“My Friends Are Alarmed By The Content I Share”: 50 Funny And Relatable Memes Shared By This Facebook Page
Life is not only rainbows and butterflies. It can often feel routine and unremarkable, punctuated by occasional moments of joy or sadness. The good thing is that, no matter how low you may feel, you are not alone. And this endless resource of connection and support that is the internet is waiting to prove it to you!
Introducing “My friends are alarmed by the content”, a Facebook page dedicated to all the things that might make your therapist raise an eyebrow. Having a whopping 433 thousand followers, this account shares funny memes on a variety of topics, from the everyday struggles of adulthood to the inner demons that haunt us all. “My friends kept messaging me about the memes I was posting and that needed to stop,” the author of the page says. Despite the attempts to halt the sharing of these humorous posts, the protests failed to stop the stream of fresh and witty content that keeps us all coming back for more.
We believe that laughter sometimes can be the finest medicine, so we’ve gathered some of the best “My friends are alarmed by the content” memes to dispel the clouds of gloom a bit! Scroll down to discover the therapeutic power of a good laugh.
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I’m just about superstitious enough not to lie about someone in my family having died. But I figure that anyone who is already dead is fair game. My grandmother died 4 times over again in the last 12 months alone.
Lost my mother when I was a baby, do not remember anything. I too have had her "die" to get cut me some slack over the years
Load More Replies...Thank you, Cam, you are a truly good person. Everyone, when I die, feel free to eat as much chocolate as you want and blame it on me for having the audacity to die. If even one person does that, I will die happy.
i shall eat the chocolate for you my brethren
Load More Replies...What if my boss takes the day off for the same reason? #AwkwardFuneral
Cam just made sure that to a lot of people he's worth more dead than alive...
*sits down in doorway* Ah, perfection. Now I'm depressed and I have terrible anxiety!
honestly randomly standing in a doorway would probably hit my social anxiety
Load More Replies...Then forgetting everything that happens cause doorways do that
Would like to try that, but these days heating is to expesive to leave the door open
Hah! I have a balcony now, all that fresh air and none of the people. As soon as we net it on it will also have cats.
On 90 minutes? Is that's what considered a lot nowadays? I might as well live my life online
honestly that looks like a 2000s picture so maybe??
Load More Replies...Is that back when we called it the World Wide Web? Surfing the net, anyone?
If that's considered a lot, u don't wanna see how long I spend online
Memes are an omnipresent form of communication in today's online world. They can range from funny and light-hearted to political and controversial. Occasionally, memes may tackle more serious topics related to mental health or overall well-being in a humorous way. While some find these images relatable and helpful in coping with difficult emotions, others might have concerns about the potential harm they could cause. To delve deeper into this topic, Bored Panda reached out to Joshua Klapow, Ph.D., psychologist and creator of MentalDrive - an Instagram psychological well-being initiative providing daily tips, strategies and affirmations to help people gain access to the best in class psychological and performance tools to live healthier, more fulfilled and successful lives.
Memes have become a common way for people to express themselves and communicate online. However, as memes that delve into personal struggles have grown in popularity, concerns about their potential risks have been raised. According to J. Klapow, context is everything. “Memes put out to the ‘world’ are subject to so many varied interpretations. For some, there may be a feeling of validation on a more humorous or absurd level. And in that way memes can be helpful for normalizing, even making humor of intense negative emotions. However, those same memes can be seen as offensive, heartless, and even triggering negative emotions in some people. And thus the challenge here is that a meme that is presented to the world can be both helpful for some and quite harmful for others. I do not believe it is worth the risk.”
My sister is a maniac, she has troubles sleeping when her feet AREN'T hanging out over the edge.
Load More Replies...The way you spelled depression made me think of Johnny Deppression. Have a good day.
Load More Replies...I am 32. I just moved and I have a proper bed for once and my foot was hanging off the bed and my sisters cat came and and I felt her tail on my foot and I immediately threw my foot up in the bed before realizing it was a cat
Sometimes I lay down with the closet open, the room completely dark...and I don't even pull up the covers.
l'appel du vide, which translates to "call of the void" in English. It's completely normal to have those thoughts. You would never do it, it's just a "but what if I did".
Had this experience at work when being up high.....external metal staircase on plant, about 80-100 ft up..."what if I jump?" The irrational brain says out of nowhere...*immediately walks back down fast as possible*
Load More Replies...Wheeee intrusive thoughts! Hmmm, what if I throw my phone off this bridge?
