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People Are Sharing Their Knowledge On Being “Street Smart”, Here Are 30 Of Their Most Useful Tips
Humans are cautious creatures who avoid ending up in sketchy situations at all costs. But when you find yourself walking in a dimly lit alley or riding the subway late at night, you can't help but feel your senses go on high alert, wondering about things that could potentially save your valuables or even your life.
Reddit user lofisky wanted to find out what they are, so they made a post on Ask Reddit: "People with 'street smarts', what is your most street tip?" Within just a few days, thousands of people took the opportunity to share their precious wisdom and help people ensure their safety even in the most dire situations.
Below, Bored Panda wrapped up some useful pieces of advice and put them all in one place for you to read. So take out your notebook, grab a pen, and write down a thing or two on how to protect yourself against threats. And if you still feel the need for some more street tips, take a look at our previous posts right here and here!
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#1
The most practical self-defence item you can own is a very high-powered flashlight, especially one with a strobe function. Drawing a weapon will always escalate a situation, and may cause any aggressor to fight with lethal force. You also cannot use a weapon pre-emptively except in very clear self-defense scenarios. You can't shoot someone just because they look shifty. You also cannot legally carry them in many places. None of this applies to a flashlight. You can legally and inconspicuously carry it anywhere. You can use it without provocation without legal or moral issue. It is also highly effective. It is incredibly difficult to hit or stab someone who is shining a 1000 lumen strobe light in your face. It can be almost impossible to properly see where that person is, and it will be painful to even look at them. As a bonus, flashlights are just super handy tools to have in day-to-day life.
Gavin Johnson 3 years ago
4 D cell Maglites are incredibly tough bits of kit. If you have to use it as a weapon they are heavy because of the batteries and made of aluminium so they don’t bend, you don’t get up in a hurry after someone has accidentally hit you with one. For information purposes obviously 😜 Don’t hit people mmm’kay?
Auntriarch 3 years ago
I have one of those next to my bed. For power cuts obviously......
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JLBigboote 3 years ago
Indeed. There's a reason they do that. It draws fire to their hand in the air, rather than to their bodies
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oddly_informed_raven 3 years ago
Maglites are OP. you can blind someone, or give them a concussion
Seanette Blaylock 3 years ago
My nice big Maglite doesn't have a strobe function, but is still quite bright enough to mess up someone's vision long enough for me to be somewhere else.
Jose Merino 3 years ago
If it's a high powered flashlight it's probably on the heavier side so it can be used as a blunt object
Seanette Blaylock 3 years ago
The big Maglite I mentioned only weighs a pound or two, but it's solid and dense enough that I think it would do a great job of adjusting someone's attitude quickly.
Load More Replies... Monkey Spunk 3 years ago
I've got one designed for "breaking windscreens", it takes 18650 lithiums and is hugely dazzling.
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#2
If you ever find yourself homeless in a big city but want to keep clean because of job/hygiene standards/whatever, look into gyms in the area. Many of them have very low-cost memberships or even free trials for a certain amount of time. Head on in, get your shower, brush your teeth, and get yourself all cleaned up.
Hope it helps anyone who needs it as much as it helped me.
Andy Acceber 3 years ago
Ditto community centers, YMCAs, public college rec centers, etc. Gyms don't have to exclusively be fancy places that require a membership. Lots of the more public options offer cheap day passes.
Two_rolling_black_eyes 3 years ago (edited)
One of the suburbs around here started handing out yearly memberships for the city's rec centers/pools to their homeless population and its helped dramatically. It costs them nothing since they are open anyway but its been a boon. They can take a shower every day, find healthy things to do to make the time pass, and a warm/cool place to get out of the weather. The main rec center is across the street from social services and they've had an uptick in people coming in looking for help since they started the program. People need their basic needs met first before they try to get better. (SO's daughter worked as a lifeguard there).
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Tiffanie Sewell 3 years ago
Planet fitness is like $5-10/month and they have showers. I know from experience. Lol
Daniel (ShadowDrakken) 3 years ago
Truck stops are another good place. Shower usually costs like $2 is all.
VikingAbroad 3 years ago
In Denmark almost all church yards have public bathrooms were you can shower, use the toilet facilities and get clean drinking water.
Davo gifman 3 years ago
Also in season public pools. They're cheap to get into. So you can sun,swim,and relax a lil bit; then shower an hopefully feel refreshed an looking forward to better days.
Maxie Mills 3 years ago
I used my gym for this purpose when I remodeled my bathroom. I only had one bathroom in my house. I had the new toilet ready to be installed but beyond that I used my kitchen sink to brush my teeth and wash up in the morning and went to the gym every day after work to shower until my new tub was installed. Where there is a will there is a way. However, I am incredibly saddened that people are without a home yet working and paying taxes. The government's only job is to take care of its citizens and providing food,clothing and shelter should be governments top priority.
#3
If you're uncomfortable with your surroundings, leave.
Your unconscious is often more aware of your surroundings than you'd think. If something you can't figure out is telling you to go, listen to it.
Chich 3 years ago
Used to tell my fire crews this. If something does not feel right, back the hell out.
Andy Acceber 3 years ago
Unless you know you have anxiety. Your brain tells you lies constantly. Talk to someone you trust, and get their read on a place. I It's good to be brave, and it's a normal human experience to go into uncomfortable situations -- especially when you have anxiety.
Dan Padgett 3 years ago
Was away to comment the same thing. My fight or flight is all haywire. I know it's going mad yet can't convince it otherwise -.-
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Metallicd3ath 3 years ago
I've heard it both ways, especially in psychology, was the weirdest thing to me first time I heard "the unconscious mind" in a professional setting
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Zoe's Mom 3 years ago
May not apply, but if you are walking a dog and it shows fear or anxiety, listen to the dog. If it turns around the other way, follow.
Zalzany Games 3 years ago
Varies on the dog though, my dog loves every one so no not a good judge of character sigh. Also he is terrified of bags in the wind...
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Julia H 3 years ago (edited)
Used my gut at an almost empty beach. I was with my 9 yo daughter when a random guy started chatting with us. Now, I'm a 3 at most and he creeped me out. I packed up our things and explained to my daughter to always listen to that voice that says, Just Go"
CMDR unematti 3 years ago
While i agree with this 80%, reenforcing your comfort zone is a dangerous road to go down on. Sometimes feeling weird and awkward is just out of your comfort zone. If it's a situation you normally attend, like you go to a nightclub every week but this week it feels off, then yeah, you better leave before you can't
We managed to get in touch with the creator of this thread, lofisky, who was kind enough to have a little chat with us. The user told Bored Panda they often post random questions on Ask Reddit to simply discover new things. This time, they were curious to learn about different tips that could potentially help in a tough situation.
Well, it’s better to be safe than sorry, isn’t it? That’s why so many people seem eager to discover as many helpful tidbits of information as they possibly can. Like being confident and pretending to always be aware of where you're going. Or making sure you know where the exit is at all times. And let’s not forget about confirming the license plate before getting on your ride.
#4
Always look like you know where you're going, even when you don't.
Andy Acceber 3 years ago
It's amazing what projecting the right amount of confidence can get you. I used to work at a bar. I wouldn't have admitted it then, but I carded way more based on someone's confidence than on how old they looked. I suck at estimating ages. If you hemmed and hawwed when deciding on a drink, asked a dumb question, acted jittery, or had too much bravado, I would have carded you. If you were confident but not overly so and had a normal conversation, I probably wouldn't have asked for ID.
Ariel Gable 3 years ago
Even tho I'm 21 (about to be 22) I still get nervous about ordering Alcohol. Heck I get nervous having to order from a regular menu. I have PTSD and Severe anxiety. 😅😅😅😅
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fandomprincess (any pronouns) 3 years ago
Even if you do know exactly where you're going and you've been there before, make sure you project confidence.
Ellen Ranks 3 years ago
I have travelled places like Jamaica and the Gambia by myself (am female) using local transport etc.. without problems. It is all about attitude and awareness of your surroundings.
Wang Zhuang 3 years ago
I agree with this advice. I did this when I got lost walking the streets in Manila. Fake it till you make it :)
Madeleine Flowers 3 years ago
My class does a writer's notebook and sometimes we have to write about pictures, and this was one of them.
Thomas Ewing 3 years ago
And act like you know what you're doing, too. Crooks look for uncertainty.
#5
If you are feeling unsafe, find the biggest friendliest person and act like you know them, chances are they will understand, help you out and you'll end up making a friend.
Had a group of young men once nod in a targeting manner towards me in a dangerous subway station in SF, the big dude I sat next to, and acted like I knew, was understanding when I explained why I was sitting next to him, we ended up chatting during the subway ride too. Very cool guy.
De Gueb 3 years ago
That happened to me at a pub in Mallorca, 3 young girls asked to hang around me to keep the guys away. It was one of the girls birthday and some of the dudes wouldn´t leave them alone. I went only to see a live band but ended up staying till they shut.
Mary Lou 3 years ago
Once was on a crowded dance floor with some creep rubbing against me. Asked some random guy (not big though, just average) to shield me - ended in a three year relationship with him
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will bower 3 years ago
Big guys are big for a reason. To stop the childhood trauma from happening again and they hate it happening to anyone one else either. Us big guys are cuddly bears really
Celtic Pirate Queen 3 years ago
Had an older woman yell "Debbie, wait up!" near the ladies room at the LA bus station. I hadn't noticed the 3 gang bangers following me. I was 15 & my name isn't Debbie.
Cat Logic 3 years ago
Did that in a bar once when I was young. Some jerk wouldn't leave me alone, even when I flat out said I wasn't interested. Women shouldn't have to resort to male protection from other men! But I saw this great big ugly guy, so I went up to him, told him my issue and asked if he'd please act like he knew me. He smiled and pulled me up on his lap. (I'm a tiny woman.) And that's how I met my good buddy Tony. RIP, you big sweetheart!
Teresa Spanics 3 years ago
Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of your dear friend Tony.
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Zalzany Games 3 years ago
Happened to me a lot in JR and High school kids scarred of a bully would sit down with me, hiding out, because I was twice the size of the bully. Granted half the time I would find out what that kid did to the bully, and go "nope you deserve that you said what about his mom, then hid behind me, no no this is a lesson you gonna have to learn you don't say that s**t to peoples faces unless you can stand by what you said alone."
#6
A red traffic light is just a "traffic suggestion" to some people. Always keep an eye out at intersections for idiots running a red light.
Swan 3 years ago
always beware of other people always have a margin of their 'mistakes' ...because it will save your life
Dennis Reedy 3 years ago
You are NEVER driving alone. There is the guy behind you, the one coming toward you, the person to your right, and left, the unseen driver, the cop, and your mother-in-law ... Just to name a few. Always drive anticipating potential complications. And NO using your phone when the engine's running.
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Zero 3 years ago
After almost getting run over by a car that flew around the corner while I was checking the 2nd direction, I've started looking both ways multiple times, quicker each time. Has saved my butt a couple of times.
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Vetus Vespertilio 3 years ago
Personally, I never sit in an unlocked car, no matter how little time I’m going to be sitting there, even if I’m just waiting for my husband to come out of the milk store. It’s way too easy for someone to open your door, grab your purse, and be half a block away by the time you get your seatbelt untangled; or worse, hop into your car and force you to drive away.
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freefall 3 years ago
As a frequent pedestrian, I assume every driver is drunk, stoned and texting. Has saved me on many, many occasions!
Seanette Blaylock 3 years ago
When my grandfather was teaching me to drive, he told me to assume all other drivers are stupid, crazy, and out to get me. He was right.
Pete from Cali. USA 3 years ago (edited)
Get a dashcam for your car! Almost everyone who runs a red light will deny it so you need to protect yourself. Also, if you've recorded an accident, take five minutes to stop and offer it to the victims.
David Brown 3 years ago
Where I live if you don't pause before taking off at a green light there's a high likelihood you will be hit. Every intersection is horrible for people being stupid running red lights.
Leigh Kupersmith 3 years ago
Keep an eye (and ear) out for emergency vehicles, too! I was driving through a green light when a huge fire truck swerved out of his lane, coming toward me!
