30 Unbelievably Strange Encounters With Random Strangers That These People Still Can’t Believe
Most of the memories that stick with us are of pivotal moments in our lives, perhaps getting that job that kickstarted your career or the day you met your soulmate. However, memories are a fickle thing and some people have the unfortunate experience of meeting a stranger so horrible that they still carry the story with them.
An internet user, out of morbid curiosity no doubt, wanted to hear other’s worst experiences with total strangers. And people delivered, with stories ranging from bizarre to downright terrifying. So be warned, some potential unpleasantness ahead. If you do stay, be sure to upvote your favorite (however you choose to interpret that) and share your own stories in the comments.
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Me, a child: playing with toys in Walmart
a random stranger: "I'd like you to play with my little boy toy."
My Dad, just on the other end, watching me doesn't say a word to the man just grabs him and throws him across the aisle. Then screams out, "If you want to play with him. You're gonna have to play with me first!"
Indeed. My parents were both black belts. Lovable pacifists, but...
Load More Replies...This is why I think store staff should be allowed to tell parents they have to stay with their kids and not just drop them off at the toy aisle, as if it's a fun zone daycare. I know this dad didn't do that, but I'm astonished how many parents do that and I think of what risks they're putting their small kids in.
I may have told this story before on here, but…when my daughter was about 2, I sat her in the top part of the grocery cart while waiting for my husband to come in from parking the car. I had my foot on the bottom part of the basket, when all of a sudden, I noticed the basket was moving… Some weirdo was trying to take the cart!! And he goes, “oh, I didn’t notice there was a BABY in it”, and ran away quickly. I was too shocked to even try to stop them!! Scared me to death, and it happened in the blink of an eye!
My neighbor did this once! My daughter was 4. We were at a campground and their was a woman in the camper next door always trying to bring my daughter over this creepy guys camper next to hers! My daughter was on the porch and I had to use the bathroom. I was on the toilet 5 feet away and left the front door open while I peed. I come back out and this crazy woman has my daughter by the hand about to carry her into her camper!! I flipped out. I wanted to have her charged with attempted kidnapping and she tried to say I abandoned my kid by leaving her outside. I never did again not even for 30 seconds because if someone is lurking and waiting that's all the time they need
Load More Replies...Photograph, ask him to repeat his remark, take to police, lay charge of pedophilia.
This is more important than beating the guy up. If they are a genuine pedo then what the Dad did won't stop them long term. Much better to get them arrested.
Load More Replies...This is an appropriate reaction to someone talking to your child in an inappropriate way. However, if the kid was tearing up the toy aisle and rendering the toys unsellable, and the guy told him to stop being destructive, it would not have been an appropriate reaction of the father. Pick your battles wisely. Kicking a pedophile’s a*s is defense of a child. Getting up in someone’s face because they simply asked your child to behave—-which is your job that you were neglecting to do—-is not defensive, but offensive.
When I started 3rd grade, I transferred to a new school. The school I went to prior was an abnormally small private catholic school. I think they only had about 5 teachers and under 30 students total. This school was so small, the cafeteria doubled as an art classroom. With the size of the school, it was also very protected. Everyone in the school was friends with each other. There were no such things as bullies, because everyone's parents were friends, and those parents were also great friends of the teachers. Aside from the occasional pre-pubescent children nagging and whining amongst ourselves and outbursts that young kids have, it was pretty great of an atmosphere. When I got to my new school on the first day, which was a public school in Pittsburgh. I was so out of my element it was insane. I couldn't comprehend why everyone wore different clothes, why there were so many people, why the teachers were so brash and somewhat aggressive. Nobody seemed friendly, nothing made sense. It was a total culture shock. Fast forward to lunch, they announced they had a salad bar. This was the most normal part of the day for me, because at my old school we usually had lunches like salad bars. I made a few acquaintances prior to lunch which gave me tremendous relief as the biggest worry I had that day was wondering if i'd have to eat lunch by myself or with a table of people i dont know. Me and the two other kids at the time made it through the lunch line and got to the salad bar. I started to fix up my tray with the most wonderful salad a kid could ask for - lettuce, ranch, croutons, bacon bits. As soon as i turned away from the salad bar, a very tall and lanky girl with zany pigtails in braids just stood in front of me and practically made sure i would "accidentally" walk right into her. The obvious outcome; My tray collided with her tray, which sent the salad flying, covering her mostly in ranch dressing. I lost all of my salad, and everyone was f*****g chuckling about it. She decided to start crying and it went from bad to even worse, because i had the teachers rush over to me and grab me by my arm and drag me to the principles office. I got yelled at for about 10 minutes and was told that my first impression was certainly not a good one, and the girl had to have her parents come in and bring her a change of clothes. Nobody would listen to my side of the story, and this idiot told everyone that i threw my salad at her so she would "get out of my way". I never met this girl in my life, i didnt even know she existed prior to her sabotaging me and making me go hungry. When i explained that it was an accident, they would retort with "how? You saw her standing there". I sat in the office, starving, crying, and scared that my mom would beat my a*s. She came down to the school shortly after, and this was the light at the end of the tunnel. The principle takes her into her office, and i start to hear yelling. I start crying harder, because now momma is in trouble... but then i realized the yelling wasnt from the principle, it was my mom. My mom went the f**k off on the principle. I heard things such as "It's his first day, do you really think he would throw his f*****g salad in her face?" and "How dare you not let my son eat?!" My mom took me home, got me mcdonalds, and i lived in total fear for the rest of 3rd grade. Mom cant always be there to save me, but goddamnit mom... you f*****g killed it. Happy mothers day.
What did the tall girl win from getting walked into and covered in salad and crying in public? what was her goal because she doesn't seem to be achieving anything from him walking into her?
Being an imaginary victim is a form of passive aggressive bullying common to girls' relationship (there are studies to show the difference in expression of aggression in girls and boys). I had a girl who hit my daughter at a club, and when my daughter complained to the teacher, the other girl came up with such a beautiful fake victimhood background story, that they called me to pick my daughter up! We ended up taking our daughter out of this club. I wish I was the yelling type more, but I totally gave them all pieces of my mind and I didn't have their educational abilities in high regard. The OP's incident is in similar vain. Perceived victims enjoy the attention they get. And they enjoy the fact that someone they see as a threat (new kid, jealousy etc) knows their place. It's a bullying tactic.
Load More Replies...My mom went down to the school when I started 1st grade and basically told them she would come back and hurt them if they tried to make me write with my right hand. This was still a thing in 1955.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. Sadly people still have a problem with others being left-handed and it's so annoying. When my young brother was in 2nd grade around 2015, his teacher tried to force him to write with his right hand, and she beat him across his fingers with a wooden ruler when he failed to. I (19 years old at the time)marched down to the school the next day and read her the riot act, bold and in all CAPS. Long story short, she didn't mess with my brother again.
Load More Replies...Look I live by Hanlon’s Razor, so my assumption would have been that OP did this by accident, if I were there. BUT given that this story happened in 3rd grade, is it possible that OP doesn’t recall all the details 100% accurately and the girl didn’t actually intend to cause cause the accident either, but was a bit of a “victim” generally (like some kids just are) and assumed OP did it on purpose (hence all her carry on). Like, it seems a really weird thing for her to have done on purpose?
I had the same experience. I spilt my lunch and orange juice on the floor, whist everyone was laughing at me. Luckily, a kind Spanish teacher bought me the rest of my lunch, and yelled at anybody who laughed at me. It was totally unexpected.
Some people revel in victimhood. It's one of the first forms of bullying that children engage in. Girls are notorious for doing so. I experienced it myself as a kid more than once.
Load More Replies...Yeah I would have lost it as a parent too. I've had some dumb calls from the principal about my kid where I just had to ask, "why are you calling me about this?" I've also experienced some fantastic liars (like tall girl) working in a school who had their parents and some times other staff members completely fooled.
When parents are close friends with other parents and teachers … that’s a big clue that ALL the parents are mama and papa bears. Counterintuitive perhaps but true.
This incident happened when he transferred from a small private school where everyone knew each other to a public school
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My grandmother was at the movies, and a guy walked up the aisle and punched her on the side of the head. He told the cops he was mad because he was on a bad blind date. Like...great excuse to wallop a 75-year-old woman minding her own business?
Hope someone checked on the blind date, if he was mad enough to hit a stranger, I hope the date person wasn't hurt too.
What a sorry excuse of a human being, and a waste of oxygen. I'm glad that other person rejected him, and I sure hope he never finds anyone who can't see what a psycho he is.
He hit someone's Grandma? Dude is lucky I didn't witness that. I'd be in jail
That guy needs serious jail time. Disagree with me if you want, but if he's mad enough to hit an old woman just cause he's on a bad date, he doesn't deserve to see the light of day again.
WTF. Something similar happened on the bus. Guy was sitting in the back and I was sitting near the front. As he was getting off he made his way to the front doors fast while smacking the poles and backs of the seats as he was tearing down the aisle. He smacked the back of my head really hard and as he left he just said "Oh, did I hit you. Sorry, didn't see you and left." I didn't call the police as I didn't know where he was going and didn't trust they would do much about it.
Unfortunately, there are people out there who are somehow entirely blind to social norms and will flagrantly break them without a thought. In a few cases, this could be simple ignorance or lack of ability to read social cues. Everyone knows someone who is probably well-meaning but ends up being downright annoying to be around.
