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What is ‘obvious’ to you and me might not be clear to someone else. And vice versa! Common sense isn’t all that common. Not to mention that all of us, no matter our education, have gaps in our knowledge that we’re not aware of. It takes quite a bit of guts and tons of humility to admit that.

Members of the r/AskReddit online community recently opened up about the ‘really obvious’ things they only just realized. Scroll down for a good laugh, as well as a reminder that we’re not so different when it comes to our info blindspots, after all.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I learned where "Pulling out all the stops" came from a couple of years ago (watching a documentary on Interstellar's music).

It's from playing organs...air is blown thru the organ's pipes to play notes - and you have "stops" in there if you don't want a particular pipe to play. So when you pull out all the stops, you get all the pipes playing...

tallpaleandwholesome , Rachael Cox / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I was at least 50 when I learned that the little piggy who went to market wasn’t shopping.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here, It's only when you get older you realise the dark story behind a lot of Nursery Rhymes

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned My mom was doing her best.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most of them are. Most of them deserve the Victoria Cross/Medal of Honour/whatever.

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Most of us want to be accepted and respected by our family and friends, as well as coworkers and strangers alike. Like it or not, social connections and reputation matter to lots of people. Naturally, this means that some folks want to present themselves in the best possible light. That means showing off their best qualities while subtly hiding the worst ones.

For many people, losing their social standing and being publicly humiliated is one of the most horrible things that can happen to them. That’s why they obsess so much about projecting power and authority and avoid behaviors that can make them look weak… like admitting that they don’t know something about a subject many others do.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned My sister learned recently that when you're at the grocery store and opening the egg carton that you're checking for cracked eggs and not just making sure that they are in fact eggs in the carton.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I'm not "quirky", I have ADHD. I'm in my 50s.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I am 19 and I have had ADHD and a sleeping disorder my whole life. I decided to go to the doctor and figure out wtf was wrong with me after I turned 18. Turned out I wasn’t stupid just undiagnosed going without meds. So now just about every adult looks at me like a lazy bum that fell asleep in every class and couldn’t pay attention or understand assignments. When I got on meds (senior year) I was #16 of my class in the top 20%.

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The problem with wanting to be seen as ‘perfect’ at all times is that it’s utterly unsustainable. Nobody’s perfect. We all make mistakes. We all have a lot to learn about the world, even if we have a few fancy degrees under our belts.

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However, how we react to our mistakes and ignorance says a lot about who we are, how we approach learning, and whether we have a growth-oriented mindset. Admitting that we’ve been wrong about something and owning up to our knowledge gaps can be embarrassing. If you deny that you’ve been wrong, you’ll only push people away from you. On the other hand, when you embrace your embarrassment and admit to having been wrong, you paradoxically draw people in. Your humility makes you seem more human.

#7

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned How the American bail system works.

I thought it was a sum of money you paid to avoid jail. I was surprised when I realized you get the money BACK if you show up for your trial.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I was like 25 when I found out the jugs of washer fluid outside the gas station aren’t free. I was walking out of the gas station with a buddy one day, grabbed a jug of washer fluid, and he asked me “did you just steal that?” And I was like “No, dude, it’s free”. It’s not, I stole washer fluid for nearly ten years of driving and no one ever said anything to me about it.

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#9

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned In high school science class we were watching a video and it was then that I realized Reindeer are, in fact, real creatures and not just mythical beings for the purpose of pulling Santa’s sled.

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Even though there’s absolutely no way to learn everything there is to know about the world, we can do our best to fill in our knowledge gaps as we become aware of them.

For instance, if you suddenly realize that you thought that reindeer were mythical creatures, you could do some research about the animal. Read up on them online. Go to your local library for some more resources. Visit a wildlife sanctuary and see them with your own two eyes.

#10

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned When I was a kid I thought it was ultra violent light instead of ultraviolet light. As in, that sun can really f**k up your skin if you don’t wear sunscreen. Bahahaha! So violent.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned That the drummer for Nirvana really was Dave Grohl, and not just a guy that looks really similar.

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#12

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned Water towers are for water pressure, not just a town putting its name on a tank and saying "Hey look how much dang water WE have."

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Similarly, if you suddenly realize that you’ve been oblivious about saving and investing, there’s no time like the present to brush up on your knowledge and start your journey toward financial independence. Of course, you’re bound to have some regrets about not knowing something earlier. However, the best time to correct your mistakes is the present. And if you’re cringing about the person you were in the past, it only means that you’ve grown!

