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To this day, when we talk about romance and beautiful, sublime love, we often remember the Renaissance, gallant chevaliers, ready to cross swords for the honor of the Beautiful Lady, performing serenades under the balcony of the mistress of their heart...

Stop! Stop, stop stop! So we really think that putting a foot of iron into another person's belly just to impress our crush is that damn romantic? Or throwing stones at the windows of a sleeping girl so that she, sleep-deprived and angry, will listen to us in a bad voice yelling a poorly rhymed song about unearthly love - is that beautiful? It turns out, as this viral thread in the AskReddit community confirms, there are lots of outdated “romantic” techniques.

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#1

34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Courtship that relies on being overly persistent.  It used to be cute to hear stories of "When I first met her she wanted nothing to do with me. I showed up to her job with flowers every day until she said yes and we eventually fell in love!" ❤️  Nowadays, that's just straight up harassment.

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LizzieBoredom
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As my Grandmama Wilkerson used to say (after she'd had a slug of hooch) "Don't come a knockin' if you be a stalkin'".

Firstname Lastname
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I currently have a customer at work like this, keeps trying to break my resistance to his multiple advances. No, it's not endearing. I'm paid to be nice to you, not paid to accept harassment. It makes me like him less every day, not more.

Marnie
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Was that ever a thing? Are we just believing that romantic comedies of the past reflected real life? I'm in my 50s, and always thought that was unrealistic and stupid behavior when I saw it in the movies.

CK
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kind of, but not really. The "thing" was for women to play hard to get, mostly, but men were supposed to pick up on cues and not pursue women who were genuinely not interested, but that kind of culture is not great for consent.

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WonderWoman
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That has ALWAYS been straight up harassment. Writers wanted drama/conflict to beef up their thin plot lines and added these scenarios in...and groomed people into thinking it was romantic.

TheElderNom
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The problem is I like it in fiction, but it is so creepy in real life. Same with an older male and younger female, also usually very creepy or at the very least not going to last in real life.

Jonas
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And an older woman with a young male

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Kathleen McGann
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everytime a guy did this, I only went out with him when he'd worn me down, and every time it was a huge mistake. If you say no at first, you have a good instinct about him. Stick to that!

JBo
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Goes right along with one child being mean to another and idiot relatives interpret is as "aw, she has a crush on you..."

Alicia M
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've known too many of these "persistent" guys.

JayWantsACat
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your response to this is "people give up too easily, I want someone to fight for my love" you need to reevaluate your life.

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    #2

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Semi-related. I went out with a girl, and I would get out and open the door for her when we went out in my car. After about the second day, she complimented me on being such a gentleman and that no one has done that for her. I laughed, then I told her I forgot to tell her the inside door handle on the passenger side car was broken, so that's the only way to open the door. Well, anyway, it worked I guess. I've been married to her for 12 years and she's the mother of my two kids.

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    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lol. Ya just never know which way!

    Rahul Pawa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cute story but not creepy as the title said.

    Knitting Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha ha! Did you stop and think that in an accident, if you were incapacitated she would bot be able to get out of your car?

    siedzac niej
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I helped out a dog once on the street while on my way to an interview. And wouldn't you know it - the interviewer was the dog!

    Candid Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So romantic if she like him, kidnapping is she doesn't.

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hate to tell the OP, but getting that handle fixed would have been cheaper in the long run than the two kids.

    Adrian
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha, ha! I took a girl on a date once and when we stopped she just sat there. Took me a while to realize she was waiting for me to go around to her side and open her door.

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    #3

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Asking a grown woman’s father for her hand in marriage.

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    Jorie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My second husband asked my grown son for my hand in marriage. My son replied that he better take the rest of me, too. No joke.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have smacked my now husband if he'd done that (and that's 25+ years ago). I'm not now, nor was I ever, property to be handed over.

    Lisa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad replied it wasn’t up to him.

    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did that. Not really a question as such but as a courtesy - we'd already decided we were going to marry and there wasn't anything he could have done about it anyway. Nearly 30 years ago now...

    JennyH
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree. But different strokes for different folks. My dad was an amazing human and we had a great relationship. It was out of respect and old school tradition. My ex-hub proposed and when I asked what dad thought, he confessed he didnt ask. He did a 'whatever' shrug and i didnt give an answer until he called and got the go ahead(despite saying many times prior that it was a proposal prerequisite) We've been divorced for 6 years now! I should've known.

    Stephanie Trump
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s disrespectful of the woman. Did she ask your parents permission?

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    Queeqec
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on where, in what culture ppl are living/raised/born into. Would be strange for me too, but I know there are different cultures, different rules out there. So strange too me will be perfectly normal for others.

    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hands might be the 3rd or 4th choice.

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    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that goes back to, and made more sense when, women often married younger than they usually do now.

    Definitely a Human
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It goes back to when women were sold by their fathers. You asked for the father's "blessing" because he was saying he accepted your payment.

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my sister's boyfriend asked my mother for permission to marry her daughter, my mom refused to acknowledge that the question had even been asked. (The marriage lasted about a year.)

    DaisyGirl
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't see anything wrong with this. It is a sign of respect to my Father

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    Okay, let's remember one of the most romantic stories of the Middle Ages about the unearthly and unrequited love of the great Italian poet Dante Alighieri for the young and beautiful Beatrice, to whom he dedicated many sonnets and poems. Now let's get a little dry reality: Dante was 19 years old when he first saw 8-year-old Beatrice, but many years later she married another man.

