ADVERTISEMENT

Hearing the words ‘beauty standards’, we can already assume that it will be something totally unnatural and not great for health both physically and mentally. As years go by, they change (at least a little bit), and most cultures have their own, but probably most of us can agree that when we hear beauty standards, we imagine that to fit in, we must be slim with pouty lips and pointy noses.

Well, one Reddit user recently started a thread asking people online to share the dumbest beauty standards that they have heard of. I think it’s safe to say that most of them are actually insane. So scroll through them and share your thoughts!

More info: Reddit

#1

30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place The huge, ridiculous swollen lips--good gawd it looks silly.

Ok-Thing-2222 , Gustavo Fring Report

Dread Pirate Roberts
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those make me gag. They look like they're gonna explode 🤢

View more comments
RELATED:
    #2

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Huge [butts]. So many women look like bumble bees now.

    PottedPotheadDaisy Report

    Dread Pirate Roberts
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Booty implants are the dumbest things. They look ridiculous. Like I can't even look at Nicki Minaj without laughing

    View more comments

    Bored Panda got in touch with Valerie Monroe, who writes the popular newsletter How Not to F*ck Up Your Face, and she kindly agreed to share her insights regarding this topic.

    To begin with, she noted that in her opinion, beauty standards have evolved surprisingly little over time. “What we see in the West is mostly a Eurocentric beauty standard, which, for women, prizes light, clear skin, long hair, light, wide-set eyes, a small nose and chin, and a small, full mouth. Interestingly, it mimics the features of a baby,” she emphasized.

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Valerie added that despite some recent changes to incorporate more ethnically varied features and darker skin tones, the previous standards still stand.

    #3

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Men who say body hair is unhygienic... and don't shave their own pits.

    samit2heck , cottonbro studio Report

    Rosie Red
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I made my ex shave his pits. He liked how it felt and kept doing it.

    View more comments
    #4

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place White people want to be tanned, people with high skin pigmentation want to be pale. It's completely idiotic how we each want what the others have. 

    Look-Its-a-Name , Anna Shvets Report

    Sabrina Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What I find idiotic is when we argue that the other is appropriating their culture.

    View more comments
    #5

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Thigh gaps. No offence to anyone who has one naturally but it's just odd to me that this was a literally beauty standard for a good half a decade when, unlike a lot of other beauty standards that can be achieved either through weight-loss/gain, cosmetic surgery or makeup, this one relied purely on genetics.

    ThrowRARAw , Roberto Nickson Report

    Dread Pirate Roberts
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glad this one is mentioned. Always found it a stupid beauty standard for the very reason that it completely has to do with bone structure.

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Now, speaking about whether it is possible for society to move towards a more inclusive and diverse set of beauty standards, she pointed out that she believes it’s possible to move towards them, but that’s probably not going to happen, at least in the U.S. “The majority of our population no longer reflects Eurocentric standards. (In other words, the population includes fewer white people than people of color.) That time is coming, so we'll see.”

    We also asked Valerie if it’s possible to ‘remove’ beauty standards at all, but she noted that it’s not going to happen. “How else will the Big Beauty companies make money? They thrive off our yearning to look a certain way: youthful, sexual, an impossible ideal. There's an enormous capital that goes into supporting our discontent!”

    #6

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place That having a disability means you can't be beautiful

    momomeluna , Marcus Aurelius Report

    RamiRudolph
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, eww, your legs don't work! You're so ugly! Never mind your beautiful face and body, but non-functioning legs are soöoo icky. (/s)

    View more comments
    #7

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Freckle tattoos. Natural freckles can be gorgeous, but it is so ridiculous to see young women actually getting some tattooed on, eithet with henna or permanent ink. Yes, it is noticeable that they're fake.

    80085ntits , David Kouakou Report

    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For centuries women did everything they could to get rid of freckles.

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT
    #8

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place That you shouldn't have long hair if you are 40+ years old.

    Entropy_Goose , LinkedIn Sales Navigator Report

    Jo Davies
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine goes down to the small of my back and I am 51.