But many of the cases listed here go much further than, say, a loud belch at a dinner table or an awkward question about one’s love life. These encounters veer into downright antisocial behavior, which at “best” are a nuisance and at worst, could be seen as a crime. Traditionally, this is seen as part of a personality disorder, but more contemporary psychologists believe it could, instead, be a result of certain issues in upbringing.
I work in retail and once a customer jiggled my belly and said 'I see the diet stuff doesn't work here' I know it doesn't seem much but I keep comeing back to it. It was just so IDK invasive?
I had an uncle who used to say in a situation like that "do you want to draw back a bloody stump?"
Load More Replies...At work or not,I would of smacked his face. An assault for an assault. D******d
Ew, who in the fxck does that to a total stranger?! I remember when I was 17/18, one of my friends big brothers put his hand on my lower abdomen and asked if I was pregnant, in front of all our friends. I was actually a bit underweight at the time but I was on my period and really bloated. I just, purposely, burst into hysterical laughter and asked why he had such tiny hands. He was not happy. I was.
That is a big deal, because that is someone putting their hands on you. Without consent or even warning. So f****d up.
That's definitely a boundary not only crossed, but they puked on it and set it on fire. Super rude and invasive. In fact, would that be illegal?
Absolutely, who said it was ok to touch anyone without permission? It reminds me of something of parish priest did when I was a kid: After services when everyone was leaving, he walked up and patted my mother's midsection and loudly asked "when is the wee one due"...there were 4 of us already and she was expecting (in fact after my youngest sibling was born she had to have emergency surgery due to severe hemorrhaging and couldn't have any more children even if she wanted to) She looked him straight in the eye and loudly answered in front of other parishioners: "If you touch me like that again I'm going to have to break one of the commandments and we'll need to get a new pastor!" (Needless to say, he never did that again.)
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I was about 11 and me and some friends were standing on a small bridge over a lake. All of a sudden I was picked up and thrown over the railing into the lake below. I tried to grab onto anything I could as I fell and scrapped my arms up pretty good. I still have scars 30 years later. So I swim to the side and some older kid comes up to me and just say - sorry, I thought you were someone else.
There was a mentally ill man who randomly picked up and threw a six year old boy down a high balcony in Tate Modern in London. The boy miraculously survived but with lifechanging injuries. The boy was a French tourist with his family, you can google the story and they have a donation page as the support he needs is incredible. As a parent this was added to my long list of phobias.
I remember reading this! Absolute $hit show from social services regarding the teenager perpetrator.
Load More Replies..."sorry I thought you were someone else." is such a BS excuse. They knew what they were doing and with whom.
What had this mysterious someone else done to deserve that?
I was around 25,looking over a really high up Wall ať a Castle. Suddenly a boy tried to "play fully" Pick me up And throw me over. I screamed, wiggled And he realised what he is doing and said "I thought you were someone else" like wtf dude you wanted to kill your assumed classmate? I left quickly
"I thought you were someone else." Oh, well, that makes it okay then... *Eyeroll*
Back in the '70s, I was riding in a car that my best friend's mother was driving on a highway. There was me, my friend, her brother, and a couple of other kids in the car. The age range for the kids was about 7 to 9 years old. It was a warm day, and my friend's mother had her window rolled down (no air conditioning). A car full of teenagers pulled alongside of her, and someone threw a full cup of ice water through the window at her. I got hit by it, too, because I was sitting in the front seat next to her. She managed not to lose control of the car. In retrospect, it was incredibly fucked up to try and cause a lady with a car full of kids to crash.
Teenagers scare the living s**t out of me, they could care less as long as someone’ll bleed
So darken your clothes or strike a violent pose and maybe they'll leave you alone but not me
Load More Replies...Couple years ago some teenagers threw at bricks a train. One of the bricks went through the window and killed a young boy. They did it because it was "fun". The child sat on the lap of his grandmother and looked out the window and enjoyed the view. What monsters ☹️☹️☹️
I've known of ones who throw bricks from overpasses too :(
Load More Replies...Teenagers drop rocks on car windshields and kill people. Our society is too permissive, and should punish miscreant kids FAR more harshly.
Fortunately in my country teenagers only are allowed to drive from 18+ so they are slightly less idiotic.
Same, but they still do enough worrying stuff which is why we have hoon laws.
Load More Replies...My father did this once with hot coffee in an act of serious road rage. Threw it out if his work van over my head into the cars open window below me. Screaming obscenities the entire time
Back in my Paramedic days, we had "kids" throwing cinderblocks on highways-- yes, several fatalities
The frontal lobe isn't fully developed until the early 20's. Remember that whenever dealing with teens and young adults. Their decision making skills are diminished and that is dangerous for everyone.
This is snow excuse for them being a••holes. Even a six year old nose, if you drop cinderblocks, etc. onto a vehicle someone’s going to get hurt.
Load More Replies...The generally accepted cause of antisocial behavior is upbringing or a lack thereof. This is a sort of double-edged sword, as it lets us pinpoint how to prevent it, but unfortunately, it offers little hope for people who are already adults. The upside is the policymakers, social workers and just people who live in a community can all do their part to help, but it also means they generally have to suffer at the hands of existing, antisocial adults.
A guy sneezed in my face on the subway, and after s******g on him verbally he just shrugged and made it out to be no big deal. Since i couldnt do anything but verbally abuse him i left to find another seat. 2 days later i almost reachter 41 degrees.... Havent been sick like that my whole life. Literally and figuratively. Im still wearing masks in subs cuz of this s**t.
I'm immunosuppressive and when people question me still wearing a mask in public, I remind them that we are still in a f*cking pandemic. When I got COVID (omicron), I almost died. When my sister got COVID (a few years ago, right near the start), it gave her sleep apnea and permanently f*cked her lungs. When she got it again a month or two ago, she almost died. The pandemic didn't end just because people stopped caring. For some of us, it is as deadly as ever.
I'm glad you're better! I have an autoimmune disorder, and still wear a mask too. Even when I'm in a doctor's office, I'll be the only one there with it (including doctors)!
Load More Replies...With such disrespectful people the entire world might fear a pande… wait…
It should be assault. When one of my coworkers arrives sick a the office I instantly send them home. I am NOT paying medical bills because YOU are an idiot.
Coming into work whilst sick is a necessity for some people - their boss insists on it or they’ll lose their job, even in the service industry. You’re luckily if you have a job with a sensible boss and sick pay.
Load More Replies...Holy S**T you are lucky you didn't get brain damage
Load More Replies...Too bad people like that a*****e tend to recede into the shadows after they do s**t like this. It would be just beautiful if OP had seen him again when she was sick, so she could show him the consequences of his actions by copiously puking all over him.
Yeah, I've had customers in the store visibly sick. Like, they had no business shopping for used clothes. But they come up to us and want to get real close in our faces, all coughing and breath smelling of sickness. I'm pretty sure one lady got me sick.
Taking the subway should never end with plastering someone's face with a sticky, salty liquid.
I was in London on business and my hotel was hosting a Christmas party for a bunch of Russians also there on business. I was sitting at the bar by myself and one of the Russian women invited me to sit with her and her friends. Her table had her, three other women and two men. I don’t speak Russian but they were all very nice and welcoming to me. The woman sitting across from me was passed out drunk with her head on the table. No one paid any attention to her. After 30 minutes me and the woman who invited me were flirting pretty good. Suddenly the drunk woman sits up straight, points at me, scowls and begins yelling what obviously were Russian swear words. She does this for about a minute while the rest of us just stare at her and say nothing. Then she plops her head back down on the table and goes to sleep. I asked everyone collectively “what was that all about?” One of the guys replied “she doesn’t know why you are sitting with us, she hates you and she called your mother some very bad names. But don’t pay her any attention, she’s a crazy Russian. We’re happy to party with an American.
When they aren't invading other countries, the Russians are generally fun like this. You definitely will get free booze. Source: married one at some stage and hung out at their church.
All the Russian people I've met have been just awesome and a little crazy. I wish they will have a better country and better leaders asap, because they definitely deserve better than the poop tin
we have the crappiest leaders, but i strongly believe that if we didn’t, we would be a wonderful country to hang out with
Load More Replies...arernt we all kinda crazy, also i wonder what would happen if we got 10 super drunk russians and 10 super drunk mexicans and locked them in a house
Load More Replies...Well, this is typical drunky. She is the first person on list who had sort of an alibi/explanation of their behaviour.
She could have been any nationality. And abusive drunk is an abusive sunk in any language.
Load More Replies...I was a little nervous about Russians before I met one. (I blame TV) And now I know lots of Russians and they don't seem to be very different to me at all. And a lot of them don't drink at all. Definitely one of my favourite nationalities.
This craziness is why many of the most entertaining videos on YouTube have been made by Russians.
i have a favorite youtuber whos russian and that guy sure is entertaining
Load More Replies...Lifelong conditioning by a failed oppressive regime can take a while to deprogram and change.
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Complimented my penis. I was at a camp shower at a campground. I was around 12 some random guy walked in and just stared at me and watched me take a shower making weird small talk. This was the late 70's, early 80's. Kids werent special yet and we basically were raised you just be polite to adults so I was "yes sir" and "no sir" the creep. The Adam Walsh TV movie changed all of that and parents were like, hey, maybe we should watch our kids a little bit? He didn't rape me so I guess that's a plus.
