burnt Bagel of his heart's desire?

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CelticElff
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I *love* people like this. If you can be anything, be kind.

Littlebunnyfufu
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This makes me really sad. That this lovely couple felt so grateful for this act of... what, someone being a decent human? It speaks to the fact that often they don't get this experience. This should always be their experience. Kudos to the waitress for being a lovely decent human.

Ann M Clinkscales
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kudos to the people who recognize how harsh the world can be and want to say something! TOTALLY AGREE!!

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Monosyllabic girl
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At burger king i was always surprised by the profuse thanks i would get just for being human to someone when we would have a language barrier. Dann right I'm going to run for my phone to figure out the word bacon in Spanish to make sure I'm getting your order correct. That said, my bf is an immigrant from Poland and he said it took three months to learn English when he moved here not knowing a single word. Effort goes both ways.

Benita Valdez
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so amazing. Getting complimentd like this would definitely have brightened my day and made my shift better.

Okatango
Community Member
3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is lovely. I sometimes forget how wonderful many people can be. Kudos to both of you.

ƒιѕн
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Someone needs to get their screen replaced

Ann M Clinkscales
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3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

AMEN! I was born in Detroit, but my parents made a conscious effort to teach me French first. I didn't really start to learn English until I started kindergarten. I knew English because of my grandparents. But, I didn't really start to speak English until I was 4y.o. It is best to be patient with people who speak ANY other language and are learning English! They are making an effort! It would be nice if the other party made the effort also! Life would be so much better in soooo many situations! I am fluent in English, French, TexMex, Farsi, Arabic, Tagalog, and Pashto now! I am learning Tamil! Language offers better communication! Communication allows for fewer misunderstandings! Maybe even more peace if it weren't for dictators!!

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    #2

    Sparkling

    Sparkling

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    Alewa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So apparently working as a waitress to support yourself (and your family) is frowned upon and quitting your work as a waitress because of the terrible working conditions is also frowned upon. Got it.

    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even better when you also have to deal with a manager who is sexually harassing you, and you can't quit because you would be homeless in a month.

    Daman dan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whether you like her or not, the fact that she was a waitress is nothing for her to be ashamed of

    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's beyond me why people in the USA would ever have the insolence to talk to a waiter or store employee like that. If someone did that here in Switzerland, they'd probably get thrown out of the restaurant.

    Okatango
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because almost every other developed nation pays its restaurant staff properly. In the US, they are forced to scrape and bow with plastic smiles for their tips to survive no matter how inconsiderate, humiliating or outright nasty the behaviour of the customer. There is also no real social net and their for-profit healthcare is out of reach for most of them if the employer decides not to offer it.

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    Ryan Frundles
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have so many thoughts on this, I'm about to write an essay on my phone. And I fully expect to get down voted into oblivion for a couple of them. Let me start off saying I do bartend and serve, and it can be brutal. After constant shifts understaffed and overworked, I really am tired. And I can completely agree with AOC's tweet, as long as she is talking about the republicans that actually sit in Congress. I bet if you took every single one of them and put them through what I've gone through, there would be less than 5 that didn't crack. Same exact thing applies to the democrats though. If you dare try and say Nancy pelosi would handle a cranky 12 top with grace, you should not share your opinion anymore. That's probably my biggest problem. This isn't a republican democrat thing, this is an old rich geezer vs desperate and trying anyone thing. And her saying republicans can't do this shows me she just doesn't care. I'm out of space but I do have more to say. Some even nice

    Ryan Frundles
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry for anyone who I offend, or that feels I wasted their time. I do think for a while, AOC truly tried to do the best she could, but those days are gone. I know she used to bartend, so she understands the field. I'll trust that she was good at her job, because she put in the hard work to get into Congress without the money to support it. But she is a way worse congresswoman. Her biggest claim was the green new deal, which I will acknowledge was created with good intentions, albeit some naivety over what is tangibly possible. But that's where I run out of nice things. She's become a croney, only focus on herself and this sad left vs right battle. And she needs to stop being taken seriously, but sadly I don't expect anything better, whether she sticks around or gets replaced. It's not just her, or just left, but anyone who makes it to her spot seems to make major strides focusing solely on selfish pursuits. I swear I only have 1 more post

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    Phoenix Hocking
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everybody should work as a server at least once in their lives.

    DKS 001
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they can't handle real work

    UpQuarkDownQuark
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One side of the Republican mouth says, “We stand for the working class!” The other side says, “She’s only a bartender.” Then both sides of the Republican mouth say, “…and a woman.”

    Deb Dedon
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Republicans making fun of someone who actually works for a living? And yet they somehow manage to con so many working people into voting for them. Congress needs more members who have actually had to work for a living.

    Scott Bujak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ya tell that to Biden, Pelosi and Waters who haven't done anything except collect a pay check from us.

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    #3

    Works Every Single Time

    Works Every Single Time

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    Headless Roach
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess it’s pretty harmless and makes everybody more comfortable with the oversight.

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    Rahul Pawa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, I'd prefer honesty. A sincere amends can go a long way in situations like this.

    Tiki Stanford
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed, but if paying my rent means gambling that someone else would think the same I'm going with the white lie.

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    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    During the second half of a double shift, I did this.

    Ausrine Ciapaite
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every company has its own "make the client we forgot about happy" phrase.

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    The r/Serverlife subreddit has been around for more than 8 years. It was founded all the way back in late May of 2014. At the time of writing, the community was 73.3k members strong.

    The mod team invites redditors to take off their aprons, have a glass, and chat about work. “Cause c'mon, as much as you act like you don't wanna talk about it, you do. I know!” Aside from hilarious memes, these internet users also speak up about their job experiences. Rude customers are just the tip of the iceberg!

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    #4

    Amen

    Amen

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    The Drowning Gorilla
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! Don't experiment on animals, experiment on people who thought waiters are clueless animals.

    Hugh Cookson
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A restaurant I worked at several decades ago that was owned by a good guy who really, really disliked rudeness had a prominent sign at the entrance that stated ' If you are going to be rude, insulting and a bore please bugger off now, if you are going to exhibit those traits after you enter, please be aware that the owner, who is bigger than you, will physically remove you, insult you and ban you from this town for life. If, however, you are kind, considerate and interesting people, you might get a discount ' It was a brilliant place to work and always busy. Never had any trouble. Thank you Rod.

    Riley Quinn
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always thought it would be a good idea to test products on the subhumans who abuse animals.

    Grim Reaper
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I could upvote this more I would 😂

    Jessica J.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And cashiers, and technicians, and stockpersons, custodians, maids...

    DeeRay
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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    #5

    Where Are My Sunday Brunch People At?

    Where Are My Sunday Brunch People At?

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    Stephanie Ventura-Montalvo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first job was at a supermarket that was 2 blocks away from a church. The after church crowd were the worst. Horrible, impatient, and extremely stupid. Of course it's busy and lines are long! 200 people just walked in at the same time!

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    Aubrie Allen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they tip you in bibles and religious pamphlets. Thanks! My landlord totally takes these instead of money for rent.

    kitteh floof lover
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as a christian, this angers me. we are supposed to act like christ all the time, not just a church. one sunday after church, i took a group of 8 friends out to lunch to a vietnamese restaurant where thy bring your food out in stages. the waitress saw us praying before our food came out. i can only imagine what she was thinking. when the bill came, i paid it, and i left a large generous tip, and we left. she was apparently so surprised with the tip amount, she came running out the door to catch up with us, and thanked me for the tip. christians, please be nice to everyone.

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. And non-Christians, as you can see we are not all monsters. Everyone deserves respect and servers work thankless jobs. I for one always try to tip generously. Stop blanket judging and stereotyping. It is hypocritical because none of you like it when it is done to you either. And I agree those who come from church and act so horribly, well, most likely they are not true believers and are hypocrites more than you think.

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worked a place like that. One of our servers had a collection of those fake $20 bills that were covered in bible quotes. That was before Trump and MAGA thank god.

    Al Kenny
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always thought someone should go to that church where the crowd came from and drop those off in a collection envelope just to see how they like it!

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    Burnt Bagel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly makes me want to puke! The damage that religion has and still does to this world. Pathetic..

    Angela Gendreau
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of the most judgemental people I've ever met go to church on Sunday. They think they can treat people poorly every other day of the week but because they pray and go to church, God says it's ok. Nope, sorry that's not how that works. Thankfully, some I know actually practice what they preach.

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am glad some of those churchgoers act how they should- like Christ. I do not like blanket judgements but there are many hypocrites and people who are not true believers who act poorly and give the rest of us a bad name. To be honest their hypocrisy infuriates me more than the outsiders opinion. We have a lot of holier than thou types and Chreasters who say they are Christian but very little of their lifestyle support that. There is no fruit, as they say.

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    Cassi Lyris
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Undoubtedly the absolute worst shift every week, uncontested.

    Scout Finch
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, I think people forget where they've been when they walk out the church door.

    Alison Hell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Times have changed as I used to be a server for the Sunday morning crowd and they were always very nice. Not the best tippers but a tip is a tip. This was waaay back into the day though.

