30 ‘Screw It, I’ll Deal With The Consequences Later’ Moments, As Shared By People Online
Whether you’re a serial procrastinator, a risk-taker, or just plain don’t care, consequences will get to you all the same, but your conscience will be affected to a smaller or greater degree depending on which category of people you fit into.
Whatever the case, there comes a time when you do end up saying “screw this, I’ll deal with whatever comes because of this later” and just go for it. And the internet is full of like-minded individuals sharing their stories too, as seen in this one AskReddit post.
So, someone asked the lovely folks on Reddit “what was your ‘screw it, I’ll deal with the consequences later’ moment?”, and loads of folks delivered their intriguing stories of how they… well, probably not regretted their choices, but they certainly told the consequences to get out of here, and had to live through whatever would happen.
Scroll down to check out the best answers in our curated list below, and while you’re at it, cast your vote on the ones you enjoyed the most, comment your thoughts and share your own stories of “consequences be damned” in the comment section below!
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I had put in vacation for 2 days to go back home for my grandpa’s bday 4 months in advance. Request gets accepted. 2 weeks before my vacation, there is a shift change and now my trip would take up a whole week of work. I inform my boss that I’ll be taking a whole week now, he tells me that’s fine and to go update the vacation request. I go to HR to update my request, instead of just changing the date range the HR person tries to delete the request and make a new one. Only problem is we were in a vacation blackout time (no new requests get accepted for that month because of workload), so they end up canceling my vacation and then go “oh whoops looks like you can’t put in a new request too bad”. My boss gets pissed and has my back but HR isn’t budging, not the first time our department has been screwed over. I tell HR “I’m still going on vacation. I’m not gonna miss out on seeing my family because you guys are incompetent. Fire me or don’t fire me, I don’t really care at this point.” My boss tells me to enjoy my time off and we can worry about stuff when I get back from break. Grandpa’s bday was great, had fun seeing the family and friends from back home. I come back after a week and I’m still employed. Boss and boss’s boss explained to HR that I’m the only one in our department who’s qualified to do what I do, and if they want to lose a bunch of money getting a 3rd party contractor to replace me than that’s their right to, they’ll just have to explain to the finance officer and general manager why we’d be bleeding money all of a sudden. I don’t work there anymore but I hope my old boss is doing well, he was a homie.
Side story, that same boss took 2 weeks of vacation when the Shadowlands expansion of WoW released. Man’s got his priorities straight haha. When I asked him what did he tell HR and his boss he was like “Those people don’t need to know what I do or don’t do with my vacation time, I’m taking my vacation time.”
Exactly. My vacation is time when I can just disappear lol.
I never understood why people in the us think they have to beg for time off. In many parts of the world it is a polite notification. I'll be gone then and then, s*ck it.
Because workers here have no rights and the job market works on the constant threat of "you'll lose your job if you don't keep me happy."
Load More Replies...Every PTO request I have submitted in the past 20+ years has just said "Mental Health Break".
My favorite is when a Job has you do all the work that you would during your vacation before or after it. I mean come on if you're making me do the work still it's not really a vacation it's just moving when stuff is done around. I get that the work has to be done but if you don't have someone to cover it while I'm on vacation what are you going to do when I'm gone. Your boss is great we need more people like him.
Really? I've been a wow fan since TBC and had prebought Shadowlands but then when I started reading up my about I hated all the changes coming so cancelled my Shadowlands order, cancelled my subscription, gave away my gaming computer and never played again. Worst wow expansion ever
It was awful. I was excited because I really enjoyed Battle of Azeroth and put tons of hours into it, but then Shadowlands sucked the enjoyment out of the game for me and I haven't played as much since, mostly my lower level characters since they're still in interesting zones.
Load More Replies...Those of us who live in countries that have effective employment laws do.
Load More Replies...I do agree that you don't need to tell why you're using your vacation time, especially when it's filed in advance. However, I like telling my managers when I'm taking off for a new videogame or movie. I took off of work the day Infinity War came out, even though the showtime was hours after my shift ended.
My dog got stolen and was missing for over a month. Someone anonymously called me and said they were going to drop off the dog at front of my house wether or not someone was home. I just started a new job, I couldn’t find my boss to ask permission to leave, and I just bolted home.
Management is required to surrender all shreds of sanity upon promotion, failure to comply is punished with remaining in the rank and file.
Load More Replies...Everyone saying it was the right thing to do knows nothing about his job. Was he a sandwich artist artist at subway? Or a cop that just got dispatched to check on a domestic disturbance? The internet is super fast to draw conclusions with next to no information....
I'm going to go against the grain on this one. Don't get me wrong here, I love dogs, I have 2 of them, as well as 34 more animals I care a great deal about out in my pasture. But if you just started your job, you will probably lose it for something like this. I've seen a lot of people loose theirs for significantly less if you're still in your probationary period. Not saying it's right, or 100% going to happen. But if you just walk out on the new job, chances are that the boss isn't even going to give you the opportunity to explain yourself. Nor is he obligated to do so. I'll down vote myself on the way out.
That was the right thing to do. People with right brain would be able to understand and make an exception.
1998 - on my first date with a woman I'd met in an online chat room. We did the boring, cliched dinner and a movie thing. Things got hot and heavy in the theater. After the movie we drove back to her apartment and she invited me in. I had plans the next morning, but said what the hell. I didn't leave until 5:00 the next morning, and ended up blowing off my plans.
She and I have been together ever since.
I did that Once. I still miss her and my left Kidney. Hopefully I can find her again.
I was on holidays with my (girl) friends on a touring trip,met a guy, had a great evening date and whole next day, told my friends to continue without me and I'd catch them the next day. I ended up convincing the guy to go with me that next day, spent 3 weeks traveling with him (and my original friends), been married to that guy for 7 years now:)
Something similar happened to me in 2006/2007. Randomly met someone on IRC, it clicked right away, had lots of conversations and whatnot until 2007 where I got to meet her for the first time (mind you, she lived 8,000 miles away). We got married a little overa year later and still are :)
Sometimes you just gotta do it! Glad it worked out-20 years plus!