We had a teacher who did that sort of creepy s**t. I’m so glad times have changed as in those days, no one believed kids.
Unfortunately, too many adults today still don’t believe kids when they try to tell them something bad happened to them. We end up reading/hearing about the horrible things that end up happening because no one believed them in the news. Please people, listen to your kids. I know they can make things up, but sometimes they’re telling you the truth. You can always ask a couple qualifying questions to make sure, but still listen to them, instead of dismissing them and tuning them out.
Load More Replies...In my high school in the 1960s, we had a retired priest who used to like to stand in the boy's locker room and watch guys showering after gym class. This was reported, and he was never seen anywhere in the building again.
We had a substitute in elementary school who was finally fired when I went to 6th grade. We all thought it was because he was creepy towards all the girls, but no. He apparently wouldn't let a kid use their inhaler while substitution gym.
My gym teacher in middle school was like this, but back then (1960s) we kids had never heard of pedophiles and were clueless. BTW, his last name was "Flowers", which in retrospect is a bit amusing.
The rapid social changes brought on by technology have made it hard to track exactly what stimulus ends up causing kids to start behaving poorly. In the age of regular TV consumption, some studies found that for every additional hour of TV a teen watched, the risk of them exhibiting some antisocial behavior rose by roughly 30%. However, as most parents now know, young people aren’t really watching hours and hours of TV, but it’s unclear if, say, video games or streaming has the same effect as TV used to.
Dude parked his 18 wheeler in the middle of the road and started walking into Dunkin Donuts. I told him to move his truck, and the guy ran to my car and started punching my drivers window calling me a “f*****g liberal pussy”. Then he stopped and rubbed his hand in pain and I pointed and laughed at him and said “Try the other hand now!” He said something else I didn’t hear because I was still laughing and he walked away. Cops came and gave the guy a summons and made him move the truck.
yeah the person more likely had a neckbeard and a maga or confederate cap
Load More Replies...I was with 2 of my friends walking out of a Walmart at 10pm. I was about 17/18 years old at the time. Some dude came out and full on made out with me. Just beelined for me and grabed the back of my head and proceeded to kiss me for about 30 seconds. I froze, my friends froze and then he ran off laughing. We stood there in disbelief for a minute or two. I went home and brushed my teeth repeatedly. F*****g strange and very invasive.
“It’s just a PRANK bro” is going to get people killed, if it hasn’t already…
Load More Replies...This happened to me too, but I managed to grab the a*****e by the throat before he managed to put his lips on me, and I pushed him away at arms lenght and cussed him out. Then I had him thrown out of the club by alerting the bartender. I still think the only reason I managed that is he was my height, and scrawny. Could have easily gone the other way. 🤢
I'm shocked there are so many of these stories...wtf?
Load More Replies...that happened to me once when I was around 11 or 12. The dude was drunk and my dads old friend. he was showing me to his friends then he grabbed my head and started to kiss me on the lips for what felt like forever! I washed my mouth so much that day and I never went there again. I felt like throwing up. (the dude who did it is dead now tho)
So sorry that happened to you. F*****g pervert 🤮🤢
Load More Replies...It's possible this could have been recorded on CCTV if it was right outside the store, so OP could have gone to the police with this, and 100% should of. If he thinks kissing someone without permission is funny, who knows what else the creep is capable of finding "funny" e_e
i mean i understand OP being petrified, but if i was one of her friends next to her, sure i would be surprised, but would then immediatly act.. wtf are they doing? honestly people like that guy make me lose my s**t. i pretty much have my aggression under control for a while now, but i would be livid if something like that happend to my friend
The problem is because she wasn't reacting you probably wouldn't immediately act and neither would most people. The first reaction for *most* people would be "WTF", but followed by "She must know him". Unless she was struggling of course, but as the OP said she was too stunned to move.
Load More Replies...This happened to me too. I was invited to a party at a friend's house, and all night this guy I didn't know kept staring at me and trying to talk to me. A while later I left the party with another friend. As we were walking out, my friend got way ahead of me, and out of the darkness this guy comes out and proceeds to kiss me. I pushed him and asked him what he thought he was doing. He just smiled and wanted to do it again. Some people are just awful.
I was sitting at a cafe with my then partner. A man came up to our table, held finger guns at my temple and whispered "I wish I f*****g could." And then yanked my hair and rushed out. It was completely unprovoked. I've technically had more violent and scary things happen to me, but that's stuck with me for a really long time. I think it's because I had been having a lovely day until that point. I was so excited to be sitting in a cute cafe, eating pie with my date. And now I can't get the image of her face falling as she looked at the man out of my head. We went home after that.
Yes, Op states they are a woman and were with their girlfriend at the time of this attack, so it seems like it was an act of hate and homophobia, in which case, I say we find the guy and burn his house down.
Load More Replies...photograph, report to police for intimidation, request a restraining order.
how tf would they get a photograph if he ran away?
Load More Replies...In the 70s, my then boyfriend and I were at a restaurant eating dinner. One of U. S. senators came in with an aide. He saw my boyfriend point at him, so he came over to as . . . constituents, He asked if he and his aide could join us for dinner. When dinner was over, he reached across the table, took my hand, and asked ,"Would you like to ride back to Indianapolis with me tonight." Needless to say I declined. Neither my boyfriend nor I could believe he did this in front of my boyfriend!
It's a horrible and weird thing to do regardless, but I need more context for this. Was this a lesbian couple and the guy was a homophobe, or a racist thing or what?
It’s not fair, however, to pin all the blame on media. Media only raise a child if the parents are absent in some form, which might be a more significant trigger than, say, Cartoon Network or Minecraft. Even more significantly, parental abuse is pretty closely tied with the victim “passing on” the abuse to another, creating a spiraling cycle of violence and bad behavior. Even smaller things, like poor nutrition and poverty, can cause an environment where normal social behavior is not learned, leading to the sorts of adults we see in these stories.
I was waiting for my girlfriend at the bus terminal in order to go to her home to meet her parents for the 1st time. This one random old dude aproaches me, askes me about the boat schedules (it's a boat and bus terminal), and I'm happy to help him out. Since it's still a while for the next boat and it takes a while for my girlfriend to arrive, the dude keeps talking to me and I didn't mind about it and was having a conversation with him. He asks me for a cigarette (I don't smoke) and offers me a beer (I don't drink). Out of the blue he asks me "Do you want to go to my house while you wait for your girlfriend?". I'm like "Is this dude hitting on me or something? wtf..." and try my best to be polite and shut down and move away from him because it was getting a bit unconfortable. Not long after, the bus is arriving and I use it as an excuse to gtfo of the conversation. By my face my GF can tell that something happened and I tell her wtf just happened and when I look back to tell her who the dude was, the dude just vanished like a ghost. I'm even more confused by this. Next thing I know, she's describing me the old dude "Is the man you talked to like this and that, and wearing this and that?" and I'm like "Yeah, how do you know?" and she blank stares at me "That's my dad and he's right there". Not a bad f****d up thing, but f****d up to do to an unsuspecting person in a stressing situation like meeting your SOs parents for the 1st time. In his defense tho, he did make a joke when we "officially" met and said "Well, we're going to my house after all!"
My only question is, "did the Dad know who he was, or was it just some creepy coincidence?"
Wonderful way of starting a wholesome relationship with your child's potential life-long partner, coming off as a creepy sexual deviant and scaring them...
He wanted to know if you drank and/or smoked. I would have failed that test miserably.
Assuming the Dad knew who he was that could be it.
Load More Replies...Strange way to test if he was SIL material … which he probably passed
Hey, dad learned a lot of good things about the bf. As a parent, I kind of get it.
I thought it was a girlfriend and he was hitting on her. Maybe I read wrong or assumed wrong but that's what I pictured the whole time reading it
Load More Replies...The dad has read too many Batman comics or something. Weird as heck and stalkery too, but with good intentions I guess. But just ewwww
Either way, that's effed up and down! Was he REALLY hitting on her? Or him, for that matter, but I think it's her, as creepy old dudes tend to be more into girls than boys... So, really hitting on her? Creepy as fugg. Playing a hit-on-her game, knowing whom he's encountering? Creepy, a but less, but messed up maybe even more. If you hit on someone, or play like doing so in order to ... play a trick? Anything one may play or enact without being seious about it that might cause self defense is dangerous - the self-defender won't know it's just a play, doesn't know if anyone else is involved, and self defense in a situation perceived as truly dangerous, is dangerous in itself, as it may hurt the creep-actor as well as, in the fight that unfolds, the defending one, or bystanders who try to help the one they think is the victim. All of these people may be stupid, armed, martial artists, have a bad day, have only seen half of the relevant act, and a lot more not determinable variables. Don't get me wrong, I'm more in than out in regard to weird jokes and stuff, but this is downright dangerous, r a huge bullet dodged in her Dad not hitting on you any further. But, is he like that to other girls, too? Is he a real creep, maybe even one who's not only lacking manners and understanding of boundaries, but one who deserves to be in jail? Who knows? Who can know beforehand, or in the act itself?
