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They say that the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. But what if the apple doesn’t just fall nowhere near the tree, but does everything to roll in the opposite direction? Because the truth is not all kids want to be mirror images of their parents, and when they grow up, they often want to be nothing like their mom and dad.

Speaking of moms, there is a TikTok creator who runs her hugely popular channel “Not Like My Mother.” With a whopping 8.2 million total likes, the TikToker Meesh has won hearts just by sharing hilariously accurate and painfully relatable videos in a series with the same name–Not Like My Mother.

“Healing with humor & new habits,” the description of Meesh’s TikTok channel says, adding that it’s “100% satire” and “100% truth.” Scroll down to see how the creator does everything not to copy her mother in various situations and walks of life, which will surely ring a bell to many of you there!

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Jason
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I see you don't have kids.

Lakota Wolf
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or depression, or ADHD, etc XD I don't have kids either, but there is no WAY I could stick to this for more than a few days. I'd try my best, and I'd WANT to, but ... there's just no way XD

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FlatEarf
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is it with throwing away expired stuff? Yeah it expired but it's still good for an unknown amount of time, just because something expires doesn't make it terrible instantly, I was raised with look at the food and if it still looks good and isn't expired or not like years past the expiration date we keep it until its not good

M O'Connell
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can confirm that lotion remains lotion and ibuprofen remains ibuprofen at least 10 years after the date. During the COVID lockdown I also consumed some soup that was 4 or 5 years past the date on the can, it was also fine. The expiration date only marks the end of the manufacturer's liability for the contents, not the end of their safety.

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Robin Childers
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And her kids will. Be Not Like My Mother by avoiding being an uptight, a**l chick who organizes everything into the ground.

Brightly
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having grown up with people that are hoarders I understand where this woman is coming from. Maybe try to listen and not just jump to conclusions. I'm not sure why this was a trigger for you but it sounds like it is.

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Chich
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Marie Kondo even gave up on this obsessivness

Brightly
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is this obsessive? If you read the actual post you'll understand what this woman lived with and how difficult it was for her. How is HER organization a problem for YOU?

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AR
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why label everything like that? You don’t know cleansers are cleansers?

Naomie Moore
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't judge on this. I live alone and everything stays neat. When I was raising a family? It was still pretty neat. We didn't force things on the kids and they knew everything had a place to live. So never the excuse that they couldn't find anything.

Boss Lady
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have kids and anxiety/depression, etc. I will do this. Just for me!

Tim Sireno
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just being organized and labeled isn't OCD! I used to work in a union shop as a IT tech guy and they had all their IT & general tools (power drills, saws, wrenches, etc) hung up on a peg board organized with labels so that everyone could always find the tools that they needed when they needed it.

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Jiminy
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't have enough skincare that labeling it would be anything but ridiculous...

simspawn
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Expiration dates on medication, meh~ Sometimes it really doesn't matter. Table salt has an expiration date too ya know.

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In order to find out what are the reasons why adult children don’t want to be like their parents, Bored Panda reached out to Emily Malamet, a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist from Paris Psychology Centre, who shared some very interesting insights.

Malamet told us that it can surely happen that certain adult children don’t want to behave like their parents. “It is possible that adult children had witnessed certain parental behaviors growing up that they didn’t appreciate or were harmful to their wellbeing or that of their family, and don’t want to recreate this in their own lives/or as future parents,” the clinical psychologist said.

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    LK
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my country, you can take expired or surplus medication to a pharmacist, and they will safely dispose of it. It's is not a good idea to put it into the bin/trash.

    Jan Rosier
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Belgium it is actually forbidden to throw them into the trash. One strip might go unnoticed, but if it is on top and they notice it, your trash might be left behind with a warning sticker. Same with throwing the wrong things in the bag for plastics and cans.

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    LilliVB
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depending on the medication and on the way you are storing them (so if as it is recommended for most you are keeping them in a dry and cool place), a lot of them are working till many years years after the expiration date. So this is a good idea depending on the drug, for what you are taking it, if you can afford a new one etc., but it's not a golden rule for every medicaments to be safe, healthy and effective (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/drug-expiration-dates-do-they-mean-anything&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwiEkaeU6_b8AhUghf0HHbu8DvoQFnoECAkQAg&usg=AOvVaw1lmC6WN06S7yQ4Th-KE7bq)

    Tristan J
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disposing of medicine in an unsafe and irresponsible way is not a win. Take it back to your local pharmacy and let them do it properly

    Cassi Lyris
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AND WE TAKE THEM TO A LOCAL PHARMACY TO BE PROPERLY DISPOSED OF AND NOT DUMPED INTO OUR TRASH CANS AND POURED INTO THE LOCAL WATER SUPPLY.

    ThatNerdZoe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I asked to go back on ADHD meds recently after just not taking them (w/out consulting the doctor) and my parents told me to just take the old ones. 🙃👍

    Breanne Smith
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Medications are proven to be good for long after the "expiration dates". In fact many times expiration dates have nothing to do with the medication itself, but instead so that you'll need to come back in for another check up appt ($$).

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    Rob Williams
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should never throw any expired or excess medications in the bin.They need to be taken to a paharmacy for disposal.

    333
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those are supplements, not medications

    Daya B
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That could still possibly cause problems for someone (adult or child) if they got them out of the trash & took more than they should. Here even supplements (and meds) can be taken to the "Give Back Program" where they get disposed of properly. Just sayin...saying....:)

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    Kitty Cat
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keeping in mind that most solid tablets do NOT actually expire, they just have to have an expiration date due to regulatory reasons. Your 2023 expired Tylenols are just fine if they've been kept in a climate controlled, shaded place, like a cabinet. NOT THE SAME for gel or liquid pills or meds, toss those suckers.

    Nancy Lynch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same in the US. Target takes expired meds and my local police station has place in the lobby where you can drop them off.

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    ADHORTATOR
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how strong was her vacuum?

    Ginger Ghost
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wait, your hoover is road legal, it has lights

    Kate Jones
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish my vacuum was that good, lol.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically they are, but it's still necessary and stairs wear off from people walking on them anyways. Also carpet, not my thing in general. Terrible for allergies.

    ThatSunniChick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Carpet also used to be individual strands twisted together. Nearly all carpet now is BCF (bulk continuous filament). Thats why you wont see "threadbare" carpet like you used to. What may have been a legitimate concern before has simply been solved with technology, like a lot of the things on this list.

    GadgetGirl
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, a new shark vacuum will pull fibers out of your carpet. After you use it a bit and the filter gets dirty and the airflow is a bit less, it stops doing that. At least, I think that's why it stops.

    Debbie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She has lights on her vacuum? Is that a thing?

    N Miller
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. We have one with lights - helps to see where I'm aiming under furniture.

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    Giulia Fortunati
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, but wall to wall carpets are gross!

    I'mNotARoboat
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry but not everyone can afford to replace their carpeting/own a place where they have a say on the flooring.

