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The two things I vividly recall from working in retail are the customers and the managers. But not because they were good. No no, because they taught me how to smile while my mind was repeating "Fu** you."

Of course, there was the cleaning of the floor, the stocking of the shelves, and the ringing of the register but these responsibilities were the easy part. The human factor was where the misery was usually at. And if it wasn't for my colleagues, I don't know if I would have lasted for as long as I did.

So I was very glad to come across r/RetailHell. The subreddit acts like an online support center where workers from the industry come together to both vent and celebrate their painful and proud moments on the job. Sometimes, just the fact that someone is listening is enough.

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We managed to get in touch with the mods of r/RetailHell and they were kind enough to have a little chat with us about it.

"This subreddit is very easy to mod," one of them told Bored Panda. "The community is really supportive and very little policing needs to be done, that's probably because the majority of members work retail, and anything insulting or rude to employees will be downvoted to oblivion, so it's largely self-governing."

"That said, we pretty much just ban people for breaking the rules," another mod added. "None of that negotiating a timeframe and then having to ban them again in a month. If you're [a jerk], we just ban you."

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Kim Irving
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't wait until it's my turn, I will speak up for the worker, NO ONE deserves to be treated poorly when all they're trying to do is their job.

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Tim
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was behind a lady at a store once and she did not have anything that she needed. She didn't have her store credit card (which would have gotten her a discount), she didn't have ID (which the cashier could have used to find her store credit card info). So, when I walked up, I said "Don't worry, I have all my s**t together." Later that day, I forgot to take my wallet to another store and I said "Oh no! I am that lady!"

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Tim
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will add that the lady wasn't nasty about anything, just "wildly unprepared" for her trip to the store.

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Gini Sarver
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m the next person and i have never stood there saying nothing, I always defend the person/persons behind the counter, why? because I used to be one of them

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Gabby M
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely I was behind a rude AF woman, on her phone AND bitching at the poor girl behind the counter. I leaned down and quietly said "Pay for your shyte and get the f**k out of this store. She turned around really quick stopped dead and looked up......way up ... I just stood there smiling. I'm kinda tall for a chick lol.

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Vasana Phong
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In customer service, for every 10 interactions, almost 2 is an a**e, not sure about the stats nowadays

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Mark Karol-Chik
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I usually speak in their defense of the cashier as the 'customer" is being a complete "Donald".

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Jennifer B. awesome
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2 years ago

Haha, I tried spelling the words out and it blocked them out. So I'll try it like this, the first one is c u n t, the second one is f*****k

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Lord Mysticlaw
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh I always wonder of it's OK for me to do that or if I should mind my own business. Noted.

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Mary Hiers
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was in a situation where I NEEDED to get a computer accessory because I worked from home, and the girl who helped me in the store was literally on her first day there. She was probably 16. Her DAD showed up and chided her for not knowing what to do, which only made the poor girl nervous. I made it a point to tell her that she was doing great and that I really appreciated her help. IDK what gets into some customers (and parents).

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was very recently the next person 😂The guy in front of me at UPS shouted “I AM NEVER COMING BACK!”. When it was my turn I loudly stated “ GOOD THING YOU NEVER HAVE TO SEE THAT GUY AGAIN”

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm usually the one to directly ask the c**t in front of me wtf is wrong with them. Standing there saying nothing while someone treats another person like s**t isn't my thing. I know it might not be my business, but then again who else is gonna stand up for the people who work their asses off.

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Rick Seiden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was at an airport waiting in line to talk to customer service. I don't remember why, but you know that's never good. The guy behind me is PISSED. Going off in full Chad mode. I finally get called up to an agent, and the agent next to her opens up right away. I look at her and say, "Look busy." She looks at me funny and says, "Why?" I tell her, and she immediately looks busy, and waits until the guy is called up and then thanked me. I feel kind of bad about it because someone else did have to deal with him, but at least her day was a little better (and I didn't have to listen to his s**t.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Usually if I'm the next person, the cashier will say 'I'm so sorry' and I'm like, 'why are you apologizing?'

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Keisha
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm usually the next person. But if I see someone being rude to a worker for no reason I will speak up. Nobody gets paid enough to be someone's punching bag because you are having a bad day.

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Harri Ellis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not retail but a restaurant. Trust me, it fits. Place is packed, and reservations were required. I walked in to hear an extremely abusive drunk yelling that he wants to be seated, NOW. Hostess explains that as he doesn't have a reservation, she is unable to do so.She offers to pay for a taxi AND a meal at another restaurant. Not good enough. He wouldn't even let me check-in. He could barely stand. He finally left, but the poor Hostess was extremely upset. I asked to speak to the manager, and she gave me a look of terror, but I said it would be OK. The manager comes, and I tell him what an amazing job she had done with that imbecile. She starts crying because she really thought she was in trouble. The manager thanks me, and after we were seated, a bottle of VERY nice wine was delivered to us, compliments of the manager.

