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"Back in my day, we used to walk 5 miles to school in sub-zero temperatures without batting an eyelid. Not like you spoiled little brats these days!" We all have an older relative who says things like this about raising kids. They are despairing the coddled youth with their smartphones, crappy music, and parents that seemingly can't say no to their every demand.

And you know what? They might actually have a point on the parenting styles of today. Although the world might seem like a more dangerous place now with higher safety standards required, kids of previous generations had to make their own entertainment. They had to learn to look after themselves from a younger age and take far more risks while doing so. Parents didn't have things like Mumsnet to help them with parenting tips, alternatively, guilt and stress them out for letting kids go out of the safe environments and learn from their own mistakes.

To celebrate the eccentric approaches of old-school parenting and child safety, we here at Bored Panda have put together a list of parents and their kids doing things that would horrify the mommy and daddy bloggers and Instagrammers of today. What's your opinion on the evolution of parenting over the years? Scroll down below to check out the vintage photos for yourself, and let us know what you think in the comments!

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Me Back In 1991 Just Your Typical Aussie Kid Drinking Xxxxlight Beer(I Wasn't Aloud Heavies Back Then) And Holding A Baby Crocodile

Me Back In 1991 Just Your Typical Aussie Kid Drinking Xxxxlight Beer(I Wasn't Aloud Heavies Back Then) And Holding A Baby Crocodile

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My Mother And Grandmother Demonstrating Safety Standards In The 1960s

My Mother And Grandmother Demonstrating Safety Standards In The 1960s

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If Your Mum Didn't Lay On The Ground Making Herself Into A Ramp For Your New BMX, Did She Even Love You? 1980's

If Your Mum Didn't Lay On The Ground Making Herself Into A Ramp For Your New BMX, Did She Even Love You? 1980's

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California Marijuana Initiative Rally 1972. That’s Me In The Box And My Parents In The Picture

California Marijuana Initiative Rally 1972. That’s Me In The Box And My Parents In The Picture

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My Dad And His Veterinarian Mother, With Their Pet Lion Which They Raised For Two Years, 1959

My Dad And His Veterinarian Mother, With Their Pet Lion Which They Raised For Two Years, 1959

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Princess Yvonne And Prince Alexander In Germany, 1955

Princess Yvonne And Prince Alexander In Germany, 1955

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A Couple Ice Skating With Their Baby, 1937

A Couple Ice Skating With Their Baby, 1937

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Infant Me, My Mother & Father At A Bar Because That's How Parents Rolled In The Early '80s

Infant Me, My Mother & Father At A Bar Because That's How Parents Rolled In The Early '80s

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Aaron W
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hung in bars too when I was little. Then they wouldn't let me back in until I was 20 - I must have been a rough toddler.

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The Pinnacle Of Parenting: 1930s Swimming Lesson

The Pinnacle Of Parenting: 1930s Swimming Lesson

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Bobby's Girl
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My father threw me into Tampa Bay. I was about 3 years old. I learned to swim in a hurry, because there were scary things swimming around in that water! Google "Horseshoe Crab" and you'll understand.

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Zori the degu
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think they are actually cute. But I guess they would be scary if one didn't know or expect them. :) In fact, I feel a little jealous, horseshoe crabs are on my favourite animals list! It's a lot cooler way to learn how to swim than lasting 2 hours a week with other kindergarten kids(the only reason I applied was that mid afternoon naps were even worse), who are plain dumb and annoying. But that's my personal opinion, of course! Just ignore me, I'm that insane person on Bored Panda, who adores all kinds of "nasty" beasts, especially invertebrates, and owns some type of bug along with all the other pets 99% of the time. ;)

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Alicia Rogers
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s older than 1930s according to the clothes. Looks like early 1900s. (Men didn’t wear stand up collars like that in the ‘30s, they wore folded collars. Plus you can make out the outfits in the background.)

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Nia Loves Art
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree about the background people, but I don’t think a collar like that was completely out of the norm for an older man in the 1930’s.

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Id row
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's still better than chucking your kid in and telling them to swim.

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Nomadus Aureus
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean... that's literally how I've been taught during a professional school in Kindy in the 90's...

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Ingrid
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or be thrown in to the water like my father done to me - then there is no other choice just to learn how to swim real fast

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Just JoLynn
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep! My brother, who's only a year older than me, threw me in the pool and said "don't worry, if it looks like you're drowning I'll save you" needless to say I learned to swim.

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Jodi Moreno
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was 6 months old when my mother threw me in a lake. The adults were around in case I didn't surface within a reasonable time, but babies just KNOW how to swim, so I survived. Been a fish in the water, ever since.

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Mr. Bean
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

that one kid who's terrified of the water... (zoom into his face)

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Maria Ines Molina
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad taught me to swim at the beach when I was 4 years old. Later, when I became a good swimmer, we swam together out on the open sea.

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THEPS
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It works ... at least he didn't toss them in and yell I hope you survive !

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Kimberly Puchniarz
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or just throw us in with a broken lifesaver. When we hit the water and the it broke in two, we swam or sunk!!

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Alexa Sciarratta
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think at one point or another some relative threw us in to the water to actually "teach" you how to swim. I learned, not sure if anybody else learned

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Eleanor Orser
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When we swam at a lake as little our dad would tie a rope around our waist.

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Pamela Scott
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mom sent me to lessons at the local pool. She didn't come to any of them till the last one. I was turning 3 later that week. Not sure if that hit her as she got out of the car just in time to see me jump off the high drive or just the idea of me in the water was enough but as I came out of the water they were sitting her up where she had hit the ground when she passed out. She never came to the pool again till she and a friend were picking us up the year I finished high school. As I came up from jumping off the same high dive my friend tells me I think there's something wrong with your Mom. I knew before I even looked, she passed out again.