    Dante's great and unrequited feeling did not prevent him from marrying another woman, who bore him three kids. However, in none - you hear, in none of his works does Dante mention the name of his wife Gemma, while Beatrice, who by that time had already passed away (yes, mortality was sky-high in the insanely romantic Middle Ages), remained on the pages of his poems until the last years of his life.

    #4

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Hitting a girl's head with a club and dragging her to your cave.

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    Ian Webling
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait! When did this stop being a thing? The world has passed me by.

    Keith Lancaster
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have clearly never been to Burnley, England have you? That would count as sophisticated there.

    Lavern Defazio
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Aww Fred!! How many times have I told you not to fart under the sheets!"

    Stew
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't romantic anymore? I've literally had zero complaints.

    Max Fox
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That actually didn't really happen in real life, at least in prehistoric societies. That's aside from the fact that only a small number of lucky ancient humans lived in caves.

    David Paterson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar things did happen in real life. Kidnapping an unwilling girl for a wife was an accepted practice. The hitting the girl over the head with a club tended to happen after marriage.

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    Melissa Sawicki
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now the Flintstones are going to be band from TV cause OPs post. Thank Girl.

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    #5

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Never giving up when rejected.

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    Lyoness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Back when "no" was considered "maybe".

    Angelshark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also that stance bro-ham is using in the photo? The "trap her between yourself and the wall by leaning against it" thing? Not cool. Don't do that.

    Black Cat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never giving up when rejected is just as gross as getting abusivebwhen rejected. If you can't handle rejection, stay single. Nobody owes you anything just because you're attracted to them.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The reply "I'm really complimented, but no thank you." is one of the better ones.

    Ąåřţđęşịɠŋȿ
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    good way to acquire a restraining order now days...

    #6

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Having obey in the wedding vows.

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    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's been tossed out by many for the past 100 years at least. yeah, by me, twice.

    Vicky Phenny
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently the pastor my grandmother insisted on having for my nonreligious parents' wedding really pushed and pushed for "obey" to be in there, but they said no. 38 years later, my parents are still married, but that church is gone.

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    Queeqec
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having wedding vows is already strange and cringe for me. Not my cup of tea, but also very, very unusual here.

    𝐆𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐦-𝐏𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐚
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The "obey" part wouldn't have ever been problematic if it had been applied EQUALLY, because then it would have implied obeying and respecting each other's wishes and boundaries. But no -- for men it was "love, honor, and cherish" but for women, "love, honor, and obey". And that's where it falls apart. One-sided obedience is a kind of servitude, and cherish in that case becomes the way one cherishes a possession.

    Beachbum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it is love honor and respect now. I don't know, my daughters wedding is coming up and I cn't imagine her obeying anyone! 🤣💕💕🤣🤣

    Ralph Watkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my wife & I hear the part "Thru better or for worse" we chuckle. We have been thru an incredible amount of hardship, sickness, health issues, war, deaths in the family, etc together for over 30 years. Without those hardships, we would not have the bond we have today. I have friends that with the first sign of struggle, their marriage has fallen apart.

    Steve Hall
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife would have laughted both me and the judge out of the courthouse.

    Alicia M
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah...my vows did not include this part.

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    Now we'll have a time skip and go to not so long ago - about forty or thirty years. How many times have we been presented with some story as proof of incredible love about how a guy was rejected by a girl more than once or twice, but continued to literally pursue her - until he finally achieved reciprocity? Or about how a lover secretly found out the place of work of the subject of his passion in order to regularly get in their way... Now this sounds a bit creepy, doesn’t it?

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    #7

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Forcing a kiss because you just can't resist him/her.

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    Knitting Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just scary. A boy did that to me on the beach in Mexico when I was 16. Eww.

    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A 40YO guy did this to me when I was about 15 after I had babysat his kids. At the time, I was grossly proud of it. Now I realise I was just desperate for a father figure. Saaaaaaad.

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    Aboredpanda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone tried that with me, out of the blue, I'd never even seen him before, not even for a minute, suddenly he tried grabbing me. Thank god for my reflexes, I grabbed him by the throat and pushed him away fast before his face could touch mine. Then I told the bar-crew and he was thrown out of the club. Disgusting behaviour.

    JBo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    John Wayne movies: They argue She slaps him He grabs her and kisses her LOVE!

    Black Cat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Particularly awful when they hold your head so you can't break it off.

    Becky Samuel
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I found that exhaling as strongly and 'wetly' as you can into their mouths puts them right off.

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    Angelshark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvoting some of these almost feels wrong.

    Stephanie Trump
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That famous picture of a sailor kissing a nurse. That wasn’t a romantic picture. He just grabbed her and kissed her. She wasn’t happy

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My immediate reflex would be to knee him in the balls.

    Lavern Defazio
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excuse me! Can't you see I'm eating chips and onion dip!?

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    #8

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online When my dad started pursuing my mom at the college that they met at, he went to the records office and got her schedule (apparently anyone could do that at the time) and waited outside of each of her classrooms to walk her to her next class. He did this for like a week. She thought it was both slightly annoying and romantic.

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    Lyoness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They call that "stalking" now.

    Marnie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. They don't call that stalking. Not unless she said no and he persisted.

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    #9

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online The entirety of the movie "The Notebook" 🤷‍♂️ just in how he gets his first date at the start of it " Go out with me or I'll lay in traffic until I die" it all goes downhill from there.