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    Tim Sireno
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In one of my apartments, yes, my vac did yank the fibers out of the landlords godawful cheap carpeting! When the jerk tried charging me a ridiculous amount to replace it, I investigated and found out it was also happening in other apartments at the multi building complex, and a carpet guy gave one tenant the reason for this - the landlord/maintenance people or vendor had used the wrong glue, and it was failing either after 2 years age/dry rot.

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    Moreover, certain individuals are afraid to be like their parents or engage in similar behaviors, Malamet said. “For some, early experiences with parental figures can leave emotional wounds, which are feelings which we were particularly sensitive to as children that may be easily triggered by others in the present.”

    Malamet explained that it is important for these individuals to work on being sensitive to experiences they may be triggered by, what others do that can trigger these reactions, and let those close to them know about it. “This is implies being assertive and letting others know what they may need. By doing what they couldn’t do as a child, they can work on repairing these old emotional wounds.”

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    October
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This whole post is basically about throwing stuff in the garbage...

    Negatoris Wrecks
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is something you have to learn as an adult when you are raised in a hoard, and it can be a very challenging thing to do.

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    Tristan J
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no, unused hangers! Wait until you buy some new clothes and *shock horror* need some more

    FlatEarf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hangars are something people underestimate how much they need them, hangars are surprisingly helpful at random moments when you get news clothes and realize you need a hangar

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    Jude Kay
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Truse, repurpose or recycle (including donating)!

    0zed119
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She'll donate/repurpose the clothes ,but NOT the SOCKS ?!?

    BeepBeepBoopBoop
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    a lot of donation places in the US won't take used socks, underwear, or bras. I don't know about homeless shelters, we don't have one near us sadly.

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    Nina Harkness
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if parent's grew up during the depression or WWII, they had a different mind set.

    Maggie Dinzler Shaw
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no, but I could make an awesome mobile out of that!

    Maya Ferencikova
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Says dobate and do not hoard. Hoarding is awful. My dad hoards everything.

    Deborah THE Band
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her knowledge is no ...no smarts. She "knows." No. Out on a limb: WAY under 40! If you can't REPURPOSE IT (Fool!) or fix it with duck tape, a hammer or super glue --- throw it away. . . . But, I have to tell you, the rapidity with which these youngsters are personally trying to undermine all recycling efforts is annoying me. I'm old. I've been in better mental health. I am only an environmentalist! But, I only need to talk to 'em... Just an adress or two! Hey, just talk. What? I'm Luca Brazie?! Please?! No! . . . . Alright! I did train under him. Just a cuppa' names and addresses. What the hey?!

    Martin Brule Jr.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    donate often to get rid of excess s**t

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    Debbie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aaah the optimism in this... sure, when someone tells the same story you've heard a few times before, go on and listen it out. And don't interrupt someone who is having a monologue and making wrong assumtions along the way. And when they say they believe their hause is haunted and it should be burned down, believe it and encourage them... Point being: It's a nice concept but not good to use always.(Or maybe she means when people talk about certain subjects?)

    Almostfoxlike
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have the thing where we say pineapple if someone is telling a story we've already heard. It's a polite way to let them know you've heard it

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    Candi Unicorn
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In stead of saying "don't be stupid" and "oh I have a better story than that" ....

    Ricardo Ferreira
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a mythomaniac GF, and veeeery lying friends. So, this one is a little difficult for me to comply.

    Tristan J
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Belief without consideration is why people feel able to outright lie and get away with it.

    Linda T
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to work with one of them. Torture!

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    Naomie Moore
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oddly, I like listening to people. Some are brilliant and the rest - well, I keep my mouth shut. My compliments are sincere and always a cheerleader when someone is struggling with something. We all need encouragement at some point in our lives.

    Kristi Schmits
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps the OP should attempt this with her mother? To really attempt to understand her mother's life experience and how that may have led to all of these habits that the OP seems to disdain? As we all enter adulthood we make choices about our life in both big areas and small, based on our knowledge, experience, current circumstances, resources, state of the world as a whole, etc. It may be enlightening to attempt to understand the experiences that led to another person's habits and choices rather than simply condemn them.

    Brightly
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never seen so many unhinged comments in my life. What I'm taking away from this is that most people live these crazy lives that this OP is trying to get away from.

    Laurie Livingston
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...and not try to top them with my own story...😶 ...and when they have a really out there, off the charts, inane story they're telling you-- try not to look at them like they just turned purple with pink polka dots😒

    Theresa Olivo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best idea #17 Some many times I see and hear people talk over another or interrupt them.

    Maggie Dinzler Shaw
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid, it was normal for people to tell, retell and tell the same stories again.

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    Debbie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just don't start to breasfeed them, change their nappies.... That would be weird.

    Karen Tyas
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just supposed to leave it hungry in a dirty diaper?? 😂

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    Leoninus Fate
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    to be fair, for years we told our mom that she was the dog's grandmother and she would yell at us that they were dirty dogs and she was not! then earlier this year she started to actually pet one and told us "oh! he's soft!" and is now calling herself his grandma now, so some "moms" grow into pet baby lovers~

    sturmwesen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom was even afraid of dogs, when 18yr old me brought home my GS mix. She went f*****g biking with the dog to exercise the dog more. She at least grew to accept, like and respect her, even if she was still afraid of other dogs.

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    ️️Upvote faery️
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yea no, my dog is my dog. She's not a baby, she is my mental health support and my family member, but not my baby. I am her human or hooman.

    Liz Reid
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You feed the dog, discipline the dog, teach the dog, potty train the dog, take care of the dog. It's your baby.

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    Laurie Livingston
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother let her precious girl pup sleep with her! And Foxy was the only dog, in the history of the church, ever allowed in for her Mommy's funeral❤

    Ambry Petersen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had pets, and babies. They are more different than you imagine. You will not be potty training your pet to use a toilet, or teaching them to talk, or walk, or read, or cook, or drive a car.

    Sandrapocalypse
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just don't love them more than the actual humans in your life. Having a mother who is a better mother to her pets than her children is just sad.

    Naomie Moore
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pets have always been treated as part of the family. Every animal growing up had "their person.". My bed looks like Noah's Arc at bedtime.

    Wendy DeWitt
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um, my little old guy wears diapers...

    Kitty
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This lady's mother sounds horrible

    Ba-Na-Na
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right?! I wouldn’t want to meet her!

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    Tamara Kroonen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is how you raise dogs with issues.

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    When asked what are the reasons why some grown-up children decide to cut off their parents, Malamet said that there are many of them, but the most common reasons are (but are not limited to): “abuse and neglect during childhood, difference in opinions, having previously felt controlled by their parents, perceived lack of support, having been put in unsafe environments by their parents growing up, high expectations from their parents, mental health issues (being experienced by the adult child or their parent), traumatic events experienced with their parents growing up, parental divorce, or favoritism towards one child in the family,” the clinical psychologist concluded.

