Meet Helene Sula, an American lifestyle blogger who not just loves traveling but has made it her full-time job, moving to live in different states, countries, and even continents! As you can imagine, Helene has gathered a bunch of intercultural experiences and having lived in Europe for years, knows the subtleties of life here pretty well. And saying it’s really different from life in the States would be an understatement!
In fact, she has dedicated her whole TikTok video series to explaining common American things that Europeans think are weird. From prom nights and portion sizes to distances between things and hours spent driving, there are many things that simply bamboozle Europeans. With a whopping 8.4M likes in total, Helene’s videos have gone viral, showing how fascinated we really are by these cultural and societal differences.
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Maternity leave. In the USA there is no standard paid maternity leave, but you can get 12 weeks of unpaid leave. Whereas in Europe, there is at least 14 weeks of maternity leave, with many countries offering much more. For example, in Germany, Norway, Lithuania, Sweden and Hungary, they offer a full year or more of paid maternity leave. In Germany, you can actually take up to three years off, and it's not just for the moms. There's paternal leave too.
Take your newborn to work and get them used to the dimly-lit offices. Stop being such an unproductive member of society, newborns.
It will help when people want ten years of experience and their 18
Load More Replies...American here. I was released by the doctor to go back to work after only 6 weeks of maternity leave. It was devastating. My husband got no time at all. I worked in a mental hospital. No light duty available there, just my regular duties. It was rough and I was worn out by the time i got off. Luckily I had enough sick time to cover it or I would have been unpaid.
Michael Moore already said it in his documentary. There are 2 countries in the world where motherhood is not recognized in the work environment by companies, one of them is an extremely poor country in Africa and then... USA.
And we have all those rights in Europe because we've all voted for the politicans at some point that promised to get them through the parliaments...... then in the US you have people like Sanders, who would try and get this s**t done, and no one votes for the f****r. You're not going to get real change until the current lot in power start losing elections because the people demand it.
Up to 4 years here in the Czech Republic! And actually, after the first 6 months of "maternity leave" (however not limited for mothers only, they can switch with the father), it is called "parental leave".
Yeah US policy wants to make sure women and the middle class and down are of no value at all. They want you to absolutely know it. Unless of course it's a fetus then somehow they only count when they are attached to a woman's body. After that they can die of starvation and they'll tell them to hurry up and die already.
The UK also has adoption leave. My heart goes out to the mums that must return to work so soon after the birth.
Bored Panda reached out to the author of these viral TikTok videos, Helene Sula, who has been a full-time travel blogger for 8 years. Helene runs a wonderful blog “Helene In Between” and shares some great videos about travel, cultures, and everything in between on her TikTok channel. She was happy to share some insights into her adventures around the world with Bored Panda.
“TikTok is such a great platform for sharing travel, life abroad, and connecting and learning with others,” she said. Helene started her blog after falling 25 feet rock climbing and breaking her ankle and leg. “I was out of work so I started a blog, writing about my travels. This snowballed into social media and now it's my husband's and my full-time job,” she recounted.
Money. In the US, cash is all the same shape, size and color, which is green, while in Europe it comes in all different colors and sizes, which also helps people immediately understand the difference. Also some countries like Romania and the UK have plastic bills.
Newer US dollars are starting to come out as different colors. We dont mess with the shape/size because various vending machines and whatnot are only set up for one size.
The different colours and sizes are to assist people who are blind or partially-sighted.
Load More Replies...Thank Romania! I forgot to empty my pocket before wash my jeans and the money was clean and intact 😊
It makes a huge difference for blind and partially sighted people, and for the elderly and learning disabled to be able to recognize colours and feel the difference in size. And while there are subtle differences in the colour of American banknotes, it's not enough to distinguish them in a meaningful way.
In Canada we have braille on our multi coloured, plastic bank notes which makes them easy for blind people to identify. American currency is so far behind, as they are with chip and pin cards.
Load More Replies...Canada has bills the same size but different colours. $5 is blue, $10 is purple, $20 is green, $50 is red, $100 is brown.
Just another reason why, as an American, I have always wanted to live in Canada.
Load More Replies...In Canada our bills are all the same size, but different colors with clear sections you can see right through. The bills are made up of some plastic and melt if exposed to high heat, like in a wallet, inside of a glove compartment in a hot car.
How hot does a person need to be before their cash goes all Salvador Dali on them?
Load More Replies...We too have coloured money in India... no plastic bills though. But now we have gone digital big time...
Tipping. In America, it's standard to tip 15 to 20%. In Europe, tipping isn't mandatory, but in some countries it's a few euros or maybe 10%. Europeans are generally paid a salary to wait tables, while Americans make more money through tips.
A wage that doesn’t depend on the amount of clients and their willingness to tip, is by European standard just an obvious thing. Should be standard in any developed country.
While the minimum wage is $7.25 in the USA (which is already appalling), there are legal exceptions which allow people like waiters, servers, etc. to be paid as little as $2 per hour. Therefore they rely on tips just to make even minimum wage, and they are taxed on the assumption that they will have received tips.
When I lived in England, I always tipped. Once I tipped a cab driver and he was actually shocked. He said I paid him too much and I said it was his tip. Never seen a cab driver smile so big. :)
I generally leave a tip but it's not a requirement here (Scotland) - but will leave a few quid as a thank you. Problem is I rarely have money on me these days and pay everything by card - I'm not sure I trust adding the tip to the bill and paying by card actually gives the server the money and have asked a few times if they'll get the tip if I pay by card to mixed responses - so I need to keep reminding myself to go to get money before going even if intending to pay by card. If service is awful though I won't leave anything - but it does have to be really bad for me to do that! Uk minimum wage is around £9, so maybe $13ish - which isn't amazing but a huge improvement to relying on tips due to slave wages and you can budget better knowing the minimum you'll earn for sure so then tips are a literal bonus, like it should be
California doesn't have this issue. Waitstaff are mandated minimum wage regardless of tips. California's minimum wage is $15.00 per hour. California still suffers from the idea that you must tip 15% or more though. It's very frustrating.
