Anyone who's ever worked in the food service industry is bound to have met one of these—an extremely rude customer who shouldn't be allowed back into the restaurant. Or to order food ever again! The sad part is, rude customers aren't even that rare.

They're pretty darn common and make the lives of waiters, restaurant employees, and baristas a waking nightmare. Bored Panda wanted to show you some of the things service industry personnel have been through with rude customers, so we collected some of the best posts by servers from all over the net. As you scroll down, upvote the posts that made you feel for these workers, and be sure to leave us a comment with your own experiences serving food in the comment section. Would you like fries with that?

Alexander Kjerulf, the founder and Chief Happiness Officer of ‘Woohoo inc.' told Bored Panda that if your workplace is causing you to forget that you're a human being who's worthy of care and humane treatment, you shouldn't work there anymore. "Quit, and find a better place to work, where they actually care about their staff," he told Bored Panda. "And quit sooner rather than later. The longer you stay, the more they will grind you down until you lose all the energy and optimism you need to move on and find a better job."

Alexander actually made an entire video about quitting a bad job. Meanwhile, you'll find the rest of the insights that he shared with us below. Anyone who's working in the service industry, whether you're a server, a cook, or a manager, should have a read.

#1

Math Is Hard

Math Is Hard

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Sum Guy
Community Member
7 months ago

Someone was complaining because they got a discount

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#2

I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

I Can’t Believe People Can Be This Stupid

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N G
Community Member
7 months ago

Take the dollar as a tip. Idiot customer.

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#3

Left On My Co-Workers Table

Left On My Co-Workers Table

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pusheen buttercup
Community Member
7 months ago

Being straight or not isn't a service- tip the person

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Alexander was upfront that employees should expect and demand support from their managers. "I know that it's common for restaurants to treat their customers like kings and their employees [badly], but that doesn't mean it's OK," he said.

"99% of people are nice, but the occasional rude client is unavoidable," Alexander from 'Woohoo inc.' said that there's no avoiding rudeness in the long run. "You can learn tricks to deal with them, and that's great, but no one should have to put up with mistreatment."

For Alexander, working in the service industry doesn't mean that others can walk all over you. "Having a service job does not mean that other people get to demean you or belittle you and managers must be willing to step in and protect employees' dignity and mental health."

#4

Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

Latina Waitress Received Racist Note Instead Of Tip

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pusheen buttercup
Community Member
7 months ago

Why is this not illegal to fine people who act that way

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#5

This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

This Was Posted In A Restaurant Group

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Amy Pattie
Community Member
7 months ago

That surely is illegal, I think in my country that’s a $16,000 fine

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#6

A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

A Group Of Kids Filled It Up And The Parents Shouted At Customers Attempting To Complain

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Sum Guy
Community Member
7 months ago

Ban the parents

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Tipping's either a sore subject or a complete non-problem depending on where you live. In the United States, for example, tipping at a restaurant or a cafe is nearly ubiquitous. You're bound to get some weird glances and questions if you refuse to tip or if you don't tip enough.

#7

Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

Decades Of "The Customer Is Always Right" Has Created The Most Entitled Idiots In Human History

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pusheen buttercup
Community Member
7 months ago

We should get rid of that whole customer is always right attitude. It's not ok. It never was.

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#8

A Feeble Attempt To Get Out Of Tipping

A Feeble Attempt To Get Out Of Tipping

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Andrew Gibb
Community Member
7 months ago

Not very Christian of them.

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#9

My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

My Cousin Just Posted This On Facebook. She Is A Waitress At Outback And This Was Left Behind

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Lu
Community Member
7 months ago

Animals

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I'll be frank. The US tipping system… is a bit weird. It's on the same plane of existence as not posting the full price of a meal or a product with the tax included. However weird forced tipping might be (and how it essentially makes customers, not the employers, pay a large chunk of the workers' wages), it doesn't change the fact that it's a cultural thing in the States. You just do it.

#10

My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

My Aunt And Her Friend Took Me To Dinner. These 10 Lovely People Sat Next To Us, And Didn't Even Leave A Tip!

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Clearly sunny
Community Member
7 months ago

Waitressing is the worst job, I'd rather clean toilets.

