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It often feels like something that happens only in movies, but every now and then people leave their spouses-to-be at the altar in real life as well.
And there's one Reddit thread that not only proves this but also highlights the reasons why. It started with the user BSstoryTeller asking everyone on the platform, "Did you, or someone you know, ever attend a wedding where the bride or groom was left at the altar? How did it turn out?"
With all the anonymity it provides, to many, the internet seems like an ideal place to get stuff off their back — as of today, there are over 4,600 comments under BSstoryTeller's question. Here are some of the most memorable ones.
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#1
A woman I briefly dated was a runaway bride. Her ex never hit her, but constantly belittled her and was basically emotionally abusive. ... Telling her she was lucky he wanted her, that she could never find anyone better, that she was ugly but he dealt with it, etc. etc. etc. She was a smart kid (was a medic in the military, saving dozens of lives in Pakistan), but emotionally manipulative people can get anyone if given enough time, and he got her.
On her wedding day, her dad who wasn't usually in the picture (having divorced [her mom] when she was a teen) was having a conversation with her in the ready room, and got concerned when she started repeating a lot of the things her fiancé was saying to her. She said that she was midsentence when he stood up and said, 'Lets go to Dairy Queen' out of the blue. When she was little, they often went to DQ and talked over ice cream. She took a second, agreed, and they left to go to DQ. But he drove three towns over, and they sat and talked over ice cream for hours while her phone rang the battery dead in the car.
She said she felt like a huge weight was lifted, and felt bad that her friends and family were waiting for her, but they would all understand later. He eventually went back to the church and told the bridal party it wasn't happening and got his buddies to come and move all her stuff out the next day. She said that while her dad wasn't the best father in her teens, he was the best dad anyone could ask for that day.
Suzy Creamcheese 2 years ago
Or at least makes them easier to deal with. ;-)
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DennyS (denzoren) 2 years ago
If I were at the wedding, I'd 100% understand. So happy that she got out of it. Good on the dad too.
SuperChicken 2 years ago
YAY, Dad! He may not be the best Dad in her teens, but he sure knows what's best of her.
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#2
[I] had a friend that didn’t know she was the bride until she was halfway down the aisle. Her parents had arranged a marriage for her (common in her culture) and had told her that the family had all been invited to a cousin’s wedding. My friend was told everyone was going to be wearing white for whatever reason, I don’t remember. They arrived at the church just before the bride was scheduled to walk down the aisle. My friend, thinking they’re late, wanted to slip in and stay in the back. Her father, however, takes her arm, and they start walking up the aisle.
It isn’t until they’re halfway up that she stops and realizes everyone is looking at her and smiling and crying tears of joy. She turned to one of her aunts in the pew next to her and asked them who was getting married.
The whole church went silent, and then, the aunt looked at my friend's father and said, 'You can’t be serious! You planned a wedding for your daughter and just expected her to go along with it?! Have the two of them even met? Did you seriously think this would work?!' The whole room was then chattering about them, and the father just cleared his throat and told his daughter to keep walking. Luckily, the aunt grabbed my friend first and pulled her into the pew, pushed her past the row of people, and they both ran out of the church. Her parents disowned her after that, and she moved in with that aunt.
Lisa H 2 years ago
Seriously! Her aunt sounds awesome, though! Thank God!
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Cecilia Herrera 2 years ago
She was very lucky that her aunt was there for her. I hope that she has been able to live her best life, once she was living with her aunt.
Seabeast 2 years ago
From the original: "Edit: They are an Indian family in the US, her parents are very traditional and she expressed that she didn’t want to get married and wanted to focus on her career."
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DuchessDegu 2 years ago
Happened with a work colleague (male), he was 17 and thought he was invited for a family party and only found out he was the groom hours before the wedding. He went along because of family pressure, bride wasn't happy as well, they moved to a different country weeks after the wedding (on "honeymoon") and were able to have it annulled. Funny thing is that they had to be roommates for years until they regularised with immigration, got jobs etc and became good friends.
Phoebe Bean 2 years ago
We all need a Hero in our families, and I´m glad that girl had her Auntie to rescue her.
#3
This actually happened to me. The guy I was supposed to marry, just didn't show up at all. He called all of his friends and family on his side, and told them not to bother showing up because he wouldn't be there. We waited around til about an hour after the wedding started, and finally got a text message saying he wasn't coming.
So I got to look like a jerk by telling my family 'oh, sorry, there won't be a wedding today.'
It was mortifying. And to top things off, my son was asking me why his daddy didn't want to marry mommy. Very hard to explain that to a 2 year old.
SuperChicken 2 years ago
I know. I can only imagine how traumatizing that is to the the little boy.
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Show thyself 2 years ago
Who twisted your situation around so much that you fehlt like a jerk? The only jerks are the groom and his family by not calling of off the wedding, while knowing that there would'nt be one.
pineapple87 2 years ago
If he didn't have the guts to break up with you in person, I'd say you're better off without him.
#4
It happened to me.
I was left at the altar. We stayed together only to have him abandon me at the hospital little over a year and a half later.
We were together for 6 years at that point and engaged for 4. There was no signs that it was going to happen.
The whole wedding was both of us and our friends making it. We'd get together on Sundays for BBQ and planning. He was so excited. He'd talk about how awesome it was going to be to have a small ceremony then a picnic and a big bonfire. How we didn't need any of that other stuff since our love was real.
After an hour of waiting, it was obvious. He called me and said he just couldn't do it. I stood before everyone and explained that he got cold feet but we can still have the picnic! Which we did. I walked around in my wedding dress joking about his cold feet. After all, 6 years I knew him well.
The weirdest thing? We never brought it up. Like ever. He was watching tv when I got back from our wedding like nothing was unusual. He moved out a week later but two months later asked to come back. I let him. Life continued.
A year and about a half later I got in a bad car wreck. I was in a coma for a bit. He came to visit but as soon as I was up and starting the first rounds of surgery (spinal issues), he told me he just didn't love me enough to go through with being there for me.
