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Infidelity strikes a relationship to the very core, and can damage it beyond repair. In fact, 60% of divorced couples cite a partner's unfaithfulness as the reason why their marriage ended.

But there's also one study that looked at unmarried adults after being betrayed by their partner, and about 45% of participants showed signs of infidelity-related PTSD. They exhibited higher levels of depressive symptoms, partially linked to negative post-traumatic thoughts.

So when Reddit user TheBaronofIbilin asked people who have caught their significant other cheating to describe how it unfolded, they received a number of heartbreaking and infuriating stories.

#1

“I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Caught her several times. The last time I decided to get it on tape. So I set up a camera. I didn't catch her cheating with it, but I did catch her abusing the kids in our daycare. And that, friends, is how you win a house in a divorce.

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Alexandra
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well done! Someone who abuses children deserves no mercy.

Bill Allen
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hope she spent time in prison and never gets to be around kids again.

Amused panda
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For anyone wondering, apparently OP closed the daycare the same day and inform the lawyer, but withheld the tape on advice of the lawyer.

Brian Droste
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You preventing the kids from a childhood of abuse and being traumatized.

Angela C
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's like losing a dollar and finding a 20

James Wamimbi
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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James Wamimbi
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes last month my Wife started misbehaving and acting weird she's clingy with her mobile devices which made me develop a suspicious mindset towards her phone activities so I became curious to know what she's been doing on her phone lately I searched the internet for the best and most efficient phone spying expert I found 5ISPYHAK, through twitter reviews from a trusted and verified user so I decided to give this tech genius a try to know if she can truly help me in my case. Fortunately for me, it was the right step and the best decision. I reached out to her via her contact address at Email 5ISPYHAK437@GMAIL.COM and told her about my situation and she promised to deliver a satisfactory service in the shortest time possible which she did. I hired her and within a few minutes all information from her phone and internet activities popped in and it was as if I got her phone in my palm. EMAIL 5ISPYHAK437@GMAIL.COM

Tom De Paul
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10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well it depends: did you blackmail her for the house and kept the abuse a secret or did you out the abuse and get awarded the house that way?

Missanna Facwfuck
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    #2

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Told me that he was at his parents' and would probably be spending the night... I was over at his parents' for dinner. They had seen me on my way home from work and invited me over. I was about to ask him when he would be finished work, so that he could meet me there, then I saw the message.

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    My O My
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Great, I'm at your parents place too! In which room can I find you?"

    Pittsburgh rare
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Next step: show the message to the parents.

    Farah Kamal
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Step 2: Parents remove him from the will and put his partner in there instead like that amazing MIL post

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    Libstak
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh, love it when the trash takes itself out like that

    Brian Droste
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh really, because I don't see you here. I am over at your parents house having dinner.

    Beachbum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would love to know the rest of the story played out....

    HangryHangryHippo
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Send him a selfie with the future-former inlaws

    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Broke up with a boyfriend in a similar way. I was at his brother's house dropping off some curtains he said he wanted when I redecorated. Stayed and talked a while. Brother got a text, gave me a weird look, and said, "Ummm, this is awkward". A few seconds later, I got a text from BF saying he wouldnt be home because he was at his brother's house, consolling him because of a bad breakup. He had texted his brother first to tell him to lie to me if I asked where he was, but he didnt know I was at the brother's house. Lol.

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    #3

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Not me but a coworker. Went on a Contiki tour with his missus for his 21st birthday. Booked a 45 day tour, seeing like 15 different countries. A week or two into the trip she gets caught getting finger blasted by some random Spanish dude in a club in Barcelona. He is obviously devastated, and now he has to face the prospects of potentially travelling for another month with the girl who just stomped on his heart. He contemplated just calling it and flying home, but other members of the tour convinced him to stay, have a good time and to get on with his life and enjoy the holiday he paid for. He organized with Contiki and the tour guides to re work the accommodation so he was no longer in a room with her. He told me he had a marvelous time, made some great new friends and got to experience new things. She was miserable the whole time as basically the entire group shunned her for being a massive PoS, ignored her on nights out, and she was desperately hoping to get back with her (ex) bf who wanted nothing to do with her. He changed his flights on the way home to fly home later than she was, and extended his European holiday in order to keep the party going with some of the new friends he had made.

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    Alexandra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's the best way: show the cheater life is good without them in it.

    Arlecchino The Knave
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Respect(for the coworker.) Guys, don't let asses ruin your day, or in this case month(s).

    Joss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I'd been the one to book the tour and my partner cheated on me, I'd have contacted the company and asked to cancel the partner's portion of my booking even if they couldn't refund. No need to see them while moving on.

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    Douglas Potter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The meeting point of technology and trust is a complex and often turbulent intersection, as evidenced by the story of adultery and healing. In today's digital age, the ease with which we can connect, communicate, and share our lives has both empowered and endangered our most intimate relationships. This narrative explores the delicate balance between technological convenience and the fragile foundation of trust that underpins our closest bonds. A tale of betrayal unfolds, as the very tools designed to bring us closer together are subverted, allowing for the erosion of honesty and the violation of sacred promises. Yet, within this darkness, a glimmer of hope emerges - the possibility of redemption through vulnerability, forgiveness, and the painstaking reconstruction of that which was lost. Technology, for all its power, is merely a conduit; it is the human capacity for empathy, resilience, and the willingness to confront one's mistakes head-on that ultimately determines whether the mee

    Beachbum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Loved how this turned out! Good on him for not lettting that little c unt ruin his trip!

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Deam. I’ll bet she learned her lesson.

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    #4

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner I went to the dr for an IUD for birth control after our second child and while the dr was inserting the IUD in my cervix she informed me that I had an STD. I had only had sex with him for the past 10 years.

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a s****y way to find out

    WA2DK
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In theory you COULD'VE had the STD before getting your (hopefully now) ex, but having had two kids, I assume you would've been tested while pregnant. What an @$$.......

    Bewitched One
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Think that is the reason she mentioned their second child because theh always test during pregnancy

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    Justin Rogers
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worst way to find out. After 10 years. This is why I have never cheated. I wouldn't want to make anyone feel like that. Integrity and self respect is worth more than any physical satisfaction

    Mel Colley
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would love to hear him try to get out of this one.

    Tara L.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can sue him for that in most states

    Peter Leung
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Forgave me ex, but really should have ended it.

    Tom De Paul
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So it was visible (not the result of a blood test). Why didn't you notice the changed appearance of your genitals?

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes last month my Wife started misbehaving and acting weird she's clingy with her mobile devices which made me develop a suspicious mindset towards her phone activities so I became curious to know what she's been doing on her phone lately I searched the internet for the best and most efficient phone spying expert I found 5ISPYHAK, through twitter reviews from a trusted and verified user so I decided to give this tech genius a try to know if she can truly help me in my case. Fortunately for me, it was the right step and the best decision. I reached out to her via her contact address at Email 5ISPYHAK437@GMAIL.COM and told her about my situation and she promised to deliver a satisfactory service in the shortest time possible which she did. I hired her and within a few minutes all information from her phone and internet activities popped in and it was as if I got her phone in my palm. EMAIL 5ISPYHAK437 AT GMAIL DOT COM

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    #5

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner I was using his laptop for my work meeting as mine was at the service center. I went to login my email and his was already logged in, first email was your flower delivery was successful. I didn't think much of it however curiosity got the best of me, So I opened the email, and it was for some girl, scrolled a few emails down there were flight tickets, hotel reservation, car rental. He was f*****g multiple girls in the course of if our 2 years relationship. I packed my bags, told him I forgive him for whatever he has done and I am not going to sit and blame myself or ask myself where I was wrong, because he was always the priority and left my research programme to stay with him. Cried my eyes out when driving back home and blocked him. 1 year and still devastated but good riddance.

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    Tara L.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never give up your life for someone else

    Rahb in Oz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jeez, I hate men! Thank goodness I am married to a wonderful and faithful one!

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you still devastated? He was/is a snake. Would you prefer still being with him and still being cheated on?

    JNDauterive
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You handled that with class someone I’ll be lucky to get you one day.

    Linda Riebel
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope you feel better now and in the future.

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    How do you not notice? There has to be time he's missing, financial stuff, etc. etc. This is not just one affair. It's multiple. And he's traveling.

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    Never let anyone else use your computer!

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    #6

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Not me but my mother - who had stage three bladder cancer at the time, had a knock on the door from a woman who told her that she was dating my dad. She said that she had heard my mum was on death's doorstep, and that she had been taking parenting classes and watching her take her kids inside from the car to prepare for the day she could adopt them. Real class act.

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That sounds like some mental health challenges were present.