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    Bluetoyou
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cleaned my student tables with donated baby wipes. Same thing. Those wet soapy sponges look like they are cleaning but until you wipe the table after with a baby wipe you have no idea how dirty they still are. Art class. At the end of every class. An article I read of where kids get germs in school prompted this. It was a precovid article.

    Debby Keir
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But 'baby wipes' aren't actually antiseptic or antibacterial. If they were, you couldn't safely wipe their botties with them.

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    M O'Connell
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of this comes from her being of a different era. Cleaners containing alcohol will damage shellac finishes (antique furniture), and cleaners containing ammonia will damage acrylic finishes.

    Aboredpanda
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Going to have to say that soap and water will get more germs And dirt off than disinfectant, simply because of how they work at base level. You need a good scrubbing agent too. Then you can do a wipe like that after to see if it's clean enough. Repeat if needed. Sometimes there will be dirt from years and years and that's due to not cleaning, not rag defects.

    FlatEarf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah that's the big benefit to soap and water, it kills and removes

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    Cassi Lyris
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oi vey... once again: use a good SURFACTANT not a basic DISINFECTANT. Soap, clean sponge, then water rinse with a clean rag and THEN 90% isopropyl alcohol allowed to dry on the surface. That table is still dirty and now it has a layer of toxic disinfectant on it too.

    BJames
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Playing the "will the chemicals or the bacteria kill me first" game here.

    Aya Pandy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not actually dirt it's the stain from the table floors do the same thing

    Whitney McCrum-Morrison
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How's your gut biome? That's a heck of a lot of toxic products.

    Melissa
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude forgive your mom, it'll be super healing for you. She did the best she can with what she had and her childhood was probably worse than you think. Just let it go

    John Nada
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like having washcloths just for cleaning the house with some Simple Green, then I launder them when they're dirty.

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    Elita One
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So if the driver was driving like a f*****t you wouldn't tell them to stop? Okay.

    General Anaesthesia
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Citing an extreme to rebut a rule of thumb is a bit extreme, don't you think?

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    LK
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My job in the car is navigator. My husband is the driver. Together we make a good team.

    Telepathetic
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A man that actually listens to directions ?

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    Stay Off My Lawn
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yeah. My parents’ generation can’t seem to understand that backseat driving and playing with the radio causes the driver to make mistakes. If the driver swerves off a bridge over your foolishness, you die too.

    Bluetoyou
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a rule in my car that I teach my grandkids. I have had to use it on my husband, MIL, and mom. The number one rule about traveling in a car is do not distract the driver. The grandkids can recite it back to me as needed.

    Irreverent 1
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speak your mind. I am not a child. if you are a horrible driver I'll tell you to stop the vehicle so I can get out of the car. I've done it to my own mother.

    Tim Sireno
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've also had the opposite with some passengers, who because they can't stand not being "in constant control" they criticize *EVERYONE* else's driving while riding. One particular young lady in college who I rode with some 40 odd other drivers was this way, we soon started telling her to just ride a bus then. And hilariously she often complained that they drive even worse!

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    LuLuBelle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try that with my husband driving, I dare you. I refuse to let him run over people, sorry.

    LuLuBelle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or my other favorite, "please drive with your head pointing forward, not looking out the side window at the sights."

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    Hawkmoon
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wanted to warn you that someone was coming at full speed from the left, but since you told me to be quiet... Er... Can you hear me?

    FlatEarf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well she didn't point to the back seat so backseat drivers are ok, and since we can't give input, can we give hypothetical situations?

    Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to remind my husband that he's not driving or giving a lesson, so if he doesn't like my driving, he can either get out or drive.

    Channo Sagara
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, second generation drivers are better because they got yelled a lot by their parents. It suck, but you learn. I have a lot of first generation driver friends (their parents couldn't afford cars), they all drive like moron daredevils.

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    Lakota Wolf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's nice, but what if you need to make a note when you're upstairs, or in the garage, or on the other side of the house from where your notebook is? XD There's nothing wrong with using random scraps of paper to write down memos and notes, as long as you dispose of them accordingly once you don't need them any more.

    LuLuBelle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a personal choice, not an inherently superior system.

    Stay Off My Lawn
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do whatever works. Post-its work better for me.

    Hamlets twin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are taking a picture with your phone. Get/use a notepad app! Some you can even sync to your computers.

    Liam Lowenthal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh.. I like my sticky notes. I have pretty bad memory problems so having little notes all over the house really helps.

    Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are people writing notes? Smart watches and phones have perfectly good note taking options. :)

    Naomie Moore
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Use whatever method that suits your household. I use posit it's on occasion and they go in the paper recycle bin. I have running lists that is incorporated with my calendars for both work and personal engagements. Everyone needs to find a system that works for them. There is no right or wrong.

    Aarya
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just write on my hand

    John Paul Morrison
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband is the worst at doing scraps of paper for recipes. I send a detailed email when I cook something we consider great. Thanks to key words and a search, they will be with me forever

    Aboredpanda
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly I use my phone and the keep app for this. Phone stays with me at all times. Can share notes with whomever you want. Notebook seems unnecessary.

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    As the generations progress, it’s natural for adults to want to separate themselves from their parents. With the ever-changing world, it’s difficult for adults to stay connected with their parents' values and experiences.

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    Adults today are faced with a unique set of challenges that are vastly different from their parents’ experiences. This can make it difficult to relate to their parents, and it can also create a sense of disconnect when it comes to values and beliefs.

    Just think of how much technology and the internet changed the way we communicate, learn, and work. Meanwhile, the job market has shifted, with many jobs that didn’t exist when their parents were young. This means that the methods of achieving success and finding fulfillment can be vastly different from what their parents experienced.

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    LuLuBelle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother was born in 1930. She taught us to respect all people, including LGBTQ+. She found prejudice and intolerance to be pointless and illogical. I'm sorry so many people had such awful mothers. I guess I was lucky.

    Becca Kuehn
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are blessed to have a loving Mom who taught you to be respectful of others. I wasn't that lucky. My husband and I have taught our children to be responsible of others. Prejudice IS absolutely awful and is not tolerated by our family.

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    Fat Harry
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be happy if I could just my mum to stop referring to people as "the gays".

    Bethannie Shortall
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i’m one of the gays and i refer to us/them as “the gays” but yeah… it’s all about the mindset of who is saying it 💜

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    Helen Taylor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As an older mother, so do I. Sorry if yours did not, but I know many people my age or older who do support the LGBTQ+ community.

    Carole G.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mum would have supported this as do I at 75.

    Naomie Moore
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amen to that. I do the hiring where I work. We are quite an eclectic bunch and very proud of our team. We all have something different to offer and it works. If someone is a bit put off because we don't all "look normal" it's on them.

    Jasna Svast
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a mom I don't care which gender or non gender they will someday chose as their partner. I just care that they will be good to them and love them.

    BeepBeepBoopBoop
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that's so amazing, thank you on my behalf from the loving LGBTQ+ community! So many people have to live in houses growing up where they're not accepted. You're doing such an amazing thing.

