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If someone needs feminine products and you have them, you give it to them no matter what
Definitely. This is a massive rule in my friendship group. If u need stuff, ask! Most of us have stuff on us and are all happy to give them to you!
Always flush the toilet. Especially at someone else's house.
If a stranger comes up to you and is acting like you have known each other for a long time and know each other, you play along. You could save their life.
It was only recently that I have heard of this. I had a gas station clerk act really excited to see me one morning, but before that and after, it was the standard interaction. I really hope this wasn't the reason and I left her in a sketchy spot, cuz it kinda weirded me out.
Even if you’re no longer friends, their secrets are still secrets. DO NOT tell anyone!
If a person is making a woman uncomfortable, you act like her friend and get her out of there
If you go to someone's house and a mess is made, you stay to help clean.
If you see someone's comment on BP being downvoted, you give an upvote (unless their comment was actually offensive).
Yeah as someone who recently got banned (new account) this is very true
Do not make fun of disabled or elderly people! Do not be cruel to any animal!
If you mess up or need to apologise, own it, and don’t make it about you, keep the other person as the main focus of the apology. For example don’t make excuses or blame your circumstances, focus on how you hurt the other person and be sincere.
If someone cooks for you and it tastes horrible, you eat it with a smile on your face
fess up when you have covid, don't come to work and make everyone else sick
Don't propose at someone else's wedding
If someone tells you their trigger, do not purposefully trigger them, why do I even have to say this!? They trusted you enough for them to tell you, they sure as hell shouldn't trust you now.
Holy god, yes. Thank you. When I warn people they think it's funny so go out of their way to do it. What they don't always realise is that I have PTSD. They assume I'm just being sensitive. But when I am triggered I stay in a heightened fear state for a while. I syruggle and can't always reset. I usually end up in tears. Like for me-- it isn't amusing, it's emotionally punishing.
ALWAYS race raindrops down the car window.
(Unless you’re driving, in that case you should probably look at the road-)
Nobody was really taught that ‘game’ we just did it
If you ever borrow a book, NEVER dog ear the pages.
The most important people at a wedding are the people who are getting married. Compliment them. Tell them how amazing they are. If someone compliments one of the other women’s dress, then point out the bride’s dress. You only get one wedding, hopefully, so make the day special for those making the vows, not the guests.
Don't put your call on speaker if you're in public
An eye for an eye. You hit me, I hit you. We can keep going until we both understand the gist . . .
Humans love revenge . . . I'm sorry to say this.
Shotgun is reserved for the oldest/most competent navigator. No questions asked. Kids go in the back.😁
If a joke goes too far and someone is actually hurt, physically or mentally, stop the joke. No matter what. I don't care if it will effect your 'social status'. Stop the dang joke
I gotta show this to a certain someone. Everytime a random thing happens, mostly a Bad one, they would go "And that's because of *my name*!" Not funny. Not one bit.
If you notice something odd, tell someone. Whether it’s something suspicious at school or you notice someone following another- just speak up.
You never know when someone is too scared to say something themselves.
Do not make fun of disabled or elderly people! Do not be cruel to any animal!
Never dig straight down in Minecraft.
Lol, childhood curiosity caused me to do this many a time. The results were not pleasant.
I don't know if someone has already said this but if you see a ladies bleeding through you tell her, stat
When you are leaving a workspace, always tidy up as much as you can. When I was leaving a workspace, I (and everyone there) was stacking their chairs up. The man next to me didnt put his up. We all asked him if he was going to and he said "No. I dont want to." We said that the cleaners already work hard enough and are underpaid. He said "I don't care" We told him that it was a quick thing to do to make their job easier. He said " Isnt that their job?" Everyone was frustrated and put it up for him. Just dissapointed
Smoke pot? Please febreeze before you go out in public. Some folks have issues with the smell (I get headaches for example). Nothing personal; I don't have an issue with what you do in your spare time 🙂 but we don't want to smell it and if we don't, we can't complain can we? 😉
Please and thank you 😘
Leave places as you find them. You eat snacks in a hotel? Throw your trash out. You we looking for a power cable? Close every drawer you opened!