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Deborah Nicholas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have customers who come in and say we’ve looked everywhere for ages for a certain item ,can’t get it anywhere ,Me … yes we’ve got that , Them … oh I’ll think about it

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Coworker had a c**t of a customer who made a HUGE scene in the lobby (movies) literally every customer nearby looked at all us workers with a look of "i am so sorry yall gotta deal with crap like that"

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M Perry
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll say something as the next person, cause I dgaf anymore.

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Jessica Rubright
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I soo agree its like what? I called you a c**t to your face because you were well. The person behind you agree with me so we're okay lolol

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We work our asses off. Literally work my life away for 12 dollars an hour. I drive my own car to their clients business to work for my company. My accounts are scattered all over the place in a 20 mile radius and they don't pay gas and they don't let you clock in until you get to the job and then they set these impossible timelines so they can pinch every penny. All the while, we got these rich ppl and celebrities, who we idolize. Not the person that has to work their life away to be stuck ina perpetual hell to make sure they can provide for their family. I have cancer and a six year old son it's heartbreaking for me and I still have to work through all of this. For what?? So I can get covid and die. I just wish that people would wake up, plant trees , and take care of this earth before it is too late. But instead I have to watch these politicians and movie stars make money off of our suffering. Live in beautiful homes and never have to struggle.

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Summer Woodsong
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There just has to be a better word to describe a rotten tempered, foul human being than lady parts.

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Jeweled Dragon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once when I was working there was a lady who's card declined. She got pretty pissed and stormed out of the store. She left her cart in the checkout lane. It had (literally) 100 items.

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Teresa Wedemeyer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been a retail manager for 30 years. I tell my new people..whenever someone is a jerk..the next customer wins the retail shopper lottery of service. .it shakes it off and that person is amazed!

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Kelly Sage
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've offered to trip the nasty customer in the parking lot for the cashier.

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L. Murphy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have actually yelled at people being rude to customer service people while in line. The staff can't do it, but I can do it for them. Mean is fun when it's deserved.

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Brian Bennett
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Trouble nowadays at six feet away I can't hear what their bitchin about - and I do like to interfere!

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Sheila Stamey
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm that next person. I've even told off the bad person. Shame on you bad people who are evil and rude to people in retail / food service!/ Etc. Shaaaaaaaaaame!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah i HATE "people" that are rude to shop staff , unless they robbing you they dont deserve your TUDE

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tend to apologize for them... I feel embarrassed as a costumer lol

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Too Accurate

Too Accurate

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Hey! What costs this???" *Proceeds to stay in front of that little paper, all alone over the product. Name, price and everything* "Is that the price for this???" Happens surprisingly often.

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"The community itself is really positive, funny, and insightful about working in retail," the first mod continued. "Lots of people letting their internal monologues out where in work they have to keep a smile on even behind a mask."

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"The most popular themes are humorous — we have a good sense of humor here. In retail, you have to or you just wouldn't survive." 

However, it's not just sunshine and days off. As the second mod explained, if you dig a little deeper, you realize it's a bunch of tired people trying to get a break from life.

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On The Front Door Of A Local Liquor Store

On The Front Door Of A Local Liquor Store

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish we had security, so i have not to deal with these not so smart as they think people.

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A large part of this emotional exhaustion comes from indifferent bosses. Zeynep Ton, a Professor of the Practice at the MIT Sloan School of Management, whose research focuses on how organizations can design and manage their operations in a way that satisfies employees, customers, and investors simultaneously, thinks the main reason why retailers underinvest in labor is that it's often their largest controllable expense.

"[Labor] can account for more than 10% of revenues—a considerable level in an industry with low profit margins," Ton explained in Harvard Business Review. "In addition, many retailers see labor as a cost driver rather than a sales driver and therefore focus on minimizing its costs. Accordingly, they often evaluate store managers on whether they meet monthly (or weekly) targets for payroll as a percentage of sales. These managers don't have much control over sales (they almost never make decisions on merchandise mix, layout, price, or promotions), but they do have a fair amount of control over payroll. So when sales decrease, they immediately reduce staffing levels. The pressure to reduce payroll expenses is so high that store managers at several large chains, including Walmart, have been widely reported to have forced employees to work off-the-clock, paying them for fewer hours than they put in."

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"You Are Not At A Level Of Skill That Deserves This Wage"

"You Are Not At A Level Of Skill That Deserves This Wage"

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The people who call them unskilled jobs aren't even capable of working them.

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I Love How Customer Actually Think We Care

I Love How Customer Actually Think We Care

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However, according to a new analysis of more than 1.4 million Glassdoor reviews, a toxic culture is 10.4 times more likely to contribute to an employee leaving than compensation. That culture includes failing to prioritize diversity, equity, and inclusion; unethical behavior; and workers feeling disrespected, the report said.