For some more ‘obvious’ knowledge gaps that folks only realized they had later in life, take a peek at Bored Panda’s earlier post.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I feel so dumb for this but I just learned that ‘Rainbow Baby’ is a mother’s next baby after having a miscarriage. I just assumed it was a term of endearment for a queer baby. I know. I know. 🤦🏽‍♀️

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Today I learned I am a rainbow baby. Never heard of it. But I am also gay, so yeah...

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I've been confused with this term because there is also the term "rainbow bridge" where pets usually go after they die. So, basically, a rainbow baby is not a term for the baby lost in a miscarriage but for the one after who survived. Lovely term in all seriousness.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always thought it was the one that was lost. Because a rainbow never really ends, so I figured it was like the baby was waiting on the otherside for me after I die, I get see them at the end of the rainbow. But I actually really like this better as well. My son is then a rainbow baby! Though I just realized how often I have used it wrong haha

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure when this became a thing, but I only heard it for the first time literally a few weeks ago.

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Michael None
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rainbows existed long before they came to represent the LGBTQ community.

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Donna P Sisk
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a rainbow baby. She is 42 and will turn 43 later this year.

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Ina
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh u never heard of this term before, but it's good to know. Turns out I am a rainbow baby 🌈🌈

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I learned about it the hard way. My sister lost 3 before having her rainbow baby.

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arthbach
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A 'queer baby' generally refers to someone who has just worked out they are queer. They are just in their infancy of understanding that aspect of themselves.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And speaking from personal experience, you might be actually pretty old when that happens

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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought Rainbow Baby was the name for a baby born to same-sex parents

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Jane W.
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't know what this expression meant, but I love that you thought it was a gay baby!

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Lisa Catlin
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never knew this. Apparently I, too, have a rainbow baby, who also happens to be gay.

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Stymied Egan
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Today I learned that my sister and I are both rainbow babies. I'd never heard the term before. Our mom had two miscarriages and a stillborn. I'm mentioning this because it was not a secret in our home. Our mothers attitude was "It's part of life. It happens." When I had mine, it wasn't as bad for me as for the women that had no idea it was common.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So I had a rainbow daughter (who is now 38 ) and I didn't know that until today lol

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Wendy Neumeyer
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I enjoyed three living children from 7 pregnancies. All of mine are rainbow babies! Now full grown.

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Ruben Schelstraete
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also double rainbow, little sad actually. I never think of my sibling

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought rainbow baby was the name for the stillborn child to suggest that they had moved on over the rainbow without taking a breath.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always think this is a terrible term for the child, it places a burden and situation on them that they played no part in 😔

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Generally parents don't go around telling their child they are in fact a rainbow baby, especially for life nor do they place loads of pressure. It's just a cute way of saying they are a rainbow (the joy/something beautiful) after the storm (the loss)

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not quite sure what exactly a "queer baby" is but it sounds super cute 😁😁

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rainbow babies are the babies who have died and "Gone over the Rainbow"

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Hiedi H
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rainbow babies are the babies that come after a miscarriage, stillbirth or infant loss of another baby.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A ‘queer baby’ wtf. I’m not even gonna say what I was gonna say tbh

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never heard of it, even after my baby after my miscarriage

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If only it was just that sweet a sentiment (mum of 3 rainbows and one lgbtq so maybe a double rainbow child? )

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never heard about this term too.. And actually my mom has a miscarriage before me born..

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Kaeda
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never even heard of the term 'rainbow baby' before! 🤯

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I knew this and forgot about it and now I am reminded again. Thank you!

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Heather Talma
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How would you even know if a baby is queer? By the time they can comprehend that they'd be at least like four, not a baby anymore.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ouch, queer ? Really, in 2024. We really prefer gay. Got it ? Thank you

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes you are dumb, jesus christ🤷🏻‍♀️

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really hate that term. It's just a baby, it's not the messiah and it's not a consolation prize.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To a person who wants to be a parent and has lost a child in miscarriage, saying the phrase "it's just a baby" is utterly cold and heartless. No one is thinking their kid is a messiah, the term rainbow baby is used to denote new hope after a time of grief and loss.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought it was a baby in a rainbow family....?

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand there has been, at times, a bit of friction between the two communities and who “owns” the “rainbow family” label.

