A lot of things differ from country to country—not to mention continents—making some people quite confused about the way inhabitants of the lands far far away live. Whether it’s faucets, windows, or shopping habits they find surprising, some things might simply make no sense for those not used to them.
Redditors recently discussed the topic after one of them posed a question to the ‘Ask Reddit’ community. They addressed the American members of the group asking what is something that Europeans have or do that makes no sense to them, and the respondents had plenty to share. Scroll down to find their answers below and see for yourself whether they do or do not make any sense.
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I'm Canadian, but it's always baffled me that some Europeans consider a half hour's worth of driving a long time. That wouldn't even get me out of the area I'd consider local
A friend i hadn't seen for a long time moved to a town 100km away. In Australian terms, that's practically just around the corner.
Im from Europe myself (uk) and find it strange some people here have carpet in their bathroom. ITS DISGUSTING
Football hooliganism. You'll beat people just for wearing the wrong shirt to the wrong bar. Its a horrendous practice
As an idiot american with 2 parties I only understand left wing and right wing, europeans have a party for everything. It's confusing, but I wish we weren't a 2 party state tbh
It makes sense to me, but it still seems marvelous to me that in France (other places I'm sure, but I learned this in French class) it is common to buy groceries every day. You may wake up and go to the bakery for fresh baked bread, or stop by for fresh produce on the way home to make dinner.
Yes, having walkable grocery stores nearby makes it easier, it seems so much easier to buy 3-4 days or a week's worth of groceries at a time.
I did this in Argentina. I loved being able to just get what I needed every day. Food is always fresh, cuts down a lot on waste, you get a little bit extra exercise, and you can make exactly what you're in the mood for that day.
It's not that it doesn't "make sense," but the first time I saw those windows that can be moved a bunch of different ways, you would have thought I was seeing a rabbit being pulled out of a hat, that's how amazed I looked. Tilt and Turn Windows
Saw that mostly in the UK, having 2 separate faucets for hot and cold water?? What the hell lol? Washing my hands was the worst.
Long long ago, in a time forgotten.... Hot and cold water are kept separate to prevent contamination, cold water comes into the house directly from the mains supply and is safe to drink. Hot water was provided by an Immersion heater generally located in the loft of a house and as it sits there it is considered unsafe to drink. Water bylaws prevent hot and cold from being mixed - this still applies today, water is NOT allowed to mix until is exits the tap.
The cute sounding police sirens. In America the police sirens seem like an urgent, semi-deranged warning to GTF out of the way, like **S**T'S GOING DOWN AND I'M NOT THERE!!!!! MOOOOOOOOVE!!!!!!!!"**
Meanwhile every European police siren I've heard just kind of politely annoy you out of the way. Like "bee doooo bee doooo, pardon me but a spot of bother has occured and I simply must hasten to it, pardon me as I simply must attend to it, pardon me."
And the police cars themselves are so small. American police cars are big and brawny, like they might need to make their own garage door into building. The European police cars I've seen, where they even put the people they arrest? Granted, I've only seen European police stuff on TV so there's probably a lot I haven't seen.
Haha, so I grew up in a town in southern France... the city center dates back a thousand (if not more) years ago, as in many places across Europe. That city is partnered with a big one in kentuky and they gifted a BIG police car to their french cousins. Nice! municipality police was so proud of their shiny BIG AMERICAN car. Butt of the joke : just try and picture that BIG AMERICAN police car manoeuvering in those medieval streets ; the result was hillarious and not efficient at all in cathing wrong doers.
The smoking. I stayed with a host family in France and my 16 year old host sister smoked like a chimney, as did all her friends. Like you're so young. Why?
In Germany, apartments don't normally come with a kitchen. It's purchased/installed by the Tennant. Sometimes you luck out but not usually.
This is usual when the whole building is brand new and you are BUYING the apartment. So you can decide what kind of kitchen do you like. I can imagine that sometimes this might happen with some long-term rent, like 10+ years. Otherwise no one will rent a flat without kitchen.
I’m from the Midwest and my family is from the Netherlands. So the society that wouldn’t dare offend you in any way and the society that has no problem dropping truth bombs on you. It’s rough.
As a Brit living in Germany, I feel this in the feelies. Absolutely takes some getting used to. But now I like it!
No a/c, sure fine, but then no screens on your windows so all the bugs get in? (Not sure if this is all of Europe, but def the UK).
Also no top sheets?
Was just in southern Italy and it was hot as balls but everybody acted like they hate AC.
We’d go out for the day and when we came back, housekeeping had turned off all the AC units.
Driver wore a full suit but every time we got in the car, AC was off. We’d ask him to turn it on and he would but on low. Ask him to blast it and he would for a minute then sneakily turn it back down.
It’s like they’re reptiles or something.
