30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves

Rachelle 10 months ago

I use SM to essentially have a presence because it's just something my industry does - but I post maybe 2-3 times a year. When I see folks I know posting 5-7+ times I day I honestly feel sorry for them because clearly they aren't receiving the attention and validation they feel they need in real life.

3points

wellenDowd 10 months ago

That's nearly all women today. This is why they always have that phone in their face every chance they get.

-1point

#2

Woman in a green apron smiling and conversing with another woman in a peaceful, plant-filled cafe setting. We were out for dinner, and she mistreated the waitress. My date was this beam of warmth and kindness to me, and a vessel of cold cruelty to the girl.
She treated her like a slave-servant, made everything difficult and painful for the waitress, who quickly stopped smiling.
I can’t be with people who can’t show respect.
So I told her I was going to pee, paid the bill, personally apologized to the waitress and let her tell the date to lose my number after I left

shven , Ketut Subiyanto Report

Final score:

41points

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StrangeOne 10 months ago

They both suck. What a crappy position to put the waitress in.

52points

Chura 10 months ago

If you follow the link under the snippet, people saying they are servers said they would relish the opportunity to deliver this news.

17points

Romy Rösli 10 months ago

Should have called the date out himself.

13points

Earonn - 10 months ago

So, he said nothing while she did it, ran away and left it to the poor waitress to enrage an abusive PoS even more? Great guy! /s

5points

Wang Zhuang 10 months ago

Very cowardly of the poster

5points

Mrs Irish Mom 10 months ago

Poor waitress, happy the dude walked/ran away from her...

5points

Dog Mom to Zoe 10 months ago

After his date disrespected the waitress, he then leaves and has the waitress tell the date that he left. THAT was cold. He should have done it himself. Man up.

12points

Cee Grant 10 months ago

You should have told your date what was on your mind. Leaving like that was flamboyant and made you feel good, but you copped out when it came to improving the world by giving her some harsh feedback.

3points

Jaya 10 months ago

Agreed. It would be good if she at least received the critique (even if she might not be open to it yet), because now she might not realize that he left because of how she treated the waitress, she might just assume that he thought she wasn't pretty enough or interesting enough.

2points

Paul C. 10 months ago

I used to play semi-pro football with a couple of guys, one was a solicitor the other the owner of an estate agents. We would often go for a curry after evening games and the way they spoke to staff made me cringe, using generic names, like "Oi! Imran over here". I always apologised in private, as I wanted my food, without added extras!

2points

Jaya 10 months ago

I do hope he didn't TELL the waitress to do it, but that he OFFERED the waitress that she was allowed todo it if she wanted and that otherwise he would do it himself. Because she might love it (because it might be a nice bit of revenge for her) but she just as likely might hate to have to do that.

-1point

michael_brooks_44 , Gabriel Ponton Report

#3

Man and woman sitting at a table, engaged in a serious conversation, relating to moments of rejection. She didn't want kids. I respect that. Keep it moving.

Final score:

39points

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Dog Mom to Zoe 10 months ago

I respect that he didn't stay thinking she'd change her mind. Kudos to him.

53points

Romy Rösli 10 months ago

Years ago I matched with a man on a dating app and we started chatting. I asked him about kids and he answered he absolutely wanted a family with kids. I told him I didn’t and therefore it wouldn’t make sense to get to know each other. He didn’t agree and said every woman would eventually want to have kids.🤦🏻‍♀️

12points

Lila Allen 10 months ago

Right?!?! I mean this is what we are talking about. She said no kids. He said not for me and moved on. This is how it's supposed to be.

6points

Jonas Fisher 10 months ago

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Occam Shave 10 months ago

Respect it some more! Don't just pretend to respect it!

0points

jonatanbackelie , Eduardo Simões Neto Junior Report

#4

A man and woman sharing a coffee and conversation at a cafe, highlighting moments of rejection. I want 3 things in a partner (ideally in equal measure):
- intellectual connection
- emotional connection
- physical connection
If one or more is lacking, then it’s just not for me. You can be a perfectly good person. But being a good person is not the same as being the right person for me.

Final score:

35points

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Data1001 10 months ago

What's up with the other comments here? Like wanting those things is unreasonable?