    Ryan Frundles
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I already went on a massive rant 2 posts up, but this one is straight facts. The post church crowd, nearly everywhere, nearly every time, will be the worst crowd you ever have to deal with, that makes you consider even going back to your job the next week. And that's before they stuff you on the tip, or if you're lucky leave a card talking about love and jesus

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    #6

    Genius Move

    Genius Move

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    Mason Kronol
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many times I have had to tell many people (side eyeing my husband, mom and MIL now) I go out to eat with that just because there is an empty table doesn't mean the restaurant isn't busy. If there are 40 tables and only 3 servers and a busser you are not going to get great service so don't insist on being seated. That also means that they likely only have 1 or 2 people in the kitchen. These are human beings that are working in restaurants ya know. You aren't literally starving.

    April Stephens
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your comment is probably obvious to most people, but it blew my mind a little. Thanks. (Sincere)

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good one. I'd never try it though. Too scary.

    Moezzzz
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, bc then they'll say "no!! You need to clean off this table right now!!! We want ...." and then lists off 5 different drinks while berating you the whole time for not having sat them sooner or cleaned the table. While literally none of this is their fault (the server). I did this for about 10 years (while in college and then after my divorce to make extra money). And because our country still treats them like 2nd class citizens who don't deserve a living wage and makes them practically whore themselves out, just so they can afford to live on this planet, I always tip extra. It's a hard job, no stability, and still we have people who treat them as their own personal servant for the time they're dining. As long as servers aren't making at least $15/hr, I'll be tipping as much as I can. I mean, I rarely go out to eat, bc it's kind of an extravagance right now, but when I do, I make it worth it

    Enea
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Going out to eat in the US doesn’t sound fun.

    F. Jeske
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh I vist many countries and I prefer clear signs. Wait to be seated avoid me sitting on the lap of the customers at the window that want to leave/or I like to speed up that they leave. Seriously, it is different in every country, sometimes it depends of the typ of restaurat. Signs help. Really

    Beachbum
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Customer: Can we have a booth? Hostess: Sure there is one right over here, follow me Customer: But we want that one - points to the only dirty table in the restaurant.

    MarieL
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are guests expected to know what the procedures are? There's been plenty of times I've walked into restaurants and "waited to be seated" and then told to "sit where you'd like." And, yes, even if the tables still needed to be cleaned you were allowed to sit there.

    RyanRyanRyan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I might think I forgot eating dinner. 👴

    Mrs. EW
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life hacks for servers 101

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    At the core of working as a server lies a singular mission: making your guests’ experience at the restaurant memorable. In a good way, of course! Nobody wants to have wine spilled all over their fancy clothes, after all.

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    A great waiter is bound to have high emotional intelligence. In other words, they know how to communicate well with others, can adapt to unexpected social situations, and will be able to make someone feel right at home.

    #7

    Compliments To The Chef

    Compliments To The Chef

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    Jake B
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Man is Tyler good with boiling bags and microwaving!

    Thomas Kent
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "boiling bags"... Make it sound fancy by calling it Souse Vide: "Sous vide is a cooking technique that heats food with water. Here's how it works. Food is placed in a vacuum-sealed bag and cooked in a temperature-regulated water bath. The food cooks evenly because it is surrounded by water, not air.

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    Headless Roach
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tyler has some real talent there!

    CL Rowan
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Compliments never hurt and perhaps if Tyler heard them more often he wouldn't need to be fried to work the fryer.

    Burnt Bagel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stoners will always cook better than non-stoners.

    Kenneth McCartney
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I ..dunno. when I'm stoned I love to create new recipes. Which no one but myself will eat.

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    Kathy Loman
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I say that I mean it as a huge compliment to the people in the back preparing the food. It's really easy to screw food up. But it takes talent to get it right consistently.

    Philly Bob Squires
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny as at my place one of our cooks is named Tyler...but he's 23 and stoned out of his mind. But he can make an a$$whoopin burger!

    Bi-Polar Express
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, please don't compliment anyone. We hate that here.

    Jynxiecat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg...this is probably the truest thing I have ever seen!!!

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    #8

    Church Is Over

    Church Is Over

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they never tip because they just gave everything they had to the church.

    MarieTDr
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm older than the oldest Golden Girl. I won't go out to a meal after church because I am so embarrassed by the behavior of people of my age and even younger.

    crowspectre (he/they)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should go and explain to them why it's not okay. Change starts small

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    CJT MSG
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call the church crowd the God Squad. I hated working Sundays.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every Sunday, in 3 different shifts. First the early Mormons, then the Catholics and Presbyterians, then the Baptists and late Mormons.

    Isaac Harvey
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In this sense, atheists are the morally best people. They are kind to others not because of the threat of eternal punishment, but because they know everyone deserves to be treated fairly.

    Denise Zirkel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hypocrisy is exactly why so many people are antireligious

    AR
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Back in the day when we would go to breakfast on Sunday mornings after waking up, if we were the nicest people the wait person had that morning as we always try to be polite to wait staff. We weren’t even claiming to be Christian like the church goers.

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is very hateful. Some people are like this and shame on them but I for one am not. Please stop posting things like this.

    K Y
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you don't like the stereotype, then call out your rude peers.

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    #9

    This Family Overheard Me Being Called The N Word And Cheered Me Up

    This Family Overheard Me Being Called The N Word And Cheered Me Up

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    Shyla Bouche
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was awfully kind of the tippers. 😊

    Alison Hell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why someone downvote Shyla?? I upvote to remove the downvote.

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    Mr.Kris
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice for them to do, but Id be nicer if the restaurant kicked the trash that called her that to begin with.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dayum. Doesn't make what happened to them right, but I bet it at least helped.

    JJ Blue
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    The world needs empathy

    Debbie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, they must be very well of to be able to leave such a tip!

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do not usually mention this but one time at an Olive Garden our waiter was verbally abusing the boy bussing the tables. We left no tip for the waiter and then went and gave $50 to the busboy. He was doing all the work and being abused by his coworker. I am a believer in fairness. This was an unusual situation but I felt like it needed to be done. Plot twist: I go to church! And not all of us are monsters. Some of use will go out of our way to help others. I always tip, and this was a rare circumstance but the busboy was basically waiting on us and the waiter was taking all the credit. I hate bullying and would never treat anyone how churchgoers are being described above. I assume this is targeted primarily towards Christian churches but lots of religions have churches and every barrel has some bad apples. It is shameful but true and they are likely not true believers as they do not live their faith. I hope this enlightens some people. God bless you all.

    CL Rowan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you report the waiter to the management? A $50 tip is nice, but I thought invoking positive change was being taught in most churches? Paying the kid to take his lumps is a very short~term 'lesson'.

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    Shawnna Clement
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd have hoped the generous couple also told the bigot to go to hello... Zero tolerance for ignorance.

    Dragons Exist
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The good thing is that the original Reddit poster said "Management stepped in lightening fast and literally started taking their food off the table as they were still eating. I couldn't have asked for a better response from my managers." in the comments

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    Waiting on someone is all about balance. You have to be welcoming and helpful without groveling. You have to be genuinely pleasant without pretending to be over-the-top happy that your table is about to have the most amazing time everrrr! Professional, calm, and always present without disturbing anyone.

    A great server enhances the entire dining experience and ensures repeat customers. Meanwhile, a bad server is someone who drives everyone away with rudeness, incompetence, and arrogance. In other words, any restaurant is more or less an accurate microcosm of human society!

    #10

    “Waiting Tables Is Just Entry Level Work. Anybody Can Do It…”

    “Waiting Tables Is Just Entry Level Work. Anybody Can Do It…”

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    JJ Blue
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a former servant, I mean server with many years of experience it is not just physical. The memory retention, multi tasking, attention to detail, and customer service skills necessary are beyond the scope of the average human. Thus the insanely high turn over rate.

    Josh Parkes
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    can people not belittle other peoples jobs/work ethic whilst understandably wanting recognition for their own.

    v
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really? Any desk job? What does OP think is a passable day's work? Showing up and leaving on time? I'd love to see OP drop randomly into one of my days which generally consists of directly working on about 1/3 of the 36 projects I've got on my plate plus a variety of other tasks that are not tied directly to any one of the 36 projects. Service workers aren't some kind of all knowing super hero. Just the same as any person who has never worked service would be out of their league if dropped into a service position without any training a service worker would be out of their league if dropped into office work without any training.

    Brian Garcia
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ease down there Ripley; my guess is OP's comment was mirroring the general lack of respect a decent portion of service workers experience given the quote that was posted. I get it, jobs/skills aren't exactly interchangeable, and I wouldn't expect the exceptionally kind staff that I enjoy at my local sushi joint to be able to pick up my duties...nor do I think I can competently expect to manage theirs. If you want to rant about your career choice go for it, but let's not make this a pissing contest.