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Finally, it’s obvious that due to the advancement of technology, social media and photoshop, more and more people feel pressure to fit these beauty standards. Valerie shared: “I've said it before and I'll say it again: Social media, filters, and photo-editing technology have had a hellish impact on our yearning to conform to unrealistic beauty standards.”

    She also highlighted that what we see on social media is fiction presented as fact and even when we're aware that the images are unrealistic and impossible to replicate, their impact is still deleterious to our well-being. “Why? Because they suggest that unrealistic standards are possible, and if we don't or can't conform to them, we've failed.”

    #9

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place “Boys don’t make passes at girls who wear glasses” Every man I’ve dated has LOST THEIR MIND whenever I take out my contacts and put on my glasses

    teine_palagi , Ali Pazani Report

    Luke Branwen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I concur. Glasses look amazing and I'm also glad you can see 😁

    View more comments
    ADVERTISEMENT
    #10

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place no SMILE LINES??? back in the day we were told we were prettier if we smiled and now its UGLY???

    6teeee9 , Shiny Diamond Report

    Chez2202
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only people saying smile lines are ugly are the people selling Botox and the people addicted to Botox.

    View more comments
    #11

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place That apparently none of us should have pores at all, god forbid a blemish.

    DracarysLou , Anna Nekrashevich Report

    Luke Branwen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being unattractive is somewhat liberating. I don't have to freak out over every single imperfection on my face since it's not gonna make things much worse anyway.

    View more comments

    So, guys, if you want to hear more from Valerie on this topic, check out her newsletter, How Not to F*ck Up Your Face!

    And what do you think about these beauty standards? What, in your opinion, is the most ridiculous? Share your thoughts in the comments below! 

    #12

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Foot binding

    lovin_da_dix , Thomas Quine Report

    #13

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place The hourglass figure. How are you meant to have a small waist/flat stomach but still be fuller of both sides of that waist unless it's genetic? For most women, this is unachievable!

    kitty_mitts , Daria Klet Report

    Marnie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with this one. I think so many women who are overly concerned about their weight are often really more concerned about their SHAPE. And they try to lose weight, but that doesn't and can't solve the "problem", so they are never happy. When was the last time you saw a woman who was portrayed as attractive in a show who had even the slightest bit of stomach, or had a bit of fold when they sat down? Last time I saw that was in a 1960s beach party movie.

    MP
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not even just about weight. Being thin with narrow hips or a flat chest is probably even less represented or more frowned upon than just being fat / bigger with an hourglass shape.

    Load More Replies...
    Delenn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with the skinny body/ huge breast. Unless it is genetic, if you are skinny you will have small breast because you will have little fat in your body, including breast.

    Pittsburgh rare
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How we've demonised not having a perfectly flat belly even after having children is both stupid and infuriating

    Bremusa4u
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. The shape of your body won't change unless you get some sort of surgery. My weight have gone up and down several times during my 50 years (currently on the heavy side), but body shape still hourglass except now I've a bigger belly.

    Sonja
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This comes from trying to look like a Victorian picture with modern clothing. And I'm not talking corsets here! Women's clothes wasn't so much relying on chinching, but used various shaping methods to give a woman the desired silhouette. Like wearing ruffles on the skirt and shoulders to make them appear wider and wearing layers that were worn lose at the bust and bottom but skin tight around the waist. Sashes and v-shaped seams added to the illusion of tiny waists, and yes, painted portraits were definitely drawn more flattering to look better. Also the beginning of photography was also the beginning of retouching. They used backgrounds and black cloth pieces to retouch the models and sometimes simply painted on the photo itself. But still people believe it was corsets and cinching that gave women this unattainable hourglass silhouette.

    Where's_My_Adderall
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i'm a trans man, and unfortunately have an hourglass figure. i hate it and never wear anything that reveals it lol. my best friend tells me that once I transition, I get to have a "Sl utty little man waist" lol.

    ShutUpMeg
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is awesome! A sl*tty little man waist! Would the hormons help changing your figure? I'm sorry if my question is rude, i am generally being curious!

    Load More Replies...
    Display_Name
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate the way clothes fit me. I have high hips with a small waist and a large bust. When I am wearing a loose fitting top that passes just past my belt line, I look larger.