33points

Nota Robot 10 months ago

I know, right? Makes me feel kinda sad for those that post the negative comments.

9points

Ace Premium 10 months ago

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Earonn - 10 months ago

That's a great attitude! And also: we can be a wonderful person and still not the right one for the person we fancy.

7points

Sara Shamsabadi 10 months ago

I like how this is broken down

2points

Donna Peluda 10 months ago

Economical equality.

-1point

StrangeOne 10 months ago (edited)

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iseefractals 10 months ago

Someone i can talk to, someone i love that loves me, with whom i am sexually compatible. That's not a list, that's the bare minimum for a successful long term relationship. Really, explain which one of those things can be overlooked long term, is it having a partner you can't talk to/have nothing in common with, a partner that you feel nothing for (or feels nothing for you) or a relationship devoid of s*x?

12points

Mrs Irish Mom 10 months ago

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#5

Woman outdoors with smoke obscuring her face, mountains in the background. She smoked. That was an instant hard pass.

hippygriffi , Megan Forbes Report

Final score:

35points

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KrazyChiMama 10 months ago

Putrid stench!

11points

Sara Shamsabadi 10 months ago

I don't care who the person is I'm sorry, if they're a smoker there's no way I can spend any time close to them, regardless of the relationship.

5points

KrazyChiMama 10 months ago

Don’t blame you for that! Putty

3points

John Makie 10 months ago

Smoking women? Vote, drink, drive, be successful, leave the virginia slims Back at the trailer

1point

keyboardtek 10 months ago

Who likes kissing an ashtray?

1point

K Barnes 10 months ago

One of my friends finally quit smoking after 25 years. I was so proud of her. She gained 10lbs that year so she started again... sigh. The 10lbs are better than half a pack a day, IMO.

1point

George Costanza 10 months ago

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#6

Man sitting alone facing the sea, wearing a striped sweater, reflecting on personal rejection moments. I just like being alone.

smokinoutpourinup , Pixabay Report

Final score:

34points

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StrangeOne 10 months ago

That's fair.

19points

Nina 10 months ago

So they would reject every woman, not just a specific one as asked

2points

Irving Euson 10 months ago

I like my alone time but i still need a women freind to be with sometime or to live with.

0points

#7

Family walking through a forest, holding hands with a child swinging between them, enjoying nature together. I recently rejected a girl who was really into me who does have some qualities I look for, we just don't align morally or the way we would parent. So I decided that I think we would be better as just friends.

john_hash_87 , Caleb Oquendo Report

Final score:

33points

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StrangeOne 10 months ago

Smart that they had that conversation early on.

20points

K Barnes 10 months ago

Some couples don't even have this discussion before marriage or kids.

1point

BeKind&Rewind 10 months ago

I WISH I'd had that convo with my ex husband 32 years ago!

2points

Hidalgo 10 months ago

‘Don’t align morally’ usually means man is hunting for a trad wife

-1point

#8

Woman in a pink blouse and yellow skirt speaking confidently in a classroom setting. A girl I've known for a long time asked me out. Said 'no' right away because she's known to talk about other girls all the time like she always has something bad to say about every girl. I thought if you have something bad to say about everyone, there must be something wrong with you girl. So no. Don't want to date girls who have too many problems or complain too much about other people.

ethann0913 , RDNE Stock project Report

Final score:

33points

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Romy Rösli 10 months ago

Wise decision. If everyone around you is bad maybe you’re the problem.

19points

pharociousart , Nataliya Vaitkevich Report

#9

Sandwich on car dashboard with scattered papers, illustrating a moment shared by men about rejection. Car full to the brim with trash.

Final score:

32points

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Mrs Irish Mom 10 months ago

Nasty, wonder what the house looked like if the car was that bad..

15points

Dog Mom to Zoe 10 months ago

I worked with a guy that his car was nasty and yes, his home was just as bad.

4points

Zaach 10 months ago

Was she homeless?

0points

badbunnybambam , Hrant Khachatryan Report

#10

Close-up of a hand removing a ring, symbolizing rejection in relationships. She had a husband and thought I wouldn’t find out

Final score:

31points

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Ravenkbh 10 months ago

You didn't wonder who the other guy in bed was?