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#11

The “Tip” My Friend Got

The “Tip” My Friend Got

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pusheen buttercup
Community Member
7 months ago

I feel like they should be fined

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#12

Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

Seen On A Facebook Post On How People Should Tip Their Servers 20%

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troufaki13
Community Member
7 months ago

It sounds entitled

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So not tipping someone or even poking fun at a server who expects a tip isn't the way to go. Sure, the entire system should be overhauled so that tipping isn't mandatory, but until that utopian moment, we're stuck with what we have.

#13

You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

You Can Just Picture The Trashiness From This Customer

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pusheen buttercup
Community Member
7 months ago

I'm glad there was a donation

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#14

Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

Wouldn’t Let Him Underage Drink So He Didn’t Tip

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Andrew Gibb
Community Member
7 months ago

he has some hard lessons coming his way

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#15

What My Coworker Was Given Tonight

What My Coworker Was Given Tonight

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pusheen buttercup
Community Member
7 months ago

Uhg

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Rudeness, however, isn't just linked to tips. Customers from hell find all sorts of ways to belittle servers. From namecalling and ‘flirting' to acting like spoiled, entitled children (no offense to spoiled and entitled kids). However, employees shouldn't rise to the provocations while also protecting their own dignity.

#16

Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

Please Don’t Leave Fake Tips I’m Trying To Go To College

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Andrew Gibb
Community Member
7 months ago

nobody wants a picture of a pussy grabber

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#17

My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

My Friend Waited On Two Underage Kids Who Tried To Order Drinks. Stiffing Servers Has Always Made Someone A Bad Person, But During A Pandemic When Benefits Have Run Out And Restaurant Employees Are Struggling More Than They Already Did? Despicable

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alwaysMispelled
Community Member
7 months ago

Again, I call bullshit on these asshats trying to say they'd be leaving a massive tip, otherwise. These POS would never leave huge tips.

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#18

Worst Tip Ever

Worst Tip Ever

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Julie C Rose
Community Member
7 months ago

QUARANTINE HOTELS. TRY IT, AMERICA.

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Earlier, I'd had a chat with Alexander from ‘Woohoo inc.' about what people should do when dealing with rude customers. “Keep your cool and remember that whatever abuse they're giving you is no reflection on you as a person,” he said.

#19

Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

Displaying Your Bare Feet In A Restaurant

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troufaki13
Community Member
7 months ago

This is one of the reasons I don't like people...

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#20

This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

This Family Let Their Kid Crawl All Over The Restaurant Floor, Nearly Tripping Several Servers

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Cecilia Herrera
Community Member
7 months ago

They should be charged with child endangerment, and criminal stupidity.

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#21

Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

Smoking In A Non-Smoking Restaurant Because You Do What You Have To

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Clearly sunny
Community Member
7 months ago

Is it that hard to get up and walk outside?

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“That customer doesn't even know you, so there's no way it could be you. But on the other hand, don't be subservient. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and tell customers that abuse is not tolerated. And if it persists, hand them over to a manager as soon as you can and let them deal with it,” Alexander explained how we should deal with problematic people. It's all about striking a balance between being professional and having a spine.

However, Alexander pointed out that not all customers who behave badly are bad people in and of themselves. There's a bit of nuance there! “It can be a good person having a bad day and that's why they're acting out.”

#22

Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

Stop Tipping And These Folks Will Land Better Jobs

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N G
Community Member
7 months ago

That last sentence works for me. Because if you stop tipping wait staff in a culture that requires the customer to make up staff wages, and they DO all leave for better jobs there will be no one to FEED YOU AND YOU WILL HAVE TO GO AWAY

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#23

My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

My Sister Got This While Waiting Tables

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pusheen buttercup
Community Member
7 months ago

That's not helping your chances...

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#24

At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

At Least He Used The Proper Form Of "You're"

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Clearly sunny
Community Member
7 months ago

Gee, he sounds like a keeper! NOT

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Though that doesn't change the fact that some customers really are rude because they thrive on it and know that being bullies works (sometimes). “The sad truth is that some customers act this way because they've learned that it works and will get them discounts or preferential treatment,” Alexander, the Chief Happiness Officer at ‘Woohoo inc.' said.