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    Vasana Phong
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this stems from actually physical work

    over it already
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that's only half of it. I've done both. While the information that you have to retain as a server isn't complex, it's the volume of info (rules, options, orders, needs/wants, etc) that gets thrown at you at one time that's overwhelming. Then 20 minutes later, toss 2/3 of that and replace it with new info, but don't lose the 1/3 you were supposed to keep or people will get angry. It's def mental and physical.

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    Alison Hell
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can work in an office and a restuarant..have done both...office on the weekdays, server on the weekends. I was a server first in my younger years so guessing that's how I was able to do the desk job.....

    Brenda Spagnola-Wilson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Son & DIL are both servers at a restaurant/movie theater. Its hard work. And DIL is currently 8 months pregnant - try that!

    General Anaesthesia
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a lot of countries your DIL would already be on paid maternity leave.

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    Daniel Mattock
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s a reality show I would actually watch. Seems like an obvious idea.

    michele mbennett1010@att.net
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most under appreciated job ever. Pay attention all you entitled Karens.

    Luna Crow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've done both, this is the truth.

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    #11

    Upvote Or Face 10 Shifts Bad Luck

    Upvote Or Face 10 Shifts Bad Luck

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    Lance LaRocque
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's why we can now tap. Things go so much faster.

    Jynxiecat
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You still have to split the checks in the system so that each card can be processed. It can be labor intensive depending on which computer system your store uses.

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    Sergio Bicerra Descalzi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my coworkers and i go for lunch or a drink, 1 pays, the other ones transfer back ti that coworker, is easier and faster.

    manowce
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    side thought: why would you ever let anyone go away with your card, that's beyond me.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh God, when the card reader goes down...

    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just pay cash. Whatever I leave on the table goes into your till.

    Meredith Adams
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When large parties have all separate checks it takes FOREVER to close out all of the checks, which takes you away from your other tables. It’s panic inducing to see a stack like that when you’ve got 4 other tables that need you for stuff. It would prob take a good 20 minutes to cash all of those out, maybe longer.

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    Benita Valdez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never had that many at once but I am getting some terrible flashbacks

    Wednesday
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had something similar last night as costumers. But nearly everyone of us had been a server at some point. That kid made his rent last night..

    Kara Born
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bow down to the skills that this Master/Mistress/Gender neutral term for the same that they must have

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    #12

    Personality

    Personality

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    Alison Hell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In any line of work, most of us are faking it...

    Michael Largey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely. Try controlling a class full of teenagers if they know you're really a painfully shy introvert.

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    Yugan Talovich
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really dislike American tipping. Just pay the people honest wages!

    Alison Hell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Canada too. Our servers make more per hour (around $11 US)..but it's still not enough with the cost of living.

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    Silre
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I sometimes want to punch my own customer service personality.

    Mrs. EW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Who else goes home with their face hurting from fake smiles and is too tired to not be a complete introvert when not working.

    Donna Gettings Apperson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We all wear a work persona and a nonwork persona, especially if in the business of dealing with people. Not an excuse for people to be shitheads, though. Tip your servers and treat them well!

    Caroline Fraser
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you lived in a country such as mine, with universal free healthcare and a living wage, you wouldn’t have to fake being someone you’re not just to keep a roof over your head and food on the table.

    JB
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm, maybe I should be asking for tips from my students then...

    JoMeBee
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm from the northeast but my niece grew up in a tourist town in the south. Typically she speakers like a northerner except when waiting tables. She lays on a nice, thick southern accent. Helps with the tips!!

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    Sooner or later, you’ll have to deal with a rude customer. There’s hardly a job in the world without run-ins with unpleasant peeps from time to time. But in the food service industry, it’s part and parcel of the job experience. Servers don’t just take your orders, bring you food, and send you the check in paper airplane form. They’re problem solvers! They are the face of the entire establishment and act as the bridge between the hungry-hungry customers and the kitchen.

    So there you are, always on your feet, dealing with dissatisfaction, and juggling gastronomic vernacular as well as Gordon Ramsay. If you work at a fancy restaurant with a good reputation, and you’ve got a ton of experience to back up your awesome skills, you can rest assured—you’re financially stable. However, if you’re employed at your regular, run-of-the-mill restaurant, whether you’re compensated fairly depends a lot on your country’s laws.

    #13

    I Need A Job

    I Need A Job

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    Geetha s
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is wrong with The US??? No Health Care... No living Wages for essential workers... No Jobs... Are you all alright? Do y'all need help? Are you guys held hostage and will be executed if y'all speak up? Is the FBI gonna come after me for this comment?

    Silly Rabbit
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    we are not all right (double meaning intended). please send help.

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    Midnightoil
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I myself tip well. But I think of someone who can barely afford to go out to an inexpensive meal.Why is it up to us to provide any tip? Your employer should not expect us to pay your wages. Just sayin.

    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure, let's blame the victim again. It's legal so the employer exploits it. If it were illegal he'd try anyway, that's freedumb!

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    Mrs. EW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone! And I mean, everyone, should have to work restaurant service and retail service, before being allowed out in the world.

    SheilaWeila
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't want my wages determined by the restaurant. I can make a lot more than minimum wage by being a great server. The bad servers don't make as much. Too bad, so sad.

    Andy Saputo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad to see actual servers speaking up. I feel most people saying "tipping shouldn't be a thing, just pay a higher hourly rate" have never been a server and seen how much above living wages a strong employee can make.

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    michele mbennett1010@att.net
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And...here's your $2.25 hr pay check, enjoy figuring out how to make rent 😀

    Marcie Lightwood
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Put ‘Em in on Mother’s Day when half the diners only get out once a year. Half want a custom dish. Half want you to get them change and one out of three want you to recite all the ingredients of four different dishes. You notice that some People have to fit in more than one of these categories. They’re the ones that don’t tip.

    Lawrence mcalistar
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't believe in tips that's the bosses job to pay the employees and should be correctly following ESLA waiters don't start at 2 something they start like everyone else and if you get tipped and you report your boss pays you the difference so tip or not you leave with same amount

    backatya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if you don't like it move to a better job.

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    #14

    Guilty As Charged

    Guilty As Charged

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    Burnt Bagel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hence mandatory rotations…

    Mykidsartrocks
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hah. Like restaurants really follow those. Some states here in the U.S only say that as long as you have 8 hours off between 16 hour shifts, and a full 24 hours at least once every 27 days, then you are fine.

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    Mason Kronol
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you are often the closer and the opener...just do your job the right way. You never know what is going to happen to the openers, like a group of 10 office workers having an early lunch meeting, no heads up phone call, yanking on the still locked doors and pressing their faces to the glass with hand cupped above eyes trying to make eye contact with someone inside.

    Mary Elliott
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like cats and dogs, closers and openers will always be hereditary enemies. Been there, done that.

    arienne libbrecht
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially when you've done 3 clopens in a row. You are your own worst enemy.

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    Tanya Engesser
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah… no. I’ve worked both morning cook and night cook. I know what it’s like to walk into a less than clean kitchen at 4:30 in the morning. I make sure that I leave the kitchen nice for the morning cook.

    that.bitch.mae
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One time one of my old coworkers asked me to wash dishes I wasn't able to get to before the end of my shift (it was already way past the end of my shift) and I was utterly baffled that they seemed upset with me for it because I regularly open with poorly washed fishers and stuff that hasn't been restocked or dishes that are almost at the point of needing to be washed (basically they're left with like one scoop or even just a half scoop of food in them)

    Karyn Stouffer
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ummm... Yeah, but... Everywhere I worked, the closing manager would do a walk-through with the host. Whatever was left undone was either taken care of by them, or the poor dishwasher who's still up to their elbows in the dish pit. Something small? No problem. Something bigger, dirty/messy? Trouble for the person who was supposed to do it.

    chris phillips
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Catering. Have to unload a van full of food, to be saved. Me dishwasher/prep and the head cook. 250 people party. He was on the phone. It took me like an hour and a half to move all this stuff and then the head shift was astounded I moved so fast. When we both got fired from that place that man helped me get a job elsewhere. Humans do exist.

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    Tiki Stanford
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even worse when working clopens that are barely 5 hours apart. Doing some tasks makes sense and skipping some makes way more sense. What am I gonna do, yell at myself?

    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had one of those moments tonight actually. One of my co-workers actually joked about smearing bacon grease back on the kitchen counter at the end of the night after we cleaned everything.

    CL Rowan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you leave the body where it could be eventually found?

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    #15

    Every. Time

    Every. Time

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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Red Hatters!!!! 😍 https://redhatsvictoria.com/

    MoMcB
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, as a woman of a certain age, this fills me with dread

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    Lady Mortadella
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hell. Back in my waitressing days, I had a table full of people. Among them, there was a couple, sitting next to each other, who ordered basically the same dish, just different sauces. She had garlic, he had hot sauce (I think). I brought them their food, they ate it... and THEN they decided to complain that they were given wrong plates, and refused to pay (the girl got the hot sauce plate, and the guy got garlic). JUST SWITCH THE PLATES NEXT TIME, YOU UTTER FUCKTARDS.

    CL Rowan
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a manager issue. They ate it, they can fμcking *pay* for it. OR, they can explain it to the cops.