My mom, her friend and I went for a coffee. When the bill came, my mom was at the WC. She gave me her Portemonnaie and said I should pay. 38,70€. I said to the waiter to make it 40. This is the normal thing here in Germany. You pay a round sum.
As a former waitress, I will say, we do have to rely on our customers to make ends meet. I worked at a restaurant for 22 year and the highest pay I received from my employer was $3.17.
Australia and New Zealand are mostly the same as European countries and find American habits etc odd sometimes
I totally hate the idea of tipping, but I usually always tip at least 20% — especially if it's a place where I know I'll be eating again. Service would have to be abysmal for me to tip only 10%, and I don't even want to imagine how bad it would have to be for me to completely stiff the waiter.
Paying at restaurants. Most of the time at restaurants in the US, your server will hand you a bill, take your credit card and walk to the back to charge it. In Europe, your server will charge your credit card right at the table. Also, most Nordic countries are almost all cashless, while some places like in Germany and Italy they still heavily rely on cash.
Also at American restaurants, they bring the check when they think you're finished eating, while in Europe, that's often considered rude and they won't bring you the check until you ask for it.
I agree that it's rude to assume you're finished eating. Do they knock on the cubicle door when they assume you're finished on the toilet?
Again, it's a culture thing. We're not rushing you. Just most diners will sit for hours then want the bill "Now" & grow impatient waiting, while inevitably you're providing service to another guest. If you have the bill & we are busy, another server can complete your transaction so you don't have to wait.
Load More Replies...In the American restaurants I frequent, they bring you the bill when I ask for it, unless it's a casual dining establishment, when the servers bring it when they have time as they try to keep up with their work load. Usually the bill is placed face down on the table with a "no rush" or "whenever you're ready'. I can't imagine how hectic it would be for the servers in a casual place if everyone was asking for their bill at once.
A lot of restaurants where I live have those small paying machines on the tables. (I live in the US). I think that the machines will be the norm in the future, so you pay at the table with your card
Where do you live? That sounds better than hoping no one took your credit card back and copied the info down. Especially with a credit card like an AmEx platinum, where there is often no credit limit. I never use imine even though it offers like 5x dining points bc I don't want to waken to an alert that someone bought $15,000 worth of Nikes on my card while I was sleeping.
Load More Replies...I have started carrying cash again because where I live in the US, they now charge more if you use a credit card. I think it's like 3% of your bill. There are some companies that charge you to pay your bill. The charge is between $1.50-$3.00. I just send mine thru the mail now.
In the UK I'm the total opposite. I don't carry cash at all.
Load More Replies...LOTS of restaurants in America swipe your card at the table, and don't disappear with it.
I think this is an issue of old hardware. More restaurants are doing pay at the table In the US
As a former server, I'd say the big difference is gratuity is not included in The States.
It's not that a gratuity is commonly included elsewhere (as a percentage of the total bill), but rather than restaurants pay *all* of their staff, including servers, a full living wage rather than force them to rely on customers' generosity.
Load More Replies...Lol I'm used to getting my check as a sign to leave. I tend to eat out alone and they don't like a solo diner taking up a table apparently
I think I'd probably stop dining anywhere that tried to rush me out. That's a real BS thing to do.
Load More Replies...Having lived and traveled to so many places both in Europe and America, Helene argues that she loves that there are so many differences between cultures, countries, and continents. “It's what makes each place so wonderful and interesting to travel to. I think Europeans and Americans have different outlooks on living day to day, especially with regards to work,” she said.
Europeans have more time off than Americans, which means they spend time traveling more, Helene argues. “Because Americans don't, we often seem ‘busy,’ cramming in and doing as much as possible.” When Helene moved to Europe, she thought she'd slow down when it came to travel, but the opposite happened. “The more I travel, the more I realize I'm just scratching the surface.”
Driving. In America we drive nearly everywhere, even really short distances and sometimes even across the street. However, we also drive if it's super far away. Also, Europeans tend to say a location is blank kilometers away. Well in America, we say it in hours. For example, we are 10 hours away from the beach.
Yeah. I'm definitely more concerned with how long it takes to get somewhere than how far away it is.
time is a good measure, but that is so variable in the UK. For example I live 10 minutes, or 90 minutes outside of the city center depending on when I set off. The traffic flow is so bad that any sort of stress on the system causes it to just fold, add to that the amount of roads closed or removed for cycle lanes and you are better off not going.
Load More Replies...I live in an area where its possible to spend 20 minutes getting to work, and an hour and a half to get home from work. Everyone I know would love to use public transportation, but the service is so poor, and the availability is limited. It would have taken me 2x as much money, and 4x as much time to get from my house to work, with a 1.5 mile walk on either end of the trip. My friend from the country speaks about distance in miles, because they're never stuck in traffic, and the distances are usually huge. 'Just down the road" means a mile or two to me, but 20-25 miles to my rural friend.
Well, if you like in city that isn't walkable, you really have no other choice. but to drive. But what's the point of pedestrian-unfriendly cities?
I like how it is in America. “Your destination is 50 miles away” Siri, im not trying to do a algebraic math problem while trying to stay in the lane
The distance/hours thing is especially tru in socal. You could be 10 miles from the beach but to get there you have to drive through an hour of traffic. I drove from groton ct to rochester ny, my friend from there informed me that no matter what it will take 6 hours. I was going 80 to 100 most of upstate ny and sure enough still took 6 hours lol
10hrs from the beach.....is that on foot, in a car or on a plane? Is there an average speed used here or just an assumption that you're going at the same speed in a city as a motorway and not being stopped?