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My mother had a miscarriage way back when and said it's very very common and you're sad but try again. She felt it was very natural. Now they are rainbow babies. This generation has to label everything.

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Rainbow baby is a term for a child of a queer family. No-one else should be using it. Pick a different name

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can only hope you are joking. Queer families are welcome to use the term for their own meaning, but rainbows have been a symbol for connection to deceased loved ones for quite a long time (rainbow pets referring to lost pets, rainbow babies or children referring to deceased children or a baby following the loss of a child etc)

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#14

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned Not me, but my 21yo cousin just realized he is mildly allergic to peanut butter, and has been his whole life.

Up until now, he had assumed EVERYONE'S throat closed up a little while eating a pb&j sandwich, but they just fought through it.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my word, that's scary. I have a mild peanut allergy (never had anaphylaxis so I wouldn't call it severe) but just the sensation of itching, closing throat and nausea is enough to put me off even *smelling* them. If someone eats peanuts anywhere near me, I have to leave. Highly inconvenient on planes (!) and really pisses me off in the cinema!

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned That the best time to start saving for my future really was all those years ago.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

there is an old saying, "the best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second best time is right now"

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#16

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned Learned I was allergic to latex from talking to my friend. She told me that since I’m allergic to some citrus I may be allergic to latex and asked me if condoms bothered me. I responded and said yes but they bother everyone who uses them.

That’s how I learned that burning and itching and a road rash are not normal after coitus with a condom. 🙃 (I’m 26).

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same. It was a huge relief to find out it didn't always have to be so incredibly painful.

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#17

I recently realized that “Howdy” is short for “How do you do?”

I actually just googled it, and it’s technically short for “How do ye?” However, my realization still makes sense.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the UK we say “alright?” Which is short for “good day to you, upstanding fellow citizen, how do you fare on this fine day?”

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I was 39 when I realised the pointy bit on a the lid of a tube of something, for example tomato puree.. Was for braking the foil seal. For years I used a fork to break the seal until I watched someone remove the lid , turn it around and place it over the seal. Mind blown.

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I just found out yesterday that I have aphantasia, meaning I can't visualize images in my mind. When I think about an object I just know that I'm thinking about it, but I don't see anything when I close my eyes.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned My car key remote isn’t broken, the battery died after nearly 10 years.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned This past weekend, that the girl that invited me to an after party at her place and then asked for me to crash in her bed was not simply just being nice, I am f*****g stupid.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(*sigh*) been there, done that, got the regrets to prove it. (And, i wouldn't put it past me to be that dumb again.)

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I can't eat any type of nut. It messes with my stomach lining. I genuinely thought nuts just made everyone sick after eating them. Like salsa. Edit: I've discovered something about salsa today.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned That sign you see near schools with the two people crossing holding books? I was stuck in traffic a few weeks ago and suddenly realized it wasn't two women with purses.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned That cows have to get pregnant before they can make milk.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fact so many people are so out of touch with nature and food is what makes me think we are all going to hell in a handcart. We are part of the ecosystem. We are mammals. When do we make milk? For feeding our babies! So it's the same with all mammals. If we poison the ecosystem, we poison ourselves.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I'm Norwegian, and was at least thirty before I realized that the tomatoes crossing the road schoolyard joke (two tomatoes cross the road, one gets run over, the other says "Come on, catch up") has, in what I assume is the original English, a punchline. Well, for a schoolyard joke, anyway.

Norwegian kids tell the same joke, but there's no catch up/ketchup pun in Norwegian, so they just tell a joke where the squashed tomato is now ketchup. At some point a kid who knew enough English to have heard the joke but not enough for the pun told it to younger kids, who assumed it was funny because an older kid was telling it, and it has been repeated between children for generations.

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned A pickle is a cucumber that's been pickled.

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The word "bed" actually looks like a bed.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Handy for remembering which way b and d face. Whose idea was it to have two letters that are identical mirror images of each other? And why does small d face the opposite way as capital D?

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Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I grew up in Poland. When a person was arrested on a crime that was publicized, the media will only list their first name and the first initial of last name, to protect their identity before conviction, e.g. Peter G. My friend thought that all criminals had one letter last names and he was surprised the police wouldn’t just go all Minority Report on them and arrest all people with one letter last names.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in Holland and they do this also, I find it pointless now as you can just visit a UK news website where their full name is published

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#29

Heard this on a podcast yesterday, Fes from that 70s show, FES= foreign exchange student.

