Getting divorced.

Focusing on getting out of debt. I don’t owe anyone a penny! So freeing.

Saying “thank you” out loud when something good happens 🥰

Taking a blood test to see what I’m deficient in and then taking the vitamins that were needed. Literally feel like a whole knew woman

getting a cat. theyre so worth it ong

Saying the compliments out loud that I was thinking in my head. With my family, friends, coworkers, random person on the street.

Placing the stickers instead of keeping them forever.

They’re angry, and resentful. I’m going against the grain here by saying this but as someone who has experienced child [mistreatment] and been blamed for it and been misunderstood my entire life, yeah, I’m angry and resentful.

Sorry.

Update: thanks everyone. To those who are going through similar, I feel you, a lot.

They don’t trust people and aren’t surprised by weird things that people do in public.

We lose it over little things because we aren’t allowed to lose it over big things. Surprisingly reliable during high-stakes chaos but a tiny small thing will send us spiralling for days.

Job searching! The fatigue of getting multiple rejections, being ghosted, while trying to pay bills can be crushing.

Ireland, the swearing, in a nice country pub or a restaurant and other couples. They get the F word into every sentence. There is no escape!

Avoid having kids. It’ll save you so much money and time.

My fellow Americans. BUY A BIDET

I bought one when COVID hit and toilet paper was hard to find. I bought one for $30, installed it in 5 minutes and have been loving it. I buy a 6 pack of TP a year now and my bum is cleaner than ever.

If you have a mosquito bite that is really itchy, take your shower head and just blast it with water as hot as you can stand. You feel the itchiness just melt away. I've tried every method, product, tip and trick over the years and this is the only thing that has ever brought any relief. The relief normally lasts for about 24 hours.

Slow down to speed up. 'Slow is accurate, and accurate is fast'. Rushing through everything causes stress, anxiety, mistakes, and costs money.