    Con O Cuinn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well a person who knowingly gets involved with someone who is married is never going to be that stable

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    Jake Languard
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fun fact: the mom made a full recovery "No-so Fun" Fact: she decided to stay with the dad later after he begged for her back and then 10 years later found out he was cheating on her with the same woman 🤦‍♂️

    Tara L.
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd take my husband with me to my grave just to make sure that woman never got my kids. I found the original post, his mom recovered & divorced his dad. But he begged & whined his way back into her home & they remarried, only to find out he kept cheating on her. Like WTF is wrong with his mom? So stupid to take a cheater back

    LanieMeB62
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The words "restraining order," for husband and crazy GF, would have popped right out of my mouth after I slammed the door in her face.

    Von Daniels
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was cruel. Someone needs to apologise. God bless you and keep you strong. 💜💜🙏🏼🙏🏼🤗🤗🥰

    Bored Birgit
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my goodness. How dare she. Worst of the worst.

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The affair partner sounds like some sort of creepy buzzard. I hope your mother was well enough to divorce your scum dad and take every penny he had.

    Arlecchino The Knave
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my god. That woman is an a**e-nugget.(The woman not the mom)

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    #7

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner True story (circa 1982). My Mum marched into my Dad's office at work one day and said "we need to talk" and he said "is this about Ramona?" and she said "who the f**k is Ramona?". Divorced a year later....don't think he ever found out what she wanted to talk about.

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    Mrs.C
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happened to a friend of mine. Out shopping, hears something about a family member, texts her husband "we need to talk," and he spills the beans- had been planning a divorce for a long time. Friend was completely blindsided.

    ggus44
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And what did she want to talk about??

    Jac Carr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't pre warn someone that you want to talk if you're not in front of them; why give them time to prepare a story and delete evidence?

    Melia Janssen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand the need to announce it before you do it. If you need to talk to your spouse, why don't you just pick a time when it's optimal i.e. at the end of the day when you're alone together. Why the need to announce it before you do it?

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    Arlecchino The Knave
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    Oop. Here's a little easter egg, guys: If you rearrange some letters, the dad says "Is this about f*****g Ramona?" However, the downside is that the rest of the story sounds weird because letters are missing....

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    #8

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner She left her diary on the lounge room floor when she went to work. I debated reading it but eventually gave in. Was then I found out about her f*****g my brother multiple times when I was working night shift. When I confronted her about it, I was called a prick for reading her diary and for working night shift, therefore not being home when she got horny. I tried to explain the difference in levels of the bad things we did, but she didn't see any. For some reason, we didn't last after that...

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    Peppy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hoping the brother got some ire for his actions, I think I would find that a bigger betrayal

    Andy Frobig
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I had a brother and he was like my sisters, nothing would surprise me

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    Subaru645
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With family like that, you don’t need enemies

    der sebbl
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With a family like this I wouldn't want a family

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    Arlecchino The Knave
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oop. Imagine being so s****y that you blame your s/o for being horny and cheating....

    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who is stupid enough to write that down?

    Frozengeckolover
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! Who tf writes stuff like that in a diary? I guess someone who thinks working night-shift is a reason to cheat.

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In conclusion, Tomcyberghost hacker can be a powerful PI in uncovering infidelity. By understanding the signs of infidelity, choosing the right hacker like tomcyberghost@gmail.com and following legal considerations, you can effectively catch a cheating spouse. Remember to approach the situation with sensitivity and prioritize open communication, seeking professional help if needed. Ultimately, this difficult journey can lead to growth, healing, and the potential for a stronger, more honest relationship. Text/Whatsapp +1 (404) 941-6785.

    weatherwitch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And what happened to you and your brother?? He should have stayed the f**k away and kept his kegs on!!

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    #9

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner She was having too many “girls night out”. I was skeptical. I checked her location on FindMy and saw she was at the neighbor's house. He’s single. A betrayal like that is devastating.

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    The wee giant
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Needs more info, because she could be helping him with something or just talking to him.

    Kelley Baltierra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well now I feel bad for all those girls that do go out with their friends legitimately are now going to be looked on with suspicion...

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In conclusion, Tomcyberghost hacker can be a powerful PI in uncovering infidelity. By understanding the signs of infidelity, choosing the right hacker like tomcyberghost@gmail.com and following legal considerations, you can effectively catch a cheating spouse. Remember to approach the situation with sensitivity and prioritize open communication, seeking professional help if needed. Ultimately, this difficult journey can lead to growth, healing, and the potential for a stronger, more honest relationship.

    Bordt
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    damn girls

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    #10

    Ex-wife (married 10 years) needed an emergency shot of Imetrex for a migraine. Fumbling though her purse looking for it and found a tear in the fabric. Lo and behold she had condoms stashed in there along with some m*th. It was rough but I did end up with full custody of my two boys. Happily married to a wonderful woman now and everyone is ok. Even the ex, she eventually kicked her habit.

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    Penguin Panda Pop
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's always the same, starts with some simple addition, subtraction, multiplication and division. Next thing you know, she's using letters and solving for 'x'. Math addiction - it's dangerous, and will lead to migraines if you don't know what you're doing.

    Rafael
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure it was all imaginary, dude needs to be more rational.

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    Miki
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess how I know it's not Poland. In my beautiful country mother can be a d**g addict, alcoholic, abusive, probably even homeless etc etc. Doesn't matter how perfect is the father, he NEVER gets the kids.

    weatherwitch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is horrible but good. The extra ending of even the ex who eventually kicked the addiction because it will enable her to have a relationship with her sons too.

    Thomas Olsen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You cant have the Pi and eat it too

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, meth never gives the user a headache.

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    #11

    Our seven-year-old, from the back seat of the car as I was driving her to school: “Mummy and me have had a really grown-up conversation about going to live with Mummy’s friend…” It’d be going on for six months. We worked in the same place and she’d been taking him to work functions all that time whilst I was home with my daughter. I really was the last to know. She left work but told everyone that she only cheated because I did first. Blatant lie. I had three months of work with people treating me like s**t because I got what I deserved - and then someone confronted me and told me what they all “knew”. From my reaction, they worked out I was actually probably innocent. Was a rough time though.

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    Miki
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fuuuuck...

    Brian Droste
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She was trying to make the husband/father to be the bad guy when she was the bad person.

    Kelley Baltierra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Deflecting, truly the go to for cheaters

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lying liars got to lie. They also usually cheat.

    Arlecchino The Knave
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn. Bud, I hope Ex got some bad karma. I hope life works out for you and I'm terribly sorry.

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    Surfing Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting all the blame, while there's as much to blame on both sides...I know the feeling.

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    #12

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Found her SmartWatch which she left at home when she was heading out to New Years Eve with "The Girls." I thought it was going to be funny to "spy" on her texts as they watch was buzzing like crazy and I figured her and her friends were discussing meet up spots and the like.... Only to see kissy faces and hearts from a mutual online friend whom she was apparently meeting... ...yeah wasn't a great new year. Luckily that was Jan 2020 so that HAD to be the worst thing that would happen to me that year. Get it all out of the way at the start, right? ....right?

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better than to be quarantining with this person

    Angela C
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. Sounds like it happened at the perfect time actually

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    #13

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Was driving our son around to get him to go to sleep. Ended up in the neighborhood of her office. Knowing she'd been working late a lot recently, I drove over there to see if she wanted me to bring her dinner. Ended up catching her with a redneck co-worker in the parking lot in his 70's hippy van. Went home and changed the locks.

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    Hi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We made love in my Chevy van 🎵

    Kiss Army
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that's all right with me...

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    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Changes the locks right then at night?

    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. You can change locks even at night. Like Jb said, some are really quick to do.

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    Tom De Paul
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just a cheater, but a Hee Haw-loving low class cheater.

    Monica G
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope he got photo proofs of the van action for divorce.

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this van is rockin, don't bother knockin.

    Maartje
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He actually saw the going-ons in the dark? I DOUBT she was boinking the redneck during day light. What was he doing, checking cars (all the while thinking his wife was in the BUILDING) with his baby asleep in his car?? Then he runs home, with baby, goes to hardware store to get a new core for his lock? It sounds off.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you defending a cheater? Not that OP owes you any details, but I assume that "driving around to get our son to go to sleep" means that the son was young, probably a baby or a toddler. Babies and toddlers sometimes - wait for it - have bedtimes that are still within daylight hours, especially if it was spring/summer. So this event could have taken place at 6pm while it was still fully daytime. And OP said he was checking to see if his ex wanted him to bring her dinner - one could assume that he went into her office building, couldn't find her (or co-workers said she had left already) and THEN, when he went back outside, he may have, you know, noticed the "70s hippy van" MOVING and ROCKING, because generally speaking, the horizontal tango involves muscular movement, which would cause a van to rock back and forth. And there are these people called locksmiths, who can come out to your house (especially the ones who offer "emergency services"). No hardware store involved.