Americans are always surprised that I don't have a drivers license at the ripe old age of 39 (40 a week today) - I've just never really felt the need to do it, I plan to but there's always something more important to do, and everything I need is a short walk from my house in my wee town. But hopefully one day I'll do it just to have done it - but I like being a passenger
I love walking and walk where it is possible... i never understood this dependence upon cars. Also, i use transport systems like cabs or rickshaws where needed. I stay in Pune and we have metro coming up. Am excited about it as it will help travel long distances easily
Americans wear their shoes in the house - yes the same ones we walked around in all day. Many Europeans and other countries take their shoes off at home and in Germany they have special house shoes that they wear just around the house.
Lots of Europeans wear their shoes in the house. Lots of Americans take their shoes off in the house. This is a very poor example.
Absolutely agree that's an odd example. My American shoes stay by the front door, on a mat.
Load More Replies...This is another stereotype that just won't die. It must come from people seeing characters in movies wearing their shoes all the time and thinking that's a factual representation, but it's not. I've never met anyone that wore their outside shoes around inside the house. Just imagine the constant cleaning needed. This makes no sense.
*me sitting inside still wearing the shoes I’ve been wearing all day* [o_o] Also I feel I should say I’m not wearing them in a carpeted space
Load More Replies...Special house shoes that you wear around the house? You mean slippers?! But yes. In the UK you take your shoes off at the door. (Inside) and leave them by the door. At your house, also at anyone else's house. The exception would be if you're going through someone's house to the garden for a party / BBQ etc. But normally here the weather is s**t and it would just be rude to walk into someone's house and walk wet muddy shoes all over the carpets / furniture etc. (Like sitting on the sofa with footstools) It's automatic. You go in, if you're staying in, you take off your shoes. If you're popping in for 5 minutes you might leave them on... more likely you'd just stand in the door and then leave again. Shoes in the house = No.
Not everywhere in the UK. Plenty of places I visited where people wore their shoes in the house. This post is a "depends" example that doesn't fit any stereotype.
Load More Replies...I have indoor slippers I put on as soon as I get home. I'm very European in this way. :)
This one is a mixed bag. A lot of Americans are shoes-off, but the rest are obviously shoes-on. My son and I are shoes-off people, but my girlfriend (who lives with us) feels weird without her shoes on and wears them inside. She cleans the floors though, so I'm happy with her doing whatever she wants.
I am starting to HATE this comment. All Americans do not wear their shoes in the house. I don't allow shoes in my house and no one has fallen over at the shock yet. My mom wears shoes in the house all day - she can't get around without them. But they are house shoes. My dad has a SPECIAL room where he changes out of all his clothes (farmer) before he comes in. If I'm going in and out a lot on a certain day I may wear my shoes in my kitchen door, the kitchen's a hard floor and I can wipe it in about five seconds. I don't wear my outdoor shoes on the carpet though. People have different lifestyles. America has enough problems stop spreading this nonsense that we all tromp around with gross shoes in our house.
The way we write the dates. We write the dates, Month-Day-Year. Almost everywhere else including Europe, it's Day-Month-Year. There's no real reason why we do it.
We write them how we say them. If someone asks what day it is we say March 25th. So we write it the same way.
Well if they ain't no reason for it, then stop it and use the date format that most of the world uses! LOL
I wish I could give this 10 upvotes - when ever I am working on a job that originates in America I have to change the way I date things - drives me nuts!
Load More Replies...It has to do with looking up documents. There are so many filed every year, you are probably already looking at the right batch. So it goes at the end. But you can't zero in on a specific day until you know what month you want. So, month, day, year. It's like looking people up alphabetically last name first. You go from broad info to refined info within an assumed range.
So wait, you look for the month, say June 2nd, and then look through all the June 2nds to find which year you want? Do I have that correct? Broad to refined would be you find the year, then month, then day.
Load More Replies...It works better for everyone's filing. It's also how they do it in Korea.
Load More Replies...Plus calendars with a Sunday as starting day of the week. Who the hell starts week on a Sunday?? It always makes me click on wrong day when calendar is in US format
Wait, that's a US thing? My whole life I've wondered why you can get both monday and sunday starting calendars! There seems to be no rule as to why one is used as opposed to the other in Australia.
Load More Replies...im lucky because in europe and us i write my birthday the same way; 3/3/1989
I was thinking about this the other day. The US method makes lists of dates more easily sorted into chronological order. I.e., the list will go in chronological order within the same year. A computer will sort 02/25/22 before 03/12/22. If we did the European method, 12/03/22 would come before 25/02/22 in the list.
No. That depends on the date format. I’d sort 12 May (12/05) before 2 June (02/06)
Load More Replies...Picture a room full of filing cabinets. So many documents are filed every year that you would generally look in the cabinet or drawer that contained all the files for that given year. Once you actually begin sorting through the actual documents you would zero in on the month then the specific day of the month, assuming that you are already looking within the correct year. Putting the day first would organize things like 1 jan, 1 feb, 1 mar, etc, until you got back to 2 jan, 2 feb, 2mar, etc. Instead of jan 1, jan 2, jan 3, etc, putting the days in sequential order within the month the way they pass in the real world, not in order of which one represents the smallest increment of time.
So in fact this is YYYY-MM-DD format. Let's face it: if your system made sense you wouldn't be the only country using it.
Load More Replies...When asked what’s very American that she really misses (or missed) while in Europe, Helene said it’s the “convenience.” She explained: “Stores stay open later. I remember being in Germany and there would be gas stations that you had to pay in store. Stores would be closed so you couldn't pump gas late at night! Or, in Germany, stores closing on Sundays always blew my mind. Just a different way of life. And, of course, Tex Mex! You can't beat it and you really cannot find good Mexican food in Europe.”