I acted the same way I did when he left me at the altar. He left me in the hospital just like at the altar. It was almost 8 years I was with him. Our families were close. I honestly thought we'd come together again. Never did.
I healed and grew emotionally. It's so hard when half of you is missing and we had grown so much into one another. I took classes. Learned to kayak. Cried. Got new friends. Went dancing. Dated.
I found my husband 2 years after the other abandoned me. I learned that having history with someone and feeling familiar and safe isn't always enough. I have never had more fun with anyone like I do with my husband. We live an adventurous and happy life.
The life I would've had with my ex was predictable but that's not what I wanted. Who I was and who I wanted was just not him, but I didn't know that. He did.
His abandoning me at the hospital and leaving me at the altar was the greatest gift I never wanted.
Narwhal Blast 2 years ago
My bf of 6years messaged me on WhatsApp to say he doesn't love me anymore. I haven't seen him since, and it's been some years, but I thank him for it! Come to think of it, he was emotionally abusive and when I started to stand up for myself, he didn't love me anymore.
Lisa H 2 years ago
I'm so sorry you went through that, but it sounds like it was for the best. I hope you have found (or will find) someone who lifts you up and treats you well.
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Joelle Jansen 2 years ago
Interestingly enough there's real statistical evidence that men are more likely to divorce when their wife gets seriously ill, whereas that doesn't happen with women whose husbands get seriously ill.
Powerful Katrinka 2 years ago
Newt Gingrich served his wife with surprise divorce papers while she was recovering from surgery for uterine cancer. She had no idea that he had already chosen his next wife.
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3 Owls In A Coat 2 years ago
“Having history with someone and feeling safe and familiar isn’t always enough.” I’m so glad she learned this lesson!
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BetterBitterButter 2 years ago
It must have been heartbreaking but it's lovely to know that she can now see it as a blessing as her life is good now.
Linds 2 years ago
I have epilepsy and my ex n I were living together, we had gotten into an argument and I had a seizure because of it. The only thing he did was call my MOM to come take care of me while he just went into his office. Like WOW dude, seriously? Dude was a Grade A narcissistic, pathological liar who I later found out was cheating on me (supposedly my fault somehow) because i answered his phone when his other gf called (she was innocent, didn't know he was with me) and y'know what, I'm SO thankful for all of that because even though I wasted 4yrs, I'm free from that jack*ss and met my current bf 2 weeks later and I'm finally learning what a non toxic relationship is like!
ChickyChicky 2 years ago
Engaged for four entire years, but only wanted a small ceremony anyway? Yeah the writing was on the wall.
#5
I was a DJ for several years, during which time I did many, many weddings. Only once did I ever see someone left at the altar.
Prior to the day of the wedding itself, I had met with the bride and groom to go over the wedding details. My initial impression was that the two of them were a lovely couple with a bright future. The groom to be, however, had been cheating on his fiancee for months before the wedding with an ex-girlfriend.
On the actual day, I found myself playing pre-ceremony music for a half hour after the ceremony was scheduled to start as ~150 guests sat and waited awkwardly. As it happens, the groom had admitted to one of his groomsmen the night before the wedding that he had been cheating on his fiancee. This groomsmen rightly thought that was a particularly s****y thing to do, so he told the groom that he should tell the bride the truth, or he would himself. The groom's response was to wait until the morning and just leave. He eventually called his parents an hour before the ceremony and told them he wouldn't be coming. They spent the next hour and a half trying to convince him to change his mind. Meanwhile the bride is in her dress with her bridesmaids and has no idea where her fiancee is or why he left.
I learn all this, by the way, well after the fact. I often acted as an MC during weddings, so I kept in constant communication with coordinators, caterers, venue staff, photogs, etc. All of us were aware that the groom was MIA, and it became clear that something was up when the groom's parents had arrived at the venue and he had not. They eventually had the coordinator break the news to the bride, since the groom did not wish to speak to her, and they didn't want to do it themselves. Naturally, the bride was devastated, but she didn't want to simply tell all her guests to leave. The reception was at the same venue as the ceremony, so she decided to go ahead and have the party without the groom. She changed out of her wedding dress and still attended. The next day I call my boss to tell him what happened and he and I both decided that I would forgo my pay and we wouldn't charge the bride's family. The photographers were good friends of ours and after they talked to us they decided to do the same. The bride and the bride's father were so grateful that they both called me personally a few days later.
It turns out that about a year later one of the bride's sisters was getting married. They booked our company for their wedding and requested that I DJ. This wedding went off without a hitch and everyone had a great time. After the reception was over, I'm packing my equipment when the bride (who was left, not her sister) came up and struck up a conversation. We ended up talking for a while. I worked up the nerve to ask her out, and we were together for about two years.
Eastendbird 2 years ago
Now this is either a) stolen from the script of a movie I haven't seen or b) the outline for the script of a movie I'd love to see!
Stannous Flouride 2 years ago
Acts of kindness like those of the DJ, his boss, and the photographers is an investment in good word-of-mouth publicity that no amount of money could buy.
#6
My entire fourth grade class was in attendance at our teacher's wedding where she was left at the altar.
The whole situation was ugly. My teacher was the bride and was about 3/4 down the aisle when the groom decided he couldn't do it. He walked off to the side and at first my teacher and her father didn't notice and kept walking, smiling radiantly. There was about a minute of really solid confusion (last minute cold feet? bathroom emergency?) before everyone realized what was going on. My teacher was whisked out of the church and an announcement was made that there was not going to be a wedding. This happened the second or third week of June; she didn't come back for the last week of school.
Stardust she/her 2 years ago (edited)
Wait, there’s different ways of grades in school in other countries? My country (India) also has 4th grade, 12th grade etc. i guess I might be not as smart as I thought
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#7
Went to a lovely wedding of a friend of mine, it was a classic fairytale style wedding.