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    Mason Kronol
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is one of many reasons why I stopped going out to eat with my in-laws. For people who get most of their meals in restaurants they sure don't know how to behave in one. (None of them have ever worked in a restaurant, I have managed one, not that they would ever listen to me.)

    SheilaWeila
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm amazed that the servers on this thread don't know to record the orders beginning with the seat closest to the kitchen. That way anyone bringing the food out knows who gets what without asking. And you can still take ladies' orders first, leaving room for the men in between.

    Erica Knapp
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We called those "pivot points" when I was a server. Smartest thing ever, especially when someone else runs the food to your table - it was awesome until they switched seats lol

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    Molly Burgesd
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s for the lady in the red hat and purple dress.

    OmBoyGanesh
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our family restaurant had a great soliton to this. A group of red hatters came to us as a one-off when their regular place(s) were closed. They weren’t horribly rude but demanding & oblivious. Still, we gave them outstanding service. They argued over the 18% service charge on parties of 6+ because each had an individual check and they were “each their own party.” Our two servers, tipping out a runner/expo, busser, host, bar & dishwasher. The overall top total was 5%. A few months later they booked again. Out of the blue our GM, who took the call, “reminded” the guest that our dress code forbids hats, sandals & bathing suits. The hat part was made up on the spot. They cancelled a few days before the res & we were able to take walk-ins rather than turning them away. The red hats never returned.

    Beachbum
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who tips the dishwasher? I am glad that KY made it illegal for a tipped person to tip another tipped person out. I am paying taxes on money that I do not get to keep?

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    Toni Ahlgren
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you go with piping hot pasta plate like, "So who's having the pasta?" and someone always goes "I'm having the steak".

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love them! "Because when I am an old woman I shall wear purple, with a red hat that really doesn't go ..."

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    For instance, tipping your server isn’t a custom that’s regularly practiced in European countries. There are laws in place which mean that the service charge is already included in the price you see on the menu. Things are pretty darn straightforward.

    Meanwhile, in the US, it all depends on your particular state. If you’re considered to be a ‘tipped employee,’ the way your minimum wage is calculated can be very different from the actual minimum wage. Say you’re living in California, right? The minimum wage there is $15/hour. Meanwhile, the tipped wage is also $15/hour. However, in Alabama, the minimum wage is $7.25. The tipped wage? $2.13. The rest of their wage comes from tips. This means that some American servers desperately need their customers to tip. And to tip well.

    #16

    The Sunday Brunch Crowd Has Finally Been Served

    The Sunday Brunch Crowd Has Finally Been Served

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    Luna Crow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok. But other than that slapped-on title, what does this have to do with the service industry?

    Alison Hell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the best! Churches have wat too much money...and what exactly are they doing with all of it...not donating to the poor that's for sure.

    Mrs. EW
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How many times I’ve been fooled with fake tips from Christian’s, this gives me all the feels.

    Zack Podany
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is karma for the number of times I've been tipped with mini bibles.

    Kathryn Baylis
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, one of the flock made change from the plate, like broke a hundred or something, then used this “money” to tip the waitperson at the restaurant after church?

    Lola Granola
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where can I get a few hundred of these? Asking for a friend...

    Kady LaHaie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This person who did this is my best friend.

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    #17

    Table Of 12 People, Last To Leave The Restaurant. Totally Worth It!!

    Table Of 12 People, Last To Leave The Restaurant. Totally Worth It!!

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    Vasana Phong
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son who works as a server, told be all tips made that day are split equally with all the servers, I think this is a bad idea, also he just told me his employer sent out a memo that they will be getting a portion of their tips( now this isn’t a mom and pop) it’s a ok sized chain) is any of this legal? He said lots of servers already quit

    CelticElff
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this is in the USA, it's illegal. "...file a complaint with the U.S. Department of Labor, Wages and Hour Division, which enforces the federal Fair Labor Standards Act (FLSA). You can also contact the state labor agency in the state where you live."

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    Brenda Spagnola-Wilson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Employers are NOT allowed to keep any tips the servers make. It's tantamount to stealing. Many places share tips, but usually not restaurants. Not sure about the legality of this

    Booklover<3
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The server is saying it's worth it, not the employer, I'm pretty sure...

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    Colin Owrid
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My LARP group used to have an annual Christmas meal at a Tolkien themed restaurant - we'd all be in costume and, my god, did we make a noise! (and a LOT of mess!). Because of this, we always made certain that the tip matched the bill - which was generally about £600 (in 1990!). We were always put up in our own area - and had two waitresses just for us - and there was competition amongst the staff for who was going to do it - the tip must have been worth £500 each in today's money. Plus, although we were very noisy and raucous, we were always very polite to the girls. I miss those nights.

    Duane Johnston
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tip 50%. Wait staff don't get paid minimum wage. In most states it's considerably less. They survive on the tips they make not the wage they earn. Even if the service isn't great it's usually due to understaffing. The service will be better nextime but in the meantime servers still need to survive. Help a fellow human out, it's probably not going to break you

    Ryan Frundles
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I got a tip like this, I'm not sure I'd be able to take the whole thing. There are good people, and some people are just too good. Especially too good for me

    Kathy Loman
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tropical Smoothie Cafe splits tips. I told my daughter that I thought was just asking for lazy people to earn the same as hard workers. Which isn't fair imho and causes the hard workers to slack off too. 🙄

    Mrs. EW
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoa! That’s not something you see everyday

    Michael Largey
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't like the tip system, but some claim it's a "merit system" where the best servers earn the most money. Fair enough, but let's require the employer to match each tip, dollar for dollar. It still will be the same merit system - the best server earns the most.

    SheilaWeila
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Usually a table of this size would have a 20% gratuity added already!

    Ann Hill
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With all respect, you should not have posted the signature.

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    #18

    This Happened Last Night

    This Happened Last Night

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    Vasana Phong
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son just started a job as a server, they close at about 10 this day, his dad waited until 11, he said the restaurant has to serve people that come in before 10, so yep people really come in at 9:50 and order food and drinks, one day he said 3 different people came in 5 minutes before closing, who the hell does that??

    Meredith Adams
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So. Many. People. And they’re almost always 10 percenters. Very rarely will someone who is willing to keep you at work an hour past close make it up to you by tipping generously.

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    John Barber
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a manager who let in a party of 40+, 10 minutes before closing. 😡

    Rod
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In France closing time is for the kitchen. I will never get why the US does not work the same....

    Wondering Alice
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same in UK. I thought I was missing something. Every single waitress job I ever had (many) the kitchen closes way before a shifts finish. Even if it has been stupid busy, the tables are clean and ready for tomorrow before last orders. Usually the last half hour is quite gentle. On really crazy days, manager may ask for volunteers to stay a little (paid of course) if it looks like kitchen won't get clean. If no one volunteers, management do it.

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    Daniel Mattock
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t like even going to a shop or pub shortly before it closes.

    Ahimsa Soul
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll ask before I get seated: is the kitchen closed? Are you still serving? How long before closing?

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happens all the time and it's a nightmare. Not JUST because you have to serve these people because next weekend your DM will be there to crawl up your a$$ over "Why aren't you closing on time?!" Yes, really.

    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never done it myself, but it does happen in the UK, except the staff will look at you as if you have rubbed dog faeces on your face and asked for a kiss

    backatya
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All you're eligible is a water for 3 minutes. Take it or leave

    Anna Harding
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happens with any retail store. Customers came in to select custom picture framing. I told them I had to close in 10 minutes and then later reminded them this and that I had a Dr. appointment. Twenty minutes after closing they left, didn’t purchase as they were “just looking today”. My doctor charged me $30 for the missed appointment, my boss screamed at me the next day because he doesn’t pay anyone after closing. So I lost big time. This was back when my hourly wage was $5.50/hr.

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    When your ability to put food on the table and keep a roof over your family’s heads depends almost entirely on the goodwill of your customers, you’re left with a ton of pressure in your daily life. If you happen to get a stingy or rude customer, you might not be able to make ends meet.

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    Of course, not everyone who’s rude to their waiters is evil incarnate. Some folks simply had a bad day. However, there are people out there who use their rudeness as a weapon, trying to weasel out discounts and to generally make others have an awful day. The way to handle them is to stay professional throughout the interaction. Try not to take their comments personally. If you’re harassed, however, speak to your manager. Ask them to step in.

    #19

    This Deserves To Be Here

    This Deserves To Be Here

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    Michael Smith
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I hope you folks enjoyed your meal, I'll have your server bring your the bill right away!"

    Raumpfleger
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to respond "oh sorry!" and simply flip the stained table-cloth over, telling them "now thats better" in a very confident voice.

    Wednesday
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See above for how to deal with this...

    Rumple Schleppskin
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe Jake from State Farm will buss this table.. Him and his khakis..