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    LizzieBoredom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I found Ryan Gosling lying dead in the road, I would put him in my car so I could use the carpool lane.

    Ria C.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I laughed way too hard at your comment. Thanks!

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    BarkingSpider
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good old guilt and manipulation 👍

    Quarkbeast
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Snore, one of the most boring AND depressing movies I've ever had the displeasure to watch. Personally, I have no idea why people like it, each to their own.

    Dread Pirate Roberts
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it weren't for the heartbreaking parts of them as old people, this movie would've just been super generic and not memorable in the least.

    Griffy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll call the undertaker then.

    M Kovacs
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jump in the car and be that traffic!

    Marnie
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    1 year ago

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    Again, this is movie, not real life. It was no less unrealistic back in the "olden days" when they made this movie.

    mandy the capibara
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the issue is that movies also set examples. Especially for younger audiences or audiences who have difficulties in reading social clues. Both characters in the notebook behave extremely problematic, but to see that, you have to know what a good, respectful relationship should look like to compare it. Sadly, these are really quite scarce in movies. ( carl and ellie from up, and the incredibles are one of the few I can think of)

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    “Of course, each time has its own viewpoints, and what was completely acceptable a couple of centuries or even a couple of decades ago, today we consider absolutely strange or even creepy,” says Irina Matveeva, a psychologist and certified NLP specialist, whom Bored Panda asked for a comment here. “The evolution of our views is no less impressive than technological progress.”

    “We shouldn't forget that morality in the old days was completely different and, for example, any European noblewoman of the Renaissance would have ceased to respect herself if she hadn't had a couple of no less noble admirers who would have fought a duel for her attention. This was the unspoken etiquette of that time. Today it seems strange to us, but... well, maybe in a hundred years our habit of sticking to TikTok will look just as weird..." Irina presumes.

    #10

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online I was led by old films to believe that romance would involve a lot more slapping men in the face and throwing drinks at them than it actually does.

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    Ąåřţđęşịɠŋȿ
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nothing gets me more hot and bothered than a slap and splash... wohoo

    SilverSkyCloud
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it still involves it but we call those things "kinks" these days

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    It depends on the men one is dating

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    That's because we've all been reformed!! Are you disappointed?

    Marnie
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    Again, confusing movies with real life. This post is not titled "What are ways in which movies are not like real life".

    #11

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Knowing them since they were a kid but you weren’t, like my grandad met my nan when she was 13 and he was 20, they waited til she was old enough but that’s still gross to me, like you’re just sat waiting for the child you love to be legal.

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    Donteatme666
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly if they'ved been happily married for however long who are we to judge as long as they are both happy 😁. And no laws were violated before hand I personally say mind your own f****n g business . You people really need to ask your parents or grandparents when they got married I think you'd be surprised 🤯 also my parents have a age difference they've been happily married for 35 years so yes s**t happens sometimes and we honestly don't know the circumstances sometimes that's all I was trying to say but to be perfectly honest I don't give a c**p what people think of me either way 🙂

    Vicky Phenny
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like "mind your own business" doesn't really work when your grandfather tells you he fell in love with a 13 year old...

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    Coffee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Back in the day, a lot of people didn't travel much and lived in small communities , so most old people who got married knew each other from when they were kids. We'll, at least in my country.

    Helena
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're talking about adults looking at a kid and going 'yeah, I'm going to marry you'. Not two kids who grew up together and got married.

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    Michelle my Belle.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine how young she would have been if there had been no laws where she became "legal." Yuck.

    rumple slunkskin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents did this but in reverse. They were neighbors growing up and my mom had a crush on my dad when she was a kid and would follow him around being obnoxious. He moved away and got married and years later moved back home when he got divorced, and found that her following him around at 20 instead of 10 was not quite so obnoxious

    Alicia M
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It sounds disgusting but my grandmother was already married and had her first child by age 13.

    meme lord
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it doesnt just sound disgusting it kinda is

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    M Kovacs
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I met my husband at 14. Happily married until his death 45 years later. He was older.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any guy waiting for a girl to turn 16 just waves all the flags - she is one DAY older, not a whole grown up year.

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    #12

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Ordering for your date is not romantic in any way, but used to be considered such. .

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    Coffee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Na. Disagree with this one. It differs from couple to couple. When I moved to the US, I would get anxious my the number of choices on the menu especially not knowing what they tasted like. I trusted my boyfriend to always order for me for a long time.

    Marnie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But they are talking about just commonplace gestures that used to be considered romantic. (I am not sure that it ever was commonplace.) What you are talking about is just a different situation where your boyfriend helped you out due to a language difficulty. That's not what they are talking about here.

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    Mimi M
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Difference between ordering and choosing. And in any case, both rely on consent.

    Lemaire
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the issue is insisting on ordering for your partner. My wife likes me to order for her--she tells me what she wants, then I order. She is also an immigrant, but it's not just language. She gets mad if I don't opent the door for her, too. I'm a West coast progressive liberal who believes in equal rights and that sexual equality is still a ways off, etc.. So, her somewhat conservative stance on marriage threw me off at first. But, I adapted and she seems happy.

    Rosemary .
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like my husband to order for me. I tell him basically what I want, and he picks the dish he knows I'll like. It's partly because I can never read the tiny print on the menu and I'm too lazy to dig around in my purse for readers, and partly because he was an executive chef so he knows whether I'll like a particular dish or cut of meat or not.

