After being with my girlfriend for 8 years, we're no longer shy about burping in front of each other or revealing pimples in embarrassing places. While we look back fondly at the honeymoon phase of our relationship, we're also grateful to be completely comfortable with each other... Maybe too comfortable.
I created this comic to provide more LGBTQ visibility by playfully showcasing our real same-sex relationship. Check out our other post on Bored Panda..
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This is 100% me and my girlfriend! At 3 years together, ice cream and movie nights are the core of our relationship
My girlfriend (Poppy) and I (Chia) met about 8 years ago through a dating app! It was interesting because my profile was all jokes (I remember writing that my favorite place was "over there *points in arbitrary direction*") and my now-girlfriend-then-interest's profile was basically like she copy and pasted her LinkedIn into the dating app, detailing her roles and accomplishments. We both thought the other person was potentially a fake account, but both liked something on each of our profiles enough to try to connect.
My boyfriend and I do things like this all the time. Doing your own thing and just being near each other. Letting the other know you’re there and feeling content
On our one year anniversary, I made my girlfriend a card that said "I'll be straight with you. My favorite thing about you......is that you're not" she framed it 🖤
We had been texting back and forth for a week before finally meeting in person and we ended up spending 5 hours just talking on the first date. We found out that we had a lot of similar interests and were both excited to read one of our favorite comedian's books, which actually resulted in us buying each other the exact same gift for each other later on (here's a comic about that). It felt like we were meant to be and, so many years later, those feelings have only magnified. I also created a comic about how we met here.
When you wake up and the sun is in your eyes:AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
It wouldn’t be too bad, but that,s the strobe light from the apartment next door!!
Tehehehehe always those interruptions. A farting dog or cat might also come inbetween when you´re just about to kiss your beloved one....
We like to say that we're same-same, but different, which is partially what inspired the name of our comic, Sesame But Different (here's a comic about that). In other words, we have a lot of overlap (we like the same foods, activities, books, etc.), but we're also quite different. I'm very organized and an early bird, but Poppy is a night owl… who likes to leave her socks everywhere . In terms of our love language, it's tied between quality time, touch, and words of affirmation, followed by acts of service and then gifts. Poppy is more mature despite being younger than me by a few years, but she still finds it amusing when I try to summon her attention with animal noises randomly throughout the day, so it all works out.
Same here. Haven't seen sunrise for ages. More of a night owl.
Load More Replies...Sun is stationary, it doesn't rise or set. It is years Earth who rotates round the sun.
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Load More Replies...This is me somehow, my back´s always hurting, but I´m online for hours with my laptop LOL.
When Poppy and I were both younger, we rarely saw any depictions of happy and healthy LGBT relationships, which often made us feel alone and uncertain about our futures when we were growing up. We feel so lucky that we ended up together and thought that creating a comic about our relationship would be our way of sharing with others like us that it truly can get better. It's been so rewarding to get messages from readers around the world who can relate to silly or even mundane moments that we've captured.
As far as my arts background, I've always loved drawing and anything involving visual arts. I would always doodle in the margins of my notes during class back when I was in school and even though my current desk job is not a creative role, I still try to sneak in artwork here and there. Creating art is one of my delights that I pursue whenever I have time.
I have a friend who's burps literally burn your eyes!
Load More Replies...Burping. Sometimes it sounds like your soul is trying to escape...
Load More Replies...LOL lesbian couples´re really not much different than hertero couples, about the same lil problems everywhere....
For my sibling, i poke their stomach ( their ticklish) until they wake up, or I turn on the light
The comic has been running for about 3.5 years now, and we're still going strong! We've expanded into creating greeting cards as well as other merch, and I've also recently started to create short animations of Sesame But Different moments on TikTok and Instagram!
In a relationship you always have someone who’s afraid of roaches and someone who is slightly less afraid, and will deal with it (hopefully)
I remember having the realization, when my kids were small and I was home with them, that *I* was the official bug killer! I was like, "DANGIT!!"
Load More Replies...Been spending the last 2 months in my new apartment battling the critters.
My girl is the biggest baby when she gets sick. I've been sick several times and I don't even think she knows because I take all precautions for her to stay well.
This one reminds me of a book (Hooky), in a flashback to when they were kids 3 of the characters are having a conversation that's something like this: *Will is sick* Damien: How long have you been with him Monica? I can take over if you want a break Monica: It's fine! Damien: You'll get sick if you spend to much time in this room. Monica: It's okay! Then I'LL be the one who gets taken care of!
Why not get sick together, when you´re in love, what´s wrong about it LOL???
Time flies by not only when you’re having fun, but also when you’re with somebody you love
That´s true, and it´s not their perfume or after shave, it´s their pheromones that we scent, but most of us don´t know that at all, in Germany we say "ich kann Dich gut riechen" (I can smell you well), which is exactly what the pheromones cause between 2 humans who love each other.
Load More Replies...When you´ve got an imaginary shopping list, but a gazillion other goods that you also need come to your mind while shopping food and so on, isn´t this familiar to most of us???
I had a dream my girlfriend cheated on me. With a man. I woke up FURIOUS. and stayed that way for exactly 10 seconds until she walked into the bedroom, fresh from shaving her head, wearing boxers, basketball shoes and men's undershirt. Then I almost peed myself laughing Even DREAM girlfriend is too stud to cheat on me with a GUY🤣🤣
Yes good luck, I live asexually because I experienced sexual abuse as a child/teenage girl, but I wish everybody the best of luck for their relationships, love is love. And we all should be much more tolerant. Not only in the Western world, also in Africa, Asia, Eastern Europe. My opinion.
Load More Replies...These were adorable! It is nice to see more LGBTQIA+ content on BoredPanda.
Needless to say, looking at these comics while in a LDR and missing my girlfriend was a terrible idea 😭😂
In spite of being asexual myself (because of #SexualAbuse in my childhood/teenie years) I support #LGBTQIA rights. These comics´re too funny and cute, I follow Sesame But Diffrerent now on Bored Panda. And hope to see more of these cute posts soon.
Yes good luck, I live asexually because I experienced sexual abuse as a child/teenage girl, but I wish everybody the best of luck for their relationships, love is love. And we all should be much more tolerant. Not only in the Western world, also in Africa, Asia, Eastern Europe. My opinion.
Load More Replies...These were adorable! It is nice to see more LGBTQIA+ content on BoredPanda.
Needless to say, looking at these comics while in a LDR and missing my girlfriend was a terrible idea 😭😂
In spite of being asexual myself (because of #SexualAbuse in my childhood/teenie years) I support #LGBTQIA rights. These comics´re too funny and cute, I follow Sesame But Diffrerent now on Bored Panda. And hope to see more of these cute posts soon.