    Kathy Loman
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had a hostess sit me at a dirty table before. I don't sit until it's cleaned off though. So now you have the hostess cleaning the table while me and my kids wait, blocking the aisle 🙄

    Take me to dinner first
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once a family sat at a dirty table for about 20 minutes and during the whole time all the mom did was look at me while I was completely busy as if I could know they hadn't eaten already only by her stare

    #20

    Customers Have Been Completely Unhinged Post-Quarantine

    Customers Have Been Completely Unhinged Post-Quarantine

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    Sweetpotato314
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a teacher, I'd say the same about students. I've never seen them the way they are now. I get that the pandemic was hard on them, but most have zero empathy anymore, and one of my favorite things about my students was how much empathy they had. They're vicious now.

    Ash
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder how much of it is a recent lack of socialization and how much of it is just straight-up trauma from 1) pandemic, 2) political situation and 3) being stuck inside the house with their potentially toxic families for longer than ever before...

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    Ahimsa Soul
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel the same on this side of the pond: people were so eager to get "back to normal" they were borderline hysterical, unhinged. Somehow more intolerant, less accomodating, more demanding. What's worse is that the pandemic hit everyone hard, so less staff on most business, more work, less eficiency (as should be expected). But people rather than being more patient, became more unreasonable. Like, really? You had a bad day, week, month, year so you are going to make someone else's horrible too? Why? Just why?

    Barbara Kayton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to do a reality check on myself. Unless something is horribly, terribly wrong with food I ordered, I have to remind myself that the inconvenience of slightly cold delivered food or even a wrong order is absolutely nothing in the scheme of things. Especially when there are others who have no homes, no food, and no work. We have become an incredibly and selfishly oblivious, entitled society.

    Burnt Bagel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rich people are generally entitled assholes. Just sayin.

    Exhausted Panda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly its like they used up their nice to people at the beginning of the pandemic and said f**k it now I don't have to be nice ever again 😂😂

    Gina Babe
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People have lost their humanity. It's truly a strange thing. I've begun pushing back for the first time in years.

    Jus Mars
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the same in the pharmacy I work at. Zero empathy and savage.

    Duane Johnston
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    40% of homeless people have a full time job. For the past 20 years inflation has gone up a minimum of 2%, this year its 9% wages have stayed the same for that same 20 years. Do the math

    Jennifer Lester
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely true. I work in hospitality and people are just the absolute worst now.

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    #21

    I Love Our Cooks But This Is How It Is At The Restaurant I Work At Lol (Slight Exaggeration)

    I Love Our Cooks But This Is How It Is At The Restaurant I Work At Lol (Slight Exaggeration)

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    John Barber
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Most managers are scared of the line cooks. And they SHOULD be.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well yeah, that cr@ck is gonna make them go faster.

    Mike Beck
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glances. Three minutes. Not the same thing. That said, if my crew is caught up they can do whatever. Just be ready.

    Benita Valdez
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Half our cooks would come in high or smelling of alcohol and noone said anything as long as they could do their job. I wear vibrant eyeshadow, like peacock feathers, and get a mini lecture about natural tones only (peacocks are natural but whatever). This was a chain restaurant too and for whatever reason it wanted to suck the joy out of life.

    John Marr
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FEAR. US. We cook your food. You want it done and me high or taste like s**t and me sober? You don't get both.

    Upper Enchilada
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, line cooks are typically men while servers tend to be women. Women are definitely harassed more at work places.

    Zoe Cat
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Managers are front of house everywhere I worked in NYC, so they can't boss around back of house staff. The head chef gets to do that.

    Destinee Davis
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    3 years ago

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    A while back, Bored Panda spoke to a server at a fancy restaurant, who had once waited on the musician, Seal. “He could not have been nicer. Tipped well, made friendly, genuine, conversation with the staff, just radiated kindness. It was really an encounter I’ll remember for the rest of my life,” she told us during an interview, earlier.

    Unfortunately, not everyone was as pleasant to work with as him. The server explained to Bored Panda that before the Covid-19 pandemic, the biggest challenge was working for little pay. Since the start of the pandemic, some new problems appeared alongside the abysmal wages that are unable to catch up with inflation. Some customers physically threatened the members of staff over safety requirements. Others pick fights over insignificant details. More and more people have been on edge.

    #22

    I Haven’t Served In A Year Because Of The Pandemic (I Miss It) But I Saw This Photo And Immediately Was Triggered. I Thought I’d Share With Fellow Servers

    I Haven’t Served In A Year Because Of The Pandemic (I Miss It) But I Saw This Photo And Immediately Was Triggered. I Thought I’d Share With Fellow Servers

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    Brenda Spagnola-Wilson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why many restaurants have an automatic tip (usually 18%-20%) for large groups, even if they have separate checks. More than 10 or 15 people and the tip is added to your total. This is because a server gets tied up with a large group and can't serve other customers, meaning that they lose tips. So large groups automatically have the tip included. This is usually written on the menu somewhere or at the hostess stand.

    Jeanie
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yea... except that rarely goes to the server... it goes to the restaurant. I've served at restaurants where they did that and the customers never left any additional tips because of that being added.

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    Marina Rocha
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the table is going to be an unfathomable mess!!!

    Mason Kronol
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I can see the floor! So much food on the floor!

    F. Jeske
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe unpopular, but most of the world pays staff in restaurants enough to make a living. And tipping is a sign of appreciation, not calculated by the owner of the business as your wage.

    nini
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    POV: You're the only one who missed the "All women should wear something red for picture-day" -memo and now the whole picture is ruined because of you. How dare you, Becky!

    over it already
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, oooh...I missed that it was all the women (well, and a few guys) who had the red. How very handmaid's tale of them. You go, Becky! Smash the patriarchy!

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    Senjo Krane
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Scusemy ignorance but what is POV? I see it everywhere.

    Bored_Panda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    POV means point of view but now on social media they are using it to show a scenario and situation

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    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow this is just hateful. You have no idea who these people are or how they act. For all you know a number of them work in food service.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pffftttt they're not going to tip YOU. They just tithed 10% of their income to their cult.

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    #23

    It Finally Happened!! Told My Customer I Would Be Lucky If I Made $200 On This Horrific Shift, And He Made Sure I Did. People Can Be Great

    It Finally Happened!! Told My Customer I Would Be Lucky If I Made $200 On This Horrific Shift, And He Made Sure I Did. People Can Be Great

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    FlatEarf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This mother fluffer ordered a tea and left a 200 dollar tip at 1:43 in the morning

    NakNakNak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Night gremlins are a different breed--I've done similar because, after about 1am, nothing is real and nothing matters so if you can, do. At least they're using the brain fog for kindness :)

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    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This guy once worked in a service industry, guaranteed.

    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That green tea shot must have been EPIC!

    RyanRyanRyan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably the best $200 he ever spent. He'll be happy for himself for years and the server will likely remember it for as long.

    Shawnna Clement
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happy memories. I had a customer that would order a bowl of soup and leave change from $100. He was lonely and I was chatty. He also knew I was working 2 full time jobs and going to college

    backatya
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    he must be rich and high on drugs

    Christopher Reynolds
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He was drunk AF. Probably just got cut off elsewhere and you served him

    Irene Bucior
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently not all rich people are mean.

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    #24

    Forever The Struggle

    Forever The Struggle

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    Potty pagan panda
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been there. Time goes sooo much faster when you’re busy and bonus! - you don’t need gym membership

    Tanya Engesser
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t even earn $200 on a day with a 10 hour cook shift. Maybe I should go back to working a public dining room.

    MoMcB
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should just be paid a proper wage, with tips as a bonus. I relay don't know how US restaurants keep their staff with this deal, and I was a server!

    SheilaWeila
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When our income is determined by our courtesy and efficiency, we aren't afraid to to basically be paid on a commission, which is what your wealthy executives often receive.

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    “I spend more time now soothing tantruming adults than I do running food. Just last night a customer followed me out to the parking lot and tried to take down my license plate because I charged him for extra ketchup, (as per our business policy, written on the menu),” the restaurant employee revealed to us.

    “So, the biggest problem with being a server right now is, in short, that many people treat us as sub-human trash. Say hello, look us in the eye when you order, leave a tip, and don’t call us names or threaten us. Is it so much to ask?” she said.

    #25

    Yall

    Yall

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    John Barber
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked at a place in Alaska where I was the only line cook without a tracking bracelet.

    Aubrie Allen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At almost any restaurant you go to, just know everyone is sleeping with everyone else there.

    Elizabeth Milliken
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does make a certain amount of sense, servers come from a WIDE variety of lives (honestly, nothing has opened me up to all messy colorful variety of humanity like being a server - I've literally worked a shift with a Mormon stay at home mom of 6, a recovering meth addict on prison work release, a drag queen, and a med student) but if we're honest, the core demographic of servers are, #1 20 something's, #2 single moms with multiple kids from multiple dads, #3 people who are currently or have in the past made less than stellar life choices that affect their ability to get and/or hold down a job, #4 combinations of the above. And I don't mean any of that in a derogatory way, it's just facts. And, let's face it - though I hate to equate all promiscuity (or single moms) with "poor life choices" (there are certainly people with happy healthy consensual extremely, shall we say, active sex lives) - sleeping around, often in unhealthy ways, is extra common to all those demographics.

