Hello there! My name is Xan, and I'm the author of the Promptlypaneled series. It's anything from "typical four-panel hashtag-relatable webcomics" to "the everyday struggles of the common girl." It's all not incredibly different from most four-panel webcomics people seem to like, though all in all, it's a lot more feminist-oriented than most. To me, a feminist point of view is essential to what makes these comics "Promptlypaneled." Which I'm well aware is an easy target to generate some pretty hateful comments.

Every comic is based on a real-life experience and/or conversation, some of which online, especially given the lack of social life the pandemic has brought on.

I'm 100 percent guilty of using humor as a coping mechanism. There isn't a single social setting that I haven't tried to improve or destroy with humor: I make jokes in job interviews, with strangers in a bar or store, I've even been the one to crack jokes to my family after a funeral. I joke when I'm happy and I joke even more when I'm uncomfortable.

More info: Instagram | Facebook | buymeacoffee.com

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Dariusz Wiśniewski
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7 months ago

how is that feminist or "girl problem"?

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I live and grew up in Belgium, where I went to art high school and then on to study animation in college. I genuinely can't draw a straight line to save my own life and have taken to keeping that as part of my style.

I've worked in several different animation studios, usually in the animation team of a short film or commercial, or in the design department. In between that, I've spent my time doing less pleasant jobs—such as in a call center—and I'm currently biding my time in an essential store as a cashier.

My main goal in life is still to write and draw my own comics someday, but as a big narrative with original characters, instead of webcomics based on my own experiences. My hope is that work like that with Promptlypaneled helps me find the courage to get on with that!

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the child
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7 months ago

Well, well, well, how the turntables...

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Laura Würker
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7 months ago

This! It ist the same with movies, TV shows etc when a woman is the maincharacter. Fun Fact: The default character, when you can play both is also male in almost all games.

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My comics being so autobiographical is also part of the reason I only started this series last year as opposed to years before. I wanted to use my personal life experiences (however big or small) because that's easiest to be authentic with, but I can't remove the feminist worldview I've grown into. I've long felt that makes me entirely "unrelatable," since feminism has a pretty bad rep nowadays, with radfems and TERFs being the main sort of feminist most people immediately think of. So I get a decent amount of angry messages from an anti-feminist crowd. But that's just part of the experience, I suppose.

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TheHappyBookCat
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7 months ago

Wait, that's the same guy who's date didn't work out!

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Demi Zwaan
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7 months ago

Duolingo! Good luck, it'll never leave you alone.

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Shelp
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7 months ago

me IRL

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What I've found out is that sadly, a lot of my bad experiences as a woman are VERY relatable. And at this point, I haven't even uploaded a comic about men following me home or construction workers telling me to "sit on their pole" yet. Once I do, I'm sure a lot of my followers will be able to relate, and that's honestly very sad. All in all, I hope I can find the humor in it well enough to turn it into a proper comic!

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ume reid
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7 months ago

so true

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TheHappyBookCat
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7 months ago

"I don't caaaare"

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TheHappyBookCat
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7 months ago

Who cares about them! Be whoever you want to be! After all, you only get to live once.

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Disclaimer: I am in no way a mental health professional! But I personally do feel that humor is an important step in processing difficult emotions or trauma. To me, it's a way of giving these events a context, a more tangible "place" in your personal timeline or in your mind. I have spent a few months in therapy trying to process an abusive relationship from years ago and I'm convinced a few therapy sessions a year would do everyone a lot of good. And of course, during these sessions, I was also constantly cracking jokes. Seeing the therapist laugh about said jokes made the whole thing a lot less scary.

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Meike H
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7 months ago

Friends!!!! That seventies show!!!

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Alex the awful German
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7 months ago

everyone awake at 3am knows this fairy...

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Meike H
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7 months ago

Is this some sort of dirty joke I'm missing? I'm really at a loss here :S someone enlighten me?

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Trauma does change people, or it makes them grow, however you prefer to look at it. Either way, the person after a traumatic experience is different from the one before. And I believe just about no one makes it through life entirely free of trauma. For some, it happens in childhood, in a significant romantic relationship, a chance encounter... However it happens, however long it's happened for and whatever it was: it forced you to grow and be different, even if it didn't change you a whole lot. And let me be clear, no one HAS to find the humor in it or even attempt to make jokes about it if they don't want to or if they aren't ready to do so!

But if you can and if you are willing, I feel like it can make your life all the lighter. You're free to process your problems in your own way and joking about your experiences doesn't have to take away from how intense or serious they are.

Side note, I haven't made a single post about that abusive relationship, and there's a good reason—I can't see it fitting in a four-panel setting and I'm just not entirely ready to display it for everyone to see. It's also, to put it in professional terms, a major bummer.

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7 months ago (edited)

My ex husband took me out from hospital after 3 days (doctor said I need to stay at least week because of dammage). After a week ex husband insisted on sex almost everyday (I have trauma till now, I am really affraid of it) because he waited too long. F***ings piece of s**t.

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Shelp
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7 months ago

Yay, sexual assault is fun!