Big white dress for the bride, tux for the groom, horrible dresses for the bridesmaids, family friend as the Priest, you know the drill. The ceremony goes well, no crying babies, no interupting ex lovers, and the vows have nearly everyone crying.
And then we come to the big question, do you take this man or woman to be your husband and wife? A simple question right?
Well the Groom decided to be a little romantic, he was going to respond:
'No...I take her as much more than that, as my lover, my wife, and my very best friend'. Unfortunately, he didnt get that far....
He says 'No I do not' and before he cant finish, his fiancee, begins to scream at him, and in about the space of 2 minutes, we find out that she stole money from him and made a little next egg, had been cheating on him for the last year with 3 different guys and made about a dozen insults to the guys physical appearance.
She then storms off out of the church with her bridesmaids in tow.
The groom is just left stunned at the altar for about 30 seconds, no one moves....no one says a word....barely anyone breathes, we can just about hear the bride screaming outside and then.....silence.
And what does the groom do? He BURSTS out laughing, and I mean properly laughs until hes holding his sides, he then walks to the middle of the altar and says this unbelievable speech
*Ok everyone, well since the wedding isnt going ahead, I hope you dont mind if I say a few words. To the Brides parents, you both owe me a drink, and I prefer a nice Pint of Guinness. To the friends I have made thanks to my now ex fiancee, there is no ill will to any of you....*
*Now my best man, Sean is single, so ladies if you're interested, he loves music and basketball and hates that blonde b***h in the soaps*
*And lastly, to the reception, by my count we have a well stocked bar, a hotel full of waiters and a great meal ahead, so what say we go to the hotel, get everyone suitably drunk and celebrate a new start to life? Any objections?*
No one says a word so the groom grabs his best man and we all go to the hotel and have an absolute ball, people get drunk, eat great food and when it came to the dance of the bride and groom, the groom got his parents and the brides parents to dance.
And after the reception, he left with 5 of his friends and went on his honeymoon. It was a great party :)
Deborah B 2 years ago
I heard a story about (didn't attend) a wedding were the guy said "no" first, as a joke. The bride was devestated, despite the following "....nah, just joking, yes, I do." She reportedly looked like she was going to throw up, and said words to the effect of if hurting and embarassing her was a joke to him she didn't want to be married to him, and noped out of the chapel in tears.
Jessica Bertram 2 years ago
oh man. My friend (and *our* best man at *our* wedding) called his wedding off about a week before the date. This was due to an ongoing history of her backing out of it, and saying she wanted different things. So he gave her what he wanted. THIS IS WHERE IT GETS WEIRD. He took his closest friend on his honeymoon to Portugal. When they were there, the 2 guys, D (friend) says to J (my best man/wedding canceler) that D had been screwing E (the back-and-forth bride to be of J's) and that he was very sorry. WHILE THE TWO MEN WERE ON J's AND E's HONEYMOON TRIP. my J said to D: "we are here, we are having fun, but when we get back to the States i am never speaking to either of you again" A year or two later, J is back in his home town, and meets a woman he went to high school with. Those two have a great marriage, a lovely daughter, and a happy life. Soo get bent, Dennis and Emily.
Passerby 2 years ago
I think OP meant nest egg, which refers to money saved for future.
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LynzCatastrophe 2 years ago
It's been awhile since I've watched soaps, mainly because all the ones I liked were canceled, but nearly all soaps have a stereotypical "blond b***h".
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Michelle C 2 years ago
Good for the groom for handling such revelations so calmly and with class for the most part! Yes, the joke was tasteless and his ex-fiancée reacting like that says a lot!
Emie N. 2 years ago
"Hates the blonde b***h in the soaps" what in the world does that even mean? And what in the world does the person's hair color have to do with anything? Would he have said "brunette b***h" if they were dark haired instead? A person's hair color is just a physical appearance, so that comment is very weird...
Well-Dressed Wolf 2 years ago
“Soaps” refer to soap operas, a genre of TV show in the US. He was probably referring to a blonde character in the popular soap opera of the time period. The hair color is pertinent as it is an identifying factor. It is not ostensibly a slur or insult. For instance, if you wanted to refer to one of the Carlson sisters (myself or my sister), you could use “the blonde Carlson sister” to refer to me. If you knew nothing else about us, you’d need to use hair color as an identifier.
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#8
My wife's friend ran during Mass. We sat there shocked, not knowing what to do or say. Do we just leave? What is the etiquette? Is there even etiquette to follow? She came back after about 10 minutes, after she and her mom got her wedding gown off and on again. Turns out, after drinking, greasy food, and nerves she was experiencing severe GI distress and didn't want to chance it. Years later, we still laugh. At the time, it was one of the most awkward things to sit through.
wyngerd 2 years ago
Oh, then your imagination what can happen is poorly developed.
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LK 2 years ago
No, no, no! If you need to flee such a situation, you shout, "I'm coming back! Sing a hymn!" You don't just run out!
Passerby 2 years ago
Well, not everyone is as quick-witted as you. Also, if you are going to hurl, I doubt you can even get a word out.
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Gabriele Alfredo Pini 2 years ago
Yes. Also, who downvote someone for asking a question? I bet you were the kid who laughed in class at the nerd, and after asked everyone why you got a bad grade...
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Brittany Grawe 2 years ago
Sooo embarrassing. But probably less embarrassing than leaving someone at the alter/being left
#9
I attended a wedding where the Bride was "left at the altar." Man, it was sad, and odd.
There was a pretty large audience. Soon enough the time to start comes and goes. Everyone in the audience is sitting there waiting at least 30-60 minutes after the ceremony was supposed to begin - all with no official word from the wedding party or why there was such a long delay.
Rumors started going around. People were saying that one of the groomsmen stained his shirt, and a bunch of other stuff that indicated nothing serious. Finally, the Bride's father, tears in his eyes, gets up on stage to announce that the Groom has had a change of heart.