FatKid Games 3 years ago
Id like to add that far too many people do not know that a yield sign means, slow down, and/or stop...see so many people merging off a hwy almost cause accidents because they think they just get to freely merge into the single lane, they also get quite defensive when you point out they were in the wrong, and only prove their stupidity
Terry Butler 3 years ago
Got beeped at the other day for not letting a driver merge in. Wasn't able to. They were highly offended.
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As of today, the thread has amassed more than 59.6K upvotes and 28.6K comments. Plenty of Redditors with "street smarts" shared their precious insights on how to survive in the urban jungle. "I didn’t expect that much attention at all! I’m very glad that so many people took the time to answer my question," the user said.
"I learned that it’s important to be knowledgeable and always be ready for any unexpected situations that may occur at any given time. It was interesting to see what advice different people have to give."
#7
If someone asks you for help. Like 'my car won't start' or, really anything. Don't help them but offer to call someone for them.
I learned this ~10 years ago. I had to do a thing in the bad side of town once a week early in the morning. I would get there ~5:00 a.m., they opened at 6:00 but I wanted to get in and out and leave.
There were a few other regulars at that time for the same reason. One I befriended was a lady named Kim.
We were both there one morning. A couple of guys pulled up in their car ~100' from us. They got out, lifted the hood made some noise, called us over to help them. They were having car troubles.
Kim told me to stay where I was, I shrugged and said 'OK'. She walks over, they talk a few minutes, they drive off and she comes back.
Kim says "They didn't have car trouble, they were going to rob us".
I say "Seriously? No s**t. Why did they drive off then"?
Kim says "I showed them the gun in my hand". Then she showed me the gun in her hand.
I said "Oh. OK"
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
I would say trust your gut and know the area. I live in a region where it's common for people to break down and all they need is jumper cables. Someone is usually willing to help because that's what we do. We don't want to hear of someone freezing to death waiting for help for what could be way too long in our climate.
Zalzany Games 3 years ago
In my experience still ask to call some oen first, if they get fidgety and go "no no its not that bad," then its a red flag, its like ok its not that bad good luck you got this s**t!" The second the idea of a 3rd party makes them nervous you should just ease out of there.
Load More Replies... Bear Hall 3 years ago
Not to diminish the situation but if I have trouble and somebody walks over with a gun and tells me to get lost I would even push my car to another street.
Debra Robinson 3 years ago
Yeah, and just hope they don't want to rob/kill you.
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Zane Paul 3 years ago
Ah methadone. Always dispensed in the best areas for recovering addicts to be forced to visit every week
Nixstar 3 years ago
Whether that was or wasn't the "thing" they were there to do, there was no reason at all for you to call out OP like that. They obviously didn't want to say why they were there, it's an irrelevant detail that no one needs to know and literally no one asked. Stop being that guy.
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MY 3 years ago
This is very true and definately in a populated area. I was in the middle of nowhere after a very long drive (as in nearly 3 days). Guy pulled over on the side of the Rd his car was broken down. Pulled over we thought it was a flat battery tried jumper cables but wouldn't start. Went to the closest house maybe 5 mins away (no signal out there) was a bit awkward knocking on the door anyway they called a mechanic for us and 5 mins later they came with jumper leads to mechanic mate 10 mins later. Engine seized. Ended up giving him a lift back to the town my grandparents live (a bit of a detour but on the way) at had boxes of stuff so had to do a bit of shuffling. Got back to his place was having a chat turned out he lived next door to my grandmas mum and dad. Small world. Carried on for a few hours after that. He would've been stuck there for hours if I didn't stop with no signal and closest town miles away
Christian Villanueva 3 years ago
Once at night, me and my friends were driving around, and this sketchy van just stopped in front of us, broken windows, with duck tape over them, all beat up. The people said their car had died. My friend got out of the car and got the cables and hooked them up in between cars. They propped the hood up with a bloody machete, and had a strong scent of weed. I am thankful they diddnt rob or harm us, at least they were actually having car troubles. Don't judge a book by its cover.
#8
Always check the toilet paper roll before taking a dump.
Ma Fra 3 years ago
Or always bring a packet of tissues? We never leave home without, so handy in so many cases.
Debra Robinson 3 years ago (edited)
Sanitizer, disinfectant and skin wipes too, if possible. Make use of seat covers or hopefully paper towels, at least.
Load More Replies... David Brown 3 years ago
This makes sense and definitely helps to keep from looking stupid asking for tp under the stall door.
TheHiveGuardian 3 years ago
Wish someone told me this before I sat down to read this article...
Sinkvenice 3 years ago
I can't use public toilets, the very thought of it makes me want to puke. I obviously know you can't "catch" anything from a toilet seat but the thought of how many bottoms have sat on it before me is just too grim :-D
YourLocalFnafSuperfan 3 years ago
There actually is a small chance of catching disease from a toilet seat...
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Ladies, never leave your drink unattended and don't accept drinks from strangers when you didn't see the drink being made.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
Some establishments don't let you take your drink to the washroom. You can leave it with the servers and they'll keep it safe behind the counter.
ERIKA H. 3 years ago
As a women, doing that would make me feel less safe. I'd rather watch my drink than trust someone else too
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Notyomama 3 years ago
Better watch the bartender too. Had one get me. Fortunately I was there with my now husband.
Bron 3 years ago
@Sinkvenice, so what? She didn’t say they were and far too many are. If you’re not, she’s not directing the comment at you.
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Channon Doughty 3 years ago
Better yet, just don't accept drinks from any stranger, at all, ever. You never know what he thinks that drink ENTITLES him to!!
Bron 3 years ago
It’s not always or possibly even often accepting a drink from someone else, it’s having your drink spiked as it’s being made or because you’re distracted.
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Emmageddon 3 years ago
Also important: cover your drinks so nobody can slip drugs in. Even when you are holding it, keep it covered with your hand or eyes on the drink. They also have products you can by that cover your drink.
Nitro Codes 3 years ago
I find it sad that rules like this are needed. I personally think that as an international society, we need to change our ways so things like this will not be needed. Sadly, will anyone be willing to change?
ChipBoundary 3 years ago
Okay look. I get what you're trying for with the wishing and hoping here, but that's all it is. Terrible people are terrible people and there's nothing you can do to change them. They aren't taught it, they're born that way. As our population grows, we only get more of them proportionally. There was even a meta-analysis of many studies regarding human psychopathy that shows it is highly likely that it is an evolutionary adaptation to ensure mating and not a mental health diagnosis/derangement at all. The single best thing you can do is teach people effective ways to protect themselves no matter where they are. This doesn't mean you have be hyper-vigilant and on alert 24/7, that's unhealthy. Just develop common sense habits.
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Wafflez Puncakes 3 years ago
This applies to gay bars as well. All kinds of people are capable of being scummy, yes, even to men, and yes, even women. Stay safe out there
Mega Gay 🇺🇦 3 years ago
Every girl knows this. And every girl knows what can happen if you do accept the drink
Catlady6000 3 years ago
Unfortunately, not every girl, or guy, knows this. Many learn it the hard way
Load More Replies...This thread serves as proof that some people have minds full of knowledge on how to survive and stay safe while living an urban life. So if you’re living in a quiet and calm neighborhood or come from a distant suburb, there are certain things you need to learn to avoid getting scammed (or worse!) out there in the real world.
According to lofisky, everyone should have a fraction of such knowledge. "I believe having at least a decent amount of 'street smarts' is essential, so you are prepared for any unexpected events that happen in life, and know how to handle potentially dangerous situations."
#10
If someone approaching you says “hey man, I ain’t gonna rob you” - they’re probably gonna try to rob you.
Hawkmoon 3 years ago
And be extra careful if he looks like a tax agent. But you have little chance of escaping him anyway.
Rissie 3 years ago
"But what makes you think I won't rob you?" Uno reverse that s**t before they even try.
Adriana Loborec 3 years ago
Same with "you need not be afraid of me" (heard that a lot as a young girl from sleazy guys)
strawberry idiot 3 years ago
Sounds like something a biblically accurate angel would say
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John Thompson 3 years ago
Puleez. The'petrol' pump isnit gonna hit you over the head. The petrol pump didn't force you to buy that jacked up pickup that gets 8 mpg. Go home.
Load More Replies... Seanette Blaylock 3 years ago
"And this pepper spray in my hand isn't going to get shot into your face if you get closer."
Toni Ahlgren 3 years ago (edited)
There was this time when we were lucky and privileged enough to do a Caribbean cruise. The ship stopped at Jamaica and next to the pier was this "plastic" village with shops and stuff to cater the cruise passengers. However, there was an option to exit the area and visit the town of Falmouth and of course we used the opportunity, with like four other passengers. Now Jamaica can be notorious for crimes, robberies and gay-hate (we were quite obviously a couple, I think). People were so happy to see us there, one guy just offered to show us around with absolutely no hidden agenda. One lady came to us and just asked us to tell the world that Jamaican people aren't bad people. One guy came to tell us to not walk so fast, like "this is Jamaica, take it easy!". When we had finally wandered too far, one lady stopped us and asked "What are you boys doing here? Turn back, if you go any further you will be killed". People can be kind even in a dodgy place and be truthful what they say..
Monkey Spunk 3 years ago
I had a shifty looking guy approach me in NY, turned out he really liked my vape rig, was dubious about showing him as I figured he might steal it but he was good as gold. Tried it with his own drip tip, complemented my mix (really low nicotene vanilla) and we generally had a good chat, I felt crappy about making an assumption based on the way he looked.
David Brown 3 years ago
Can confirm. Had a cracked out girl and guy stop me with this line asking if I had any money to spare because they ran out of cash in an emergency trip to see a sick family member. I told them I did not and side stepped to go around an the guy decided to man up and as sked me if I didn't hear what he had said. I responded with yeah I heard you but an emergency trip to the dope spot didn't classify to me as an emergency. He went to grab for a weapon and I drew down on them before he had the chance. The only time since getting my concealed carry permit that I've actually had to draw my weapon. People are crazy as hell nowadays.
Maxie Mills 3 years ago
I think most people ignore and keep moving when cracked out people approach them because we are not prepared for a gunfight. Good thing you were faster then him. Now did you fire or did he just drop his gun when he saw yours. I'm just wondering because I watch a lot of westerns.
Load More Replies... Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
Does this happen often enough that it warrants being street smarts?
#11
There is no shame in running away from a fight.
Scagsy 3 years ago
Don't run so fast that you end up faceplanting like I did when I was mugged by a pack of feral youths. Here's the timeline if you're interested: 1: got attacked 2: ran away 3: faceplanted 4: got attacked again 5: A & E minus my wallet and watch 6: hotel minibar
Bear Hall 3 years ago (edited)
Before you start to run throw your wallet, car key, bag, whatever to the opposite direction you intend to flee don't just hand it over. The best if you can throw it under a car. The least you get is a head start while they pick it up, but it's likely they would leave you alone since they already got what they want.
Celtic Pirate Queen 3 years ago
Hahaha. Was dressed for work & some punk tried to grab my purse in downtown Seattle. I held tight, looked him right in the face and growled "I will F*CK. YOU. UP.". Yeah. He ran away.
Riley Quinn 3 years ago
I think King Arthur And His Knights said it best: "Run Away! Run Away!"
Zalzany Games 3 years ago
Only works if you can run fast. I am not a sprinter haven't been since I was in 9th grade, for me its best to find a place with cameras and make my way to them and remind them no matter what goes down we all been on camera for a bit now.
#12
If someone starts to loudly state that they’ve lost their wallet or phone, don’t obviously or immediately go to check on yours in your bag or pocket. It’s a common pickpocket technique to get people to show the pickpockets where their stuff is.
Chris Jones 3 years ago
Or better, sadly, they say they have FOUND a wallet or phone and so you check.
Bender Bending Rodríguez 3 years ago
OT: Anyone else see a small mouth on the chin in this picture?
ANGIECAT 3 years ago
Really? I never thought of this but it's really smart
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AWKWRDVOICECRACK 3 years ago
Or pat yourself everywhere to check but so you're also not revealing where your stuff is. Also don't pay where you put your stuff first.
Micah 3 years ago
They're putting out there that a pickpocket might be around. Then, when you check to make sure you weren't robbed, you end up giving away where your valuables are.
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Ikara Pentiki 3 years ago
Even more nefarious, "Beware of pickpockets" signs are often put up by the pickpockets to get people to check for their belongings.