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#30

It’s called a “funny bone” bc it’s a humerus.

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#31

That the phrase mint condition means like new because it's the condition coins leave the mint in.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had to Google why it is called mint...from the Latin moneta, which in turn came from coins being made at the temple of goddess Juno Moneta

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I am not responsible for other people's lives. Feels a little better accepting that I don't have to stress too much over supporting my family. I shouldn't feel too overwhelmed to the point of having suicidal ideations just from the stress alone. Edit : No, I don't have kids. I'm single, been supporting my family (parents, siblings) for 10 years.

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3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope I can learn how to not feel responsible for other people's lives, it's cost me so much emotionally and really damaged my mental state. for the past two years I've had so many thoughts of ending things because someone I tried to support all the time (family member) started berating me constantly but out of fear of them doing something I stuck by them. it hurts more than people think

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#33

I only realized recently, at 40 years old, that a "fortnight" is called that because it's like "fourteen nights"...

I think because I always remembered it as two weeks, and not 14 days.

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#34

That sometimes things are just the way they are, you can't change the situation you're in, only your actions and your emotions and how you react to them.
I guess I realized that certain situations sometimes feel unfair or are not favourable to your needs and you have to find happiness in the best way you can and live your life. Sometimes you gotta make sacrificies because that's the only option.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This along with life is unfair are two adult lessons that can be hard to accept

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#35

I know "felix" is the Latin word for "happy," but only recently did I discover the name Felix is also known to mean "lucky."

Now I'm getting the irony of naming a *black cat* "Felix the Cat."

(For those who don't know, Felix is an old cartoon, and there's a superstition that a black cat crossing your path is very *un*lucky.)

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Black cats are actually considered good luck in the UK and many other cultures too.

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#36

Colonoscopies aren’t just for looking for cancer and other issues. It’s preventative for cancer because they remove the polyps where it starts. I’m pretty up on medical stuff, didn’t know that.

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#37

I'm 50 ish. For the last couple years I kept feeling that I'm getting close to retirement and I'm only going to have a few years to do what I want... Then I realized I could only be halfway there! What if I live till I'm 90? That's 40 more years! I have time to do absolutely anything I want to! It was just this crazy sort of epiphany that went you're looking at this all wrong! Life isn't over at 60 or 65, you still have a lot of time!

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Except I'm not sure I will ever be able to retire, and I think the same will go for many my age. At the same time, AI will take over lots of jobs and, where the industrial revolution replaced hard manual work with machines, this revolution will put people out of work who enjoy using their brains, leaving us all poorer and stupider.

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#38

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I didn't know there are two little bumps on the F and J keys so your hands know where to center while typing. I only learned this when my kids wanted to try typing and it's the first lesson!

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And years of gaming make me ignore proper placement when I'm typing so my left hand can cover WASD.

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#39

My wife and I are both in our 50's. She told me recently that she just realized the song Black Velvet, by Allanah Myles, is about Elvis. 

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#40

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I used to think that clapper thing in movies was to get the actors' attention. Not for editing.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They're for sound synchronization. The loud clap with the visual effect makes editing easier back in the day when sound and video were captured through separate machines and had to be recombined later.

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#41

The "Mad" in "Mad Men" meant "Madison Avenue."

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#42

Last year I realized that when you sign your "initials" they are called that because they are the first letters, i.e. the initial letters, of your name.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just wait till you learn about putting your John Hancock on documents...

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#43

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned That Loch - as in Loch Ness - is the Gaelic word for lake.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Loch means "hole" in German so it always made sort of sense to me to name lakes that.

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#44

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I should have been twisting the bottom of my deodorant to push the plastic cover out instead of using my teeth.

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#45

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned When I was 15 I realized rice isn’t pasta chopped in small pieces.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One variety called orzo really is pasta made into the shape of grains of rice.

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#46

I had lived for far too long when I learned that cars have an arrow beside the gas gauge to tell you which side the filler cap is on.

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#47

In my 30s I finally realized the Bon Jovi lyrics “on a steel horse I ride” was a motorcycle. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In case you don't know, his loaded six-string on his back is his guitar. 😛

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#48

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I was 50. FIFTY F*****G YEARS OLD, when I learned that bats are not, in fact, blind. Evidently, I'm an idiot.

So, if being oblivious to something so basic for literally half a century counts: yeah, that.

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cerinamroth
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People do say "blind as a bat" though, so I think you can be forgiven on that one!