Christmas lights in the USA. We go crazy for Christmas lights and over the top Christmas decorations. Even though the movies might make it look over the top, it's totally accurate. We like to cover every square inch of our house in twinkling lights. In Europe, the city centers are often decorated and beautiful, but homes don't usually have such over the top decorations.
One of our favorite traditions in the USA is to go Christmas light looking. We grab hot chocolate and drive around listening to Christmas music while looking at lights
Some people do go light wild in the UK, unfortunately there are a huge amount of assholes that see your lights and go "That's nice. I will have it" and you come home to your lights gone, HD video footage of the whole thing and police saying "we don't have enough evidence". Its easier to put the lights inside the house.
I'm in the UK too and think that the majority of homes in the States are much larger then ours, so there is a bigger area to decorate. With more flats being built, we can only look on in envy at our American cousins who make their homes so much more Christmassy. :)
Load More Replies...Will someone please tell Der Sebbl that we have to drive because it's too far to walk and we don't have decent transit systems?
Where I live, it’s never night time with the amount of lights in my neighborhood during the winter
i think its great. as a person who loves christmas, i like being reminded of it everywhere i go. except people who put up lights b4 thanksgiving.
Not really. -Some- people do this. Even some neighborhoods - there's been one such every town I've lived in. But most people do not. Same with Halloween decorations, there's always a few who go for broke, but most people just turn on their porch lights and/or put out a lighted pumpkin if they've got candy to give away.
It also depends on the state. Like my state ?holy s**t lights everywhere it looks like frickin Whoville.
Load More Replies...The number of times I've nearly crashed my car after looking at the decorated houses! But, seriously, I loved the over-the-top decorations, and I wish more people (including me) did it in the UK.
A house in my neighborhood is STILL decorated and covered in lights.
Eggs are refrigerated in the USA but not Europe. In the United States, egg producers are required by law to wash the eggs in chlorinated water. This kills any bacteria that might be clinging to the shells. This also washes off the eggs natural protection so that they might spoil more quickly if they're not refrigerated. In Europe, egg producers do not wash this off and so they are safe to store unrefrigerated until used.
They also vaccinate chickens against salmonella in Europe, but it's not mandatory in North America.
Oh... I've always wondered why salmonella was such a big dill in the US. Thanks!
Load More Replies...Also the production standards are better in europe so no need to wash eggs
I store my eggs in the fridge, I live in Scotland, I have always done this as does my Mother. UK eggs stored in the fridge will stay fresh for up to 3 months, I know as I have done this
Americans like a lot of ice in their drinks, and the rest of the world really doesn't do this. In Europe, you have to ask for ice most of the time, and usually it's just a couple of cubes. We like our drinks cold and we'd like to refill, please.
Americans like to take a perfectly good fizzy drink and put so much ice in it that it becomes diluted and flat.
Not if you drink it before it gets diluted. Something about a nice, refreshing, and COLD beverage hits different. Room temp drinks just aren't satisfying.
Load More Replies...Restaurants in the US do this because it takes less drink to fill the glass but it's a useless thing because you get free refills on most drinks.
Unfortunately you have this as a great thing over EU, here you get no ice and no refill and probably is a smaller cup and costs more :( i am not exaggerating
Load More Replies...I'm American, and I really dislike the amount of ice in drinks. Most drinks you get at restaurants are already cold without the ice (water might not, but it's not like water is going to get "watered down", lol), so it's completely superfluous. I will specifically say "no ice" if ordering something that might come that way. I always do that when getting drinks on an airplane, for instance (which involves another issue, as well, since the ice you get on airplanes can be nasty).
Live in the US South without ice. I'll help treat you for the heat-related illness.
People get weird when you say no ice. Like I am trying to get more beverage. No, just want the normal amount of beverage without ice diluting the flavor. Ain't trying to rob you of 4extra sips lol
Same, plus I've seen the insides of icamakers. Do not want that slimy bacterial slurry in my drink.
Load More Replies...We don't actually LIKE a lot of ice in drinks, restaurants just do that to give us less actual drink.
What's wrong with ice? It's called iced tea, well I drink sweet tea iced. And it's gone before diluted. Hell I'll drink a damn half gallon before I need more ice. Or is it half liter?
This so very true. I still do not put ice in most things I drink and I love in Florida now. Especially water. I do not like it cold.
I sometimes like to eat the ice. Don’t ask.
Load More Replies...One of the most common misunderstandings about the American way of living that Europeans believe in, Helene argues, is that we only eat fast food. “I can absolutely admit that Europeans have higher quality of food overall. But the USA has its fair share of delicious cuisine from all over the world. Because the USA is a melting pot, there really is a vast array of good, healthy food.”
On the other hand, a very common European thing that Americans would find very weird is the drinking age, Helene says. “I think the European system of drinking younger is better. We drive cars and then drink and I think this leads to binge drinking. Also, that houses in Germany don't come with kitchens, or light fixtures! That blew me away!”
The drinking age in the US is 21, which is the highest in the world. While in most European countries it's 18, and in some countries it's even as low as 16, if it's enforced at all. Also beer and wine is cheaper in Europe and maybe a little better.
We have a high drinking age because the driving age is 16 and there are very few places in the US where you can go anywhere without a car. About 50 years ago they studied drunk driving accidents and found most of them were kids under 21, so they changed the drinking age to 21 and drunk driving accidents fell dramatically.
Not "maybe" please, I'm Belgian, I don't even have to argue about why our beers are better
Belgium might be the only country that can compete with Germany beer-wise... although I personally find the Belgian ones more interesting.
Load More Replies...Not just a little better. Like John Cleese once said: „American beer is like making love in a canoo. F***ing close to water“.
Reason being - as stated above, Americans literally drive everywhere, even across the street. There were many many deaths attributed to alcohol for the age group 16-25. Since the nation went fully to 21, the number of alcohol related deaths dropped considerably.