ANGIECAT 3 years ago
I've never seen one of those signs. No offense I'm just totally curious what part of the world you live in?
Load More Replies... Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
I think that guy is reaching for a gun to bust a cap in the pickpocket.
#13
Trust your gut. If anyone seems a little too friendly, get away ASAP.
lenka 3 years ago
Always trust you instincts. This should be number one. Your subconscious picks up hundreds of cues and notices things that you don't consciously take in but which result in a feeling of unease - even if you have no idea why. You may never figure out the 'why' but trusting your instincts and perhaps feeling a little silly for it is way better than potential alternatives.
Louise B 3 years ago
It took me years to learn this. When every fibre of your being is screaming, 'Go! Leave right now!' Don't worry about offending someone. Just get out of the situation.
MSP 3 years ago
As Karen & Georgia would say, "F**k politeness!" SSDGM y'all!
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Alex the Country Dog 3 years ago
Omg so many of these horrible “instincts” advice. So many people have terrible instincts. Good instincts develop through a LOT of experience. Most “gut feelings” are people fearing unknown people or situations that are “other” (race, culture, even rural folks traversing cities.) Then they come away telling stories of “narrowly escaping” some suspicious situation that was never confirmed to actually be suspicious, and perpetuate the fear in others (usually white, inexperienced, female travelers.)
lenka 3 years ago (edited)
Instincts will never develop if you ignore them either. Racists will be racists and you can usually pick them because they will identify thier imaginary assailant as black or ‘other’. The reason women in particular have more stories is because more often not then women are the victims. Women are raped, mugged and murdered every single day. I guarantee most of them have not imagined the danger they felt but most of them brush it off because they feel silly when there is no obvious threat. Women don't have the luxury of ignoring their gut.
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Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
But don't trust it if it tells you to eat the on sale food at your convenience store.
Naomi 3 years ago
Huh? What about the scenario where I'm in danger and need to find a big friendly person?
Matthew Zornig 3 years ago
When I'm on the streets, I'm always on the lookout for Jack Black or John Goodman
Load More Replies... Sinkvenice 3 years ago
A few examples ago someone said to find the friendliest looking person and act like you know them if you feel unsafe. Which one is it, trust the friendliest looking person or avoid the friendliest looking person?
Gladys Hayes Southerland 3 years ago
When something "doesn't feel right", it's not, period. Other people don't feel what you do, so they will say to ignore that. Don't. Listen & obey- one day that will save your life.
Riley Quinn 3 years ago
Another reason not to imbibe too heavily unless you're with a solid pack of friends.
When asked why so many people are always ready to give safety advice, the user believes that most have answered the question through their own backgrounds. They seem to know when to avoid potentially negative situations that even with a favorable outcome might have alarming consequences.
A streetwise person can read between the lines, they know who you can trust, are skilled in the art of self-defense, and have a perfectly working inner BS radar. "Perhaps they have been through tough times in life and have enough life experience to share their advice with everyone else," lofisky added.
#14
Lock your doors as soon as you’re in a car.
Warren Fletcher 3 years ago
It's great when cars automatically unlock when you put them in park. Like, could you not? You don't know what kind of area I'm in!
Bender Bending Rodríguez 3 years ago
You can have dealership program this function where it won't auto unlock when put in park. You can have all doors unlock, only driver side unlock or none unlock when put in park. My 12 year old not top of the line Toyota has this option so assuming most cars do. Some cars allow you to do this by yourself. I'd check car manual to see what options are available.
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Crystal Lamas 3 years ago
My driver's Ed teacher taught me this. Would actually deduct "points" in his class if we didn't lock the doors first thing when we got in the car. He was an old school retired marine
Ellen Ranks 3 years ago
Well, this depends on where you are I suppose. In my country chances of you being pulled out of your car or whatever are very small. Chance is bigger that you end up in the water with your car in which case I think an unlocked door will help you to get out before the water pressure gets too high.
Laura Mandado Cacho 3 years ago
While I agree that it depends on the country, where I live it's also not likely to happen to you, cars are designed so that locked doors can be opened from inside without having to unlock them for security reasons, they have been designed that way for years, the only exception are the doors on the back if you have the children safety engaged
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Taylor Carroll 3 years ago
Always do. And check under car and in back seat and hatchback trunk area before you commit to getting in. Always park right under a light. I hate the world.
Somewhat-Guilty 3 years ago
I learned this the hard way. Was driving downtown a shady city and a man open my passenger door and tried to get it. I ran the red light and lucked out not having incoming traffic. It was TERRIFYING!!!
L.N.a mm 3 years ago
Absolutely. Years ago I was outside a pub smoking a cig probably around 2AM. A girl in the passenger side of a car parked curbside in front of me was leaning unendingly on the horn, apparently impatiently waiting for her bf in an apt above. I made a WTF gesture, she looked at me then went right back to leaning on the horn. I guessed (correctly) that she didn't lock her door, walked over and wrenched her door wide open. I didn't do anything to her but definitely scared the b'jeezus out of her. Stopped honking that horn tho! ;-)
absolutelyvibin 3 years ago
that's really messed up. maybe don't scare people into thinking they're going to be assaulted even if they are being obnoxious.
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Confirm the license plate and make sure you are getting in your proper Uber/Lyft.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
This is a good idea for taxis, too. The license plate and cab number. Get their name, too.
Gabby M 3 years ago
Heck take a photo (if you can) Then SEND all the info to a friend or family,
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Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
And from drunken experience it's also just embarrassing when you think it's your Uber and...SURPRISE...it is not.
I like donuts 3 years ago
Also, never ask "are you the Uber" but ask "who are you here to pick up" that way you won't get kidnapped
AWKWRDVOICECRACK 3 years ago
Take a selfie but really have the back camera on and try to get the driver's face in mirror. Or any part of his face. Then send the picture to someone in case you go missing.
ANGIECAT 3 years ago (edited)
If you take uber or lyft, there is already a selfie included with their profile. Again why I prefer apps over a taxi company. You can also share your ride location with a friend or friends.
Load More Replies... ERIKA H. 3 years ago
THIS!!! Unfortunately I was SA'd several years ago when I had been drinking and accidentally got into the wrong uber. It was an uber, but it was the wrong uber.
Riley Quinn 3 years ago
I use my health insurance's transport program, and I can't tell you the times I've had different drivers or different transport companies show up. I know to call my insurance for verification, but it's unnerving nonetheless.
Gladys Hayes Southerland 3 years ago
They're usually a picture of your driver provided in your app. Compare before you get in the car. If the driver doesn't match the picture, ❌ it & tell the company immediately.
#16
If someone is asking you for help, but you need to follow them around the corner to help them... don't. Politely say you're late to a meeting and keep walking.
Ally MacMann 3 years ago
I don't even think you need to (or should) make excuses. A polite but confident "No. I won't do that" would probably work just as well.
Reading-under-Sequoias🫶🇺🇦 3 years ago (edited)
But wouldn't excuses signal that someone is waiting for you and that someone will know if you missing? Even if it's not true, it would warn the person that someone would know if you went missing.
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Hawkmoon 3 years ago
Similar story in my town: A young girl would approach lonely men at night and ask them to walk them to her car because she felt insecure. Accomplices were waiting to rob the unfortunate man, beating him up on the way. The perpetrators were eventually caught.
Nitro Codes 3 years ago (edited)
good, the perps were caught! Unrelated, considering this scheme worked to the point they did it over and over again, it implies that where you live, men are actually quite decent, to the point they literally are willing to do something like this, regardless of what may happen!
Load More Replies... David Brown 3 years ago
This is a huge no no. Never follow or go anywhere with someone you don't know. 9 times out of 10 it's going to end badly.
Jaqi Hegland 3 years ago
Don't go anywhere with a stranger. Even if you have to fight. It might be the difference between getting shot in a parking ramp and being found in a ditch 6 months later.
AWKWRDVOICECRACK 3 years ago
Also call the police and give them the description of the person and tell them that the person is trying to separate people. You could save someone's life.
ANGIECAT 3 years ago (edited)
I do this sometimes but it never feels like the non emergency line does anything. They assure me I've done the right thing but then I will see the same car thief breaking into cars... and yes I report it again but no one ever comes. Or the car thief sees me eying him while on the phone and rides off on his bicycle lol
Load More Replies... LuckyNumbers 3 years ago
"No, but if you need help please let me call 911 for you" Solves this problem.
Adam Chang 3 years ago
2011, a car stop next to me. Man: Do you know street x? Me: Yes. bla bla bla. 2 min drive. Man: Can you take me there? I'll drive you back. Me: ok. I was too happy that day so I forgot to think. He drove me back.
The creator of this thread would like to advise you to stay curious. "It’s important to listen to everyone, whoever they are, good or bad. You can always learn from them. Even if it’s just social media like Reddit, never stop learning something new," they concluded.
#17
Know where the exits are at all times.
Paul C. 3 years ago
This is especially important when you go to your hotel room for the first night. Check where the fire escapes are. At 3 in the morning with an alarm going off it could save your life.
AnnaBanana 3 years ago
Totally. I worked in the safety industry for years and the first thing I do whenever I go anywhere is check for the exits. I don't even know I'm doing it half the time.
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Zoe's Mom 3 years ago
Also, know the street(s) you are on. In case of an emergency, you'll know right away where you're at. Give a random house number if you have to so the police can get to you. If you aren't anywhere near residential, know the cross streets. I try and remember this anytime I'm out walking my dog alone.
Nicole Backs 3 years ago
This. So much this. On more than one occasion I have found myself in an area I didn't know, at night, and had a gut feeling something wasn't right. I didn't have anything obviously threatening enough to warrant calling the police, so I sought out a well lit spot where I could stop walking and lean in an alcove of some sort --which can really throw off a person following you, as they are no longer approaching from behind, and, can no longer pretend they aren't following you, just heading the same way. Stopping gives you a moment to prepare to defend yourself if necessary, and robs them of the element of surprise. If you run, it implies fear and establishes your role as prey. Hard to pull your phone out of your pocket and dial, or fumble through your purse for pepper spray when you are running for your life. It gives you time to assess your surroundings, make a call (being on the phone means you can call for help, and it's no longer an unnoticed crime).
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Twodogsandapicnictable 3 years ago
And sit facing the nearest entrance so you can spot trouble when it walks through the door.
David Brown 3 years ago
And always do you best to sit with your back against a wall with the exits in view.
Michael Akstull 3 years ago
I always do this when I fly, I also count the number of seats to get to the exit in case I can't see due to smoke or complete darkness.
Riley Quinn 3 years ago
I will walk about the hotel/motel/inn getting my bearings prior to settling down. Ditto with most public buildings, actually. Knowing your escape route is beneficial in all circumstances.
#18
Men don't ask women for help with moving or fixing things, they ask other men. If a man asks a woman for help moving something, he's probably a creep & you should get out of there as quickly as possible.
Paul C. 3 years ago
....and don't help them lift a settee into the back of a van, even if they have a broken arm! No wait, did I dream that?
Katie Lutesinger 3 years ago
And especially not if he suddenly asks "hey, are you about a size 14?"
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lenka 3 years ago
Same goes for kids. Strange adults do not ask children for help. They ask other adults. Teach your kids that they should not help an adult they don't know. They can offer to find another adult to help the adult (and in doing so immediately leave the situation) but are, under no circumstances to help unknown adults with anything.
Andy Acceber 3 years ago
Who in the world downvoted this? I think the man/woman one is largely rooted in sexism, and I don't think that every man that asks a woman for help is trying to attack her. However, I think this is almost always true when it comes to kids. Unknown adults don't ask unknown children for help -- besides maybe please hold the door or please pass me that item next to you at the grocery store. Unknown adults with good intentions simply don't ask unknown children for help finding dogs, moving, or any other activity that removes them from the sight of other adults.
Load More Replies... Swan 3 years ago
people asked me when I was a kid..does that mean they aknowledged me as a man 😊
Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
Were they driving a van with no windows and a puppy?
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Poultry Geist 3 years ago
Silence of the lambs taught me this lesson and I always think about it !!
AnnaBanana 3 years ago
Ted Bundy used the fake cast on the arm thing. Worked for him!