I recently got back from vacation-- just before leaving i spent a week deep cleaning so i could come back to a nice clean relaxed place and it would be clutter free and easy to maintain for my roommate. My roommate didn't take the garbage out during the 4weeks, the floors were caked in mud. There was a pile of smelly dishes and spent my first two days back cleaning just to get it half way to what it was before i left.
When helping someone in need, try to do it in a way that isn't awkward
Try to do it in exactly the way they've asked for. I've been "helped" too much by people who decide what I need and do damaging things which hurt. If you're helping someone and they shout STOP then that should be a clue to stop right now.
Don’t play your music out loud in public places
This includes driving round in your car with the windows down and music on full blast. So inconsiderate.
Don't talk to people higher up on the key chain. There is a food chain in school, no matter what anyone tells you. The richer and "more talented" people are usually the ones on top. There are book nerds, video game geeks, weirdos, goths, jocks, artists, shy kids, and all other flavors of people in school. Everyone is equal, but people don't see it that way. An unspoken rule at school is that anyone remotely weird or not "popular" can't hold a conversation with the "hot" and "popular" people.
Of course, I don't abide by this rule. It's way more fun to weird people out. But that's my contribution (;
Haha I also don't do this. I wouldn't call myself unpopular although I'm not popular specifically cause it's not like a trans gay guy can be popular in a middle school, but some of my close friends are definitely in the popular category. To be fair I'm in a lot of friend groups- queer, dnd, ultimate frisbee, smart, chaotic and dumb (although the last two are pretty much the same people in different scenarios)- so it makes sense that I'd have at least a few popular friends.
People exit the door first, then you go in. You walk on the RIGHT side of road/stairs. On a busy road, you don't just suddenly stop and stare around. I live in a big city and it absolutely baffles me how many people are not aware of any of these.
The sisterhood rules.
Say there’s this other woman with whom you don’t get on at work.
She needs a tampon? Here’s one.
She’s been dumped/unplanned pregnancy/mother very ill/whatever: you’re there, you listen to her if she wants to talk, you hug if she wants to be hugged.
Don’t talk to the random person that sits next you on the bus
Especially if it's obvious that they are reading or have earbuds in
Might just be a Seattle thing (read; normal human being thing) but don't talk to people you don't know. It's creepy and weird. Don't sit next to them in a public area, if you have to sit as far away as possible, and do not start talking to them. It's incredibly creepy. If you need directions, that's fine, but don't walk up to someone and ask them if they like the weather. That is creepy. If you have a genuine reason to talk to a stranger, it's fine, but don't just make small talk with an innocent person.
If you make eye contact with a stranger in public, you have to awkwardly smile at them
ooh that's a good one- I don't even think about it but it's like instinct
Even if you hate a person, if they are in an abusive relationship or are in danger- you have to help them. Nobody deserves to be in that situation.
Do not make fun of disabled or elderly people! Do not be cruel to any animal!
Don’t sleep with 5 people In the space of a month and ex spect a break up to go smoothly
don't hit on a girl 3 years younger than you.....
Yikes. You absolutely don't have to answer, but... personal experience?
If some one comes out to you as lgbtq…. Dont tell anyone they and you know unless they say it’s okay. You dont know the type friends and family they have.
If you see someone crying, don't ignore them, ask if there okay,get them some water or tissues. Even if you have no idea who they are.
I’d also like to add, don’t mock people if they have a stutter or something like that :) it’s not kind and just makes people feel bad <3
Most of these seem like they should be common sense/j
If you see someone crying, don't ignore them, ask if there okay,get them some water or tissues. Even if you have no idea who they are.
I’d also like to add, don’t mock people if they have a stutter or something like that :) it’s not kind and just makes people feel bad <3
Most of these seem like they should be common sense/j