My ex and I met on an aol chat room back in 1999 14 years that relationship lasted!! My husband and I met on a dating sight 13 years ago!! So internet dating does work.
Gives hope that not all dating site dates end in you dead cuz they're a crazy m**o.
I have ADHD. My whole life is a long "f**k it I'll deal with it later" moment
Or deal with it when I absolutely, positively must deal with it.
That was me with my school work. However, I didn't realize this was ADHD, so I guess have it.
Load More Replies...One of my fave memes is this one .. https://ifunny.co/picture/ade-doctors-adhd-medication-is-addictive-that-s-why-it-dW8uY2lo8
Load More Replies...Yep, 100% just like my ADHD. I legit have to finish this essay that could literally be accepted and be only a paragraph long, or I can't go to field day (best day of the school year yuss) and I keep putting it off-
Procrastination can be a great motivator. I had a report due to a professor at one point, and she claimed that she could totally, 100% tell when someone did the report the night before. My brain immediately said "challenge accepted" I guess, because I procrastinated hard on it. Like, I did it 4 hours before it was due. I got an A-
Unprotected sex.
Consequences turned 9 this year.
My parents did that and I spent most of my childhood thinking I was some sort of defective abomination because they resented my existence, and their religious bigot families also treated me poorly a lot because my existence was somehow an affront to God. Those same people were of course staunchly anti-abortion. Pretty much lead me to conclude that Christians are monstrous, hate-filled bastards who do whatever they can to increase the world's misery so they can feel better about themselves.
LOL as a 2x teen mom now close to 40, my consequences turn 19 and 22 this year and it's not easier, it's just different. Love them, obviously or they would've been left in the desert for the javalinas and coyotes to eat lol
My second!! Spent 3 years of trying and got medical help for the first. Hubs said, "What are the chances?" 😂😂
My advice to everyone. If you aren't ready for a kid don't have unprotected sex. My wife and I waited 3 years to have our first. One day we decided man we don't want our kids to have a big age gap and it'll probably take a year or more anyways..... It happened the first time. The first one. Guess who's kids aren't gonna have a big age gap now lol
Quit my job when I was 24 and went traveling around the world for a year. Parents wanted me to buy a house with my savings but I spent it all on seeing the world instead.
You gained some cultural experiences and met some interesting people, I'm sure. Idk why parents are so bent on us buying houses. Not even to rent out or flip and sell. Just to live in and sink money into repairs all the time just like they have imo. js (My mom certainly didn't enjoy owning a house.)
It's good advice. If I would I have bought in my 20s, I would have paid around 60k for my home. In my 30s, that same house would have been 100k. Now, that home is 300k. Traveling is awesome. It broadens the mind and, to me, make life exciting. Neither option is bad. But your mom is trying to look out for your financial future
Load More Replies...It's a tough call. You gain unique, once-in-a-lifetime experience and moments from traveling. But the other route you gain financial stability and set yourself up for the future, which is hugely beneficial to emotional health.
one year in your 20s won't make a huge difference. I wasted time and money till I was like 37. I'm only now getting my s**t together in my 40s.
Load More Replies...This must be old. I don't know any 24 year olds who have enough savings to purchase a house today.
I think this one comes down to Mass media pushing for buying a house then saving for retirement then you can go see the world but a lot of people have figured that they won't make it to retirement and alot of those that do are physically incapable of doing something that they may want to do on a world trip or even just a country wide trip in the USA.
A house isn't just a thing tho, it's security and safety and belonging
Load More Replies...That's a gift you gave yourself & no amount of money can buy that experience! You can always buy a house but that's so mundane.
Every time I tell myself, "I'll just get gas before I drive to work tomorrow" and then find myself running 15 minutes late. You'd think I would learn at some point.
I do this all the time, then forget until I’m in the car the next morning. It’s the worst! And like you, I never learn. 🥴
Yes, you only run out of gas once in your life - hopefully. I try to never let it get below a quarter tank now I don’t live in the city with gas stations on every corner. My husband, however, “likes” to return custody of a vehicle so that the light comes on when I’m driving down my driveway. I really hate that.
Doing this actually saved me a tank of gas once. Was super low on gas, like fumes level, but was tired and decided to wait till morning. Well, overnight someone siphoned gas from the cars in my lot, including mine (broken inlet to the tank) and I was actually thankful I'd waited for once
We never learn that lesson...just like ya illy get up when my alarm goes off then after hitting snooze a hundred times oops still need gas...call to boss...dammit some idiot thug siphoned the has outta my truck...waiting on triple A ...his response: well hurry up I'm behind your truck in line 🤣😂🤣😂
Totally relate! But, it's actually best to buy your gas/petrol first thing in the morning, when the temperature in your tank is at it's coolest. Less vapor = more fluid.
I stayed up with my friends playing video games online until the sun started rising. I'm in my mid-thirties and that level of sleep deprivation the next day was worse than a hangover.
Oh I know this all too well. I believe I'm starting to feel the effects of all-nighters from my 20s with all the naps and long sleeps I've been needing in my 30s. Insomnia still kicks in. One night of being up all night, unable to sleep, and I'm call in sick. There's no way I'm lasting even into the morning.
Trust me, it gets worse in your 40s! Nowadays I weigh my options and in the end I still need to take the next day off 🙈😅
Load More Replies...I maintain that 70% of a hangover is sleep deprivation, if you get 8 hours after drinking you're generally fine.
It's just dehydration and the sleeping just makes you dehydrate even more, drink water and eat before you drink.
Load More Replies...Try some ashwaghanda, magnesium and melatonin, as well as stress relieving exercise, like walking and yoga. Worked for me.