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#49

It took me way too long to realize that you could just not answer a question. I always felt the need to either tell what I know or lie. As I got older lies felt tedious so if you asked me you would probably get (my version of) the truth. Sometimes this would lead to ugly truths being told. After watching politicians and actually paying attention to what they say I realized you never HAVE to answer the question that was asked of you. Listen to any reporter interview any politician. The reporter will ask a question, then the politician will just start talking about whatever they want to talk about. If they're nice they will start with the question and lean into what they want to say. This isn't a polite thing to do though so I wouldn't recommend doing it to anyone you care about.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know, or I don't want to answer, or the question makes me feel uncomfortable are correct answers.

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#50

There is a local plumbing company call “Abacus” with a tag line “you can count on us”. After 20 years I realized their logo was an abacus.

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#51

When putting flannel sheets on a bed, Put the top sheet on facing down. It doesn't look as nice but it is cozy as f**k. Plus, the other blankets cover it up anyway. Don't know if I'm the first guy to this party or the last, but I love that I figured it out.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was taught to put the top sheet on upside down so it looked nice when folded over the blanket. My mother didn't use comforters, just bedspreads.

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#52

That an "Amber Alert" was named after a child and not the colour of amber. (I thought it was like a code red or code blue type of thing)

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not from the USA but I know that "AMBER is a backronym standing for America's Missing: Broadcast Emergency Response. It was created in reference to Amber Rene Hagerman, who was abducted and later found murdered in 1996".

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#53

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned That the sound of a snap is your finger hitting your hand, not rubbing off your thumb.

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#54

In the song “School’s Out” by Alice Cooper, the line “We’ve got no class, and we’ve got no principals (principles)” is a play on words. Both of those phrases mean we’re uncivilized and lack values and discipline that we would’ve learned going to school.

I didn’t pick up on that when I was 6, and I never thought about the lyrics on a deeper level because it was always one of those songs that was just on in the background for me. Only noticed it last year, and I’m 31.

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#55

I was in my late thirties when it occurred to me that "for attention" is a perfectly valid motivation for people to do things. Which led to the realization that attention is a form of social currency. At that point I wished somebody had explained this truly basic thing to me when I was young and single.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember an advert for children's services that said "he needs a good listening to"

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#56

TMZ's name came from The Thirty Mile Zone. it's a thirty-mile radius from the center of Los Angeles. Outside of this particular zone, producers must pay transportation costs to cast and crew.

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#57

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned To fill the ice tray, you use DRINKABLE water. I don´t know why I never made that connection. My family has been drinking tap water ice cubes for 15 years (for clarification, this is in México city where you should not drink the tap water).

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#58

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned Swedish Meatballs - always thought they were Sweet-ish Meatballs. Could never figure out the Ikea connection...

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#59

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned Don’t judge me. About a year ago I realized “salmon colored” means the inside of the salmon. I was always so confused because salmon are not pink on the outside.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had the reverse experience. Farrow & Ball (posh paint company)have a colour called Dead Salmon. It's grey. It was ages before I realised why it wasn't orangey pink.

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#60

Frigidaire the refrigerator company?


"Frigid air!" Blew my mind.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Frigidaire is an actual French word, meaning... refrigerator... althoug more common are 'réfrigérateur' or 'frigo'

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#61

I used to always think “Est.” Next to years on buildings and other things meant “estimated” and not “established” lol

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought this as well. Until about 5 years ago... I realized it'd make more sense if it meant "established". I'm Danish so English is only my 2nd language... but I like to think a lot about certain words. A bit like when a song is stuck in your head... I have it with single words as well. :)

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#62

In the song ‘I saw mommy kissing Santa Clause’ it’s the husband dressed up as Santa and kissing his wife. Mommy is not having an affair with Santa.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless it was down the local shopping centre, in which case your suspicions were confirmed.

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#63

Probably a fairly obvious one but 50/50 raffles. 50% goes to whoever runs it, winner gets the other 50% 🤦‍♂️

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#65

I was an adult before I realized "happy birthday to you, and many mooooore" at the end of the Happy Birthday song meant many more happy birthdays and not other people whose birthday is today.

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#66

I was brought up poor, I just realized that I didn't have to wear clothes until they were worn out or too small.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

However, wearing clothes until they are worn out, or too small, is hugely better for the environment. A quick Google says "The number of times the average piece of clothing is worn happens to be about 120 times globally. " and it goes on to say this is has been reducing drastically over the last 15 years. Wear your clothes, and help the planet.

