30 Times People Were Surprised By How Much Of A Jerk They Encountered
We bring you a lot of uplifting stories here at Bored Panda. From feelgood happenings that restore your faith in humanity to inspirational people and happy facts, we love sharing examples of humans being kind, thoughtful, altruistic, and just downright awesome to one another.
But there's always the flip side. The times when people were thoughtless, disrespectful, selfish, and mean, the times when rude people were just, well... jerks. Because that's part of being human too.
Compiled into an infuriating list by Bored Panda, these snapshots of appalling social behavior will leave you disappointed with your fellow man; but at the same time, you might realize that in comparison to these jerks, you aren't that bad a person, after all. Scroll down below to check them out for yourself, and don't forget to vote for the human behavior that angered you the most!
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Our Dorm Building Only Has One Facilities Person To Clean, She Works So Hard Yet The People On My Floor Are Still Disgusting. I Can't Blame Her For Leaving This Note
According to the website PsychMechanics, there are some basics about the psychology of selfishness that we all should know:
A selfish person is the one who puts his own needs first. He's primarily concerned with himself and seeks out only those activities that fulfill his own desires and wants. Anything wrong with that? I don’t think so.
Going by that definition, we're all selfish in one way or the other. All of us want to do things that are ultimately for our own good and well-being. This type of selfishness is good and desirable.
So far so good. The problem arises when we do things for ourselves and at the same time ignore the needs of those around us or when we fulfill our needs at the expense of others. When you make life difficult for others to meet your own ends, then that kind of selfishness is the selfishness that you’d like to avoid.
Even Though I Don’t Work Here, The Parents With Their Children In The Photo Made A Mess In The Toy Aisle At A Store. I Feel Sorry For Whoever Would Have To Clean That Up
This Lady Kneeling On Bread While She Looks At Other Bread
Sorry, but why didn't you say anything instead of making photos? Don't let people like this get away with sh** like this. The reason they are acting in this way is because they don't care, as no one probably ever told them to stop. Again, this is disrespectful and shouldn't be ignored!
There are several reasons that could make someone selfish...
A person who holds on to his resources and doesn't give it to the needy can be considered a selfish person and this is the type of selfishness that we commonly refer to when we say that someone is selfish.
When we say that someone is selfish, we usually mean that he doesn't share his resources (money, time, etc.). Now, why won’t a person share his resources, even if it's the best thing to do in a given situation?
The biggest reason is that he thinks he doesn't have enough. A selfish person, therefore, is also likely to be stingy. This insecurity of not having enough motivates a person to hold on to his resources and not share them.
If You Or Your Kids Think That It's A Good Idea To Leave The Cinema Like This, Damn You
He/She Saw Nothing Wrong With Parking There
People who do this deserve to get their car damaged by the air ambulance crew and their streacher. It's probably the only way they'll learn.
Another reason is a fear of losing control. If someone has many needs and goals, then he overvalues his resources because he thinks that these resources are going to help him reach his goals. If he loses his resources, he loses his goals and if he loses his goals he feels he has lost control over his life.
For example, a student who doesn't share his study notes with others is the one who has high academic goals and sharing notes could mean losing an important resource that could help him reach his goal. And not being able to reach your goals is a perfect recipe for a feeling of loss of control over your life.
In other cases, the way a person was raised can also make him act in selfish ways. The only child or the child whose every demand was met by his parents (spoilt child) learns to take as much as he can and give very little back.
Such children learn to care only for their needs with little empathy or consideration for others. As children, we were all like that to some extent but gradually we began to learn that other people have emotions too and so developed empathy.
Some people never learn empathy and therefore remain selfish, just like when they were kids.
Urgh...
Was Told To Post This Here. Woman Stomped All Over The Plants In This Conservatory For Instagram Shots Despite Staff Repeatedly Asking Her To Stop
banned is not gonna make her stop doing her shit. They should add a penalty too. Like paying money for breaking rule or something.
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Why are you blurring her face? You should've given her @, so people would know what kind of shitheads they shouldn't follow. People like her should be exposed.
"Asking" her to stop? Call the cops. She's willfully destroying someone else's property.
I would confiscate their devices until they leave the place... whitch should be really soon after, for they're obviously not here to enjoy the place
poor thing, must be sad not to have anything going in your life other than being an instagrammer where your job is to beg for validation
Time to call the police and have her charged with malicious destruction of valuable property.
Wow. This should involve police and a hefty bill for restoration of plants + time.
I'd help you to stop her extricating herself from said cacti............;-)
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Should have called the cops when she wouldn’t stop when first asked. If you told the cops you had someone on drugs stomping through the plants, they probably would have hurried over and arrested her.
