Often, I intuitively know something but realize it only after someone says it out loud. If it's a movie insight, then there's no big deal. But if we're talking about an important life lesson, I sure as heck would've liked figuring it out by myself earlier rather than later.
So when I saw this post on r/AskReddit by u/PeakABoo_IFKU, I knew I was in for a treat. The Redditor asked: "What is the best advice you can give someone?" And after scrolling through some 2,000 comments, I think you'd like to see the best ones as well. From taking care of your body to working on your mind, continue scrolling and check them out!
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Imagine all the time that you spend worrying about your embarrassing moments. Now understand that almost everyone else does the same. Nobody is thinking about your embarrassing things. Just their own. I find this idea freeing.
Actually, I remember both the embarassing things that I did and that others did...realizing that everybody is continuously doing mildly stupid things is freeing as suggested above, though. Moreover, I guess we tend to overrate the "level" of embarassment of stupid things, i.e. the same mishap we would find more embarassing when happening to ourself to when we observe it from others.
Be careful who you have kids with.
They should use a different picture. The Bundy's raised two very successful kids. Both are actors.
I think some folks are missing the point. It’s not necessarily the kids themselves that are the problem though there are quite a number of genetic traits & illnesses to consider. It’s that once you have children with someone you’re tied to them for the rest of your life. Not necessarily married to them but coparenting, a lifetime of family events, potential drama & ill will, etc.
THIS. I have a beautiful daughter with a abusive acholic ex, who's mom is a psychopath and fighting me for custody cause she doesn't like my husband who my daughter calls daddy on her own terms. No one forced her too and we had a long talk about it before it was allowed. Pure bs.
Yea my dad definitely shouldnt have had kids with my crazy a** mother.
took me 10yrs to realise the ex is a narcissistic pervert... We have a wonderful & kind kid
The problem with your comment is that everyone that is a parent thinks they have a wonderful and kind kid and cannot be objective in their assessment.
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So true. But the problem is people change a LOT because of kids aswell so its not that easy... a relationship can be fine without kids and totally go wrong after having children. It is crazy stressful...
Don't have kids if you. There are 7.5 Billion people on this planet, many are children in foster homes
Seems like most people agree, since the birth rate is plummeting in every developed country.
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Do you really need someone to tell you this? If you can not figure this out please don't have kids
OMG! So very true!! I wish Someone would've told me this before my x-husband
And I can just bet he wishes EXACTLY the same about you too.
Load More Replies... This one is not as easy as it sounds. People can change. There's no such thing as the perfect partner to have children with.
This is great advice. Having children with someone is a bigger commitment than marriage. Children are a huge responsibility. If you have the privilege of choosing to have children I would recommend keeping in mind a few main factors - the other persons attitude towards parental responsibilities, the other persons family medical history (ADHD is genetic for example), the other persons family dynamics (will your child's grandparents be dominating, micro managing)
True. This is obvious, plus you won't really know the person until you do. Then it could be too late.
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Expect nothing, and appreciate everything.
You are only responsible for yourself . You cannot and should not try to control others even if you think you're being charitable. Similarly don't let other people control your emotions.
Unfortunately personal responsibility isn't something people are taught anymore. It's easier to blame someone else.
Document everything. A lot of people have bad intentions and are looking to screw you over for their personal gain. Having things documented and on paper will prevent them from taking advantage of you.
Just because you don’t like something doesn’t mean it’s inherently bad. Don’t s**t on someone because they find joy in something you don’t.
I’m referring to things like movies, music, art, food, etc.
It's okay to not be okay
I don't mind people telling me how they're not ok, it can be therapeutic for them to share what they're feeling. Sometimes all someone needs is some compassion to realize that it's ok to not be ok. But when they're always talking about their problems, aren't helped by a compassionate listener, and never do any thing to address their problems, then I feel that type of "not ok" is not ok—for them or for me.
Don't be so hard on yourself, sometimes life gets complicated, is not your fault, just do your very best in every situation, and let things go as they should
Drink water
It's amazing to me how many actually don't. I worked with a woman for years who drank nothing but diet Coke. Never saw her drink anything else.
Learn skills to make yourself as self sufficient as possible.
Yea this became glaringly obvious when the pandemic hit. Things everyone should know: how to sew, basic woodworking (you should be able to cut 2 pieces of wood and screw them together), and how to dress a chicken.
Never put anyone on a pedestal, they will have no choice but to look down on you.
This one I learned the hard way. Treat everyone equally as we all have the same value. No life's worth more or less. We all exist and each life is valuable. There's nowhere that states that a life is worth more because of skin color, gender, money, education, nationality, culture, success, etc.
If someone really loves you they won't intentionally hurt you.
You are only young once, but you can be immature forever.
Try it. Whatever it is you are debating, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, and isn't illegal, try it.
Not trying it is going to weigh on you far more than any minor embarrassment you may get from trying it.
Take responsibility for your actions.
