Women Are Sharing The Worst Things They’ve Seen In Guys’ Apartments That Instantly Set Off ‘Red Flags’ For Them (30 Answers)

I challenge that. I am those, good cook, have my ish together, well decorated place (by me) and perpetually single. Now, just ignore my post on the PJs article where I mention that I work from home and will wear the same clothes for 5 days straight if I don't go out.

Every girl wants the bare minimum/s

Mine says she gets wet when she catches me washing all the sippy cups in her sink or vacuuming. She doesn't even mind that I'm gay!

Oh yeah. That's the truth. A guy who cleans up after himself is definitely a catch

Yeah, then write them off as not worth it as guys like us walk 15 miles in the snow to bring food as players all make fun and talk about the woman like a piece of meat with her friends and us while the woman's not around as she knows it's all not worth chasing but does anyway. Nice guys finish last is true cause y'all make it true then cry about it,

Are we absolutely SURE he's neither gay nor a serial killer? 😘

I can top that. I can and will cook. I'm trained as a chef even. My kitchen is by far the most clean area in the house. I got kitchen rules, you might find weird even, for the one cooking. Yes that includes myself. 1) Wash your hands coming from outside & before cooking (2x hp birthday) 2) If the kitchen is a little bit less clean then it should be. Clean it before cooking. 3. Clean kitchen after cooking! It's okay to clean after dinner. 4. New fresh and clean kitchen towels, sponges and such everyday. Yes everyday. Those gross used sponges and towels are filled with bacteria after one day. Moist, temperature and small leftovers of food are the perfect breeding ground for bacteria. If I'm cooking dinner I might send you out of my kitchen if your in the way. Even if it's your own kitchen, because I'm cooking. Yes I might leave a sock laying around the bed or an boxershort. I admit I need help with that. But my kitchen is spotless! So is my bathroom btw.

Aim higher. Find someone who knows how to put it away when he finishes hoovering.

You speak lies! No way women fantasize this.... or do they? And where might they be found??Asking for a friend...Hah 😉

To be fair that's like..the default haha, unless a guys an absolute slob. Anyone who doesn't vacuum or have soap is a barbarian haha.

Yep, having one right now.

So do men

What kinds of chickens?

Same here and mine does the dishes after dinner when I cook! 😍 #keeper

I had to break into mine and my husband's bedroom our first valentines day as a married couple. I got everything all set up, lit the candles, had music on, even had rose petals scattered across the bed... and then somehow I managed to lock the bedroom door on my way out. We spent our first valentines day married taking the door off the hinges to get back into the bedroom. We had to replace the door handles on the bedroom and master bathroom because they were sticking and if you closed the door, about half the time, it'd be locked. So I've changed the door handles about every 5 years at this point, so I don't have to keep breaking into the bedroom because we accidentally lock the door. There's definite scrape marks on the door jamb from me getting a screwdriver underneath the hinge-plate. Guess I'll have to repaint everything if we ever sell!

My kids break our locks. Particularly my one daughter who gets ... over enthusiastic about spending time with mommy while she's pooping. But we have a really old house, and there are no locks on any of the inside doors. The bathroom lock is a hook, and pops out easily.

If it is a rental, it could be signs of DV of previous renters, though. How sad the new renter has to be made to pay for the poor choices of another.

Or troublesome teens…. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️??

What if you are renting and that damage was there when you moved into the place? My front door has been broken into and shows damage but not from me.

:O

Not really, harvesting organs was my first thought 😆

Very 🤣

But it's so funny and potentially true!

Or you're Fran Fine's mother

Fr tho.

thank you for saying that. i was going to but anxiety.

😱

Incorrect, they were actually part of the mafia and occasionally the dad couldn't contain himself, he's blow his wad and wack someone right in the lr.

Uh, that was me.

Honestly, I read it the same way too. Lol.

Would that be a red flag or...?

unless someone is a hindu and they have it in the traditional indian way with 2 dots by each of the arms, and not at an angle but flat bottom. Then its ok

At this point trying to justify it with nonsense about how it was about not wanting to be told what to do or whatever, or that your family fought for the South, it's just as bad. If I had an uncle that did weird things with livestock I wouldn't announce it with a banner on the back of my jacked up pickup..

It's Definitely anti-USA. The South literally fought to KEEP slavery going.

The Swastika was appropriated by the Nazis . It symbolises the Sun and Victory to truly Aryan cultures. What if you're dating an Indian man with a Swastika tattoo?

Yes, it is a red flag considering the usual age of people who are "dating"; it's too hard to separate from its recent use in the resistance to liberty. And I never could understand the tolerance for insurrectionists. Why did the U.S. EVER let schools, airports, erect statues and even name military bases be named after people who fought to destroy the U.S.? Stonewall Jackson was purely a villain (Lee is a more complex case). The notion that the South fought for states' rights is pure invention; they sought the opposite: to force Northern states to do their dirty work in recapturing slaves, to force territories to legalize slavery as a requirement for admission, etc. BUT I do object to "on par with the swaztika." (I'm sure what's meant is the reverse, c**k-eyed one used solely by Nazis.) This is not the flag of the confederacy, nor is it a battle flag. It is a symbol of Dixie, one that was used to represent resistance of Dixie to the Union, for sure, but the only one recognizable.

might be worse cause the swastiksa was a symbol of peace in some cultures

Growing up my dad was a nazi skinhead POS. He graduated to pedophile (go figure). And I will say the rebel flag is nowhere near par to a swastika, sure it's full of hate. But the people that fly it for the most part are dumbass trailer park rednecks. But these skinhead nazis, they're organized, focused, single lane driven individuals. They ha e a purpose, to maintain the white race, especially blue eyed blonde haired blood lines. You can be a south Korean redneck with a rebel flag in your yard and your neighbor would just be glad you had the same mindset. I know, my neighbors are this way. But nazi's, you're having an ancestry check to make sure your family comes from an all white lineage. With rebel flaggots they mostly hate because of political ideology. Nazis hate you because your a scientifically "impure" being.

Except almost more frustrating, because a swastika is blatant, no one tries to hedge it or argue justifications, it's very straightforward, and you know that they're a scumbag Nazi. But confederate flag? Nothing but revisionism, pseudohistorical excuses and trying to pretend it isn't blatant. Ohh it just represents freedom, or rebellion, oh well actually the war wasn't about slavery, oh i love murica!.. by waving a flag of traitors who murdered their countrymen over the right to own blacks.. They represent the same exact sentiments of hate & white nationalism but dumb people go to flat earther levels of nonsense to defend the confederacy haha.

And the hammer and sickle. Yet you still see so many people wear those shirts, ignorant of the evil perpetuated by it.

What if it's on the general Lee?

The symbol of yet another party of absolute losers, try as they might they just keep getting embarrassed. Give it up, here’s a flag for y’all: the white flag!

Actually pagans used the swastika a protection against evil. The nazis stole it and made it a sign of evil the opposite of what it was originally. What I don’t get are why they're so proud of being lovers not once 1865 but twice 1945. Hell 3 times 2020.

But what about on the general Lee?

The thing with this is that the Nazi swastika has specific setting and background. All others should be taken as it could be one the original meanings of the symbol.