Hey that's the Omaha Zoo. Screw her that place is a major research and conservation center. Should've called the cops
She doesn't deserve to have her face blurred. It should be enlarged and then posted on social media so everyone can see what an asshole she is. She definitely needs to be banned from there and her enlarged picture posted at every entrance and each display. After all, she did it to show everyone how cute she looked.
For some reason my post shows up in two places in the comments?
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I hope her next Instagram post is her sobbing while she tweezes thousands of cactus spines out of her red, blotchy skin.
Haul that cunt down from there and kick her filthy ass out of the place. And fine her thousands of dollars.
I don't get the "Despite Staff Repeatedly Asking Her To Stop." Isn't it normal to throw such a dingbat immediately out? Because that's what would happen in my country.
They should have kicked her out and told her never to come back. That is something they do not need! That girls needs to learn some manners.
to bad there is no jumping cactus near by. could have used some and just block off all exits but the one with the jumping cactus.
I’m guessing she’s an “influencer” so that was her excuse. Who knew influencing people to be trash would become a thing...
I would have pushed her into the cactus and asked her how does it feel when it happens to you, Bitch?
This is what's wrong with people today (I'm not saying this is everyone btw) they don't care about other people and are so selfish. Some people actually appreciate others and not just people on their phone!!!
Call the damned police. She's providing the proof of her crimes herself.
I want to punch her so hard in the face that she shits out her own teeth.
i wish platforms were better able to moderate (which i realize isnt possible w the amt of traffic) and not allow this type of postings to discourage others from following suit.....its just getting worse and will continue to do so til its not allowed.....
Would have been absolutely hilarious if she would of fell face first into the cactus.
Call security and have her hauled off to wait for the police to get her for trespassing
Throw her into the cactus, she will get out pretty quick. Or better, rub her face with some cactus and post the picture on her instashit.
She needs to discover how nicely a prickly pear cactus fits up her arse!
2 people pick her up by her armpits & carry her outside. And lock the doors behind her. wtf!
Honestly I see her on just dirt. She probably shouldn't be back there anyways.
why didn't the staff remove her? And ban her from coming back.
She should hace been charges for all the planta she destroyed. Would teach her something
This person is consumed with anger, only she know the reason, it's frightening, she may be mentally ill
I a 75 and have never even imagined, much less seen, this disrespect and criminal damage. Forget global warming. It is the fault of every person with this mind set. I will be gone soon and these people deserve a world where Pike's Peak is a tiny island. And those plastic bottles didn't throw themselves in the ocean, did they?
I’d make her pay for the plants. They are not cheap, and some may be bloody expensive indeed. That would stop her doing anything like it again...then again she probably doesn’t give a shite about money either
Isn't that destruction of property? Can she be arrested for this?? Esp after repeatedly being told to stop? I have no idea why people have to be so vain.
Why don't people call the cops and file complaint for destruction of property??? Fine and jail these people!!! They obviously haven't learned anything from their parents, maybe even fine the parents, if still living at home!!!!!
I woulf have pulled out my mace and shot her right in the eyes, THEN when she was down, STOMPED HER TO NEAR DEATH. NOT KIDDING.
Too bad they didn't get a better picture of her face, and then had the story reported in the local paper with her picture in it.
Was she taking pictures for her online escort ad? She looks like a cheap chippie from a biker bar.
POlice should have been called for damage to the property, post that on your insta...
Cmon! Why’d you blur her eyes? She wanted to be INSTAFAMOUS! She has FOLLOWERS!!!
She should have been removed from that facility ASAP. The hell with you and your Instagram.
What a stupid selfish petty little cretin. Hope she goes instafamous for ALL the wrong reasons and gets her stupid ass sued to the high heavens!!
Have her arrested for property damage..make her pay back every dime of what it costs to fix it and ban her for life.
Pity there was not a plant which caused serve itching or something similar. Would have had here consider what she did next time.
Jail her! Or better still , stick a cactus where the sun doesn’t shine:) Then post to Instagram.
She should be arrested. Charged with destruction of private property, disorderly conduct, criminal mischief and anything else that applies.
Employees should've filmed the whole incident of them asking her to stop and her refusal, then called the cops to have her physically removed from the property with fines to be applied after the damage was assessed.
I would ask my wife to move her as i can't do anything to a woman but yeah, this is outrageous.
Why don't they just call security or the police and have her removed.. and charge her for the damage!
She should be arrested and forced to work there until she pays for the damages
Simple. Call the cops and have her arrested for destruction of property. And FINED!
She'd get out of there after I got done with her. I would mop the floor with her with verbal abuse !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Throw her out and ban her from the facility for life. Come on people take a stand against rudeness and disrespect.
Why is she taking pics for Instagram that profile really shows her jowls she looks like a blood hound!
I hope she had to pay to replace those plants. Mature cacti are pricey.
They "asked her"? They should have grabbed her by the arm and pulled her out of the place!
A helpful shove into the thorniest cactus might get her attention and the point too.
