Beggars can’t be choosers or at least they shouldn’t be. But we keep seeing that this isn’t the case—there are plenty of people out there who keep putting their needs ahead of everyone else’s and get featured in the incredibly popular Choosing Beggars subreddit.

This Reddit community has a whopping 1.9 million members and is dedicated to stories about people who are way too picky. Be sure to check out Bored Panda's previous posts about the Choosing Beggars community right here and here, and give their subreddit a visit for some more awesome content.

Meanwhile, scroll down and upvote your fave pics of people who really need to get a grip and let us know in the comments if you’ve ever had the “pleasure” of meeting folks like this in real life. Some people feel like they’re entitled to special treatment and they don’t even realize that they might be hurting someone else. There are psychological reasons for this, so let’s get into them.

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I Finally Caught One In The Wild

I Finally Caught One In The Wild

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Hans
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4 months ago

Har har well played!

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#2

Its Exactly The Same Brian, Exactly The Same...

Its Exactly The Same Brian, Exactly The Same...

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Emowan
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4 months ago

Ooh this one is my favourite

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Cb At Walmart Wants To Add Groceries.

Cb At Walmart Wants To Add Groceries.

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Foxxy (The Original)
Community Member
4 months ago

Wow, how ungrateful. If someone offered to pay for my groceries I would put the non essentials back (if I had any).

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Feeling special and entitled is entirely natural when you’re a child: kids think that they’re the center of the world and it’s what psychologists refer to as healthy narcissism. However, it’s only one stage of a person’s psychological and emotional development—they eventually need to grow out of it and learn to respect others and what they want, too.

According to psychotherapist and psychoanalyst F. Diane Barth, L.C.S.W, who has a private practice in New York City, sometimes a sense of entitlement can even emerge when people feel mistreated or they don’t think that they’re getting what they need.

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Kaisu
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4 months ago

Also if you're poor, why on earth would you pay 800 dollars for your kids' Christmas present??

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#5

I Was Giving Away A Free Dishwasher On Craigslist And Caught One In The Wild!

I Was Giving Away A Free Dishwasher On Craigslist And Caught One In The Wild!

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Pamela24
Community Member
4 months ago

What a deal! I'd take it.

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#6

My Friend Got Shorted By A Pretty Major Influencer

My Friend Got Shorted By A Pretty Major Influencer

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Lotte
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4 months ago

Respect to the artist for sticking to his/her principles!

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“Often individuals who have been mistreated or disrespected exhibit a sense of entitlement when they start to feel that they deserve better than they have been getting. This is part of a healthy shift towards self-respect. Yet they, too, eventually need to find a way to balance self-respect with respect for others,” Barth writes on Psychology Today.

She points out that a small amount of entitlement is good for adults. Things like believing that we have the right to be respected by others and that we have the right to take care of ourselves and our loved-ones are positive things. But this doesn’t extend to situations where our actions or sense of entitlement benefit us at the cost of hurting those around us. Like cutting in line. Don’t cut in line. It’s a jerk move.

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Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place.

Local BBQ Place With Free Beer Calls Out Specific Yelper For Being A Cb. Love The Food And The Attitude At This Place.

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Pamela24
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4 months ago

I'll make an educated guess that the name Leigha wasn't chosen randomly...

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#8

Zero Karen Tolerance Policy In This Store

Zero Karen Tolerance Policy In This Store

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K. aka letmeplaywithkittens
Community Member
4 months ago

I feel bad for people who are named Karen. Remember it’s a meme, but for a very realistic depiction of behaviors in the Wild.

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#9

Red, Black, And Gold Only. Please And Thank You.

Red, Black, And Gold Only. Please And Thank You.

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Anna McHugh
Community Member
4 months ago

Judging by their taste in interior decor, they're stuck in the 80s as well as being an arsehole

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Barth’s colleague Steven Stosny claims that we’re currently living in the Age of Entitlement because our culture doesn’t support the development process that teaches us to balance our needs with the needs of others. And that’s one of the reasons that we have so many choosing beggars out there!

#10

Choosing Beggars Are Expecting More From Free Movie Showings

Choosing Beggars Are Expecting More From Free Movie Showings

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Yamini Mahendran
Community Member
4 months ago

Its not expectations, its entitlement!