Needless to say it was pretty shocking. But he told everyone to go on ahead to the reception and eat (full dinner) because the food had alrady been paid for so someone might as well enjoy it. I couldn't believe it, but the Bride actually showed up at the reception and greeted EVERYONE - with a smile, no less. The Groom did not make an appearance.
The Bride got married a few years later (to a guy with the same first name, oddly), but the groom is still single to this day. Apparently, he was never trully ready to get married, but he couldn't bring himself to say anything until the pressure finally got to him on the Big Day. He got a LOT of flack from friends (and strangers who didn't even know them), naturally, but the two of them ended up agreeing that since he wasn't ready, then it was a good thing that he did not commit. Though he definitely regrets the way he led her on.
The strangest part of the whole day? The wedding was on April 1st.
Mike Fitzpatrick 2 years ago
... Nah, nah, nah, nah hey, hey hey, goooodbye.
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Debbie 2 years ago
" but the two of them ended up agreeing that since he wasn't ready, then it was a good thing that he did not commit. Though he definitely regrets the way he led her on. " This is so true. Ofcourse it sucks if it is decided last minute, but would you want to spend your life with someone who doesn't really want to be married with you?
Miles Mawyer 2 years ago
HA! My wedding was April 1st. (I'm divorced, so I guess I'm the fool.)
#10
My pastor once officiated a wedding. He had done all the premarital counselling for the couple, they seemed good to go and fine. Got to the altar, he did his opening prayer and welcome. He gets to the part when he says, "Do you take this woman to be your wife" and the guy looked at her, back and him and said "No."
Pastor laughed a little and repeated the question thinking he misunderstood, but the guy stopped him and said, "No, I don't." He took the groom aside to a back room, where the guy essentially said that he couldn't do it, that the bride and her mother had manipulated the whole wedding and he had been too chicken to stand up to her before, but that he couldn't throw his life away. They brought in both families, and had a very real conversation, and then the pastor had to go back out and explain to the very uncomfortable congregation that there would be no wedding today, that the guests could help themselves to some refreshments, but that the rest of the evenings events were cancelled.
SuperChicken 2 years ago
That's so horrible! It's terrible that it had to happen on their "wedding" day, but I'm glad he finally got the courage to stand-up for himself.
Nitka Tsar 2 years ago
It is bad, yes, but if the bride snd MIL really manipulated him, then I don‘t feel too sorry for them
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This was sometime in the 80s. My uncle in India was attending the wedding of some not-so-close friends (totally common to have 1,000 people at a wedding with many people that barely know the couple in attendance). The bride was left at the altar and literally standing on the stage and waiting while everyone was watching. My uncle stepped up and said he'd marry her. He must have felt some sudden rush of Bollywood go through him. Anyway, she said yes and they are happily married to this day.
It was an arranged marriage he was attending, and I think the bride's family knew my mom's family just well enough to say yes. My uncle was about old enough to get his marriage arranged soon too. He must have seen the bride, thought she was cute, and made the move for a sure thing instead of gambling on his own potential arranged wife. I'm going to ask him about it next time i see him. Plus I'm sure the bride's family was feeling the pressure of possible cancellation with a full house in attendance.
Greenmantle 2 years ago
He sounds like an honourable man. I am glad she also found him acceptable and that they are both happy
Niall Mac Iomera 2 years ago
What exactly is honorable about marrying a stranger who most likely feels pressured to say yes?
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UpupaEpops 2 years ago
I'd need to be drugged to be able to go through a wedding with this many people. I could barely handle my graduation. 😅
Destiny Gilbert 2 years ago
While it sounds cute it's honestly quite a twisted way for people to end up married, imagine going off of someone's first appearance and then only finding out after you married them that they are some kind of monster,no way in hell!!
Thomas Bentley 2 years ago
Due to the culture, and the pressure to get married that is suggested, then probably not, but it seems to have worked out well despite it.
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Howl's sleeping castle 2 years ago
My neighbour did something similar. It happened in 2010-11. He had gone to attend his friend's wedding and at the last moment, the friend decided to call off the wedding. My neighbour stepped up and married the girl. They have a 10 year old kid now.
Gayathri E 2 years ago
"totally common to have 1,000 people at a wedding with many people that barely know the couple in attendance" Nope! not common. 1000 is a small town of people.
IronySairo 2 years ago
I've heard this a lot from my Indian friends. Maybe just not in your area?
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#12
My Exs sister was getting married to this a*****e. He was a total a*s and no one in the family liked him. He hid his pregnant ex gf from her for the first six months of their relationship and even said the baby wasn't his when it was. Such a drama filled relationship that we should have known the wedding was going to be crazy.
So two years into the relationship he proposes. But doesn't want a big wedding only family at the court house. She says okay. The day of the wedding he will not answer his phone. She calls him 50 times while her whole family is on standby wondering if they should continue to get ready. Finally he answers and say he cannot get married bc his daughters mother found out and is going to take the baby away. So she walks back into the house devastated and says okay it is off. She then proceeds to cry and talk hella s**t.
Then a week later I get a call where she starts off saying "don't hate me!" my response is okay what happened. The groom who jilted her came back and professed his love. He wanted to go to to a casino in Nevada to get married. She says okay. So a secret trip is taken so just immediate family can go. At this point everyone is wondering if the wedding is going to happen. We were sworn to secrecy and told not to answer our phones all weekend. She wanted to make sure if he called it off again then no one would know. The wedding did take place that weekend.
But 6 months later the marriage is called off and the divorce was filed.
Felt like I was in a novella!!
Seabeast 2 years ago
How desperate do you have to be to keep trying to marry someone who cheated on you?
Kali Chaos 2 years ago
This could be anything from Stockholm Syndrome, to grooming, to coercion or any other number of things. Tf wrong with you for victim shaming.
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#13
I was stupid, and thought I wanted something different, so I left her standing at the altar. I never heard from her after that, I did hear from her 4 older brothers though. I payed her father back everything he spent on the wedding. A few months later I saw her again, and all the memories and feelings I had for her came rushing back. Now I'm left with the guilt and regret and there's nothing I can do to win her back. Quite a simple story, much simpler than most on this thread, but its the story of the moment I ruined my life and the life I could have been living right now.
