30 Female Habits That Make Men’s Blood Boil

"If you really loved me, you'd know what I want without asking." HOW? Being in love doesn't grant you ESP. Stop playing stupid games and tell him what you want!

Thank you to all the dudes who have shown the other side of the coin. I appreciate it.

After being married 33 years and spending every day with me...if he can't figure out a few things I'd like for a holiday then I don't know what to say. We make lists but I also like to think about someone spending time thinking of something to get for me. I don't want to give you a list of things. I'll just go get it myself or not because I'd then spend theiney on something for the house. It's not expecting them to read minds it's them being present when we are spending time together. Remembering I said that I could use a new this or that or I have wanted this but haven't wanted to spend the money.

My boyfriend and I give each other X-chromosome points when one of us does this.

I've always experienced the opposite - men who think I can read their minds.

It's as STOOPID as a guy acting like a douchebag. No one likes it.

Even worse, purposely speaking in a child/baby voice because they think they sound cute. They just sound desperate & childish. Why do women do that?!!

Or using "I'm just honest and people don't like it" as a cover/excuse for acting this way, also

yeah, I don't agree with those type of women at all. it's not that hard just to be nice. I mean yes most women do get moody. but it's not nice to take it out on other people. I learned that a long time ago.

Who ever thought that? Hard to believe…

But turn around and do the same thing to your friends? That's a breach of trust.

Wait..... That's real???? Not just a sit com thing???

I always toss out fake info, to see what people do with it. Has saved me a few times

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The only thing I've found that has been leaked to her friends are the "magical" things that happen in the bedroom *epic facepalm*

Nah, I don't do that. Besides, all my friends are guys, anyway.

I'm a guy. I struggle to take criticism, but I also absolutely refuse to give criticism. I believe that's a more just thing to do than being all give and no take.

I believe (and Pandas will correct me if I’m wrong) that the word “criticism” comes from the word “critique”, as does “ critic”. That is to give an evaluation. It’s not go for your throat, it’s not yell at you, it’s not cut you into little pieces. It’s stating an evaluated opinion about something. It’s called sit down and talk. Sit down and listen. Not something people do these days. If maybe at beginning of relationship or very early on, making clear that’s how you prefer to do things. My dear friend has a strict rule in her home. No one ever yells. Stated clearly to her then boyfriend (now husband) and her son knew it too. They just don’t yell. It’s not ok from anyone. And if you hand out “criticism” you better darned well be able to take it too or STHU.

We all struggle to take criticism. It's normal in our species.

Also when it is presented in the form of “kind” criticism…

Yep, my life.

This is gaslighting, twisting everything around so you're the bad guy and they're the victim in order to avoid taking any responsibility for their behaviour. Its manipulative, shows a lack of basic empathy and is a hallmark of a narcissist. People like this don't change.

For me it's the other way around, whenever I try to explain my side of events after hearing them explain theirs, they somehow interpret it as "oh so it's my fault?!?" and I'm like no Bryan I just told you I understood your point and now I'd just like you to understand mine so we can come to some form of agreement or compromise.

Sometimes one needs to look inside to see if their own behavior is adding to this. There's a reason you keep picking these types of women.

Yup, make a complaint, criticism, voice displeasure at anything at all? Excuse it, justify it and then try to redirect to anything and everything not having to do with them. Something that's been consistently, calmly and explicitly expressed to her over years? Well it's because you don't do this, or you do that. Men are always a work in progress women think themselves perfection.

We leave it on the wall so that it doesn't clog up the plumbing.

Oh men...u do NOT want us women to get started on gross "bodily" habits. TRUST ME on this! I get it's gross, but it's still a fraction of mens grossness we have to deal with, since we tend to still get stuck with the majority of housework/laundry

Nope. Rinse it off with the shower head. Squeegee the walls dry. Clean hair out of drain screen. I don't want to see hair stuck to the shower wall either. It's gross. (So is razor stubble all over the sink.)

And in the drain.

Not sure about shower walls, but plughole grates? Yes. Every time. I have long hair too, but I clean it out every single time I use it.

And I'm guessing you're full of gratitude for the odd crumb she tosses your way. She's got you right where she wants you. You're making all the effort in the relationship and she's making just enough to keep you on the hook so you'll always be there if/when she wants to use you.

Hear me out, because this is going to sound crazy, but have you considered actually communicating with each other?

Y'all need therapy.... all my hubby does is work and play drums.... And I thank him for that frequently!!!! I couldn't sit on BP if he didn't 😂 he also expresses appreciation for the state of the house/yard/dogs/dinner that I've done

sounds like you need a divorce

I wake up and spend 20 minutes, everyday making my wife turkish coffee, make breakfast if she's in the mood, feed our cats, the army of neighbors hood strays, do the laundry, hang it outside to dry, collect and put it away which is mainly hers due to her 3 outfit changes a day, spend 10 /12/14 hours working that day, WALK to the store to buy food for dinner, which i prepare for her and i, AND her mother and sister, then do the dishes and put away leftovers, before hauling 80 pounds of trash a block to the dumpster on my way to run errands for my mother....and when i get home to find she's brought another day to a close with her unorganized disaster area spread all over the floor, obstructing access to everything "she's just soo exhausted. Why don't i ever do anything to help her?" Somehow i manage to keep my stuff organized, out of the way and i'm the a*****e for not wanting to have to wade through her mess to get at it.