Idk if its all Europeans but Germans have a real big problem with staring like I owe them money. Also paying to use the bathroom in public spaces.
Germans are very curious about other people. It takes a while to get used to the staring! (Speaking as a Brit who is now a Brit/German). It's nothing personal, they are just curious. I like to be considered interesting enough!
Charging for bathrooms and charging for water (at restaurants) are both things that I would have expected Americans to do and Europeans be the ones making fun of it.
You all give us so much grief for having bathroom stall door gaps, and then have a one foot wide piece of glass to keep water in the shower…
Beans on toast.
My British grandma always had a plastic tub in the sink to soak dishes. It seems so weird to have a sink in a sink basically.
To all you Italians: why can’t I have a cappuccino past noon??
The poop shelf in Dutch/Belgian toilets.
It's not that it makes no sense but I've always been curious how carbonated water became the default in many places
England's fascination with large print flowered wallpaper with various colors that don't go together especially when you stand in the hallway and see where all the rooms converge.
Haha!! My MIL is a little bit wild and indecisive. She's had a traumatic life, poor love, but she's done good with the cards she was dealt. When I visited, she was trying to choose a wallpaper for the front room - three very different styles, including one hot pink one with black velvet flocking, one with pink roses and another stripy one (I think). Next time I visited, she had simply put all three up in one rather small room because she couldn't decide. I felt a panic attack coming on when I stepped in there, there was so much to look at! :)
Rent their whole lives. I saw this in Germany. I know it's becoming the norm in the US, too, but it just seemed weird to me the first time I visited 30 years ago that most Germans rented their entire lives and never even thought about buying a house.
If you have German renter's rights, there is simply no reason to own a house, as long as you do not really, really need the additional space. It practically is "your" place. You can do as you want as long as you don't damage the building substance, the landlord can hardly make any demands, eviction is next to impossible without very compelling reasons. Also, even though having increased over the last years, rent is comparably cheap compared to the real estate prices. In most cases, it simply makes no sense to buy, regardless of your income. Also, far commuting (more than an hour of way to work) is rare here, so people want to stay flexible to move when changing jobs.
No top sheets on beds.
The first time I experienced "European Style" bedding, I was so confused. When I asked about the top sheet, I was told they only use a duvet. I'm a hot sleeper, so I didn't use it. Ended up sleeping without a sheet over me, which was uncomfortable. But, when in Rome...
That's what I often do in the summer. Or sometimes just use a big towel.
Load More Replies...If I'm too hot for a duvet, I just use the cover as a blanket. Gives the feeling of being covered without the warmth. (You could also use the cover like a sleeping bag, but then the button end is where your neck is, so not so comfy lol)
My mum does the top sheet thing and I hate it! I just get tangled and stressed!
I don't use just a sheet because of the tangling. Just not comfortable.
Load More Replies...In the UK we just have different togs (weights) of duvets. Summer duvet is 4.5T and winter duvet is round 13T.
Now I'm wondering about American-style bedding. Does the top sheet go on top of the duvet or under it?
A question for duvet users - how often are you washing the duvet cover?
Washed at the same time as the bottom sheet and pillow cases.
Load More Replies...Perhaps I'm secretly European? I do not like top sheets, and always repurpose them. A couple are cat beds, one's for picnics etc
My problem with duvets is that they are always too short. Traveled over much of Europe and either my feet or my shoulders were uncovered. Is anyone over there more than 160 cm tall?
I don't know which countries you have visited, but come to the Netherlands, we're on average the tallest people in the world! A standard mattress and duvet is 200 cm, but they are also available in an extra long version (220 cm). My 195 cm tall brother-in-law owns such a bed.
Load More Replies...Remove the duvet and use only the cover if you get overheated.
In Japan, it is the same as in Europe. Top sheets are not used. A cover is used on a quilt (futon) and that is changed and cleaned. The quilts themselves can be hung outside on a sunny day to help sterilize them as well. Some can also be cleaned and dried in an industrial-sized washer/dryer if desired.
I think the main reason for a top sheet nowadays is to keep your comforter(duvet) clean & un sweaty because I'm told that in the US it's an all in one whereas in the UK (not 100% about the rest of Europe) we have a duvet & a duvet cover which can be taken off & washed regularly.
Confusion is good for you. It will spice up your life considerably. And if your confusion does not extend beyond bedding, I predict a happy life for you.
Hah! When I was doing my backpacking/hostelling adventures between HS and uni (18, 19 years old) I once went to check out of my hostel in Bern (Switzerland) and turned in all my sheets, but the clerk asked where my duvet/cover was. I replied, "I never got one" (I didn't know wtf she was talking about), but she followed me back to my bed and grabbed it... I'm 40 now, and still have no idea what a duvet is... Like an ornamental cover?