She needs to be spanked with one of those cactus leaves. Teach her a lesson.
Better not show this to my sister, the wonderfully plant obsessed person that she is...
Offer to help me did the best photo that will sure get her over 1k likes. Dig a hole on the ground, bury her whole body inside leaving her head out and a sign on the side "I stomp all the grass like a baus". I think we might even hit 5k...
Wish I'd been there - that cactus would have been shoved up her ass. People need to stop being cowards when they see jackasses like this... get in her face!
Wish I had been there - that cactus would have been shoved up her ass.
Instant karma would be a cactus falling on top of her and then poising over her body for instagram likes.
Banned???? I hope she was slapped! Then shot! Good Lord what the F????
This is in the Muttart Gardens in Edmonton AB, this place has 4 pyramids of flowers, and its common for "influencers" to take photos here, but i'd say 95% of them are respectful....such a shame, as they let you up on the roof and park grounds and take pics; ps. it's much cooler up there anyhow (photo by me) 36087514_1...0e107e.jpg 
call Trump. Have him take all her devices and make her look what she's done.
The most important thing to do when dealing with a selfish reason is to figure out the reason for his selfishness and then work on eliminating that reason.
All other methods and efforts of dealing with him are going to be in vain. Ask yourselves questions like...Why is he being selfish? What is he feeling so insecure about? Are you making unrealistic demands of him? Is he really in a position to meet your demands?
We are often too quick to label someone ‘selfish’ instead of admitting that we failed to persuade them or that our demands are unreasonable.
But what if they are really being selfish and you're not just falsely labeling them?
Well then, help them get rid of their insecurity. Show them that they're not going to lose anything by giving you what you want. Or better yet, show them how they may benefit by helping you if there's a possibility of a win-win situation.
Letting Your Kid Watch A Movie On Full Volume In A Restaurant
This Person Throwing Pistachio Shells On The Floor Of An Airplane
This Mother...
as a waitress, I've truly enjoyed telling these parents to pick up their (literally) shitty child & go to the bathrooms. Then blatantly got super-strong disinfectant and cleaned the table while their companions were still there.... and had to deal with the odours of the chemicals. "But madam, I must do this, due to the Health Hazard caused by you / your friend. And no, we can't move you to another table, as they're reserved. May I get you some dessert?" :D :D :D
Looks Like Some People Had A Celebration And Left All These Plastic Petals Behind, Which Were Being Blown Into The River. It Took Me A Half Hour To Clean The Damn Mess
This Woman Licked The Top Of A Blue Bell Tub Of Ice Cream, Put The Lid Back On And Placed It Back In The Store’s Freezer
My Neighborhood Has A Soccer Field And A Baseball Field, Which We Pay To Maintain For The Kids. Some ******* Decided It Would Be Fun To Do Donuts With His Truck, And Destroy The Entire Field For Everyone
Throwing The Community Electric Scooters Into The Water
These people need to be arrested. This is right up there with the people who tore up that sports field.
There Was A Trash Can Literally Four Feet Away
I Pay $125 A Month To Park In My Parking Spot. I’m 111B. This ******* Is My Neighbor
I'd regularly be deflating their tyres on my parking spot (without puncturing them)
Using The Only Fan In A Crowded, Warm Waiting Room To Cool Off Your Hot Box
Ewww! Seriously woman, why the hell would you think this was ok to do?!
Man Tosses His Food Garbage In The Aisle Of A Plane When He’s Finished Eating
These Girls Taking Up 2 Seats Each While Other People Have To Stand
When I was heavily pregnant, I had tot ride a really busy bus. Just one seat was free so I went to sit there. The whole bus was full of students. One stop later a old lady with a walking cane came in. No one stood up for her. So I did. That made me so angry. A whole bus full of healthy young people and the only one who is getting up and have to stand is a 7 month pregnant women.
People Hoping To Skip Queues By Standing Like This And Trying To Slip In
Last week I stood with my little son in a long, long line to buy an ice cream. I myself am obviously very pregnant and we stood there already for 15 minutes in the heat when a woman did just that. I walked around her with my son while my huge baby bump touched her and explained to my little boy loud and clear that you did not behave that way in lines, like this young woman did.
This Grown Man Throwing His Candy Wrappers For Me To Sweep Up During Work
This Lady Has Been On The Phone Since She Sat Down, While Her Kid Is Running Around Doing This To The Salt Shakers
What the ACTUAL FUCK?!? I don't know who I would be more angry at, the parent for not watching their child or whoever took this photo for not stepping in and informing the parent that their child is essentially killing themselves!
Parents Who Raise Their Kids Saying It's Okay To Leave A Library Like This
It's not okay to leave anywhere like this. Unless you visited a trash dump.
These Kind Of People
because conception entitles a human to literally do anything to anyone they want.... (sarcasm to the extreme in this statement)