Load More Replies...I worked a job that basically no one else could do unless they had extensive training. And basically no one else could or wanted to do it but me. My boss knew this. He also knew if for whatever reason I hadn't slept the night before I'd either not come in or I'd work a really short day. He'd pull people from other dept's to prep my work so all I'd have to do was my little part and go home. I also had him paying me for full days when I would work short ones. I'd still be there if the company wouldn't have been bought out. Only job I've ever had that I actually miss.
I'm 60 and have chronic pain so I have many sleepless nights. I can guarantee that if I had to drive into the office after one of those nights I would not be still working.
In my 20s, I'd go and see a band and be back at work next day no problem. Now I'm in my 50s, I have to take a day off to recover.
Lol! Y'all are funny-wait until you get 60. A night out starts a few hours earlier (like 6pm instead of 9pm but is even more fun but it takes all the next day to recover!
Video games are just video games. You're using them as an escape from reality, and that's not good or healthy. Get a real life. Maybe some new friends.
Broke down fishing way out in the sticks with my cousin. We were out of cell service. It was getting dark and we were walking back towards the main roads.
We spotted a black bear walking the trail behind us. It kept its distance but clearly smelled my backpack full of trout.
I dropped the bag of fish and we kept moving. Seen a cabin up ahead so we broke the door open and stayed there untill morning. While there i found some spark plugs in a drawer while searching for a piece paper and a pen to leave a note.
The plug wasn't the same my UTV called for. But it was a close match just a hotter plug #8 vs a #9. We left a note stating i took 2 spark plugs. Used the propane and stove to cook a can of soup we found aswell as some crackers.
Left $100 for the door knob/lock and the plugs aswell as my contact info.
3 weeks later the owner called said not to worry. He was glad his cabin helped us. And i asked if he wanted anymore compensation but he said no. Cabin was not vandalized and he had a spare doorknob in the shed.
So yeah i broke into a cabin for the night. Took some spark plugs to fix my side by side and ate some vegetable soup.
Left owner 5 $20 bills and fixed my machine and went home. Also the bear took our catch....
Edit: I would like to stress always being prepared when venturing out in the woods. As you know i was not. My side by side was only a year old with 1200 kms. So i didn't anticipate a issue which was dumb. I had spare gas, tire plugs, compressor and a drive belt. Failed to remember a spare spark plug.
We had with us about 3L of water left. Some MRE's with the flamless food warmers. A coil of 1/4 rope, knives and a med kit aswell as our catch of trout. We also had a survival .410 with a rifled barrel to accept Colt .45 pistol rounds.
I have never had to fire it while on fishing trips but i knew i had something incase of a emergency.
But yeah never get complacent with your vehicles and always be prepared. I should have reviewed my kit before leaving.
As for the cabin we were very respectful. We listed what we used/took and left contact info. With the door broken i slept with the couch pulled up to the door. Since it was a in-swing. When we left we used some of the 1/4 rope to tie the door shut to keep animals and the elements out.
Be safe out there!
That's really lucky. There've been 2 people killed by black bears last year in my parts. (People should explain their reasons for downvoting Oo.)
Some people just downvote to try and get you booted because they think it’s funny
Load More Replies...If your car breaks down I hope I'm behind you. I have (almost) everything you'll need to get you back on the road if your car breaks down. It gives me so much happiness to be able to help out people in a real time of need.
Thank you Maccabi!! You give me hope for humanity 😊. I once had to buy an extremely old and beat up $300 car because my previous one got totalled and whilst I was driving to meet up with my cousin and sister, the car over heated and I had to pull over in a shady street. An older gentleman that looked like he was in a gang saw me and walked up to check on me. He noticed that the radiator hose was broken so he went back home and brought tools and his brother. They worked on my car for maybe 20 minutes and I was good to go. I offered money and they wouldn't take it. I even offered them to join me to a bar down the street but they said I didn't owe them anything and sent me on my way with a bible. I'll never forget their kindness.
Load More Replies...How lucky for you, and what a nice guy whose cabin you borrowed. Gives me hope that there are still some good people out there!
Black Bears are No Joke! I live in West Virginia, and my mom lives in 38 acre's. I used to live in her property, and many a time they would come down our of the woods to terrorize. Trash the trash cans, try to eat my ducks, tear up the rose bushes on my front porch, to get to my dogs left over dog food. A few times, I caught them staring in my windows! I'm serious! So close, you can see the twinkle in their eyes close! I'm so glad you got away safely! If it was a younger bear, they usually are still close to their siblings. Where you see one, there's another!
That's the "code 9f the wilderness". Take shelter if it's needed, don't be a d**k about it. In remote areas it's expected that doors will be unlocked in case some is stuck without shelter in hazardous temps. It's also expected that you will be a respectful guest. Failing to abide by this brands you town asshat. Also, in certain parts of Alaska, at certain times of year, there are roads you can't drive in without a full tank of gas and no one is going to risk their life to rescue you.
A little curious to know how (or if) you locked the cabin after you left...? It was so broken that you had to prop the door during the night so it must have been difficult to leave it not unprotected while still making sure the owner could access it whenever he got to it after you left, and you wouldn't have know when he'd be making the trip back to the cabin... Not trying to be accusatory, genuinely curious.
They said in the post they tied the door shut with some rope when they left
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I was a teenager in a friend's car, we were smoking weed. Then he was getting pulled over. Driver said "throw it man!". I was like "he'll see that anyway, and this car smells a lot like weed anyway, also it's good, lemme just finish this real quick".
So the cop arrived at the car and I was this kid sitting there smoking weed. The look on his face was kind of hilarious.
I wasn't raised to be wasteful for goodness sake.
What happened after? LOL I know it's probably inevitably obvious, but I gotta know if the cop at least had a sense of humor about it. I wish this was a BP original post.
