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After being with my girlfriend for 8 years, we're no longer shy about burping in front of each other or revealing pimples in embarrassing places. While we look back fondly at the honeymoon phase of our relationship, we're also grateful to be completely comfortable with each other... Maybe too comfortable.

I created this comic to provide more LGBTQ visibility by playfully showcasing our real same-sex relationship. Check out our other post on Bored Panda..

More info: sesamebutdifferent.com | Instagram | Facebook

My girlfriend (Poppy) and I (Chia) met about 8 years ago through a dating app! It was interesting because my profile was all jokes (I remember writing that my favorite place was "over there *points in arbitrary direction*") and my now-girlfriend-then-interest's profile was basically like she copy and pasted her LinkedIn into the dating app, detailing her roles and accomplishments. We both thought the other person was potentially a fake account, but both liked something on each of our profiles enough to try to connect.

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    Mandy Teal
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My hubby and I do this all the time lol

    Chaotic-Pansexual (she/they)
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My boyfriend and I do things like this all the time. Doing your own thing and just being near each other. Letting the other know you’re there and feeling content

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    Robecca
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

    Monica Isnota Robot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On our one year anniversary, I made my girlfriend a card that said "I'll be straight with you. My favorite thing about you......is that you're not" she framed it 🖤

    sydney s
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i know what im makin' for valentines day!

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    We had been texting back and forth for a week before finally meeting in person and we ended up spending 5 hours just talking on the first date. We found out that we had a lot of similar interests and were both excited to read one of our favorite comedian's books, which actually resulted in us buying each other the exact same gift for each other later on (here's a comic about that). It felt like we were meant to be and, so many years later, those feelings have only magnified. I also created a comic about how we met here.

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    PenitentEyeball
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hissssss the hideous light of the day star!

    Alicia Costa De Jesus
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you wake up and the sun is in your eyes:AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

    Warren Brown
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It wouldn’t be too bad, but that,s the strobe light from the apartment next door!!

    Marion Friedl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tehehehehe "morning has broken...".

    sydney s
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yea, me. but i dont have curtains...

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    Marion Friedl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tehehehehe always those interruptions. A farting dog or cat might also come inbetween when you´re just about to kiss your beloved one....

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    We like to say that we're same-same, but different, which is partially what inspired the name of our comic, Sesame But Different (here's a comic about that). In other words, we have a lot of overlap (we like the same foods, activities, books, etc.), but we're also quite different. I'm very organized and an early bird, but Poppy is a night owl… who likes to leave her socks everywhere . In terms of our love language, it's tied between quality time, touch, and words of affirmation, followed by acts of service and then gifts. Poppy is more mature despite being younger than me by a few years, but she still finds it amusing when I try to summon her attention with animal noises randomly throughout the day, so it all works out.

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    Robecca
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is me! Definitely a sunset person not a sunrise….

    Vinita Talaulikar
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. Haven't seen sunrise for ages. More of a night owl.

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    Seán Hannan
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is the sun rising in the same place it set?

    Vinita Talaulikar
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sun is stationary, it doesn't rise or set. It is years Earth who rotates round the sun.

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    Luna Lovegood
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup.. basically the same thing and not worth waking up for

    Gregg Long
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh the sun does not rise in the same place as it sets.....

    Merilyn Horton
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work night shift and I love sunrises.

    Михаил Л-Л
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't the sun supposed to go up in the other way?

    Elizabeth VanDyke
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love a sunrise, but only from the back side.

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    PenitentEyeball
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    • I’m in this picture and I don’t like it

    TheRealBadboy7
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Report Successful, We will now do nothing about it

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    Marion Friedl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is me somehow, my back´s always hurting, but I´m online for hours with my laptop LOL.

    sydney s
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my shoulders and back hurt for other reasons....

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    When Poppy and I were both younger, we rarely saw any depictions of happy and healthy LGBT relationships, which often made us feel alone and uncertain about our futures when we were growing up. We feel so lucky that we ended up together and thought that creating a comic about our relationship would be our way of sharing with others like us that it truly can get better. It's been so rewarding to get messages from readers around the world who can relate to silly or even mundane moments that we've captured.