Donna Peluda 2 years ago
Very common, I have several friends that married young, to great woman, some being their first GF and they always have the doubt if it's what they wanted. Most couple I've seen evolve there relationships to marriage, mortgage, kids etc are divorced. except for three , two happily married and one holding in there after 30 years. I went the other way and have been a serial monogamist so when we meet up it's me who has all the interesting stories. On the other hand I would have like to find partner to share life with, I guess you can't win.
Samara Messer 2 years ago
My guess he is afraid of commitment. He longs to have her back because he can't have her. If she did take him back, I am pretty sure he would leave her again. Saying this because I went through something similar with an ex. We were never engaged but off and on for around 3 years. Whenever things were getting serious, he would pick a fight and bail, then long to have me back and the cycle wou,d repeat.
#14
I was at the wedding for one of my sisters friends who was the bride. The Bride never showed up at the wedding and no one could find her. After several hours the groom and his family all went home. Turned out the bride went for a wild night of partying and sleapt with some guy she met at a club. She was passed out drunk at his place all day long before she came around and realized she missed her own wedding. She was out with a friend that did nothing to stop her from getting wasted and screwing around (I think her freind let her get carried away because she thought the bride wouldn't have been a good wife and figured it was the easiest way to get the couple to split up).
The father of the bride was mad as hell about the expense of the wedding that came out of his pocket. The groom has since moved on with his own life, discovering the woman he was going to marry had cheated on him the night before their wedding made him break it off. He hasn't gotten married but I hear he's dating someone and it looks serious enough they may get married soon. The Bride has been having problems trying to get the respect of her family back after that stunt. She once tried to talk to me when I was single to see if we could go out. I told her flat out I had no interest in dating a woman who cheats like she does. We've not spoken since, much to my relief.
DetriMentaL 2 years ago
Doesnt seem like the bride actually had a 'friend' that night. Would never get that plastered/reckless just to make a point, rather remove them from that situation and take em on in a sober mindset
#15
My sister was left at the altar on her wedding. I was about 13, her maid of honor. He just said "No" and walked out when asked if he would take her to be his wife.
It was horrible after. He joined the army and got married like six months later and my sister moved back in with us. She stayed in my room and would cry herself to sleep every night for months.
I can't really blame him. My sister is terrible with money and had piles of debt. It's been 10 years and she's now married to a guy we all really love but we think she made herself get pregnant recently (he doesn't want kids) and now their marriage (not even after a year) is struggling super badly.
My fiance and I love my bil and they get along like long lost twins. He also makes all the money so it'll be interesting to see how this s**t turns out.
Tams21 2 years ago
Even if the sister can't blame the husband to be for leaving her own sister at the altar, I can.
Li’l E. 2 years ago
Agree. There are definitely more mature ways to handle that.
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GettingCereal 2 years ago
TIL people who are bad with money don't deserve basic human decency. Or a relationship, apparently.
Sunny Day 2 years ago
Please don't drop BIL when he becomes ex-BIL. I had a couple "ex" aunts we kept as family after they divorced my related-by-blood uncles. We liked them better than my a*****e uncles. The one aunt remarried twice after that, and she's still "Aunt Mary" to this day. So don't let your sister's drama cost you your "brother by choice".
Well-Dressed Wolf 2 years ago
I imagine she was on birth control and stopped it without telling her significant other. That’s a very horrible thing to do, especially when you know your spouse doesn’t want children.
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Moo 2 years ago
People who trap people into relationships using kids disgust me. If your partner doesn't want kids and you do, you should've gotten with someone else
Elio 2 years ago
This. If that is actually what happened, she's a terrible person.
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You Should Do Nothing with the Fence 2 years ago
"...they get along like long lost twins." I love it.
Jon Steensen 2 years ago
Getting a child is not a way to salvage a struggling marriage. Raising a kid requires a lot of work, which only piles more stress onto the relationship, and how to raise them can be an issue that can spark some tough arguments...To that must be added the issue of bringing another human being into the world with an unusually big overhanging risk of growing up in a split home, which in most cases does not make life easier. In my opinion, having a child should ideally only be considered an option when you are in a stable relationship and can offer it the best options in life... and forcing a child unto someone who specifically stated that they don't want is even worse. You never know someone completely and if they say they don't want children, there might be a hidden cause for that.
#16
I am the homewrecker. I stood up during 'if anyone should give reason' and blurted out "DONT." to the guy I've loved since junior year of HS ( I was 25 when this happened, we are now in our 30s) while his and her entireeeee party of wedding guests stared daggers into me. He walked off the altar and we met halfway in the aisle and I told him "I love you. Please dont". He stared at me for what seemed like an eternity, walked back over to his would be bride, told her he didn't love her, it wasn't right that they got married, he said he was sorry, she slapped him. I tried to apologize but was cutoff. She screamed at me and called me a s**t (no, we were not friends or acquaintances) and I deserved the humiliation and berating. I walked out and across the parking lot of the venue.. he followed shortly after. We walked for several blocks in silence and sat in the park. Just, stunned. He moved his things out the next day and stayed in a hotel for a few weeks, got his own place. We moved in together 3 months after. I married him in a small, private, location ceremony with a handful of people present. We've been married for 10 years.
We moved out of state about a year afterwards, I heard that she had moved on and married a really nice guy, had a baby a couple of years ago. I feel terrible for ruining her day, and putting her through the heartache.. but Im glad it worked out.
Dr 2 years ago
This sounds like pure invention! OP forgot the ending "And then the whole world stood up and clapped us".
October 2 years ago
Yep sounds like a movie script. Why would you do that in real life, when there's plenty of opportunity to express her love for the groom before the marriage.
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Awkward Lady 2 years ago
Why wait until the marriage ceremony to declare your love? Couldn't op have said something before? I think it's all a bit fake....no downsides please, I am entitled to my opinion and not trying to be nasty.