I had just recently got my driver's license. I was driving down a back road going the speed limit (55) and I was the only car on the road. When I checked my mirror a few seconds later, a red car was directly on my a*s, so close I couldn't see his front plate. He began slowing down and speeding towards the back end of my car repeatedly. After a few minutes, he sped past me in a no passing zone and started brake checking me (speeding up and slamming his brakes to try getting me to hit him). After a minute or so of that, he slammed his brakes and we both came to a full stop. He got out of his vehicle and started pounding on the driver's side window screaming and cursing me out before getting back in his car and speeding off. I pulled over and stayed there for a few minutes to insure he was long gone before proceeding...
I'm no drug expert, but maybe Bath Salts? I don't know, but this reminds me of the guy on bath salts who ate the homeless man's face, growled at the police officer, and was ultimately killed by the police officer. The Homeless man was taken to the hospital and had plastic surgery to fix his face. Due to the story's infamy, his family found out he was still alive (they had assumed he died).
Load More Replies...This sort of thing happens when you accidentally cut someone off OR you are in their way and they want to speed. It causes them to go into road rage. I find the best solutions are (a) go into a suburb or area that you know well, with lots of confusing side roads, and shake him in there. (b) Pull into a police station. (c) If you have a passenger, make sure they film the incident and show him you are filming it. Put him on social media so he can be hunted down.
A friend and I had this happen to us years ago when he was driving. Sadly mobiles existed but they didn't have cameras yet. My friend changed lanes and the guy behind us apparently thought we cut him off. I dunno, since I was the passenger, but my friend believes there was plenty of room. Anyway guy goes road rage, threw a can of deodorant or similar at the car (left a small nick and dint in the paint) and pulled up alongside starting to spit at it. Then took off. We followed long enough to get his license plate then went to the police. Got told there wasn't much that could be done but they'd take a look. While we're at the station they checked the number plate and obviously IDed the owner. I remember the cop's attitude changing and he sort of went "Ohhh!" Didn't say who the other driver was but he had a record with multiple assaults on it. I don't know if they followed up but the cop said they would pay him a visit.
Load More Replies...Next time someone break checks you, video the back of the car doing it making sure you get the license plate. Then file a police report. We did this and the police tracked her down and issued a ticket for reckless driving and leaving the scene (she scratched our car trying to pass in a construction zone - double fines.)
Got to be careful with taking that video. In a lot of places it's illegal to use a mobile while driving. So you'd risk getting a fine yourself. You'd hope the police would understand mitigating circumstances, but I wouldn't bet on it.
Load More Replies...I had that happen to me. That guy was not expecting a 6', 275 pound man to come out and proced to explain to him how unlucky he was about to become. I was not having that c**p.
I'm gay and my husband and I married in the rotunda of the courthouse. As we said I do and kissed a group of Mennonite kids started spitballing us and throwing stuff down at us. Hit the judge too. It was a really crappy way to remember our wedding. No witnesses, just us which is how we wanted - but then what was essentially a hate crime. The children's parents were amused. My husband chased down security and they had it on video. Security stopped the family and then asked my husband if he wanted to prosecute. I was turning in our marriage certificate at that moment so I wasn't there to threaten 'yes'. My husband said no of course. I didn't want to really prosecute, but I wanted to put some fear in them.
The judge could have pressed charges against them for assaulting an officer of the court.
Yes, it's a common myth that the victim needs to 'press charges' on order to prosecute. If there are other witnesses then a prosecution can be brought even if the victim is not prepared to testify. (In most legal systems, at least).
Load More Replies...Well first off congrats I hope you guys are happy together and second off f**k those kids and f**k those parents
As a Mennonite, I am sorry that this family was violent towards you. That is not the right way to behave when you disagree with someone's choices. That should have never happened. That is not the kind of witness we should be showing. Again, sorry that happened.
I’ll never understand why victims of crimes say no to prosecuting someone.
Not everyone has the money for a legal battle. Lawyers and legal fights cost money.
Load More Replies...I don't understand how parents could be amused by children disrespecting a judge and two grown adults. It doesn't matter if somebody's the same religion or culture or whatever. Just because you do not agree with it doesn't mean that you do not respect people because they are people. Everybody deserves respect. I'm shocked the judge didn't get their a*s.
"Religion is about love, it's those abusing it for ....... " - BS, on ALL of that! If religion is abused anywhere, it is the cases where humanist values are being displayed as merits of religion, while the actual merits include standing up against religious bullying and worse. Religion is not about love, peace, understanding or generally being good in any way that reasonably is considerable good, but about control, obedience and shutting down curiosity. Interpreting any good in it may have positive results, still, but that doesn't make the reasoning behind it any truer.
Congratulations for marrying the man that you love!! ❤️🏳️🌈💙I'm sorry that your wedding day mark
“And then we went home and had hot a**l sex and lived happily ever after!” 😁
this does not sound like mennonites....mennonites (and amish) are pacificists...
There are also some genetic factors that ultimately might lead to people behaving in ways that others find annoying or downright horrible. The bottom line is that antisocial behavior, ultimately, needs to be cut off at the source. This means that all of us have to look for ways to help dysfunctional families, to make sure children can live in a safe environment and that psychological help like Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is available to those in need.
Some asshole tossed a lock (like the combination type) out of a car at me and hit me in the knee. I had trouble walking correctly for a month. I always thought if they had stopped at a light, I'd have hurled that bitch right back (good thing they didn't — I wasn't in any condition for a fight)
There was a woman in Thunder Bay Ontario that died after someone threw a trailer hitch at her
Killing someone for shits and giggles shouldn't be what puts a place on the map, but sadly, Thunder Bay is notorious for racism against Indigenous (Anishinaabe) people.
Load More Replies...Reminds me of this. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Z14iLqis5sw&pp=ygUqZGVhZCBrZW5uZWR5cyBuaWdodCBvZiB0aGUgbGl2aW5nIHJlZG5lY2tz
I'd rather let someone alleviate their pain with the idea that they could have done it. It's much easier to justify that angry thought than justify taunting a victim.
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One time I was in south Philly and a car pulled up with two guys in it. They called out to me asking for directions so I walked over. As I was explaining where to go the dude in the passenger seat spit in my face and they sped off.
They’re people, people are stupid, that’s all there is to it
Load More Replies...I don’t know why but this reminds me of the time I just lost heaps of weight and could fit in a size 6 and I got this white dress for myself, never would of worn anything like before with the weight kinda dress. A car slows down and a couple asks me for directions and as I walk close the woman throws a huge cup of chocolate milk over me and calls me a skank and they drive off. I went home crying my eyes out and my roommates just laughed. S**t day
Yeah, any story starting with, "One time I was in south Philly..." is going to end badly.
I bet this is very common due to Tik Tok or whatever. “It’s just a PRANK bro!” God, I hate people! 😡
I always pretend that I'm not a local if someone in a car asks me for directions. I can't run or defend myself so not going to risk it.
Sit next to me on the bus when there's a single seat on the other side
“Damned airborne tuberculosis”, followed by endless coughing, like you’re going to bring up blood, would’ve been waaaaay more effective.
Load More Replies...Easiest way to avoid this is simply sit on the outside of the seat. If there are other seats available, never make eye contact. If they ask to sit next to you, say NO loudly, and do not move. This is 100% a power game. The other person (I'd bet a man, 99% of the time) is counting on your (I'd bet a woman, 99% of the time) having ingrained niceness. At most say, there are other seats. Hold your ground. If and when he calls you a b***h, say, "Boys I'm taking charge here, or babe in total control of herself. Choose either, I like both." Then GLARE.
This sort of thing won't happen in my country unless the bus is full, which it often is. If a single woman is sitting by herself and there's an empty seat, generally a man will sit next to her and try strike up conversation. it is unfortunate. My advice to women in this situation is if possible try find an older woman to sit next to. They are sick of our s**t and will definitely defend you.
That's why I always put my bag next to me on the seat. I don't care if it's rude or takes a seat away from someone else, I don't want to risk some creep to come and try to hit on me or some shît. I will only move the bag for either a very old person, a child, a disabled/injured person or a pregnant women.
Say in a creepy whisper "Any idea how to get rid of (crabs, herpes, chlamydia, etc)? It itches and I think its spreading."
Or start coughing repetitively and say "d-darned COVID-19"
Load More Replies...i live in germany and i used the bus in my school time quite often (you could use the card you get to ride the bus for free to school any time of the day) and ive never seen that happen. literally everyone first takes a seat for themselves or sits with friends and only when it gets fuller do people sit next to strangers
The do this in parking lots also. While place empty and park right next to you.
Punched me, for no reason. I was standing. Waiting for the community bus. A stranger got out of the car and punched me. I filed the Police report but nothing happened.
Happened to me once. Homeless dude I'd been peaceably chatting with a few minutes before up and punched me in the face because he "thought I did something to his soda." (He had a couple of two-liters; I was sitting several feet away from them.) I was having a c**p night and the only thing that saved this dude from getting his a*s beat (and me from going to jail) is the fact that he was in a wheelchair.
stop being an ableist and treat him as you would anyone not in a chair, kick his a*s and break his chair. Show the man some respect.
Load More Replies...I had my face slapped by a complete stranger on the Haunted House ride in Disneyland. He was laughing and said something that I couldn't hear. I thought maybe it was an American thing to do? (I'm British) so stupidly I smiled back! Still don't understand what happened there, but never forgotten it.