The way we reacted to stats like that in Victoria, Australia, is people on their P plates have to be on 0 alcohol when driving. Your P plates last for 3-4 years, so the majority of people are 18-22. There are other restrictions as well. It seems to work well for us. I do wonder what difference having the legal driving age at 16 in the US makes.
Load More Replies...Things you can do in the USA before you can drink: get married, have children, buy a house, drive a car, sign any contract, have a job, graduate from university, join the military and die for your country, serve in political office. It's preposterous.
Question to American BPs does it make sense that in almost every aspect you are treated as an adult at 18 but can't be trusted with alcohol until you're 21?
Load More Replies...The big breweries are definitely better in Europe. But American microbreweries are tough to beat.
Exposure to addictive substances while the body is developing has been proven bad. The law was passed w science in mind.
I do agree with you here. I am fine with 18yo buying low alcohol like beer. But strong liquors should be very regulated.
Load More Replies...So I live in Michigan close to the border to Canada and some people I know who are 18-21 drive to Canada and drink there and stay in a hotel for the night and come back. It’s not breaking the law, it’s just bending it.
In the US, we work a lot. On average, we only get about two weeks paid vacation. I personally had only five days off on my first job, which in Europe it varies but many countries get a month off. In the United Kingdom, France, Spain and Germany they take the lead for the most days off.
I do miss the 2.5 days earned vacation per month i got in the navy. Everyone got the same rate of earned days from day 1, no waiting 90 days nor having different tiers depending on seniority/time in service. You could save it all up the whole time you are in. Whatever you have left when you separate or retire you can sell off (or what i did was get home early by 2 weeks while separating). I think this should be the standard. plus a mandatory holiday period of vacation time (like what many european countries have)
From what I understand, the U.S. military seems like a socialist’s dream. Reasonable time off, free health care, regulations to protect the sailor/soldier/etc., such as fair treatment and prohibition against retaliation, pension or employer-matching retirement benefits, employer pays for college, moving expenses paid, maternity/paternity leave, and so on. In exchange, fight for your country, work long hours, and be willing to be relocated, deployed quickly, or on call when at home. That’s the way it seems to me and it’s just my opinion.
Load More Replies...Many jobs won't even give you vacation until you've worked there at least a year. It's not mandatory for people to have holidays in the USA.
Even in the UK, you have to earn your holiday time - if you join a new company, expect to earn say 2 days for each month that you have worked there - this prevents people taking a bunch of holiday time before quitting. You can also expect to be paid for holidays that you earned but not taken if you do quit.
Load More Replies...i don't think Americans "work a lot". they just spend a lot of time working. too long hours make everyone inefficient. in Germany we get s**t done as fast as forking possible, because we hate work and want to get this shirt over with. spending less time working means actually getting more done for most people
I'm a German living in America. I can attest to this. Although I work, on average, 60-80 hours a week, I can get more done in an hour than most of my employees get done in an entire 8-hour day. You work smarter, not harder, and don't let time wasters suck you in. That's my biggest gripe with American workers. If you don't choose employees well, 10% do 90% of the work, and the other 90% often manage to fück up the remaining 10%. I have honestly never seen so many lazy, time-wasting employees as I do here. I'm not saying EVERYONE is, but I have about 100 attorneys, paralegals, and administrators on my staff and I have to regularly counsel or fire people every month--because toxic, lazy workers can kill an otherwise great work environment. You have to keep that garden CONSTANTLY weeded in this country.
Load More Replies...Holidays in Europe are for "rejuvenation". In the US rejuvenation isn't in the "benefit package wording". What was once standard as two weeks for holiday in the US, it is now frequently a long weekend. Perhaps Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday (latter if you are lucky). No wonder the USA is an unhealthy nation.
Yep. So do 17 hour work days 7 days a week. The pandemic fücked some of us up a lot worse than others!
Load More Replies...It's been proven time and time again that it's beneficial for the company to let the employees not work themselves empty to the bone.
In the US, we can demonstrate *many* cases where we could save money, time AND yield better results we simply won't even consider it if a) some poor undeserving person *might* get something folks don't think they "deserve", b) change might be less macho (see men + paid family leave--many American men won't use which is fubar), c) because we don't "believe" in something - see "livable wage" and universal health care (see 'a' here too) and on and on. Expat at heart myself because of this unique cultural trait that puts goals and ideals firmly behind capitalism and twisted selfish morality shite.
Load More Replies...in Croatia is minimum of 20 days that you must take - depending on difficulty of the job, number of kids and years of working soon you get to 30 days that is max and you have to use fortnight at one time of the year - usually at summer
I used to work at tan insurance company through an agency about 15yrs ago (god I feel old) and the holiday entitlement was awesome and earned via how many hours you worked - I eventually was brought on by the company directly and then got paid for the hours holiday I had never taken -I was only working 20hrs a week, took time off fairly often for things like kids being off school for a week etc, but when I moved I had over 100hrs holiday time paid that I hadn't taken - or 5 weeks worth - it was awesome. Turned out the pay rise I got by working directly with the company wasn't as good as all the extra paid holiday's from the agency.
Americans are super loud, especially on our phones and in public areas like restaurants. We tend to air out our dirty laundry by speaking super loudly. When I first moved to Germany I remember I felt like I was whispering at the dinner table.
Oh BS ! Some Americans can be loud yes, but I've met people from all over the world and some of them were loud too. Not just an American thing ffs.
Me--- laughs in Nigerian at Americans being considered loud.
Load More Replies...I'm American with Irish neighbors. They are way louder and rowdier than we have ever been. We think it's charming however, and often laugh at how happy their loudness usually is.