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    over it already
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol just showed this to my husband of 18 years. That I met at a restaurant. Where he was a cook and I was a waitress.

    Seonag Udell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same, been together 12 years married for 8 and have 3 week old baby

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    Zack Podany
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a former shift manager, I know exactly who these two are and I caught them outside behind the dumpster.

    FakeOptimist
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Count your blessings : I've seen "the deed" done leaning against/halfway on a dumpster so every passer by (including guests, from the parking lot) could see them.

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    Elizabeth Milliken
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've spent most of my adult life waiting tables (except for the years where I was a fully stay at home mom), I can literally name 7 different babies from some variation on this (both servers, no drug problem but an undocumented immigrant, both cooks and both undocumented immigrants from different countries, the server was on work release from prison at the time, etc. etc.)

    Elizabeth Milliken
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh and one of the undocumented immigrant knocked up two different servers I might add, which, since it was years apart and the first pair didn't last longer than the baby making, was, at the time, actually less messy that the server that knocked up two different servers, who were friends before that, within a month.

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    #26

    Double Shifts For Days…

    Double Shifts For Days…

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    NakNakNak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just a restaurant thing--I work the neighborhood value grocery store, and the higher ups expect us to somehow stock a full truck every week AND keep the store clean AND help customers AND put all out-of-place merch back where it goes. Sounds like a breeze until you hear we are only ever allowed two on shift on weekends (three only if we're lucky/busy)--one person has to check people out on top of stocking/cleaning/whatever I just said, so at any given time we only have ONE person working the floor and ONE handling cash. It's unsustainable, this downsizing economy.

    Alison Hell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work in an office and its expected of us to work overtime.. not for extra cash though, time off in lieu...I cant make plans on a friday night anymore as I never know if Im going to be working or not...we get to find out an hour or so before our shift was to end. And I give no f***s about having extra days off..I want money for my time! But alas...I shall be back there on Monday.

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    VonBlade
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "If you complain about the slow service, pick up a job application"

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I feel bad that so many places are understaffed (not just restaurants) and the remaining employees are just expected to pick up the slack with nothing to show for it but frustrated customers and burnout.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I haven't seen a place fully staffed since before 9/11. It's literally been more than 20 years.

    that.bitch.mae
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my jobs told us they were aiming to have 12 package handlers in our area by peak...the most we ever had up there was I think 6 or 7. Now sometimes theyd call people from other areas but here's the issue: they weren't cross trained. And peak is the WORST TIME to try and train someone in a fast moving area.

    Clover
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many job openings in my area, but many don't want to work. Do you think our government pays them too well to stay home? Where's the incentive in that?

    Tanya Engesser
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least restaurants can announce they will be closing early, or won’t be open one (extra) day of the week so that staff can have a day off. I cook for a senior living community, there is no option of saying “sorry for the inconvenience, but we will be closed today.”

    #27

    Door Dasher Asked For A Drink Holder…. Hold My Apron

    Door Dasher Asked For A Drink Holder…. Hold My Apron

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    Burnt Bagel
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Face it…pizza workers across the board tend to be stoners, and for good reason. Just another sample of their creativity……

    Alison Hell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at you! No downvotes on this one! 😁😁😁

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    JuniorCJ82
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn. Well done... and hella creative.

    RyanRyanRyan
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    who orders seven sodas for delivery?!? They better have left a giant tip. What would they have done without a tray?!?

    PenguinQueen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is that a standard size cup in the US?

    Elizabeth Milliken
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like probably a 20 oz, maybe a 16, so more or less, yes (translates to 591 or 473 ml, according to Google)

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    “The essence of being a good server is making sure everyone leaves the meal having had a nice time. The essence of being a great server is making sure everyone leaves the meal having had a memorable time. I’m always on the lookout for anything extra I can do to make the night special for our guests. If I overhear a birthday mentioned, we bring out a piece of cake. If someone comes in wearing a Dolphins jersey, we’ll turn on that game if they’re playing. We take pride in our work.”

    If you happen to see someone raging at a server, think about stepping in. Even if they appear to be unbothered by all of the rudeness, it means a lot to the staff to have someone on their side.

    #28

    Church Crowd Sucks

    Church Crowd Sucks

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    Mary Elliott
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Modern American Evangelical Christians are the opposite of everything Jesus himself taught us to be. If there is a special Hell reserved for blatant, evil hypocrisy it will be stuffed full of these douchebags. I can only assume they're all too stupid or illiterate to read the Gospels for themselves.

    FakeOptimist
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of a documentary about IS when they had a "state" with borders etc. One of the things wich were illegal to bring into it was Quorans....

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love how this keeps coming up again and again. Listen to a sermon about charity at church, treat the person serving you like a slave.

    Erikisst88
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I told my manager that I took up quilting and the classes are only on Sunday so I couldn't work Sunday's anymore. It worked for one week then I was back on the schedule. Cheapest and rudest m**o's ever those fake a** Jesus lovers.

    Alison Hell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There used to be a lot more religious folks on bored panda...I was actually warned by one that ..oooooo.. watch you say, we are many of the church folk on here. wonder where they went and/or why they are being so quiet.

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    Ash
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I volunteered with the youth group at my church once and we were taking the teens to a food court in the mall and making sure they all had a certain amount of money to spend on their meal. A few of them asked the youth leader if they could go to the sit-down restaurant instead (they had some of their own money to spend on top of what we gave them for their meal). He said, "Yes, but you need to make sure before you go in that you have enough money to pay for the whole bill AND a 20% tip. I don't care if the server dumps an entire plate of spaghetti in your lap: you will tip 20%. Because I have BEEN a server, and the number of people who told me they were from a church group and then didn't tip was AWFUL." The teens ended up all going to the food court instead, just in case. That youth leader was great...

    Ic Rof
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I found "Waldo"! Which one is NOT like thee others?!

    backatya
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why should they? They aren't rich

    MygrandsonscallmeNia
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously? I've been a Christian since 1992! I don't know of anyone that acts the way this keeps getting portrayed. I give to others, to the point, I have to buy it back. I take care of the homeless, when I can afford it. I've seen people standing with signs for work, because they're hungry. I don't have work to give them, but I will, take them into McDonald's, or whatever fast food restaurants around nearby. Buy them a full meal, and give them a little extra. I had a woman I cleaned for, she gave me a few bags of clothes her husband couldn't wear anymore. I was in the Walmart parking lot, and a homeless man asked if I could help him get clothes at goodwill. He had a job interview, and nothing to wear. His size, was the same size as the clothes given to me. I take used clothing off people's hands, to give to others. This man was so happy to get those clothes!! He was in tears! I even went into the taco bell he was standing in front of, and bought him a full meal. Stop judging us!

    NinaCruz21361
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Church goers don't tip. I was tipped $10 on a $200 bill from a 10 top. Meaning 10 people at the table. I went back and forth getting them refills. Lmao. This isn't a "judgement" these are people's experiences. Talk to your fellow church goers about their restaurant etiquette.

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    Irene Bucior
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, again, religious people are mean.

    Jessica J.
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not Jesus they love, it's gossiping about their fellow churchgoers, and judging everyone else.

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    #29

    Order

    Order

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    Brian Droste
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have friend who does that sometimes. I get irritated with him if he orders something a head I of me. Waiting for him to get done so I can order what I want w/o modify my order.

    Rumple Schleppskin
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if you order it after, and just say, "as is", then stare at your friend.. And the waiter stares at him.. Mission Accomplished!

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    Erikisst88
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a customer who made her chicken breast salad so complicated that we made copies of the ticket so we didn't have to write a book every time she came in.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The modifications are fine, it's the subsequent complaint about the "extra cost they didn't know about" despite coming at least once a week and doing this every single time.

    Sami-Jo Ross
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can understand one or two substitutions for dietary reasons (like allergies), but when you're replacing everything just order something else.

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a lot of dietary requirements, but I don't want to be a pain, so I will not get anything that would require a lot of things to be taken out. If there isn't an item that accommodates all my needs, I will not worry about the intolerances and order something that doesn't have my allergies. EDIT: it would be nice to have more options though.

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    VonBlade
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Chicken salad sandwich, hold the butter, the mayo, the lettuce and the chicken, bring me the toast.

    Mason Kronol
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People are insane when it comes to chicken salad! It was seasonal, popular and delicious one place I worked. We made it fresh almost every other day. No, you cannot get yours without celery, it's already in there. No we cannot just whip up a batch without it in 5 minutes. (Anyone who has made and enjoys chicken salad knows it's much better after it has chilled 12-24 hours)

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    Tanya Engesser
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My current frustrated comment to my assorted supervisors: “I don’t go to KFC and expect to get a cheeseburger” When dealing with off menu requests from residents. Honestly, I really truly wish I could honor all the crazy requests, but I’m just one cook with 50 people to feed. I just don’t have the time, and often don’t have the resources.