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Cyndielouwhoo 3 years ago
My hubby has asked female and male friends to help (heck, my sister has better upper body strength than a few of our guy friends), but I'm assuming they mean total strangers...
King Kashue 3 years ago
99.9% true in general, but I can say I asked/accepted help from a woman total stranger at least once. Moving my apartment solo like 17 years ago, I had a California King tempurpedic matress. I.e., a 200lb block of energy absorbing foam. I had the damn thing rolled up like a taco shell and was trying to drag it into the new place but it was stuck in the door frame and just wasn't moving. A jogger came by and was like "Do you need help?" and, as I had been up all night moving and had been yanking on the damn mattress for 5 minutes to no avail, I almost broke into tears saying "Yes, please, thank you." :D
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Marianne 3 years ago
Same goes for adults who ask kids for help. Teach your children to never "help" adult strangers.
Isa Car 3 years ago
Doesn't that kind of depend on what kind of help is asked for? I mean, the most common questions I came across in my life from strangers wanting help were "can you tell me the time?" and "can you tell me how to get to ...?", and where is the potential danger in that?
Load More Replies... AnnaBanana 3 years ago
Yeah, someone should tell the chick in Silence of the Lambs that when she gets asked to help move a sofa!
Zalzany Games 3 years ago
Nope its not, this however sexist. These are facts child, its super suspect for a reason if a stranger asks a woman to help him move s**t out of his car or into his place when there is men around it is one hell of a red flag. Also children I was taught this as a kid never help a stranger with things in their house or car/van/truck whatever. Not once did large man go "I need a petite woman to help me do this!"
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Charles Williams 3 years ago
But, I thought that anything a man can do a woman can do better. I guess that doesn't apply to moving things, lifting things, fixing things, or doing anything in general. How about we just treat all people equal and if you need help, you ask the nearest available person that seems qualified. If they don't want to help, so be it.
Crazy Dubagay 3 years ago
Can I follow you? Is that an option on Bored Panda? Cuz you're just spitting facts, bruh.
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If you're in the hood and you see kids playing outside, you're probably safe. If there are a lot of people outside but no kids, be super cautious and walk with a purpose. If it's empty or only teenagers/young adults, get out asap.
Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
If you're in the hood wouldn't you know this? I know my city and have never said "Damn where am I, oh s**t...I'm in the hood"
Zane Paul 3 years ago
This happened to me in Philly back in the day. I was walking to the train instead of taking a taxi cause it was a nice day. I definitely took a wrong turn and I ended up in an area that looked completely abandoned. I was like 19 at the time, walking with a suitcase. Four guys came up to me and said "do you know where you are white boy?" and I was like "actually I don't, I'm looking for the train." They actually politely told me which streets to take to get there and told me to hurry.
Heidi 3 years ago (edited)
In my neighborhood, the cops would stop people with kids and tell them to be inside by 4pm because that's when the drug dealers were getting home from their day jobs. We could throw a stone and hit the projects, we had drive bys at least once a week and were constantly in the paper's for crime. Eventually it settled down and we'd stay outtil the lights came on, but when a cop is giving you that kind of warning, you listen to it. Generally, though, not messing with people or staring is a good way to get through the type of neighborhood I was in.
Taylor Carroll 3 years ago
That's why I never go anywhere. 🙃 I'm 100 lbs soaking wet, I make a piece of ink jet paper look like a spray tan addict AND I have glasses.
Sherman Von Gee 3 years ago
Except if you're in New Orleans. Then all bets are off and any logic will not be useful. Lol. Just saying... it's the Wild West down here lately n blocks change like the seasons.. you might think you're in a safe place but you keep walking another block n s**t can get real sketchy real fast. Don't mess around anywhere that you've never been before without a local. I've had too many ppl I know visit n think they know where they're going because they're been here a handful of times.. only to get robbed or end up somewhere that they don't belong. Stay on the quarter. Or on magazine street. Take Lyfts n Ubers. Don't get too drunk without a designated person to watch out for you and never ever ever leave the quarter after dark unless you're in a car. I wouldn't even recommend staying in air bnbs outside of the quarter unless you're with a local. S**t is OUT OF CONTROL down here right now. If I were you, I'd stay away altogether.
Michelle Patterson 3 years ago
Have any of you not watched that episode of Criminal Minds?... The one with the LADY with the van and an empty wheelchair and she asked the other lady to hop up in the back of the van to give better help??? SHE was the criminal...not sexist at all, just simply don't do that thing wether it be man, woman or child.... Don't even get me started with the episode of the guy with the van and a pretend sick dog and him saying the public phone wasn't working and the lady went to check the dog and he crept up behind her and knocked her out..you know the episode where he put them in some crazy ass bird nest looking thing in his basement and kept dislocating her hips so she couldn't walk... AND then there is the one where a minivan pulls up next to a lady jogging on the sidewalk and a timid cute little old lady says she's lost and if the woman could give her directions and the side door opens and some man grabbed her...this was the episode where these kind of people were selling body parts.
First Last 3 years ago
This! Watch some criminal shows and realize how EASY it is for bad things to happen to good people. Real life example man (big, burly, strong) flagged down by woman in broke down minivan. He never even. Got out of truck, after offering to call someone for her he turns around to a gun in his face. They make him get in the bed of truck start driving, he decides to risk it and jumps out of truck rolling off an embankment. Probably saved his own life. Criminals were caught same night after the homeowner they tried to rob surprised them with a gun and held them until police arrived. You can't trust anyone these days sadly.
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peruchipac 3 years ago
Sadly, even kids playing outside are no longer a sign of safety because they're not safe themselves.
David Brown 3 years ago
Kids and teenagers in groups after dark can be real d***s. Don't give them the satisfaction of making you an easy target.
#20
If you ever get pulled over at night, immediately turn on all your lights inside your car. In my experience, it tends to relieve whatever tension the officer may have since they can see you a little bit more clearly. Plus it's better than having a flashlight shined in your face.
Scott Kelly 3 years ago
And roll all of your windows down! It shows you have nothing to hide. This goes for any time of the day.
Two_rolling_black_eyes 3 years ago
This is bad advice - do not roll down your window more than you have to. Both safety experts and lawyers say only open your window far enough to pass documents and hear each other. An open window is a threat to both parties. Prevent the person coming up to your window from having access to you and the things inside your vehicle. #1 - bad people pretend to be law enforcement and aren't. #2 - 99.99% of all cops could be great but that 1 cop is the one who drags you through the open window just because. #3 Even the best cops are apprehensive when making a stop because they have no idea what will happen when they get up there and can make an honest, human mistake. A closed window subconsciously makes them feel safer when the interaction begins because you can't reach out and stab them through a mostly closed window either. Let them see you are not a threat with a glass barrier protecting them.
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Davo gifman 3 years ago (edited)
It's a better environment over all, but they're still going to shine that light in your face; you can believe that. 😆
David Brown 3 years ago
Honestly I'd just sit real still with the window cracked enough for the two of you to hear each other and your hands on the top of the steering wheel. Officers get real jumpy when you start doing allot of moving around in your vehicle.
AWKWRDVOICECRACK 3 years ago
Making a joke helps show you're innocent. I have a get out of jail free card in my wallet that I pull out as a joke.
Gabby M 3 years ago
IF you are safely able to turn on talk to text isn't a bad idea either. Flip it over slide under the seat. I say this for a few reasons but there have been more than a few murders/assaults ... where "Officers" of the Law ... weren't. Police gear and flashing lights can be bought anywhere, enough to fool an average person. Sounds silly I know, but know how to escape your trunk too. Damn I watch too much TV lol
Victor Botha 3 years ago
Not a good idea in my country, drive to the nearest Police station with your hazards on. Far too many people have been hijacked or worse by people impersonating traffic cops or police
Candia Lee 3 years ago
Young and naive, I jumped out and retrieved my wallet while the officer approached. Glad I'm not profiled like some ...
Eliza May 3 years ago
Not everybody pulling you over is a cop. Wait to pull over in a well lit area, and explain to the police that you did nog feel safe. Nova Scotian here, we are still dealing with the aftermath of Gabriel Wortman.
Zalzany Games 3 years ago
Here in US most cops appreciate that too, I seen people pull over in dark spots and the cop will order them to keep going. But in my area its not uncommon for a cop to get hit by passing car in the dark so they really like it when you pick a spot with more room, and light. Some might get jumpy but you won't get in real trouble if you explain it was for both your saftey. Like last one I saw the cop parked closer to the road, Using squad car to block for him so he could talk to the driver its not uncommong but I also seen people hit the car still and smash it into the cop and the vheichle they pulled over so its really a f****d no matter what situation any time a cop pulls you over on busy road. Hell last time it was warning for cracked windsheild using my mothers car years ago, I was actually told by cop to pull of main road. I didn't like one damn bit but I got the idea he wanted to be safer as that intersection he flicked his lights on we were near was a big accident magnet.
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kasei10 3 years ago
Then they will instantly kill you for putting lights on obviously... /s
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Always put something between yourself and the ground, even if it's just a piece of cardboard. Especially on asphalt, it absorbs heat and it will feel like it's sucking the life out of you
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
I'm not understanding this concept. What scenario would this apply to?
David Brown 3 years ago
I can see this as valid advice if you're having to sleep on the ground or having to do an emergency repair on a vehicle.
Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
Heyyyy! !that's a different picture than earlier. This pic makes more sense.
Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
The first one was a below the knee shot of a guy standing on a carpeted step.
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Carol Creger 3 years ago
We are talking about street smarts and if you are homeless than you are sleeping on cement
#22
If you see the car for too long and it’s bothering you? Do something. Spin that block. Drive illogically. If you spin that block, it will have to follow you in an illogical path. It takes a minute to do this and determine a tail. Don’t ever stop, just drive a longer and more illogical route to determine if you’re being followed. If you’re being followed? Don’t go home. Drive to a hospital ER entrance. There’s always security there. They’re used to crazy. And immediate medical attention if something is bad. And cameras. Lots of them. And all cops can get there without looking it up.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago (edited)
Police stations is a better idea than going to the emergency department where they have real medical emergency to focus on. You can even go to a convenience store, like 7/11. Since they're prone to crimes I'm pretty sure they have police services on speed dial. They also have a lot of cameras, lights and police typically know where they are, too.
LivingTheDream 3 years ago
Not all stations are manned 24/7 and have an available lobby. Emergency rooms are.
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Austin Hicks 3 years ago
Make 4 right turns in a row to confirm if someone is following you, then drive to the police.
Octavia Hansen 3 years ago
A fire station saved my life . . . always people there, ready to help.
Who Panda 420 3 years ago
I know that in my state it's illegal to sleep in your car. So if you're ever homeless and If you ever have to sleep in your car but need somewhere to park where no one will hassle you you can park overnight at some Walmarts but another safe bet is the ER also. They're used to strange cars being there overnight and if anyone bothers you can say that someone is inside being seen they know it can take hours.
Stealthee 3k 3 years ago
Not all police stations are manned 24/7. I'd have to drive 25 minutes just to get to the closest state police barracks. Not one of the local fire houses are manned 24/7. It's all volunteer force. Hospital may be an option, but again I'd have to drive 20 minutes just to get to one. The best bet? If you know you're being followed let them know you know. Act crazier than them. I was followed once and when I was sure it wasn't a cop I did an ebrake 180 and started chasing them til they pulled into one of the hoods.
Mary Leverett 3 years ago
Had to go to New Orleans for my daughter; VERY unfamiliar with the area - found a fire station & asked the firemen for directions. Back before GPS-enabled-everything, would call cab companies for directions to unfamiliar areas.
Janet Maker 3 years ago
When I was a teenager in the 1950s, guys would often follow my car when I was alone. I never went home--I always drove to the police station, and then the guys would take off.
#23
You can get into a lot of places by holding a pizza.
Mermaid Elle-Jaye 3 years ago (edited)
Yes the clipboard one is fun 😆 I’ve done it a few times, mainly for exploring abandoned places in city areas for photos. Always add a blazer
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Robert Duran 3 years ago
I used to deliver pizza in a college town. I didn't even have a uniform or a pizza bag with an identifiable logo. When going to the dorms, the front desk clerks would just let me in to wait in the lobby. What if I had a gun in my pizza bag? Or a bomb? Always verify they're an actual delivery driver. Call the place they claim to work. Ask who they have a delivery for and what it is. Even go as far as to have them show you what's inside the box.