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    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    I would'nt have changed the locks cause that can make devorsis alot harder(if you were to get a divorce)

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    #14

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner My ex used to run a construction business with a childhood friend. They were very close and his friend was in our wedding. Ex started stealing money from the business and lying about jobs. I didn’t know this until his friend showed up at our home demanding we pay him back. My ex refused and told him he was going solo in the business. The friend looked me dead in the eye and told me the woman's name. No other info but just the name. I immediately knew what he meant by the look in his eye. He then gave me the address. The house was built by my husband, four years prior.

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The friend made a bad call by not telling her earlier, imo.

    Trillian
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup he was fine with it until the guy screwed HIM over.

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    Arlecchino The Knave
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IMO, esh, except OP. It's like, "my bestie cheated on his s/o and stuff but oh well! Bro code....Oh! Now that son of a b***h stole from me! Screw bro code now! I'll tell on him because he cheated me." So yeah. That, but it makes sense instead of all over the place. Sorry for my bad writing lmao.

    Rafael
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cheater in one thing, cheater in all things. His friend should've seen it coming.

    Steve Hall
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A cheater and a thief too, imagine that!

    Beachbum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand this one ...

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    #15

    She said she was at a friend's studying. I had suspicions about a guy she was working with so I drove about 30 minutes to his house and found her car there. I parked out front and called her. She picked up and I just let her bury herself as hard as I could. Asked her what she was studying, what the girls name was she was studying with, where she lived, everything I could think of to make her fumble about. Then I told her to look out front of the house she was in. When I saw her peek through a blind, I waved and told her to find a new place to live and to come get her things. I know things hadn’t been great for a while, but it was still a bummer to end like that.

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    Arlecchino The Knave
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What OP did was solid gold. And funny to read, ngl...

    Kare Deter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    right? *here's the rope, come hang yourself*

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    Beachbum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this one, how hejust let her bury herself. If things aren't great talk about it, don't just go f ucking around!

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    #16

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner I got let go from work early because we were overstaffed. She had ironically taken the day off for a "mental health day." I pulled up into the driveway and when I walked in the door I immediately heard moaning upstairs. I'm assuming she's m*sturbating. I go up there and open the bedroom door... And my wife is on her back. Except there's another woman straddling her face at the head of our bed whom she's eating out. It's another mom of one of the kids our kid goes to school with. I had no idea my wife was even into women at all.

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    Floeckchen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I've seen this video somewhere on the internet... 😛

    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And we all know what happened next, right?

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    Major Harris
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "dear penthouse forum. i never thought something like this would happen to me...."

    Bill Allen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Up to that point it was just the beginning of a “Dear Penthouse” letter.

    Kat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? I was waiting for, and they just smiled and asked me to join. 😆 🤣

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    L Coffeen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be completely honest if my husband came home and say that he would just quietly sit it the corner. 😆 I know it's a double standard but it's a bit different yeah?

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    Surfing Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have joined in.... but hey, that's me 🙃

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    I hope you jumped in there...

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    Its not as if it was a man though...

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    #17

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Had a suspicion he was on Grindr, downloaded it and took screenshots of his (faceless but very obviously him) profile. I held onto it for a few weeks because I was honestly in shock, but one day he made a joke about how seedy gay guys can be and I just went "oh like this?" And showed him the screenshots. It was a very satisfying feeling watching him squirm!

    cheezgrator , Karolina Grabowska/pexels Report

    Rahb in Oz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why it is sad that gay guys feel they have to marry a woman to be OK. It doesn't work! It just means heartache for both of you later on when the guy has to come out.

    Sunny Day
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe he's bi. But cheating is cheating, straight, gay, or bi. If you made a commitment to someone, you keep it, or you end it before you start screwing around.

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    LB
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This picture is weird because we don't know OPs gender, but from the phrasing I'd assume this was a gay couple

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, but I'm not gay, I'm married to a woman!

    Missanna Facwfuck
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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    Ace
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    "Had a suspicion he was on Grindr". No, she already knew he was fücking other guys.

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    #18

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner My wife announced at a holiday dinner that she was pregnant, I had a vasectomy 15 years before. Retested to make sure that no magic had reconnected. The next weekend at a large family picnic, I told everyone about my zero sperm count.

    Longjumping-Skill80 , Katerina Holmes/pexels Report

    Cathy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But, how could she not know about the vasectomy???? That is odd..

    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's like the post the other day about a fiancee that didn't know about the tubal ligation. If you're in agreement about no kids you'd think it doesn't matter... But still, it's a bit strange that she doesn't know.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who doesn't discuss this with their partner before announcing it? And what did she think they were using as birth control?

    Sophia L.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously not excusing cheating, but how do you hide something like that from your wife?

    Rafael
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BS, how come they married and never discussed birth control even once?

    Jac Carr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He deserved it considering he withheld something hugely important

    Surfing Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her not knowing about his early vasectomy is weird. But not impossible. Could be a man in his 40ies or 50ies that relais with a younger woman.

    Thatkamloopsguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yes, The old zero gender reveal party.

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    #19

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner She was in the ICU on a ventilator and life support for 30 days. Docs had no answers and she was almost out of options. Gave her “significantly less than 50% chance” to live and told me to consider all possible explanations for her condition including hard d**g use. Decided to go through her phone in an attempt to find anything that might help. No d***s found but I did find an 18 month affair.

    Katniss_is_a_bitch , Tony Schnagl/pexels Report

    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also extremely awful way to find out

    Pyla
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah, hard deck usage get's you in traction, not ICU, though.

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    MommyofB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heartbreaking! OP's mourning his wife being so sick, devastating.

    Cydney Golden
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't that the plot of The Descendants?

    FreeTheUnicorn
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    This doesn't sound true, there would be no benefit to medical care by finding out about d**g use at that point. If they really didn't know what was going on, they'd run blood tests, but that only matters until it's metabolized. He might have gone on her phone, but not at the doctor's request.

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    Options would not increase by knowing what d***s she took after that long. There's no medical reason for snooping. Fair enough you didn't trust her, but don't blame the docs on this.

    Amused panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It sounds like the doctors didn't have a clue what caused her collapse, not simply didn't know which particular d***s she'd taken - or at least, that was the way OP understood it. Of course, the doctors might have known but not been in a position to share due to confidentiality, but in the stress of having a loved one so seriously ill OP could have simply misunderstood the doctor's comment and thought knowing would help.

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    #20

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner She had done some unexpected personal grooming and packed lingerie to take to work with her. When we got home at the end of day and she went off to get ready for bed (clearly not intending to sleep with me), I pulled the very used lingerie out of her bag and confronted her. She evaded initially, but ended up confessing it was some guy from her work she had only met a couple of days earlier. That was 3 weeks ago. She's still sleeping with the new guy while I've moved out and am trying to figure out how we sell the house we bought together 7 months ago. So, fun times.

    cedricsexypants , Наталья Масик/pexels Report

    Rahb in Oz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always a fun time, not. I was inveigled into the same scenario. Selling the house and dividing the spoils when you have been cheated on both financially and emotionally is very hard.

    Miki
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ??? Wtf. Cheater shoud move out! not a cheated!

    MommyofB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Horrible! Best of luck to you, selling your home, and your future!

    JNDauterive
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should never leave. They can use that against you.

    #21

    The, at the time, 22F AP sent me an email to clarify if my ex (39M then) and I (35F then) were truly divorced (we didn't). She and I immediately met that day and I found out that my ex was actively cheating on me for the past 2 years of my marriage, and that he was with her when he left me with no words for one entire month, among many other lies he had been feeding me and the AP from the get go. Needless to say I immediately processed the divorce -should've done that sooner when I noticed all the red flags, but it was easier to live in constant denial. Fun fact: he called me out of the blue 4 years after the divorce to see how I was faring. I suppose he wanted to see me being miserable, but I was truly living my best life -still am :).

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    Rafael
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What the hell is an AP?

    FakeOptimist
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The best revenge : being happy (or even happier) without them.

    Tom De Paul
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He leaves you for a month and you don't do anything about it?

    Shalom Meek
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sooo he was 37 and AP was 20 when it started? That's a 17 yr difference.

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    #22

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Mine had a fictitious job which she was claiming she started early and had accepted an unpaid hand over period and was going to get paid from January the following year. By February she still wasn’t getting paid and my best mate was strangely busy every time she was working. I waited for definite proof before breaking up with her as she had an illness which although real she exaggerated. Lots of suspicious behaviour later I was really struggling. In May she claimed to have been paid and I without snooping saw a letter about a bank loan on the bin. That night was bin day I stood outside waiting for her to get home with the bin in my hand and saw his car show up down the road. They didn’t see me and I walked up to the car to see them kissing passionately. Despite that she still denied anything was going on 😂.

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    Libstak
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it's not what you think the car swerved and hit a bump, next thing I know our faces coĺlided and we couldn't get them apart...suction, ya know?