Should've slapped him right back. What an aṣs. I'm sorry you had such a bad experience 😕
Load More Replies...Twice at concerts, once was full on he was behind me and just threw his arms round me and put both hands on my chest and squeezed hard. Not sure how I managed it but I put both elbows out and pushed hard, then kind of dropped to the floor and got out his his grip. Then just pushed my way through the crowd to get away. Another time it was by a woman, at a gig. It started off subtle and I thought maybe it was accidental as we were standing and everyone’s jumping and dancing. But it kept happening, and I don’t want to say any more other than again I got away. Have never told anyone else that before!
Load More Replies...Eh. Was walking down the same road I did everyday to go to and back from school. It was lunch time. A guy who was FRIEND with a friend of mine (but I didn't socialize at all) came towards me and just punched me in the face and was very proud of that laughing and pointing at me. He was also with another guy when he did that. It was unprovoked, unexpected. It left a bruise also. I went home sobbing and told my brother. He drove where those guys usually stayed several times but the guy wasn't there for days. I told my friend what happened also and he promised to look into it. According to the guy I provoked him. The f**k. I had to walk past that place again and I saw the guy there but he never did anything anymore. Still angry about it 23 years later.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I would be still be angry too. The puncher's friend is as big of an a*****e for doing nothing.
Load More Replies...We (me and bf) had a complete stranger first berate us for taking up standing space in the metro. We got off the metro because he was getting scary and what do you know, the dude gets off after us and punches my bf in the face. Yes, we called the police, no it didn't help unless you count them checking my bfs citizen status as helping. The guy should have been on a bunch of security cams
I remember this was a thing sometime around 2005 (?). Adolescents and young adults punching or slapping random people on the streets. Does anyone else recall this?
I work at a hotel as a housekeeper. Yesterday we had a baseball team checking out and I had a bunch of their rooms on my list. The rooms were reasonably messy, nothing too bad. But the last room…they trashed the place. Trash thrown everywhere and hidden in some places, food ground into the carpet, p**s on the bathroom floor, greasy hand prints on the windows and mirrors. The whole shebang. This was s****y, sure, but what made it f****d up was how they tipped me. They dragged a chair into the middle of the room, faced it towards the door, and left a stack of fake hundred dollar bills in the seat in plain sight.
That's when the card for the room gets charged a cleaning fee after photos are taken.
Exactly. The thing with hotel rooms is that you know who used them. You have all their contact details. I don't know how people still get away with trashing hotel rooms. It's so easy to make them face the consequences.
Load More Replies...I have had to call head coaches of college teams to inform them an additional cleaning fee was being charged to the worst rooms. And if any other shenanigans had happened. We actually received a huge cash tip and an apology letter from one college... the coach gave the team a good dressing down.
Good coach there, a team like that definitely needs to learn basic adult skills
Load More Replies...And the school/organizational sponsor/owner/whatever gets photos s proof of the mess and disrespect shown to the cleaning staff that accompanies a bill for extra cleaning.
I don’t have Twitter or instagram or anything like that, but I would open an account just to shame whoever was responsible for this! 😡
That's just plain stupid. This happened in San Diego and made news: Group of guys rented a suite and completely trashed it. I'm talking poop on the sheets and towels, urine all over the carpet, cigarette burns in the carpet (it was a non-smoking hotel), they broke the bed frame and mangled the lamp shades, left all kinds of garbage, including p**s filled beer bottles. You name it. The hotel took photos of everything and charged the card on record close to $4,000 (if I remember correctly) for a new bed, new carpet, paint due to the smoking, etc. The card belonged to one of the guy's Dad, who hit the roof about the charges. So the hotel Owner (not the Manager, the Owner) did a video chat and showed the guy all the damage his son & two friends had managed to wreak in less than 3 days. The man was furious at the kid. Last I heard the kid had been charged by the police, but we moved before I heard the outcome.
Were they really obvious fakes, or were they believable fakes? If they were believable fakes, it's possible the team thought they were real and they were paying well to make up for the damage inflicted.
Put "something" in both my gf and my drinks. Probably GHB. Something kicked in and I managed to get us home. Don't remember how. We are actually lucky to still be alive after that. Put me off concerts for a long time. Was even weirder that it happened at a metal gig.
Oof... had this done to me on NYE at a private electronic event. I had only 2 sips of a drink, then my body started wanting to fall over backwards uncontrollably while being fully mentally lucid. I had to lock myself in a stall in a bathroom to keep myself from backing up, and warned my friends "when I open this door, I'm going to come flying out backwards and I can't do anything about it!" My ex got me out of there, supposedly wrapped me in a blanket, and checked to make sure I was breathing the rest of the night. 6 hours later, I sat bolt upright from being nearly comatose, to stone cold sober and zero hangover. Utterly surreal. He blamed the female bartender bc he thought she had a crush on him and was "jealous"... to this day I suspect he did it to me bc he's a psychopath.
I had something similar happen - when I turned 18 I was already living on my own, and a friend invited me to her apartment to celebrate. I went, had 2 swallows of a beer and knew something was terribly wrong. I immediately left, got myself back to my apartment and locked my door. Passed out and woke up the next morning on the floor. Pretty sure if I'd finished that beer I would have died. Never knew what she put in it, never asked. Friends don't DO that to friends. Now, years later, I am curious to know what can be that fast acting and what her actual intention was. Couldn't have been good.
This happened to me. I was at a party at the basketball team apartment in college. I drank a half beer started feeling really effed up and got out of there. I somehow made it back to my dorm and faceplanted on the floor soon as I walked in.
Had it happen twice. The scariest part is that it feels exactly the same as being drunk so had it happened in the middle or end of the night I probably would have just thought “that’s crazy, I blacked out and don’t remember anything after 1:00.” Both times it was my first beer. I remember feeling it kick in and thinking “someone f***ing spiked my…” and then nothing for about 8.5 hours. First time I came to right after an argument or something and I was crying hysterically with absolutely no clue what was going on or why I was upset. Still not sure what all happened that night.
Oh man, I'm so sorry that happened to you! Then, to have it happen twice. Yikes!
Load More Replies...I was on a ship that served goods/drinks/dancing as it cruised the ocean harbor. My husband and I went on it with a few other friends (all couples). At some point everyone wanted to play this drinking game we’re we pass around a cup of beer and who ever can roll a quarter off their nose into the cup has to drink it (or if they miss they drink it, I can’t remember details). I was 19, still rather well stupid. Anyways, I had to drink the cup. It was a small cup and just beer so I wasn’t worried about the amount but shortly after I started getting super dizzy and very woozy and I kept telling my husband “something is wrong, I feel like I’ve been drugged”. By the time the ship pulled into harbor to offload he had to carry he out and I recalled nothing after until the next day. I’m 100% convinced someone playing that game with us thought it would be funny to slip the date rape drug in the drink or something. Never ever ever again did allow myself to be in a position like that.
I had a guy put something in my drink and it was just so stupid. I was at a small bar with my two close friends, so like there was no way he could like get me alone anywhere. I just got really really tired and could hardly stand, so I just sat in a booth with him and my friends talking about how tired the alcohol had made me. He told me he was single with no kids. The next day, I found him on Facebook, and he was married with a couple of kids. Like it was all such a lame situation. I'm just glad that it was lame and not harmful
That was frightening!!! glad "something kicked in" and you got away.
Really? A metal gig? The craziest thing I have heard from the metal gigs I've attended was about ppl getting too stoned to actually experience the concerts. (Or me getting too drunk to remember this specific concert. Lol). In my experience metal heads and whatever event they host are pretty laid back and people are generally polite to one another. Only once in my life have I attended a metal event of any kind where I experienced violence. And the hardest drugs ppl use is weed and/or alcohol. In my experience. I'm in Denmark if that's important to anyone. Lol
I was walking home pretty late one night and noticed one of my new neighbors walking up towards me from the opposite end of the street. As we were passing each other I said a friendly hello- in response this grown man silently turned his a*s towards me and let out the most repulsive, bombastic fart I’ve ever heard. I was too shocked to speak, to move, to defend myself. He didn’t even say anything, just calmly walked into his house afterwards. As far as I’m aware he still lives there, and I’ve never gotten an explanation lmao
If you are a time traveler from the future, I'm sorry you met my brother.
What would an explanation look like? *knock knock* “Hey neighbor! So, about that fart…I can explain!”
I now want to read a science fiction novel that begins like this.
Load More Replies...Well…maybe that is a greeting in whatever level of hell you were in!
Got a phone call from my wife’s number, it was a random dude telling me my wife ran a red light and got t-boned. Kept saying “yeah she really f****d up man.”
It was the guy that t-boned her. He ran the red light. He was inebriated. I rushed over to the address he gave me, cops and ambulance and everything. They let the guy drive off in his smashed up truck. No insurance. F*****g prick.
They let the drunk drive off...? Seems unlikely. Also, your insurance will cover after the deductible, and you can recover that in civil court.
I 100% had this happen in Atlanta after a young girl with no registration or insurance sideswiped my car. Cop just.. let her go. No one cared. No contact info, nothing. Because it's older and paid for, my car is still crunched on its side from that idiot.
