116 Examples Of Behaviors People Later Realized Were Signs Of Neurodivergence

I can't. It's like getting dressed up fancy just to sit on the couch or lay in bed. I fear if I start doing something else before the appointment I'll get so wrapped up that I'll lose track of time. I cannot plan any appointments after work. I'll forget about it last minute and go home, in autopilot. It has to be either during my shift hours because I'll be reminding when I have to leave, or just take the whole day off and plan the appointment for the morning, so I can get it out of the way, or plan it on the weekend.

Starting to.clean, finding a book, or a paper, or a map, and two hours later ...

I cannae read a book, laddie. No idea what the last paragraph said. I can read online fine tho, weird.

PTSD.

Oh I do this! I'm just trying to show them (and myself) that I can relate!

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I doubt many have silence tbf...that's why everyone's trying to learn to meditate. Surely there's only silence when you zone out and forget you exist.

You wake up and the song picks up where it left off when you fell asleep

My partner tends to put music too loud for me, is he deaf or am I sensitive? We don't know

How is this neurodivergent?

Which causes me SO much stress. But do I learn from it? No.

This isn't normal? Same thing with work stuff?

Oh, yes, so very often.

Oh yes, visual learning. Instructions are a waste of time, just show me once.

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I get on these marathon cleaning sprees for weeks. Then I get so exhausted I don't want to do any more cleaning for a couple months. I force myself to sweep the floors every other day. The possibility of buggos crawling around is my motivation, but I also just like not stepping on stones, sand, crumbs and who knows what else. Since I have that routine, which I do let myself deviate from, it gives me a sense of accomplishment and control over my home.

That's normal for people with an internal monologue, isn't it? It's only when it starts speaking in the third-person you need to be worried!

Took the exact same meal to work for about six years. Then I started to feel actually ill eating it. I have settled on a different preferred meal, but the time in between was traumatic and more than a few days going hungry because I'd open it and...oh god no. Colour, texture, things too mixed, I don't know.

anxiety

Those are actually good things to have. Too bad not everyone does.

This. And then they have the audacity to get upset because you deliver an entire paragraph in the time they manage a few words.

This used to be me. I hated tidying and cleaning when I was growing up. My mom hounded me about it all the time. Since I've lived away from her, having to clean and tidy my whole home on my own, I do appreciate keeping it tidy on a regular basis so it's not so overwhelming when I decide it's cleaning day.

I have this one, too. My spouse knows it's not personal, but I sometimes... forget they exist, when we spend time apart. I think it's because my brain has no space for too many alternative realities. So I don't like change, but I'm always the food to adjust to the new status quo. I'm autistic though.

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It enrages me when I try extra hard to enunciate and speak loudly, then I get told not to shout and be rude. But when I talk in my normal, I'm having to repeat myself. Not to everyone. Some people, who need to pick their ears up off the floor. I know they can hear me. (Alright BP. What is it? A word? A tone? What is wrong?)

I wish I were more witty in the moment.

I thought everyone did this!

I call this free-will to choose to spend the time and energy on something I'm more interested in.

hand gets tired

The amount of mental energy it takes to not jump in at everything people talk about should be an Olympic sport.

All the time

It gives your mind an impression of safety because you already know what will happen.

At times, I've had confirmation that is the case.

I get this and don't like it. I hate impatience from other people. I have it done to me when people think I'm in the way. It's a crappy feeling. So I try to remind myself to be patient and just chill. It's not easy, but I'm getting better at it.

Poor proprioception is common for autism and for ADHD. Goes double for we AUDHDers.

Good that you have money for it. I was fearing to draw on a piece of paper not being sure if what Im sketching is worth it.

Color noise is your friend here. I tend to prefer brown and green noise with just a touch of white noise.

That example was too on the nose for me haha

Auditory processing delay. I did this for years around age 12. Saying "Huh?" also fills the gap, so they don't think you're bring rude or not listening for mot responding in a socially appropriate amount of time while you process.

Yep!! "Where did you get that bruise?" "No idea!!"

I can't have anything around my neck, maybe a loose scarf if it's incredibly cold

Neurotypical do not get this one and no matter of explaining it to them helps. Sorry my brain treats the task like a life threat I don't know why!

It's because talking is such an incredibly slow method of information transfer, and...some...people...are...so...much...worse ThatYouCouldFitAnEntireThoughtInBetweenTheirWords.

Wait... I thought that was normal.

Things have HOMES. I hate when they leave their assigned homes. Usually my fault

and that is why we wait all day instead of starting a task if we need to be somewhere

I like to blurt out the lines in a scene when it's my first time watching it, just before they say it on the screen. Makes me feel like a smug wee b***h.

Mine for the past three weeks has been "Billy Don't Be a Hero."

bacon pancakes makin' bacon pancakes (in bird voice)

Gotta talk fast to keep up when your brain goes 100 miles an hour

I remember putting wallpaper on my dorm wall instead of doing some stuff for uni...

I know I'll lose this, so I'll put it somewhere safe so I'll remember where it is

When I was living alone, I would sometimes have something in the background, the TV, radio, stereo, when I felt like I needed some noise—-not ear-splittingly loud, just enough to hear another human voice. But after I got married and my household started getting chock full of human noises, I started appreciating silence and alone time a whole lot more.

My mind has always been faster than my handwriting, so it usually devolves into a scrawl, especially as my hand gets tired. I like being able to type—-and correct—-my thoughts when I have to write a letter to someone. It’s nice for me to be able to edit and tweak it before sending it, and they like being able to actually read it.

Yes!

I thought that was just an ichthyosis thing.

Listen to the whole song

Yep. My SIL was always saying, "You're making me seasick" if I was talking to her while standing because I sway *constantly*. Also, I can't keep my eyes closed unless I'm lying down because I'll fall over. Even in church, I have to keep my eyes open when praying or I start listing sideways.

I found out during covid masks' time how important it is for me to "read lips" when listening to someone

I have, numerous times, found items in my house that I swear I've never seen before.

So much me! I have so many bottles of nail polish, for example. Bought every kind under the sun. Got tired of painting my nails after 2 months. Have every type of 4-ply yarn. (Yay, I've started a new blanket so it's not going to waste!) Scrapbooking supplies that I keep replenishing even though I only do a few pages every couple of months. Etc.

Can never plan. Just do. Planning takes too much mental energy.

I remember being bored on the bus home one day and watching the entire Star Trek TOS episode "Amok Time" in my head. People I told were so amazed!

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The problem with multitasking is that you’re dividing your attention between all the tasks, and can’t really give all of them 100% of your attention at the same time. The only way I can actually multitask is if several tasks can be set to happen automatically. Good example is cleaning house while the laundry is in the washer. I can take a break from the housework to move the laundry from the washer to the dryer when it’s ready, and resume cleaning house while the dryer is running. I can even add in the extra task of cooking, and can not only clean house and do laundry, but have something cooking in the oven at the same time. Only happens because the laundry and oven are automated, and can be doing their task all on their own while I tackle the hands on cleaning tasks. This can apply to running more than one automated task at the same time at work, or anywhere, while you tackle any other tasks that require hands on attention. Otherwise, if you’re trying to do five tasks at the same time, you can only average 20% attention to each one (yeah, you’ll give one of them a higher percentage of attention when it hits as snag and needs you to fix it, but that comes at the cost of all the other tasks, that are getting little to no attention at that time).

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I have a great memory for information, but not for personal experiences.