Good thing they link to the original content. "Just some probation and drug program. And my uncle looking at me like "...bruh...."." "I had to do a drug program. Which basically means teenagers who use all sorts of different drugs hang out and tell each other where they got all sorts of different drugs. It's very educational." "Not rehab. Just an educational drug program for teens where they ignore every single reason for anybody doing drugs and just tell you facts about them. And then they tick a box and send it back to a judge and then everybody goes back to doing drugs and if the adults have played it well then somebody makes a profit. *shrug*"
Load More Replies...Haha I was wondering that too! I guess cuz it's in a car...?
Load More Replies...Truth!!! Mom was born in 1930. Sis and I were raised to save stuff....
I would just LOVE to see the Cop's report, EXACTLY WHAT ALL HE WROTE & WHAT ALL HE INCLUDED IN IT!! I would've also Loved to have been able to SEE it- ya no, LIVE & IN COLOR!! & what did your parent'(s?) say? What eventually happened?? You can't just give us an excerpt of a story like that & leave us hanging!! Inquiring minds want/need to know, lol
For a serial procrastinator like me.....This is my whole life. Sometimes, I have to postpone those dealings with consequences too. It's an art as well as science.
Sorry I will need to reschedule with you. The 2nd tues on next week isn't good. How about Feb 30th?
Load More Replies...I've been saying I was going to start a procrastinator's club for years.... I'll do it later.
Yeah I tried the whole procrastination thing and ended up having to do a 40 page project in one week. Do not recommend.
I find people that are heavy procrastinators either are the people worst at time management or the best at it.
I often do procrastinate but sometimes I just force myself to do things I’m avoiding just to get it off my plate.
*Gestures vaguely to everything around me*
What you see here is both the consequences of my previous actions and the basis for my future consequences.
Travelling to meet the guy I met online. Consequences? Married now for 9 years.
The only people who gave me flack for travelling to see my overseas boyfriend were non-friended co-workers. I didn't need anybody's permission or validation. No regrets. All I say to others is proceed with caution. Make sure some trust-worthy people know where you're staying, who you're with, have your cellphone and register with your country's embassy, get traveller's insurance, and for the love of all that's Holy learn the laws and customs of the country.
"register with your country's embassy" is a fantastic tip!!! Not a very known one. My brother worked for the US embassy in Cabos, Mexico and he told me so many horror stories.
Load More Replies...Me too, met online, me California him Sweden...in September 16 years married!
I'm in the process of immigrating from the US to Canada to be with my Canadian husband who I met online 3 years ago on a hiking chat forum.
This is me, I've got a really good relationship just because of this. Already been with him for a whole year.
Same her, except married 14 years. ^_^ Happiest we've ever been in our lives. ^_^ (he tells me he is, i know I am!)
Definitely learn the customs and laws, it's amazing to me how many people are clueless about other countries and can't be bothered to learn, 1 it's a courtesy thing so you don't unintentionally offend anyone and 2 it'll keep you out of trouble by not accidentally breaking a law, plus come on let's not be your stereotypical clueless foreigner lol
Is your husband the guy from "Took a chance on an internet date"? He' #3 as I'm typing this, and he's been with his significant other for 9 years too.
F**k future me, he has literally never done anything for present me and present me does so much for future me
I'm still waiting for future me to come back and tell me the lottery numbers...
and that's why you string politics into literally anything
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Credit cards. Oh man I wanna fight 18 year old me.
I practically have a phobia about being overdrawn (we don't really use credit cards where I live - they exist, but aren't common) I think I'd steal before I'd get an overdraft. I don't know why, but just the thought of it gives me anxiety
When my country was introducing credit cards, which was years after they were a staple in the West, I was young but I still remember the dire warnings my dad gave us all. He was in a bank and the plans they had.... I still have a fear of them and have only just got one after 14 yrs of having a job...
Load More Replies...In my religion we are not allowed credit cards because originally we are not allowed loans and credit card is basically one
Now I'm curious :) wanna share more information about your religion? It's interesting
Load More Replies..."Eh, what's another $10, 420, $30 off the ol' credit" I say to myself every week.
Is 420 your credit score, or where all your $10s and $30s went? Haha, not judging because I'm definitely in the same boat
Load More Replies...I have a dozen credit cards. 3 of them are premium cards. I've only made money off them. I've made $20k in points in 4 years. If you play you cards right (pun intended) the credit card "game" could be helpful, if you are not good with money then stay far away.
Exactly. Just treat them the same as your debit card. No unnecessary expenditures. Know how much money is coming in and going out, and you can make a ridiculous amount of free money from them. I haven't paid for holiday or birthday gifts for people in years. They're all complements of the credit card companies.
Load More Replies...Took me over a decade to dig out of credit card debt. Lesson learned.
Problem is you have to have one .. can’t do curbside grocery shopping , can’t book a reservation , can’t rent a car , can’t book a hotel , can’t book a campsite , airline flights , anything needing a reservation , need a credit card to build credit … Credit cards when used responsibly are not the devil wr think they are … I got a credit card with a limit I KNEW no matter what I could pay every month ( basically I get baby bonus every month so it’s a limit below that and I was like even if I lose my job I can pay the card off with that and then not use it again until I have a job ) In the eight years I’ve had it I’ve never had to pay interest because the limit is low enough I can afford it every month .. I use it for eveyrhing for the cash back and then pay it off right away … I have impulse control issues ( adhd ) so setting a low limit was a necessity for me and I’ve never raised it even though I could afford it
Was teaching English in Myanmar on an expired visa. One month turned to six and when I finally left I realized the airport people were going to look at my expired visa and get mad at me. I remember being at my jungle school and informing the headmaster I was working with that my visa was expired and I’d need a few days to go into Rangoon to get it extended. He said he was going to pretend i didn’t say that and we were both going to forget this conversation because he didn’t want to risk the government denying my extension and kicking me out of the country (or arresting me) since I agreed to teach a whole year... No one at the airport noticed though.