17points

Jaya 10 months ago

Lol. I like the idea of someone being so naieve in thinking they won't find out that they're gonna have s*x with him literally in the same bed. That really cracks me up.

0points

#11

Woman in a dark blazer standing with arms crossed, representing moments of rejection. She was just plain mean.

thervpshow , Maksim Goncharenok Report

Final score:

29points

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michael Chock 10 months ago

One date spent over an hour trying to convince me that because I was a cis white male, I was blind to discrimination and privilege. They kept sending me links to "educate" myself, even after I told them that I had been a counselor for inner city youths, wrote a book on positive change, been fired for defending women's rights, beaten for defending LGTBQ rights, isolated in my Caucasian Christian childhood community for standing to power and I now work with disabled people. I get you have damage, sorry my race/gender is a trigger for you. Hate dating makes you the bad person.

23points

#12

Woman in dim lighting holding a drink, appearing thoughtful. She peed her pants on our first date because she got too drunk… it’s a long story

quintez89_dw , MART PRODUCTION Report

Final score:

27points

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Ravenkbh 10 months ago

I'd consider that a bonus!

0points

René Sauer 10 months ago

You have a kink for p*ss?

-2points

Cee Grant 10 months ago

You didn't try to slow her down? That's not kind.

-2points

Rizzo 10 months ago

It was the first date. She was exited. Things happen. To me that would not necessarily be the end.

-2points

Paulina 10 months ago

Um, they said she got too drunk? I don't think it's showing "excitement", that you can't control your drinking to the point of being heavily physically impaired by intoxication... It rather points to possible alcohol problems.

6points

Nice Beast Ludo 10 months ago

Was her name Amanda? T

-3points

boilerdroone666 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

#13

Woman enjoying a meal outdoors, smiling contentedly under a patio umbrella. Chewing too loudly and making noise while eating.
She had zero interest in me and was all about her in dialogue.
She had zero interests or hobbies.

Final score:

27points

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Panda McPandaface 10 months ago

Noisy eaters make feel a little sick and put me right off my own food.

10points

StrangeOne 10 months ago (edited)

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Nathan Lewis 10 months ago

where does it say that? you sound bitter from all these comments.

15points

#14

A woman in glasses stands in front of a chalkboard, holding a tablet, with sticky notes around her. Lack of intellect.

cari.dot , Tima Miroshnichenko Report

Final score:

25points

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Luke Branwen 10 months ago

Intellectual / booky / nerdy girls are very much my preference as well. And by coincidence, the one at the photo is, like, exactly my type.

5points

Verfin22 Premium 10 months ago

Not a lot of context here. Is she uneducated or just not know what you know? I find it easier to be with a partner who wants to learn their knowledge and vice versa.

2points

Joe Bloe 10 months ago

You can look what intellect mean before judging : "the faculty of reasoning and understanding objectively, especially with regard to abstract or academic matters." It's not related to education or common sense.

0points

Rachelle 10 months ago (edited)

Intellect doesn't automatically equal intellectualism - some of the smartest people I know are also the least formally educated, while some of the most educated are lacking in common sense and rationale (as well as being up their own a$$ about it). I think that a lot of people are stuck in a cycle of gathering their knowledge from social media and legacy media - true knowledge is gained by exploring the alternatives, doing your own research and having constructive conversations... things that most people simply don't prioritize.

0points

Apachebathmat 10 months ago

I find this a bit shallow, my husband has a masters degree, I have next to no qualifications at all but we are golden together, we match perfectly

-3points

Hidalgo 10 months ago

Get your point and agree, but maybe it’s not about education? Maybe it’s more about lack of curiosity

11points

The Nessie 10 months ago

Luckily, education and intelligence are not the same thing. You are probably smarter than you give yourself credit for.

5points

iseefractals 10 months ago

Shallow would be rejecting someone because they didn't attend the "correct" university or can't fill out a bra. Lacking a degree doesn't mean you lack intelligence and having that degree doesn't guarantee you possess intelligence.

2points

Lady Eowyn 10 months ago

Formal schooling doesn't always equate with intelligence.

1point

#15

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves Caught her in too many lies.

luisde7411 , Toa Heftiba Report

Final score:

23points

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#16

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves She was talking about having a second bf.

potentflute , Devin Nelson Report

Final score:

23points

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Romy Rösli 10 months ago

Omg.