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    As far as my arts background, I've always loved drawing and anything involving visual arts. I would always doodle in the margins of my notes during class back when I was in school and even though my current desk job is not a creative role, I still try to sneak in artwork here and there. Creating art is one of my delights that I pursue whenever I have time.

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    Zodiac
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wooo that was a spicy one. Kills me

    Deep One
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a friend who's burps literally burn your eyes!

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    GPZ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As Shrek & Fiona would say, "Better out than in"

    Deni Castro
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's better, burping or farting?

    Surralvampi
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Burping. Sometimes it sounds like your soul is trying to escape...

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    Marion Friedl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL lesbian couples´re really not much different than hertero couples, about the same lil problems everywhere....

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    Mike Crow
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Put ice cube under sheets. Works when waking my wife lol

    Has sold soul for corn chip
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For my sibling, i poke their stomach ( their ticklish) until they wake up, or I turn on the light

    GPZ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's always time for morning snuggles

    Monica Isnota Robot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's like you can see into my bedroom...*peers out curtains*

    The comic has been running for about 3.5 years now, and we're still going strong! We've expanded into creating greeting cards as well as other merch, and I've also recently started to create short animations of Sesame But Different moments on TikTok and Instagram!

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    Robecca
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly me and my boyfriend 😂

    GPZ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you're THAT comfortable with your partner

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    PenitentEyeball
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a relationship you always have someone who’s afraid of roaches and someone who is slightly less afraid, and will deal with it (hopefully)

    The Deez
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember having the realization, when my kids were small and I was home with them, that *I* was the official bug killer! I was like, "DANGIT!!"

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    Kassiopeia
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one can kill the mighty roach

    John Fitzgerald
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Been spending the last 2 months in my new apartment battling the critters.

    Hill Branda
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every couple has a designated bug killer.

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    Monica Isnota Robot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My girl is the biggest baby when she gets sick. I've been sick several times and I don't even think she knows because I take all precautions for her to stay well.

    Peppa Pig
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So this exact thing happened with me and my girlfriend 😂

    ThatOneFish She/Her
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one reminds me of a book (Hooky), in a flashback to when they were kids 3 of the characters are having a conversation that's something like this: *Will is sick* Damien: How long have you been with him Monica? I can take over if you want a break Monica: It's fine! Damien: You'll get sick if you spend to much time in this room. Monica: It's okay! Then I'LL be the one who gets taken care of!

    GPZ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being there when it counts...

    Marion Friedl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why not get sick together, when you´re in love, what´s wrong about it LOL???

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    PenitentEyeball
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    3 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Time flies by not only when you’re having fun, but also when you’re with somebody you love

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    Banana Vic
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone smells really good to you, you've found the one!

    Marion Friedl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That´s true, and it´s not their perfume or after shave, it´s their pheromones that we scent, but most of us don´t know that at all, in Germany we say "ich kann Dich gut riechen" (I can smell you well), which is exactly what the pheromones cause between 2 humans who love each other.

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    Autistic apricot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, they got eggs a tomatos, so that’s what counts

    Marion Friedl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you´ve got an imaginary shopping list, but a gazillion other goods that you also need come to your mind while shopping food and so on, isn´t this familiar to most of us???

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    Agent 8433599
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm not responsible for dream-me! I've told you this before!"

    Monica Isnota Robot
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a dream my girlfriend cheated on me. With a man. I woke up FURIOUS. and stayed that way for exactly 10 seconds until she walked into the bedroom, fresh from shaving her head, wearing boxers, basketball shoes and men's undershirt. Then I almost peed myself laughing Even DREAM girlfriend is too stud to cheat on me with a GUY🤣🤣

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    Marion Friedl
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why it´s called SANDwich LOL. 🤣🤣🤣🤪🤪🤪

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    Summer Mason
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lmfao. Every time I leave the bathroom door open.

    GPZ
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's good to see the toilet paper is the right way around too

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