    Beachbum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aw man his best mate too, what is wrong with people!

    Rahb in Oz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it is over, then it is OVER! Stop cheating.

    Bewitched One
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How’s she get a bank loan with no income

    Hodge Elmwood
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one but an idiot or someone with a damning secret works for free. Missed a huge red flag there, dude.

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    #23

    My friend rang me up. Turns out she had been sleeping with guys at work. One of her coworkers didn’t like her and told my friend who promptly passed it onto me. I sent her a text saying we were done and then ghosted her. It’s the reason I don’t have any social media except reddit. From her perspective I essentially disappeared overnight. Hearing her freaking out for months from friends was satisfying. Haven’t seen her in over 10 years now. If anyone is cheated on don’t do anything stupid. Just remove yourself from them completely. It’s the best revenge you can get.

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    Aboredpanda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "One pf her coworkers didn't like her" ... could just as easily have been a fake story to ruin her life. In which case it worked. Trust me, there are some real unhinged people put there...

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. You listen to a 3rd hand rumor started by someone who admitted they don't like her. Good Job. /s.

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    JNDauterive
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like an (wounded) ego trip.

    #24

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner She didn’t come home after dropping our youngest off at preschool 2 miles away for the afternoon session. I noticed she had makeup on and showered early, on her day off, which never happened. Watched her location and she was in a rural area she never goes to and it wouldn’t zoom in. Finally zoomed in and I screenshot it. Drove down and walked in on her, butt naked, in his trailer waiting for round 2. He was outside smoking a cigarette and when I walked up he looked like he thought I was about to [unalive] him.

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    #25

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Parked outside his house and asked him what he’s doing. He said “just relaxing at home” but he wasn’t home. Went through his phone that night and found everything. He was cheating with at least four other women.

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    Emma S
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When it gets to the point that you are spying on them or going through their phone to trust them, it's time to walk away.

    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, but I think a lot of people do this after they have a reason to be suspicious at which point it's not about gaining trust anymore, just evidence.

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    Kurtz Frausun
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know it's not the point, but how in the hell does a guy have free time for 5 women?

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    #26

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Not my spouse (girlfriend), but I literally had a prophetic dream about it. I dreamed that she had taken me to a Mexican restaurant and told me that she cheated on me with one of our mutual friends a week prior to me actually finding out, and I wrote it in my dream journal because it had me really shaken up, (you know, those super hyperrealistic nightmare type dreams) but I dismissed it as paranoia. Exactly a week later we went to go eat at a Mexican restaurant and she was acting a little bit strange… and my heart just dropped to my a*s and I felt my whole body start shaking. I knew I was right. And she looked at me and said “I have something to tell you” and I didn’t even let her finish, I just said “was it *****?” And her face went white as a f*****g ghost and I stormed out of the restaurant. She followed and I said some very mean things to her and dumped my leftovers in the back of her car… not my finest moment but hey, I’d never been cheated on before and it was a moment of extreme anger. If I could go back in time I would have held my head higher- I think that would have hurt her worse. Listen to your gut, people!! The subconscious has a way of telling you what you need to know!!

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    Tha Monkey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Truly (no snark), I believe this. I believe our "gut instinct" is just our subconscious putting the dots together without our realizing it.

    Major Harris
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you had the dream at the very moment that she was cheating. something or some one was alerting you.

    Kelley Baltierra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have a dream about winning lottery numbers would you pass it on ?

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    #27

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner My then 3 yr daughter told her grandma about noises she heard from mom's room. then her grandma told me, ended it soon after, no explanation, just packed and left.

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    Tyranamar Seuss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one isn't proof to me. A kid saying "weird noises." Now you're hearing it 3rd hand. And you don't even talk about it. Who knows what that was. And grandma says? Is that his mom? Is she one of these over involved moms who's always trying to break up her son's relationships? We need more info.

    Jenny Mason
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She could have been watching a video of a certain kind for all the kid knew 🙄

    Cathy
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    Hmmmm.. You didn't talk about it and try to work it out for your daughter?

    Alexandra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If problems in a relationship stem from a difference of opinion about bringing up children, finances or household chores, with good will on both sides you can reach a compromise. When someone cheats, trust is gone. There will always be that doubt at the back of your mind and I don't think that's a healthy thing. Better split up amicably and do co-parenting. As we say 'if a plate is damaged, you can still eat from it, but it is still broken'.

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    #28

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner I was suspicious, Spider Sense was tingling. She left her laptop open logged into her work email. Her lover was a coworker. Nothing was in the inbox. Dummy deleted all the emails but didn't delete her trash. It was all there. Cool cool cool.

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    Rahb in Oz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. Arsehole ex-partner (still sharing the same house) asked me to access his laptop to forward an email because he was trying to cheat his employer. Saw all the emails consoling him because I was so horrible. He had conspired to cheat me into paying for the house, the same as he had done with his previous partner. Good riddance, if too late.

    Phil Hoyt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happened to a friend of mine. Started with meeting her online and he said "look at how pretty she is". I said "that's Meg Ryan" he said "it just looks like her", yeah right. So then he decides he wants her to live with him, I'm setting up her computer and she swore blind she hadn't talked to any guys. I said, "a lot of people think when they delete emails that they are gone, but they just go into a separate hidden folder". It took everything my buddy had to hold her back from getting to the computer, lol.

    Waldie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why people just go and log into the others stuff?

    FreeTheUnicorn
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    Going through someone else's work email is illegal. She'd be in trouble for leaving it open, but you're in trouble for accessing it. Doesn't change the sorry, but I hope theybbith see consequences

    #29

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner I was rubbing her stomach in bed and she made a joke about not being pregnant assuring me she'd had a pregnancy test 2 weeks before. We hadn't seen each other in 3 months because she was studying in Scotland...

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    Emma S
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get this one. Is he saying because they hadn't had sex in three months, she couldn't have thought she was pregnant because that's not true. Not all women find out they're pregnant in the early stages. Some women can continue to have periods or light bleeding in pregnancy. Some contraceptives also make periods irregular or stop them completely. Although the chances of getting pregnant are small, it's not zero if the contraceptive was to fail she wouldn't have a missed period to think to do a test and probably wouldn't consider the possibility until she started experiencing other symptoms later on. Also, it says she had a test, not she did a test so maybe it was a routine test that was done at a doctors appointment as they often test women of a child bearing age even if you tell them you're definitely not pregnant.

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They hadn't seen each other in three months... But she took a test a couple weeks ago. Unless there's some sort of Christmas miracle going on, there's no reason she'd need a pregnancy test...😁

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    Con O Cuinn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cousin has ovarian cysts. Her periods were always irregular and she was told she might never get pregnant. So when she did, she was 6 months gone before she realised.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, but I was 6 weeks and already miscarrying due to ectopic.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have PCOS and really irregular periods, I take a pregnancy test every two months, just to be sure, as you can have bleeding that mimics a period early in pregnancy.

    FreeTheUnicorn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doctors are always giving pregnancy tests to women when they are in for almost anything, even when you say, there's no chance, they "just want to check" as if you don't know how babies are made. If she's got any autoimmune issue, docs have been testing her unnecessarily for years.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shockingly, sometimes people lie. Just because a woman tells a doctor "there's no chance I could be pregnant" doesn't mean that she's telling the truth. The doctors are covering their patooties and covering all the bases just in case. It's not "unnecessary" testing, it's VERY necessary.

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    Svenne O'Lotta
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend who found out she was pregnant as she was actively giving birth. She didn't show at all and bled once a month throughout her pregnancy.

    Jac Carr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She might have missed a couple of periods and done a test; it could still have been his kid

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    #30

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner The wife of the guy that she cheated on me with spray painted a message on the side of her car in his driveway to stop f***ing her husband. It was apparently OK because she hadn’t told me that she aborted our child until 3 months after she disappeared out of my life through text. I was worried for nothing apparently.

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    Salem
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve read this five times over and still can’t decipher it

    Janet Floyd
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think he actually means he was ultimately ok with the breaking up/cheating thing because she wasn't worth caring about as she had confessed to secretly aborting his (OP) baby. She was a POS. That's my take.

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    #31

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner We had been having trouble conceiving. 2 miscarriages within a year. He’s convinced it’s something wrong with me and schedules me a well woman exam. I say fine, knowing it’s most likely due to my age and they won’t be able to do anything about that but go to the appointment anyway. They say if the labs come back abnormal they’ll call me. About 4-5 days later while at the store, he gets picked up for a warrant. I go back home and about 15 mins later the doctors office calls. Tells me I have an STI. No. That can’t be right. I’m married! I’ve only been with my husband. Silence on the other end ….can I tell you I was counting down the minutes for that free 5 min call from jail….

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    Trillian
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so the cheating is the problem? Or the outstanding warrant? Or both? I'm confused.