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#11

Classmate Slept Over And Borrowed My Powerbeats Pro...

Classmate Slept Over And Borrowed My Powerbeats Pro...

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Doctor who?!
Community Member
4 months ago

I scence a de-friending coming allong

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#12

Local Independent Movie Theater.

Local Independent Movie Theater.

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Kaisu
Community Member
4 months ago

Every cinema should have pricing like this

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#13

How Dare You Spend All Your Hard Earned Money On Yourself

How Dare You Spend All Your Hard Earned Money On Yourself

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Pamela24
Community Member
4 months ago

No. Your friend is the asshole.

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Doctor who?!
Community Member
4 months ago

He should be greatfull that sommeone has a kind enough heart to give them some of his hard erned money.

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#15

International Flights Are Cheap, Right?

International Flights Are Cheap, Right?

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Captain Awesome
Community Member
4 months ago

Also, don't be a cunt

OhForSmegSake
Community Member
4 months ago

Cunts have depth and warmth, dicks are just stuck up 😄

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Porto DaMartinica
Community Member
4 months ago

Come on Bro, Your the best Bro why don't you let Me exploit You Bro

LittleMissLotus
Community Member
4 months ago

Say bro one more time bro

mummy pig
Community Member
4 months ago

That part about "unprofessionalism" cracked me up:D

Mark Kelly
Community Member
4 months ago

Using the word bro in a professional conversation is unprofessional

GARRETT O'BANION
Community Member
4 months ago

that divorce sounded like he made it up on the spot

RJ
Community Member
4 months ago

Hey bro I'm not your bro.

V
Community Member
4 months ago

It makes sense why he's going through a divorce

Tanya Kysel'ova
Community Member
4 months ago

but it is strange that he married

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SweetCee
Community Member
4 months ago

If you say "bro" ONE more time...

Troux
Community Member
4 months ago

Multiple red flags here. -Abusive use of "bro" -Taking a pause to say "Listen" -Gobs and gobs of praise scattered around request. -Throwing in the Jesus/prayer trump card - Throwing in the illness trump card when the last one failed.

Tanya Kysel'ova
Community Member
4 months ago

pure manipulation!

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Iwasaki_killer
Community Member
4 months ago

shut the heck up you entitled spoiled brat

Freya the Wanderer
Community Member
4 months ago

Who's the heartless one? Artists need to eat, too!

Chris DiFonso
Community Member
4 months ago

"I was praying to Jesus that you will say yes." OK, "bro," you should pray to Jesus that you stop being a prat. "Are you heartless?" No, "bro," you are inconsiderate and a smear.

Pamela24
Community Member
4 months ago

I'd like to get a cookbook of all the recipes you can make with the love of music. Sounds like a major hit.

SanchaTheSeeker
Community Member
4 months ago

More like the one asking is heartless

Khadija Hammond
Community Member
4 months ago

The nerve of some people never ceases to amaze me!

Steve Barker
Community Member
4 months ago

A Bernie Bro.

Coffee
Community Member
3 months ago

That's entitled, bro.

Joanne Hudson
Community Member
4 months ago

Yeah, I'm heartless but I'd rather be heartless than a complete asshole.

JJM
Community Member
4 months ago

Okay Bro, just so you kinda like know your spelling and grammar are atrocious Bro! Just sayin'.

Cori
Community Member
4 months ago

Any grown person who calls another grown preson 'bro' is already questionable in my opinion.

Joe Yrisarri
Community Member
4 months ago

I wonder if they' could use me and my 3-string ukelele. If so, I'll go check the fuel gauge on my private jet, and I'm on my way.......

Steve Cruz
Community Member
4 months ago

Why would anyone divorce such a sensible guy?

Elaine Mattingly
Community Member
4 months ago

No. , I'm not heartless butt I'm a real good drummer. By

Rã. R. Field
Community Member
4 months ago

Again, there are to many people who actually believe it’s ok to behave this way... there is a lot that could be said here.....

Ninja Nonna
Community Member
4 months ago

Mind numbing!