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Pamela Scott
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's not how they taught them in Apalachian in the 30's. My Mom and my Aunt would both complain about how they tossed them way out into the lake and told them learn!

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Kim Lorton
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my goodness! That’s awful! I had a swimming instructor toss me in, and. I managed to do a 180 ,and make it back to the side in midair! Scared me to death. Told my mom, and she let him have it good, and I watched! She was a good defender if you scared, hurt or threatened us, but if she caught you...well, it wasn’t fun! When she thought my sister had been smoking, she slapped first, and got the facts later! She didn’t smoke, but her friends’ mom did!

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Louise Brigance
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah...There must have been a lot of that going around! I got thrown in the pool at the YMCA by some dummy thinking I needed "encouragement" to face the challenge. Jeez-I think I was 3-4. Didn't need to face any challenge, and never did learn to swim!

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Mary Rose Kent
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandmother never learned to swim because her oldest brother drowned while trying to get his Boy Scout merit badge in swimming.

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Jane Alexander
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was very little during WW2 and the horseshoe crabs on the beach looked like half-buried helmets to me.

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Trash Panda
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad threw me and my older brother (ages 3 and 6) into the Choctawhatchee Bay and said, "You got this." We were swimming like fish in no time.

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Anja Schmidt
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

without the audience ... but the adults could have worn bathing clothes, too ...

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Russian Otaku
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nothing wrong here just the epitome of proper parenting. Stupid s**t like floaties is one of the many very recent things ruining humanity

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bpanther
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No lessons here... this is public execution of juvenile delinquents !!

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ChickyChicky
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

By the looks of the fashions this is much earlier than the 1930s, more like teens/early 20s.

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Rosemary Moreland
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Mum learnt to swim by being tossed off the boat about 5 meters from shore. It was sink or swim.

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Paul O'Connor
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They look like they're on a noose. Hanged and drowned for good measure.

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Wanda Queen
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was actually a more progressive alternative than how many kids were talk. (See: sink or swim method)

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tuzdayschild
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This really isn't all that bad...oh wait a minute...are those things strapped around their necks!?!

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Bored Fox
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. Those were around waists. When I learned to swim in early 1990's the swimming school teacher used similar thing if someone was too scared to swim in the deeper pool.

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jesus christ this has to be fake, right.

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John Arild Berge
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not fake. That's a rope tied around the waist attached to a pole. I learned to swim that way in school in the early 80's

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Car Seat Safety In 1958. Not Strapped In To Anything, These Seats Relied On The Mother To Put Her Arm Out And Stop The Baby From Falling Forward

Car Seat Safety In 1958. Not Strapped In To Anything, These Seats Relied On The Mother To Put Her Arm Out And Stop The Baby From Falling Forward

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My Hilarious Father (With The Magazine) And My Grandfather, Grandmother, And Uncle At His Bar Mitzvah In 1972

My Hilarious Father (With The Magazine) And My Grandfather, Grandmother, And Uncle At His Bar Mitzvah In 1972

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My Mother-In-Law Riding A Bear At 2 Years Old

My Mother-In-Law Riding A Bear At 2 Years Old

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Harley With A Baby Seat, 1962

Harley With A Baby Seat, 1962

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Safety first! Remember to properly attach the baby seat with the convenient succion cups to the gas tank before putting your baby in it.

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A Photo Of Me Dressed Up As My Dad, With My Dad (1982)

A Photo Of Me Dressed Up As My Dad, With My Dad (1982)

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My Dad Showing Off His Parenting Skills 1985

My Dad Showing Off His Parenting Skills 1985

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And his Awesome fashion choices. Cut off tummy top, micro running shorts and Sears Roebuck velcro kicks was my go to in '85 too! but he tops it off with that cherry Tom Selleck stash. Your dad is a legend.

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My Mom In The Hospital After Giving Birth To My Sister. Canada 1978. Smokes And Roasted Chicken

My Mom In The Hospital After Giving Birth To My Sister. Canada 1978. Smokes And Roasted Chicken

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Back In The Day. 1950s To Be Exact. Checkout That Car Seat

Back In The Day. 1950s To Be Exact. Checkout That Car Seat

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My Mom Showing Off Her Parenting Skills 1978

My Mom Showing Off Her Parenting Skills 1978

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Me, 1958, Relaxing After My Bath With Toby, I Was Never Again This Cool

Me, 1958, Relaxing After My Bath With Toby, I Was Never Again This Cool

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13 Y/O Dad Having A Taste While The Grownups Are Busy Playing Cards; Upstate New York, August 1954

13 Y/O Dad Having A Taste While The Grownups Are Busy Playing Cards; Upstate New York, August 1954

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#21

My Father And His Pet Lion Priscilla, California 1970's

My Father And His Pet Lion Priscilla, California 1970's

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My Adorable (4 Year Old) Mother At A Zoo In Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam, 1970

My Adorable (4 Year Old) Mother At A Zoo In Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam, 1970

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Just A Photo Of Yours Truly (At 11 Years) Petting A Full Grown Tiger. My Mom Calls It Her "Bad Parenting Moment"

Just A Photo Of Yours Truly (At 11 Years) Petting A Full Grown Tiger. My Mom Calls It Her "Bad Parenting Moment"

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

From the infamous Thai temple tiger farm. https://www.traffic.org/news/thai-seizure-of-a-dozen-captive-tigers-resurrects-farming-threat/

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