    Wondering Alice
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am with you on this one so much. Lots of dishes I'm fussy about, but save those for when I cook and choose from the items on the menu I'm likely to enjoy as is. A few weeks ago, I went out with my family. I phoned ahead to ask nicely if it would be possible to amend a meal my mum really fancied but due to health problems needed a few changes. I was clear that if it would be hard, she would just get something else. They were really nice about, said it was no problem, and thanked me for calling ahead. Unfortunately, when we came to order my BIL embarrassing ordered all their meals basically changing them beyond recognition and explaining how everything needed to be cooked. He even had the gall to loudly complain how long it took to make. He is a generous tipper, but I still think it's not ok.

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    Yvonne Brown
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband modifies his order, asks a ton of questions and otherwise confuses servers so much they sometimes forget to take my order. At least he tips well.

    Cuppa tea?
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually ask for certain ingredients to be omitted from my food, but always ask if that would be an issue.

    Lady Mortadella
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get that if someone is allergic, but if not: A: Just order the effin dish B: Choose something else C: Cook it yourself at home..

    SeaLouse
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Five minutes to order a damn burger...

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    #30

    I Felt This Belonged Here!

    I Felt This Belonged Here!

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    Mahogany Eclipse
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having worked cashier and waitress in my youth, I absolutely resonate with Squidward on soul level kinda shi7

    Piggy Tee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So what, you need to be there like four hours before closing time to get good service??

    “The server may look unbothered, but that’s because it’s their job. ‘The customer is always right,’ is one of the only pieces of training many of us get. It is literally our job to be sure tables leave happy. We cannot argue with you. So, just because they’re smiling on the outside doesn’t mean they’re not offended, or even feeling unsafe, on the inside,” the server told Bored Panda.

    “If you’re not comfortable saying something to the abusive customer directly, just find a manager and quietly inform them of what’s going on, they’ll take it from there. A lot of servers are students who are too nervous about losing the job or looking unprofessional to ask for help. And, as someone eating in the restaurant rather than working there, your words will carry far more weight with the harasser than ours would anyways.”

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    #31

    You Want The Behind The Scenes Dining Experience... You Got It

    You Want The Behind The Scenes Dining Experience... You Got It

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    VonBlade
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I swear like a sailor and I'm pretty sure those asterisks are random, unless b*** sh**** and s*ck*** are brand new swear words.

    Kai
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Restaurants: the spawning pit of inventive curses

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    Starlord
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can verify, This happens! Lol

    SheilaWeila
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    3 years ago

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    Totally true! The chefs think that they are the boss, but it's the customers who are boss.

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    #32

    This, But With Coffee

    This, But With Coffee

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once saw a manager come in very hungover and start brewing coffee without the pot.

    Mary Elliott
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wish I had a dollar for every time I've brewed tea or coffee onto the floor. I'd go get drunk. I am not a morning person.

    Alison Hell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I spill it everywhere...its my little trail of coffee drops in case I ever get lost in my tiny house.

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    LB
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this earlier this week! A real forehead-slapping moment.

    Erica Cochrane
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    a few weeks ago my coworker knocked a full batch of cold brew off the counter. that's 12 litres of water, 2kg of wet coffee ground... everywhere. took nearly an hour to clean it up. had to keep serving while walking around in it all.

    Bloobee bloobee bloo bloo bloo
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This used to be a weekly thing for me. Or I’d turn in the spout next to the I e the teapot is sitting under

    Kathleen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh man, I've done this a few times, and felt like an idiot each and every time.

    Shawnna Clement
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd never drink iced tea at a restaurant. The tea pot is the nastiest thing in a restaurant.

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    #33

    No, Its Ok, I'm Not Busy Or Anything

    No, Its Ok, I'm Not Busy Or Anything

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    JuniorCJ82
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He doesn't care. He can't hear you anyway.

    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bravo, JuniorCJ82! For those who don't recognize him, this is Beethoven, Ludwig van, ultimately deaf composer.

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    NakNakNak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahhh I have such bad anxiety about this, I'd rather send the server away and have to wait a few minutes to order than sit there umming and ahhing while they stare me down with a pen at the ready.

    Alison Hell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. Most servers ask if I need a few more minutes...yes, please. 😊

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    Bob La Capra
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He hasn't composed anything in since 1827. Decomposing for 195 years

    harpling
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a slacker! I bet he hasn't updated his LinkedIn or Instagram in a while, too.

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    Mike Beck
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heck, no. I tell the waitstaff they can come back in a few minutes. They got stuff to do!

    AR
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always ask them to come back if I’m not ready. I can be pretty indecisive and I don’t want to hold them up.

    Piggy Tee
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just say you'll come back in a few minutes

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    #34

    I’ve Seen It Too Many Times

    I’ve Seen It Too Many Times

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    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This gave me flashbacks. *shudder...

    A C
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's. Called. Harassment.....not "just a weird drunk dude."...

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is when you bring the bill. Fast. And if it gets worse hopefully a coworker or the manager will help you out. Or better yet, help him out the door. If he insists on badgering you or someone else it could be constituted as harassment.

    backatya
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well hell she's dressed like a s**t

    Lianna Bolt
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty sure he’s over compensating for, well you know.

    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't really go into restaurants on my own. I need a responsible adult

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    #35

    Pls... Stop... Talking

    Pls... Stop... Talking

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    John Barber
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have also had servers who talk too much.

    Alison Hell
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not good at small talk, gives me anxiety.... let's just take care of the business at hand and move on from each other.

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    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The waitress is not your therapist and if they were you'd have to pay them better. Be civil, tip appropriately (or even better vote to remove tipping wages entirely.) And try not to barf on anything. It's not that hard.

    Wondering Alice
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I quite enjoyed the ones who wanted to chat. Last place I worked as a waitress, I always got put on the shift where the pensioners came in because no one else liked it. Suited me great, way better than being hit on.

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    Hetal Vyas
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't exclusive to wait staff

    #36

    The New Hostess

    The New Hostess

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    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I first started working as a hostess the kitchen staff didn't realize that I speak Spanish. You should have seen their faces when one of them asked a busser about me and I answered him. :) Yeah Juan, the new girl IS single but you don't stand a chance! You should never assume that just because I'm pasty white I don't speak more than one language.....

    zak
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jessica Jones, that was a great show 😁👍

    Ellie Vanille
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it really bad that I want Kilgrave's superpower ?

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    Hugh Cookson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't tar us all with the same brush - I''ve been a Chef ( a proper one, not a Nando's / burger flipper etc) and in all of the 37 + years I've been doing the job, if anyone was disrespectful / ignorant or aggressive to FoH staff they wouldn't last long. There was stress but it was dealt with appropriately - like the time I broke up a knife fight between two of my chefs at a really nice place with a meat hammer and help from my second Chef. They were both sacked immediately and as they both lived in, lost their accommodation immediately too - this was at 9 in the evening in deepest, darkest Cornwall in November. I was told that there were no taxis available so I'm making the assumption that they walked the 8 miles to Liskeard. Don't actually care but I never heard from them again which is good.

    Wondering Alice
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, that's kind of been my experience too (also UK) I found real chefs can be fiery if they think any staff are unprofessional and can be a bit scary especially for young girls on their first job. By the same token, they are the first to insist no one is disrespected. They can scream in your face you didn't check the order properly but be absolute darlings after the shift. And if a line manager makes the waitresses cry, it's the manager who better start running.

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    #37

    Impossible

    Impossible

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    FlatEarf
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we add some sprite into that mix too? Sprite is always good cold or warm weather sprite is yummy

    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The sprite is labelled respect. It's very rare to get sprite

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    #38

    It Be Like That Tho

    It Be Like That Tho

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    Mason Kronol
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband every dam time: Winning lottery numbers! Me: Stop doing that. Him: she laughed. Me: And when she walked away she rolled her eyes, called you an ldiot under her breath and mentioned it to another server who is now shaking her head and rolling her eyes too.

    Yvonne Brown
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband - “How about a half-off coupon?” Ugh.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "What'sa matter, honey? Afraid yer face is gonna crack if you laugh?"

    Joshua Moore
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every f'n day, just STFU already. If I had that kind of money, you sure as hell wouldn't be seeing my ugly mug here.

    Jessica Hamilton
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See but if I had a million dollars I probably wouldn't be working here

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why does a bad dad joke warrant a hateful moniker? People, grow up and stop being so rude. The joke is a groaner. Groan and stop being disrespectful and hateful.

    #39

    Pain

    Pain

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    Vasana Phong
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can’t afford to tip then you obviously can’t afford to eat out either

    seasidecav
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or the employer should pay a living wage.

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    Mary Elliott
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Frequently, I pay for the meal on my card and my husband leaves the tip in cash on the table. He never tips less than 20%, more if it's exceptional service. I always feel like screaming "we left a tip on the table!!!" as we leave so nobody who sees the tab thinks we're being cheap. So, no tip filled in doesn't necessarily mean there was no tip. Just saying.