    SaneMinotaur
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the cheating was the problem. She didn't sound as bothered by the warrant, but I guess that was more forgivable than the cheating and subsequent STI that OP got as a result. STIs can also affect fertility if left untreated, so it's also possible that OP miscarried due to the previously undiagnosed STI.

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    G A
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you wanted kids with this piece of c**p? Some world class attempted parenting there.

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    #32

    My bf and flatmate went out for drinks while I stayed home with a flu. I fell asleep on the sofa watching TV and woke up to noises upstairs. It sounded like moaning and kissing. My heart sank and I felt like throwing up as I silently crept to my bedroom to peer in. My flatmate was on top of my bf half naked. She saw me and leapt off and ran out to her bedroom & shut the door. I yelled and banged on it and she ignored me. I went to him to yell & get an explanation & he pretended he was asleep. Completely ignoring me. And denying it the next day.

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In your bedroom?! How stupid/gross/rude are they?

    Karen Lyon
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone I went to grad school with had a very similar situation. There were about 8 or 9 of us in a cohort of teaching interns, all working in the same district, so we all had classes together. That was a very public blowup/breakup. Not a lot of sympathy for the cheating pair from the rest of us.

    #33

    I smelt the pu**sy on her breath and confronted her.. she broke down and admitted to f*****g around with her lesbian coworker. She was pregnant at the time. Wasn't mine. When I met her she was 2 months pregnant. After the break up I found out she was married to another guy the whole time and had bailed out on him while he was at work and moved in with me. Yes.. we dated a few months prior. Lived about 2 hours away. Got tired of the drive that's why we rushed a bit.. or at least that's why I did. Turns out she was just a nympho for anything that would touch her.

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    Hseed
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every sentence it gets weirder ...

    Tom Brincefield
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely nothing about sex is hygienic. At least, not if you're doing it right.

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    #34

    She'd been having sleepovers at her best galpal's. I was feeling weird about it. I snooped. She'd just sent nude photos to MY friend of her and the girl together. I'd been feeling weird for a bit. On some level I knew.

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    MommyofB
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Terrible! She's a coward..

    #35

    First, I was awoken in the middle of the night with my ex calling me to pick him up. I had fallen asleep with him next to me hours earlier. He was pulled over by the police and they impounded the car. His story was that he got up in the middle of the night to drive to the beach to watch the sunrise. Sure, Jan. Then he came home a few times from work (a white collar job), 2-3 hours late, and went directly to shower. I dropped by his work to ask him something and he kept running away from me, wouldn't speak to me or even acknowledge my existence. I had to pick up his paycheck another time and told the receptionist why I was there, because he was in a meeting. She proclaimed that I couldn't be his wife because she knew for a fact that he was not married. I confronted him and told him I knew he was cheating, and he told me I was "mentally unstable" and was going to have me "involuntarily committed to a mental hospital". I put a keystroke tracker on his computer. I found the secret email account and the girlfriend. I knew her name, where she worked, and that he had been on dating sites for years. I changed the locks and left a note on the front door. We had been married for 20 years.

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    MushroomHead22
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bro if it ain't working just call it quits. why go through all this hassle? this seems so tiering and not worth it at all... like who has this type of energy?

    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely shows class when a SO gaslights you. "You're mentally unstable, I'll have you committed."

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    #36

    Her affair partners daughter called me. He was 25 years older than her so it was an adult daughter, his wife found out and had her daughter call me since she had babysat my kids before.

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP has partner (f) A, who is cheating on OP with AP (m), who is the father of their babysitter. APs wife finds out, makes babysitter call OP. Had to rewrite because that's a lot to unpack in two sentences.

    Rafael
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least I found out that "AP" is "affair partner", that was driving me crazy. That's the meaning, right?

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    #37

    Every year, she would go to her country to stay with family during Christmas and New Years. I would stay behind as someone had to work and pay the bills and since we were together 24/7 living and working together, I thought it'd be a good thing for her to have some time to herself with her family. This particular time, before she left, she was anxiously awaiting a package in the mail. They were supposedly pictures that she had made into an album that she wanted to bring with her. Days passed and the package never came. On the day that she left, I emailed her letting her know that the package came in. She told me to give it to her friend and that she would get it from her once she made it back. That set off an alarm in my head because if the package is safe at home with your husband, why would I give it to her friend? Why not just get it when you get back home, you know? A weird feeling came over me days later and I felt like I HAD to open it. Like something was telling me to do it. So I did. And what I found were pictures of her making out with some guy, pictures of her with this guy and her family as if they were a couple, pictures of her with his family and friends...I crumpled up the pictures in my balled fist and rage came over me. I couldn't sleep for 3 days straight. Long story short, as much as I didn't want to, I ended up divorcing her. It took me a long time to recover from that as she was my one and only (so far 🤞). I've been single and haven't had a kiss or had sex in close to 10 years lol. Just can't seem to find the right one 😮‍💨.

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    Melia Janssen
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend divorced her husband in 2014 and has stayed single since. She doesn't date, and doesn't want to remarry. She's perfectly happy being single.

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    #38

    Not me but a friend: his wife and her side piece both left reviews on the same Airbnb for the same night.

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You'd think people would be more careful.

    C.O. Shea
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's some seriously nerdy cheating!

    #39

    She was treating me horrible for weeks. I got suspicious so went through her phone. Found her Snapchat library of all the pics she took of herself to send off, and messages from a guy referring to those pics. I got the usual "how dare you go through my phone" b******t. It really sucks having to tell the kids that Mommy doesn't live here anymore....

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    Brenda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why don't people just leave if they want to be with someone else?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They want to have their cake and eat it too. Why leave their cushy, comfortable, familiar home when they can stay living there and (presumably) not pay rent, have a spouse/partner to help take care of the kids and bring in income, while they get to eff around with other people? If they leave, they'd have to find their own place, get a job (or work more hours), take care of the kids, etc. etc. etc.

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    #40

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Found out she was pregnant. A few weeks later we're cuddling on the couch, and I get a call from my sister on the opposite side of the country. She informs me that some random woman on Facebook messaged her claiming her husband and my wife were having an affair. I didn't believe it, but it was all true. I was military, and she was meeting up with married grunts in hotel rooms. Literally two weeks after we learn we're expecting a child, not even a year into the marriage, I find this out. Edit: this was in 2014. At the time, if someone you weren't friends with sent you a message on Facebook, the message went to a different folder that could only be accessed through Facebook on a web browser. It did not show in the app. The lady that messaged my sister had messaged me months prior, but I never saw any of the messages because I only used the Facebook app.

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    MommyofB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry you experoenced this. You certainly deserve better!

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    #41

    She got home around 5-6 am after a company "dinner". Slept on the couch even tho i insisted we go to bed. Around 10 I asked her how It went but she just said It was good and continued sleeping. I told her we could speak when she felt better (More awake). Turns out she slept with her boss. We separated about 2 months after that and they had a son together.

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    #42

    She handed me her phone and asked me to proof read an email she was going to send to her director that morning and in comes a text from some dude I've never heard of. They had hooked up the week before while I was on a work trip. They'd been sexting for weeks. They met while she was out with girls.

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    MommyofB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry! Rather than be honest, she made an awful situation, worse!

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    #43

    I came home 3 days early from a work tour and caught her in the act.

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    #44

    I became suspicious when her attitude suddenly changed to scorn and she started blaming me for anything that happened. She started getting drunk, and she'd never done that before. She started buying new underwear and "going to work" for extra shifts. The people at her workplace started treating me different and being stand offish. Then my 8 year old son was telling me about her conversations with him and the new dad. That was the last straw.

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    #45

    Well she was visibly showing pregnant after moving out about 45 days earlier.  We hadn't slept together in a year.  To be fair, we were in the death throes of our marriage but she couldn't even wait to move out of my house. 

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IDK if divorce proceedings have started I don't think it's cheating, but yeah in a lot of cases not the smartest thing either. I think it's good to heal before trying again, for most folks.

    FoxEcoLimaIndiaCharlieIndiAlfa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Dad, has been with his now fiance, for almost 4 years, this summer. When they met she had already filed for divorce from her ex-husband. The divorce/custody proceedings was finally finalized, less than a month ago. Sometimes these things can go on for quite some time and in those cases if you meet someone during this, it shouldn't be considered cheating, IMHO.

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    #46

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner We had our Google photos synched (his idea!) so we could more easily share pics and see what the other person took pics of. He was away for the weekend while I was laid up in bed with either a very sprained or broken ankle, so I wasn't able to join him like originally planned. I was going through our shared photos trying to find a particular funny meme, and there were pictures taken that night of him and another girl all cuddled up. 😑.

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    #47

    Found a message on his phone from a mutual friend of ours that read, "I can't stop thinking about all the things I want to do to you when I see you again". We'd been together for 6 years and I was 4 months pregnant at the time.