    MP
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a similar shape!! It was so frustrating. I built a lotttt of a*s and outer thigh / hip in the gym.

    Load More Replies...
    Momten Jillian
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh to be young and slim. Most of what we carry extra is merely bad nutritional choices

    Baali Venomax
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm an hourglass but due to the fact I have a big bust and big hips, the plus size version is actually called The Cello. We're still hourglasses, we just have more sand in the bulbs :D

    Ralph Watkins
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know a young woman with that kind of perfect figure. She does bikini modeling on the side. I asked her what her secret is. Nothing. No gym & pizza & soda for her diet.

    Paulo Leitao
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its not unachievable. but it requires effort and dedication.

    Maartje
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am someone who has this. I am a bit heavier now, but still the hourglass. In reality, clothes are not made for this.

    Mmmm
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i have an hourglass figure and it was hard to achieve but probably solely genetics

    Pati G
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The truth ❓ we are never happy with what we have

    Mickie Shea
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A shapely woman usually denotes a healthy woman. yet not always. If your intent is to attract a male then realize most men do not like fat, especially excess fat.Regardless of genetics be healthy of body, mind and soul.

    Mary Ballard-Johansson
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm square. I go between a smaller square and a fuller square, but always square.

    Gypsy Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damned if you do, damned it you don’t. Best to just not give a damn.

    bill marsano
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Marnie, I see them all the time. Perfection is boring. Those who want perfection, wi'll have to settle for AI women or Victorians in crippling corsets.

    Jane W.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It provides young guys with unrealistic ideas about how females look.

    Blondie23
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had an hourglass figure for a long time until I had my kid. My waist is still a little bit smaller than my hips but not like it was in my 20's. You are right... it's all genetics!

    DarkViolet
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even though I have always been a plus-size woman, I have a pear-shaped bod. Until the weight REALLY started packing on, you would never guess that I weighed between 160 and 165 lbs. I miss those days. But it sure beats having a football figure (broad shoulders, narrow waist).

    Lisia Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been a rectangle shape all my life. No hourglass here!

    Isabella
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh, no worries. I have hourglass but am plus sized - therefore still considered ugly. It is only considered pretty if you are thin and have flat stomach

    ShutUpMeg
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are tons of men who think plus size women with curves are super sėxy!

    Load More Replies...
    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hear it's achieved using waist trainers and corsets, to displace the belly fat into the hip area. But that also can give you a pelvic pouch.

    View more comments
    #14

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Well soo I know for some situations its a godsend that this is available.. but generally it currently fashionable and considered beautiful, to get veneers, on healthy teeth. The process of shaving down natural healthy teeth to glue prettier teeth on, is strange. Like I have one, my tooth broke, they cut it down and fitted it with a veneer. It was to fix a problem. But now cause that happen i know the new tooth is not as strong, they break they fall off, they are weaker. And the real tooth underneath has been compromised, its nerve is not as protected, it can’t handle temp as well, it is less strong. To do this to every tooth.. when they look five anyway, just so they look perfect.. it’s shocking. Its also So painful to do it. And if you don’t have a real artist doing it they could mess up and make it look like you are wearing dentures! And really you are Not not!

    monkeyballs2 , Gustavo Fring Report

    Annymoose
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The glaring white perfect teeth look super creepy. Especially when they're too big and people can't close their mouths over them (looking at you Miley Cyrus)

    View more comments
    #15

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Skin bleaching. It's dumb and it's scary. I know that in some cultures having lighter or fairer skin is deemed "attractive" and some girls and women will shun the sun as much as possible, but smearing on chemicals to bleach your skin's natural colour? Not cool, especially since a friend of mine showed me videos of the after-effects of skin lightening "treatments" that left some pretty nasty side-effects.