Oof, I feel like there’s a lot of people that don’t follow through steps 2 and 3
I genuinely wonder if it’s a sign of severe depression if you get them more frequently. I used to fantasize doing it while driving every day at my worst.
Load More Replies...Lmao my parents haven't let me get a driver's license yet cause of this
Literally me today tho :( I was at home depot and happened to be walking behind a private security guy, who had a gun. And my brain literally said "try to grab it." Like Nani tha fùcķ?!
Cards Against Humanity, right? no seriously that's the name of the card game
Heed my voice, mortals! I am the god of Three Consecutive Seconds of Happiness and I will not tolerate Depression.
In a pinch "genocide" can be a suitable substitute for "some g*dd*mn peace and quiet"
Mental health is an essential component of overall well-being, yet it is often overlooked. Despite this, recognizing when to seek professional help is crucial in addressing mental health issues. J. Klapow explained that mental health symptoms are unique in some ways, but much like physical symptoms, their severity is determined by the distress they are causing and the disruption they are having in an individual’s ability to perform their normal daily functions. “If mental health symptoms of any kind are keeping a person from interacting with others, going to school, working, being in relationships, feeling safe, and the like, it is very important to seek care. When these symptoms are keeping you from doing what you want to do in life, it’s time to seek help.”
Me too. I didn't get it either even though I'm immunocompromised and two people in my home had it.
Load More Replies...I've gotten it twice, but it didn't stick around for long. Just like everything else in my life.
I haven't gotten Covid!!! I can't believe I managed to avoid it for three years now!! I still wear my mask and I'm fully vaccinated and I've had 4 boosters.
That's hilarious I haven't had covid either but I didn't realise it was because the pandemic didn't want me either Hahaha
Actually, the "stay inside" policy didn't change much for some of us. It just gave us an official excuse.
Oh jeez. I just remembered that I filled the sink with hot soapy water to do the dishes several hours ago and I forgot to do them
I feel so called out right now, like what the heII, this is not fair
My cousin took this photo. It's taken in his hometown - Roundstone, Co. Galway, Ireland. He gave it to the local newspaper and from there it's been going around the world for the last 15 years.
This is what happens when you don't have "stabilizers." Such as weed, I mean.
The stigma surrounding mental health struggles can prevent people from seeking the help they need, as they may feel like they are the only ones experiencing these issues. Therefore, we got curious about whether the use of memes and other forms of popular culture could encourage more people to seek help. According to J. Klapow, memes can serve to normalize mental health conditions, in the sense that they can show people that they are not alone. “Informative conversations, willingness to share stories, discussion of the impact of the conditions and how getting help can help. All of these are critical societal dialogues that are necessary to break down the stigmas and reduce the negative connotation of mental health conditions. Memes are but one component of this larger disclosure among the public about the commonality of mental health issues.”
My therapist told me that it was called feeling "defective." I have it constantly. For those of you who also feel it...you are not defective. You're perfect. Don't let anybody make you feel differently.
This actually happened to me in 5th grade. All the ppl I thought were my friends said “nah we never actually liked you all that much”
Stuff like that sticks doesn't it. My best friend since 3years old moved. I was 10year old,and devastated. But she said she will still be going to the same secondary school. First day of new school comes,no best friend. Felt really alone. Got home and called her. She said she didn't want to upset me or have me try to talk her in to something she didn't want to do. It honestly gutted me. I had other childhood problems/trauma. But her lying to me back then stupidly hurts me now
Load More Replies...I feel this. Had 2 friends after 25 yrs of friendship basically blindsided like this. Saying that why nobody likes you. WTF?
Yeah, but just keep in mind your the most loveable potato in the world and nobody can resist you and your enemies are secretly obsessed with you.
I worry about this often. Am I being to cringy? Clingy? Worst part it's probably all fine, I'm just overthinking and probably making things worse than they actually are.
I really am just clingy sometimes, and then one of my friends pointed it out and another agreed and then both scolded me. I never meant to be clingy, but because of that I didn't talk for the rest of the day and cried for about a couple hours. I don't know why, just did.
Load More Replies...If you didn't want me to lick your eye it's on you to tell me...
It keeps lingering in your mind. Recently, one of my really good and only friend left me and fully blocked me everywhere. I kept asking them why and they told me I was being very clingy. It's... Not really joyful.
I guess i'll add mug to the evergrowing list of things i never thought i would relate to.
Me too, but it took seeking out help many times before I found something that works
Load More Replies...Sounds like you need some superglue. I feel for you Lover boy. I have a bunch of scar tissue holding stuff together.