VeninTheNonBinaryRogue 3 years ago
Good luck my friend. Tell us if it works
Load More Replies... Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
But if you're in the wrong place you might just piss off the wrong turtle.
Gavin Johnson 3 years ago
Hi viz and a hard hat gets you into almost anywhere you shouldn’t be and buys you a lot of time. I used to do urban exploration and my hi viz water board coat and hat meant I could hide in plain sight.
John Dwyer 3 years ago
Maybe holding a pizza box would be more productive than holding a pizza?
Richard Scott Taylor 3 years ago
A safety vest and a clipboard will get you in almost anywhere..
#24
Never count your cash in public even if in singles.
Benita Valdez 3 years ago
They'll be time enough for counting, when the dealings done 🎶
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Octavia Hansen 3 years ago
I'm STUNNED how many people count cash standing next to an ATM. Even if it's wrong, you will not fix it there. The bank will know, you can talk to them inside another day. And if it's a drive up ATM, ALWAYS have ALL your doors locked. Get the money and GO! NOW! IMMEDIATELY! Do you really have to be told this?
Riley Quinn 3 years ago
I don't budge from the cashier (yeah, I don't give a crap about the long line behind me right now) until I've discreetly counted and stored my money in a inside, zippered pocket.
Seanette Blaylock 3 years ago
One of the few good points about having to carry a bag due to pocket issues: I can camouflage checking cash by having my hands down inside the bag and not visible. Of course, there's also the theft magnet aspect of a bag that can be yanked away or have a strap cut.
#25
Your elbow is the strongest joint on your body… take advantage of it when you can.
Austin Hicks 3 years ago (edited)
It only takes about 5lbs of pressure on someone's neck to make them go unconscious, which only takes about 8 seconds, and your elbow can easily apply over 70lbs of pressure with the right hold.
Reading-under-Sequoias🫶🇺🇦 3 years ago (edited)
I am writing a mystery story for a school assignment and I can't google stuff like that, so thank you for sharing this information! :D
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David Brown 3 years ago
I've seen more facial injuries from getting hit with an elbow than I ever have with a fist. And it hurts you a hell of allot less to throw an elbow than it does to throw a fist.
Monday 3 years ago
It's not the strongest joint, that award goes to the hip, but this is good advice.
Catlin Mills 3 years ago
And aim for feet or knees, not genitals. They might be able to shrug off a groin shot but it is hard to chase with a dislocated knee.
Carol Matlock 3 years ago
Taught my kids if your in trouble fight dirty and yell fire! Nobody comes when you yell help!
#26
Well, If you're traveling, never randomly stop on the sidewalk to consult a map, or appear visibly lost. Duck into a coffee shop or something to orient yourself.
Iggy 3 years ago
This is where phones can really help. While looking at the map on the phone, chuckle a little as if reading a funny text.
Craig Prins 3 years ago
What also helps is to put in earphones to listen to the directions on Maps as they have walking directions as well (if you really are lost), that way people think you are listening to music and you can keep your phone in your pocket if you are good at knowing how far 200m is.
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No you didn't 3 years ago
One time I was traveling in India, I stood on a corner looking at my map and was approached by a nice American who asked if he can help me find anything. We started chatting and ended up visiting a random concert together. No harm done, and a nice memory.
Terri Martin 3 years ago
I usually pretend to be on a video call with my earbuds when looking at my phone. I'll talk and laugh so anyone around thinks they are live or being recorded if they get any ideas. I also point my camera and take photos of people yelling from cars or "offering rides" after I've politely and repeatedly refused.
Riley Quinn 3 years ago
Always behave like a local in public. Slip into a toilet if you need to consult a map.
#27
If you see something potentially illegal going on don't look directly at them. Especially if you know that you're not going to be reporting it to the police.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
If you see someone who's watching you and you notice them, and then they say "Can I help you?" with a grin, don't stop or say anything. Just keep going and when you're out of sight report it to police non-emergency. It's much easier to talk to non-emergency police, especially if the information is vague or unsure.
Andy Acceber 3 years ago
Make a police report because someone looked at you and spoke to you? That seems excessive. If they follow you, maybe. But where I live, it's not a crime to look at people or speak to them.
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Andy Acceber 3 years ago
And just in general, don't make eye contact. This is such a huge distinction between city dwellers and country dwellers. In the city, don't make direct eye contact with strangers if you're in a sketchy situation. If there's a loud noise, absolutely listen, be aware, and glance in your periphery, but don't turn your head to stare at it straight on.
Riley Quinn 3 years ago
I avoid all direct eye contact in unfamiliar situations and rely on my peripheral vision. It's just safer.
Zalzany Games 3 years ago
Huge advice I once saw some kids swap a gun to other kids in back room. I felt something was off and looked never reported it as they stalked me for like 2 weeks not saying a word but I knew they would done some s**t if I told any one. And this was in middle school no less.
Cassie Mathias 3 years ago
Oh man, if you had an adult in your life you could have trusted not to tell, you should have definitely told and gotten protection and advice. But if you didn’t have anyone and knew it would get you beaten I guess you didn’t the right thing unless you knew they were going to kill someone with it. So depends on the situation.
Load More Replies... David Brown 3 years ago
This will honest to goodness save your life. A friend of mine was gunned down for doing this exact thing near Myrtle Beach some time ago. He survived but still has a fear of being in crowded public areas.
Christian Villanueva 3 years ago (edited)
WAlKING home from school, see a crew of 7th graders steal a bike.
Daniel Pruitt 3 years ago
Unless something that is happening has something to do with you then you STFU and mind your own business. You don't call the cops, you don't look, you move along and enjoy your day. If more people lived by this then we would be living in a much better world.
Jp@nda 3 years ago
JFC people!! There is a freaking difference. If you see something that MIGHT be illegal but you know you ARE NOT REPORTING IT keep it moving!!! However!! If you have seen an actual freaking crime and you are not immediately safe, move somewhere else and immediately report it. What is so hard about this?
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If an attractive woman asks for directions, look for her partner behind you or going into your car to take what they can grab.
Typical vacation area scam.
Pumpkin Spice 3 years ago
My bisexual self and my pansexual girlfriend knowing that we aren't immune to scams: oh no. My aro friends: oh yes.
Roslynd Antinori 3 years ago
What does your sexuality have to do with anything??
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Wang Zhuang 3 years ago
Speaking of attractive woman scams, here's advice for any English speaking foreign guys visiting China: Beware of the Tea House scam. In this scenario, an pretty Chinese girl will approach you on the street and strike up a conversation. She'll ask you if wouldn't mind having a drink with her so she can practice her English with you. She'll lead you to a tea shop and order for the both of you. When the bill comes, it'll be something outrageous, like $500, and if you don't pay, some dudes will rough you up. Some girls tried this on me in Shanghai last year, but it didn't work because I had already learned about the scam ahead of time.
Terri Martin 3 years ago
Especially if you know normally this is not the type to be hitting on you 😂
Riley Quinn 3 years ago
And beware children. Seen as innocents, they make excellent criminals for their adult handlers.
#29
Always get the money upfront.
People who want to pay later probably won't and then things can get messy.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
Get them to pay half now and half later. At least they'll have something invested and if they're not satisfied with the outcome you can leave it as a half off discount and try again, if they want you to.
Noel Calvert 3 years ago
This goes south so often I would rather 100% upfront for pretty much anything I do. I run my own export business, & partial payments just leave me holding the bag so to speak :/
Load More Replies... David Brown 3 years ago
The flip side is if youre trying to get rid of this person giving them credit on something with almost certainly guarantee never seeing them again.
Carol Matlock 3 years ago
Get the money up front, if they can’t afford it that’s their problem!
Riley Quinn 3 years ago
Never took a job that didn't put 1/2 down first. Period. Just makes sense.
Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
Yeah, because 5jen you have to hire sicario's band then it gets REALLY messy.
#30
Exercise your legs. Although in a bad situation they'll probably feel like wet noodles, if needed you'll be able to run. It will also show in everyday life that you are capable of moving effortlessly. Most people are sluggish and it's not hard to notice.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
Some people can't help it. My knees seem to be giving me trouble lately. In that case you have to think smart and avoid areas with high crime rates. Some people can't help that, either. Have someone with you. Make sure your making friends and acquaintances with the good people in the neighbourhood, and the staff at the places you frequent. People are more likely to watch out for those they know the names of.
Patrick O'Harris 3 years ago
Had to run like 700m couple of weeks ago (last bus at night at a not so nice part of town) and peeeeople ouch. I did it, I used to be somewhat athletic, but I didnt feel my legs properly for like 10 minutes. Good my ride took 15 minutes 😂
June 3 years ago
Reason why I don't wear heels. I want to be able to run or fight back if needed, and don't want to look like a prey in unpractical shoes...
Teresa Spanics 3 years ago
I second that and agree with you 100%! That is exactly why I wear Sketchers with Arch Support when I can or just Sketchers as I find them one of the best running shoes out there!
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Leslie Crittenden 3 years ago
I have severe arthritis in my back and knees. This advice is useless to me,I am physically unable to "exercise my legs" and I couldn't run away to save my life. Literally.
Susan Fletcher 3 years ago
Pepper spray is legal to carry and use. I have several health issues and can't exercise like others do. So I do two things, I carry pepper spray in my weak hand and my keys sticking out between my fingers of my dominant hand. I'll get them one way or another. Also the keys are all old keys from places I used to live. And and old car fob. If they try to take my car, my plan is to throw the keys as far as I can and head in the opposite direction. They'll never find the car, its gone and the keys won't help them either but I'll be safe.
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Brianna Henderson 3 years ago
This! I'm obese and yet I can walk really quickly, run short distances (asthma), and walk very long distances without much effort. I've had people seem like they were following me when walking alone and I just walk faster and keep going.
Lisa Hearn 3 years ago
I wish I could move easily, but after a motorbike accident I now have a permanent limp. I cannot run, but I still walk with confidence, and yes I have been targeted, a quick elbow fixed the problem, and I just kept walking, I did not stop, got to the closest public area a breathed a sigh of relief.
#31
If there’s an emergency in a crowded place, find your own exit. Don’t blindly follow the crowd. Many people in an emergency try to go out the same way they came in, and it can lead to jammed doorways/pile-ups that can trap you. Property damage doesn’t matter in that moment—Break windows if you can, drywall can be broken through fairly easily too, bust out that b**ch like the Kool-Aid man.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
I find people are telling others that are panicking to calm down and then they just go about their business. There's a social phenomena that occurs. Something to do with crowd influence behaviour? I can't remember the term. There could be a real emergency, if no one else is reacting and the one person who knows better does, people will just go with the crowd than listen to the one person.
Davo gifman 3 years ago
I believe it's called "Mob Mentality Syndrome." Hope this helps. 😀👍
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Vetus Vespertilio 3 years ago
Sure you can! If it’s that you’re not strong enough, stand sideways to a window and snap your elbow into the corner of the glass. If it’s that people will get mad because you busted something, remember they’ll be twice as upset if they have to drag your bruised and bleeding body out of the way before they can mop the floor.
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#32
I travel quite a lot, so some things I have realized. If you find a gas station, and all the windows are covered by ads, so much they can't see outside. Well, that is because they don't want to be a witness. If you stop seeing sidewalks, a lack of street light walking signs, or no more stoplights...that is not where you need to be. Always keep a change of clothes and some water in your car. Never know when you need it.
Ellen Ranks 3 years ago (edited)
Huh. Have been to plenty places where there are no traffic lights (villages for example) and in most nature areas there are no sidewalks etc.
Two_rolling_black_eyes 3 years ago
Almost the entire planet does not have street lights and sidewalks. Its only cities of a certain size that they start showing up. I live in a mountain state and most of the towns around me don't have either. Telluride, CO (great ski town) was the first place in the world to have AC powered streetlights and they limit the lights now because people want to see the stars.
Load More Replies... Mikey Kliss 3 years ago
I grew up in the boonies of Northern WI. Sidewalks and stop lights are nonexistent in the country lol
#33
If a motorcycle with 2 people on it slows down near you RUN esp in South and Central America.
Pumpkin Spice 3 years ago
India too. If two men go by on a motorcycle and snatch your chunni, get your older brother to beat them up before his job interview. (Bonus points if you get the reference.)
Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
It won't really matter because the sniper already has you in his sights. But the gun in your waistband will probably work.
#34
Beware of people who have nothing to lose, and people who have everything to lose.
Davo gifman 3 years ago (edited)
Well Swan it's still good advice. I've followed it for years, and I'll continue to follow it...hopefully for many more years. An their's nothing racist about self preservation.
Auntriarch 3 years ago
Where I live robbery and pickpocketing are to fund drug use (not like some places where it's more of an industry). So yes they have nothing to lose by using any level of violence
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Another tip: get to know your local homeless people. If you live in a city and regularly walk past the same homeless people, stop and say hi once in a while. Just have a brief chat and give them some change. Even a smile helps. Believe me, these guys know EVERYTHING about what happens on that block. If you're ever in trouble, they'll help you out if you've been friendly, or they may just pretend they didn't see a thing. They can also help watch your car - for instance if someone dings it and drives off, they might even get the plate for you. View the street as their home; when walking on the street, you're walking through their living room. They can be excellent hosts.
This doesn't apply if you're traveling in a new city. Not worth befriending a homeless guy if you're only there for like 2 days.
Davo gifman 3 years ago
An just like that; ya lost me. I don't agree with the last part. So you're there only for a couple of days; you can still offer people some water, or coffee maybe a dollar or two. Anything is going to help them; even words of encouragement. It's not going to hurt you to just chat with them for a couple of minutes,and maybe a polite smile, or handshake when you depart. Who knows that may help them out more then you can ever know.
Mioux Mioux 3 years ago
I used to pay the people that hung out outside the supermarket and sell those magazine things to watch my dog outside while I ran in for some quick items.
lenka 3 years ago
Actually homeless people do tend to take care of those who take care of them. They often form a 'tribe' of sorts and act as each others eyes and ears. I regularly stopped and had dinner with a young man on my walk home from work. If I mentioned that I wouldn't be there on one of our usual evenings because I had to work late he would often wait and walk me through the less desirable part of the city. The advice that homeless will watch out for you if you treat them with respect and kindness is true. But that is not the REASON to treat them with respect and kindness. Regardless of their personal story and circumstances they haven't lost their humanity.
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RedMarbles 3 years ago
Wow - I'm fascinated to know what leads you to believe the republican party would eliminate homelessness.
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Don't act like a victim. Walk tall and keep your head up.
Becky Samuel 3 years ago
This is advice on how not to 'become' a victim. If you clutch your purse to your chest while hunching over and scuttling like a mouse while darting glances from side to side, it won't take long for the predators to swoop in.
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#37
If you're on foot, know the outs. Watch behind houses for fences. Assume anyone that chases you knows the area better than you. If you feel like you're being watched, you are. Stop moving, stop breathing, and listen again. Nobody wants to attack an aware victim. If you hold your breath on foot, in about 45 seconds, you can hear everything. Your ears adjust. Cannot do it while walking and blood is pumping in your ears. You can hear people breathing well over ten feet away if you wait long enough.
Amanda B Bench 3 years ago
45 seconds tho? Great concept but that seems like a really long time to hold your breath. Especially for my dumb smoker ass...
Discordant Bluecheese 3 years ago
Yea, if an unknown panic arises, just channel your inner Daredevil. Great advice xD
#38
Blend in. Everywhere. Even if you’re faking it. And, if you’re faking it, get out as soon as you inconspicuously can.
The Scout 3 years ago
It is - but not necessarily good advice. It will work in most sticky situations, though.
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Wear shorts under ur pants keep your valuables in ur shorts
Edit: I always wear sweats I put my hand in my pants to get to my shorts, I think this is the equivalent of women taking money out of their boob
Anonymous Female 3 years ago
We can't even get pants with pockets. LOL Bras will never have them! Hahahah
Load More Replies... Tiny Dynamine 3 years ago
The word you're looking for is bra. That is an item of clothing not of anatomy.
Davo gifman 3 years ago (edited)
My S.O. bought a bra an matching panties,and was like Oh look! It had a small pocket inside the bra; just large enough to hold a folded up $20 or a house key, or something like that. Basically just like the standard pockets on ladies clothing nowadays. But she was kinda happy about the pocket in the bra;so I'm guessing that's not common occurrence?
Brenna Walters 3 years ago
Totally not. It would be awesome, though. There almost always is a tiny ribbon bow (like, thumbnail sized) sewn right between the cups for no apparent reason. Function in fashion is mysterious.
Load More Replies... Ellen Ranks 3 years ago (edited)
Cannot see myself going to the supermarket with all my cash, jewelry, credit cards etc in my panties.
#40
Walk on the road if you’re in a real shady neighborhood and it’s late at night. Not in traffic but away from alleyway entrances.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
There's more light on the road. Street lights are really to help drivers see. Not so much for pedestrian safety.
Olivia Sorenson 3 years ago
yes, they are for pedestrian safety?? the drivers have headlights
Load More Replies... Davo gifman 3 years ago
I'm not so sure I agree with this one. That's just my personal preference,but in a area like that I'd rather blend in then stick out. Plus if you're in a bad area it's not really going to matter where you're walking.
AWKWRDVOICECRACK 3 years ago
Also pretend to be on the phone and say loudly where you are and that you're almost there and ask occasionally, "can you see me yet? I'm at blah blah"
#41
Fighting is not like the movies. Many people won't fight fair even. You never know what a person’s got in their pockets like a knife or any deadly weapon for that matter. Also seen people go back to their car and get a piece Also on the other side of the coin, you shouldn’t pull out a weapon unless you absolutely know you gonna do some damage cause that same weapon can be pulled on you quick
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
In Canada, people are likely to use bear spray, knives, billiard balls in socks, and machetes as weapons. The best way to avoid these is don't stop for random people and don't argue with anything they say. Just ignore them. Let them shout back but whatever you do, don't engage.
Vetus Vespertilio 3 years ago
There are lunatics everywhere. We have quite comprehensive gun laws, however, which partially accounts for our lower crime rate. There are 1.6 incidents per 100,000 in Canada vs. 4.5 per 100,000 in the U.S.). In a 2018 Gallup survey, 84% of Canadians surveyed said that they felt safe in their country.
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#42
When you're getting ice cream ask for one scoop first and then act like you changed your mind and ask for another. Typically they will make that first scoop larger than if you would have asked for two initially. This also seems to work in places like Chipotle.
Kate Johnson 3 years ago
Just pay for what you want instead of playing head games with a server. FFS, it's like 50 cents worth of ice cream!
Kel_how 3 years ago
I guess when asking for a scoop of meat, rice, beans, toppings, etc?
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#43
Listen always and speak only when you need to. People don't know when to shut up.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
If someone refuses to allow others equal speaking time, cuts people off and always goes on about themselves, it's an indication they may be a narcissist. Run.
AnxietyRiddenMom 3 years ago
"talk less, smile more. Don't let them know what you're against or what you're for"
#44
Never leave the house in shoes you can't run/fight in. Flip flops are for the gym shower.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
What is with all this "prepare to fight or flee"? How often do people get into these kinds of situations?
Gavin Johnson 3 years ago
Very often when they think they have to be prepared, they attract that kind of attention. I’ve honestly never worn footwear with ‘what’ll I do if a fight breaks out?’ in my mind. I’ve worn crampons to walk on / climb ice, I’ve worn ski boots to ski, snowboard shoes to snowboard and waterproof boots for playing in mud and climbing trees with my daughter but never fighting or running shoes for a night out. Weirdly I don’t get into dramas on a night out. Hmmmm 🤷🏻♂️
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Davo gifman 3 years ago
Flip flops are definitely NOT for the gym treadmills, free weights bluh,bluh,bluh however flip-flops are indeed perfect for public showers. 😏👍
#45
Final reiteration that your smooth little reptilian hindbrain has evolved running from creatures on this planet with big a*s fangs and camouflage, and venom, and claws. Lots of claws. You, as a person, are a little animal… and your personality and identity are an evolutionary add-on that is pretty damn amazing. The cauliflower part of your brain is in charge, but you have an old brain down there underneath it. When the little smooth part of your brain says “Uh, run!” DO IT, NOW. You’re here because THE HINDBRAIN DID ITS DAMN JOB for millions of years. It’s not capable of expressing itself in letters or numbers. It’s stupid. It’s the heebie-jeebies part of your brain. It’s very old. It misfires a lot. It will also give you a fair warning.
Vetus Vespertilio 3 years ago
A pretty good explanation of why we need to listen to our primal instincts for something more than trying to hump each other.
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Louie Cooper 3 years ago
Is it odd that this made PERFECT sense to me?? I feel like it shouldn't have but it did lol
LuckyNumbers 3 years ago
Nope, got the whole shebang. Clear as day. But I do get called weirdo a lot like it's a bad thing (spoileralert: I disagree!).
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RedMarbles 3 years ago
I believe they're referring to the amygdala. Good for fight or flight, not so great at changing what it learned to go toward or move away from in childhood.
#46
If someone goes to hand you something don’t take it by default. People's muscle reaction is to take something they are handed. I fell for that once in Hollywood, dude then tried to fleece me for money and would not take the item back. I dropped it on the ground and walked away. Live and learn
Lori Rommel 3 years ago
I've read (on Bored Panda, I'm pretty sure) about scammers overseas who will target tourists and thrust a realistic-looking baby doll at them. Because who's going to want a baby to fall to the ground? So, while your hands are full, theirs are busy relieving you of your property.
#47
Dress like where you are going. It doesn’t have to be exactly like them, just enough to not look too out of place. Also, pretend in your head that you have been there before and feel relaxed even if it’s forced because nervous people attract too much attention.
Davo gifman 3 years ago
I think it's definitely better to blend in then to stand out...become the Grey man, or woman. An obey that flight, or fight feelings you get. A friend of mine is a trainer, and he told me to learn to harness your adrenaline,and the first step to doing so is to realize that when you're starting to shake from it; is to remember right then an there that you are twice as strong,and fast as you were 20 seconds ago an to subconsciously learn to realize that as a confidence booster.
#48
You have best friends you trust and share your secrets with, and your best friends also have best friends who they trust and share your secrets with.
Pumpkin Spice 3 years ago
It's meant to caution people against betrayal. Please don't explode, that wasn't an attempt at humor.
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In crowded areas, carry bags, purses, and packages in front of you rather than behind you.
Marianne 3 years ago
They are referring to backpacks. Also, you can carry a purse in a way so that you see it or so that it is on your back side.
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#50
When someone is staring at you looking for a fight, glance and keep them in your peripheral vision, but otherwise don't maintain direct eye contact except for a brief moment. This exudes confidence yet acknowledged their threat. Do not keep staring long at them (challenge look), or actually avert eye contact (signing you as vulnerable prey). Stand tall and at if carrying one bag, or even bags, put that bag in your weaker, nondominant hand so when you're under sudden attack, you could react faster. DO NOT BURDEN YOUR DOMINANT HAND IN GROCERIES/PURSE/WHATEVER in a high-risk area. It's better to carry two bags in your non-dominant hand than to have each hand carry a bag.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
Don't put your hair up in a ponytail, either. It can tell the other person you're preparing to fight. I had that happen once and it took me by shock because I was just genuinely wanting to fix a strand that had gotten loose.
L.N.a mm 3 years ago
Absolutely disagree. If someone is making to get into a fight with you, absolutely do get your hair up and ready for a fight! A big angry bully of a woman having a bad day kept coming at me once. I don't look *tough* at all but after a while of her, feeling threatened I put my hair up to be ready for whatever was coming. When I did that she realized I was not so green as she thought and backed off. (Then later an old church lady chewed her out for messing with me 😂)
Load More Replies... Moosy Girl 3 years ago (edited)
I use this advice for my cat, if I have to use it for anything bigger I’ll just pull a disappearing act, thanks.
Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
Damn...how many 3rd world countries have you guys visited thos has never happened to me, and I live in my states capital.
ChipBoundary 3 years ago
This kind of stuff happens all the time, all across the world, even in the U.S. even in the city you live in. Just because it isn't happening to you, doesn't mean it isn't happening to somebody
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if you think a violent situation is about to happen, clench your teeth, put your tongue against the roof of your mouth, and drop your chin closer to your chest. never ever ever put keys in between your fingers, and take your hands out of your pockets. and stand staggered, not with feet together.