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    Karen Lyon
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had another friend who went through something like that as well. Only she was pregnant for the third time. Her BIL (the cheating husband's twin) and his wife were PISSED. They took her and the kids immediately after the breakup, and essentially cut him off. (Years later, they still didn't have much to do with him.) Through them she met a really good guy she eventually married, who was an amazing Dad to her three kids until he passed away.

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    #48

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Told him I was going out with a few of my coworkers after work. Ended up drinking a bit too much, so I texted him that I'd be home later once I sobered up. Made it home around midnight and the first thing I noticed was a pair of car keys I never saw before. I immediately went on the hunt. I tried opening the bedroom door, but it was locked. After a few choice words, he eventually shuffled out by squeezing himself out of the bedroom through a cracked open bedroom door in just his boxers. He told me it wasn't what it looked like and begged me to let her out of the house without any drama. I told him to get her tf out of our house. As she tried running out, I caught a glimpse of her. It was his supervisor from work. After she left, I immediately began grilling him about how they wound up in the bedroom. He had invited her over to play his new video game I had bought him, but she started to get a headache. He didn't feel it was appropriate for his guest to lay on our "hard" couch, so he let her lay in our bed. Mind you, we had a guest room. Alright. So now we know how she got into the bedroom, how'd she get naked and how is this not cheating? This moron said "well, she wasn't comfortable in her clothes. So, she needed to be naked to sleep. But it's not cheating because she slept UNDER the covers and I slept ON the covers while still wearing my boxers." Safe to say I divorced him, reported them to their superiors, and left their dumb a**es. Last I heard from my old neighbors, they got married. He cheated on her, she cheated on him, and they fight in the front yard.

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know about the once a cheater always a cheater adage, but yeah I wouldn't date someone who was cheating on their partner with me

    Ephemera Image
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah. Once a cheater always a cheater. The very fact that they could do that, is telling to their character (or lack thereof). Tell someone you love them and then lie to their face constantly? Even if they never cheated again, where is the red line? You don't know. Will they steal money from the household finances? Will they lie about other things? Once the trust is broken, it can never be rebuilt. No ethics, no morals.. Not what I'd want for the rest of my life.

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    #49

    Was shopping in a supermarket after work, heard her voice and thought oooh I’ll say hello, looked down the aisle and saw her with her ex and heard them saying about what they was cooking for dinner tonight. I got home and phoned her and she said “I can’t go out tonight I’m sick” so I tried to push it and say oh no your sick I’ll came and cook dinner for you then, turned into a huge argument about me not respecting her space.

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    #50

    My husband and I were sharing an iPhone charger one time while out and about with some friends. My phone battery was running low so I went to the car to plug it in and when I unplugged his phone to plug mine in, low and behold when the screen lit up, I see an “I love you so much. Can’t wait to see you later.” Turns out he’d been screwing our neighbor for a few months. He’d wait until I fell asleep and then sneak over to her parent’s house. That’s right she was 30 and still living with her parents. We divorced and he went on to cheat on her at least three times and even went as far as marrying one of them for a year before divorcing this affair partner and going back to the original AP. Both are stupid as hell because everyone knows he will cheat again.

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    Rafael
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's AP? "Another Person"? This is getting silly!

    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking affair partner, but another person probably makes more sense? 🤔

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    #51

    He totaled my car while dropping her off after a date.

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    FoxEcoLimaIndiaCharlieIndiAlfa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the accident happened after the woman got dropped off, how did she find out? I could understand if the woman he was cheating with, was in the car when the accident happened, but she wasn't.

    KittyMommy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it was at a time and place he didn't have any reason to be there you'd have a good idea that something was wrong

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    #52

    My bf and I each had our own laptops but he used his for creating music in a home studio he made. So since it was always hooked up to an elaborate situation, he often used my computer to check his stuff. Well one day he got careless and didn't log out of Facebook properly. I got on my computer and saw that I had a dm notification. Clicked on it and saw that I didn't know this person but there was a conversation. It was then I realized that I'm on my bf account not mine. And that message, while not spicy, was revealing. It was an old high school lady friend. She asked if he was in a relationship and he answered that he was single and has been for a while. A surprise to me as a live in gf of 3 years. I don't know. There was just something in me that ignited. I went ham and started searching everywhere to see if this was a one time lie or if there was something more bubbling beneath the surface. Well...I was able to contact the cell phone company and printed out phone records. He called a specific number over 1000 times within the record timeframe I pulled, which was maybe like 3 months. It wasn't his family or his best friend. I had their numbers. I did some more sleuthing and found an old phone of his and charged it and searched for this number. It was his ex gf. I took a highlighter and marked every single instance and then took the stack of papers to confront him. I asked if he was in contact with his ex and of course he denied it. So I threw the proof at him and said how crazy it was that his phone just called her 1000 times in the past three months. This paired with his drastic drop in libido (which I was giving grace about because he said he was stressed about his s****y job) and I realized it's over. Spoiler alert. They were together very shortly after I moved out. But I suspect he cheats on her too because the ex gf and the Facebook lady friend were two different people.

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    Ephemera Image
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would definitely have informed them both, lol. But I'm a scorched earth kind of person, lol.

    Brenda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Misery loves company! I'd want to know.

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    #53

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner I went to the mailbox to retrieve the mail and found a statement from a bank we didn't use with her name and another man's name on it. That's when I knew we were done.

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    Brenda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dumba$$ used her home address!?! Yeah, you're lucky

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dumb bìtch, called herself out. You may have dodged a bullet there.

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    #54

    Checked Grindr. There he was trying to hook up with anyone in a 5 mile radius. He got mad that I caught him and acted like it was an invasion of privacy lmao.

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    Should have agreed beforehand that this was OK!

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    #55

    I went to her house and asked her grandma to let me use her computer. I found a letter to someone else telling him she loved him and even complaining about me. It was really hard in that moment. Now i see it as a blessing in disguise.

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    MommyofB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a oowardly selfish b***h! You deserve better. Good luck!

    #56

    Smell. They had a different odor on them (like Men’s cologne) and then they fessed up.

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    Brenda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I swear these people WANT to get caught

    #57

    Day out with my son , and he says " i cant find my ipad" . Boom hit up the IOS find my app and bam . Why is my sons ipad at a hotel. Lets just say that ipad was lost for a while. I tracked and collected evidence.

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    BewilderedBanana
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If i understood correctly, OP's husband borrowed their son's iPad while having an affair. Son couldn't find it, and using FindMy, OP saw that it was at a hotel. Rather than confronting husband immediately, OP just kept tracking it to collect more evidence (presumably that wasn't the only time and/or not the only hotel the iPad visited)

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    #58

    Not my spouse, but my SO. It was purely accidental. My sister was home visiting so I was at my parents’ watching a movie and it was late so I initially said I was probably going to crash there since he was out anyways with “friends”. After the movie ended I actually decided not to stay at my parents’. It was a shared parking lot for two multi-family homes. When I pulled in, I hadn’t seen his car. However, the kitchen light came on. Stupidly my first thought was “Oh my God!! We’re being robbed!!” But instead of doing the logical thing you do if you think someone has broken in and calling the police, I went in. By the door were women’s shoes that didn’t belong to me and then I heard a woman’s voice. It felt so surreal. I kept walking further into the house and to the bedroom. I found him on the bed and a woman coming out of the bathroom in her bra. I was speechless. I turned around and started to walk out and the woman followed me and asked how I got in and who I was! When I said “Um I got in with my key because I’m his girlfriend who lives here” she said “Are you sure?” I got in my car and drove back to my parents’ and woke the whole house up hysterically crying. The guy tried to play it off like he was so drunk he didn’t know what was happening. As if anyone could fall for that excuse. She had been calling him “babe” so it seemed deeper than that anyway. The worst part was the woman wouldn’t let it go after. She got my number somehow. She sent me all the messages between her and my boyfriend even though I asked her to please just leave me alone. She watched my social media stories for months afterwards, until I finally made it all private. I felt bad for her at first because obviously she was hurt too, but it was just too much for me. I told her that night she was more than welcome to the man.

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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She was welcome to what man? There's no man in this story, whatsoever.