Load More Replies...When I say I'm "keeping it together" this is what I mean: barely functional and basically broken
My stars! This feels so much like me right now! I've never felt so seen!!!
Stress and anxiety are common experiences in today's fast-paced world, and they can have a significant impact on our mental and physical health. While it's impossible to eliminate stress and anxiety altogether, we got curious whether there are some effective coping strategies that can help manage these feelings. “The biggest challenge of stress and anxiety is that they exist in the mind and the body,” J. Klapow shared. “They have an impact on our autonomic nervous system and thus cause both physical symptoms (increased heart rate, muscle tension, GI distress, sweating, etc.) as well as feelings of distress.
Managing our physiology and reregulating it through recalibrating breathing, removing ourselves from a stressful situation, and learning how to slow our physiology down, are all critical ways to manage stress and anxiety. Cognitively we need to absolutely answer the question ‘what am I anxious about, what am I stressed about?’—Stress and anxiety have a way of sticking to everything we experience. Until we can label what we are stressed/anxious about, the stress and anxiety will grow and grow. As soon as we are able to identify the source of the anxiety/stress, it becomes much more manageable and far less global.”
Never do today what you can put off. You may be lucky enough to get out of ever doing it
There was a movie producer who once famously pointed out that if you just ignore all your messages for long enough people usually just sort the problem out themselves so you don't have to.
Load More Replies...I put off so much stuff recently that took literally 30 minutes once I concentrated. Apparently that's harder than worrying about it for weeks.
Yeah, I have a bunch of projects to do and zero motivation, but I got a week's worth of stuff done in an hour or two...
Load More Replies...I have jury duty next month, I have to call social security to sign up for Medicare and go into DMV in person to renew my license within the next few months. The pressure is freaking me out. 😩
Me in bed, at 830 am on a Thursday, replying to this post instead of heading out the door.
i would walk towards the water. it won't wash me away since I'm used to it.
What if Hitler was aborted, what if Jeffrey Dahmer was aborted, etc. I also feel like if people use this anti-abortion logic, they should also use the same pro-rape logic: 'What if he didn't rape her, then her beautiful amazing child wouldn't exist. Thank God for rapists!'
They do. Not in exactly those words, but some of them absolutely think that way
Load More Replies...Yes, you will live forever... username checks out
Load More Replies...Neither did anyone else but we're here so wadda gonna do
Load More Replies...Try living with the knowledge that you were a mistake instead.
"Then I wouldn't have to listen to you, would I? Oh, wait, I actually don't, do I? Byeeee""
I once got locked in a cemetery when going to a shop 10 mins away from my house and when I got home over 2.5 hours later my 3 teenage boys and my husband hadn't even noticed!!!!!
You went shopping at a cemetery? The BP community doesn't judge... With a little grit, and determination, I hear that cemeteries are a great way to find authentic wigs.
Load More Replies...The painting, the Silent Scream….it’s not because the voice is silent or just in the head, it’s because no matter how loud you scream….nobody listens. It’s them, not you.
The problem is that Me is just a completely different person than I used to be
I started wearing long sleeves all the time after i got a pretty bad sh scar and nobody noticed
I've felt like this since covid happened. nobody notices, nobody cares...
Despite growing awareness and understanding of mental health, there are still many common misconceptions and myths that persist. According to J. Klapow, mental health is seen as an illness that only impacts a small percentage of the population, which is not true. “In fact, the prevalence of mental health issues combined is as common as heart disease. Mental health issues are only for the illest, ‘crazy’ people. Not the case at all. Nearly 20% of the population will suffer from depression or anxiety at some point. It is common and prevalent but just not discussed. Mental health is not a weakness. Having diabetes or heart disease is not seen as a weakness. Mental health conditions are the same. The weakness comes from not addressing them.”
Yes creative mode where we can be as rich as we want and have unlimited resources!
Nah I'm happy in survival mode I just wish it was more like Minecraft. Go into the forest, punch a couple of trees, make a cabin and boom! I'm happy
My 19 yr old just recently broke his hand punching a tree. ME: Caleb, you need to learn to control your emotions. It's a tree, what'd you think was gonna happen? 13 yr old: Yeah, this isn't Minecraft. Me: *snickers* Dumbass.🤦🏻♀️
Load More Replies...I walked into a grocery store a little while ago and the first thought I had was seriously “Nah, this is tedious. I’m going to exit this world and start a new one.” I wish!