Tanya Kysel'ova
Community Member
4 months ago

commercial gig is the best part. Also I love the "you said yes" part. Even more I love it when recall how I was on a probation for job for 1 month, they did not pay all they promised, messed with deadlines and gave me duties of three employees instead of just mine. When I refused to stay permamently the manager said "Why, WE HAVE hired you already!"

George Hudacko
Community Member
4 months ago

Guess you heard you wife this well too!

Katherine Gilleland
Community Member
4 months ago

Bro, get the fucking hint, bro. He’s not gonna do it, bro. Calm down, bro

Peachikeen
Community Member
4 months ago

Wow.

CR Harvey
Community Member
4 months ago

Naw, I think he wants to be akble to eat.

Id row
Community Member
4 months ago

Say 'bro' one more f*cking time. Unreal.

Anouk
Community Member
4 months ago

what is wrong with people??

Sasha Kuleshov
Community Member
4 months ago

I am quite heartless.

Vanta Black
Community Member
4 months ago

Imagine if Mark and Tom acted like this when they asked Travis to cover.

CatScratchFever
Community Member
4 months ago

yes be a cunt, fussy and hard to please!

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Porto DaMartinica
Community Member
4 months ago

a whole new level of mindf**k

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#17

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Doctor who?!
Community Member
4 months ago

Now THAT is ungrateful

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#18

If You Want A Discount, All You Have To Do Is Leave A Bad Review

If You Want A Discount, All You Have To Do Is Leave A Bad Review

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K. aka letmeplaywithkittens
Community Member
4 months ago

What are those people who leave emojis and “kind” trivialities after a passive aggressive message called?

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Captain Awesome
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4 months ago

Meatzilla sounds like a great place!

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#20

A Brief But Insightful 4 Minute Conversation.

A Brief But Insightful 4 Minute Conversation.

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Pamela24
Community Member
4 months ago

The conversation makes me think that other people have accepted this form of payment before. Which makes me sad.

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#21

One Would Think That If You Lost Your Job, Buying A Motorcycle Wouldn’t Be A Priority.

One Would Think That If You Lost Your Job, Buying A Motorcycle Wouldn’t Be A Priority.

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Vanta Black
Community Member
4 months ago

So basically, homie wanted to trade an over-sized paperweight for a motorcycle. $1800 is too generous for a prick like that.

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#22

Look At This

Look At This

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MagicalUnicorn
Community Member
4 months ago

if such job actually exists, i'm movie there :D

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#23

But Expausure!

But Expausure!

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Kaisu
Community Member
4 months ago

When will people understand that exposure won't pay rent and bills and food

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#24

Awesome Friend Is Awesome

Awesome Friend Is Awesome

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Pamela24
Community Member
4 months ago

I mean...if that person encouraged them to do it, maybe. But still - you're behind the wheel, you make the decisions, own up to them.

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Kaisu
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4 months ago

When can we get rid of influencers? I'm so tired of them

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#26

Selling A Camera For $600. The Guy Says He Can Only Pay In Cash And Turns Up With $370 And Expects It’ll Be Fine. I Didn’t Even Get Out Of My Car. Just Drove Away.

Selling A Camera For $600. The Guy Says He Can Only Pay In Cash And Turns Up With $370 And Expects It’ll Be Fine. I Didn’t Even Get Out Of My Car. Just Drove Away.

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Doctor who?!
Community Member
4 months ago

WOAH THERE BUDDY

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#27

My Friend Selling A Vivarium

My Friend Selling A Vivarium

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Doctor who?!
Community Member
4 months ago

Wait how can YOUR tortoise have no homee when it is yours??

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#28

Facebook Friend On What/What Not To Buy Her For Birthday

Facebook Friend On What/What Not To Buy Her For Birthday

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SanchaTheSeeker
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4 months ago

Bruh just be grateful your mates even get you stuff

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K. aka letmeplaywithkittens
Community Member
4 months ago (edited)

You probably got a special because your first books are new. I’m hoping that I’m understanding it correctly, that you’re publishing more because you’re more successful now. Guess what? I would choose a beautiful book cover over a bland one for the same story. How much of your success do you think is dependent on people who edit your work and help you with the artwork.

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