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    AJ Claymore
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom always swore she'd disown me if I ever "decided" to become gay. I'm not gay, but that wasn't exactly a decision I made, just like I don't think anyone else decided who they're physically (or not) attracted to. I never could get her to see it that way though.

    Tracy Wolfgram Walker
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would give you infinite thumbs up if allowed! My mother is still sooooooo outdated in her opinions -- which she shares loudly. In public. Or private. Anywhere. 🙄

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    LK
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An alternative, if you are not using the washing machine every day, is to have bucket of water, with some disinfectant in the water. When you use a cloth drop it into the water. When the bucket is full, or you're doing a load of laundry, add the rags. If you are using a front loading washing machine, put the rags into a laundry bag.

    Nonesuch
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great idea! I am going to try this out. We make lots of messes and use a lot of cleaning cloths

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    Aboredpanda
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean... Just hang them to dry over the laundry basket and this won't become an issue. Then clean en masse When it's full. Less wasted water = less costly. Electricity prices are insane these days. (EU)

    Helen Bennett
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totes agree. Also agree with changing cleaning rags frequently!

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    Aleksandra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    kinda wasteful? rinse them with clean water adn let them dry, this way you can use them few times before washing and not waste shittone of water on laundry

    Liam Lowenthal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this, except I don't run the washing machine every single day. I have an excess of rags and reusable cloths for washing dishes and cleaning the counters. It goes in the washing machine every two weeks in bulk.

    MygrandsonscallmeNia
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a waste of water, and electricity. Unless, it's a full load. Rinse it out, and hang it up to dry, until wash day.

    Lillie Jones
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One thing for sure in life is its short, the housework/car cleaning isn't going to get up and go anywher just because you take time to live, relax enjoy your life don't be such a slave to cleaning. Besides living in that level of clean isn't helping you maintain a strong immune system it like you need a little work out now and then. And be glad you love in a world where you don't need to save boxes in order to return an item that breaks too soon. And do your part to care for the environment instead of being so wasteful.

    Tara L.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ug my mom loves sponges, she'll use them over & over without washing them. She keeps buying them for me because I keep throwing them out. I use paper towels because I've been traumatized by nasty, stinking, sponges. "Just rise them out afterwards! They're fine!" No they are not, they smell like a dead animal.

    Gary Geracci
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or wash and rinse them out right away, and hang them out to dry. Clean for next time

    FerRN
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I leave used rags in a soapy water with clorox overnight and handwash them next day.

    Deborah THE Band
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find a light wash & rinse when I finish using the cleaning rags works perfect well. No need to use the washer... unless, of course, there is a load ready to go. And, I do not allow mildew!

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    Elita One
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This ones stupid she's just throwing away perfectly good socks because they don't have a matching one. Just match them up with a similar sock, if they have different coloured soles than it doesn't matter if your wearing enclosed shoes, no one will see them.

    Irreverent 1
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who said socks need to match? Why did you believe them?

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    Coralinea
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And their partner turns up three minutes after the trash was picked up.

    Marla
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the only way known to science to find a missing sock

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    Leoninus Fate
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wanna use the worse curse words here, I LOVE SOCKS i beg people to buy them for me, and tons of weird ones, I mix them I never wear the same matching ones, they ALWAYS have to mismatch Because someone might look down and see my feet and SMILE, and Silly mismatched socks make people SMILE AND BE HAPPY, EVERYONE WEAR MIXXED SOCKS AND MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY!

    careless camel
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your comment oddly warms my heart. Thank you for sharing this, it was genuinely wholesome. I'm wishing you plenty of smiles!

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    TheKitKatLizard
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or just put them on your feet... mismatched socks are still wearable

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    Sandra Arkanoff
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The homeless do not care what color their socks are. Donate

    FlatEarf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This whole post has a large amount of waste

    Liam Lowenthal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why? Wear mismatched socks or at least upcycle them into dusters. You know how many clothes just from fast fashion are in landfills? Don't help it along jfc

    Deanna Crichley
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I put one on top of a broom handle with a rubber band to bring cobwebs down from the ceiling. I rolled one into a ball. It's my pincushion.

    Theoretical Empiricist
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I run the remaining sock through the wash again in hopes that it will either attract its mate back from the other side of the dimensional barrier or distract the Laundry Demons away from the other pairs.

    Megan Cheeky Chook
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This entire thing is just about how she likes throwing things away. Is she, like, invested in landfills and killing the planet? Has she even heard of recycling?

    Jude Kay
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, SOMEONE is making money off online articles!

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    The desire for adults to separate themselves from their parents may be also driven by the idea of personal growth. Many adults want to create their own paths and avoid following in their parents’ footsteps. They don’t want to be limited by their parents’ expectations and beliefs, and they want to explore their own interests and passions.

    Moreover, adults today may feel a sense of responsibility to make a difference in the world. They may feel a pressure to use their skills and resources to address the issues facing the world today, and this may lead them to create their own version of success.

    A growing number of studies also show that adults today more often cut ties with their parents than ever before. A study in 1997 explored family relationships in later life and found that 7 percent of adult children had cut ties with their mother and 27 percent with their father. Meanwhile, in 2020, a study by sociologist Karl Pillemar showed that 1 in 4 Americans are estranged from their families—roughly 67 million people.

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    ima cat v2
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHO SAID IT IS A GENDERED JOB??? Where did this woman come from where changing a f*****g lightbulb is a "gendered job"???

    Fat Harry
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have to remember she's comparing to her mother. I don't consider it to be a gendered job, and in fact I recently showed a daughter how to change both the front and rear bulbs on her car, but I know for a fact that my mother's mother would sit in the dark and wait for her husband to get home to change a bulb.

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    Ba-Na-Na
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get my husband to do the ceiling ones-because he’s tall. He can reach without a ladder.

    Captain Bagel
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom always does it anyway because my dad is too lazy to do so

    Carole G.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nor is it the landlords duty tenants...

    tl gmc
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not a regular bulb like this, but those huge stick lights, I'm not paying for as a renter.

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    Naomie Moore
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ??? I replace lightbulbs all by myself? Who am I gonna call? Really? Takes less than 5 minutes. I have a box where I have spares, I switched to a different type of lightbulbs so it is a rare occurrence and I save on my electric bill as a bonus.

    Gary Geracci
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any one person changing a lightbulb must be smarter than a fifth grader then!