Ok but have you seen creative mode servers? They’re chaos 🤣🤣🤣
Me too! But I interpret this as mental health unlike another who interpreted this as financial. When I'm in survival mode I can't even pick up the paint brush or glue to make something and that's just heartbreaking as it's all I have 😔
My grandma had a really hot senior photo from before the great depression; both hers and Wall Street’s
Even ugly, ignorant people and the lowest of animal life reproduce….frankly hotness has nothing to do with it….just availability.
Reminds me of the story of my great grandmothers great grandmother. Women of my family go totally crazy after having 4 children, so crazy that a mental illness should be named after us! after hearing this story from my great grandmother, I believe it began with her great grandmother. she was a native American from the arapho tribe, away from her family and forced to marry a white man and have bunch of his children. After the forth one, she killed herself. Once women in my family have a fourth child, the literally becoming certifiable insane. One aunt went to a psych ward for a while. Because of this story, I believe that intergenerational trauma has affected most family members.
Go to Walmart, look at moms...almost everybody is hot enough to reproduce, to someone
Lmao too true! I hate Walmart but the few times I have to run in there my head hurts from the astonishment of seeing 400 lbs of cellulite in see through tights and a thong. I love that people feel beautiful and confident but damn, wear pants in public please
Load More Replies...I think empaths don't just detect other people's emotions, but also experience them, as if they were their own.
Load More Replies...Imagine being both? True empaths don't announced they'll empaths bc its a heavy load to carry.
Not every unstable household leads to PTSD in a child, not every person that is sensitive to emotional change has PTSD, you can also "just" be an HSP, a highly sensitive person... and that actually suckx just as hard as being an empath... Trust me, I know 😉
NEVER thought of it that way... Whoa. Being an EMPATH is a Superpower, provided you cleanse i.e. purge those toxins often. Music, baths, showers, journaling, gratitude, solitude in green spaces, meditation, chanting, micro-dosing, magick -- any and all forms of self-care will do it.
Therapy can be a valuable tool for people struggling with mental health issues. However, some individuals may be resistant to seeking counseling, whether due to stigma or a lack of understanding of the benefits of therapy. How could we encourage the ones we care about to ask for help? J. Klapow has some advice: “be willing to listen to them and allow them to talk with you. You do not have to be a therapist, but you can be a good listener. Don’t force therapy. Don’t push. Allow them to ease their way into readiness. Let them know that their suffering doesn’t have to be this way, and just like any other health condition, mental health conditions are extremely treatable. Let them know that you or others they may know have benefited from therapy. Ask them to give it a try. No commitments, just a try.”
Not for me, my mom died when I was 12, and was sick a long time before that. ☹️
Load More Replies...I was about age. My mom took me to see this Cali looking freak in the 70s. He told him I was fine. I was trying to find a way to off myself.
I hear you, have done that a few times trying to end pain, all kinds, years later & l Still screw up
Load More Replies...Each day is a battle. You've won every single one so far, that makes you pretty strong.
There's always a third option. Ice cream. Ice cream is always an option.
100%. "You're so strong!" Well it was either that or stay in the fetal position for 6 months while someone else took care of everyone
I have that exact same adorable little shopping trolley! See? DSC_0207-6...321553.jpg
Tbh I'd beat myself uo over being happy I did something basic
What a lovely little mouse! Does anyone know what variety that color is?
That's good though. It's something positive for the day rather than beating yourself up over not achieving or managing to do anything that day 👍🏻❤️❤️
I love how rats either look like they've seen some s**t or such innocent little angels that no one could fault them for anything.
I want someone to show me they care enough by realizing when I'm not actually okay. At the same time I don't want to talk to anyone about it. Edit: Yes, I understand they can't read my mind. I don't expect them to know something's wrong, just wishful thinking.
this is super unrelated but omg Loverboy, we're like the same person- same hobbies, same favorite authors, same favorite bands- that's so cool
Load More Replies...When they ask you how you are and you say thst youre fine even when youre not
Yeah I'm ok, just spaced out for the thirty-sixth time today, dw about it :)
People need to stop lying when a true friend asks if you're ok? They ask for a reason, so if you lie, the lack of a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen is all up to yourself. Just imagine, how would you like it if you would ask a friend of they were ok and they lied to your face and than they end up in a psychiatric hospital with a psychosis or commit suicide... You would have wanted them to have told you so you could be there for them, right? So please, let your friends be your friend and stop the lying...
You do realise that it's not that easy for everyone right?
Load More Replies...There is no such thing as inappropriate humour. People take humour as being directed at a stiuation instead of realizing it exists outside of the present situation because laughter is an uncontrollable response. Just look at how much harder people laugh when they are trying not to.