You can't speak to Reddit posters from a different site.
Load More Replies...You were leaving so they didn't care. It's when you come in is when they care.
Full 🧢...... Myanmar visas are 28 or 70 days. If they accepted a job to teach for a yr the school would have sponsored a work visa for the duration. They would not have offered employment to someone on a tourist visa. And immigration wouldn't have just "not noticed". That's not how it works. Ppl make up the weirdest s**t for the internet.
And in Myanmar of all places. They will throw you in prison for even being at the scene of an accident.
Was about to hit a tree while snowboarding.
Either break my board on it to lessen the blow or break my body on it.
Chose to protect my board.
Regretted ever since.
A lot of people asking what the damage was:
My thigh slammed into the tree and took the full brunt of it. I didn’t break any bones but couldn’t walk for two weeks. However, that was the best part.
I went to the hospital for a check and they said it was all good but what they didn’t notice was that my right side of my back had shifted.
So when I tried to run or play sports, the ligaments and meniscus is both knees got destroyed and now I can’t run anymore
Internal tissue damage can be worse pain than an actual break. I hit my pinky toe on a doorframe. It just tingled at first then got more and more painful to the point it was excruciating and I couldn't walk on my foot. The nurse I saw said because it's not a break provincial health wouldn't cover the sturdy sandal but she knew nerve damage is more painful than a break, so she had some mercy and gave me the sandal on the house lol. It took weeks for it to get better.
This is such an important entry of this comedy article! If I'm ever asked 4 advice by someone from a more recent generation I ALWAYS say protect your body like you're a boring shut-in with no life or interests. I got a pretty severe injury that resulted in living with constant pain & had to give up so much. I miss working out & my resulting earned physique the most. Worst part of that was I didnt return to my scrawny, 98lb, almost no body fat pre-exercise physique... no, fate decreed that I now have to look like an American stereotype even though I don't have bad dietary habits, for the most part... Missed out on another American stereotype by not suing the a$$ off my employer (was stupid in thinking I didn't want to BE that stereotype & also my boss who hired me was "supposedly" an old friend whose treatment of me became f'd up when came to light that her commitment to middle management was more important than ANY of her employees... discovered 2 late that a lotta laws were broken...
Load More Replies...That's insane!! Sorry to hear about your injury. The closest I got to something similar was once when I was riding my beach cruiser to work down a very steep road. I was about to reach the main street cross road and my chain jumped off so I couldn't break. I was going very fast and had to decide between taking my chances that no car would cross or take a dive on the sidewalk. I jumped of my bike and almost crashed at a concrete light post. The hit must've been pretty bad because 3 cars pulled a side to ask if I was ok and in need of medical assistance. I ended with really bad scrapped knees and hands. I had to call my job to called off and my c*** of a manager had me ride to work to show her the damage. This happened about 8 years ago and my skin is still discolored lol.
Did this on a brand new dirt bike. If I only knew then what I know now.
When it comes to running into a tree, I have two words for you. Sonny Bono. Never opt for the tree over a replaceable object. I'm not saying Sonny had a choice. But if you do......
I tore up my knee while snow skiing, I got stem cell therapy and I am so much better!
Pretty much all of adolescence.
Currently dealing with it. High cholesterol, constant tenitis, bad joints, nutritional deficiencies...
It wasn't until November that I finally accepted that "Just because you technically can doesn't mean you should." 37 years old and finally an adult.
It's boring.
sorry the downvoting devil is at it again. (that's what I call the person who downvotes everyone with 0 votes for no reason)
Load More Replies...I did so many stupid things as a kid... Like body wrecking type of stupid things
"Stay gold, stray old, Maturin means that your life sucks..." Tyler the creator
I have joint issues too and I'm 28...turns out, I have hypermobility syndrome.
The thing he says he has "tenitis" is most likely a misspelling. Could be either tinnitus or more likely tendinitis (which is an inflammation of the ligaments connecting the joints and hurts like heck). Could be tetanus as well, but that is a truly dangerous infection leading to death untreated and in a lot of countries it needs to be reported. So hopefully he didn't mean that 😅 and of course tetanus has nothing what so ever to do with getting old 🤣
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Any time I drink. But fortunately I have anxiety and it just ends up with me doing seemingly normal things like saying hi to strangers.
I used to do that. Worked fine for years until it didn't and became a bad habit. Learned the hard way that anxiety + alcohol have a love/hate relationship. So, just be a little careful.
I learned this too. I have to be careful with how much alcohol I drink or else it gives me a panic attack. :/
Load More Replies...Self-medication ok in small amounts, not good if it's a habit. Becareful and maybe talk to a professional. Hope only good things for you.
Quit a new job that had me an anxious wreck every morning, to the point I couldn't even have breakfast. So glad I did it, but I'm never that impulsive. (I'm ok now, happily employed in a position somewhere else)
So glad to hear you're happy in your new job. I know what it's like to be sweating and panicking on a Sunday night cause you've got work Monday morning
You're speaking to no-one. This was posted on Reddit 2 months ago. They won't see this reply on a completely different website.
Load More Replies...So happy for you!I did the same. Giving up can be the best thing for one's health, and we've learnt it the hard way. I'm so glad you have a new, healthy job. I don't exactly, but I'm in university again to learn a new profession and hope that in a couple years I'll be in a good, healthy job too. Also, studying does wonders for my mental health, so I'm good.
You're speaking to no-one. This was posted on Reddit 2 months ago. They won't see this reply on a completely different website.
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Quitting any job whenever I want regardless of having money or not I’ll figure it out, because you won’t have me feeling trapped and like you have control over my life been there done that
Ya' know... that is motivating. No matter what there will be other jobs.
