Men Point Out Male Behaviors That They Hate And Here Are 35 Of The Best Spot-On Answers

Spread the word! There is such thing as platonic relationships!

I thought I had a kind male friend at martial arts. Turns out he was trying to get a bit touchy-feely during one of our classes and then wanted to use me, an asexual woman, as an one night stand after he broke up with his girlfriend. I also thought another man in martial arts was being kind to me and was actually interested in my goal to get more women interested in more traditional Japanese martial arts-- turns out he wanted to sleep with me. Sigh...I left martial arts after that. I do have extremely lovely platonic male relationships, however, I just feel sad that I always have to be on high alert. As a biromantic asexual women it does make me scared to get into relationships as I'm always worried a man or woman is going to cast me aside.

I agree. As soon as you start hanging out with a member of the opposite sex all the social contacts they both have automatically assume a sexual relationship is blooming and they can't be convinced otherwise.

Female here: I have a male friend for 50+ years. He's happily married with 2 daughters and I'm a widow. Never any weirdness - never felt flutters and neither has he. But we have that friend connection that's long and deep since childhood.

Literally my best friends are women!! They have always had my back!! Guys are great friends, but there's always a one upmanship going on with some. I have a few guys that are great, however my female friends always explain to their husbands ,boy friends that I was there before them and often because of them. Not everyone goes through life crotch first!!

I'm the Supreme Ultimate Ubber Super-Duper #1.0 Alpha Alpha. In fact, I'm so Alpha, I make the other Alphas like like they were Alphas in Alfalfa. ALPHA!

My step son always says, "I'm just a nice guy.". When he explains how he is nice - he is NOT nice. Mean and cruel.

And I love it when a guy in his 20's who is wanting to date me, an over 50gal, says he 'so mature'!! OMG

Alfa means he's full of bugs. Even beta has less.

If you declare yourself an Alfa, you are a predator, not a human being worth living with.

Knitting is fun dude

Yes! I love baking and cooking, talk about it shamelessly. I kid you not, a guy in my class came up to me and asked me “are you gay, I’ve been confused about your sexuality for two years.” Like, I’m straight please and thank you, as if that’s VERY MUCH your business, and why were you wondering that for. TWO. FRIGGIN. YEARS. For context, this is probably one of the most conservative kids on Earth.

Why do we "genderize" so many things. So dumb. Loads of the men I know are the best cooks in the family. I know female engineers, fire fighters, police officers, we have tons of male nurses here.

My husband cooks dinner for us. I get weird looks when I tell people this.

Knitting is HARD. You have my respect.

What other emotions? /s

I was terrified, first going to a see a phycologist in a mental health facility with the thick metal doors and giant locks. But all the push button locks are on the outside and there's just a handle on the inner. I could leave when ever I wanted. They are to stop people getting in. And once I started talking I couldn't stop, it flowed out of me and I cried my eyes out. Growing up everyone did whisper words, for the things you were not allowed to talk about. I'm old and gray and wish I gone to therapy years ago.

thank you for saying this... most ignored thing ever...

Emo-whats?

Trying to teach my son this. Emotions are biology not gender

side note: what an absolutely accurate stock photo. that's exactly what men look like while they're degrading women. good job BP. genuinely.

I thought bro code was “don’t date your best friend’s ex.”

Husband has a friend who cheats on his wife. I call his friend a himbo.

Bro-code is synonymous for lying, cheating, womanizer, Bas#*@rd, user, abuser, and neglect. times two because they always travel in two or more. They need their bro code wingman.

This. I’m not judgmental about types of relationships as long as it’s consensual. Open relationship, poly, casual, it’s all ok as long as you’re honest with your partner and they are ok with it. I’m a one woman type of guy myself but different strokes for different folks. If you can’t treat your partner as a human with emotions then you’re not ready to be in a relationship.

Pathetic redpill chuds like Andrew Tate or Elon Musk are getting WAY too much platform these days.

Thank you for saying this. I work as a tutor and anytime I hear a male student, especially one under 13 say he likes Andrew Tate, I die a little inside.

I have a son who is asexual/aromantic. He is a kind, considerate man who works as a carer. He spends a lot of his free time on line with a whole range of friends all over the world. He is the sort of man who needs recognition, not these evil scrotes referred to above.

I was with this comment until the last part. Implying that insecure young men are alone to blame for their own problems is a huge part of the issue. We live in a toxic culture that builds in insecurities and preys upon them. Implying that young men's problems are due to their own failure as men to be something inherently toxic isn't helping the situation. These men need emotional help, but they only get derision from the groups who claim to care, while the alpha douches actually seem to give a damn about them. It's no wonder it's so appealing to some people.

Excuse me, but what does red pill mean? Honest question

Far, FAR too many men seem to view women as a hole to f*ck with an unfortunate personality/opinion attached to them. It's disgusting.

The use them, abuse them, leave them, kind. (Not using the term abuse as in physical abuse per say but in mental abuse.)

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Too generic…