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"Choosing beggar" is an online term used to describe people who make unreasonable or entitled demands. And there's a whole subreddit dedicated to this colorful bunch.

Perhaps somewhat surprisingly, parents make up a considerable number of them. So we at Bored Panda decided to try and see what their requests are usually about. Turns out, child care is arguably their top priority.

To show you that some moms and dads need a reality check, we compiled a collection of moments when they tried to get someone to watch their kids for (basically) free.

#1

Sister Sent Me This...she Was Blocked Immediately After

Sister Sent Me This...she Was Blocked Immediately After

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Michael P (Perthaussieguy)
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What total a*****e parents. I hope they had extreme difficulty in getting anymore childminders

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Even though they're getting called out for the way they go about it, parents who are sending kids to daycare know that it can be a huge chunk of the family budget.

For example, in the US, the average cost is about $10,000 a year, but it's more than double that in many places across the country.

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    #2

    Free Babysitter Needed

    Free Babysitter Needed

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    Phoenix
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure there's plenty of pedos and serial killers who would gladly volunteer... FILL OUT THE FORMS, FFS!

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    #3

    The Second I Saw “Someone Who Is Looking Into Babysitting” I Knew She Was Looking For Free Childcare

    The Second I Saw “Someone Who Is Looking Into Babysitting” I Knew She Was Looking For Free Childcare

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    Gimme that Cash
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People really like making use of other's kindness huh?

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    #4

    Another Mom Refusing To Pay For Babysitting, People Can Sure Be Mean Sometimes

    Another Mom Refusing To Pay For Babysitting, People Can Sure Be Mean Sometimes

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    Fox with a Dragon Tattoo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More stories like this need to name and shame the lying trash that pulls this kind of thing. This is also why you always get it in writing.

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    According to the US Labor Department, the average price of preschool and daycare is up 6% from last year and nearly double the overall inflation rate of 3.2%.

    Big parts of the problem can be attributed to increasing labor costs and rising demand with more parents going back to the office post-pandemic. 

    #5

    $5/Hr Is Insane. 3 Kids Under 5, Btw

    $5/Hr Is Insane. 3 Kids Under 5, Btw

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    #6

    Paying You To Babysit Is “A Deal Breaker Sorry No”

    Paying You To Babysit Is “A Deal Breaker Sorry No”

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    #7

    It's Always A "Nanny" That They Want For Dirt Cheap Or Less

    It's Always A "Nanny" That They Want For Dirt Cheap Or Less

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    PFD
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking for someone with no problems with the law in order to enter into a conspiracy to evade tax. No wonder they want a Trump fan...

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    #8

    Cb Wants Somebody To Watch Their Toddler For $3.33 An Hour

    Cb Wants Somebody To Watch Their Toddler For $3.33 An Hour

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    Child care is gaining resonance in economic and business circles, but it's losing ground in the political arena.

    Funding put in place during the pandemic is set to run out this month, and advocates warn that once the US hits that "child care cliff," some centers will either have to raise prices even more, cut staff, or shut their doors.

    #9

    $15 A Day! And She Needs Overnight Care Too

    $15 A Day! And She Needs Overnight Care Too

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    Glenn Cuneo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your son has special needs? I'm a Special Education Teacher. I'll do it for my base pay. $55.00 an hour. Overnight? You're looking at $100 an hour, firm.

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    #10

    75 Cents An Hour For Babysitting

    75 Cents An Hour For Babysitting

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    Fox with a Dragon Tattoo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats not even going to cover the gas for pick up and drop off lol

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    #11

    For Market Price, You Can Clean Our House And Watch Our Kids!

    For Market Price, You Can Clean Our House And Watch Our Kids!

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    LuLuBelle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only $1k a month and comes with free chores and housework! What a deal!

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    #12

    Babysitter Wanted, Must Be In Collage

    Babysitter Wanted, Must Be In Collage

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    Krissy G.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always the people with the most kids paying the least money. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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    Employment in the sector still hasn't recovered from 2020, in part because wage growth in the under-resourced industry hasn't kept pace with other low-wage sectors.

    #13

    This Parent Who "Can Only Do $6 An Hour" For A Babysitter To Come And Watch Their Kids Five Days A Week

    This Parent Who "Can Only Do $6 An Hour" For A Babysitter To Come And Watch Their Kids Five Days A Week

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    #14

    Watch My Kid For 50+hrs A Week For $100 Each Week...also, Have 3 Years Babysitting Experience And Preferably A Cpr Certificate

    Watch My Kid For 50+hrs A Week For $100 Each Week...also, Have 3 Years Babysitting Experience And Preferably A Cpr Certificate

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    Glenn Cuneo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not a single m**********r showed up to the interview.....