    Nikki Angulo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean if I waited for the lightbulbs in my hose to be changed by a male, I’d be sitting in the dark, since I live alone! Well, I do have three males cats, anyone want to teach one of them to do it? 🤣🤣

    Helen Wyatt
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not a gendered job. It IS a height job. I’m not that tall. Himself has 8 inches on me. He doesn’t need a ladder

    Suín Shíomónach-Mhic Cába
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's only a gendered role in my house because we've vaulted ceilings and I'm very short :D

    Deborah THE Band
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gendered jobs can be fun, or, at the very least, enjoyable. I'm 68. I know things. In the early 1990s, my boss, a lady who was older than myself ---damn near 19 days and always will be(!), came in to deliver fruit & juices one afternoon. She left the groceries sat on the bar, pulled a stool into the waitress station, snatched a large wine glass off the rack and said, "Fill it." We sipped for awhile... watching. S**t, I'm sorry! You see there were three men -- 28, 37 & 43 years old -- standing on tables. Yep. Changing light bulbs. Eighteen ceiling fans. All held multiple bulbs. Nice Hair. Nice faces. Nice chests. Nice arms (all held up above their little heads!), NICE jeans(!), nice boots! She and I spent what was possibly our best happy hour together... for nearly 75 minutes! The first fellow who had come in hadn't wanted me to get hurt climbing on tables! Nice Southern boys! And, NO amount of cash can buy that memory! No torture device known can remove it! FU! It still keeps me warm and smiling on lonely nights! God bless each and every one of them. My little boys!

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    Jeremy James
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Millennial urge to keep the boxes that our cell phones came in. I was born in '84 and I still have no idea why I do this. But, thanks to the Internet, I know I'm not alone.

    Dan Padgett
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 1986 myself and keep all my boxes... Just in case I need to return something 10 years later :)

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    JoNo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be more useful to break down the box so it's flat cardboard so more can fit in the recycling bin.

    Jj321
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is tricky. We recently sold an original ninetendo system box, no ninetendo for at least $100.

    Pål Dyvik
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, you're not. You are recycling 97% air, wasting the time of the garbage collectors. Flatten the boxes and do not put the can out until it's _full_!

    Ronstantin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And we're ripping or folding them up instead of overfilling the garbage can!!!

    Helen Bennett
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two things for boxes you really can't bring yourself to get rid of straight away: write the guarantee end date on the box ("keep until date"), flatten the box so it'll store more easily. Then recycle on time.

    Kate Jones
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the equivalent of younger people saving cords. Y'all know you have a bag of usb/phone cords or random cords somewhere in your house, don't even lie, lol. And universally we all have at least a drawer or bag somewhere filled with grocery bags.

    Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We keep boxes because we've been taught that we need them in case of returning the item. I keep personal electronic boxes (phones, smart watches, cameras) because it adds value for when you sell.

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    Barbara Kayton
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bleach has been proven to only lighten disperse mould spores not kill it, and is horrendous for the environment. Where I live, council cleaners are not allowed to use bleach, even if the customer provides it, for health and safety reasons. If you are worried about mould or germs, double-strength (cleaning) vinegar should be used, according to British scientific studies. Mould specific cleaners can be used if it is an established problem.

    Delaney Proctor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just going to point out that she's not using bleach. The clorox bottle in the picture clearly states "Bleach Free"

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    Christopher Southworth
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't clean urinated-on areas with bleach. The ammonia in urine can mix with bleach to create chloramine gas.

    Aleksandra
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    basically no difference if used well, you can use vinegar and lemon juice and still clean well, that lady just really hates her mom (im not judging) and therefore thinks every little thing her mom used to do was the worst thing on earth

    Dawnieangel76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Y'all can pry my cleaning bleach out of my cold, dead hands. That's what we wash our floors with, too.

    S Martinez
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I clean the whole bathroom with soft scrub, afterwards I Lysol it.

    Candice Carey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a psycho, and if I have guests coming I do soft scrub, then Lysol, when a quick wipe of Windex for that sprakle

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    Craig Reynolds
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone is going to learn not to use bleach on stainless and chrome finishes.

    Theresa Olivo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For sure do not use bleach on your fixtures or any stainless steel

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    Cassi Lyris
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, Windex is a surfactant and Clorox is NOT all it's cracked up to be. Frankly you should use a surfactant and then a potent vinegar to sanitize. Bleach might be the smell we associate with "clean", but that's nearly all it is, smelly. And fairly dangerous in stronger concentrations.

    Beachbum
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Windex is vinegar based and thus good for bathroom cleaning

    Sinnsyk Jakte
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...my female progenitor locked me in the bathroom to clean it when I was thirteen. She gave me bleach and ammonia because my brothers had just...wrecked that bathroom. Sooo... Imagine what happened when ignorant li'l ole me hit the porcelain throne with both...

    Naomie Moore
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bleach is for craft projects. Vinegar is what I use. I also have birds, very susceptible to odors, so no chemicals in use at my house.

    Brandon Walker
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Vinegar is a chemical, as is water, as are your birds, as are you

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    DforDory
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree in case the old one is not used or it is not wearable anymore.

    FlatEarf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the thing, used pants and shirts can be donated, if it's still in decent condition

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    Allan Hart
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like my clothes. I keep tshirts for years. I also do buy used clothing.

    Carole G.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have jeans over 20 yrs old, why you ask THEY HAVE REAL POCKETS!

    Deborah THE Band
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Praise the Lord! Real pockets! And.... real Front Pickets!!!! AHHHH! Five pocket, straight-leg Levi's Strauss! Old... but, looking and feeling good!

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    Craig Reynolds
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife's mom won't throw anything away. She will use a green scrubby sponge until it is yellow and worn to the size of a hotel's mini soap bar.

    Naomie Moore
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, I am doing a huge donation this year. I have a bunch of stuff that is fabulous but I no longer have a need so literally two closets of clothes will be donated. Business formal and cocktail dresses and stuff I would wear to a wedding, formal party. My life is much different now. Time for this stuff to go!

    Lea
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try to sell clothes first before donating even for cheap. The majority of donated clothes ends up in landfill. And turn damaged clothing items into rags.

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    K-Dawn Bennett
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mom's apt complex has a "freebie table" where you can put things you don't want or need but still useful. Clothes, appliances, decor, whatever. On Fridays the cleaning staff tosses whatever is left -if anything lol

    Deborah THE Band
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my house.. if I look good in it, it stays!!! WTF?! Thank God young women are so..... Oh, well. Considering the man shortage... and the rate at which (over 45) husband's pass away so much earlier than their wives. . . Thanks, dear!

    Did you hear that?
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband is awful for keeping the stuff I'm trying to replace.

    Khandi Myers
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I'm saving for special days. Everyday is special.

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    Jill Rhodry
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, there was a marketing push through the 70s and 80s as to how bad butter was for you and how much healthier it was to use 'plant oil' margarine.

    Truth Hear it
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Turns out butter is better for you than margarine

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    Duane Ringlein
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My late wife would not have breakfast at a restaurant if they only had margarine, she was a Scot and wanted only butter on her toast, would not even have margarine in the house, said it tasted terrible.

    Linda T
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with your late wife, Duane R. I ❤️ 🧂 🧈 (I love Salted Butter!!!! )

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    Helen Taylor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am an older mother. Always used butter, never margarine.

    2CentSally
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is the inside of the butter container so dirty?!?! So many crumbs and other junk (that's definitely not butter)

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom still espouses her "spreadable margarine". It's always tasted nasty to me. Not sure why. It has a waxy plasticy taste to me and I'd much rather splurge on the butter.

    Tiffi
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahhhhh, butter is the secret to the joy of life. Never skimp on butter.