Let's start with your favorite thing to do or something that makes you happy(even if it's a little goofy)
How can you be upset for no reason. There's a reason, you need to dig deeper.
Just numb. It's like your emotions are being covered by the blanket of stress and overwork. Depression is numbness. Edit: Sometimes. I understand it's different for everyone, depression isn't one set thing.
For some people, for others it's different but I understand what you're saying
Load More Replies...I think the best thing to do if you have depression is to stop calling it depression. The word is so definitive and it made me feel a little hopeless, so instead of saying I was depressed, I said, "I'm not depressed, I just get sad sometimes, and sometimes I have doubts and sometimes I think a little too much, but so does everybody else, I'm not weird, I'm just not okay sometimes" and that flipped my view on life and my mental health completely. I do it with other things too! Anxiety: I worry sometimes, Social anxiety: I'm a little awkward around people, Anger issues: I get a little mad over some things, trauma/ptsd: I've had some bad experiences and some things remind me of them( it's just like a bad movie that you keep getting upset about even though it's over and sometimes you just need to forget the bad movie and watch a new one, not every one will be good, but you have to take that risk to find your favorite) hope this helps somebody! Love ya!
I wish that kids got educated at school on how to say "no" to things they really don't want to because it's getting to much for them. I'm not talking about homework, education is necessary because stupidity gets you nowhere. But NO to parents that drag their daughters to pageants by the age of 3, NO to parents that have their kids booked for sports or music lessons 5 days a week, NO to having to watch your siblings because the parents just keep popping out more and more babies, NO to things that are bad for their quality of life... In the US it feels to me, as a Dutch person, that there is hardly any normal work/private life balance... They work too long to pay off idiotic expensive weddings, cars, houses, health costs, mortgage, exes, student loans... I just can't wrap my head around it that it's considered normal when I compare it to The Netherlands and Spain where we live now, how can you just be happy and careless if you aren't incredibly lucky to have enough money to begin with...
I'm not depressed I"m just constantly either overwhelmed or numb and always sad and wish for death everyday and hate myself
NBC.... The US is not to be compared to the rest of the world, even though it sometimes feels they think they do.... Major depression has a reason to rear it's ugly head, it doesn't just happen...
could not be the rotten state our Govt, is in could it? Vote better!
Reading all these I realize I must either be an idiot that doesn't know she's an idiot, or I'm just genuinely a happy person because I've learned to not give a f**k...
The other day I felt happy. Like, pure, undisturbed joy. It was terrifying. I knew something bad was coming soon. That "other day" has now lasted, like, three days, and my anxiety is increasing. ITHINKSOMETHINGBADISGOINGTOHAPPENSOON!!! Remember me. This may be my last message before I die of that terrible thing caused by my unreasonable joy.
You'll be okay. Just breathe, and fukk it. If it happens, it happens. But don't forget that happiness, hold onto it and use it as motivation to push thru. I get like that. I refuse to leave the house cus I just know shits gonna happen. But you know what? I'm still here, and so are you. You ARE stronger than you may think you are, sooo much more. You got this, well wishes and keep your head up🌻
Load More Replies...In my case: if something good happened today that means something will f****d up tomorrow
Keep going straight. Don't go around corners. We don't have to know what is around the next corner.
He's so cute because he looks sad. When I'm sad, nobody says I look cute.
And you put THIS shot here?!?!!! You wanna see mass suicides or what?!?!!!! 😑
my adhd, anxiety, depression cycle. Don't wanna work, s**t i didn't work now my grades are bad, whats the point, not caring enough to work, don't wanna work.
Happy because I'm unproductive, that means I listen to what my mind and body messaged to me and I listened 😊
I do! Last night I was riding a giant inflatable swan in a moat around a knock-off Disneyland. I have no idea what that means, but it was fun!
Load More Replies...Yea, this is me today. I had a really good dream last night, but it's back to reality now
Hello PTSD my old friend... I'd like to live without you once again...🎶
Or to be told in a hateful voice to go do the thing you JUST FINISHED.
Yeah...I gotta be honest, the "con" seems like another "pro" to me. 🤔
but the pro is also another con it goes both ways dosn't it
Load More Replies...I am now refusing to feel any emotions. It is just not worth it. Yes, I'm working on it with my therapist.
Good for you for recognizing that you are emotionally exhausted and need to take a break from other people/this wk bywell and just work on healing your heart. Take all the time you need 😊❤️
Load More Replies...You can reverse it. It’s called anhedonia and it’s a symptom of depression.
