This Instagram Page Is Dedicated To Funny And Honest “Millennial Mom Confessions”, Here Are 50 Of The Best Ones (New Posts)
Many parents describe parenting by basically not describing it. It’s magical, indescribable, they say. There can be some stigma attached to honestly venting or sharing the messy and chaotic reality of having kids. But for every tale of exhaustion, kids provide hilarious deadpan commentary for the most mundane things.
Fortunately, this Instagram page gathers the confessions of millennial moms who want to vent to the world about the reality of parenting. So scroll down and enjoy these funny, honest tales about raising a child. And if you want to see some more collections of confessions, check out Bored Panda's other article here.
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I will do anything in my power to make sure my children feel this way because I never did.
As tiny humans, kids are as varied as adults, so parents often find themselves needing to employ a variety of tactics to keep them in check. These styles will, inevitably, vary from culture to culture and will also often reflect the parent's own upbringing. In the American middle class, at least since the end of the Second World War, parents have often employed a more permissive style, which allows their children to feel independent and not constrained by constant rules.
Some of the responses and activities here indicate that the children do feel relatively free and unconcerned. Though kids also tend to not really know boundaries very well, so it could simply be that childlike innocence. Regardless, the permissive style has its detractors, as children often end up with poor self-discipline and tend to lack structure when approaching work and other activities.
In some cultures, it is very common to have full-on discussions with a young child and baby. These discussions do tend to be pretty one-sided, with the parent telling the baby about itself. In West Africa, parents will also talk to their babies, but mostly about other people. In both cases, the child does benefit, however, as engaging with language helps them learn to speak and feel included in family conversations. This is why young children, seeing or hearing a conversation, will join in with their own babel, as they believe this is simply what one does in the situation.
This makes me think of my daughter, then aged 4, who looked at me closely before nursery one morning and said: "Mummy, are you wearing make up today?" And I said, "Yes, actually, yes I am wearing a little bit." And she said, "You need more."
When kids get older, hopefully, they start to develop the ability to actually converse with others. Then comes the inevitable ocean of questions about practically everything. Why is the sky blue? Why are adults bigger? How does a car work? Can dogs understand us? While vital for a child to understand the world around them, this can be exhausting for adults who feel like they are in a never-ending interview. Some cultures circumnavigate the issue by emphasizing observation as the preferred method of learning. In other words, some parents have actually, successfully pulled off ’just sit in silence and watch.’
Others try to preempt the onslaught of questions. This makes sense, as a parent is an authority figure, so if you can’t tell your kid how gravity works, why would they believe you about anything else? In Indigenous American and New Zealand communities, storytelling is often employed to keep kids entertained and to explain to them how the world works. Though a particularly curious kid will probably end up asking hundreds of questions about the story itself, so it’s not a foolproof approach.
Raising four kids, I can attest, sometimes you just gotta take it when its offered from your wife. Dont remind her she has spit up in her hair, or that you just witnessed her clean up some unholy messy something or other. And pro tip for guys: Change the sheets before bed, before being told to... iykyk...
3 days of labour and an emergency C-section and 12 days in hispital after that, 15 days off for me yay...
Same, but my mom would just go for a random bike ride in the evening for like 20 minutes by herself.
I've come up with clever ways to hide that I'm swearing. My husbands sees through them and immediately starts laughing.
My nieces, at 4+2 still think the screen only comes on when brushing teeth. No idea how my brother pulls it off.
I can empathise with this, but actually, we said we wouldn't and our kids watch about 30 minutes of TV a week in total (3-4 episodes of Bluey/Hey Duggee, which we watch with them, plus the occasional YouTube video showing factories making sweets they like). They don't really ask for more unless they are ill and cooped up.
Someone downvoted you...have an upvote. My son never watched much TV when he was younger. Didnt have ipads or computers then. He was outside with the neighborhood kids most of the time. We were fortunate not to have to contend with screen time back in the day.
Load More Replies...My hypothetical kids only played with wooden toys. They always listened to their parents. They watched no more than 15 minutes of TV a day. And then we had real kids and all of that changed...
Or you can do like one parent "Want the WiFi password today? Then clean your room, take out the trash and unload the dishwasher."
That's a good incentive to get chores done and to encourage balance with play/chores. Also suggest listing to music when doing chores. Have a positive spin on chores is a good way to have a positive association. Still encourage some outdoor time (on sunny days).
Load More Replies...No they're going to want their kids having screen time if they want peace
Could you please explain what you mean by that? I'm honestly curious. Because I find it really sad that parents give kids screen just so that they can have peace. So many kids I meet now who spend half their time in the screen don't have a relationship with their parents, because screen time is addicting. A better alternative would be to read a book, or play with their toys.
Load More Replies...Because the people that work at those places don't have kids and get to sleep in lol
No dear, their bodies fill themselves with poo until they finally explode
This went for all moms in 80's and 90's movies - dad messed everything up and mom had to clean up the mess afterwards but somehow SHE was the no-fun parent.
When the perky young dental assistant asks if I floss every night, I sometimes have to hold back the manic laughter.
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For some, out of carelessness. For others, it's like a rollercoaster ride - just a long one. Sometimes up, sometimes down, but it can be a lot of fun. Not everyone has to want it, and that's good.
Load More Replies...Where's the one with the kids having a melt down because their food is touching on the plate?
For some, out of carelessness. For others, it's like a rollercoaster ride - just a long one. Sometimes up, sometimes down, but it can be a lot of fun. Not everyone has to want it, and that's good.
Load More Replies...Where's the one with the kids having a melt down because their food is touching on the plate?