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Technology promised to solve our problems, but it seems to make a lot of them worse. Take dating. How cool it was that we could "meet" and flirt with five, twelve, thirty-seven, even a hundred people on the internet without having to step our foot outside, we thought—for maybe an evening or two. But ask anyone who is actively swiping, and they'll tell you it's not that simple. The subreddit r/Bumble is dedicated to one of these apps, and it's full of screenshots its users took of all the bizarre bios and painfully dry conversations they go through on a regular basis. These pictures reveal what online dating really looks like behind the filters.

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    #2

    She Unmatched Me Right After. Sucks Cause She Was Hot :/

    Text message exchange on a dating app showing a conversation about political views with a conservative response.

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    As funny as they might seem to others, disappointing interactions can take their toll. A survey of 1,000 American dating app users found that 78% of them feel fatigued with the dating app world sometimes, often or always.

    Interestingly, women feel more burnt out than men, with 80% reporting at least some level of burnout, compared to 74% of males.

    Younger generations are also feeling the burn the most, as Gen Z respondents were the most likely to “always” feel some level of dating app exhaustion.

    #3

    I Will Have Satisfaction

    Text message conversation screenshot from dating app, showing funny and concerning chat about Christmas and coming out.

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    NetworkMan
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What the d**n is happening in these comments? That's a pretty funny joke.

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    #5

    He Unmatched Me

    Text message exchange from a dating app screenshot showing a humorous and concerning hotel invitation conversation.

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    Matteic
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holy s**t 😂 A+ level burn. I admire this level of ferocity.

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    According to the survey's results, one in five (21%) dating app users lie about their age, with men (23%) being slightly more likely to tweak their numbers than women (19%).

    Other reported fibs involve income (14%), as well as hobbies and interests (14%). Adding to that dishonesty, 13% admitted to lying about their employment, dating history, and even their current relationship status.

    Just 12% overall claim they lie about their height, with 15% of males and 11% of females admitting to the crime and contradicting a common stereotype that it's just the men who falsify this information.

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    #8

    One Of The Funniest Bio LOL

    Bumble dating app screenshot showing a humorous bio warning professors and students not to match.

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    #9

    Seducing Guys On Bumble With My Bad Drawings

    Screenshot of a funny dating app conversation with a cow pun and playful AI text exchange.

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    When it comes to screen time, Millennials lead the generations, spending 56 minutes per day on dating apps, with the average Baby Boomer clocking in 37 minutes.

    We see a lot of examples of what not to do but according to the study, leading with a compliment may be the way to start a conversation, as suggested by 27% of the respondents.

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    A very similar share, twenty six percent, prefer another route, claiming they tailor their first communication based on another user’s profile.

    One in five (19%) said they recycle a rotation of conversation starters used with all sorts of people.

    #10

    I Wish More People Did This In Their Profiles

    Dating app screenshot showing a bio with a dealbreaker related to receiving the COVID vaccine.

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    #11

    I (24f) Am Open To Dating Older Guys So I Matched With This Guy (48m) And He Sent Me This… At Least He’s Honest??

    Funny dating app text message joking about being old and tired, highlighting humorous moments from dating app screenshots.

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    MalayDragon
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does nobody else see the pure sarcasm in that message?

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    #13

    So Apparently I Attract A Very Specific Subset Of Men

    Screenshots of dating app profiles featuring men with dogs, highlighting funny and concerning moments on dating apps.

    The first 3 guys literally came up on my "Must See Profiles" on my Liked You page at the same time, the 4th guy came in a few days later lol

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    And companies are aware of these problems. Match Group, the company with the world’s largest portfolio of dating platforms, including Tinder and Hinge, has announced it is increasing its investment in artificial intelligence.

    AI bots are supposed to help users determine which of their photographs will be the most popular, write messages to people, and provide “effective coaching.”

    But who’s to say those “struggling” users who may be lacking in social skills, and begin to rely on AI assistants to craft conversations for them, won't have difficulty once they arrive on real-life dates?

    #14

    I Believe In Radical Honesty

    Text message screenshot from a dating app showing a humorous conversation about a dream dinner guest.

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    #16

    How Do I Reply

    Screenshot of a funny dating app conversation mentioning unique tongue prints and fingerprints.

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    Remi (He/Him)
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adding that koalas have similar fingerprints to humans, so much so that they've caused confusion for crime scene investigators

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    #17

    Moved To A New City And Redownloaded Tinder. This Is The First Girl I Matched With

    Dating app screenshot showing a playful message with text actions like curtsies, giggles, and raising an eyebrow.

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    Remi (He/Him)
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Almost gives the same vibes as those "nice guys" doing the "gentleman" act

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    Dr. Luke Brunning, Associate Professor in Applied Ethics at the University of Leeds, has coordinated an open letter calling for regulatory protections against AI on dating apps.

    He believes that trying to solve the social problems caused by technology with even more unregulated technology will make things worse, and that automated profile-enhancing also entrenches a dating app culture where people feel they must constantly outperform others to win.

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    #18

    Can Someone Explain?

    Text message exchange screenshot showing dating app conversation with confusing acronyms and delayed replies.