3 rules I found in life that have found should followed...Dont lie, don't steal, and if you screw up admit it.
Is there anything you can do about it?
No?
Then don't worry about it.
Never lose sight of the parts of life you're absolutely clear about. The truest part of ourselves is found inside that clarity.
Also, never ever ever be afraid to start over. You will NOT be starting from scratch, you will be starting from experience.
Treat yourself as if you’re someone you’re trying to help
Don't go to college UNLESS you are REALLY READY to do so.
I strongly reject this one. There might be some truth for countries like the US where tuition will cost a fortune, but in general, I strongly believe that lifelong learning is essential, that it is *always* the right time to try out learning something new, and that *any time* in life is the right time to find out what you want to do; taking up studies may well be part of this process, regardless of whether you retain these or soon give them up again.
There’s only one person in the world that can possibly act in your best interests in every situation: yourself.
Take care of your teeth and body when you are young.
47 year old dude with bad knees from playing sports.
Every time my kid doesn't want to brush her teeth I tell her that she needs to look at the brown spots on mine
Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you react to it
Don't react. Respond. The difference is reacting is a visceral emotional automation, whereas responding means to think and give an appropriate reply.
Not sure where i got this from but: If you were able to believe in Santa for 10 years or more, you can definitely believe in yourself for 10 minutes.
At a minimum, at least be honest with yourself. At least be true to who you are. And if you don’t know, figure that out.
Don't stay up late doing something that you would not wake up early for.
Meditate. Try. Every morning. It has freed me from some of the dark side effects of my mental illness.
Also, establish a great morning routine and night routine and stick to it. Practice gratitude every day.
Let go of resentment and hatred you have for others. No matter what they’ve done. Forgive. Forgive. Forgive. Forgive does not mean you tolerate what they’ve done or that what they did was okay- but it is meant to free YOU. So you can move forward and reclaim the power you feel you’ve lost. You can be compassionately wrathful and stand up for what’s right without hate in your heart. Hate only hurts you in the end.
Ie. My brother was murdered- but I have never hated the man that killed him. I don’t have to live with that resentment in my life
Take advantage of health insurance when you have it
As in get regular physicals and preventative care, address small problems before they potentially turn into bigger problems at the same time as you lose your insurance. Sneaking suspicion that you might be pre-diabetic, or have the family high blood pressure? Get it checked out. Small painful lump, or mole that's looking different than it used to? Don't ignore it.
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A lot of these would be great printed on a throw pillow or kid's shirt, but if you're living your life by words from a fortune cookie . . . let me hold your wallet. You look look really tired.
It's more like "be kind but don't be a mug, and always put on your own lifejacket before helping someone else into the lifeboat".
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When you get the chance to sit it out or dance. I hope you dance.
Here's my tip. Don't have the audacity to post a bunch of two bit cliches and think they're interesting.
Honestly, why did you give a platform to these two-bit hacks? They're mostly pretentious simpletons saying the most obvious things and trying to come across as clever.
I loved every one except the covid shot. That will be determined if people look back and appreciate it. A lot of people have died from the shot and this is disturbing to their families.
A lot of people have died from COVID, not the shot, karen.
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Have a sleep schedule - keep it EVERY day for LIFE. Well rested, organized people are SO ahead of the game - it is staggering.
Yes, I'll just tell my insomnia and chronic pain to knock it off.
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Admit mistakes. Don’t justify, deny, or give excuses. Be constructive. With practice it gets easier and it takes a huge burden off your conscience. If you do this, the consequence will more likely be positive rather than punishment. It demonstrates you are willing to learn and improve, which is an admirable quality. Everyone makes mistakes - owning up is what makes the difference.
A lot of these would be great printed on a throw pillow or kid's shirt, but if you're living your life by words from a fortune cookie . . . let me hold your wallet. You look look really tired.
It's more like "be kind but don't be a mug, and always put on your own lifejacket before helping someone else into the lifeboat".
Load More Replies... When you get the chance to sit it out or dance. I hope you dance.
Here's my tip. Don't have the audacity to post a bunch of two bit cliches and think they're interesting.
Honestly, why did you give a platform to these two-bit hacks? They're mostly pretentious simpletons saying the most obvious things and trying to come across as clever.
I loved every one except the covid shot. That will be determined if people look back and appreciate it. A lot of people have died from the shot and this is disturbing to their families.
A lot of people have died from COVID, not the shot, karen.
Load More Replies... Have a sleep schedule - keep it EVERY day for LIFE. Well rested, organized people are SO ahead of the game - it is staggering.
Yes, I'll just tell my insomnia and chronic pain to knock it off.
Load More Replies... Admit mistakes. Don’t justify, deny, or give excuses. Be constructive. With practice it gets easier and it takes a huge burden off your conscience. If you do this, the consequence will more likely be positive rather than punishment. It demonstrates you are willing to learn and improve, which is an admirable quality. Everyone makes mistakes - owning up is what makes the difference.