Greenmantle 2 years ago
Still the AH. I'm glad things turned out well for the would be bride but that would have been a humiliating and traumatic experience for her.
Sally Lake 2 years ago
The most annoying thing about this one is the lengthening of entire by adding e's to the end. Makes no sense.
niki.bordeaux 2 years ago
There are no bare breasts or nipples to be seen, what made you wonder why it's not censored?
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#17
ok, my time to shine! Using a throwaway because I don't want the bride in this story from finding out that I shared her private story.
I am Indian and live in a city called Bangalore. My cousin who is 5 years older than me was engaged as part of an arranged marriage. To my family's credit, it was not a "forced" marriage. My cousin and this guy were set up by family friends and after dating for a few months, she said yes. There was no great romantic/sexual spark, but everything was pretty good on paper. He was a nice guy, doctor, great job, good family, very progressive, owned a fancy home/car and this was good enough for my cousin.
The wedding date was fixed 2 years from the engagement. Usually Indian weddings happen merely a few months after the engagement, but there was a death in our family and as per Hindu tradition, no celebrations were to be held for 13 months after the death in order to mourn the deceased.
Well, my cousin was bored as hell since she had quit her job after the engagement. She hated it (it was legitimately awful) and she wanted to stay busy until she married and started her own fashion design business. My cousin's fiance tells her that she might as well enroll in a fashion design degree since she had nothing to do for 2 years. He even suggested that she go to Bombay because that was the fashion/film capital of India.
My cousin agreed and went to Bombay for a year where she met and fell in love with another guy. This time it was all about feelings, emotions, romance and love. She came home after the program ended and confessed to my uncle who flipped out. He refused to call off the wedding since it would destroy his reputation in society and he also felt that her fiance was a better guy for her.
My cousin sucked it up and decided to go through with the wedding. Hindu weddings are a week long and after day 1, the two of us were hanging out in her room, watching a bollywood movie. The story line was about a girl who runs away the night before her wedding because she is in love with another guy. She cries a lot during the movie and I console her the best I could.
Anyhoo, Day 2 happens and we all go to bed early since it was a pretty exhausting ritual that involved not eating all day. I go in to wake my cousin on Day 3 and she is gone. Just a note on the bed saying that she wants to be with the man she loves. The aftermath was horrific. Everyone was pissed, my aunt cried for months, my uncle lost a lot of friends and business (yes, indian society can be very judgmental).
Unfortunately, sort of weird ending for my cousin. She moved to Bombay and married the guy who turned out to be a total douche. He beat her and kicked her out when she got pregnant. My uncle took her back and helped her get her life back. She had the baby and went to the US for school (paid for by my uncle who wanted her to get out of depression). She studied engineering, met and married a white guy and has been living in California since. Her daughter was adopted by my uncle and aunt and lives in India with them. She refused to go to the US since she never really developed a close relationship with my cousin, her mom.
Niall Mac Iomera 2 years ago
Honestly, this just sounds like such a horrible society to be a part of.
Sanchi 2 years ago (edited)
There are 16+ cultures in India, and 1.5 billion people. “Indian culture” that’s like saying “I don’t like the language european.”
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#18
This was some years back before I was born but my mom told me about what happened to my dad's nephew.
My dad's nephew (who we will call J) had a rough childhood. His mother (my aunt) was very abusive and controlling. He had many siblings and his mother would tie them up in their bed so she could go out with her man of the night. Every time he bought a girl home to present to his mom, she would always reject every single one. Eventually, he found the one he was destined to be with and didn't care about his mother's approval.
My dad, who was a father-figure to J, helped with the wedding plans and the ceremony. It was nothing special since they were a very poor family living in rural Mexico. My mom said that for once in his life, everything was clicking in place and nothing could go wrong. He stood waiting for her at the altar for an hour, wearing this fake smile that was slowly slipping away. We found out that she left him because she saw how manipulative and abusive his mom was and left, saying she couldn't live with such a person. All the food that was prepared went to waste.
Just a month after, he had a confrontation with his home saying how she was the one who drove her away and how he resents how badly she has mistreated him and his siblings. He ran away and nobody knew where he went. Eventually my father located him and found out that he was here in the States and was currently living in New York. My dad contacted J and J refused to give his exact location. He said he didn't want to associate himself with the family who scared away his love. My dad has tried many time to call him but he never picks up. He'll talk only when he wants to and to this day, we don't know where he exactly is but he's in New York.
My aunt still controls her children's decision to this day. I have a 50 year old cousin who still hasn't married because his mom doesn't approve of any of the girls he brings. My dad's family is all kinds of messed up.
Carly Rivers 2 years ago
isn't J your cousin? Dad's nephew = sibling son = cousin? The 50 year old is called a cousin. I could just be empty-headed right now...
#19
The first wedding I went to, my date and I were the only people there on the bride's "side." It was a very small Mexican ceremony (in Minnesota) with horn players and stuff. The groom didn't show up. The priest made the announcement saying that, and so she had a sort of ceremony reaffirming her connection to Jesus instead. It was heartbreaking, but she was strong, though weepy. She thanks us for coming and it was really difficult to know what to say, but everyone handled it very gracefully. So sad...
I think the absent groom had drinking problems, among other things, so I'm not sure how to feel. She may be better off without him. But she did move back to Texas after that. :(
Niall Mac Iomera 2 years ago (edited)
I can't imagine the cognitive dissonance of publicly reaffirming your connection to Jesus while at an event that publicly acknowledges how he let you down.
#20
Yes, it was honestly sad. While sitting in the crowd (outside wedding) we hear the bride wailing behind us. Everyone starts turning around to look. People were whispering. After sitting there for 20 minutes, someone comes out and tells us to go inside for some cool air and food. The bride's father comes out and basically says while starting to cry, "We know a lot of you came a long way and we paid a lot of money for this food and venue. Help yourselves."