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    #15

    This Is Not A Babysitting Job

    This Is Not A Babysitting Job

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    #16

    Need A Babysitter/Slave

    Need A Babysitter/Slave

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    Jane No Dough
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sooo messed up! I was a kid like these, getting dumped at barely paid strangers homes with zero concern for my safety or well being by a desperate immature single mom with no support system.

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    On top of that, babysitting rates rose 9.7% in the US in 2022 — a bit less than the 11% hike seen in 2021, but still outpacing inflation for the second year in a row.

    A shortage of babysitters and higher pay that those remaining are able to command are creating seismic ripples in the labor market, keeping some parents at home or in precarious care arrangements.

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    #17

    Babysit My Kid Full Time And I'll Pay You $30 A Day! $3 An Hour, Such A Steal!

    Babysit My Kid Full Time And I'll Pay You $30 A Day! $3 An Hour, Such A Steal!

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    Maarten VP
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Possibility of joining us on family outings to help out"-> Some people really shouldn't have kids.

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    #18

    Wants A Nanny For Less Than $5/Hour

    Wants A Nanny For Less Than $5/Hour

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    Kathy Potts
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should have thought about childcare costs before getting pregnant.

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    #19

    I Don’t Think Anyone Is Going To Want To Watch Your 4 Year Old For $3 An Hour

    I Don’t Think Anyone Is Going To Want To Watch Your 4 Year Old For $3 An Hour

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    karen Young
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be scared of anyone who would accept.

    #20

    Someone’s Want Add For A Babysitter 3 Days A Week

    Someone’s Want Add For A Babysitter 3 Days A Week

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    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aside from the payment, this one seems the least unreasonable until now

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    Last year, the national average babysitting rate was $22.68 an hour for one child, $25.37 an hour for two, and $27.70 an hour for three. That's a staggering 21% jump in just two years.

    #21

    The Audacity Of This Woman

    The Audacity Of This Woman

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    #22

    $250 A Week For 69 Hours Babysitting, And She Is Playing The Single Mom Sympathy Card

    $250 A Week For 69 Hours Babysitting, And She Is Playing The Single Mom Sympathy Card

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    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having to be there for 4.45am would probably mean waking up at 4am. That would require some big money for compensation (I’m not a morning person) then having to work for twelve hours... 😴😴😴

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    #23

    $3/Hr To Babysit Your 5 Year Old? Yeah No Thanks…

    $3/Hr To Babysit Your 5 Year Old? Yeah No Thanks…

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    #24

    You Must Be Cute, Pay My Brother To Babysit, And You Must Surprise Me

    You Must Be Cute, Pay My Brother To Babysit, And You Must Surprise Me

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    So even though it's hard to sympathize with someone as entitled as most of the parents in these pictures, their opportunistic "hunts" for people to look after their kids can be interpreted as signs of a bigger problem.

    51% of U.S. parents say they spend over 20% of their income on child care, which is far more than the 7% that the federal government defines as "affordable."

    #25

    Babysit My Kid For 20$/Day

    Babysit My Kid For 20$/Day

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    #26

    Local Babysitting Group, ~$2/Hour Opportunity!!

    Local Babysitting Group, ~$2/Hour Opportunity!!

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    ELIZABETH A HIGBIE
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I definitely think this person has a reason for posting this out of the ordinary request.. I am very curious, but I don't think everyone should be so quick to judge her ... I think it speaks volumes that she's aware of how odd her request sounds and acknowledging it should indicate that it's more of a "private and personal matter" that she's willing to explain . Needless to say I am personally more curious than weirded-out by this one.

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    #27

    Babysitter Choosing Beggars; People Should Just Babysit For Free!!

    Babysitter Choosing Beggars; People Should Just Babysit For Free!!

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    #28

    Local Fb Group Mom Wants To Pay $100 A Week For Babysitting Overnight And Getting Child To School

    Local Fb Group Mom Wants To Pay $100 A Week For Babysitting Overnight And Getting Child To School

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    Marigo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you know if they're untrustworthy??