    A Nelson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same, but I will write on the receipt "cash tip" to let them know they are appreciated and to look for it on the table (everyone pays with cards nowadays) Or if it's a good tip, I put it into their hands and say thank you. Seems like the personal thank you makes a few days better. (They are so awesome they never look at how much I am putting into their hand, so I know it makes their day when they go in the back and see 😀 ) hats off to you all in the industry

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    Brenda Spagnola-Wilson
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I leave cash tips whenever possible. Credit and debit card tips must be reported to the government. Cash is too, but they can't trace it if you don't.

    Sammie 19
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read on one of bored pandas articles that if the tip is included in the bill and paid by card that taxes end up taking most of the tip. Always better to tip with cash

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    JuniorCJ82
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would literally take 7 cents and throw it at them and tell them they obviously need it more than me. C***s...

    ThePinwormsrock
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tip in cash in case management skims tips. My receipts often look like this.

    Mahogany Eclipse
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's grounds for assassination right there

    Peter Maroney
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe the service was really shitty. If that's the case, you ain't gettin no tip. Tips are called tips for a reason.

    Ryan Frundles
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It hurts so much. Even if I got completely disrespected and I was sure the server was doing meth in the bathroom, I'd still leave a 50

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    #40

    Anyone Else?

    Anyone Else?

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    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or even better, they're changing their baby on the table. That happened to me more than never, and that's way too damned much.

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gross that is disgusting! Baby stations exist for a reason! I am a mom and I would never do something like that. It is rude to the water and dude people are right by you trying to eat. They do not need eau de dirty diaper wafting towards them.

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    gg Gc
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The waiters should have cleared the area. Their job

    SheilaWeila
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You do pre-bus before serving the entree, right?

    Rumina Io
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not plates that are the problem, it's phones, sunglasses, car keys, and other personal items that they leave all over the table.

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    #41

    If You Know, You Know

    If You Know, You Know

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    Mary Elliott
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone should have their own personal walk-in.

    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you've been yelled at by a customer because you didn't bring the salsa they asked for when you are still taking the rest of the table's order and you almost spilled a tray of hot food because Little Bratleigh is running around the tables while her parents ignore her and your feet hurt because you've been on them for 7-1/2 hours and you've just found out the guy on the next shift called in sick so you have to work late...you go cry in the walk-in freezer so no one sees you.

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    pocwaddler
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My server daughter calls it the "two-minute cry."

    KikiM
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With your face directly in front of the fan so your eyes don't get too puffy.

    Metalhead Turtle 🇺🇦
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did this when I worked at a restaurant. I was a prep cook, not a server, but I had to do it. Just my experience.

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone can use a good cry sometimes. But do not make others have to isolate themselves to cry in their workplace because they were insulted or humiliated. No Bueno. However posting that you are crying is a cry for attention moreso than empathy. Hope this girl feels better and gets some real life support not just from anonymous followers.

    SheilaWeila
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would also serve as a good temporary shelter in event of nuclear attack.

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    #42

    Also During That Sunday Brunch Shift!

    Also During That Sunday Brunch Shift!

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Generally outside smoking or in the office playing windows solitaire.

    BlueRoseofMystery
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did I just picture the manager hiding in a cabinet giggling like a toddler?

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    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's in his car hitting his choice of pipe, I assure you.

    Alison Hell
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's me in a grocery store....cant find the salsa in any aisle. 30 minutes later, finally find someone who works there.....a 44 minute shoppingg trip for a 3 dollar jar of salsa.

    Zack Podany
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On the phone practicing politics trying to keep our restaurant name out of the police blotter.

    #43

    A Fellow Server Got Hit Tonight

    A Fellow Server Got Hit Tonight

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    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    Premium
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Times are tough! Not so tough that we can't spend $123 on dinner. But too tough to spend more than $130. Nothing personal!"

    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then don't spend $100+ on dinner if "times are tough".

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    Brian Droste
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I could make it right. If people can not leave a decent tip, then they should not go out to eat or spend less on food so they can leave a decent tip.

    Snorkeldorf
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Went out for lunch at a nice restaurant, that I did not frequent, with my friend. We sat in the bar, which was not too crowded. Bartender was also working as the server and he was amazing. Great service, friendly, all around awesome. We got separate checks and I realized when I got home I'd only tipped the poor kid 10%. It was a brain lapse and I felt terrible. Place was close so I drove back up. He was at the bar and I stood there and got his attention. Apologized profusely and handed him a folded up $20. With what I already tipped that was about 50%. Poor kid probably thought "Oh no.....here 's a cougar giving me her phone number.". It was not and I hope it made his day. He sure helped make mine.

    Luna Crow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can't afford to tip, then you can't afford to dine out. Assholes

    seasidecav
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about having a go at the employer for not providing a living wage.

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    Okiedokie
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    idk...what if this is a couple who has waited & saved to go on a date & this was all they could manage. this isn't on the customer, it's on the service industry for making it the customer's job to pay what they won't. in japan there's no such thing as tips because employers actually appreciate those they hire, want to keep them, and pay them accordingly.

    Alison Hell
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a table once..a couple with their child...they were a handful and the child was super messy. After all the kerfuffle, no tip was left....however, they didn't look like they had much money so I swallowed my own shallowness and let it go. Maybe they didnt have much money and were treating themselves, or were travelling and had so much money for eating out...we dont know everyone's story and those with little money are allowed to eat out and treat themselves once in awhile too.

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    Burnt Bagel
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People f*****g suck sometimes.

    Rahul Pawa
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can afford to spend $130 on dinner, then you can probably afford $140. Not that $17 is a great tip in this case.

    PenguinQueen
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so confused... In the UK the servers get paid the minimum wage, then a sometimes a service tip gets added to the final bill, which is split between staff, and then its seen as polite to leave a tip for your personal server... So say a bill comes to £90.00 and you have been there for 2 hours, its for 2 people seen as extravagant to leave a £10.00 tip - but cheap to leave anything under a £5.00 tip elsewhere - and barista staff are lucky to share a tip jar of loose change every day.. But get paid a tiny bit above min wage (about £9.00 now)

    Rahul Pawa
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The US has two minimum wages: one for regular jobs, and a separate lower wage for jobs that normally receive tips. The minimum wage for tip jobs is a little above $2/hr. This is the national minimum wage, some states or cities have higher minimum wages.

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    AR
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can’t tip 20% in the US, don’t eat out. The end.

    backatya
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    server got hit with what a truck?

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    #44

    Every. Freaking. Table

    Every. Freaking. Table

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    Telepathetic
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    14 years cook/fast casual and never saw servers wash lemons--even if there was moldy ones in the case

    Erica Knapp
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yes!!! I always tell my server to hold the lemon.

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    D00FINSHMERTZ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Former bartender and server here... everyone in the building has touched those lemons.

    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've heard stories about tables who attempt to make their own lemonade at the table.

    BlueRoseofMystery
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a kid I had a friend do that but he was 7 at the time.

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    Alison Hell
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, my husband always always asks for extra lemon for his water. So I get a piece as well in my glass....gee thanks. I give him mine and he is well aware of what could be on the lemon...yet he still does it...🤢 Edit: he only squeezes the juice into his glass but, still.

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    #45

    Is This Legal? (In Mississippi For Context)

    Is This Legal? (In Mississippi For Context)

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    Elaine Morinelli
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No it's not legal anywhere, it's called theft.

    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, a friend got her manager fired over this sort of thing. Not prosecuted. No monetary retribution. Just fired.

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    Moezzzz
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm from Jackson Mississippi, and yes, this is SUPER illegal. Call the labor board and report them. If you have any tips taken from you, keep track of everything so you can be reimbursed (which you will AND THEN SOME). Do not sit on this! If you're scared of any kind of retribution, message me and I'LL do it!

    Cassi Lyris
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is called theft and that's called evidence. Remember, your boss is not your Daddy, and they don't actually make the rules.

    Millen Kingwood
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    3 years ago

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    Sorry to break it to you, but in a workplace the boss does make the rules, hence their title: boss. If that was not enough, here's another unpopular thought: with over 15 years in service, I hate lazy, careless, unprofessional servers, who think that they are entitled to be tipped just for showing up. If a server takes the order and serves it accurately, has worked for their salary. You need to do something more to deserve a tip.

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    Cyber Returns
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, and the manager is going to be very busy running the place alone when his staff walks out

    Lane C
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's Mississippi, they don't care if it's legal. Most of my bosses have led me to believe that they are just upset that slavery was abolished. (Been in Mississippi most of my life)

    Ann M Clinkscales
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, that is Not legal in ANY state in the US! Go to you labor relations board and file for your tips. Let them pay those tips and pay you for the illegal theft of your tips AND the extra money they fine the employer as penalty! In NM, that is usually 25% more on top if the lost tips!! They owe you $100? Now they owe you$125!

    John Marr
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, thats wage theft. Super illegal in the us.

    Jodie daubenmire
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is theft! Handcuffs, mugshots, bars..all that.

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    #46

    No Im Not Making It Less Oily For You

    No Im Not Making It Less Oily For You

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    crowspectre (he/they)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is all fine, but make sure that you're not adding something that could be an allergen, like if someone asks for a salad without nuts in it, let them remove the nuts