    Grace Knowlton
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Icydk margarine is one molecule away from being plastic

    Maggie Dinzler Shaw
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Today's plant butter is not like 950s margarine. And of coarse is what vegans can eat.

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    Jodie daubenmire
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Margarine was never intended to be a food item.

    Naomie Moore
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unsalted butter at my home. Want something else? Bring it over.

    Soso
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think I've ever had butter before tbh...always margarine that's available in my house

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    DforDory
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still like going to the store or the market, because when ordering, it's a gamble, so I like to have the choice of which potato or whatever I take home.

    Jj321
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like to do it both ways. Ordering is obviously pretty convenient some times. But, produce is always a disaster. Some substitutions are, well idiotic. Even when I say no substitute or say exactly what I wanted. I also like to see what's for sale. I found a pork butt last week for $4.50, regular price was around $20.

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    Firstname Lastname
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's great and all, but she's wearing sneakers on the bed, and I draw a line there.

    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. Shoes don't even come into the HOUSE, let alone on the BED. Did my mom teach me that? You bet. Do I rebel and refuse to do the same just because it's "what my mom did"? No, that'd be stupid XD

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    Leoninus Fate
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah well, not everyone had 50-500 bucks to pay for a week or so of online groceries, some of us need to use food stamps, and need special stuff that we won't get and instead Sub for each time, Also going for groceries is the only time I'm able to leave the house ever 2 weeks since its hard to move

    Jennifer Aydelott
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With two kids, it saves my sanity. No temper tantrum because I said no to candy, no screaming toddler angry he can’t run through the aisles touching EVERYTHInG while I forgot the whole dang reason I came here. I fill up my cart over days, schedule the pick up when everything I need is on there, drive up and entertain the two kids until I’m loaded up and heading home.

    Hagen Radcliffe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anybody with offspring gets a free pass. Back in the day, I would have killed to have the option of not having to do 7 days worth of serious budget shopping with two little ones along.

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    Maggie O'Neill
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I start ordering groceries depression will win

    Matt Smith
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with ordering groceries online, but also nothing wrong with going to the store to get them either if you can

    Tammy Wait
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Must be nice to be able to just order whatever you like and have it delivered. I need to make sure I get what is on sale and can't afford delivery charges.

    Rob Williams
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd rather pick my own groceries than rely on someone on minimum wage who is getting grief from a manager to get the picking done quickly!

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I ordered groceries once and I'll NEVER do it again. I get alot of fresh produce and I'll not let them give me all the wilted stuff ever again.

    Hazel sanders
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like ordering online, but I tend to notice I go a bit overboard when doing it. Sense I can’t see a cart filling in front of me, I tend to spend a bit more money than I want so it’s just better to go shopping in person. Save the little stuff to be delivered.

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    Kayjunmoon
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe try not to use ‘single use items’ if you don’t like landfill.

    Bob Bobbins
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the point is that her mother used to save single use items and reuse them, which is sometimes gross depending on what it is (like a tissue). She's vowing not to reuse single use items.

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    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How 'bout, "We don't use single use items"? Those mateless socks would've been a fine replacement for this cráppy wipe.

    Craig Reynolds
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now I have a "I refuse to be like my dad" item. I never have and never will use an actual cloth hanky kept in my shirt pocked that I blow snots into for a week. I cannot believe those were a thing way back when!

    Gary Geracci
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then put yer weed in it and smoke it! No chit in da landfill den!

    Jaspe Answers
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg I’ve been spending time at my mom’s house and this drives me nuts. She doesn’t even use them twice, she just leaves them around the house

    Lindilou
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why use single use items???

    Cookie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This lady is very wasteful. She must be American.

    Jude Kay
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use handkerchiefs! You can keep a clean one in your purse, glove compartment, pockets and they're there until you need them. They don't shred. They're much better than wasting tissues, which leads to trash. And much better than SLEEVES!

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    Fxnglhl
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my mom: just change your mindset! it's easy to just be happy!!!

    BoredPandaSucks
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or in my case "You'd better adjust your attitude!"

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    Lakota Wolf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother doesn't believe in mental illness. She says depressed people can "stop feeling bad whenever they want to" and suicidal people "just want attention". Yeah, it's been a rough 40 years.

    OnAFreakingRollercoaster
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is it so hard for ppl to understand mental illness exists??? No we are not making this up for attention ffs

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    Heather Vandegrift
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad: "I work hard every day to make sure you have everything you could ever need! I don't see why you would WANT to be depressed. I have no sympathy." That was at 15 years old after my mom took me to the doctor because she couldn't remember the last time she saw me smile, and I was diagnosed with clinical depression. He's gotten much better, but damn, that scar still hurts sometimes

    Imperial Guard
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom didn't think mental illness was real until I was involuntarily hospitalized

    Ricardo Ferreira
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Have you tried just to be happy?" <--my mom

    Anon E Mouse
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See: Rolling Stones - Mother's Little Helper circa 1966

    Deborah THE Band
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nice bouquet. Lingering intensity. Really f*****g easy to dance to. Nice choice, my dear. ---- But, exceedingly difficult for mom to get today. Old enough to remember Nancy deep-throat (read some Hollywierd autobios!) Reagan? Just say "No." It's so easy. Still looking for the root of all evil?

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    Liam Lowenthal
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is very real. Coming from the '80s, and I can't imagine how bad it was before that, nobody took anything I had seriously. I find out in my 40s that I have undiagnosed, now diagnosed, major depression, severe social anxiety, borderline personality disorder, autism and adhd. And my parents didn't do a goddamn thing for me the entire time. Looking back on my childhood, it was pretty obvious that I had problems.

    Jasna Svast
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am almost sure I have an ADHD but I just can't go to testing. There are several reasons why I can't. One of them is that I wan't to say to my closest about that before test so it doesn't seem that I did it behind their backs but I am not sure they will understand it.

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    Cassi Lyris
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I had a dime for everytime I've heard, "You have to choose to be happy!" I'd be richer than Jeff Bezos...

    AmandaKay
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom was very mentally ill, so was grampa. We also have a family history of astigmatism. If it's a societal norm that some people wear glasses to read then it's perfectly normal to take meds to think.

    Sunny Day
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reading through your posts, I don't think the pills are working.

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    DforDory
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What did she even inspect it for? Just curious.

    Lakota Wolf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If OP's mom is anything like mine, she'd be "suspicious" that OP/her other children are trying to hide stuff by throwing it away. This could be anything from candy wrappers from candy we're not allowed to have, to naughty magazines, to alcohol bottles, etc.

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    Chich
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just read a post today by someone who lost two small but pricey items. Turns out they were accidently knocked into the waste bin.

    Kelsey Soderstrom
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a child of 8 years worth of braces and 6 retainers later I can assure you that 90 percent of parents will dig through trash to save that very specific rainbow retainer. Guaranteed.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Grandma snooped through trash. It was a nightmare. It left you feeling like you're being watched through a microscope. Awful.