#25

Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

Someone Keeps Stealing The Tip Jar At My Local Donut Shop

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Andrew Gibb
Community Member
7 months ago

lowest of the low

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#26

"Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

"Why I Have Not Tipped!!!"

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Verena Gitterle
Community Member
7 months ago

He did not clean the tables with a rag but with an attitude!

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#27

From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

From My Friends’ Server Group. This Was Given By A 6 Top Instead Of A Tip

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pusheen buttercup
Community Member
7 months ago

You never know when someone is doing the best they can. You also don't know if they've been trained to be more hands off. You may wind up taking it out on the wrong person

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What's more, Alexander added that rather than thinking that the customer is always right, we should go for something more down-to-earth like “be nice.” Or at least avoiding being rude. Of course, this goes for customers and employees alike! “Whenever I'm a customer anywhere, I always try to be kind and positive to the staff—even when occasionally I have to complain about something. It's literally the least I can do.”

#28

Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

Guy Left A Negative Tip To Subtract From The Total After Calling The Restaurant While Inside To Rush His Order

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N G
Community Member
7 months ago

Can... Can you do that?! That's horrible!

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#29

A Customer Decided To Tip Their Server Like This

A Customer Decided To Tip Their Server Like This

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Kristy Nelson
Community Member
7 months ago

That's beyond rude.

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#30

Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

Your Tip Is That Because Of Me, You Still Have Yuor Fredom™

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JennyLaRue
Community Member
7 months ago

When they put their own lives on the line for their country (not just their social lives in following their partners around their posts) then they can have the military discount. It's so old fashioned to define your own status by your partners job, let alone expect a discount from it.

Vic 404
Community Member
7 months ago

Last I heard the US army accepts women too. If she wants a discount, why doesn't SHE join up ?

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Sum Guy
Community Member
7 months ago

I really don't understand Americans obsession with the military and their flag.

Just An Avocado
Community Member
7 months ago

I’m American and I don’t get it either

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*me*
Community Member
7 months ago

Your spouse earned that title. Not you. You are not in the military. Your spouse is. Stop mooching off of his honor, his title, and his discounts he gets for serving our country.

Cynthia M. Vatani
Community Member
7 months ago

When I served in @USAFVet we called it Stolen Valor when you "represented" yourself as A Military Commissioned Member whether Titled or otherwise. She must be obviously using his card bc of the Marco is obviously last. The fact that she was so entitled to expect a 'Salute' for 'her Service' is Disrespectful and Appalling. Deployed where? That ticket was signed in Savannah, Ga. On 2nd look Marco A has to be a MAN, Ya'll...I have @USNVYVet Friends. They were deployed on Navy Nuclear Battleships. This is some BS. For the married spouse of any Serving Member that is Deployed or Stateside, you can best believe that if they wanted the Big Bucks she should have staked out Military CONTRACTORS!! 😡 Real Soldiers that don't get carried off the cargo holds Stateside get a Real Nice Flag and Taps. Salute Me. Fr fr. Trust me VA Benefits sometimes cost your Soul. Bish be glad your Man was most likely deployed on a Naval Base bc if he had been on a Battleship back in the Day...Be Grateful we see u.

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neonn_pieee
Community Member
7 months ago

"Salute me. I'm a navy spouse?" - WHAAAAAT? Like how entitled can you be.

Romery
Community Member
7 months ago

i know right? its BS

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Andrew Gibb
Community Member
7 months ago

This behaviour disgusts me. The military isn't defending the US of A or Europe. It is actively attacking other countries for their resources. The last time there was fighting on mainland American soil (not Pearl Harbour) was 1865. It is perverse to be considered brave when you are actually fighting ill-equipped farmers trying to protect their families.

Bacony Cakes
Community Member
7 months ago

It's not war if you fund a long chain of terrorist organizations to start some sh*t and then blow everything up in an attempt to destroy them, though. It's called "Peaceful Intervention", meaning that the UN can't tell you off for stealing Syraqistan's oil in the name of freedom.

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Aski Markup
Community Member
7 months ago

Is this only an American thing, or is it that same with spouses in other countries too?

Monika Rhodes
Community Member
7 months ago

It's pretty much just usa. Crazy.