Come to find out the Groom got wasted and left. The Bride now has a new man, 2 beautiful children, and designs, decorates cakes (wedding cakes also) for a living. She's still not married though. =/
Debbie 2 years ago (edited)
Being married isn't a neccessity for happiness or consolidation of your love.
Deeelite 2 years ago
I think OP just meant it was ironic she does wedding cakes while she herself isnt married - i dont think it was meant to tie into her happiness. Kind of like being an unmarried wedding planner
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I do. It was the day of the wedding and all the friends and family of the bride were called and the family asked for us all to still come to the church and once we all got there the brides parents got up and spoke and they just told us that there was not going to be a wedding and they were very sad for their daughter but still invited everyone to go to the reception hall and enjoy the food and everything. The brides friends had taken her out of town as soon as the groom canceled the wedding.
Hill Branda 2 years ago
I'm glad she had friends to look after her and I hope the parents sent the ex-groom the bill.
#22
I was a wedding coordinator at a Catholic church in Manhattan. Our Church was booked for a large wedding party from Connecticut , they told us to expect at least 500 people as the bride and the groom came from large Italian families. When the day of their wedding came, the only people who showed up were members of the grooms side of the family. It was Odd because we had seen the bride the night before at the wedding rehearsal and everything seemed fine. But the next day, the bride and her party were no-shows. The groom tried his best to keep his compsure. In an effort to track down the bride, the groom had his friends and family and myself call anyone who might have a clue as to where she went. Minutes passed, and eventually hours passed. The groom begged me to let the current party stay in hopes that his bride to be would show up. I let his party stay an extra 15 minutes before i had to kick them all out and prepare for the next wedding that afternoon.
We never learned of what happened to the bride. Her absence remains a mystery today.
Kevin Sutton 2 years ago
I bet she defo got'probed ' but it weren't an alien
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#23
Around 1999 my uncle got engaged to this woman named Erin who was beautiful, we loved her and she had a son and a big country house. She was blonde, had short hair, and was just gorgeous. She gets pregnant, my uncle speedwalks through the wedding planning, and at the altar she reveals that she was f*****g their gardener and it's his baby and leaves to the other room. He ended up trashing her beloved Jeep in the parking lot with a chair (he's prone to rages) and leaving.
#24
I was about 7 and was a flower girl with my sister for a wedding. It was being held in the garden of a country club in Los Angeles. Well, being as it's Southern California, no one expected bad weather. It began to pour, and the bride requested the wedding be moved indoors. The groom FLIPPED. Went on and on about how he was going to have an outdoor wedding, etc. The argument was so bad that the wedding was called off. I just remember it being really awkward and someone announcing it on the PA system as we all sat in the banquet hall waiting for the rain to let up.
The couple then married a month later in Vegas, but I have no idea how they're doing now. My guess is the groom was really drunk, but who knows?
Dread Pirate Roberts 2 years ago
Nothing to do with the story, but I really love this picture.
Well-Dressed Wolf 2 years ago
I live in Southern California… it HAILED today XD the weather is normally super nice, but unless you’re planning your wedding in July with very little chance of rain, never outright trust the weather XD (Before today, it hasn’t hailed here in over 30 years.)
Dolly_of TheCowboy 2 years ago
In Australia we are in drought a lot and they can last for years to decades in some parts. Co-worker told me how her first marriage went. Middle of one of the longest droughts in modern times in one of the driest parts of where it was happening. Day of the engagement party - heavy rain all day just in that area to the point of flash flooding (also not uncommon out here) then back to no rain for months. Two days before the wedding day when the families had arrived, in another drought stricken but different area, it started to rain and did not stop. Wedding day torrential rain, storms, gale force winds, everywhere turned to mud or flood. Rain that only stopped apparently when bridal party had arrived at the church, when they were leaving to get to the reception venue. Rained two more days after the wedding and a huge chunk of the state was in flood. They left for their honeymoon in Fiji and the rain stopped. Arrived in Fiji to get caught by a huge tropical cyclone for the time there
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#25
I'm a bit hazy on the details since I was 8 when this happened, but in 2006 I was attending my first major wedding in the forests of San Francisco(Just north of it). It was my cousin's wedding and she was getting married to this guy she met about 6 months prior. It was definitely an expensive wedding, prior to the ceremony there was practically a circus waiting outside waiting to entertain. Anyway, once the ceremony started they said all the general, common things for a wedding, but once it was the groom's turn to say his vows he just froze all of a sudden. He stood still, staring in his fiance's eyes for 5 minutes and then promptly sprinted down the aisle and into the road. He took a golf cart that happened to be on the grounds and drove off. Apparently he was divorced, but he didn't get over his ex-wife, so he tried to get her back.
TurquoiseTzarina 2 years ago
....as seen through the eyes of an 8 year old....
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It happened to my sister. He lost his bottle and didn't show. He was a turd anyway. I as one of her three brothers joined the other two on a bit of a manhunt but we didnt find him, he was apparently already out of town. My sister didn't really react at first but my father, several thousand out of pocket, wasn't so quiet.
The grooms family, friends and relatives all apologetically and sheepishly melted away as our lot went on for the meal and a drink.
Our father ended up being arrested for basically threatening to wipe out his family over the whole thing a few weeks later and my sister held her head up throughout, came out with her dignity and carried on.
If you're out there Tim, we still haven't forgotten what a cowardly s**t you are.
LinkTheHylian 2 years ago
It was going to be a shotgun wedding, and the father of the bride had it pointed right at the groom's head. Probably literally.
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You're a cowardly s**t, Tim! I can see why he might have had second thoughts about the wedding, but talk it through beforehand, don't go like this on the day... wth
TurquoiseTzarina 2 years ago
Someone downvoted you. Here's an upvote from me. By the way, funny comment.
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C Lawson 2 years ago
Some people call alcohol liquid courage, so if he lost his bottle he lost his courage
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Yes! My friend's groom-to-be left her at the altar. He took the tickets to Hawaii for their honeymoon and instead went with his brother.