I hate duvets/doonas. I love those Turkish/ Persian blankets with the mink feel and patterns, so warm in winter and cool in summer. Best transition I ever made for sleep
I miss the European quilts with changeable covers. The only place you can get them is Ikea. American quilts come all sewn together you cant change the cover and wash it. Yuck.
I'm American and I grew up using a top sheet because that's just how my mom did it. I don't use them anymore, in fact, I don't buy whole sets of sheets anymore. I just look to purchase a single fitted sheet. There's just too much c**p on top of me and I always feel restricted with a top sheet. I'm also in Florida and it's just too much. I understand the argument about if you're a nude sleeper and all the sweat will transfer to your comforter but, I'm not a nude sleeper and I just don't worry about that.
This might be the case with hotels, but in our homes we definitely have and use only tops sheets, especially till the winter has really settled in
I like a top sheet. Most of the year we have a top sheet and an empty duvet cover, and when it gets cold use either a blanket or a duvet. Hubs normally just uses the top sheet, whereas I need a little more weight/ warmth.
The top sheet makes for a LOT less laundry work. You only rarely ever have to clean the duvet covering, which is a pain in the mule.
I find it just as easy to wash a kingsize duvet cover as I do a king size sheet to be honest. One a week for all bedlinen and wash the duvet and pillows every three months.
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Why the hell don’t you guys just serve tap water (if it’s OK to drink) to tables when they sit down? I’m currently in Europe and a handful of restaurants will not even serve you tap water and you have to buy it. This is in many countries too! Wtf it’s free and right there!!!
Leaving the windows wide open in the summer. I get that you might not have A/C, but you need a damn window screen. You’re letting all the bugs in like that.
What bugs? Not once found bugs flying in through windows to be an issue. No mozzies here, no poisonous winged thingies, no cockroaches or cicadas.
Europeans seem pretty content with their position in life and seem to accept that people won’t change their class/status. Maybe that’s just who I have met though
Money and status aren’t everything. Work to live and don’t waste your life chasing expensive stuff that adds nothing to your family, relationships, pastimes (I.e. what really matters). The people I know who define themselves by their job and perceived social status are very lonely people who don’t really know who they are. A classic case of knowing the price of everything and the value of nothing.
Many still believe superstitions like “don’t go out with wet hair or you’ll catch a cold” or that fans/air conditioning can cause illness. This is especially prevalent in Eastern Europe.
Draughts are public enemy number 1 in Germany! As a Brit, I just don't get it! It's just a bit of air moving around!
Endless s**t talking over driving an automatic. Yeah, I don't drive a stick shift, I'm not a rally car driver, get over it.
Funny how nobody's complaining about 'Euro-bashing' like so many do on similar posts about the US.
But then, have you read all the buts and ifs. It's still a sh!tty post and the comments end up bashing the USA. Maaaan!!
Load More Replies...Oh boy, Europeans getting pretty chippy in this post. Don't worry, BP will have at least 10 posts next week talking about how terrible the USA is.
I rather think that is a sweeping overgeneralisation.
Load More Replies...No one mentioned buildings 500 years old? With plumbing to match.
So true - the UK (my homeland) has some of the worst housing stock in Europe. OK, so it's good we won the war and all but some houses should still be knocked down and rebuilt to better standards, and the urban planning submitted to further scrutiny again too!
Load More Replies...Okay - I will. I have problems with my hands and wrists (from age 7) and actually find knobs easier. This is due to two things (and is purely personal). 1. The angle that my hand goes into when I push down a handle and 2. I actually need to turn a k**b less than I do a handle! There should be CHOICE as people have different hand/wrist issues and the same won't work for each person. 🤷😁
Load More Replies...Every post here: Someone says something; Every comment: But America sucks somehow related to this!
Funny how nobody's complaining about 'Euro-bashing' like so many do on similar posts about the US.
But then, have you read all the buts and ifs. It's still a sh!tty post and the comments end up bashing the USA. Maaaan!!
Load More Replies...Oh boy, Europeans getting pretty chippy in this post. Don't worry, BP will have at least 10 posts next week talking about how terrible the USA is.
I rather think that is a sweeping overgeneralisation.
Load More Replies...No one mentioned buildings 500 years old? With plumbing to match.
So true - the UK (my homeland) has some of the worst housing stock in Europe. OK, so it's good we won the war and all but some houses should still be knocked down and rebuilt to better standards, and the urban planning submitted to further scrutiny again too!
Load More Replies...Okay - I will. I have problems with my hands and wrists (from age 7) and actually find knobs easier. This is due to two things (and is purely personal). 1. The angle that my hand goes into when I push down a handle and 2. I actually need to turn a k**b less than I do a handle! There should be CHOICE as people have different hand/wrist issues and the same won't work for each person. 🤷😁
Load More Replies...Every post here: Someone says something; Every comment: But America sucks somehow related to this!