Load More Replies...Photograph license plate, report to cops, insist on malicious damage to property and failure to follow procedures, he should have been breathalysed on the spot. Sue the city police.
We live on a 90 degree curve with a 4 foot drop, and we had 70+ people in our front yard in 20 years. The strangest was a guy who hit our telephone pole so hard he broke it and his bumper was wrapped around it.. We had a ritual--my husband would go and make sure they were OK while I'd call 911 in case they were hurt. My husband told the guy "It's OK--the police are on their way." He said, "Oh, S---, oh F----don't call the cops!" Then he got back in his truck and tried to drive off, but couldn't, so he took off on foot, abandoning the truck in our front yard. He was definitely high on something.
Yeah, and how did the guy get her phone and unlock it and know who to call?? The police would have made that call.
Load More Replies...Yeah, I'm not buying this one. No police officer is going to let an inebriated driver back on the road. You didn't really think this through, did you?
Pulled her pants halfway down her butt and asked me to check the size on her underwear.
I hated being a cashier.
Worked in retail. Foreigner comes in and start asking me for "the balls, the balls, where are the balls?" I ask him does he want toys or some other kind of balls. No, not toys. Then he puts his hands in front of him like he's cupping something and moves it up to his lips. "I need balls". I look at him and say "I don't know what that is but it's not helping." We finally figured out he wanted bowls.
Not inappropriate, but years ago when I worked in retail a normal-seeming, middle-aged guy asked me to check his shirt collar for the size because he normally didn't shop for his own clothes. It was no big deal, but it was kind of sad in it's own way.
Asking someone to look at your shirt tag is A LOT different than being asking to look at someone's UNDERWEAR Tag!!
Load More Replies...I don't know... No exposure.... Probably just not thinking smart rather than inappropriate.
I would have had a strong temptation to look and then blurt out as loudly as I could, that they were size XXL
Stopped at a red light one time. Someone from a building adjacent to the light threw a bag of ice and water on my car, from a few stories up. Dented the roof and shattered the windshield. Wasn't even a nice car, I was driving a Dodge neon shitbox
I assure you that every major car manufacturer has a limited shítbox edition for one of their cars XD For example, I drive the Westfalia Shítbox edition of the Volkswagen Eurovan!
Load More Replies...It sounds like something a child would do "for fun", because once I went to a birthday party at 10 years old and the form of entertainment was throwing balloons with water from the balconies. I don't miss the 90s, it's okay to have the kids in structured activities. I'm sorry it happened to you.
My sister had a propensity for dating the biggest douchebags on the planet. She was too hungover so she gave her debit card and keys to the guy she met a week before to go buy smokes. He disappeared. She reported the car stolen, etc. and got a call from the cops in Las Vegas about 10 days later that her car had been recovered. Guy was basically a con man (he emptied her bank account almost immediately) so he was in jail, but she had to go to Vegas to get the car. My brother flew down with her. On the way home (after this really f*cked up ordeal) someone threw a huge rock off an overpass and completely shattered her back glass. I thought she was going to have to be medicated by the time she made it home (Seattle).
Doesn't matter what you were driving, no one has a right to do that!
I was walking in a mall with my sister and this really huge guy walked past me and as he walked past he basically groped me down there. I'm a female for reference. I asked wtf really loudly and looked back and he just kept walking on and didn't look back. I wasn't sure what to make of that situation.
"Was it the Donald?" -- Well, his motto 𝒊𝒔 "Carpe Pudendum!"
Load More Replies...This is so common all over the world. The difference is that theese days we are starting to protest it out loud with # Mee too, and not just assume it is a part of life as a woman
Can you imagine what the response would be in a woman randomly walked up to a man and kicked him in the nuts? If men had this happen to them throughout their entire life at random times by people they both knew or didn't know, then maybe, just maybe, men would understand the vulnerability of women as we navigate the world.
Something similar happened to me when I was young. Happened sort of on the fly as he walked by and I was so shocked...and he was long gone and I just couldn't believe it! of course, you know, minutes later I had all kinds of snarkey remarks to make.... but in the moment, you kind of freeze cause it's shocking.
They do it because they think you won’t make a scene in public. They’re counting on the shock to silence you. Next time scream at the top of your lungs & charge him. Get everyone’s attention. Turn the tables on him! Scare the be-hoo-ha out of him! Get his worthless a* arrested.
I dont care how huge that dude is, im gunna start a fight if that happens
No, he started the fight you'll finish the fight
Load More Replies...First day of senior year I held the door open for someone. As he walks in he goes, “thanks. Your hair’s gay btw” and I’ve never forgotten that.
Where you previously aware of your hairs homosexual activities? Or did he just out your hair? /S
Until I read your comment I 100% read that as gray. Might be time for my eye appointment.
Load More Replies...I'd reply and say "thanks, that's why you will never stand a chance with me, but I will steal your g/f asap."
gay means happy and colorful as well, so he could’ve been complimenting it.
Walking home from school when I was a kid. Two boys I never met before were behind me and threw a rock straight into the middle of my back for no reason. All I remember is them laughing about it and approaching me telling to try something so they could beat me and impress the girl who was with them. The other thing was being randomly shot. I'm not sure which is worse but those aren't the worst things to ever happen to me, just the worst things done by strangers.
get the hell out of wherever you live and move to a different continent
What is most sad in my opinion is the fact, that they thought it would impress that girl, and more scary to think they might be right.
Tapped me on the shoulder in a club and when I turned around, he headbutted me with all his might. Before I could even process what had happened, two bouncers had a hold of him, dragging him outside.
I was just stood there, dazed and confused with my nose pissing blood everywhere - then I was lead into a room by one of the bouncers and given tissues to stop my nose bleeding. He said to me that the guy had struck one of their guys on the way out and the police were going to arrest him if I wanted to talk to them. Automatically said no, not wanting to be a grass (snitch).
I never left my feet and my nose wasn't broken, so it wasn't really *that* big a deal - but it lives rent free in my head because I don't know who it was or why he did it.
I seen his face momentarily and didn't recognise him, and as such wouldn't be able to pick him out a crowd now. I wasn't dancing with any girls as I was already with my now Fiancé and very happy, so I didn't make moves on his girlfriend or love interest. Me and my friends keep ourselves to ourselves and aren't involved in any beefs or anything. I wasn't stumbling drunk, so couldn't have barged into him or spilled his drink or anything.
My best theory is mistaken identity. I look like my Brother and he and his crowd are a bit more nefarious. Either that or he just thought I was someone else completely.
Why did you headbutt me Mr Stranger!?
Hmm being a snitch would be ratting out someone when you really weren't involved in the crime/whatever you saw... you reporting on the details of someone physically assaulting you just sounds like a reasonable thing to do. Anywho, you're a better person than I for forgiving someone headbutting you.
Although most decent people would agree that reporting it would be a reasonable reaction, unfortunately the more nefarious crowd would still consider it snitching. Edit, damn autocorrect
Load More Replies...NO you f*****g idiot, report to police and give a statement so he gets jail. F**k. People get away with this s**t because of nice people who play samaritan. F**k these people. Get him jail time.
Yeah! Why, Mr. Stranger? Or Doctor Stranger? (In case he went to Hollywood Upstairs Medical College)
I'd have had his n ut s for garters on that... snitch time in a major way
Don't let him "live rent free in your head" anymore. He was a random a****** And there probably wasn't a reason why he chose you.
Stole a piece of chicken from my plate as I was eating at the counter of a restaurant in NYC. Seems funny now 😃
My sister and I were walking around a fairground holding our fairy floss on a stick (cotton candy for my friends on the other side of the pond). Some random old man just walks past us and plucked a bit of fairy floss off my sister’s stick and kept walking. My sister (less than 10 at the time) was so upset she threw her stick away. We found my parents bought her another one (after trying to find the guy and give him what for, first).
Fairy floss is a much better name than cotton candy!!!
Load More Replies...Could be sad as well. If they have to do this to survive, I don't know what to say.
7 years old…dad took us to a Boston Bruins/Atlanta Flames game in Atlanta (1978ish?). Drunk guy grabbed my hand an put his cigarette out on the top of my hand.
Smashed me in the face with a glass bottle and left me bleeding on the sidewalk
I had some random girl literally light my hair on fire because she "didn't like the color" - I had magenta hair at the time. Wtf gives people the audacity to assault others and hurt them for minding their own business?
I find people like that behave like that until there are real consequences to their actions. Like getting their a*s beat. :/
Load More Replies...I parked completely WITHIN the lines of a parking space. Did nothing wrong. Received a note on my car: “Learn to park, A*****E!”. Rolled up to this note after a long day of dealing with young children. A man was walking by and I showed him the note and asked him if he thought it was warranted. He told me to crumble the note up and forget about it, I parked completely fine. Hope whoever wrote that note got some nice karma coming to them. Meanwhile, one of my biggest pet peeves is when people park straddling the parking lines. And yet I am the one who received a note. Cool. Edit. Now I’ve read a few of the replies on here and maybe I should just delete mine. I didn’t get punched in the face or hurt. Just felt the inconsideration and unjust rudeness from a stranger.
Maybe someone else actually HAD parked like an a*****e and got that note, and they were so pissed off they shoved it on someone else's car at random and left.