I live in the UK right now, and honestly, i think this idea is a bad stereotype of Americans
While this is true of lots of Americans, it isn't true of all of us. I am a soft spoken person for one. I was taught from a you age that no one needs to be able to hear our conversation at a neighboring table. It's what you are taught.
And for us Scots, everyone needs to speak up. Stop bloody whispering ;)
Load More Replies...That's just Germany. Have you ever met an Italian or a Spaniard?
I've lived in the US and also worked alongside their forces in other countries and in my own experience I haven't really seen this.. some people yeah, and in some circumstances, but only the same as everywhere else. One thing I did notice lots of times when an American I knew was being loud was it was circumstantial - they didn't hold back their loud enthusiasm with whooping and hollering when they were excited. We do tend to be more reserved on that score here in UK - we're more worried about looking like d***s about being excited.
That's truly an over exaggeration. I have not encountered this that often. However, I will say generally MOST Americans are annoyed by people that do that. So, I'd say this is not common.
The professional traveler and content creator believes that looking at cultural differences is a great way to learn. “I often get very angry commenters that want me to know that ‘Europe is not a country.’ I do know that, I've been lucky to visit 40 different European countries and spend a good deal of time in each. I think each country, of course, has its own set of customs and cultural differences, but comparing the USA and Europe doesn't mean I'm denying that,” Helene said and added that “I just think it's interesting for many Americans to see the differences.”
Powerlines. Driving around the USA you'll notice power or telephone lines nearly everywhere you look. While in many places in Europe they bury the lines underground. Buried power lines are protected from the wind, ice and trees, but buried lines are more vulnerable to flooding and can still fail. Also burying them is more expensive, but it looks so much nicer.
The US is vast and the land is not the same in all areas. I am from an area close to the Mississippi River. We can't put electricity under the ground in a flood plain. With the rate at which most areas are expanding, it much more cost efficient to have the line above ground because they may be moved later.
Yes...different area have different dirt. Where I'm at, I dig 6 inches deep in my back yard and hit rock...solid monkey fighting rock. To put cables underground would need alot of hoe-ramming.
Load More Replies...Oh not the power line thing *again* ! Do you have any idea what it takes to bury power lines in granite/metamorphic rock? Sure, we can punch through in limestone, but then we have to not do so near any major floodplains or shallow aquifers ----- which is a huge chunk of the rest of the US. It's not that simple. Oh, and if you bury them, good luck repairing them in a hurry. Stop. With. The. Power. Lines. I've heard this so often that I just want to hand everyone in the world a book on US geology. Too close to the coast? No good. Near a major aquifer? No good. Too near a river floodplain? No good. On igneous or metamorphic rock of mnay kinds? No good. It's not ignorance, it's not some love of power lines, it's just plain old *cost*.
I think that people who say this about power lines don't understand 1. how large the US is; and 2. all of the different terrain here.
Load More Replies...It's pretty simple in the UK. In towns and cities they are mainly underground. In the countryside they are above ground as it is too expensive to bury them, particularly as a line may only serve a handful of properties.
Europe had the chance to redo massive chunks of their infrastructure and bury power lines because it was all in shambles in 1945. The US wasn't bombed, so we have lots of legacy infrastructure in place. Visit a modern development, though, and you'll see that the lines are all buried.
They started to put power-/phone-/internet- cable underground in the 90s. After the war everything was built up as fast as possible to get everything going again.
Load More Replies...When we developed the land for our home, we were the first to get underground power lines. They are working to get others in the ground but it's a slow process.
I think it's because you often have to cover greater distances in the US so burying them is just too expensive?
So, my entire city's lines are underground except the older downtown area. But most of my 540,000 perso. Area was built within the last 20 years. Because of walmart forcing everyone to have an office somewhere in northwest arkansas, our area has more than quadrupled in a very short amount of time and it's really weird when I go to other places mostly because powerlines just aren't that big of a thing here. I may have gotten off on a tangent, but I just feel like newer built places are starting to go the underground method
Here in Houston, TX we are actually below sea in many area, as is Louisiana. So no burying. And no basement
Here in the Netherlands we are also below sealevel, up to 6,75 meters below! And most of the powerlines are underground here....
Load More Replies...North West Oregon is mostly clay. It's constantly shifting with the rain. Plus is traps water very well. My fire pit floods whenever it rains from the amount of water in the ground
Americans love small talk. Perfect strangers might ask you how you're doing or comment on the weather. Typically the further south you get in the US the more small talk, darlin'.
And in Scandinavia if you get an answer at all, it will be an honest one. I worry about work and taxes and the government, my back is bothering me, my mother's healt is failing and maybe the children aren't doing well in school. Are you ready for that waiting for the buss in rain and sleet at half past seven in the morning? That's why we are silent.
I'd much prefer that and show some empathy and understanding than non caring "hi how are you" then walking off without caring for an answer
Load More Replies...In US "how are you" is just the beginning of smalltalk - In Germany it is a specific (medical) question. ("oh, dont get me started, my back hurt, the mineral taxes are killing me my car needs repair an I feel like it is going to rain later today) :D So be careful when you talk to a German(european)
In the Netherlands too, we just keep it short. As in, 'it goes well, I'm sad' etc.
Load More Replies...In the South people are more genuine and friendly. Colorado was super reserved and kinda stuck up. East Coast is more genuine and direct but not necessarily more friendly and West Coast was kinda snobby too from what I noticed.
My mother ! She has to talk to everyone! Most of the time explaining herself to someone that didn’t ask ! It’s embarrassing but funny sometimes ! She makes lots of “friends”tho
I'm starting to realize I'm kind of European in mindset. I'm overly direct, will share my honest feelings and thoughts without reluctance and if people make small talk I'm blisteringly honest there too.
Your behaviour described sounds exactly like my fellow Dutchies. You might have the mindset of a Dutchman.
Load More Replies...I am a talker and very friendly but sometimes you just know when a smile or a nod will do.