Load More Replies...My brain should have already achieved the great Human-Pilot achievement for piloting me and making me pilot characters in videogames
My problem is I created a rich inner world as escapism in my childhood and now devote more emotional battery to the fictional TV in my head than real life..
You can turn it off, it's not easy but you have to be willing to be uncomfortable- trust me it's better than being numb.
Like spending this time reading about all these depressed people
I found that by not caring about what happened or why it happened I am able to just accept that it happened and can decide on what should be done next that is in my best interest. That allows me to leave all that baggage as I move forward. It is not quite this simple, but the more i practice this, the easier it gets.
And what if you do make bad decisions? You learn something and next time you just fail better 😉
From your obtuse comment, I wonder if you think at all.
Load More Replies..."9-1-1 what's your emergency?" "Hi yes, I'd like to report a stalker. They seem to have taken photos of me!"
And not feel an ounce of guilt over it, so much stuff to do can wait, me -time first, stuff later 😁
I was already depressed, I just put on a good sad song because it makes the depression feel slightly better.
My brain is too depressed to make myself move and hit play on a song
Load More Replies...Sometimes when you're feeling numb, this is the only way to get yourself to cry and feel some relief
Exactly! I can't cry over a person, but a movie or song can get me to open up and let the emotions flow.
Load More Replies...Guilty....Sometimes I'll be perfectly content and my dumb brain is just like "hey let's listen to that thing that makes you super sad!"
not sure why someone downvoted you. i fixed it. i am in total agreement and i just did that yesterday (tori amos)!
Load More Replies...I lost my 19 yo daughter to covid in 2021. Every lost love, missing you, or otherwise sad song now fits perfectly to express my feelings of losing her. If I don't want to be sobbing all day, I listen to EDM instead.
Me when a sad video comes on my Facebook video scrolling. Legit started crying the other night and my husband was so shocked cause we literally were sitting there doing nothing.
and then i stay up until 4 AM wanting to evaporate because i did this and regret it
Shh don’t tell anyone it’s 6:28am and I’m still up and never went to bed because of exactly this XD
Load More Replies...Me. I'm bouta go to a women's retreat for the first time ever and already I'm psyching myself up to keep my damn mouth shut and not say a word bc it's not about me
Yep... hey stranger at walmart (or everyone on BP) let me tell you about how I lost my child to covid!
I remember when I was obsessed with FNAF, and would hum fnaf songs so much that my parents literally banned me from listening to fnaf songs.
O5, Who gave 049 access to the internet?
Load More Replies...and frantically buying every single little accessory or book I can to dabble in that new obsession for like 1-3 months and then never touch them again
i wish, but i played it too much so my parents took away my switch. BIG sad
Load More Replies...Google "third place" - it's essentially a social place that's not home or work/school. In decades past, the third place was often a church or social club; with these things on the decline, people are losing their "third place" and mental health is deteriorating along with it.
Interesting, before coming to the comments I was thinking the third place was a trusted tribe of friends/family, which does seem to be declining in direct opposition to mental health. I am definitely googling this, thank you. Any suggestions where to start?
Load More Replies...It's called.hanging your habits. Takes work and isn't fun, but helps.
Outside could be scary but it's what is supposed to be human environment so just go ahead and try but not like jump right into take it slowly and it should work
I'm raised a certain way and then yelled at for being a certain way, wth did you expect
This. I can finally drive myself and I went to get food the other day at a grocery store. I stood in front of something I thought I wanted for 5 minutes, before I left due to the fact that growing up I could never buy anything/ask for a snack at a grocery store. That lesson has carried over to the point that when I actually need food I feel immense guilt getting it, because I feel like I'm doing something wrong. If my parents knew about how I felt, they would be mad, but I dont know what they expect because it's how they raised me!
Load More Replies...Yes. She has released a few songs and done a few other acting work.
Load More Replies...Miranda Cosgrove is her name. She's released a few songs and also played Carly in iCarly.
Load More Replies...Honestly, I thought the same way until I realized that I kept to myself the majority of the time and I faked a smile infront of people and that's probably why nobody ever checked on me, I only have myself to blame here :/ Also keep in mind you parents do love you
Sadly, not always. Some people should never have children. The damage parents can do without it being classed as 'abuse' is staggering.
Load More Replies...I feel like this right now cuz one of my best friends ever just started ignoring me. We used to call every day and now we don't. She barely talks to me. It really hurts because she was one of the few people I could trust and talk to
For me it's the opposite. When I'm depressed, my emotions won't let me sleep.
I answered this honestly once. They stopped talking to me. It's now been 4 years.