She spent a year dating around before he begged her to take him back, saying that he was wrong. He - a very well-off young lawyer - bought her a huge rock and paid for a lavish wedding and she agreed.
They were married soon after and now have a baby daughter.
Premislaus de Colo 2 years ago
Why did hie buy her a rock? Is this some idiom I don't understand?
Scarlett 2 years ago
He bought her a ring with a huge jewel in it, I think?
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#28
Yes! I used to play the harp in weddings. In Chicago, I was playing a wedding that was in a hotel event room (as opposed to a church) and where a judge was officiating. It was a small wedding, maybe 20-30 guests, and the groom didn't show up. The bride had gotten there earlier with her bridal party, and apparently the groom was having an episode of PTSD or something
Linda Riebel 2 years ago
I, too, used to play my harp at weddings. Several good stories, but one was that the OFFICIANT didn't show up. I played way longer than contracted for, to keep things going till a minister they found in the yellow pages (true story) came over and officiated.
#29
The sad thing is I have seen this happen twice...once to a bride and once to a Groom.....
Bride: My brothers best friend. She was marrying her "dream boat" but before she was ready to walk down the isle she couldnt find one of her brides maids....and the groom was missing. Long story short the Groom was cheating on her for the last 5 years of their relationship with this girl.....and just up and left. She was crushed and I have never seen anyone cry like that and my brother found the Groom and beat him so bad that the guy was in the hospital for a month.
The bride's parents made the groom pay all the bills...and the grooms parents made him pay all of theirs as well....close to 100,000 doillars from my understanding.
Groom:This one is a long story but ill give you the short version. A highschool friend was marrying his highschool sweet heart (I went to school with them, she was DEF a whore and he knew) yet for some reason they were going to get married. They caught her the night before ina 3 way with 2 guys that she met ON THE NIGHT OF HER BACHLORETTE party....
Needless to say the guy wasnt upset...when she didnt show up he took all of us off to the side and said "im sorry i didnt listen to anyone, lets get hammered"
He took it well but i think he expected it to happen.
Eastendbird 2 years ago
Yeah, both of these stories are all shades of funked up. "Beat him so bad he was in hospital for a month", uh uh - not the right thing to do, even in the circumstances.
Debbie 2 years ago
I agree Eastendbird - nearly killing someone for s****y behaviour is bad. Beating someone up can result in death. Scary brother.
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2WheelTravlr 2 years ago
They left out the part where the brother was brought up on charges for attempted manslaughter.
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The Original Bruno 2 years ago
Did no-one else pick up on the fact that the thread was started by B[ull]S[h!+]StoryTeller?
Salty Sasquatch 2 years ago
No! Thanks for mentioning it, I was thinking a lot of these stories might not be all true.
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Tucker Cahooter 2 years ago
This thread reminds of the story of Pitty Pat Dunlop, a socialite in Australia. She was jilted at the altar. The groom eloped on the eve of the wedding..with the best man...
Veronica Michelle 2 years ago
I’m getting married in ten days and thought this would be a fun anxiety filled read but then as I read it I just realized how it was all fiction. Booooo
UpupaEpops 2 years ago
Not that I'm trying to defend them, but I wonder how many grooms ended up feeling trapped by a (slightly) over-excited bride? There must be at least some correlation between the ratio of bridezillas and no-show grooms.
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Unaffected 2 years ago
Back in the 80s my cousin was getting married to this guy I never liked.Presents were bought, family and friends invited.Three days before the wedding he stopped answering his phone, my cousin's brother went to see him and asked what's happening.He said he is not going to marry her, just tricked her to get back at her for breaking up with him briefly a couple of years earlier.He then married a woman with the same name six months later but got divorced eventually.He is now hounding my cousin on facebook begging her to add him and she's ignoring him.She is a good looking,capable woman, he can keep regretting his stunt for the rest of his miserable life!
MR THOMAS 2 years ago
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The Original Bruno 2 years ago
Did no-one else pick up on the fact that the thread was started by B[ull]S[h!+]StoryTeller?
Salty Sasquatch 2 years ago
No! Thanks for mentioning it, I was thinking a lot of these stories might not be all true.
Load More Replies... Tucker Cahooter 2 years ago
This thread reminds of the story of Pitty Pat Dunlop, a socialite in Australia. She was jilted at the altar. The groom eloped on the eve of the wedding..with the best man...
Veronica Michelle 2 years ago
I’m getting married in ten days and thought this would be a fun anxiety filled read but then as I read it I just realized how it was all fiction. Booooo
UpupaEpops 2 years ago
Not that I'm trying to defend them, but I wonder how many grooms ended up feeling trapped by a (slightly) over-excited bride? There must be at least some correlation between the ratio of bridezillas and no-show grooms.
Load More Replies... Unaffected 2 years ago
Back in the 80s my cousin was getting married to this guy I never liked.Presents were bought, family and friends invited.Three days before the wedding he stopped answering his phone, my cousin's brother went to see him and asked what's happening.He said he is not going to marry her, just tricked her to get back at her for breaking up with him briefly a couple of years earlier.He then married a woman with the same name six months later but got divorced eventually.He is now hounding my cousin on facebook begging her to add him and she's ignoring him.She is a good looking,capable woman, he can keep regretting his stunt for the rest of his miserable life!
MR THOMAS 2 years ago
I want to sincerely thank DR NAKARA SPELL CASTER FROM INDIAN for the help he rendered to me when I was heartbroken. nakarasolutionshome77@gmail.com i meant him online,and i explain how the woman i love so much is asking for a divorce letter for no reason,after our conversation he let me know that such things are not ordinary so i comply ask him what should i do about it with,and he told me everything i need to do,which i did, and he cast a spell that brought my woman back to me in 2 days.a special thanks to you sir ,you and your family will remain blessed for the good work. I am dropping his contact in case anyone needs his help EMAIL nakarasolutionshome77@gmail.com Whatsapp number +918200232522.
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