Or someone put it on their car that was parked wrong and they just left it on the car next to theirs when they found it
Load More Replies...Hm. Maybe the original, deserving recipient of the note stuck it on your car?
Same thing happened to me at the bookstore once. I kept looking at my car which was perfectly within the lines.
Could the note have been there unnoticed from a previous parking that didn't go well?
I was a cycle courier in Central London 2005/7 and amongst the litany of s**t that people did to me whilst riding through W1 my top three are: 3. Riding through Soho someone tried to snatch my bag and yanked me off the bike I came off and the bag was on me new york style when they couldn't get it off me the person squired a bottle of stewed p**s on me. F*****g junkies. 2. At Leicester Square I was taking a break on a slow Thursday afternoon and a couple of kids ( no older than 14) snatched my bike and tried to ride off but it was a 21inch frame and they stacked it in the road resulting in it being run over by ta bendy bus. 😔 1. Riding down Godge street on my last run of the day a car pulled up at a red light and threw a milkshake (Macdonalds chocolate ) in my face it smacked me and it really shocked me, I saw red and chased it for two blocks just raging at the next light I threw my lock through the back window. The car just drove off I was expecting a fight, harsh words something but nope just drove off.
"This is London, Jen. It's not like they want to give you a cake- unless the cake is made of poo and knives."
I think the milkshake one may have been an accident. Littering is not cool, though.
Weird hearing 'two blocks'. Isn't that an American phrase? London, as well as most parts of the UK, don't have a grid-type layout. It's all pretty random with a lot of curves.
A foreigner was sitting behind me and sniffing my hair on the bus. I noticed some pulling and saw some fingers in the corner of my vision when I turned my head. As soon as I realized someone was touching my hair- I stood up and looked back to see what’s going on and he was looking right at me, scared/guilty
that happens often here in japan,if its night or smth idk i dont go out that much but it happened to me too
Funny that the current president of the USA has been caught doing this countless times lol
Aww, he lives in your peanut sized brain for free. What it like being so f*****g dumb that you think that is true? I mean your orange failure of a savior is a russian puppet who allowed the pandemic to happen, gave Afghanistan to the Taliban and is a convicted sex offender, it is clearly obvious we are better off now.
Load More Replies...Someone not from the same country... Is using that word wrong now??
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Out at a bar in my mid 20s, my friend started talking to this girl. I let him do his thing for a while until he finally included me in the conversation and introduced me. The girl took one look at me at said “if you’re going to have any chance with a girl like me, you have to lose a few pounds and shave that goatee”. I was completely stunned. I had some very unkind words for her and eventually told my buddy to take her home and screw out what little brains he had left before I left the bar.
That was over ten years ago and unfortunately, that moment has stuck with me for a long time and probably contributes to why I have trouble meeting girls while out, even to introduce myself. I’ve dealt with rejection before and it hurts, but that comment hit me to my core.
Here's the thing. That comment had nothing to do with you. It FELT like it did, because she said it to you. But, that was just her idiotic and cruel way of validating herself and making her feel confident. It's what stupid people do. Truly. They have nothing else and certainly have no empathy. It's lizard brain all the way. So what you really need to ask yourself is, "why should I care at all what someone who I have no respect for thinks about me?" It hurt, because you are human and that was f******g lame, but truly, I promise you, it was for her to hear, not for you. Let it go and don't be afraid, just be kind and genuine and you will find your person. That was NOT your defining moment. That was a defining moment with a totally gross specimen that you just need to laugh off and move on and be glad it was only one interaction 😄
Please don't take the experience you had to the entire gender. She was a piece of s**t but it doesn't have to do with you, I hope you forget her. I'm amazed to observe how nearly everyone has a random comment said by people who have psychological issues affect them so much, I know a lot of similar stories mainly with things on appearance said by girls (classmates, sister, mother) but I've heard the occasional hurtful comment by boys as well, these are usually not on appearance exactly but on levels of sexiness and s**t shaming.
I don't think he said anything about it being specific to girls.
Load More Replies...Why would you (or anyone else for that matter) want a girl like her?
I've had something similar happen to me and it took a decade to recover.
I'd have left the bar immediately and never spoke to a woman again...but every girl I ever met was a "mean girl", hardly a one off occurrence in my case
Drove with a blood alcohol level of .1 and then rear ended me at a stop light going about 50 mph. Totaled my car when I was 21, living on my own and struggling financially. He had no insurance or license because he got drunk and caused a car accident 3 months prior. Then he died of alcohol poisoning. I got $157.63 from his estate 2 years later for the damages. But, it was that event that taught me to drive a standard transmission car.
What is the relevance of learning to drive a standard transmission car? And what does it mean actually, is it manual shift?
From OP on Reddit: "My step-dad gave me $700 to buy a car. This happened Wednesday night, I called off Thursday to look for a car in my price range. I had to choose between a 1970- something VW Bug with 195,000 miles on it, or a 1993 Toyota Tercel standard transmission car with 70,000 miles on it but an unusable back seat. A friend in the area who knew how to drive a stick went with me to pick up the Toyota on Friday. We picked it up in the morning and we spent the whole weekend driving that little car up and down the hilly residential roads around his house. I drove that car to work on Monday." And yes, OP meant a stick shift/manual shift :)
Load More Replies...I was dropping off a friend at their apartment late one night. They live on a pretty quiet side street so we’re talking on the street outside for a few minutes. Two guys show up and one completely unprovoked attacks me with a tire iron. Never seen them before in my life. Fought them off but he grazed me with the tire iron. Ended up with a nasty concussion, ten staples and no answers on why it happened
One time I was walking to my car. An old man approached me and asked if the church bells meant it was noon. I told him that it was noon. Then he asked me if I knew where the Jewish center is. I said, "I don't know, I'm protestant." Then he yelled, "IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU DON'T EVEN CARE!". Then I started running away and he shouted, "YEAH! YOU GET LOST AND GO FIND YOURSELF!"
Drugged out couple walked up to me and touched my nipples at a festival.
When I was pregnant in Barcelona, old ladies rubbed my belly And squezed my boobes in all friendlines. Happend many times and shocked the h**l out of me
Some people think that music festivals are swingers' parties. They''r'e not.
dont say that, dont compare what others felt to the "basic" things that the strangers did to a person. It is not nice to compare what they felt or experienced to the ones who did experience the worse. its not fair
Load More Replies...Some old guy went really close to me and started whispering slurs into my ear
and say it loud, then when people do not hear him... everybody will be asking what he said
Load More Replies...stitch his lips shut, maybe that will teach him to shut his mouth for once
I had a dude/dudette throw a full unopened beer can at me from a moving car while I was standing on the sidewalk. Hit me right in the chest. Scared the hell out of me. I wasnt sure if I had been shot or was having a heart attack.
Was on an escalator and a woman farted in my face.
Not me, but some years ago my (middle-aged bordering on elderly) mother came off the bus one day when a guy straight-up punched her in the eye and left. She didn't know him, hadn't done anything to set him off to her knowledge and he was never caught. (edit: scrolled down and realized there's another person with a similar story) EDIT: When it comes to me personally then the worst that comes to mind is some blokes with a car trying to steal my newspaper cart during a summer job once upon a time. When I was doing the rounds at around 4-5 am. It wasn't too scary at the time, I was mainly angry at them, but thinking back I can imagine how the situation might've escalated if they hadn't been clearly high off their asses and scared of me calling the cops.
When I was ten or so a man started to scream at me and hit me with a newspaper. Afterwards I think I managed to figure out what happened. He angrily said that I was "smelling" being a bullied kid I assumed he meant that I was dirty, I was in actuality suffering from hay fever and he assumed my sniffling was me mocking him. He was an immigrant and it was "normal" for racist people to say that immigrants were smelly. Several adults intervened and helped me run out from the subway train.
Guy probably is paranoid and has anxiety about being discriminated against, and has a fight response to it. I have social anxiety , and whenever I hear someone whisper (like even just in the library) my automatic thought is that it’s about me. Doesn’t excuse what he did tho. Lol sorry for rambling I just finished my psychology hw
Totally a normal response btw when you have social anxiety! I was abused by my mother as a child, and I'm 41 now but I STILL go into total shutdown mode whenever someone starts yelling near me (even if they're not yelling at me!) I also can't use large knives - anything over the size of a steak knife - as my mother used to cut my dad with our large butcher knives and I just have flashbacks to him covered in blood and cuts whenever I try to chop celery :| Our mental hangups aren't always rational :)
Load More Replies...was a kid trying my best to become the next Tony Hawk, i tried doing an oillie on the side walk next to a busy road... ate s**t infront of a bunch of people and some dude driving by with his window down yells out "you suck!"
I was once biking and hit a rock on the sidewalk. I completely just flipped around, landed face first in the grass. Someone stopped their car, got out, helped me back onto my bike and asked me if I wanted him to call 911 for me. So I met the opposite of who you did. Btw, I was a bit bruised, but mostly fine and was able to get home.
Aww, that's sweet. Much like the time I was on my bike and stopped because I suddenly had a massive nosebleed, and a plumber driving by pulled over and gave me one of his rags to help staunch the bleeding. (Tradies always have a few spare rags with them).