I checked up on a bad friend once and she stopped talking to me too. It's been 3 years.
Load More Replies...Okay, but those are the good friends. No quick fix. No "I cannnn hellppp!" Just okay.
Just bury it deep inside with no help from anything or anyone, works for me. I'm sure it's healthy.
Dear lover boy.. it sounds like you need a good friend. I'm here if you need me 🤠
Load More Replies...Me, depressed. Weed: "Hear me out. French Onion Soup-inspired pizza. Thin crust topped with homemade beef gravy, caramelized onions, and Gruyère cheese." Me, heading into the kitchen.
You'd probably feel better if you didn't take those meds, and the meds you have to take for those meds, and the meds you have to take for the side effects of all those meds
some side effects are worth dealing with
Load More Replies...I am not totally focused on ME do for others and see if it doesn't lift your spirits.
Ugh parents...."I didn't have xyz and my parents did xyz to me. I turned out just fine!" Just because your parents parenting skills were trash and you didn't become a serial killer doesn't mean you doing the bare minimum as a parent will raise a good kid.
Plus they never take into account that whatever their parents did (or did not) do to them WASN’T NORMAL, and just because they (our parents) did a DIFFERENT kind of abuse/trauma to us and not what their parents did to them… that also ISN’T NORMAL!
Load More Replies...get up off your a*s and get the help you need to become the person you were meant to be in the parent your children deserve
Get off your a*s and get the help you need to become the best you and the best parent you and your children deserve.
looking at u that one creepy guy that i met in an online game and it didnt affect me at first but now in retrospect i have minor trust issues with being around or interacting with any dude other than my dad
Time to put myself in a dumpster. Life as trash sounds nice. Treated the same as everyone else, I finally look better than everyone else, I just sit there and avoid people all day.
You are a cheez it box so you could go into the recycling and come back new and different. ✨
Load More Replies...This just makes me sad, people thinking so low of themselves that they consider themselves trash... They just aren't.
I say sorry too much, I realize it but can't stop it. Raise your hand if you too say sorry way too often.
Just last night, I apologized to my boyfriend for something that I later found out wasn't my fault. I apologize as a reflex whenever I think someone is mad at me. I don't "waste" time figuring out if something is or not, I just automatically go into "I fckd up" mode.
i say sorry a lot but the moment it's thru text, suddenly everyone goes crazy and i get a lot of missed calls and texts saying "don't do it" 😰
Used to. No I only say sorry if I hurt someone in anyway which is something that I am against doing.
Jesus slept in the middle of a storm, that tells me all I need to know
i swear i've seen you all over this page - you are the most relatable person i've ever seen
Load More Replies...Turned down a relationship because of this. Hated myself for that altho i look fine.
Aye man why you gotta be such a Debbie downer?
Load More Replies...This is a real thing. Depression has been linked to memory loss, esp short term memory loss.
Well I’m off to a great start. Well I’m off to a great start. Well I’m off to a great start. Was I writing a comment? I can’t remember now.
Load More Replies...Compartmentalization. Your brain knows it is “dangerous” to its survival if it looks at bad memories. And inevitably, bad memories and good memories are linked… we don’t have magically separate happy/sad times, so even the “good” memories might be considered “tainted” and “bad” by our brain in self-survival mode. Had a happy 6th birthday? Well, that was also the same year your mom pressed a gun to the underside of your chin. Better not remember anything from that year, just in case! (sadly true story)
Load More Replies...Well most depressed people don't sleep very well or nearly enough, and sleep is important for cleaning out the brain and is an important phase in longterm memory storage, so it is not just a feeling that you can't remember as much as you used to, it is a very real symptom of a system that is running on the fumes.
Probably interferes with pruning and personalizing your brain while it grows
Sometimes I'm on my phone to read, listen to music, or enjoy BP. I don't need that text interrupting me. It can wait!
I wish I could tell you kids that it’s “just the kids” :( I’m 41 and my contemporaries are doing the same things, except they’re neglecting their children in order to hide in bathrooms and smoke weed and vape. I don’t know what we’re all going to do. :(
Load More Replies...Could be they're good at sorcery and making it appear as if they're having a good time when they're just as miserable as you are, but are better at shape-shifting their emotions. Could be.