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    #59

    She and I worked at the same place. I was working over night and she was working days. It was my birthday and she was to work 12 hours Saturday and Sunday, 4am-4pm. My team had just released new code and had to do a lot of bug fixes and I was stuck working 4pm-4am. My teams bullpen was just inside the door so I always looked to see if I could see my wife leaving. I didn’t see her leave and she didn’t stop in to wish me a happy birthday. About an hour into our shift my manager noticed I was there and my section of code had no more bugs and I was helping other people, he offered me the chance to go home for the weekend. I jumped at it and left. I pulled into my drive way around 6:00pm and my house was empty. I figured my wife had to run to the store or maybe went to grab dinner. When she and I worked opposite shifts like this I would always call her on my first and last break, so around seven when she still wasn’t home I called her. When she answered I just asked her how her day was and what she was up to, she said she was just sitting on the couch with the dog. I was literally on the couch with the dog so I decided to see what she had to say. She said she had a good day but was really tiered and just going to go to bed. I never told her I was home but instead let her think I was still at work. When we got off the phone I called a friend who works in her department and found she had been switching her work station to work with the same guy for about 3 months, (we had only been married about 5 months at this point) that she hadn’t been at work that day and wasn’t going to be at work the next day. I used some unethical means to find his address, I called a friend and we went over to his house, we saw her car parked in his drive way and decided to just bring the car home with us. (I gave it to her as a wedding gift) we brought it home filled it with her cloths. The next day she called me crying saying someone stole the car, I tried to get her to file a police report but she wouldn’t so I finally just told her the car was in my drive way and she could come get it when she was done with her new boyfriend, and I already packed for her.

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    MommyofB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you! Sad that you had to deal with such a horribly selfish woman!

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    #60

    I went through my husband's phone because I wanted to prove to myself that there was nothing to be paranoid about... it was the opposite. I'll never be able to forget all the pictures and conversations.

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    #61

    She insisted she drop me off for work so she could hang out with a old friend I never heard of (weird but OK). I got let off early so I called her for a ride, no answer red flag #1. Called her mom to get said friends info, her mom said she had a falling out with that friends and hated her now. That was red flag #2. Her mom tried calling her but it kept going straight to voice mail. So her mom came to give me a ride home (and got herself all worked up abut what ditch we'd find my wife in) she decided to wait there till I was scheduled off to see if she came for me. She did and upon seeing her parents and me standing together she came clean. Edit: Forgot to mention since it was the 90's we had a plate on the front of my truck that had our names on it. It was off when she came and made a stupid excuse as to why it was off.

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    FoxEcoLimaIndiaCharlieIndiAlfa
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think he means more like a decorative plate. I remember back in the 90's, a lot of couples would have their names airbrushed onto a plastic plate, similar to like credit card flexibility. There would usually be like flowers around the names or a sunset in the background, used bright colors to attract attention to it. This was also when most states didn't require you to have state issued license plates, on both the back and front of the car.

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    #62

    Making efforts to look fabulous for supposedly mundane things, school run, or market trip, or coffee with the girls (coincided with uptick in let's call it body maintenance and refusal for my company on said errands). So I think a part of you will know if something atypical is occurring in your couple's routine.

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    #63

    I was in the hospital at the time. He had forgotten to turn off his location. I saw on the Find My app that he was at her house. Apparently that was the third time. Divorce pending.

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    #64

    I knew for months but had no proof. She came into the bar I worked at and got wasted. Went through her phone while she was indisposed and found pictures and messages with the guy. She had him saved under the name of a friend.

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    MommyofB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry. You deserve better!

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    #65

    That STD I got did come from somewhere. And it was certainly not from me f*****g around. And he didn't even defend himself when I confronted him. He was basically like "'I've been to Greece for 5 weeks. What do you expect me to do?". My only comment to that was asking him what he thinks "monogamous" means. And the second one caught himself cheating. He canceled our date night because he needed to work late. So I went to the restaurant we had a table at anyways, and asked a friend of mine if he wanted to join. We didn't even sit down before my ex entered the room with his tongue buried deep inside the mouth of his "co-worker".

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    FoxEcoLimaIndiaCharlieIndiAlfa
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well obviously the STD came from somewhere/someone...if you aren't sleeping with anyone else and was tested before sleeping with your current partner, without protection, and all came back negative, you probably have a good idea where it came from. Now it is possible, with certain STDs, that the infection can lay dormant, no signs or symptoms and be undetectable during testing. So for those that aren't cheating, on their partner, but end up with an STD, shouldn't rely on just this information alone to determine if they're cheating. It is possible that either one of you could have been infected, prior to being with each other, and just not known. My advice would be, to get more evidence, to be 100% sure that you are being cheated on, before filing for divorce or ending the relationship.

    Aelin Wildfire
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's possible...but it's very unlikely that the infection would go totally undetected on its own, without some prior intervention. And if they knew about it before, wouldn't they bring it up as a defense? When you hear hoofbeats, you think horses, not zebras. The scenario you just described is a zebra, not a horse.

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    #66

    We’ve always had trust issues and it was a toxic relationship so we always went thru each others phones, texts, etc. I worked overnight one day I went through her phone and saw texts of her saying “he’s sleeping right now I’m coming” and more other texts like that so basically she was taking my car while I slept through the day until the next shift to go see other dude… I saw nudes and other stuff she sent as well.

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    #67

    She asked me to get her keys, and next to them was a morning after pill. (We hadn’t had sex for over a week).

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    BewilderedBanana
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is a bit confusing. AFAIK you take a morning after pill the morning after you had sex, if you think you might be pregnant. So if the pill was still there, couldn't she have bought it to have one on hand for the next time they have sex?

    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I hear you. When I took a break from oral birth control, I kept a supply of plan B on hand because rips happen with latex free condoms often. Dunno what I'm doing wrong but until then, emergency contraception on hand as a backup always. Edit: taking it immediately after is more effective than waiting until morning. It's recommended to take it as soon as possible. So that's why keeping it on hand makes so much sense.

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    MushroomHead22
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    havent had sex for a week... periods last on average 5 days, and generally a few days before and after there could be some discomfort.... this sounds like an overreaction.

    FoxEcoLimaIndiaCharlieIndiAlfa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Umm what? I'm not sure what your comment has to do with this post. The morning after pill, is to be taken usually the morning after a woman has had unprotected sèx or a possible bc fail, to prevent pregnancy. It has nothing to do with the length of her cycle or any discomfort she may have, during her cycle. Also if the pill hasn't been taken yet, then it shouldn't automatically equate to cheating. She could have bought it to have on hand, for the next time you guys sleep together and she feels it's needed. I'm wondering Mush, if you're confusing the morning after pill, with something similar to a Midol or Pamprin. Those are used to help with period symptoms.

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    #68

    I went to put something in the bathroom bin and when I opened the lid, a tissue fell out. I picked it up to put it back in and a used condom fell out of it. We didn't use condoms...

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    BewilderedBanana
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Could have been from a posh wank though ;)

    #69

    I found a bunch of his clothes in the back of a cupboard down stairs hidden behind tinned food. He said it was old clothes he was going to use as rags. Red flag but decided to take his word for it. Then got an std after only being with him the last 5 years. Turns out my boyfriend and my best friend were both absolute rotten people and would hook up at our house while I was on night shifts (bf and i lived together). Jerks.

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    BewilderedBanana
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why was he hiding the clothes though?

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    #70

    Over a decade ago....Was getting ready for work one morning, my now ex's phone went off...like it was really early, too early for a message. Assumed an emergency so checked it. Was a message from someone I didn't know. Asked her about it and she said there was no message. Ohhhhkkkay, so I pulled it out of her. Worst thing was it wasn't just that guy I didn't know but she was also messing around with a supposed good friend I had at work.

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    #71

    “I’ll Never Be Able To Forget”: 30 People Reveal How They Exposed Their Cheating Partner Ex husband slept with his best friend’s pregnant girlfriend who was in the process of aborting his best friend’s kid. Found out when I came home from an out of state trip and she was moved into the house we bought together and walked in on them. They had known each other for 1 month and we had been together 6 years.

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    #72

    During a rough patch in our relationship, she didn't let me visit her, call her, or even hang out in places where she usually goes. I asked her to be honest with me after a few weeks. She told me that she went out with her ex because they were still friends and he comforted her at that point. I asked her if anything happened, she said that he just held her hand and hugged her because she was sad. Not knowing what to say, I joked and asked why she kissed him, to which she answered, "I don't know".

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    #73

    She facebook messaged while I was using his computer. I wouldn't have even bothered to look at his messages. Fully trusted him. Was going to tell her he wasn't on, but I took notice because he had sent a picture of himself without a shirt. Same one he had sent me when we first started dating. Got to see her tits in a bra, too. That was fun to see. Talk about my world stopping in that moment. Everything went black for a minute. I seriously consider that moment when my life split into "before" and "after". It changed me. Changed how I see relationships. How I view love. How I look at myself. It rocked my very existence. He will never understand what it did to me.

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    #74

    She doesn't realize her AP came clean to me this month. We separated in March, and she has apparently been with him since December. Told him we were already separated. The reason he came to me is that she admitted to cheating on him with a guy who has been married for 10 years and is planning on divorcing his wife for her. He gave me everything I needed to prove an affair, so props to him....btw all of these guys are online and have never met her as far as I know.