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    David Hale
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I order for my wife after she tells me what she wants. She prefers it.

    CK
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doing it without asking or having any indication that they want you to is obnoxious. It's a nice gesture if you know they'll appreciate it.

    D W
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was never romantic, it was always a power move to try and be flashy but was always cringy

    Adrian
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the person. I went on a date with a Hungarian girl once and she insisted I order for her. It may be cultural.

    sweetrottenpeaches
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It depends on where you are dining at. Etiquette says the man should order. I might be wrong so please feel free to correct me.

    iBlank
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's only romantic if you pay attention to what your partner is interested in and can make choices that are meaningful to them. Even then it's not for everyone and you should back off if it's not their thing. For example, my partner and I like to do it for each other when we know the other has had a long day and tired of making decisions.

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    Well, if you somehow find yourself in any of the stories presented in this list, you shouldn’t do an instant facepalm. In any case, critical thinking and a sense of humor will allow you to distinguish what's truly romantic from what only seems so. And now, our dear readers, please feel free to scroll this list to the very end and, who knows, maybe add your own ideas and tales in the comments below.

    #13

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online My paternal grandparents were Italian immigrants coming separately through Ellis Island as kids around 1910. They settled in an Italian community near Philadelphia. As family lore has it, my grandfather "kidnapped" my grandmother and kept her out over night. After that, they had to get married.

    Satchi777 , lil artsy Report

    FluffyDreg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I... I'm sorry but I do want to hear from grandma. Did he kidnap her or was that just an excuse so she could stay out with him? If he dud it's f***d but idk something about how it's written gives Mr the inpression it's one of those "girl wants to say yes but doesn't want to get shamed so says she was forced" I might be very wrong

    Scotira
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From reddit: "They were already a couple, and she stayed out with him overnight. I guess to save face and reputation, the families treated it like a shotgun wedding, which is what my grandparents wanted all along. It went down in family lore as "kidnapping." I got the impression it was sort of a tradition in the old days."

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    Hphizzle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like a work-around if the parents didn’t approve of the relationship.

    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is it there folks unaware that for multiple cultures, "kidnapping the bride" was common and accepted. Accepted. By society. Right now it goes on in China- they don't like to talk about it- but it's not uncommon. Also not uncommon- when a stolen woman is found, 3 provinces away - married - she may refuse to leave her new situation. The world is big and complicated -

    Sabrina Lee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because its "common and accepted" doesnt make it right, also doesnt mean it should continue happening.

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    Nugget
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of seven brides for seven brothers. It's basically a horror film about kidnapping with an awesome soundtrack and amazing dancing.

    Bewarethere@gmail.com
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Real nice...so she had , perhaps, marry her rapist

    KathyT
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My 16 year old uncle and 15 year old, future aunt (whom I adore) lied and told their parents she was pregnant so they could get married. Which they did. Ah...those crazy kids!!!

    Ralph Watkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our landlady passed at 104 years of age. She was Italian. She worked with the guy but she was never interested in him. They did not date. He just came to her one day & asked if she would spend the rest of her live in misery with him. She said yes.

    Ąåřţđęşịɠŋȿ
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ok. well. heh. he really hacked the system didn't he? I'm assuming she did not object? Man, when you think about all those "old" custums.... WTF nowdays

    Dread Pirate Roberts
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really hope they were just pulling OP's leg with that story...

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    #14

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Being announced at a wedding as Mr. and Mrs. John Smith. That used to be a thing and I always cringed because it felt like the bride was completely giving up her identity. Also, a woman sitting in the car after you park waiting for you to walk around and open her door.

    musing_codger , Asad Photo Maldives Report

    Ripley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also - man and wife. He has an identity as a man, and she is just an adjunct.

    Black Cat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, like she has a role to fulfill but he doesn't, nothing changes for him.

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    Kathleen McGann
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My MIL never sent me a card with my name on it. Always Mrs (her son's name). Even when the card was for me alone.

    SilverSkyCloud
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    dress up as your husband and impersonate him every time you visit

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    Flora Porter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone (probably Dorothy Parker) said, when a man and a woman become one, why do they become the man?

    Sweet Taurus
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I don't wait for my husband to come and open my door for me he gets his feelings hurt. He takes pride in being what his definition of a gentleman is. I think it's cute and try to be patient and wait but it's not something I have ever expected him to do for me.

    David Hale
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In everyday events, she opens her own car door. She still likes for me to open doors to buildings all the time. On dates, she prefers for me to open the car door. I think it's cute, and I cherish it. We've been married for 24 years.

    David
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This may be cringe to you, but many women disagree, and I know many couples that the bride wanted it. It all depends on your culture and background. My parents never did that, my mother still kept her name back nearly 40 years ago, but I do not judge those who do this. If that is what they want, then why should i care. And many do not view it as the bride giving up her identity, but forging a new one.

    CK
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a difference between "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith" and "Mr. and Mrs. John and Jane Smith." Going by Mrs. Husbandsname alone isn't forging a new identity.