    PureDeidBrilliant , Andrea Piacquadio Report

    ammara
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Skin lightening is a whole industry in pakistan. Its so hard to find a skin product ,be it a sunblock/moisturizer/serum anything that doesn't have the words lightening/brightening/whitening on it. Colonial shadows after 75 years of independence, are not a good look

    View more comments
    #16

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Women need long hair to be considered feminine. Blows my mind when women make a big deal about cutting their hair "short" and its shoulder length (which isn't short)

    Zestyclose-Bad7261 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

    MrsFettesVette
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had every length between waist-length and crew cut, it's amazing when you change your hair and people you barely know go crazy about it. Or one guy said, "your husband must be sad that you wear your hair so short" (it's currently in an angled bob). Haha, old man, jokes on you, my husband thinks I'm hot no matter how I wear my hair- because I am.

    View more comments
    #17

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place There once was a post on here about how women who don't paint their toenails are ugly... Like lmao what?

    toolongforyoutoread , Andrea Mosti Report

    A girl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol. My feet are awful. Paint would not help.

    View more comments
    #18

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place As a POC I used to think having blonde hair and blue eyes would make me beautiful. I love my dark hair and brown eyes now, but I had a rough time for a moment in puberty.

    bluenervana , Ali Pazani Report

    Dread Pirate Roberts
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, when I was a kid, everyone was obsessed with blond hair. As a brunette, I never understood the fad. All eye and hair types and colors are beautiful.

    View more comments
    #19

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Fake tans

    Mysterious_Ad9307 , Caio Mantovani Report

    Dread Pirate Roberts
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The fact that people make an effort to change the color of their skin is sad to me. And I'm tired of people telling me I need a tan because I'm too pale. This is the skin I was born with. If it displeases them, too frickin bad.

    View more comments
    See Also on Bored Panda
    #20

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Height being any indication of beauty or desire. It makes no difference to the average person in life.

    LFpawgsnmilfs , Agatha Zambronelli Report

    #21

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Having “pearly white teeth”

    daisies-and-roses , Daniel Xavier Report

    #22

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Buccal Fat Removal

    Content-Lettuce1306 , cottonbro studio Report

    Helena
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ages everyone by 10 years, and makes them a little skeletory

    View more comments
    #23

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Rib removal to get s smaller waist

    ThenCable2793 , cottonbro studio Report

    #24

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Leblouh - involves a girl of five, seven or nine being obliged to eat excessively to achieve female roundness and corpulence, so that she can be married off as young as possible. Girls from rural families are taken for leblouh at special "fattening farms" where older women, or the children's aunts or grandmothers, will administer pounded millet, camel's milk and water in quantities that make them ill.

    Thecatisright , Island of Djerba Tunisian Jew Report

    #25

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place The Mayan concept of beauty was wild. Long sloping foreheads, crossed eyes, pointed teeth and hooked noses. These features were achieved artificially starting in infancy.

    kinghodjii , Tamara Aguilar Report

    #26

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Getting filler in your knees so they don’t look like they have faces in them… it’s a race to the bottom when it comes to cosmetic procedures

    aoifemcmccarthy , ROCKETMANN TEAM Report

    Nichole Harris
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm REALLY hoping this is a troll and not a real thing

    View more comments
    #27

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place For a while on tiktok, they were promoting products to cure "strawberry legs". It's literally just having pores on your legs. So dumb.

    [deleted] , cottonbro studio Report

    Jesha
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought it was to prevent ingrown hairs, which is, at least, kind of understandable. Those suck and not for aesthetic reasons.

    View more comments
    #28

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Hip dips (the obsession to not have them).

    Panal-Lleno , Karolina Grabowska Report

    Marnie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't even know what it is. If we shouldn't be concerned about it, let's not give it a name.

    View more comments
    #29

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place That large-chested women shouldn't wear sweaters because it gives them "monoboob"

    80085ntits , Alena Shekhovtcova Report

    See Also on Bored Panda
    #30

    30 Awful Beauty Standards That Probably Shouldn't Have Existed In The First Place Canthal tilt

    Known_Push8386 , Craig Adderley Report

    and_a_touch_of_the_’tism
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had no idea what this is, so: “ A canthal tilt, also known as the fox-eyed look, describes the angle between your inner eye and your outer eye. A positive canthal tint is when the outer corner of the eye is five to eight degrees higher than the inside corner.”

    View more comments