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    #75

    He went out with friends, I had a panic attack same night. Tried calling him, texting, no response for hours which was really unusual. He came home around 2 AM (he was anti-social so it was odd he was out so long) and drunk as could be. I did my spousal duty and got him into bed, and then opened his phone to turn off the alarms I knew he’d have going off early in the morning, and had a hunch to open his text threads, which I had only ever done once before (and that time had only found a bumble account he convinced me he had only made because we were talking about finding a third for our relationship. Dumb, I know.) Went downhill from there and found out our 4 1/2 year relationship had been entirely a lie & he had been cheating on me off and on the entire time. Found all of the texts & sexual videos and pictures between him & 5 other people over the course of 4 years + texts from the person he made out with in the bar that night & his dating profiles (complete with pictures of my cats & pictures of him from our WEDDING 😀). Most of it had been on a Snapchat account he had made separate from the one I knew about & I was honestly very naive & trusting so I didn’t think to question his loyalty entirely until that night when my gut said something was really wrong.

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    #76

    She was texting someone all evening, hiding her phone behind her leg, smiling at the screen. She’d been cold and distant for weeks. I checked her phone messages the next morning and she had been shagging the VP of sales at her company, turns out the “work trips” she’d been going on were all weekend getaways. I confronted her and she said it would never have happened had I not been neglecting her. I apologised and said that looking after our 18 month old daughter while also trying to keep my own freelance business going, while she’s out all day at her full-time job, tends to leave me drained by the end of the day. She went to her parents’ house to “give me some space”, left me with our daughter obvs, I checked her iPad and she was messaging him arranging another “work trip”. When she came back I confronted her again, she said I had violated her privacy. She divorced me for unreasonable behaviour as she didn’t want a publicly recorded divorce for infidelity, she also hid a large amount of money during the financial separation but was caught thanks to an accidentally redirected piece of postal mail. I got half of it but had already spent it on legal fees. She later blamed it all on post-natal depression so none of it was her fault.

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    MommyofB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a selfish b***h! You and your daughter deserve better.

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    #77

    Suspected something was up, catfished him on a "dating app" from another country using VPN and fake GPS, and boom. It was so smooth, awful but seamlessly smooth.

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    #78

    Overheard him on the phone to her making plans to meet up. He thought I was asleep. She was an ex of his. Told him to get the f**k out the next day. He was with her for a few years, 6 maybe? They had a kid, and I understand she dumped his loser a*s. I hope she took him for all the child support she could get. (After my take anyways). Our kid is 24 now, and NC with him, I have no idea if he’s even still alive.

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    #79

    Found out his reddit name and searched what he had been commenting on and it unravelled from there.

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    #80

    He connected his phone to apple carplay while we were on the way to ER because i was sick at that time. The b***h called while we were driving. She was an ex. The name was on the screen so I put her on speaker and the b***h had the audacity to tell me “I’m not talking to you I wanna talk to your husband”. I will never forget the feeling just wanting to get into a car accident or throw up. They didn’t stop right there, my husband spoke to her when wet got home.

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    #81

    While at school she kept inviting "friends" from the other side of the country to visit for a week or two at a time. Figured something was up, but never really could find anything out. I would generally spend time with these "friends" at a pub down the street, and the third one told me that they were in a LDR and she lied about her status of being married with a kid. He thought it was strange I wasn't hitting on the waitresses or the ladies at the bar, and realized that we were together when I told him why would I try have a snack when I got a meal at home. Told me all the details.

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    #82

    Went thru her phone messages and saw an unsaved number that had notifications silenced.

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    #83

    Saw her phone. She opened Snapchat while I was laying on her shoulder watching a movie, boom, her and her boobs in a conversation. I asked what the f**k, which is reasonable, so I grabbed her phone out of her hand and saw she’d been sending dude naked pics and m*sturbation videos. Don’t ever trust “he’s my best friend”.

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    #84

    We had been together for 7 years, I wasn't allowed to touch his phone or be friends on social media He used to work away for a month, and be home for a week On one of his weeks home, he was being very distant and nasty to me. He went out one night and had just gotten a new phone, i was trying to get into his old phone, a laptop and tablet but I didn't know any passwords I got lucky and guessed the password to his tablet, it was just for his drone, so it didnt have any apps or anything but had work emails on it. So I was just scrolling through emails and it was just normal work stuff and then I came across an email He had sent to himself. When I clicked on it, a bunch of naked/half naked pics and videos popped up on the screen of a woman from his past and that I had gone to school with. I took pics of it on my phone, sent them to him and said we were over. I stayed at a friend's place that night, while he packed and left My heart broke seeing it but it needed to happen, so I could finally let go of that toxic relationship.

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    #85

    I didn't directly catch her but had a suspicion something was going on. One evening we are at a public event and my wife is working a booth she was assigned to so I'm walking around killing time until the event is over. Out of the crowd there is a woman standing there looking directly at me in the eye. Somehow, some way, I immediately knew this woman was the other cheating victim. She approached me and already knew my name. She asked if we could go somewhere and talk. So we ended up in a booth at the McDonald's across the street. She lays out all the evidence she collected that her husband is f*****g my wife. None of this was a surprise to me oddly enough. Everything fit together with my suspicions. We sat for a while while I absorbed everything. What DID surprise me was this woman then proposed that we go to a nearby motel and revenge f**k to get back at my wife and her husband. I politely turned this down because she was clearly not in her right state of mind and there was no way escalating the situation was going to help anything. Edit: some followup info as requested. My wife and I went to separate gyms two or three times a week. Suddenly her pattern changed. She wanted to go to the gym almost every day and she started wearing makeup to workout which she never did before. Also her libido changed. Every time she got back from the gym she wanted to f**k like a tiger in heat. I welcomed this because I'm a high libido guy but it still struck me as odd that why now all the sudden is she horny all the time? I don't know if she was pretending I was the other guy?? Finally anytime, anyplace she would break down crying. She would never tell me why. It might be at home or out in public. I strongly suggested she get checked for depression but she insisted she'd "figure it out" on her own. This leads us to the festival where my wife was running a booth while I encountered the other wife. After everything came out it turned out the other husband had started talking to my wife every day at the gym. He was persistent and wore her down. She really did turn out to be depressed which does not excuse cheating but she was weak when this guy was coming on strong. In retrospect the other wife did have more than a passing resemblance to my wife. I guess these women were his type. I'd be lying if I said my d**k didn't twitch when she offered to go to the motel. But if we f****d then we would have given up all the moral highground with what would come next. I don't think she saw this at the time. She wanted revenge on my wife and the best way to guarantee no reconciliation would have been making everybody a cheater. But I wanted to deal with my wife on my own terms. I wanted to maintain the moral high ground. I talked with the other wife a few more times to sort out evidence and talk about attorneys but I never did indulge. The other wife ended up remarried to a new guy about six months later. My wife and I went through years of marriage counseling and she was treated for bipolar disorder. She eventually finished her therapy and even doesn't need meds anymore. She is a completely different person and we've been married eighteen years now with her affair being over ten years ago. I will say the experience broke something in me. I could walk out the door right now if she ever cheated again. But at the same time our marriage is stronger than it's ever been. It's a very strange dichotomy that I don't even understand. Yeah, it could have been the hottest sex ever but I don't regret it.

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    Taylor's Ferry
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fake. Bipolar disorder is chronic condition, it does not go away. In fact it worsens as you get older. Medication and therapy are for life.

    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See, this is a case where I'm like okay maybe it was better for the kids in case any were involved.

    Rahb in Oz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you that it ended up OK.

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    #86

    I never even considered the possibility. I thought we were doing great. Power couple and everyone envied us. Sex was awesome and nearly daily. I found out because her sister is yelling at her. I don't know enough of the language to understand and they are talking very fast. Finally it gets so hard that i break it up and ask what this is about. Her sister reluctantly tells me and my wife doesn't deny it. I am stunned but i calmly ask my sister in law to leave so we can discuss it privately.

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    #87

    We were on bed, went to the rest room, then a message from "sex slave" arrived, read the conversation and left, spent the next weeks begging for forgiveness.

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    #88

    I had already dumped him because he accused me of cheating every other day and i was tired of proving my innocence while i wasn't involved in any suspicious situation. It was taking a toll on my mental health, i suffered from insomnia and i started to panic every time my phone rang. So, against all my friends' opinions, i stopped trying to solve problems and i dumped him. I asked him back the necklace i gave him (we didn't like rings, so it was a sort of promise necklace) and threw it on the highway on my way home, it was liberating. Fast forward some months. My friend was showing me her childhood friend on Facebook. Among her contacts, my ex's university friend "the girl i shouldn't worry about". We looked at her photos, and there was a pic of her with my ex, shirtless, on a bed, and the piece of c**p was wearing my necklace so it was before our breakup. I didn't catch him on the spot, but it was liberating to figure out what was happening.

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