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Patti Vance
Community Member
7 months ago

wtf?! that comment of being a military spouse is 'serving' the same as the service member is bullshite! as a military 'brat' and former military wife as well as a military ombudsman, this attitude is annoying as well as disgusting. it's similar to the wives/husbands 'wearing' their spouses rank, expecting others to bow & scrape to them. sorry...there is the old adage that if the military had wanted you to have a wife & family they would have issued them with your gear. harsh but true. suck it up, you spousal buttercups!

Lorraine R
Community Member
7 months ago

True -- some spouses are as nice as they can be but there are others who have nothing but contempt for other military members who are a lower rank than their own sponsor (spouse). It's a different aspect of "stolen valor".

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Yeah, you heard
Community Member
7 months ago

I don't see why the military deserve a discount. They get paid.

Everything_Fubar
Community Member
7 months ago

Somebody needs to watch Band of Brothers

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Lauren Caswell
Community Member
7 months ago

To go to war from home?! Omfg this has to qualify for stolen valour, surely!

Mareike Hartmann
Community Member
7 months ago

"Salute me, I'm a navy spouse" ??? The Heck??? Serve in the military yourself than maybe we can talk about saluting. The nerve of this people....

Michael Beswick
Community Member
7 months ago

Navy spouse sounds like a fancy way to say housewife!? Although I have the greatest respect for those in the services, it's a job like any other that you choose to do; no one owes you anything for doing your job.

TheReader19
Community Member
7 months ago

Again, your partner made a choice; so did you. Why should you get a discount for that? Ps yes I do support service people

K Witmer
Community Member
7 months ago

Since when have any military fought for our freedom since world war 2. Anyone deployed now is protecting oil companies not the American public. It's your choice to join the military. If you feel like a hero good for you but that doesn't mean you're entitled to hero worship. I'm not saying that military personnel don't deserve respect bc they do but so does everyone else when they treat others w respect.

D MC
Community Member
7 months ago (edited)

Military spouses sacrifice A LOT, but they are NOT in the military the same as a soldier. Nice try, though.

Pusfarm
Community Member
7 months ago

That's the life they chose so I've got no sympathy.

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Jaana Kaurisalo
Community Member
7 months ago

This has gotta be one of the most pretentious things I've ever heard off! So what if your spouse is in the military? You're not them, are you? Thought so.

Leo Domitrix
Community Member
7 months ago

Rant ahead: Child of two veterans. I ask NOTHING b/c of their service. My family asks nothing. Their spouses ask nothing. If you think it's about getting your a$$ kissed, then my family will kick your a$$. Not once in all the centuries has any one of us ----- child, spouse, or actul serving military person ---- EVER demanded this crap. WE SERVE OUR COUNTRY. IT IS OUR HONOR TO DO OUR BEST TO UPHOLD AND PROTECT THE CONSTITUTION. These people are just trashy moochers. Rant over.

Michael Vickery
Community Member
7 months ago

Who asks for a discount when the bill is less than ten bucks?

Jessica Billings
Community Member
7 months ago

I think this is the worst one so far. Gross.

itsTrini
Community Member
7 months ago

Im sorry but the military is not a get a discount on everything pass thanks for what you do but dont rub it in, because ur really supposed to do it because u love ur country not beacuse u want a free peice of cake

deanna woods
Community Member
7 months ago

To all military spouses: I understand having a spouse deployed can be terrifying, but it's your spouse serving and not you. Get over yourself.

DC
Community Member
7 months ago

Are entitled shitty brats, like, bred somewhere or so?

Martin Forbes
Community Member
7 months ago

Whilst I get that joining the military of your country it is down to the *choice* of the potential recruit and not the local community or Government military draft, thanking someone for their service doesn't make that much sense considering it was a personal choice and nothing more to begin with. Expecting a discount as an entitlement through serving in the military is arrogant and elitist.

CatWoman312
Community Member
7 months ago

You’re*.

sofacushionfort
Community Member
7 months ago

Probability she was at that bar picking up guys while her husband is on deployment?

Christy Smith
Community Member
6 months ago

I love how spouses claim they're technically serving too ... "No bitch, that's not how that works"

Jeff Diamond
Community Member
7 months ago

This is the common person's version of "DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM??"