I went through tons of jobs before I finally wised up and started my own business at the age of 40 , Im 42 now and love every minute of what I do, I mine and sell rocks and minerals and Youtube my mining expeditions ( HuntingRocks )
This is how to live. I will never be threatened by a boss. Ohhhh ok buh bye... Done it three times now felt great each time.
When I was 18 I worked at a 7/11. The owner and I would bump heads so much that I quit twice and got fired 3 times LMAO. After I would run out of money I would ask for my job back and after he lost an employee or to go to India, he would ask me to come back lol. Everyone thought we were a married couple.
Had this it's funny only didn't ask to come back they just kept begging and I did like them as a person. Just not a boss
Load More Replies...When a boss says "I don't care what plans you've made." It's time to go.
Yup. Had a boss playing mind games for 4 years and almost went insane...almost gave myself the forever nap. Three years later, boss started playing mind games...I walked out and never looked back. No regrets, and now I'm a trucker. If I get mad at the boss, I tell myself that I need to chill out.
If I'm going to spend the majority of my waking hours someplace.....I refuse to be miserable. I've left numerous jobs on my lunch break. Just never came back. Most these b.s. jobs don't even pay enough to meet your basic needs. So if I can't pay rent, why am I here???
I knew my marriage wouldn’t last while I was walking down the aisle… but f**k it! I’ll deal with that s**t later!!!
Four years divorced. 0 out of 10. Was not worth it.
Honestly, I think people just want the wedding, not the marriage
Load More Replies...every experience is a learning experience and is therefore worth it. Me, divorced, after 16 years. I don't regret, would do again, even though it hurt.
I will never understand this. People can be in love and marry and it falls apart later, I get that. But to get married while thinking you will break up is so weird to me.
Divorce was the best thing I ever did. I also don't regret getting married, I just regret who the marriage was with.
And sometimes you get stuck in a loveless marriage because you are trapped financially and emotionally, and can’t afford to get out. A bad marriage can suck the life right out of you.
My husband knew this same thing as he was driving to his first wedding (to his ex), and even with his doubts, he went through with it. 20 yrs together, now 10 yrs divorced (and my two beautiful stepsons). Truly, you've gotta listen to your gut!
The Divorce or the marriage?? I didn't realize my first husband was going to be a prick until 5 minutes after we left the courthouse and like a switch turned on all the sudden I was expected to be responsible, prim and proper wifey instead of the party girl, singer for the band he married. What a f*****g nightmare.
My hubs says this about his first wife. I'm glad I didn't get married to my kids father.
I hiked through 6 miles of public land early one morning doing some pre-season deer scouting for the upcoming deer season. Took several hours to complete and i was exhausted when i got to my truck. Only to see my best friend had texted me at some point asking if I want to join him on an over night camping trip. Said f**k it. Got home. Grabbed my camp pack. Met him at another spot on public land and we hiked another 4 miles in before setting up camp. That night and the next week, my legs felt as if they were ready to rip themselves off. Might not sound like a lot of miles but when 90% of it is off trail bush wacking. Climbing over logs and through thick brush. Its a good bit of work.
10 miles through uncleared land is like running a slow marathon. Pretty sure I couldn't do it. I know for sure I wouldn't want to have to do it.
Can't upvote this enough! Have another 100 ⬆️ from me! 😇
Load More Replies...So. Much. This. Never knew how important it was to listen to your body! I did a 10 mile (5 miles to & 5 miles from) hike alone in the woods one day and at about half the way back (7 ½ miles) my legs also felt like they wanted to break off. Before I knew it, somehow destroyed my Achilles tendon. No cell reception, no one around, and nowhere close to anything. I was in so much pain! I had to drag myself the last 2 ½ miles to the park entrance before another hiker saw me and was able to help me to my car to drive to the ER. Lesson # 1. Listen to your body and take a break when it tells you it needs one. Lesson # 2 NEVER hike alone.
I took a friend hiking last year to find a heart shaped rock by a waterfall. First time I ever hiked with her but she swore she goes hiking all the time. We got there late afternoon and we made it to the rock. She was disappointed that the waterfall was small and wanted to find a bigger one. It was about 4 at this time and I told her that we should call it a day and try again next week at an earlier time. She said that we were already there and that we should press on, so I said f*** it, let's go. We kept at it and the road turned into a real obstacle course. We were climbing down rocks and logs for an hour and I had to tell her we were done. She asked why if there's still daylight. I had to explain to her how our hike back was going to be pitch black for her to realize that me f***ed up. The way back was horrible! This women DID NOT know climb. I had to push her up every rock. The last 2 miles were so dark but we made it to my car... She's no longer welcome to hikes with me LMAO.
There is an 8 mile hike on Kauai that is rough terrain, and it kicks your butt. Easy walking is very different than always having to step over things, pick every place to put your feet, and going up and down hills.
Used to go hiking with some crazy boyfriend and after climbing trails for 8 hours to get to the campsite with a heavy backpack in one particularly beautiful provincial park, I woke up feeling like my knees were never going to work again. But had to hike out of there and the stupid ex took us the wrong way on the trail adding 2 more hours to the trek, even though I told him. I know my landmarks.
Found a new coffee shop in town which was so good I immediately went back for a second and a third large (so 6 shots in like 10 minutes). Regretted it both throughout the day and during the multiple toilet visits!
Edit: the cafe was called Gumption by Coffee Alchemy. So good!
I used to unload freight from delivery trucks for a living. Most the s**t was half haphazardly thrown in without regard to anything. It gets a bit frustrating. One time I had got to the back of the truck and there was one pallet left. The pallet itself was crushed with these concrete barriers that were stacked on it. They never should have loaded it that way and they knew it. It would be impossible to unload by hand, but I couldn't get the fork lift all the way under the crushed pallet.