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    Paul Brown
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 68 now and I still remember my mom telling me how I should behave if I was dating someone. Hold doors open, pulling a chair out from the table for my date, walking down the street the man always walked on the side closest to the street and other things. But I've seen a woman say I'm not helpless, I can open my own door. I still do these things for my wife, but some people say it's being condescending.

    bas moelard
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We got married and I'm so glad that we're not pronounced Mr. and Mrs. John Smith. That's not my name

    Zaach
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many women artists have been lost because of the whole name change thing - 2 (or more) different names attached to their work

    CaliPanda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also strongly dislike referring to a woman as “the former” if she does choose to change her last name.

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    #15

    Wolf whistling.

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    Marnie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was never considered romantic.

    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Except in cartoons. Telescoping eyes and aoogah horns were the highest form of flattery.

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never say anything to a woman in public you wouldn't want a man saying to you in prison.

    Anna Chandler
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty sure this was never, ever romantic. I used to throw s**t at dudes who did that to me. Gross.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find there is a lot of hypocrisy in this area - people offended by people doing that if they are not attracted, but should a cutie do it, it's somehow acceptable. I've literally seen friends do this.

    DC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is that?

    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It depends. If it was coming from someone I was already in a relationship with, I'd find it very flattering!

    Jeya Mackelle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously we're not talking about that, hun. Catcalling, staring while he drools down his chin. Don't pretend you don't know what we're talking about.

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    #16

    My dad went on three dates with my mom during basic training. Then proposed to her over the phone from Germany. Flew back to TX, got married, and took her to Germany (she'd never left south TX before). 63 years and still going.

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    Cosmikid
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very lovely. It worked for them! That's what matters.

    Tracy Wallick
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, getting married concerningly quickly is a time-honored tradition in the military. Whether or not it works out, though, is a total crapshoot.

    Astrius
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very cute but why is it in this list? It’s just a nice story

    Angelshark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not seeing anything problematic here. Sure, three dates is very few, but I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with it.

    Pa Pa Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    3 dates while in basic training? You can rule out that your dad was in the Marines we only got to see visitors the weekend before graduation.

    Chuck Freiman
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same thing in Army basic training. I call BS on dating while in basic.

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    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with that. I met my wife on the first evening of a week long event. I proposed to her, and she accepted, six days later. We picked out the rings on the following weekend, and that was our first date. We got married three months later.

    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Though you probably meant this in a military context, isn't all dating a form of basic training?

    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is like everyone in the military. I get more money if I'm married?... Hey you there, want to help defraud the government?... You do? I do (too).

    #17

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online A duel to the death to "win" a woman.

    SocksOnHands , Daisa TJ Report

    Blue Bunny of Happiness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only there had been another option they could have chosen…like maybe the woman decides if she wants either of them. Don’t mind me, just a woman having stupid thoughts! #sarcasm

    Nichole Harris
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hush woman... Know your place🤣🤣🤣🤣 (kidding)

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    Lara Verne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember how two guys in high school had 'duel', not to the death, but to broken noses and black eyes, over some girl. When girl find out about that, she said that both of them can go to hell.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It did cut the number of annoying men by 50%, though.

    Surenu
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a civilized age, we only duel to first blood.

    Corvus
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heh, my best friend and I once pretended to "fight" for a girl back in elementary school... she didn't even notice :P

    Starry starry night
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This guy looks like heath ledger mixed with John snow with hair from Meredith from brave

    William Teach
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But, how much of that is real and how much is simply movies?

    Mike D
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At one time more real. You have to go back to tribal times and it was used as a way to prevent inbreeding.

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    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha! You come to our duel with a broadsword! But you see I have an épée! You are so toast! Ah, the good old days! :-)

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    #18

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online The Japanese old way of proposing which basically translates to, “Will you make me miso soup every morning, fore the rest of our lives?”.

    Annacot_Steal , Amar Preciado Report

    LizzieBoredom
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Five years later: Miso sick of soup.

    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Compared to a lot of the other things here this I just kinda cute

    CK
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I prefer "Do you think you would like my mother to be your mother in law?"

    Natasha Arruda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My fat butt would still be worried about this. Maybe not every morning but I'd still be asking "Will you feed me daily like your favorite pet?"

    iBlank
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    todays miso soup is called cheerios, enjoy!

    Pandabum01
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aw that's nice though. I dont see that as inappropriate at all.

    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only if you make me dessert for the rest of our lives :)

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    #19

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Picking a fight with the man she is dating.

    IfICouldStay , Pixabay Report

    Dread Pirate Roberts
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such an animalistic way to act, and very unattractive.

    sweetrottenpeaches
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Human kind is just an other kind of animal. It is still just an animal.

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Warning her that your primary approach to romance is violence.

    iBlank
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL, I had to read that several times before I realized they were implying when *another man* picks a fight with the man she is dating... originally I was just thinking, why keep going out with this girl if she's always picking a fight

    Rocky
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank for clarifying. I knew I could find an explanation

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    JBo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The crappy talk shows always had the 2 women fight over the man...

    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was that ever considered romantic, or acceptable?

    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago

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    As the photo indicates- biology will prevail.

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    #20

    A matador fighting a bull, killing it, cutting it's ear off, and then presenting it (or a bloody handkerchief) to a woman.

    There was a story we used to have to read in school that included a matador fight and this happened. Most of the girls just cried the bull [died].

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    Natasha Arruda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The way they treat bulls in a fight is so crappy, I'd cry over the animal as well. Unless the guy is being jabbed repeatedly with spears too, it's not a fair fight.

    Adrian
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not a bullfight. It's a bull torment, torture and slaughter...