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Laura Würker
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7 months ago

I hate people doing that.

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All in all, I'm sure I've rambled on enough! I'm very thankful that the people from Bored Panda found my comics interesting enough to publish, and if anyone reading this article likes them enough to follow the series on Instagram, I'm eternally grateful! I hope you're doing well and wish you all the very best.

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Jonny d'Ville
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7 months ago

excuse me what the f**k

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7 months ago

a real baker always has to clean up :/

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WholesomeArmyweeb
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7 months ago

this is so fricking truE

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MagicalUnicorn
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7 months ago

i can relate so badly... although i have 2 bras i put on sometimes :D

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Asy EnderDragon
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7 months ago

oh so that's why my mom has so many plants

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Layla Blank
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7 months ago

the knife says "how is this stable lolol" on it lol

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Kari Panda
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7 months ago

That really is a problem if you‘re into board games. For many of them, I have to re-read the rules again if I haven‘t played them recently because they’re so complex. A few positive exceptions: Stone Age, Dominion, Dungeon Mayhem :)

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hobbitly
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7 months ago

That t-shirt, haha. NOOT NOOT!

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Equine_Ravenclaw_Directioner
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7 months ago

Thats what I have to do Daily to motivate myself to go for a run.. or to even just wake up.

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Asy EnderDragon
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7 months ago

*Loud annoyed sigh* yep

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Alex the awful German
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7 months ago

F*** Steve!

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Christina Schulte
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7 months ago

Tiny braid probably looks lovely.

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SiimplyLuna
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7 months ago

karen

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Iso
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7 months ago

you would

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yes.
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7 months ago

god....

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Sarah Simons
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7 months ago

I would do this if my dog knew how to walk outside without freaking out.

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Joanne O'Brien
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7 months ago

Why can't be all be equal? Why is it so hard to treat others like people and respect them? As long as you're not hurting yourself or others do whatever you want. Be who you want to be!

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Asy EnderDragon
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7 months ago

hey! i am actually working on a sculpter and this is exactly how its going. great to know im not alone

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7 months ago

SO CUTEEEE!

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Iso
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7 months ago

mInOr inconvenience

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McPanda
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7 months ago

"Flag Lyfe"

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Asy EnderDragon
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7 months ago

ya the logic of some people is.... strange....if you really like to play video games and you consider yourself a gamer then you're a gamer. its as simple as that. it can really be any video game as long as you think its fun.

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Shelp
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7 months ago

I feel you

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Shelp
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7 months ago

Haha that hand in the third panel

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Joanne O'Brien
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7 months ago

Both hurt, heels are a no for me!

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Alisa Wei
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7 months ago

haha this is so relatable

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Shelp
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7 months ago

As a meat-eater, I look at all those eating meat with tons of sauce (especially bland sauces like mayo or ketchup) with gigantic disdain. If you can't eat meat without drowning it in sauce, then move along, go veggy, and let it to the people who actually like it.

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Noemie Houtekie-N'Da
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7 months ago

Me playing Geometry Dash thinking about how frustrated I am.

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Joanne O'Brien
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7 months ago

We're people not objects! You wouldn't write a guy like that so why do it to a woman?

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SiimplyLuna
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7 months ago

I have this game on my nintendo! It's called Ring Fit Adventure. Makes me sweat, I recommend it to people who want to have fun, while exercising.

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diarykeeper
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7 months ago

Cats are just cool. Do as they please and aren't afraid of anyone.

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HooowlAtTheMoon
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7 months ago

Yay, another sagittarius!! We can struggle at life and hide our feelings together!!

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Lulu Lemons
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7 months ago

Are they degus?

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Lorelei
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7 months ago

I wish mosquitoes were that polite...

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ViFi
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7 months ago

I love cucumbers... wah

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Asy EnderDragon
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7 months ago

yes hi. how are you doing?

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Demi Zwaan
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7 months ago

Haha, the furry gateway Robin Hood :D

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PandaPanda
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7 months ago

well that's rude

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Eliška Hůlková
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7 months ago

The worst thing is to forget towel into communal shower at dorm. Happened to me once, I had to wipe myself into my bath robe. Yikes.

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ViFi
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7 months ago

I love embroidery and crocheting!

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WholesomeArmyweeb
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7 months ago

dad sneezes be like

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Kari Panda
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7 months ago

Unless it specifically said to bring your own cooking, you can’t really fault they guy. Some people are terrible at cooking/baking, so they bring something storebought rather than nothing.

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WholesomeArmyweeb
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7 months ago

hm. getting "haunting of hill house" vibes

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Mrs_ Possum
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7 months ago

Aaaaaaw, Possum is a cutie 🥰

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birdie asf
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7 months ago

more for us basic bitches ig

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WholesomeArmyweeb
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7 months ago

why do i feel this tho-

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McPanda
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7 months ago

I thought the censorship was "animals" haha

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diarykeeper
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7 months ago

You should see the USK logos on videogame covers in germany.... :p

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Lorelei
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7 months ago

OoOooh YEAH

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