7points

M HOmero 10 months ago

No problem, just let her know one of them won’t be you.

4points

John Makie 10 months ago

A good woman deserves mutiple partners. One for each of her personalties.

0points

CatD 9 months ago

If you're poly, go for it.

0points

count_swaggula95 , RDNE Stock project Report

#17

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves Didn’t have the same wants in life.

Final score:

21points

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nm (he/him) 10 months ago

A pair with different targets in life has no future.

5points

#18

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves She was arrogant, ill willed and immature

clyde_le_cyanide , Frank Flores Report

Final score:

21points

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#19

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves She was a gold digger

860_born , Alexander Grey Report

Final score:

21points

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Igor914624 10 months ago

I went on a few first dates that showed me they were only interested in my income. I want a woman to date me, not my wallet.

4points

S. K. 10 months ago

...so don't tell them your income then...

2points

Ravenkbh 10 months ago

Ok I'll sleep with you for that much money. But one of us has to wear a bag over their head.

-3points

#20

Woman applying deodorant while wearing a pink top and jeans, in a casual setting. Hygiene is the most reason, it takes less than $5 dollars to smell good

gil_aif , Oleg Ivanov Report

Final score:

20points

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Broccoli 10 months ago

You don’t have to smell good, but don’t smell like you bath in a swamp every day. In h**h school, I knew somebody who smelled like that. We were trying to figure out whether we should tell them or not

13points

Howl's sleeping castle 10 months ago

Why is h.i.g.h banned?

6points

StrangeOne 10 months ago

I've heard some medical conditions can cause bad body odours.

6points

Paulina 10 months ago

That's actually pretty common problem with teenagers :) Hormones go wild, body changes rapidly and in many kids one of the symptoms is excessive body odor. Especially since before adolescence, everyday sweat has no significant smell. It's not the same issue as with adults that lack hygiene. Nevertheless, both can be mitigated by some changes in hygiene, diet and a stick of good deodorant 😁

4points

nm (he/him) 10 months ago

Many years ago, in the company I was working, we hired a girl that had been born in Haiti and her mother had been remarried with someone in my country. Beautiful, well dressed, but her smell was bad. The other girls approached her with tact to discuss the problem. She replied that she was bathing every day and using deodorant, but in vain. She resigned after some time. We assumed but not sure that her Haitian diet caused the problem.

0points

Paulina 10 months ago

There's many issues and illnesses that can cause those symptoms, diet is just one of them. I feel sorry for this girl and I'm hoping she found help and accepting environment! She must've felt horrible knowing that everyone notices and most likely judges her, yet she can't do anything about it 😞

4points

#21

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves Arrogance and narcissism.

misoginul101 , kevin laminto Report

Final score:

19points

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Ravenkbh 10 months ago

God Your so selfish! This is all about me!!!

4points

keyboardtek 10 months ago

Anyone in the entertainment industry requires constant attention, whether they are actors, musicians, or vocalists.

0points

#22

Man rejecting woman in conversation, wearing casual outfits, surrounded by plants, illustrating relationship dynamics. There have been multiple occasions that I’ve rejected women interested in me when my sole interest in them was sexual.

ever_it_laissez , Antoni Shkraba Report

Final score:

18points

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Rachelle 10 months ago

It's all about clear and honest communication - if all you're looking for are one night stands, I really hope OP made that known from the get-go.

4points

Nina 10 months ago

🎶 Oohooh, all about chemistry🎶

0points

#23

Two men resting together peacefully, symbolizing comfort and support in a bedroom setting. Because I'm gay

redgell79 , Kampus Production Report

Final score:

16points

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Nina 10 months ago

Why would you date a woman in the first place? None would be their type anyway

6points

Panda McPandaface 10 months ago

Well durr.

4points

Binky Melnik 10 months ago

Post says NOTHING about dating women. The article is why a man rejected a woman. Being gay is a valid reason to reject one!

2points

Tropical Tarot 10 months ago

Pressure from family especially in a Conservative Christian household.

2points

Jaya 10 months ago

The post isn't about "Why did you break up with a woman?" but "Why did you reject a woman?". And if someone asks you out and you say no, that's rejecting, so it falls perfectly under it.