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    CSC
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What gets me is that when a matador gets gored, the audience gets upset. Why? It certainly isn't the fault of the bull.

    Craig Reynolds
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Killing ANY animal to prove yourself is just unacceptable.

    Paul Brown
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood the whole bull fighting thing. It's animal cruelty.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also running the bulls in Spain.

    SilverSkyCloud
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    at least the bulls get a chance at revenge, not much of a chance though, where my nana lives, they still do a bull race but the bull are men dressed up with fake horns lol

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    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago (edited)

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    I'd have to suggest you are not from Spain or Mexico... and yes, if someone did this in New Jersey, people would look askance.

    Helena
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Animal cruelty is not location-dependent.

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    #21

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Sending unsolicited love letters or showing up unannounced at someone's home However, in today's society, these actions could be perceived as intrusive or even creepy.

    legend0920 , Ron Lach Report

    Marnie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finally one I can agree with. Because people used to ACTUALLY do this. Both men and women might write an unsolicited love letter (especially teenagers), and people just did show up unannounced at other people's homes (whether they were a romantic interest, friend, or family - people often used to do that).

    Debby Keir
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People turned up unannounced because not everyone had a phone (landline) and they certainly didn't have email.

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    SilverSkyCloud
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    showing up unannounced at someones house is creepy but whats wrong with a love letter?

    John Jancar
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So no love letters lol Wtf, you know, SOMEONE GOTTA START THE FLOW lol You can't just say, oh send me a love letter lol

    Maggie Fulton
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Showing up unexpectedly is definitely creepy. The unsolicited love letter is kind of pathetic.

    iBlank
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IDK, this is the same as many others on this list... not any different than in the past. It's just the context of the situation that makes it cringy or not

    Cosmikid
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm baffled by so many youngsters who are sure they speak for everyone. You don't you know.

    The Other Guest
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm baffled by why you think that a statement has an unspoken "everyone" unless stated otherwise. Particularly in this case, where the poster says "could be perceived as" and not "is always." If something doesn't apply to you, then they weren't talking about you. Accept, and move on.

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    #22

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Throwing rocks at someone's window to sing to them in the middle of the night.

    Appropriate_Ask_462 , RDNE Stock project Report

    James Howell
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, however, back then they couldn't text or call.

    Hphizzle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d prefer that from a significant other over a 3am “you up/wyd?” text.

    DRMAGDN
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *John Cusack's Boombox intensifies

    PeepPeep the duck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I rocked up to my bf’s house when we were first dating, blasted some 80s music (shock the monkey) and held up a hand drawn cardboard boom box I painted up the night before 😝 it was fun

    JJ Jones
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought that pic was going to say “ singing an awful song they wrote to woo you”

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've heard singing where it was the other person who was entitled to throw the rocks.

    Just stopping by
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually always thought this would be kinda cool😂 but I never really lived on the top floor long enough for it to ever be possible

    SilverSkyCloud
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    throw a rock at the window while i'm sleeping, i'll throw a brick right back at you

    bas moelard
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And to call the window repair service after

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    #23

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Giving her father 4 horses and a mule for her.

    Chance_Cheetah_7678 , Annika Treial Report

    Natasha Arruda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean if someone offered ME 4 horses and a mule I'd probably say yes, but I'd be upset if they gave them to my parent.

    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially bad if her parents live in a small apartment in a crowded city.

    Justin Tyme
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a parent I am thinking "What kind of horses?" and "Is it a good work mule?"

    rumple slunkskin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reasonable questions. But that's 4 things to feed instead of just the one. On the other hand, feeding animals is usually more simple than feeding my kids... there's a lot to mull over here.

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    ZGutr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, it's not that long ago my wife was in Egypt with the woman from next door. They started mentioning four camels, and kept asking the phone number of their brother (assumed they where sisters) to negotiate and seal the deal.

    Angelshark
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just as awful as the reverse, where the father gives 4 horses and a mule to the groom for her. In some customs the father paid the groom to take the bride. I can understand this in say the middle ages when marriages formed alliances between kingdoms, but in this day and age, these customs need to go. Some "traditions" are stale and should be left to die out.

    Stephanie Trump
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe in traditional marriage. That’s why dowry is two chickens and a goat

    Rae Rory
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, I worth at least 4 horses and TWO mules.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nearly got sold in Egypt for a few camels. True story.

    David Paterson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Parts of New Guinea it was a pig.

    KathyT
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Johnny Lingo story. Google it.

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    #24

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Holding up a boom box outside her bedroom window blasting "In Your Eyes" by Peter Gabriel.

    EerieArizona , Movieclips Report

    pinkpie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stalking is despicable. Forceful romantic attention is unacceptable. In the film “Say Anything” the mains fall in love and she breaks up with him solely due to her emotional turmoil due to her complex relationship with her father (which is the main plot of the movie btw - it is not a romance). They are both incredibly unhappy. He tries to contact her, and a last ditch effort plays their song outside her house as a reminder that their relationship is too precious to be swept aside in a crisis. At no point does he stalk her in this film. I will die on this hill. Thank you.

    Lady Miss Pie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You guys: This is from the movie Say Anything, when Lloyd Dobler is dumped by Diane Court and then stands outside her window with the boom box playing In Your Eyes because it was their song. It works, in the movie. But only in this movie.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See also Every Breath You Take as a wedding first dance.

    Vinay Pai
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "What is Love? Baby don't hurt me..."