I decided ultimately to just say f**k it. I leveled the forks at pallet level, backed up about 30 feet, and then rammed it full speed. The forks went clean through the pallet..... and the back of the truck. I got those concrete barriers off though.
I blew past a state trooper doin about 140 mph (225kmph) on an empty highway just because I was testing how fast the car could go.
I don't know about everywhere, but I know our local speedway has times for people to go and play with their cars and speed along the track. Probably need to sign a waiver. But you can do that there.
Also race circuits usually have track days when you can take your own car round the track at speed. Not free, but cheaper than losing your car and your licence.
Load More Replies...People using the highway as a racetrack are idiots. Buy a computer game if you want to play racing cars.
That's some consequences to deal with! What is the limit in the US? 70/ 80 something, right? So what is the fine for 140mph? In Switzerland you do not only walk for a long time. With this speeding they take your car and wreck it. And they fine you six ways from Sunday. So not only are you no longer allowed to drive, you have no car (but you still pay for the car you don't have) and you pay something between 5k to 50k depending on your yearly income. So real speeding? Big NONO! Them consequences will fůck you 🙈
Don't worry north america will copy the Swiss (and your erstwhile frenemies the Swedes and those filthy Dutch(I love Holland). But it always takes twenty years. We can't admit you've always been two decades ahead of us socially for the last half a century so we gotta trick our populace. They still cry socialism for taxes. Gods forbid though they whine about road conditions more .. but less taxes now! Fix everything with less!. Us NA ppl are a bit stupid and proud.
Load More Replies...Wish I could upvote this more than once. You even got the right Busch brother!
Load More Replies...I have also done this! First day with a new car and I was in my early 20s. The cop was like, "usually people at least brake once they see me, but you just kept speeding up!" Clearly I did not see them.. But I just said honestly, "I was testing out my new ride." They let me off with a ticket for speeding way below what I was actually doing so I wouldn't have worse legal consequences.
Wow. Not smart. In Ontario you can have your car towed and lose your licence for a month. Sometimes cars are destroyed.
They aren't destroyed anymore sadly. The PC party our right wing got that canceled after some rich kids sued after almost killing ppl and getting their car cubed. Daddy is a friend of the CPC and threw a fit. Much like the Repubs down south our conservatives are anything but conservative. Just power hungry amoral criminals.
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I changed my secondary school choice last minute from a school 15 miles away to the one a 2 minute walk from my parents house.
I figured I would deal with the consequences.
Time came around to see if I was accepted into the school... I was accepted into the original one, 15 miles away.. Confused AF.
My mother grins and says she changed it back to the original one before sending it off.
I wasn't even mad, I regretted my decision about a week after I changed it. The original school was a much better school and I'm now still the only person in my family to do all of the education stuff.
In 4th grade, my mom made me go to a private school that I absolutely hated. I begged her to go back to public school. I sat at school and did no work for the entire year. I failed to graduate to the 5th grade. She told me that she would make me work twice as hard next year. I told her I would deliberately fail every year. When I am 18, as an adult I would go to public school and pass the 4th grade... Went to public school the rest of my life. No regrets!
I actually understand. Every kid I have ever met that spent their entire school life in a private school are a bubble off level.
Load More Replies...Yeah, but sometimes mom does see the big picture. Glad it worked out well.
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I had a whole ordeal with my wife developing a neurological disorder and my chain of command allowed me to come off the ship a couple days to get her help at the hospital. There was a miscommunication where they made me come back on the ship sitting off the coast and left her behind. I got brought into a room with maybe 5 chiefs and my division officer to get absolutely railed. I went fully numb and responded to everything in the most nonchalant way and when they threatened to bring me all the way up the discipline pole, I asked them to “please do. I’d love the face time with the captain, maybe I could actually help my wife.” It went nowhere after that but after I went straight to my rack and setup my uniforms just in case. Later in that same ordeal my wife and I were involved in an email chain where my XO and chiefs basically lied about the situation and we sent a novel correcting every piece with a “just so we’re all on the same page.”
From nimues child below: I think the OP is in the navy and his wife had a medical emergency. He got permission from his chain of command to leave the ship before his stated leave time to take care of her. Someone thought he had just gone AWOL (absent without leave) instead and he had to leave her to hustle back to his ship to avoid serious charges. He was brought before a council of officers who ripped him five ways from Sunday for leaving the ship without permission. This went on and culminated in an email chain where those officers lied about what happened. The OP and wife replied to that email with great details on what *actually* happened
Load More Replies...I think the OP is in the navy and his wife had a medical emergency. He got permission from his chain of command to leave the ship before his stated leave time to take care of her. Someone thought he had just gone AWOL (absent without leave) instead and he had to leave her to hustle back to his ship to avoid serious charges. He was brought before a council of officers who ripped him five ways from Sunday for leaving the ship without permission. This went on and culminated in an email chain where those officers lied about what happened. The OP and wife replied to that email with great details on what *actually* happened. I sure hope they got to live happily ever after, they really deserve to.
Had "issues" when I went home for my daughter's First Communion, was threatened up one side/down the other by my DivO (0-3) - senior enlisted (E-9) liked me & basically told O-3 to cool down 😉
Sorry they had to deal with more nonsense during a difficult time.
It's hilarious when civilians can't speak military. Like it's not that hard people just literally speak at the lowest level of intelligence.
I had developed feelings for a coworker (small company, about 20 people), we kinda flirted at work and some people were starting to suspect something but we managed to keep it professional. One night we had a few drinks, could not decide to part ways, one thing led to another... the morning after when we woke up together, neither of us could muster the strength to go to work : she called in sick, and a few minutes later I sent an email to use a day off, as things were quite slow at work anyway. But we knew all too well that the both of us not showing up, with coworkers aware of our plans to get drinks together the night before, well, we weren't going to fool anyone. And the following weeks/months were pretty awkward indeed (we never made it official, for the time it lasted).