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    #29

    Fulltime “Babysitter”

    Fulltime “Babysitter”

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    #30

    Passive Aggressive Post After No One Would Babysit Free Of Charge

    Passive Aggressive Post After No One Would Babysit Free Of Charge

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    #31

    I Wish Someone Would Help Take Care Of Our 3 Kids.. But It Has To Be More Than 2 Hours

    I Wish Someone Would Help Take Care Of Our 3 Kids.. But It Has To Be More Than 2 Hours

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    #32

    5.83 An Hour. To Chase A Toddler For 12 Hours A Day. In Comments Says It Would Be Ideal For A Retired Person. Claims Nothing Is Wrong With That Pay, She Herself Would Take It!

    5.83 An Hour. To Chase A Toddler For 12 Hours A Day. In Comments Says It Would Be Ideal For A Retired Person. Claims Nothing Is Wrong With That Pay, She Herself Would Take It!

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    Michael P (Perthaussieguy)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Please no hate comments"... I think she's had difficulty in getting people to work 4am - 4pm 5 days a week (60hrs).

    #33

    Looking For An Experienced Babysitter At $3/Hour

    Looking For An Experienced Babysitter At $3/Hour

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    Carla Campbell
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my oldest was a baby, I worked in a day care center so I wouldn't have to pay a sitter.

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    #34

    $30 A Day For 8 Hours And 2 Kids, Am I Crazy Or Is This Ridiculous?

    $30 A Day For 8 Hours And 2 Kids, Am I Crazy Or Is This Ridiculous?

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    #35

    $30 For A Whole Day Of Watching A 2 Year Old And 6 Month Old

    $30 For A Whole Day Of Watching A 2 Year Old And 6 Month Old

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    Krizzy Wilde
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think babysitting very young babies and toddlers is not something you leave to an inexperienced person or just anyone! Some of these have absolutely pissed me off, first time anything on Bored Panda has really annoyed me!!!

    #36

    Babysitting Type 1 Diabetics For Less Than $4.50 An Hour

    Babysitting Type 1 Diabetics For Less Than $4.50 An Hour

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    Krizzy Wilde
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of these are outrageous, Social Services/CPS agencies should monitor these sort of ADS because I'm honestly horrified by the lack of disregard or thinking that some of these people have for their kids welfare, a child abuser/pedoz will gladly accept the terms offered or do it for free!!

    #37

    $5 An Hour For A Full Time Babysitter For 2 Little Boys. 45 Hours A Week At $250

    $5 An Hour For A Full Time Babysitter For 2 Little Boys. 45 Hours A Week At $250

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    Mark (it/urgh)
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The other nanny is having medical issues; she's sick of you and your kids 😅

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    #38

    Cb Will Pay $100 For 57 Hours Of Babysitting, For Two Kids Under 4. Oh And They Stay With You

    Cb Will Pay $100 For 57 Hours Of Babysitting, For Two Kids Under 4. Oh And They Stay With You

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    Krizzy Wilde
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rule 9 and 10 are absolutely f×××××d up 😵 "I trust you with my kids but I don't trust you in my home " unless I know you!!

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    #39

    From My Town’s Facebook Page. She Wants A Babysitter For Two Infants To Come To Her Home And Clean For Less Than Minimum Wage??

    From My Town’s Facebook Page. She Wants A Babysitter For Two Infants To Come To Her Home And Clean For Less Than Minimum Wage??

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    Coralinea
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Husband and her being there is not an advantage!!

    #40

    You = Reliable Car + Drivers License + Babysitting Experience. Us = We Pay $4.54/Hour

    You = Reliable Car + Drivers License + Babysitting Experience. Us = We Pay $4.54/Hour

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    #41

    Willing To Pay "A Couple Bucks" Per "Hang Out Session" With My Fabulous Child!

    Willing To Pay "A Couple Bucks" Per "Hang Out Session" With My Fabulous Child!

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one would work for any parents who want their 9 to 12 yr old supervised after school till they get home from work tho....

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    #42

    Less Than $2 For Babysitting Is Insane

    Less Than $2 For Babysitting Is Insane

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    #43

    Woman Wants To Pay Up To $45 Dollars For 8 Hours Of Babysitting In An Area Where Minimum Wage Is $14.25

    Woman Wants To Pay Up To $45 Dollars For 8 Hours Of Babysitting In An Area Where Minimum Wage Is $14.25

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    Sammie 19
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perfect for a student but the working hours are roughly the same as being on school?

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    #44

    $2/Hr For A Full Time (58 Hours/Week) Babysitting Job. Sweet Deal!!

    $2/Hr For A Full Time (58 Hours/Week) Babysitting Job. Sweet Deal!!

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do we get the impression that some of these people - consciously or not - essentially regret that slavery was abolished?

    #45

    I Won’t Pay You To Babysit

    I Won’t Pay You To Babysit

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