    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ok, YUCK. Nice to have red flags, though, yes?

    Upstaged75
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is from a movie - you know that right?

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    Ashlisha
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Today if this happened. I would pee myself laughing.

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    #25

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online My dad followed my mom across the country. She was doing an internship where he worked and when it was over she had to go back home to Texas. They weren’t dating or anything, she had a boyfriend at the time. But my dad said he couldn’t let her get away so he jumped in his s****y car and drove to Texas.

    masegesege , Dmitriy Ganin Report

    Lyoness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's actually kind of scary.

    Rosecrucian Roeth
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    1 year ago

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    Nowadays it is, but back then maybe not so much, unless he became scary.

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    Angelshark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a woman did this to a man, people would be crying about how stalker-ish and insane this woman must be. But if a man does it a woman it's romantic? Double standard.

    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By the stated outcome - they got married - it doesn't seem like she objected.

    ZuriLovesYou
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's still wrong to stalk someone, especially when she's already involved with someone!

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    Javelina Poppers
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Suddenly, unsolicited d*ck pics don't seem so creepy.

    ZuriLovesYou
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is something straight out of a movie. I'd be scared.

    Craig Reynolds
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's stalky behavior. He's lucky it worked out instead of him ending up being a wife to his cellmate Bubba...

    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    EXTREMELY creepy ... does he track her, now?

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    #26

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Breaking into a womans home and leaving her a box of Milk Tray.

    LithiuMart , Budgeron Bach Report

    Lyoness
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When and where was trespassing romantic?

    Jorge Gonzalez
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was never common nor perceived as romantic.

    Beachbum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What the hell is a milk trey??

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A cheap a*s box of chocolates, sold by "romantic" advertising back then.

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    KatSaidWhat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least make it decent chocolate.

    Julie S
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All because the lady loves milk tray

    Sian E
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meh, if they can break in without actually damaging anything and as long as they want nothing more than to leave a box of chocolates, I could get used to that. A no strings attached, no effort from me, free box of chocolates every so often... what's not to like?!

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    #27

    Unaliving yourself over a romantic heartbreak.

    Ok-Dependent7444 Report

    Natasha Arruda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too many people still think that Romeo and Juliet was a love story.

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its author named it "The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet".

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    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not going away- since it is often biological. "Heartbreak" is real, and can make you very ill. Typically, we do get over it. But while it's happening, it can feel like "the end of the world." Not everyone experiences this kind of "love". I know many people, all genders, who regret never having experienced it- and many who have who wish they hadn't. We don't seem to get a choice in it.

    Puppy Dancing!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately this happens in real life.

    Justin Tyme
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I recommend playing it with captions: Romeo and Juliet Prologue Song https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pv6YW8Vcd9g

    Nina
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nowadays you get killed over breaking up, much better...

    Rosecrucian Roeth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love yourself first, and then you can determine when love arrives for someone else.

    KathyT
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This still happens, but may be less about true love and more about depression, control and frustration.

    LizzieBoredom
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    1 year ago

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    #28

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Getting married after 3 months of knowing each other.

    dropofred , Pavel Danilyuk Report

    RagDollLali
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband and I got engaged after 3 months of dating, married 7 months later. It will be our 8th anniversary this July and still going strong. My parents got married in Vegas after 3 months dating, together 44 years and they're still in love and each other's best friends. What works for some may not work for others, but it's nobody's place to judge other people for when and how they decide their relationship should move forward.

    Squirrelly Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people know. Great for them. For most people it's best to wait and really get to know each others true selves.

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    David
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is still common today, if you know, you know. My brother knew his wife 5 months from first date until wedding, 11 years later, still happily married, I know someone who proposed after 6 dates, and the woman accepted, and they are happily married and both said they "just knew". Not everyone feels the need to wait years of dating. Many people just realize they are perfect for each other, and just get married quickly. This is not outdated or creepy, this is just the dynamic of the couple.

    XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like this response. I probably would have married my partner after 3 months if marriage was my thing. I knew by the 2nd date that he was "the guy," and we shacked up pretty quickly after that. It's been almost 10 years of living in blissful sin ever since. 🥰 Definitely situation dependant.

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    Knitting Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was engaged that soon and married six months after we met. We were 26, both knew what we wanted from life and respected each other in addition to loving each other. I lost him to fronto temporal dementia after 28 years and if he were still alive we would be 42 years married. We loved each other fiercely and we knew it when we met.

    Justin Tyme
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't see any issue with this one. Long-term dating is a tradition in some cultures but not others.

    Angelshark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't problematic. Now if one party is being forced to marry against their will, it's another story.

    DaisyGirl
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again each to their own. Lots of judgey judgey folks on this BP post

    ZGutr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    no, not that. Does living together from the very moment you met count ?

    Kayleigh Haigh
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was engaged to my husband after 2 months married after 5 this November will be our 11th wedding anniversary and 5 kids later we have been through some tough times together bereavements, sons cancer which he kicked its a**e btw complicated pregnanceys and much more and its made us stronger, yet i know couples that were together years then got married divorced within a year

    Natasha Arruda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My niece has just done something like this. I forget how many months exactly but less than a year for sure, then immediately pregnant (no, it wasn't pregnant first then wedding) so I'm worried about her but it's her life.

    Lowrider 56
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I met my now wife in May and we got married in August. Been almost 17 years now. Sometimes you just 'know'

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    #29

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Intentionally dropping a handkerchief and then someone running up to pick it up and return it to the owner.  That was still a thing when I was a child.