There are so many people who have met their spouses at my company it's almost sickening. But nearly all of the new couples end up having to work in separate departments or one has to quit. I don't know how it happens, really. Some spouses were working below and above each other.
"Some spouses were working below and above each other." you mean literally?? :-p
Load More Replies...who cares? it's fine. Really if you are two consenting adults, good for you. The reason company relationships are "stigmatised" are in scenarios where (a) one or both partner/s is/are already married or (b) one partner outranks the other and the other reports to the higher-ranking partner, wherein it looks like an abuse of power. If that is not the scenario (a or b), then it's fine.
I dont get why other people think hey get to have opinions about or stick their nose into other peoples relations, no matter where they found each other...
Why is this? Aren't you allowed to have a relationship with a colleague? Is that legal in the US??
Eh, depends on the state, depends on the company, depends on your roles. It's only an issue when the situation is power, not attraction. It needs to not be a case of sexual harassment of a subordinate.
Load More Replies...Had my co worker turn up at the department meeting in my very distinct cartoon T-shirt. Some giggles no problems.
A friend ordered 2 pitchers of beer at a bar at like 11am (one for each of us).
Nothing wrong with day drinking, as long as it's not a common occurrence, I suppose
Load More Replies...You guys waited until 11am. those are rookie numbers gotta bump them up.
hmm but beer, particularly in the States, is not very strong. If a pitcher is say 1L, it means you had about 30mL of alcohol, or roughly two whiskey shots. That wouldn't do anything to me. I'd be far more worried about the calories and my beer gut growth. 1L = about 1kg extra weight.
Right now actually
I've been working on an assignment for school and my computer is not up to the task. So now that I've spent 5 entire days crying and trying to get as much as I can done, imma take tonight off and get really high and cry some more!
I'll deal with it tomorrow.
So stupid we're at the mercy of the cooperation of our electronics and the ones that need us to rely on them and us for work/schoolwork gives us grief when the electronics no longer want to cooperate.
Yeah, man, the real sad thing is, All the entertainment electronics are humming along perfectly!
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I used to work at an animation studio until a few months ago.
It was an 8-5 with unpaid OT, far from home and s****y pay. It was a terrible experience, only reason I stuck around so long is because I was in a tricky situation and wanted my credits on their project.
In January this year I got f*****g tired of working long hours in an office job because I'd been employed since October and I hadn't been paid since then because "the salaries had been delayed due to budgeting issues".
Ahhh this was a really bad time for me. Family was over, and for once I had no money to treat them to something nice, all because I chose to work at that filthy studio. I said f**k it, took a week long vacation without informing anyone and after coming back handed in my resignation in the form of a middle finger for all the miserable past experiences.
I'm sorry but "budgeting issues"?? Why TF would you work one hour extra after not getting your first check? If there's a budget, the first thing that gets covered is payroll, you better believe somebody in there is getting paid.
even big AAA studios are guilty of it. i can't remember which company t was but after a big game release all of the staff were told they had to take a pay but because the project lead had bought an expensive car and it cut into the budget.
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Getting divorced when I knew my wife was moving the kids across the country. That kept me married 6 more years then it should have but finally the decision had to be made. Boo for divorce
In the US, you can keep your ex from moving out of the state if you have minor children together. I was going to move from PA to IA and my ex husband legally prevented me from leaving the state with his kids. He was cool with me moving because he was a trucker and went through IA on a regular basis and then he started taking different runs and was no longer going that direction so then he wasn’t cool with me wanting to move anymore.
... and it's a really feckiiin shiitty law because it does not take into consideration that one of the parties might be abusive. The law always seems to fall in favor of the persona with more money, or the person with more power, but rarely on the side of the person who needs the law to protect them and their children.
Load More Replies...Yep I told my wife if she wants to move the kids out of our province, even, she can expect a hostile divorce and custody demand so that SHE has to come visit the kids on an airplane. Not going to tolerate it.
Pretty much every left turn i make
This is a dumb post but there is a good point in it -- "20 percent of all car accidents occur during left turns – making them 55 times more dangerous compared to the average right-hand turn"...So it's a good idea to plan your travel to minimize left turns. People who drive high profile people such as politicians around are trained to only use right turns even if it adds a lot to the trip time.
This makes sense for countries who drive on the right. For countries that drive on the left, are the accident stats for right turns?
Load More Replies...need more explanation here. Do you mean literal left turns, and in which country? Because a left turn here is legal through a yield sign... Or do you mean a metaphorical left turn, in other words a life change?
Context: I'm a race car driver.
Went to England to test a car, and immediately lost my wallet and Green Card (my only way back into the US...) Went through the process of having a temporary one issued at the London embassy, but had to wait for it to be delivered by courier back to me. Absolutely on pins and needles because I *needed* to be back in the US for a race, and I'd been stuck in the UK for 3 weeks by this point.
Got the text that the ID was delivered, met my teammate's mom on the side of the highway to grab it, and drove straight to Heathrow, racking up enough automated speeding fines to drain the bank. Booked the flight on the way, and it was starting to board when we arrived.
We left the rental car in an airport parking structure with the keys in it and RAN. Later emailed Sixt with a pic of the car and the name of the garage...
Made the flight, made the race, but we're no longer allowed to rent from Sixt. We'd also stuffed the rental in a ditch in Scotland a few days before, and left the ripped-off body panels stuffed in the trunk. So maybe that didn't help? Still worth it. Won the race!
This AH is the reason rental security/insurance/costs are so high. The level of entitlement is high with this one..
No that's not why, he paid it off, the reason you pay such high prices is because people comment on internet tales of which they know nothing, but feel entitled enough to call people as&$oles. Rental car companies read ALL comments!!
Load More Replies...So I such a good race car driver how did you stuff the rental in a ditch? hmmmmmm?
Because rental cars ARE NOT race cars, that's why he stuffed it in a ditch
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