1point

Na Schi Premium 10 months ago

Sounds legit.

5points

MentallyUnstable27 10 months ago

ha love this one

1point

GlitterPanda 10 months ago

That is a very legitimate reason!

0points

#24

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves Because I was with and generally committed to someone else

caaronmd , Hrant Khachatryan Report

Final score:

15points

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CatD 9 months ago

"Generally"?

0points

#25

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves She lied. She told me she was a Junior in college. That was true. She neglected to mention that she started early and just turned 18. I was 21. It already felt off and that nailed it. We stayed friends. So, that was nice.

kelldan1968 , Jordan González Report

Final score:

15points

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Papa 10 months ago

So a three year age gap was too much for him?

9points

Paulina 10 months ago

The lie was.

8points

Sarah 10 months ago

I think he was more concerned that she had ‘teen’ in her age

5points

Lila Allen 10 months ago

18 is very different from 21. Just like 21 is very different from 25. Different life stages and experience. Plus barely legal is not a great look for a 21 year old

3points

Occam Shave 10 months ago

Really??!!??!??? How is that important? So important you made it a must-need to blab early?

0points

#26

Couple standing together on a city street, sharing a moment near a building with "The Peninsula" sign in the background. My best friend was in love with her

tties.nipx , Dante Muñoz Report

Final score:

14points

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StrangeOne 10 months ago

Was she?

6points

Data1001 10 months ago

Sometimes that doesn't matter, if the "bro code" is strong enough between good friends. It's like, "If my buddy has a thing for her, even if it is never reciprocated, I'm not going to make him feel bad by dating her."

7points

Paulina 10 months ago

Always a tricky situation

2points

#27

Man in striped shirt and glasses looks in a lit mirror, reflecting on personal moments of rejection. I don’t love myself so how am I gonna love you

10gen10000 , Lucas Pezeta Report

Final score:

13points

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Doctor Strange 10 months ago

This is an important read, I share this every time its appropriate. No, you Don't need to 'love yourself first." https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-fitness/201001/you-dont-need-love-yourself-first

15points

Paulina 10 months ago

Yes! Thank you for this comment and link!! I hate that saying and think it does more harm than good...

3points

Sarah Bailey 10 months ago

This is a valid reason to express if you are having self reflection time. Sometimes we need to just be with ourselves.

1point

Romy Rösli 10 months ago

That’s really sad. Hope he’s going to get help.

1point

Nobody Special 10 months ago

Sometimes you have to love someone else before you realize you're worthy of loving yourself too.

0points

#28

Woman with arm tattoos, wearing a black top and camouflage pants. I tried to hook my friend one time with this guy she thought was hot. His response was “you have no tattoos I’m okay”

monroeforthebanks , Sakie Bustos Report

Final score:

12points

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KrazyChiMama 10 months ago

We are attracted to what attracts us…at least he was honest from the start. I can respect that actually.

19points

nm (he/him) 10 months ago

I agree.

1point

keyboardtek 10 months ago

I prefer women with no tattoos. Why spoil natural beauty?

0points

John Makie 10 months ago

Tats are in the DSM, 9 and 10, pass

-1point

theautistichomie , Kaboompics.com Report

#29

Woman in kitchen wearing a lime green shirt and beige apron, standing next to a mixer. My brother said he rejected a woman because she was loud and overweight

crystyle98 , SHVETS production Report

Final score:

11points

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#30

Smiling woman in a pink hoodie, looking to the side, against a plain background. In middle school a girl asked me out, I said no because I wamted to wait till high school, and then she said her friends dared her to anyhow, so in a sense, didn't fall for the bs.

Final score:

11points

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Paulina 10 months ago

She might've also said that in a misguided teenage attempt to "save face" after being rejected.

11points

tori Ohno 10 months ago

The "dare" excuse was a lie. She was embarrassed, so she was trying to save face.

4points

nm (he/him) 10 months ago

Quite frequently the female friends of a girl/woman are her worst enemies.