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    Pieter LeGrande
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MTB is standard acronym for mountain biking. HTN is hypertension. Not sure how they relate though in this context.

    CloPotato
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    H***y Tentacle Ninjas - Mid Tier B***h

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    22 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think you're correct for the second acronym XD The first one is probably "höokup tonight" or "hit this tonight" - basically wants to höokup and is mad that OP isn't leaping into bed with them XD

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    BC_Animus
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can sympathise - I'm getting to this stage too where I have no idea what people around me are saying when they talk. As Denny Glover might say... "I'm getting too old for this sh*t."

    JB
    Community Member
    21 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you remember the commercial with "idk, my bff Jill?" I usually hit them back with that, followed by some deadpan comment about "kids being on tictac getting all this skibidi brainrot" - their pain is visible, and delicious.

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    JB
    Community Member
    21 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Comment contest: best acronym wins!

    Adam Zad
    Community Member
    12 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those are initialisms, not acronyms.

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    #19

    Guy I Matched With Last Week And Was Planning To Go Out With Soon, Did This

    Text message exchange from a dating app screenshot showing a conversation about meeting at the gym and compliments.

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    #20

    This Conversation I Had Was Wild

    Text conversation on a dating app showing a user reluctant to share personal details, highlighting dating app screenshots.

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    “Many of these companies have correctly identified these social problems,” Brunning said. “But they’re reaching for technology as a way of solving them, rather than trying to do things that really de-escalate the competitiveness, [like] make it more easy for people to be vulnerable, more easy for people to be imperfect, more accepting of each other as ordinary people that aren’t all over 6ft [tall] with a fantastic, interesting career, well written bio, and constant sense of witty banter. Most of us just aren’t like that all the time.”

    #23

    Insane Reply

    Text conversation on a dating app showing a user rejecting political questions as too complicated and ignorant.

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    CloPotato
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    1 day ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly I think it's a fair question, if someone's views are extremely opposite to yours it won't be a good match, and without boxing people it's cool to check if core values don't clash too much and it can make for an interesting conversation.

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    #25

    I Got Unmatched For This, Thought I Was Cooking 😭

    Text message exchange on dating app with a funny seal photo highlighting humorous dating app screenshots.

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    #27

    Date Got Canceled Because Knicks Were Playing…

    Text message screenshot showing an apology for being hungover and staying in to watch a Knicks game, from a dating app conversation.

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    Alex Meurissen
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean at least he is honest and not coming up with a b******t excuse. I would not mind this and just reschedule, things like this happen

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    #28

    My Friend Showed Me His Hinge How Do Some Guys Have It This Easy

    Dating app screenshot showing a message asking to be boyfriend and a quick positive reply in a chat conversation.

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    kikinlivi
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see a tub full of bloody icecubes in his future.

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    #29

    A Man Sent Me A Screen Shot Of His Bank Statement

    Dating app screenshot showing a bank account balance and a conversation about paying speeding tickets.

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    Rosecrucian Roeth
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And? That can be easily faked and if not, he's an idiot, don't go there!

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    #30

    What Are These Girls Looking For Now In This Era LOL

    Dating app screenshot showing a conversation where one user rates themselves a 7 and is rejected for not being 8.5.

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    Grape Walls of Ire
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An 8.5 would not be interested in someone who would say "a 8.5".

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    #31

    Dating In 2025 Be Like

    Dating app screenshot showing a message demanding money with a humorous and concerning tone at 8:34 AM.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I say this in the nicest way. If you can't do grammar, I'm not interested.

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    #32

    First Match On Bumble. This Is Awesome

    Dating app conversation screenshot showing a misunderstanding about messaging timing and hobbies outside of line dancing.

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    #33

    Not The Cancellation Text I’m Used To

    Text message from a dating app conversation apologizing for lost time and proposing to meet up soon.

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    #34

    Absolutely Unhinged - Date Cancelled Because I Didn't Send A Good Morning Text?

    Text conversation showing a dating app chat with emojis and a message ending over mismatched expectations.

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    Nota Robot
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OK then. I consider that a bullet dodged.

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    #35

    I'm Sorry, What Now???

    Dating app screenshot showing a bio describing a person seeking a loyal, quiet girlfriend with specific traits and interests.

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    CloPotato
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can you be a "tradwife with modern views"? Is it just "tradwife who adheres to the idea of the man not providing so she has double shift since she works her paid job and then slaves away at home"?

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    #38

    I Had An Amazing Conversation Yesterday

    Text conversation screenshot from a dating app showing brief messages with casual weekend greetings.

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    Remi (He/Him)
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This conversation could have been a thumbs up emoji

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    #39

    I’ve Never Seen A Dating Manifesto Before

    Dating app screenshot showing a bio seeking long-term relationship or singular FWB with clear profile instructions.

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This guy is psychotic. If you have the time (and patience) click the link and read the whole thing on reddit. Holy cow!

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    #40

    I Was Told To Post Here For A Profile Review. Don’t Know What To Expect, But Here It Goes

    Dating app profile screenshot of a man in vintage clothing with a detailed personal bio and interests displayed.

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    NetworkMan
    Community Member
    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What am I missing? Or are we just bullying a man for dressing however he wants and being open in his bio?

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