29 Times Guys Offended Women Without Even Realizing It

I hope you dumped that gobshite.

Red flag flying high on this one.

I once told a male friend that a male classmate was trying to make the moves on me. I subtly told the classmate that I was not interested. The friend said: "Oh, the poor guy." Apparently, guys are bros when it come to this type of commiseration.

BIG RED FLAG he's not the one for you.

My wife was stalked for years and still has nightmares about the guy. The only real question is *why* is he still breathing.

Date the picture, then. It won't age, it'll never make demands, and you'll never have to worry about hearing "It's not that I don't want to find you kind, but my family and friends conditioned me for higher standards."

Jeez, this is just plain uncultured

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A*****e comment. Be grateful he showed you who he is before you wasted any time on him.

Eek

Women have a hard enough time with being a Survivor of mistreatment so us men do not need to add more to them!!!

That is sad, that his cruel statement has made you self conscious. I know I talk a ton when I am into someone and that would have shaken me too.

Such things get to your head for a long time... My ex (also around 10 years ago) once told me I "smile too widely" and "he can see all my teeth" and "I should practice smile"... I still think about it sometimes.

I feel this one.

That's horrible. I love to talk. Im married and love a women who has a lot to say. If people are quiet that's fine, but you don't have live in world where you have to change yourself for a lame guy. I'm sure there's a nice quiet girl out there for him somewhere...

Oh boy... I think that must've happened to me, too, because I always feel I talk to much or too little and it's like, what am I supposed to do?? Can I not just??? Be myself??????

"Good thing you're cute because you don't have much of a personality." -me, to this guy, in my head, weeks later...

What the hell is a "good" personality, anyway?

O M G I hope you said " it's a good thing you have a d**k, because there isn't much else to like about your body"

I know plenty of girls (nonetheless guys ༼ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ༽) who are not cute but definitely good-looking... but one must learn to talk more nicely

Oh God! That left a mark!

Hahaha! That is actually a good one! Poor guy! Engage the brain before putting the mouth into gear!

At least he recognized he was an idiot

You get bonus points though for realizing the mistake !!

idiotic

#banter

"strive to look like them" ok you should strive to get your head off from your a*s

"Hello, Dr. J's Cosmetic Surgery Clinic... Your girlfriend wants you look like the love child of Oscar Wilde and Walt Whitman?"

Oh dear!

If he'd only stopped at the first half of that, he might've come off sweet

These are all sooooo bad!

"Fool! If you cannot comprehend my grasp of the modern English language, then our time together has proven to be fruitless, worthless, and as rapturously joyous as a hole bored into my cranium. Now be gone from my sight, lest you desire to suffer my wrath a second time, you insufferable cur."

Say: "Evidently, I am the superior in this relationship when it comes to intelligence." Then gift him a dictionary for his birthday just to rub more salt in that wound.

"Your observations are adequate, my beloved mentally challenged one."

That's because you are, read a book.

yeah you are, you insensitive impudent ma- I mean tadpole

THIS HAPPENED TO ME. Only, I told him I was falling in love with him and he said, I got caught in the garden with my best friend's wife so I'm moving to Canada to live with my brother. ................ I said, So that's why she wasn't very friendly to me. And, you could have told me you were taken and we could have been just friends. He went to Canada and I dated him again, twice, later, and finally gave him the boot when I went to his place and his ex-best friend's ex-wife was there... Took me a while but I got there.

That sounds a little staged. Like he's still making digs at the ex.

Talk about being COMPLETELY out of sync!

He def. should have kept that to himself, it would've been well justified dishonesty.

Soo, don't hang me for this, but does that mean that on the day he was probably the coldest and most uninterested in her, and maybe even a little annoyed by her, she fell in love with him? I'm just asking, every conclusion you draw is yours.

After being a an abusive relationship, being in a healthy relationship is hard, because you have to somehow unlearn all the toxic s**t you spent time being "taught".

Sounds like narcisist to me... they are everywhere!!

You should offer to pay his visit to a psychologist.

"trust me I'm over the relationship" APPARENTLY NOT ENOUGH!