    Strings
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    (Thus goes along with throwing broken things away) My ex inlaws used to do this. There were several items that no longer worked, I threw away, and they ended up back on my desk

    Essington porter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Silverware contraband- candy drugs liquor etc Car keys Cell phones Toys If you have very small just started walking toddlers they throw anything away just gotta glance and make surev

    John Nada
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my god! That's like when I go to the dump and my mom will start rummaging for Stuff🤦

    Naomie Moore
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Done my share of going through the garbage because someone lost some jewelry . . . And it wasn't me.

    Allan Hart
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife use to go through my trash. Sh"t you not.

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    Elita One
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One little tear in the rubber and she's throwing it away, does the rest of it not work?

    cpavone91
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually when something like that gets a tear it is best to dispose of it for sanitation reasons because bacteria builds up in the little cracks that gets near impossible to clean out as time goes on, that’s why it’s better to invest in better products and not cheap disposable ones. I don’t agree with half this post this woman is very wasteful and I try to stay zero waste myself but don’t risk contaminating your food

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    Avocado Toast
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um..... you can still use those. One little rip is not going to ruin the whole thing.

    cpavone91
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It actually does, that is now a home for bacteria build up.

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    Vinchenski
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is just wasteful, in my opinion

    ima cat v2
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never heard of reusing I see.

    Liam Lowenthal
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're going back to being a landfill supporter, greeeeat... I don't like you lady. You're terrible for the environment.

    Debby Keir
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, how about recycling - pull off the plastic tops, dispose. Wooden handles? Kindling or chop up into the composter.

    Kate Jones
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our parents kept stuff like this because they couldn't often afford new stuff but also there's was a sense that if it's at all usable you don't buy new. At least in my house, lol.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How bout we don't buy shìtty silicone products to start with, too?

    HyperSwag506
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those are so, so fixable. This hurts me. Take a solder iron and slightly melt the rubber. Fixed.

    Liz Reid
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Use soldering iron on stuff you use on food?🤢

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    cpavone91
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This woman is terrible for the environment but PSA when u have plastic/wood cooking utensils/cutting boards that get a tear/crack like this bacteria will build up in it over time that you won’t be able to clean and you do not want getting into your food, so if this happens it is best to dispose it, from the looks of it she can prob compost the wooden handle at least but either way if your cookware looks like this dump it, it’s not worth contaminating ur food. And that’s why you don’t buy cooking products from the dollar store and you learn how to properly care for the materials you’re cooking with.

    BeepBeepBoopBoop
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    omg thank you. A lot of people are saying that this spatula is perfectly fine, and it's not. Bacteria is serious! I don't want people getting sick because they're keeping things like this. It can get a little wasteful, if this is happening a lot. Spatulas will eventually have to get thrown away for one reason or another. My mom has had some of hers longer than I've been around lol. She keeps them in great condition, but one or two have broken or torn. (one of them by me but I don't think it was completely my fault, at least I like to think that, they are old lol)

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    Lisa
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wash and reuse ziplocks, occasionally I need them. Don’t need to hoard but easy to wash and reuse, I don’t use half wrap

    Heather Vandegrift
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed, not because of hoarding or poverty, but because of how much single use plastic there is in landfills and the ocean!

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    Higgleton
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is she not saying that she doesn't need to reuse these items because she has Tupperware, not that she refuses to reuse them?

    PigSquatch
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's wonderful if you can afford to do it. Some of us can't afford to drive Cadillac's and live in great apartments.

    Megan Cheeky Chook
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They literally sell imitation Tupperware and Pyrex containers at goodwill and Dollar Tree. It is very, very cheap.

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    Ches Yamada
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I have dry salad in a ziploc you bet your butt I'm drying it to reuse it. Or anytjing else that isn't messy. And my aluminum foil is used to cook with, not to store things! Although husband uses it as covers when he's too lazy to get a lid.

    FlatEarf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aluminum foil is a good lid to send others home for left overs on a bowl or something, it's a good lid if you can't find one too, Aluminum foil is pretty good for a lid

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    FABULOUS1
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aluminum foil no. But I noticed people in my house use ziplock bags for the stupidest things and I started washing the lightly used ones.

    Naomie Moore
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have those items in hand but not necessarily for food. Invested in a good set of glass storage pieces. Minimal waste for the landfill from my house.

    Tammy Wait
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use freezer bags to separate meat. But I wrap the meat in saran wrap before I put them in the freezer bags so I can reuse the bag many times.

    LittleMissPanda
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do wash ziplocks, except if I had raw meat in it, then in the bin it goes. But I try not to make too much waste

    Ashi Mari
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah reusing for commodity in a rush is simpler. When you have used the goddamn thing 17 times it's now ridiculous

    troufaki13
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use them for different things, so everything stays!

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    FlatEarf
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh this whole thing must be fake I guess, that's not possible

    Laurie Livingston
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's not possible? The fact that your drawers could be so stuffed you couldn't open them? 😂😅 Want my address??

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    Chich
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now where is the fun in that :P

    Cheese man Steve
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tried cleaning up our junk drawers but my wife doesn't care. Once I clean one up another one pops up. I gave up and now we have like 6 junk drawers.

    Cassi Lyris
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom lives with our family and this is one of the biggest issues I have with her. I go through the drawers every two-six months.

    Deborah THE Band
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Biggest issues?! So. Not abused in a sexual or merely bone-shattering manner? Ever forget you... at brownies, dancing, school(school!) on a regular basis. Mommy never took your money? She didn't forge the signatures that left you father (the sane one!) homeless? Shut it! ... And, the drawers!

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    Gary Geracci
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same Here, and ys FlatEarf it is possible. Plus the self closing works flawlessly!

    Nancy Lynch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You keep cash in that drawer?

    MygrandsonscallmeNia
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is useless. I'm done with this whole thing. Closing it, and moving on.

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    and_a_touch_of_the_’tism
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone else think the tree behind her was her hair sticking out? 😂

    Ba-Na-Na
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally had to take a second look!!!

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    Tammy Kirks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother's car is beyond disgusting. I keep mine as neat as possible and take time to vacuum it and wipe off the dashboard. No black banana peels on my dashboard!

    Scott Crowe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I vacuumed out my mom's car for her one time. The next time she went to pick up her friends they all thought she got a new car.

    FlatEarf
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Internet quick, what's that in her arms?

    Dawnieangel76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My work space at my job is immaculate. A place for everything & everything in its place. My coworkers would be shocked as hell to see my car, or my bedroom. I don't leave food, beverages, dirty dishes, used tissues everywhere, but everything is in piles. Clean clothes in front of my closet door, dirty clothes behind my room door, shoes, books & papers everywhere, etc.

    Mr. B
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally did I was wonder I g it must have been windy lol

    Naomie Moore
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well mine needs to be done more often. I transport dogs in my car - so if one is allergic, done drive with me. I have leather seats and they are covered with pretty blankets I bought in Mexico in a vacay. They get washed weekly but the floor of the car could use help more often. Hey, I don't claim to be perfect, cause I know I am not in many ways.