0points

#31

Physical appearance

venuseta Report

Final score:

11points

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KrazyChiMama 10 months ago

Looks fade with age…I hate to tell you this but that applies to both men and women…if you’re this shallow the world is going to be a lonely place for you one day…

-1point

Panda McPandaface 10 months ago (edited)

No-one goes out looking for the ugliest person they can find. Most end up with somebody that is nowhere near what they thought was their type - maybe even on the ugly side, but nobody actively hunts out ugly. Right or wrong, that's just the way it is.

1point

fabio_bandz , Ekaterina Klimentovich Report

#32

Woman in sunglasses holding a croissant, seated in a car, looking thoughtful. I remember one girl asked me for my number in the mall and she was gorgeous, she was well dressed and I had seen she was driving an expensive car. told her I’m not the guy she’s looking for. I couldn’t match her finances or anything, Just felt wrong to waste her time. this can happen ladies. Real Men will not stay if we believe you’re too much, It’s possible to be “too good” and honest men will flee. I only date in my lane, don’t wanna get cheated on with a rich type. Or hold someone back.

Final score:

10points

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Mrs Irish Mom 10 months ago

Maybe she had her own money and didn't need to date/cheat with a rich type of man, she could be just looking for love and not what you can buy her..

34points

Panda McPandaface 10 months ago

Maybe...

1point

StrangeOne 10 months ago

Good GAWD. What TF is up with the "Real Men" remark? In capitals, as if it's some sort of title. He's dripping with insecurity, and insinuating women should hold themselves back so a man can be the breadwinner. Gross. He's right, though, on one thing, he would not be the guy she wants.

20points

tori Ohno 10 months ago

Yeah, he's a real winner huh? Sarcasm intended.

2points

Tamra 10 months ago

A "real man" wouldn't be intimidated by a woman's independence or success.

15points

John Makie 10 months ago

Cool, know any?

0points

KrazyChiMama 10 months ago

I disagree with this one big time…real men don’t need capital letters and have confidence in themselves. Women don’t always need a man to take care of them or match their finances. Some are just looking for genuine soul connection and would gladly take care of themselves and possibly even you if you’re not hung up on being “a Real Man”.

12points

Data1001 10 months ago

The "real men" comment really soured this one for me.

9points

Child of the Stars 10 months ago

I agree. It's a red flag.

8points

Romy Rösli 10 months ago

Maybe she didn’t care too much about money? Maybe she appreciates a kind man more than a rich man?

7points

tori Ohno 10 months ago

Sounds like you're threatened by women who earn more than you, or think you'll lose a woman to a richer man because "women only want money". Go back to the incel boards, we don't want you here.

5points

Loudawg76 10 months ago

In other words, this guy is intimidated by strong, independent women. He clearly measures his self- worth on how much “better” he is than his partner

5points

Mama Clare 10 months ago

Don't eat croissants in your car btw.. flaky pastry everywhere

5points

Jaya 10 months ago

This one is dumb as f*ck. There's no reason to immediately assume that she wants to be with someone who's rich too. And she might not feel like a poor person holds her back in any way. Stupid assumptions.

2points

#33

Man and woman on a park bench, looking away from each other, reflecting a moment of rejection and contemplation. Wasn't my type, wasn't someone I connected with intellectually or emotionally, not someone I was interested in despite respecting and loving her as a person, engaged in behaviour that met the definition of sexual [overpowering] when she tried to make her feelings for me known.

mikedirtstein , Vera Arsic Report

Final score:

10points

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#34

Simply not interested in her.

wolffsteeth Report

Final score:

10points

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#35

A woman sitting on a bench outdoors with a man, appearing upset and contemplative about rejection. I friendzoned her because she was going through a lot, and it seemed more like she could use the help rather than the distraction. but she ended up being offended by that

jody.loud , RDNE Stock project Report

Final score:

9points

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Data1001 10 months ago

This makes sense to me. You don't want to start a relationship when the other person is spiraling, or on the rebound. It was smart of him to not get involved, imo. But might be worthwhile exploring later on down the line when she's in a better place emotionally.

8points

Paulina 10 months ago

Look, people get offended and hurt by the rejection itself, and that's natural 🤷‍♀️ You still did the right thing.

3points

Jaya 10 months ago

Off course she gets offended. Because even if you're right, she decided that she is ready for a relationship and you're deciding for her that she isn't, which feels very patronizing. Doesn't mean he's wrong, but it's not strange for her to feel offended by it.