    Plain_Chacalaca , Michael Coghlan Report

    TheElderNom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw a girl try that with her keys in middle school, the guy didn't get it at all (or he was not interested and great at acting) and it was so very cringy. I still get second hand embarrassment just thinking about it.

    Helena
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This move is back when hand fans were a thing and had their own language.

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    Max Fox
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a society in which a woman was not supposed to flat out ask a guy out on a date, or even just start talking to a guy, this was a way to create an excuse for the two to start talking. It was more practical than romantic.

    Angelshark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, I guess it's a way to figure out who simps for you, but I don't see anything wrong with it.

    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How young? Never ran into that one in real life; just old movies.

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    #30

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Sending your hair to someone in the mail.

    BrentHamp , Skitterphoto Report

    Helena
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lock of hair was a real thing for a real long time

    IamMe
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was a thing in some places for hundreds of years. It wasn't just done romantically. People, would have locks of hair from parents, children, and other loved ones, too. Often, made into a piece of jewelry. The weird part, in my opinion, was when it was funeral jewelry, and not of a living person you were missing.

    RagDollLali
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What the actual f*ck?? When was this a thing??

    Becca not Becky
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lock of hair was a thing, especially with distance relationships. It's a centuries old thing.

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    Ąåřţđęşịɠŋȿ
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    your blood in a necklace vial. Works every time. (jk)

    KathyT
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the roots still attached it can be used to test your DNA, so be careful! ;)

    FluffyDreg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless it's a wig because they lost their hair... abd it was agreed upon

    Ralph Watkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Romantic or creepy depending on what part of your body the hair comes from.

    mft760
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isnt it called "extensions:?

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    #31

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online My dad tried to hit on my mom by asking her a mussel recipe (which in french is very disturbing because mussel/moule is one way of saying vagina). Never understood how they went to have 3 children together.

    HsJohnson88 , Julia Khalimova Report

    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suspect they had three children together the way most parents do.

    iBlank
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    did he just assume that she makes good vagina soup?

    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could use some confirmation from other French speakers that this would commonly be seen as disturbing in France - I've had some experiences with French idioms where the next native speaker emphatically denied my previous expert-

    Phillip Thern
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    note: some people are pervs, and some people like being perved on. I wouldn't recomment relying on it

    #32

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Putting my jacket down over a puddle.

    Moondoobious , Дионис Сердюков Report

    Firstname Lastname
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If your jacket is wet, how am I supposed to put it on later and claim it as my own? Besides, getting lifted over the puddle is far more entertaining to me.

    Tucker Cahooter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Has anyone other than Sir Walter Raleigh ever done that?

    Cosmikid
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was crazy when HE did it, which is why it's remembered!

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    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoever told you that could actually be a good idea?? Hint - they were putting you on...

    TheElderNom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen it a lot in cartoons, as a kid I did believe it was a romantic thing people did though it seemed really stupid. Why not just walk around?

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    Debby Keir
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, but he did it for his queen, not for a 'love interest'.

    Ąåřţđęşịɠŋȿ
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    saw a cartoon once where this was done. The puddle was very deep.

    #33

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Having huge tracts of land.

    calamitouscamembert , Mikhail Nilov Report

    girl_bug3_14
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvote for the Monty Python reference!

    La Lucy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, farmers, vinters, ranchers and the like should make do with a few acres?

    Mary Mäkinen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its a euphemism from monty python about marrying a woman because they have big tits.

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    RabidChild
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's Greek! She's smart! She's got HUGE ... tracts of land.

    Daniel Atkins
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is helpful if your castle has sunk into the swamp a few times.

    Daycare Attendant Sun
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It has to burn down first, fall over, THEN sink into the swamp.

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    Rae Rory
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know, but I want the-- the girl that I marry to have...🎵...a certain,... special... something!

    Jay Scales
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Made me think of 'Combine Harvester' by The Wurzels :D

    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wealth - has not gone out of fashion yet, you may notice.

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    #34

    34 Behaviors That Creep People Out Now But Once Were Considered Romantic, As Pointed Out Online Leaving an offering of purified water and honey outside your cottage on the Vernal equinox.

    tenehemia , ROMAN ODINTSOV Report

    FluffyDreg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whats up with this? Is this romantic???? It sounds more like some kind of cultural ritual?

    Cosmikid
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know this one, but there are multiple ways a young woman might seek a dream vision of her future partner, and the equinox is commonly involved.

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    Doc “Dr Rotwang” Rotwang
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a great way to GET INFESTED WITH FAERIES PROBABLY

    Maggie Fulton
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or insects. Yummy honey. Just what I want to find in the morning, an.ant-filled glass of warm water.

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    M O'Connell
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone left me a jug of spring water and a pot of honey, I WOULD definitely want to know more about that person.

    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds highly effective... for catching flies.

    Analyn Lahr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't that what you do for fairies?

    Brian Droste
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I first read this I thought putrified water and thinking gross. After reading the comments went back reread the caption undervthe picture. Purified water.

    CSC
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like something a person would leave for fairies.

    Ąåřţđęşịɠŋȿ
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    at least it's not invasive. And you will find out if she is educated.

    Rosecrucian Roeth
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This..............is..............weird!

    LJ Robinson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Open your Bible (if you have one) and Read Leviticus, Chapter 4

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