Load More Replies...I was in highschool and an older student I didn't know found me sitting by myself under a tree reading a book at lunchtime. He creepily sat close by and asked what I was reading and when I asked who he was he said "your friend" with an equally creepy smile. A few days later under that same tree he suddenly came up behind me, grabbed me by the shoulders and forcibly dry-humped me while his friends watched and laughed. I still remember how violated I felt - I tried to brush it off like it was no big deal, but I kept obsessively rubbing my back like there was something dirty on it, and then my inner voice said "if it's 'no big deal' then why can't you stop thinking about it?" So I told my parents, and then the Deputy Principal. I was never explicitly told so, but I'm 99.9% sure the f****r was expelled. I certainly never saw him again, but I hate to think what he might have gone on to do to others. :(
Great job letting the right people know, there was nothing funny about it. Good job ❤️
Load More Replies...This is why I stay in my secret tower lair and get my groceries delivered
Load More Replies...An old lady leaned against me on an empty bus. Tested her head on my shoulder and her hand on my butt. She laughed when it was my stop and said to her friends "scary," I'm not sure who was scary in this scenario but I doubt it was the random person standing for a few bus stops on their way to class...
I was standing in front of a bookstore in Amsterdam. Looking in the window. September 1970. I was 21 on a student trip. A well dressed business man came up and grabbed me. From behind. Broad daylight. He nailed me around a bit but I fought free and ran away. Various bystanders just watched. Very upsetting.
I was a brand new freshman, 1st month of school and learning my way around. Walking up a stairwell, this boy I've never seen is walking down. Just before we pass each, he reaches out and grabs me between the legs.I was only 13, but I have an older sister. Without thinking, I swung my notebook & the 2 books I was carrying right into his privates. He proceeded to fall down the metal stairs, hurting himself. He lied to the teacher who came over, his assistant principal and his parents. Luckily, I had a witness who backed me up. Turns out he was a 17yo senior. My age meant he could have been charged with pedophilia (age of consent was 16). He was suspended for several weeks and sent to a different school.
Couldn't even make it past the 5th post. This article just proves that the next gamma ray burst or planet-resurfacing asteroid can't come soon enough. Humanity has turned into a seething mass of anger, hatred, rage, aggression and idiocy. Time for the next species to step up and take over.
Was about 12 or 13 and my friend and I were walking through a park and some older teenager was sitting in the bushes having a wank. We ran home and told my friends mum but she didn't believe us.
In January of this year in Charles County, MD my husband and daughter were at Target. A man walked by and made really intense eye contact with My 10 yr old. She says "daddy that man is SCARY I want to go home" He was in front of them at guest services cause they had to return a birthday present. My husband notices the man has a huge gun down his pants so he steps forward to protect my daughter as the man was trying to pull it out. He tripped and was trying to tell the very pretty girl behind the counter to come with him like a hostage but he tripped and couldn't get out the gun so he ran out the door. Cops were everywhere they got held up for 2 hours being questioned but he got away. I couldn't figure out what kind of idiot would rob guest services at the end of the night since they return money nor take it in. Then a few days later the same guy kidnapped a woman at a gas station up the street, carjacking her with her in the car and took her to the next county over and raped her. He was looking for a woman to take not money that night at Target. Very terrifying
Silly interaction number two is a little bittersweet, but the punchline's worth it. Just a couple of months ago, I had spent the day at my guy, George's, hospital bedside, basically watching him die, there was nothing more we could do. After a long day, I was physically and mentally exhausted, catching my breath on an outdoor bench, my Chicken Purse on my lap (a purse that looks like a black furry rooster, but I call it a chicken 'cause it's funnier). This man walks out of the building and, without breaking his stride, points at me and shouts, "That's a mighty big c**k you've got there!", and I just exploded in much needed laughter. If you believe in "that stuff", I like to think that was my goodbye from George. He jokingly hated the purse, but loved the reactions people had to it, mostly kids. The comment just fit his humour perfectly.
I used to live in a town where every summer we had a little festival. During one week, street artists would perform for free in several places and people could come and watch and give some money if they felt like it. My sisters and friends would often go with my bf and me to this festival. One night, my boyfriend and I accompanied my younger sister back to her car. On the parking lot we came across a woman who seemed tired and scared. She was in her car and she said that her son (who was apparently sleeping in his bed in a building not far from where we were standing) had to get up and get into the car with her because they had to go to France (I live in Switzerland). But he was not in the mood and he was a big bloke and she could not convince him/move him alone. So she wanted us to come with her, to her place and help her wake her son up and convince him to go to the car with her. We explained her that we would not be able to do that but that we could call the police if she needed us to.
But she didn't want that. She then went away (driving or walking I don't remember). I made sure my sister safely left with her car and texted me when she was back home.
Load More Replies...I was in highschool and an older student I didn't know found me sitting by myself under a tree reading a book at lunchtime. He creepily sat close by and asked what I was reading and when I asked who he was he said "your friend" with an equally creepy smile. A few days later under that same tree he suddenly came up behind me, grabbed me by the shoulders and forcibly dry-humped me while his friends watched and laughed. I still remember how violated I felt - I tried to brush it off like it was no big deal, but I kept obsessively rubbing my back like there was something dirty on it, and then my inner voice said "if it's 'no big deal' then why can't you stop thinking about it?" So I told my parents, and then the Deputy Principal. I was never explicitly told so, but I'm 99.9% sure the f****r was expelled. I certainly never saw him again, but I hate to think what he might have gone on to do to others. :(
Great job letting the right people know, there was nothing funny about it. Good job ❤️
Load More Replies...This is why I stay in my secret tower lair and get my groceries delivered
Load More Replies...An old lady leaned against me on an empty bus. Tested her head on my shoulder and her hand on my butt. She laughed when it was my stop and said to her friends "scary," I'm not sure who was scary in this scenario but I doubt it was the random person standing for a few bus stops on their way to class...
I was standing in front of a bookstore in Amsterdam. Looking in the window. September 1970. I was 21 on a student trip. A well dressed business man came up and grabbed me. From behind. Broad daylight. He nailed me around a bit but I fought free and ran away. Various bystanders just watched. Very upsetting.
I was a brand new freshman, 1st month of school and learning my way around. Walking up a stairwell, this boy I've never seen is walking down. Just before we pass each, he reaches out and grabs me between the legs.I was only 13, but I have an older sister. Without thinking, I swung my notebook & the 2 books I was carrying right into his privates. He proceeded to fall down the metal stairs, hurting himself. He lied to the teacher who came over, his assistant principal and his parents. Luckily, I had a witness who backed me up. Turns out he was a 17yo senior. My age meant he could have been charged with pedophilia (age of consent was 16). He was suspended for several weeks and sent to a different school.
Couldn't even make it past the 5th post. This article just proves that the next gamma ray burst or planet-resurfacing asteroid can't come soon enough. Humanity has turned into a seething mass of anger, hatred, rage, aggression and idiocy. Time for the next species to step up and take over.
Was about 12 or 13 and my friend and I were walking through a park and some older teenager was sitting in the bushes having a wank. We ran home and told my friends mum but she didn't believe us.
In January of this year in Charles County, MD my husband and daughter were at Target. A man walked by and made really intense eye contact with My 10 yr old. She says "daddy that man is SCARY I want to go home" He was in front of them at guest services cause they had to return a birthday present. My husband notices the man has a huge gun down his pants so he steps forward to protect my daughter as the man was trying to pull it out. He tripped and was trying to tell the very pretty girl behind the counter to come with him like a hostage but he tripped and couldn't get out the gun so he ran out the door. Cops were everywhere they got held up for 2 hours being questioned but he got away. I couldn't figure out what kind of idiot would rob guest services at the end of the night since they return money nor take it in. Then a few days later the same guy kidnapped a woman at a gas station up the street, carjacking her with her in the car and took her to the next county over and raped her. He was looking for a woman to take not money that night at Target. Very terrifying
Silly interaction number two is a little bittersweet, but the punchline's worth it. Just a couple of months ago, I had spent the day at my guy, George's, hospital bedside, basically watching him die, there was nothing more we could do. After a long day, I was physically and mentally exhausted, catching my breath on an outdoor bench, my Chicken Purse on my lap (a purse that looks like a black furry rooster, but I call it a chicken 'cause it's funnier). This man walks out of the building and, without breaking his stride, points at me and shouts, "That's a mighty big c**k you've got there!", and I just exploded in much needed laughter. If you believe in "that stuff", I like to think that was my goodbye from George. He jokingly hated the purse, but loved the reactions people had to it, mostly kids. The comment just fit his humour perfectly.
I used to live in a town where every summer we had a little festival. During one week, street artists would perform for free in several places and people could come and watch and give some money if they felt like it. My sisters and friends would often go with my bf and me to this festival. One night, my boyfriend and I accompanied my younger sister back to her car. On the parking lot we came across a woman who seemed tired and scared. She was in her car and she said that her son (who was apparently sleeping in his bed in a building not far from where we were standing) had to get up and get into the car with her because they had to go to France (I live in Switzerland). But he was not in the mood and he was a big bloke and she could not convince him/move him alone. So she wanted us to come with her, to her place and help her wake her son up and convince him to go to the car with her. We explained her that we would not be able to do that but that we could call the police if she needed us to.
But she didn't want that. She then went away (driving or walking I don't remember). I made sure my sister safely left with her car and texted me when she was back home.
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