Mtownmick 3 years ago
The one time I almost got into a fight, my buddy who was from LA told me to raise my leg like I was going to kick them in the crotch and instead kick their knee and keep kicking. Seemed like good advice. I instead started talking and the other party realized we were harmless.
Ally MacMann 3 years ago
I don't know about this tbh. Putting your chin closer to your chest means looking down (I assume it doesn't mean opening your mouth) and can be construed as submission or backing away. That might work in some situations but in others it might show that you're weak and an easy victim. I'm not an expert in this by any means, but I'd get another opinion before following this one.
Evil Little Thing 3 years ago
No, it's a fighting position and not a posturing position. People acting big and trying to loom, throwing their hands up in the air, etc means they aren't ready to fight. People ready to fight gets smaller and tense. Just try it yourself for a second - stand up and get your fists up like you're going to box.
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Davo gifman 3 years ago
It's not like your bowing your head. You're just sort of tucking your chin in a little bit; your vision isn't impaired any at all. An placing your feet at least shoulder length apart makes it more difficult for you to be put to the ground, and in a situation like this the ground is the last place you want to be. Also I've heard a lot of people disagreeing with it. But if someone is coming at me, and get in my striking range; I'm attacking first eyes, knees, and or feet.
Nubmaeme 3 years ago
The fist full of keys worked for me when crossing a parking lot to my car. When I first saw him, he was probably 75 feet away and walking towards me. I started taking note of what he was wearing, what he looked like, etc, and made sure he knew what I was doing. Then staring him straight in the eyes, I pulled my hand out of my pocket. It looked like a medieval mace with about 10 keys laced between the fingers. It wasn't until he saw what I had pulled out of my pocket that he changed his mind and changed directions.
ChipBoundary 3 years ago
Stops you from getting knocked out and minimizes damage of getting punched.
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Never show your watch, wallet, or phone in areas known for pickpockets.
Also don't touch your pockets if you see warning signs, because a good thief will be watching to see which pocket your valuables are in.
And when approached by someone on the street be mindful of who else is watching and what is behind you. Try and keep everything in front of you and don't be afraid to shout and swear at them to get attention.
If someone puts a gun or knife in your face don't be a hero.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
If you carry a purse, have a wallet and don't keep it in your purse. Put a decoy wallet in your purse. Keep your real wallet in a pocket. Buy clothes with pockets, ladies. They exist. Bring your jeans or other apparel to a tailor and have them make real pockets. Or learn to do it yourself. Another thing I do is put my purse around me, have it in the front. Then put a cardigan or jacket on. I make sure I get one with deep pockets. I'll have my hands in my pockets so no one can just slip their hands in them. Never put anything in your back pocket.
Vetus Vespertilio 3 years ago
When we travel, we wear Scott-e-vests. (There are other manufacturers who make the same type of thing.) it has a dozen or so pockets only accessible from the inside, most of them fitted for a particular purpose: one for your passport, one for your boarding pass, one for your phone (there’s even a channel inside through which to thread your earphones), your wallet, your change, your sunglasses, even your water bottle. Zip it up and you have all your belongings secured on your person, inaccessible to pickpockets, and your hands are free. No purse to worry about, and no chance of setting something aside and then forgetting it.
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Z Alexi 3 years ago
Make purses anachronistic...they only became necessary when male designers wouldn't put pockets into women's slacks. Now that that's over, keep your $, tissues & lipsticks in your pockets. I haven't carried a purse this century & have never encountered a theft attempt. [P.S. Buy travel-size compact (Mine was Coty) if you've a shiny nose & need to carry powder everywhere.]
Davo gifman 3 years ago (edited)
If you're in a area prone to pickpockets like concerts, fairs,and boardwalks airports you know congested areas. It's a good idea to keep your wallet in your front pocket. An if you can keep a decoy wallet in your back pocket, and for fun place a piece of paper in the decoy with a big F...YOU! written on it. 😆
Heather Menard 3 years ago
Women's clothes don't have pockets so we don't have to worry about them being picked
ChipBoundary 3 years ago
Or just don't carry anything of value on you? I stopped carrying cash over a decade ago. There's absolutely zero reason to carry any. Traveled all over the U.S. and several foreign countries and nothing I did ever required cash. Anybody that steals phones today are morons. Let them have the phone, then report it stolen. The serial number and MAC address are on file and the thing contains a GPS.
#53
This one may be a bit specific to NYC, but if the subway car is empty on an otherwise busy day, there's probably a very good reason. Also related, if someone's being crazy on the train, don't engage or respond unless you absolutely have no other choice.
Davo gifman 3 years ago
If a subway car is empty on a busy day. It was probably pissed in a lot the night before.
#54
Only break one law at a time.
Andy Acceber 3 years ago
Naw. Charges can always be piled on. If someone really wants to arrest you, I'm sure they can find something.
Mags M 3 years ago
That's a terrible tip.. what it should say is what my dad always told me growing up; "If you're going to be stupid, don't get caught." Also would like to add it's almost virtually impossible to break one law at a time. Chances are if you're engaging in anything criminal, there's more than one law that you're breaking. Just don't get caught.
smoothsilkysailor 3 years ago
Okaay so just rob the gentleman but by no means kidnap and murder at the same time. Separate events. Gotcha. /j
LuckyNumbers 3 years ago
Unless you want to go out with a bang in which case break as many as possible in the shortest amount of time.
#55
If you are on public transportation, and people are exhibiting anti-social behavior (smoking, playing music on their speakers, etc) don't say anything. These people know what they are doing and are most likely looking for a fight. They also likely have very little to lose. Ignore it, and if it bothers you enough, get off or move to the next stop.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago (edited)
If you have asthma or any other type of respiratory condition jot down or take a picture of the bus route and number, and screen shot the time you got on the bus, ALWAYS. It's very hard to speak when your lungs feel like collapsing and are burning. Don't expect the bus driver to take direct action. They go through enough with attacks and assaults. Some of them are afraid of people. Start introducing yourself and make sure the driver sees you and sees you have paid the full fare.
#56
If you’re in a bad neighborhood, for the love of god, stay in well-lit areas. The shortcut through the alley will cost you more than the time it saves.
Robert Hernandez 3 years ago
But if you find yourself in danger run to the basement or roof and hide behind the chainsaws and yell "is someone there?"
#57
This one isn’t so much protection, but when you’re walking and you know how people do that little shuffle thing when they walk towards each other because you don’t know which way the people are going. Well if you maintain a line of sight in a direction, not looking into the eyes of people coming towards you, people will just move out of your way. No awkward little dance.
Scagsy 3 years ago (edited)
I absolutely hate people that do this. I have mobility issues and use a walking aid so I am prone to losing my balance quite easily. If some self-important muppet decides that they are just gonna plough straight through like Moses, because of sh!tty advice like this or because they are glued to their phone, it makes life that much harder. It is so rude as well. Expecting people to move because 'Princess Bethany' is coming through. Ugh.
LuckyNumbers 3 years ago
Way to see the absolute negative in everything. Nowhere did this person say they would bowl you over. Just that if they indicate their direction clearly people naturally make room. No bulldozing. Zero. Bah humbug.
Load More Replies... The Scout 3 years ago
The tactic of avoiding to bump into each other while walking consist of subconscous tiny movements, which are then interpreted (also unconsciously) by others. This is why people mostly will "shuffle" out of the way. Of course, that does not always work. If you or the other person interpret the movements incorectly or are distracted, both can evade in the same direction. This is commonly known as "cinetic stutter". The tactic suggested here is kind of rude and reckless, though, as it puts the whole strain of having to evade you on others while completely disabling your own guidance system. What is "No awkward little dance" to you becomes a nuisance to anybody else.
LuckyNumbers 3 years ago
Not true. If you're coming from the opposite doing the same thing there will just not be an awkward shuffle because both are giving clear signals. Has nothing to do with expecting people to just get out of your way. Moral of the story: if it's crowded make your intentions as clear as possible.
Load More Replies... LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
So what if both people have this mindset and decide no one is moving and you just walk into each other? Maybe I should start doing that and shout at people to watch where they're going. (dk if I'm being sarcastic, yet. I might actually apply this.)
LuckyNumbers 3 years ago
If both have this mind set there will be no awkward shuffle as these people manage to circumnavigate eachother THANKS TO CLEAR SIGNALS.
Load More Replies... L.N.a mm 3 years ago
Absolutely works. Look at the spaces between people where you intend to go, not at the people. Sorry Scagsy, not walking through people, just making your intentional direction known so as not to get into that little which-way dance. Absolutely do give consideration and wide berth for mobility compromised.
#58
Don't raise your voice with strangers and always be the last to speak. you don't know if these guys are wired properly or not
L.N.a mm 3 years ago
Exception to this is if things start getting threatening. Yelling could get attention to make a bad actor leave you alone, and #2, if you're in a bad situation you can't win sometimes acting loud and crazy can make them second guess if maybe YOUR wires are crossed ;-) I once got surrounded against a wall by 3 guys making to jump me. Needing to be ready to fight I took my purse off and put it on my shopping bags next to me. One of the guys immediately started to creep toward it like he was going to grab it so I went ape sh*t on him, "GET THE F AWAY FROM MY BAG!!" etc, full on feral. He absolutely did back the f off lol. I did end up getting sucker punched by another one of them before they ran off but I walked away with all my stuff ty
#59
Always have two or three people in your circle that you trust, and make sure y’all have a code word/signal. one that you can use casually because it’s harmless without context, but it’ll let your people know that something is up
Metallicd3ath 3 years ago
I like how inconspicuous this one is, and it's never like you're going to accidentally say this in conversation, it's a conscious topic.
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#60
When you stop your car, always make sure you have enough room in front of you for an escape route. It's impossible sometimes, but do the best you can.
Becky Samuel 3 years ago
This should be common practice, I never understand why people are so fixated on getting right up to each other's bumpers. If the car ahead of me breaks down, or worse, if they deliberately stop so that they can jack my car, I want to have room to drive around wherever possible. I have saved myself a few dents before from people who either can't pull forward on a hill without rolling backwards or who have accidentally selected reverse.
RedMarbles 3 years ago
Amen. Plus in a long line of traffic, leaving a little room lets everyone begin to roll forward at the green so more cars can get through before it turns red again. So irritating to watch each car ahead wait for the car in front of them to move before even taking their foot off the brake.
Load More Replies... M Rob 3 years ago
It will also save you in case of a chain reaction accident. You have room to get out of the way... Saved my ass once.
Davo gifman 3 years ago
I think this is a courtesy that should be done everywhere. Like pulling up to traffic at a traffic light why would you need to be two inches behind the vehicle in front of you?
RedMarbles 3 years ago
Plus I assume you're inhaling more exhaust that way.
Load More Replies... #61
Even in daylight, watch for places where the streetlights have been broken. Bad people, who like to hide in the dark shoot out streetlights. If it's night, and you see a television running in an open window, that's a kid that might be a lookout. You'll have the feeling you've been made.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
If you hear fireworks going off on random night frequently in rough neighbourhoods, this is to distract people when guns are being fired. Used to happen a lot in one such neighbourhood. People would be shooting fireworks so often that when you're sure you've heard a gunshot the first thing your told and second thing asked by police is "It's probably fireworks. Are you sure it's not fireworks you heard?" By the time you're off the phone you're questioning the sound you heard and the only thing police are gonna do is drive around and that's it.
RedMarbles 3 years ago
Fireworks have become so frustratingly common in the US, you'd think it was a nation of dog haters.
Load More Replies... #62
Look with your eyes, not your head.
lenka 3 years ago
This is weird advice. I look with my eyes, my head, my ears, my skin and even my nose. All senses provide valuable input especially when in strange or uncertain environment
Becky Samuel 3 years ago
I get what they're trying to say though. If you turn your head to look at something dodgy directly, it is too obvious that you're looking. It is much less likely to catch the attention of troublemakers if you only glance in their direction rather than turning your head.
Load More Replies... #63
Always walk with traffic coming towards you. Always know that most people are out for themselves only. If you get mugged, remember what the thief is wearing (watches jewelry) and tell the police it was yours, so if they catch them, you'll be a winner. Stand up for yourself, even if you're shaking at the core.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago (edited)
You don't get anything back that was stolen from you. The police tell you to buy it back at the next police auction. That's what I was told.