Horrible isn't it, we're friendly. Maybe this is one that should catch on
If I ask "how are you?" I'm ready to hear the deluge. I ask because sometimes folks need someone to ask and to listen - not necessarily to fix anything - but to at least commiserate. That said - I always have to pause before answering when someone says it to me - I'll answer you honestly because what's in my head/heart will come out my mouth if asked a direct question, and I forget that most people here aren't looking to hear anything other than "Fine - thanks."
In college (US), I was friends with most of the foreign students. At the beginning of the year, Eberhard (German) passed a guy and said, "Hi, how are you?" The Japanese student (called "Spider," a family nickname) replied cynically, "Do you really care?" "Yes," said Eberhard, "I do." So they sat down in the,grass together and talked for more than an hour. We welcomed Spider into our circle of friends.
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Bathrooms, and by bathrooms we mean toilets - American bathrooms are what we call them. What's weird is the bathrooms in the US often have wide gaps - why? Well, no one knows.
Hey we hate this too ! I hate accidentally seeing someone on the toilet and I hate accidentally being seen on the toilet ! 😂
I was told that it allows people to get in and out of the bathroom if someone is stuck/has a health issue/can't unlock the door, and the big gaps between the doors allow people to check when someone has a problem and also discourages drug use, sex, etc. (apparently) because people can technically see what's happening.
Why? Well, actually we do know, and it’s incredibly easy information to find. There are gaps in the doors because 1. It allows you to see if the stall is occupied, and if someone has passed out or is having a similar medical emergency. 2. It makes activities like drug use and sex less practical. 3. Much better air ventilation 4. It’s easier for the doors to be a standard size, rather than one that would need to be custom for the height of the room.
It's for two reasons. It's easier to sluice down & clean the whole floor, one, and two, it makes it easier to spot when someone's passed out in a booth. I'm not fond of it either, but then, here in the US, it's also considered incredibly rude to peep through the gaps. So we cope.
I never understood why urinals in the US don't have separation, instead you leave one urinal unused. 😵💫
You would have to stare into the gaps to see a portion of the person's body. Why would you stare into the gap? At a glance you can see feet below or through the cracks. You would have to stand close and peep through the gap to see the person on the toilet. Now that would be a reason for someone to have a problem with you.
I was in Chile and couldn't read the Spanish hand-written note on the bathroom stall saying the lock was broken. I was trapped inside, and crawled out the bottom of the door like a circus contortionist.
Americans are not direct at all. Europeans are super blunt, and they tend to tell you like it is. Whereas in America, we tend to give a compliment sandwich. So we stick a criticism in between two compliments, whereas Europeans will just tell you what they think. And they'll tell you they don't like something or if they do, whereas in America in the USA, we tend to not always be as direct.
I think the American poster here has mis-read a lot of say the British then... When an Englishman replies to a statement with "interesting", he means "that was pure stupidity, now let's change the subject". So, "direct" if you know what was meant, not direct if you take it at face value.
In the south it's "Bless your heart" when you say something we don't agree with. Judgement with a smile.
Load More Replies...There are huge differences between European countries. I guess we Germans take the crown for most blunt people. If a German thinks you're an ass, they will tell you so.
Yeah that is true! And we are honest, like brutally honest! If I as a German say you look like crap in that shirt, you look like crap in that shirt!
Load More Replies...This depends heavily on what part of the country you're from. People from NYC, Jersey and Philly tend to be pretty blunt in my experience, whereas Midwesterners are passive aggressive and hell...they won't tell you to your face, but they'll sure as hell talk behind your back. West Coast is kind of a mixed bag, and the South are more like the Brits who have euphemisms for "Damn, you're stupid" (i.e. "Bless your heart").
I'm extremely blunt and American and I need no sandwiches or crackers to soften what I'm saying. I don't know that I agree with this one. I'm surrounded by loud mouths just like myself.
This heavily depends on the country you're in, however on average I guess this holds up. Especially if you go to the Netherlands, be prepared :P
Not a native NYC resident. We don't pull punches and are straight to the point. Too fast paced for many others to relate to
Well that's b******t. I know lots of people who will tell it like it is. I guess the people you know aren't very truthful.
I find Americans more blunt than Canadians. Canadians will give a list of excuses to not want to talk to you. Americans will just tell you bye and leave. Or just leave.
Compliment sandwich 😆 yes that's literally what we call it, not even joking
It totally depends on the area of America you are visiting. I love east coast New York types because they are direct to a brutal degree.
Windows. In the USA, windows are typically much cheaper. Many windows have a crank to open and close them, or a lever to push them up. European windows are better resistant to condensation. For example, in Germany windows just open with a push in turn, making them easier to open and close and more resistant to breaking. While most North American windows use double pane windows, European Windows usually have triple pane or even quadruple pane. I think the reason for this is that Europeans build things to last, while in the USA we tear down and build new.
....and in the UK you still get single panes with cut-out ventilation that doesn't really close.....
I lived in a house like that! Right next to the main London to Brighton line - draughty, noisy, and let in brown soot from the railway.
Load More Replies...What person in the US just tears out windows for new ones?! I agree that we're pretty bad about just buying new stuff but I promise you tearing out your windows for new ones is an extremely rare practice.
I thought they meant the buildings in general are not built to last. I know in Australia, 40+ years ago houses were built to last 50+ years, now they are expected to last only 10+ years because it's cheaper.
Load More Replies...What in the heck is this? Has this person even been to a house in the US?
Usually have triple or quadruple? Not here in the UK double glazing tends to be the standard with Triple ply as an option. I have never seen a house with quad ply windows, or a company even offering it, and I bought new windows about 6 months ago.
I hear quad glazing, I think someone has a grow house or wants to stop a bullet. Double glazing is plenty.