"Compensation is at best a moderate predictor of attrition," Donald Sull, a co-founder of analytics firm CultureX, which performed the analysis, told Bloomberg.

The research focused on reviews posted between April and September 2021 for large for-profit companies that employ roughly 25% of private-sector workers.

The numbers revealed that apparel retailers are losing the highest number of workers. Retail employees had an average attrition rate of 19% during that six-month period, and retail employees quit at a rate three times higher than airline workers, medical device makers, and health insurance employees.

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It Said "Call Center" Previously, I Believe It Also Applies

It Said "Call Center" Previously, I Believe It Also Applies

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Not Oc But Worth A Share

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if you could make a career of being hired by shop workers to tell the annoying customers to go f themselves while just appearing to be an ordinary shopper.

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The first moderator of r/RetailHell believes this toxicity is so abundant because "current culture allows it."

"Retail and other front line workers have not benefited yet from the change in cultural behavior that we have seen over the last 20 years, and part of that cultural problem comes from retail itself. It allows customers a lot of room to abuse employees because, at the end of the day, the customer spends money," the mod said. "These are my views only ... but I'm 21 years in retail."

The second mod said they don't think that customers are mindfully misbehaving. "It's not that they want to be [jerks] to the workers, it's that they literally can't see outside their bubble and recognize that it's another human being stocking those shelves. I really think they often don't take the time to mention that. You'll see that in stories from here. A customer is being a complete a***ole, but the worker shows emotion like crying, and suddenly they realize what they've done. I've seen workers talk about de-escalation methods that speak to this very issue. When you get them to realize that you're a human, rather than simply a conduit to donuts, their attitude often changes."

"This isn't always the case, and some people just suck," the mod highlighted. "I'm willing to bet most of those people suck outside of a retail setting, too. Sometimes retail is simply society's first line of defense against [jerks]."

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Every Night At Closing Time

Every Night At Closing Time

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a sign, the text is going to be explicitly ignored and/or contradicted jut for being on a sign =.=

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Upvote If You Would Not Fix This

Upvote If You Would Not Fix This

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can anyone help me? I don't know what the word should be because BP has censored it so well.

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We've Had These Kind Of Karens Right

We've Had These Kind Of Karens Right

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ha, Sunday after church service was always the worst. Was* because I waitered 20 years ago.

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When Those Certain Customers Are Walking Towards The Door...

When Those Certain Customers Are Walking Towards The Door...

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Lmboo

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Anyone Else Starting To Reach Their Emotional Limit?

Anyone Else Starting To Reach Their Emotional Limit?

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How I Wish This Wasn't True

How I Wish This Wasn't True

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some Dutch shops have adopted this ridiculous rite of shouting "Welcome" when customers enter the store. I've heard many people yell back "Act normal!!!"

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Cough Cough At My Entire Management

Cough Cough At My Entire Management

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a bad attitude! Is that the thanks company gets for employing you and giving you a chance to become rich if you work hard and long enough? /S

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Hits Home Doesn't It

Hits Home Doesn't It

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't call them baboons. I'm pretty sure baboons would be better at following rules than these dumbfúcks.

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Haha True

Haha True

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I Never Related So Hard To A Meme Before

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Every. Single. Time

Every. Single. Time

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to say, "Now its actually going to cost double, as I've now done double the work. But just because you're a SPECIAL VALUED customer, it'll be 100% off so its now only (regular price).

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Customer: Is This Cash Only?

Customer: Is This Cash Only?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Walmart circa 2015 made you click "I understand" when it said that it didn't accept cash/card. About 1 in 5 got to the end of the transaction and then were completely dumbfounded that it didn.t take cash/card. I used to joke that customers would agree to selling their kidneys on those self checkouts and never know.

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My Boss Volunteered Me For A Golf Event That I Hated Every Second Of, So I Gave Her A Golf Themed Resignation Letter

My Boss Volunteered Me For A Golf Event That I Hated Every Second Of, So I Gave Her A Golf Themed Resignation Letter

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Manager Put These Up 3 Days Ago Not Going So Well

Manager Put These Up 3 Days Ago Not Going So Well

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe you should mention a Bonus for that time like, let´s say, tripple the salary for that time?

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I’m... Concerned

I’m... Concerned

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The people working to keep us in food and loo rolls during the pandemic are heroes!

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It Do Be Like That, True Or Nah?

It Do Be Like That, True Or Nah?

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I Clock On My Brain Clocks Off

I Clock On My Brain Clocks Off

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WilvanderHeijden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because every customer is just another shadow in the long lines of shadows that they see passing by each day, with the exception of that one friendly and polite customer that stands out every 2 weeks or so.

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I Have No Words...

I Have No Words...

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This looks bad, but in my head, I'm trying to see how you could possibly fit all those shoes on the little racks, and I'm thinking everything was so overcrowded that this result was pretty much inevitable.

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