Auntriarch 3 years ago
Not where I live. Only unclaimed stuff goes to auction
Load More Replies... Paint CHiPs 3 years ago
That thief one is also a funny bit of legal advice. Because the thief isn't going to admit they robbed you, but half the time if the cop goes "...and also that ring." they'll go "wait, THAT wasn't hers!"
Davo gifman 3 years ago
Not where I live. If you're mugged an have jewelry stolen, and the thief is cought; your jewelry is used as evidence. An once the trial is over your possession are returned to you. Now if you're for example a drug dealer, and the police can prove that your vehicle, home, or any other things like that was paid for with drug money. The cops will confiscate those items, and sell them at auction. In my county it's called the Zero tolerance law.
#64
If you’re selling something on something like facebook marketplace, you have to be very careful. you’re going to be meeting someone you’ve probably never met in your life. meet in a public place, like a bank, a police station, anywhere public etc. if they’re paying in cash and it’s expensive, count the money FIRST, and make sure it’s REAL, before giving your product to them. anyone who isn’t trying to rob you will be fine with this, especially if you’re in a public place like a bank lobby area. -card skimmers are everywhere. always make sure by pulling the card reader block to see if it’s real or not.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
I always do this, and always accept only cash. The average person won't have a card reader. Never meet at the bank, especially at an ATM. Always somewhere very public and a common meeting ground like Starbucks or Tim Hortons or some other place that has customers sitting and people watching.
Becky Samuel 3 years ago
A lot of people in the UK use supermarket car parks for this. Guaranteed heavy pedestrian traffic, video cameras, and (usually) licence plate recognition cameras too provide high safety.
Cyndielouwhoo 3 years ago
In some areas there are now safe public "online item buy/exchange" meet up places designated in civic buildings like a city hall or lobby of a library.
#65
Never yell back at a group of guys verbally harassing you. Just keep walking. Don’t make a face, don’t change your walking pace, and keep going as they’re not there.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
I don't understand why a group of people bother people they don't know just because they're walking by. Never understood this behaviour but it's a common problem.
Mega Gay 🇺🇦 3 years ago
Because it's usually catcalling and guys feel entitled to tell a chick how hot she is.
Load More Replies... #66
Avoid the loudest person in the room.
Gavin Johnson 3 years ago
Avoid people. Urgh people, horrid things that spoil pretty much everything they touch.
#67
If you are involved in a confrontation pay attention to the hands. 2 things: If they reach into their pocket and/or under their shirt you are likely going to be hit with something, stabbed, or shot. if they are tucking their hands by their hamstring and/or clenching their first while looking you up and down you’re about to get punched. Run or take the fight to them because if either one of these things are happening you’re already the underdog.
Janus Preez 3 years ago
Or maybe they are just taking out a mobile phone just before you start attacking them
#68
If you see the same car twice get into a shop or store. If someone asks you for the time keep your hand on your wallet and only slightly pull your pocket out the check the time. If you are in a shady neighborhood remove anything that could be seen as a symbol for a rival gang, hats, jackets, stuff like that, it’s unlucky but not worth the risk.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
Never wear a matching Adidas tracksuit in some areas. Gangs use sports clothes as gang attire. At least they used to. And bandannas.
#69
Drive in front of a place once before landing there. Get your eyes on it.
#70
When a hustler asks "I bet I know where you got those shoes" The answer is always on your feet.
Charlie 3 years ago
They're trying to distract you by getting you to look down at your shoes.
Load More Replies... #71
Cars: All headlights on vehicles are fingerprints. Every time you look in a rearview mirror, imprint the headlights in your short-term memory. Try to think of what kind of car it is. Learn what headlights and taillights go with what type of car. Make it a game. Keep it as a background thought. It will trigger you when the third turn happens and the headlights are the same.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
These days, car headlights are blinding. You're going to damage your eyes if you look at those lights for long. It's like staring at the sun.
Moosy Girl 3 years ago
We were once followed by a bus from halfway across the country (about 3 hours, not a USA size country). We kept turning into smaller and smaller roads to see if it would follow and it did! We finally managed to shake it about 15 minutes from our destination, looked up the bus number afterwards and it turns out we’d unwittingly followed its entire standard route, the busdriver was probably as freaked out as we were. >.<
CelticElff 3 years ago (edited)
I have astigmatism. When I look at headlights, I basically see bright, hurty stars.
Stace Maree 3 years ago
My stepdad taught me this when I was little. I can identify any vehicle and the year range because of that
Amanda B Bench 3 years ago
I have an odd ability to identify so many different cars by their headlights. It's always been a thing for me. And lots of times just the grill. Always thought it was weird but it may come in handy some day...
#72
When you drive to a place in the dark that you've never been to, drive in with the windows down and the radio off. Turn off the car. Count to thirty, and listen. On a good night, without air conditioners buzzing, you can hear everything. Then, get out of the car.
LagoonaBlueColleen 3 years ago
NEVER drive with the windows down. Keep them up and make sure the doors are locked. Get of the areas that are making you uncomfortable. NEVER get out of the car.
Amanda B Bench 3 years ago
I was told once to also never keep your purse or bag in the front passenger seat. While stopped at a traffic light or stop sign someone can easily grab it through an open window or unlocked door and take off. You're stuck in traffic watching someone run away with your stuff!
TheEndIsNigh 3 years ago
Wht??? This is TERRIBLE advice! Is this knucklehead giving instructions on how to be murdered?!
What do you think ?
The Scout 3 years ago
This whole post sets a very dark tone - maybe I am unable to relate because of my "sheltered life" in european suburbs, where nobody carries a gun and crime is on the lowest level since decades. But as paranoid as some of these hacks sound, I understand that they might be necessary in an American context. The yearly murder rate of the USA is a bit over 5 out of 100 000 people, while the same figure for Germany is 0.7. Also gang crime (gangs at all, actually) is basically non-existent here.
Gavin Johnson 3 years ago
Hey guys and gals, I find living in a society that’s not straight out of Mad Max is pretty calm. My town (Buxton, Derbyshire) is very tame, there’s a few loons who partake of a bit too much booze of a Friday night and there’s an estate that you’ll do well to avoid wandering around aimlessly after dark but seriously, most humans aren’t hell bent on fighting, mugging, attacking or stealing your car from you. Be more aware of your surroundings and don’t panic about making you life about living in fear, it’ll only drag you down.
A Jones 3 years ago
Yeah, that's true. Not many peeps want to risk getting into a tumble with a stranger. I agree these are good tips to be mindful of, like being aware of where the exit sign is in a building.
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Becky Samuel 3 years ago
It's called the real world. Most people will end up being the victim of some form of property crime in their life, somewhat fewer a violent crime, but life is never wuite the same afterwards.
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Lance d'Boyle 3 years ago
The take-away from this post-- trust no one: especially if they are friendly, in need of help or good looking. You've been warned!
Adri 3 years ago
I wished I grew up like you did to be this careless about problems/situations in public spaces (I mean it in a good way)
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Leo Domitrix 3 years ago
Look, I get it, be cautious, but really? Who didn't learn at least half of these by age 10? Use. Common. Sense. If you don't have any, then don't drink or do drugs, which right there reduces risks of injury/death. Don't walk around thinking the world is your bestie, with your ears plugged and your eyes on your phone. And you'll soon find that 98% of humanity jsut wants to be left the F alone.
Lola 3 years ago
Einstein said, “the problem with common sense, is that it’s not so common.”
Load More Replies... Lori Rommel 3 years ago
I'm surprised no one mentioned acting "crazy" to make people keep their distance. There's a thing I used to do when using public transport and having to wait a while in a sketchy area of town. If a guy started trying to hit on me, I'd look to the left, look to the right (slowly, as if I wanted to make sure no one was paying attention.) Then I'd put a finger to my lips and whisper, "Shhh ... !" (Another sweeping look around.) "I'm ... not ... really ... heeeere." And then I would tiptoe away. So instead of the guy possibly getting hostile over a rejection, he'd be sitting there thinking, "Whew! Dodged that bullet!" Plus he's got a funny story to tell his friends. Win-win!
Looks like an Angel 3 years ago
If you're walking alone, walk on the side of the road where the sun/ light is hitting. That way you can keep an eye on your shadow and see if anyone tries to sneak up on you.
AuberJean 68 3 years ago
This is excellent! Also wearing those mirror sunglasses (if they're large enough) you can see who's behind you.
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Rannveig Ess 3 years ago
Get off your d4mn phones when you're walking around and pay attention. You're making yourself a target.
Res Earch 3 years ago
While taking karate, I learned that if an attacker grabs you from behind pinning both your arms to your body, you can get away by dragging your shoe down their shins. If you've ever scraped your shin, you know that person will loosen their grip. You can also try to hit their face with the back of your head.
The Scout 3 years ago
This whole post sets a very dark tone - maybe I am unable to relate because of my "sheltered life" in european suburbs, where nobody carries a gun and crime is on the lowest level since decades. But as paranoid as some of these hacks sound, I understand that they might be necessary in an American context. The yearly murder rate of the USA is a bit over 5 out of 100 000 people, while the same figure for Germany is 0.7. Also gang crime (gangs at all, actually) is basically non-existent here.
Gavin Johnson 3 years ago
Hey guys and gals, I find living in a society that’s not straight out of Mad Max is pretty calm. My town (Buxton, Derbyshire) is very tame, there’s a few loons who partake of a bit too much booze of a Friday night and there’s an estate that you’ll do well to avoid wandering around aimlessly after dark but seriously, most humans aren’t hell bent on fighting, mugging, attacking or stealing your car from you. Be more aware of your surroundings and don’t panic about making you life about living in fear, it’ll only drag you down.
A Jones 3 years ago
Yeah, that's true. Not many peeps want to risk getting into a tumble with a stranger. I agree these are good tips to be mindful of, like being aware of where the exit sign is in a building.
Load More Replies... Becky Samuel 3 years ago
It's called the real world. Most people will end up being the victim of some form of property crime in their life, somewhat fewer a violent crime, but life is never wuite the same afterwards.
Load More Replies... Lance d'Boyle 3 years ago
The take-away from this post-- trust no one: especially if they are friendly, in need of help or good looking. You've been warned!
Adri 3 years ago
I wished I grew up like you did to be this careless about problems/situations in public spaces (I mean it in a good way)
Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix 3 years ago
Look, I get it, be cautious, but really? Who didn't learn at least half of these by age 10? Use. Common. Sense. If you don't have any, then don't drink or do drugs, which right there reduces risks of injury/death. Don't walk around thinking the world is your bestie, with your ears plugged and your eyes on your phone. And you'll soon find that 98% of humanity jsut wants to be left the F alone.
Lola 3 years ago
Einstein said, “the problem with common sense, is that it’s not so common.”
Load More Replies... Lori Rommel 3 years ago
I'm surprised no one mentioned acting "crazy" to make people keep their distance. There's a thing I used to do when using public transport and having to wait a while in a sketchy area of town. If a guy started trying to hit on me, I'd look to the left, look to the right (slowly, as if I wanted to make sure no one was paying attention.) Then I'd put a finger to my lips and whisper, "Shhh ... !" (Another sweeping look around.) "I'm ... not ... really ... heeeere." And then I would tiptoe away. So instead of the guy possibly getting hostile over a rejection, he'd be sitting there thinking, "Whew! Dodged that bullet!" Plus he's got a funny story to tell his friends. Win-win!
Looks like an Angel 3 years ago
If you're walking alone, walk on the side of the road where the sun/ light is hitting. That way you can keep an eye on your shadow and see if anyone tries to sneak up on you.
AuberJean 68 3 years ago
This is excellent! Also wearing those mirror sunglasses (if they're large enough) you can see who's behind you.
Load More Replies... Rannveig Ess 3 years ago
Get off your d4mn phones when you're walking around and pay attention. You're making yourself a target.
Res Earch 3 years ago
While taking karate, I learned that if an attacker grabs you from behind pinning both your arms to your body, you can get away by dragging your shoe down their shins. If you've ever scraped your shin, you know that person will loosen their grip. You can also try to hit their face with the back of your head.
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