0points

#36

Man in denim jacket sitting outdoors, playfully interacting with a woman, capturing a moment of rejection. I didn't want to risk our friendship.

moonchild33x , Marlene Leppänen Report

Final score:

9points

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Data1001 10 months ago

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Ace Premium 10 months ago

Sounds to me more like he was firlmy in the friend zone and knew he didn't really have a chance.

1point

#37

Clinginess

duvieg7 Report

Final score:

9points

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StrangeOne 10 months ago

I really believe clinginess is mistaken for a difference of intentions for being with someone.

4points

semipro.the.editor , Alena Darmel Report

#38

Man and woman stand apart in hallway, illustrating rejection and emotional distance. I did once because she was a good woman and seemed serious about her business. I wasn’t about nothing but her body and told her no, because I didn’t want to waste her time.

Final score:

8points

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Data1001 10 months ago

I don't even understand what this person is trying to say. Huh?

7points

Brittania Kelli 10 months ago

If I am interpreting this right, she was a decent and moral woman who was looking for a serious relationship and he just wanted a casual hook up situation so he rejected her so she could look for a serious thing. Short story, he wants praise for choosing not to string a woman along and not using her for s*x.

11points

General Anaesthesia 10 months ago

She wanted commitment, a relationship, and all he wanted was "bedroom activities", so he broke it off for her sake. Good for him.

6points

Lila Allen 10 months ago

She wanted a serious relationship. He didn't. So he didn't want to waste her time

1point

Hidalgo 10 months ago

He only wanted s*x

0points

sandevil_darkshadow Report

#39

Trust issue. Trauma.

Final score:

8points

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#40

Couple lying together in a cozy bedroom with sunlight streaming through a window. Bedroom skills increased through the years, felt I was being used for that more than pure connection. So now I decline unless I’m actually vibing with her.

_spaceark , Anastasia Shuraeva Report

Final score:

7points

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#41

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves She started telling me about her ex. Telling me how her ex owned a house 21yo and was crazy.

monroeforthebanks , Getty Images Report

Final score:

7points

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#42

30 Reasons Why Some Women Are Rejected By Men, According To The Guys Themselves She lived in a different country.

blakeonator64 , Ben Collins Report

Final score:

7points

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Hassel Davidhoff 10 months ago

Didn't stop me. I went to her country. Been together for 24 years now. I don't regret marrying her one bit, she's the love of my life, without doubt. I do, however, wish I could divorce the country. So fücking done with it.

0points

LiuLiu 10 months ago

must be living in the USA

0points

Ms.GB 10 months ago

Awww, that sucks.

0points

kasparov_theconqueror Report

#43

Personality, lack of humor, beliefs

fatherunique68 Report

Final score:

7points

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#44

Poverty of spirit

Final score:

6points

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tresgatos72 10 months ago

Huh?

1point

Peeka_Mimi 10 months ago

Generosity of Spirit is a big thing with me too.

0points

Ms.GB 10 months ago

Poor attitude

0points

#45

Man in a hat and checkered shirt drinking from a can in a forest, showcasing casual style. Inappropriate farting

papanchol , Kristiina Glaase Report

Final score:

5points

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Broccoli 10 months ago

I kind of don’t understand it. How can farts be inappropriate? Like they’re really hard to hold back and most of the times you have a stomachache and just need to let the gas out. It can be embarrassing but like why would it prevent someone from dating? Just sharing my own opinion, correct me if I misunderstood something.

13points

Ace Premium 10 months ago

Well it depends on how she was dealing with it. "Inappropriate" could imply that she was doing it deliberately and obviously in public places, could be that she thought it was funny, could be that they were really vile and smelly and should have been kept for the toilet. Just a couple examples of how farts could be inappropriate.

3points

Scott Rackley 10 months ago

Well, I could see straining and nearly s******g yourself in the checkout aisle as one example

2points

Jeff White 10 months ago

My question is similar: Is there then appropriate farting? Or is all farting inappropriate?