Nicole Cabrera
Community Member
7 months ago

Military spouse here. That is just SHAMEFUL!! EMBARRASSING! No DECENT Vet I know (we're 25 years in), DEMANDS discounts. Vets are usually the most humble, kind, interesting people around. Oh, and the wives that don't ACTUALLY SERVE yet, DEMAND to be saluted/given freebies/wear their husbands rank - we have a name for those. Dependa or Dependapotomus.

Collin
Community Member
7 months ago

No you f*****g aren't unless you are also enlisted. Salute you?! F**k you.

Seth Nowling
Community Member
7 months ago

I served for over 12 years in the Navy Submarine force. And if a business offers an active duty and/or veteran discounts then I would thankfully take that. But I have never stiffed someone on a tip because I thought they owed me for serving in the military! Let alone a military spouse thinking that they should be able too!!!

PhybreAwptic
Community Member
7 months ago

100% a dependa-potamus wrote this.

Leslie Burleson
Community Member
7 months ago

I grew up in the military and married into the military . No military wife that I've known throughout my entire lifetime would act that way. This is so fake . I've seen different versions of the same pic .

Bacony Cakes
Community Member
7 months ago

We don't salute egotistical *rses over here in the UK.

A Random Panda
Community Member
7 months ago

You ain’t the one who fought, lady.

Venic
Community Member
7 months ago

"Raryes" discount?

Elizabeth Molloy
Community Member
7 months ago

THESE BITCHES NEED TO STOP!!

Humansarethevirus
Community Member
7 months ago

LMAO these bitches wow!!

Bei Stenhaug
Community Member
7 months ago (edited)

Not a popular thought here, I see. I believe any spouse of a deployed soldier deserve respect and honour. Not discounts and cheap s**t like that. But it's not just the people going away who suffers. The families at home must be suffering a great deal too, as it's a sacrifice for the whole family to "protect their country". And they believe they do, even if that is kind of obvious bullshit. But they believe it so much they will die for it. Or get paid to do it... since normal education is not economically achievable for most Americans. Wonder why, eh...

Megan Boswell
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7 months ago

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Elizabeth Calvert
Community Member
7 months ago

This attitude upsets me to no end! Both my parents were USAF. My mom got out when she had me (back when they weren't as family friendly). My BIL is also USAF. Did my sister and her family have to make sacrifics when my BIL was deployed? Yes. Did we have to make sacrifices when my dad would be on alert for 2 weeks at a time? (during the cold war. Meant he was on base for 2 weeks.) Yes. Did we expect any kind of special discount or treatment? No. Both my parents were Capt rank, but never pulled the "I'm an officer, I'm entitled" vs and taught us to never act like that

David Muench
Community Member
7 months ago

Dude wanted a discount off of $8.83?

Donna Thompson
Community Member
7 months ago

That's a lot of fuss for a discount that would likely have been a couple of dollars max!

David
Community Member
7 months ago

Freaking dependas! Nobody hates them more than their husband's.

Logically Reasonable
Community Member
7 months ago

You have to show military ID to get discounts if you are not in uniform. Spouses don't count, unless you have your own military ID. And most places don't even give discounts of any kind anymore!!!!

Melissa Vellis
Community Member
7 months ago

I'm sorry my service was not worthy of a tip.

InfectedVoice
Community Member
7 months ago

And exactly what war is she referring to? There hasn't been a real war since 1939.

Ed
Community Member
7 months ago

These types disgust me. I served in the military for 12 years and these type of women are in every command. F**k those dependapotomus, you did not serve.

Ayia Grace
Community Member
7 months ago

Her username!

pebs
Community Member
7 months ago

Unbelievable.

Leah Pheonix
Community Member
7 months ago

Okay fighting for your country is great but is it worth it when you're just gonna brag about it

Eslamala
Community Member
7 months ago

This is what all "thank you for your service" gets you, though...

Mika Rantanen
Community Member
7 months ago

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Navy is not military, it is a yacht club.

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We'd love to hear your stories about the rude customers you've had to deal with, dear Pandas. What's your go-to strategy for somebody who's acting entitled and ruining your day? Do you stay professional and diplomatic all the time or do you confront them when they've overstepped your boundaries? Let us know what you think below.