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    Do Not
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with have emergency food. In fact, it's recommended.

    BlackestDawn
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's more about the amount you "store" for emergencies, and possibly also your routine for rotating it. Depending on what it is you don't want to see that it expired several years ago when in an emergency. Also when people say apocalypse levels of food storage I think several month, even possibly a year or two, while emergency levels is probably a week or two depending on where you live.

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    DforDory
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the current financial situation (Hungary) I do stock up on things that can be held for longer, because of inflation, first of all,second, because there is a freaking war going on in the neighboring country, so I do not agree with this one.

    LK
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my family had Covid, I was extremely grateful to have a month's supply of food in the house. It meant we didn't even have to think about leaving the house. A lovely neighbour brought us some fresh items.

    Stay Off My Lawn
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree because when Katrina hit and we didn’t have power and water for a couple of weeks everyone dug into my emergency supplies. Stock up on non-perishables, batteries, and bottled water in case of emergencies. Side note: I’ve been surviving the current cost-of-living crisis so far because I stocked up while everything was affordable. So yeah, go ahead and hoard necessities, but do it a little at a time instead of all at once like those a******s who bought up all the toilet paper and cleaning supplies at the start of covid.

    Spocks's Mom
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Says the woman with 30 packs of napkins.

    Kim Chi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hilarious 😂 Good eye to point that out

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    Hollyann Hughley
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good thing she has enough napkins in there for the apocalypse.

    BoredPandaSucks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i don't think i have ever used that many napkins in my lifetime.

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    The Veil of Fire
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Didn't we just have an apocalypse called a pandemic where having a good stocked supplies came to be very handy? I know I didn't have to panic buy toiletries or food. Plus, should have a good supply for emergency weather situations. Things are a changing.

    Jj321
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, I stock up on regularly used non-perishables. When I was pregnant with my 3 year old, I would spend $20-50 a week on extras to stock up and help out during my maternity leave. Covid hit right when I was supposed to return to work. Those 7-8 extra bulk packs of toilet paper were a life saver. It was hard to go to the store, with 3 kids and I am high risk. When I did, they never had it. We were on our last pack when I finally found the brand I use.

    SageHare37
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm in agreement with emergency food storage in the home. My old neighborhood valley (rural, but like 20 minutes from town *not wilderness*) was snowed/iced/blocked road in for 3 days and without power for 7 days in 2020. All homes are well water, so no power means no running water. Due to this being extremely abnormal for the area, most homes didn't have generators. Enough neighbors had resources to share that people were pulling sleds on snowshoes or cross country skis, assisting houses. Food supply is a good plan as long as you cycle through it before it expires so none goes to waste.

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    Lakota Wolf
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wear a wallet chain! I never lose my wallet because it's clipped to my pants! Though I do have to remember to switch it to whichever pair of pants/shorts I'm wearing that day from the previous day's pants XD

    Anxious&Bored Bear
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a wallet chain, too! I got such weird looks when I requested one for Christmas, but it's so convenient.

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    Allan Hart
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where else would you keep such items? ID in the night stand? Keys in the dishwasher? Debit card in the medicine cabinet?

    Dodo
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Example from my own mother: card is in her phone case which she takes out of her bag at home. Car keys are hanging up next to the door.

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    Nogard
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is this junk? Whole collection I was like "this is gonna be interesting" and after every pic i was like "ugh... What?"

    Tim Sireno
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this goes to one of the problems my parents (& other people I've known over the years), who casually (and forgetfully) just drop their keys and stuff off on a counter or where ever they stop once they got inside the house. As a kid, after getting accused by both of my parents for 'stealing' their missing keys/wallet while they were trashing the entire house looking for their missing keys/wallets. So I developed the good habit of always placing my keys/wallet & other such important items in the SAME PLACE each time I got home as I emptied my pockets. Like onto my dresser. At one apartment I used lived in, I chose an open space that I had dedicated for this purpose, on a small desk/bookcase at the top of the stairs which lead to my bedroom and very rarely (like needing to respond to an emergency just as I got home, Ie - wife cutting her hand or a pet getting hurt) have I misplaced my keys or wallet.

    Pamela Blue
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I have my purse, I have my life.

    Erin Eubanks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Curious where her mom kept all those things

    RedRose
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You also have all of them in on convenient location to be stolen in on swoop.

    MygrandsonscallmeNia
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Am I wrong, or do most women do that? I'm 58, and it's what I've always done. Keys, there's a hook on the wall by the door we put keys on. One car, 3 adults in the house. I don't want everyone scrounging through my purse to get keys. Purses, and wallets have been around for years, for this purpose. Some wallets, even match the purse! How did her mom do it, to not need them? I've rarely,ever held on to stuff that's broken. Unless, I know it can be fixed, and I'm out of super glue.

    Gary Geracci
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me Too! I don't use a Murse either! It's called a Purse! We had them before women did, Check your history on the term "Cutpurse"

    Key Lime
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always kept a well stocked diaper bag and first aid kit in the trunk of my car so I was always ready. My husband would routinely take them out of my car because to him it was messy to leave anything in the car.

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    Diego,Laura
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you! I hate that people still won't carry something to drink with them . Don't leave home without it.

    Strega Nonna
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of us live in the desert southwest where the heat can be unrelenting. Even the most insulated of reusable water containers don't keep cold drinks cold, or even cool.

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    Heather Vandegrift
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a former Starbucks barista, THANK YOU! I don't mind giving people water inside. I don't mind giving it to them in the drive thru if they have ORDERED something. But drive thrus are expected to meet specific measurements for speed and profitability. You going through the drive thru and just ordering water wastes my tone, the time of everyone behind you, and messes up the metrics my site is graded on by corporate! DON'T DO IT

    LuLuBelle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who goes through the drive-thru and bums water? That's just embarrassing.

    Katie Welch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People go through the drive thru for free water?

    Tammy Kirks
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I'm actually going to clean mine often so it's not gross and covered in old lipstick.

    Martin Brule Jr.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    not going through a drive-thru just for water, cringe

    Diane Kelson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never met anyone who asked for free water in the drive thru.

    Adam L
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then you've never worked in a drive thru lol

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    Gary Geracci
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always have a bottle of water in the console.

    Gary Geracci
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember though: even Bottled water expires.Then it starts leaching the plastic. Have you ever tasted water that has been stored to long?

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    Debbie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nonono, you'd never get a word in otherwise if I'm on a roll.... please, interrupt me, get the dialogue going, have an active talk. (But yes, do know when to shut up and not interrupt.)

    Jude Kay
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Listen to understand, NOT to speak!"

    Laurie Livingston
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jeez! I am sooo bad about this-- and I can't seem to help myself😶

    careless camel
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wish this was a thing in my house fr

    Linda T
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll try tomorrow. I've already interrupted everyone today.

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    ADHORTATOR
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell this to my wife.... she is a teacher and I guess this comes from her job....

    Gary Geracci
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought that was plain Courtesy?

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