0points

respulero 10 months ago

Maybe you should eat less broccoli

0points

Apachebathmat 10 months ago

My husband and I fart all the time around each other (and giggle like bevis and b******d) I’ve even WhatsApp him recorded farts if I’m away from home and he sends them back… weird love language but hey ho

3points

Ms.GB 10 months ago (edited)

My husband and I have farted so much in front of eachother we go through cycles of first it's funny for a few years, then you ignore it for awhile because it's common, then it's funny again 😄

0points

KrazyChiMama 10 months ago

Lmao I can’t imagine not dating someone because of gas…but I suppose if they smelled bad enough…like you feared for your life and health because of it…

1point

Verfin22 Premium 10 months ago

Well there's the need to do it medically, but doing it purposely is a turn off. Being comfortable doing it around each other is a good sign.

0points

Kathy Brooke 10 months ago

What is appropriate farting?

0points

shin_dragon_emperor Report

#46

Not my type.

devils.heartbreak Report

Final score:

5points

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#47

Don't want no drama or looked at like an ATM. Don't want resources waisted and not a therapist.

Final score:

5points

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Papa 10 months ago

Wasted.

6points

Peeka_Mimi 10 months ago

That's fair. Where I am emotionally and financially needs that matched. I have dated too many men who had no money and I ended up supporting them. I'm not doing that again. He better be emotionally mature and have his own money. I'm not rich, I'm lower-middle class, but I'm no longer an ATM.

0points

#48

Woman in a black shirt gesturing with frustration indoors. Inappropriate attire, stinking attitude and filthy language are my main 3. Any combination is enough for me to start walking in the opposite direction

toneyraykey , Blake Cheek Report

Final score:

4points

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KrazyChiMama 10 months ago

Well good thing I’m married I can cuss better than most sailors! :)

11points

Ms.GB 10 months ago

I mean, I curse at home a lot 😆

2points

#49

When they disturbed my peace for no reason

superman231 Report

Final score:

4points

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#50

Was a freshman in college with one girl, and I took multiple classes with her. I had no interest in her, nor she in me. Senior year comes, and she came on to me. I had moved up socially and financially, had my own place, car, finances. And now I'm attractive? I turned her down flat. The whole idea of her watching and waiting for four years, then suddenly getting turned on by me was WEIRD

clarkvaughan111 Report

Final score:

4points

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Data1001 10 months ago

The thing is, you probably changed internally once you "moved up" -- I doubt it was your finances or your car. Men can gain a lot of confidence in themselves when things are going well in their lives, and that confidence alone can suddently be very attractive.

10points

Panda McPandaface 10 months ago

Yeah, that was why she changed her mind alright.

2points

Jaya 10 months ago

Such a lot of assumptions. How on earth do you know that's why she is interested now? And does that mean OP thinks that nobody can be genuinely into someone unless they were into them from the start?

0points

#51

She just felt weird to me and low confidence

murdrcoutureclub Report

Final score:

4points

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#52

My male friend told me yesterday he stopped talking to this girl because she wasn’t taking care of her looks

_mayra_s Report

Final score:

3points

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StrangeOne 10 months ago

And I'm sure he wasn't aging and changing his appearance for the better or worse. /s

5points

Panda McPandaface 10 months ago

There is a world of difference between 'not taking care' and - for example, showering and brushing your hair.

1point

#53

She didn’t want me keep contact with my ex

iam_shanexvi Report

Final score:

3points

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#54

Lack of enthusiasm, clinginess, or I choose another woman instead.

ghostface_dee Report

Final score:

3points

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#55

Woman in a light blue blazer posing playfully against a solid background. She was way to over confident about herself tone it down girl

sinful_design.ss , Moose Photos Report

Final score:

-1point

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michael Chock 10 months ago

Nothing is more attractive than someone's personality. If that offends you, maybe you are a dull person who should should be dating dull people. Then they can really let their dullness shine and you both can be happy.

4points

Wondering Alice 10 months ago

Why? Neither men nor women should hide confidence for a potential partner. If it turns someone off, fine, that means you are incompatible. However, don't tone it down. (Arrogance annoys me, but even then I would walk away and not suggest the other needed to change).

3points

Data1001 10 months ago

Did you miss the word "over"? He's not saying he walked away because she was merely "confident". And I think he probably meant she was full of herself.

1point

Verfin22 Premium 10 months ago

Alpha male response if I ever saw one. "All females will bow to me".

1point

Peeka_Mimi 10 months ago

Sounds like you're insecure.

0points