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#67

That the hunter in Jumanji is also the dad.

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#68

Living in the suburbs, it took me until high school to realize that double parking wasn’t taking up two parking spaces. 

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the UK, it's getting your next drink on the table before you've finished your first one ;-)

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#69

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned I should take this to the grave but somehow thought Mickey Mouse was a dog until I was 17 (I’m 24 now) one day I just saw a Mickey Mouse somewhere and went “Why does he have such a skinny little tail??? It looks like a ra-…..wait….”

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#70

A banana split is called a banana split because you get one banana that’s split down the middle! 🤦🏻‍♀️ Never thought of that until my husband was certain you get 2 whole bananas.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember the massive banana splits at an old ice cream parlor called Farrell’s. It was enough to fed the entire family. If the table (or you) …ate it all, You got a badge that read: “I Made A Pig of Myself at Farrell’s”. It took a few servers to bring it to your table in funny over exaggerated movements to bring attention to your table. And If it was your birthday they would sing (like a quartet) somewhat loud and off key to make sure everyone knew you were getting a massive banana split. Ahhh. Good times back in the 80’s.

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#71

I am 27yo and just realized libraries are free!

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

GET IN THERE LADDIE/LASSIE, AND READ AND READ AND READ UNTIL YER HEAD EXPLODES!

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#72

I've been a Weird Al fan for my entire life. I've listen to I Want A New Duck endless times for decades. Only recently did it occur to me when he says "And show me how to get down.... GET IT?" he is referring to down feathers.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I move to add Weird Al to the Pantheon of Pure People where he shall forever reign alongside Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, Keanu, Dolly Parton, Betty White, et alia.

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#73

It is a wheelbarrow and not a wheelbarrel. Came as a huge surprise.

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fair mistake any more, since we seldom use the term "barrow" in any other context. (at least in the US, it has some meanings in GB) The old barrow was a flat with handles on each end, somewhat like a stretcher. One person on each end to carry it. Adding a wheel to one end of it and making it more barrel like, with sides and an end, makes it a wheel-barrow, able to be used by one person. Note that the original wheel-barrows were flat with just a sloped end added to keep stuff on. Sides came later.

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#74

Ray Ban is not an actual person.

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#75

That the opposite of a aboard is all ashore, learned this yesterday and I was surprised.

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#76

A while back I realized that “airport” is exactly what it says it is. It is a port. For the air.

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cerinamroth
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You should learn German ;-) Flugzeug = flying thing (plane); Werkzeug = working thing (tool); Fahrzeug = travelling thing (vehicle)

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#77

That Hill Street Blues was named for the uniforms, not for how down in the dumps they got about crime.

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#78

It’s “sherbet”, not “sherbert”. I’m 56.

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arthbach
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is incorrect. https://www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/sherbet-vs-sherbert

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#79

It's called a "windshield" because it shields you from the wind.

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#80

When cartoons have a character say "i'm ok!!" after ANYTHING, it's so they don't get into trouble with the network.

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#81

Not everyone keeps their tongue touched to upper pad naturally.It's called mewing I just learned about it 😂

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#82

I was Well into my late 40s when someone pointed out to me what apparently everyone else knows… Arby’s is phonetically saying R.B. aka…Roast Beef They serve roast beef, the name is RB (Arby) Never made the connection.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's probably because it's not true, Arby's comes from the phonetic R B, yes, but it stands for Raffel Brothers, the founders

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#83

That the name 'Circle K', gas stations all over the US, is just another way to say OK.

They're OK gas stations.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The name Circle K comes from Kay’s Food Stores. https://www.circlek.com/history-and-timeline#fndtn-history-tab

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#84

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned The numbers on the toaster dial are not "power levels"; instead, it is the cooking time in minutes. Blew my mind.

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#85

Common Sense Isn’t All That Common: 45 ‘Obvious’ Things People Only Just Learned Slim Shady and Eminem are the same person 😭

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#86

You dice food by cutting it into little cubes: about the size of dice.

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arthbach
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The shape of a dice, not the size. You can have a large, dice, medium dice, or fine dice. It's shape not size.

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#87

That chameleons don’t actually change colour to a whole new colour they can only change shade and intensity of the base colour they actually are.

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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not even remotely true. Two seconds -- SECONDS -- on YouTube produces a video showing a chamelon change from red to green to blue.

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