This whole list is making me feel a bit bleak about my own perpetual exhaustion
It’s 6:38am and I haven’t slept yet. I’m constantly exhausted, yet I can’t sleep. I find myself making excuses like, “well, I just didn’t sleep very well last night,” but I’ve been saying the same thing for months.. XD
Compare it to something more recent- then it's about progress instead (this is coming from someone with a stack of old sketchbooks from before I could actually draw)
Load More Replies..."Sucking at something is the first step to being sorta good at something" ~~ Jake the Dog
I sometimes wonder how I ever made friends/how I possibly could have been everyone’s favorite co-worker at my retail job. Then I remembered: my coping mechanism is professional class-clown levels of stage-performance-quality self-deprecating humor. I’m popular because I make my crippling mental illness absolutely hilarious to others XD
I'd be highly surprised if this is not my fate. I've become more reclusive and grumpier than ever after my first and only relationship ended 2 years ago. My coworker firmly believes I'll find someone new, but even I wouldn't want to date myself, soooo.....
I have a life size version of that, he lays in bed all day and browses the internet while being anxious, depressed, and lonely. It's me. I'm an inaction figure.
Ooh I have the matching female inaction figure! It’s me! This version comes with two cat figurines, though, so it’s cool.
Load More Replies...was thinking the same thing!
Load More Replies...This is why I vowed to NEVER set goals... That way I can actually NEVER fail
I'm 3... (checks the note on the fridge)... 3 I'm 33 and have a few days of memories.
Hell I only remember the traumatic things from growing up maybe 2 good memories and I'm 23
And men wonder why women would rather stay single than deal with their manbaby arsés
Load More Replies...Stick your head in the toilet bowl. Leave the seat down, so you don't get wet, scream!
idk why you were downvoted, I thought your comment was funny :)
Load More Replies...Pull out the pillow. Muffles the screaming at least, and then you can sleep on it.
you're one of the lucky ones!
Load More Replies...My mom tells me I am fat because of my meds and birth control. Joke’s on you, Mom, I’m fat because I’m unmotivated and depressed XD
🤢 I hate taking that s**t! Made me fat and more depressed when I was just reacting appropriately to being abused!!! I know it's not like that for everyone, but for me, it did more harm.
current situation. had surgery and can't walk so there it stays!!!
"If sabotage was am olympic sport I'd be Tonya Harding" ~~ $uicideboys
This is why I fill the silent times with music instead. Preoccupy the mind and it has less tendency to wonder into dark thoughts.
yes but I'm the boy and I'm also the one who's upset and I don't have a gf
same, but I was the dude and she was the girl.... Can I make it any-more obvious
Hmm, I know we need the electrolyte sodium to function, and tears are salty… sooo… imma go with, “yes” XD
Load More Replies...i like being a sensitive person, but it's so damn tough when you pick up on every real *and perceived* nuance
Tried it. If you ghost people and the convo just stops, that means they were already gone
Sometimes my fellow Bored Pandas are the only thing that keeps me going. I feel like we have a good lil community here. I’m here for you 💙
Load More Replies...I would never be mean to someone because of my trauma. But if YOU have trauma, please do let it all out on me. I'd rather feel pain than nothing
Loverboy, as a psych nurse and fellow traveler, it breaks my heart to hear your pain. Do I understand correctly that you have little to no professional or personal support? When we feel this badly, it is so difficult to reach out to people. We don't feel worthy, don't have the energy, don't know where to turn and a million other things. I know that it probably seems like a platitude, but
Cut myself off. Anyway I would like to offer my support. There are two sayings that have helped me along the way. "This to shall pass." And " If you are going through Hell, keep going". Please take care of yourself and know that you are not alone.
When you're in the dark tunnel you must keep moving forward. You can never get out if you keep turning around.
Well sometimes you need to stop and take a break to. Try to find some peace or quiet in the darkness. Then get up and move on. It's what has helped me.
Load More Replies...The number of reactions here of people that think so little of themselves or have such hurting souls.... it makes me sad. Reach out, there will be a helping hand...
Loverboy, as a psych nurse and fellow traveler, it breaks my heart to hear your pain. Do I understand correctly that you have little to no professional or personal support? When we feel this badly, it is so difficult to reach out to people. We don't feel worthy, don't have the energy, don't know where to turn and a million other things. I know that it probably seems like a platitude, but
Cut myself off. Anyway I would like to offer my support. There are two sayings that have helped me along the way. "This to shall pass." And " If you are going through Hell, keep going". Please take care of yourself and know that you are not alone.
When you're in the dark tunnel you must keep moving forward. You can never get out if you keep turning around.
Well sometimes you need to stop and take a break to. Try to find some peace or quiet in the darkness. Then get up and move on. It's what has helped me.
Load More Replies...The number of reactions here of people that think so little of themselves or have such hurting souls.... it makes me sad. Reach out, there will be a helping hand...