Load More Replies...And than there are the nice Windows in like Germany that not open just normally but you can also just tilt them a bit to get a nice and steady breeze. |/
Hahaha! You can purchase whatever kind of windows you want! Single hung, double hung, casement, double/ triple pane. It's all about cost!
I got new windows in my ancient house not too long ago, I didn't notice how much better they were until I opened them one day and realised how noisy it was outside. All my windows open in two different ways and can turn them 90 degrees so they're easier to clean - think they're just double glazed though
When you build a new house you're required by law to make it energy efficient so decent windows are a must.
Whenever you meet an American,usually the first question you're asked is: "What do you do for a living?" This doesn't happen the same way in Europe. In the US, people are obsessed with their jobs, and usually think of this as their identity. Don't be obsessed with your job, be obsessed with your life.
I don't think "what do you do for a living" is the first thing you ask here in America. Most people actually consider it rude
I don't know. I agree I get asked a lot when people meet me. And I have even been told I look like I don't care ebcause I don't ask that question.
Load More Replies...I've never asked or heard anyone ask that as a first, second, or tenth question in conversation. Some of these list entries make me think the writer's experience is from 1960's black and white sitcoms.
Hmmm. You can sometimes tell a lot about a person by what they do for a living. Plus work is such a big part of one's life - I'm a lot of things, but a big part of my life is what I"m doing for 50 hours a week.
Naaah, not in Europe. We earn money to actually be and do what we love
Load More Replies...I won't name them but in certain Asian countries one of the first questions you are asked is some version of "how much money do you have/make, and if related to dating, "what's your blood type". I don't even know my blood type. I think it's B something...
Next, they will ask if you have good swimmers. Lol.
Load More Replies...I find this question is asked either as an ice breaker, or as a way to potentially criticize someone for their job. Usually I get the latter. No one's worth and brains should be defined by their job. People are just doing what they need to in order to supplement their life. It's better to just ask what they like to do on their free time.
I dont know about this. It is also a really common question in Belgium and Spain.
In Belgium (at least Brussels) the first question is where are you from, I miss it so much
Load More Replies...It's an obvious conversation starter if you don't know someone. Don't read more into it. Most people identify with their job, basically it is their life/ life's work, and most people like to talk about it. I don't see what the big deal is.
In the US, the portion sizes are huge. You might be surprised how big the portion you'll receive when you order a meal is. It's also acceptable to take your leftovers home. while in some places in Europe that's not typical. Also if you haven't noticed, we fry everything.
ooooooooooh okay now I want funnel cake, damn I haven't had them in sooo long
Is that what that is? I've heard of a funnel cake but never seen one.
Load More Replies...Europe isn't all brie and bratwurst; the US isn't all deep-fried sugar. It's up to personal taste, just as it is anywhere.
Right? I grew up with a single mom...I hate wasted food!!
Load More Replies...As an American the portion sizes are great. There's enough for at least 2 meals.
Yes the portions can be huge, but not everything if fried and covered in ranch dressing. Also why waste food.
I can't help myself, but I f I read about encounters with american food, it always seems a bit like "Oh, so for your six-pound-plate of fries, you can get another 10 pieces of deep fried butter for free, and do not forget the dozen of quarter pound hamburgers - shall I fry them for you, or would you prefer them doused in a pint of ranch dressing?" I am a bit sad about this - as I am sure there are many great american dishes that are neither deep-fried nor extreme-calory (there have to be, I mean, just geographically, there must be regional specialties, maybe seafood at the coast or something with beef in the mainland?), but those are not what shapes the view of american food in europe.
The average European's view of the US in general is pretty skewed, to be honest. Not very close to reality at all.
Load More Replies...After visiting Ireland, I don't think us Americans can claim we cornered the market on large food portions.
Honestly, it's rare to have left overs from restaurants. Personally, if I order an entrée and a main course, I have no more room in my tummy for a dessert.
The movies are true. We really do have a lot of high school dances, although they aren't choreographed like this. We have homecoming. And fun fact. My first date with my to be husband was homecoming. We also have Prom, and Prom King and Queen.
And the USA does a rocking business in dresses for these events, because the wealthier girls will only wear a dress to one event and then they need a new one. So there are about 4 or so prom-like events per year through four years of high school, with dresses costing easily $200-300.
Very true. I have about 5 formal dresses hanging in a closet from when my girls went to such events. All look new and worn only once. I will be donating them soon.
Load More Replies...Ireland has "The Debs" where they basically hire out a hotel ballroom and everyone gets pissed. There'll be at least one fight, someone ugly-crying, someone passed out in a hedge and the ladies toilets get absolutely destroyed.
In Australia we have Deb Balls, but they are opt-in and the numbers seem to dwindle each year because who wants to pay all that money and learn formal dancing etc! The only whole year level dance is usually the formal/valedictory for year 12s. Still the same result as your debs though lol.
Load More Replies...We now have this in the UK, what was wrong with the good old fashioned end of school year disco? No peer pressure into getting hair/nails done, no pressure on the parents to buy/hire expensive clothes, no pressure on them to rent a huge limo so that their princess/prince can out shine the poorer kids, life's too stressful for modern kids, this crap should stop, Imo.
School disco, a bit of cotton eye Joe. Jobs a good one.
Load More Replies...Homecoming, from where? Like the "pilgrims", who were actually refugees from Europe.
And graduation for everything- kindergarten, elementary school etc etc. Tends to water down the event.
In the USA we go all out decorating our homes for the holidays and Halloween is our time to show off our spooky decorations. I rarely see Halloween decor and European homes, but it also seems like Halloween is a much bigger tradition in the USA.
yeah.. and it´s annoying af...Urgh... its cool in the US.. but why ftlog do we copy everthing from the states. Its just moneymaking..
Load More Replies...That's because Hallowe'en has become insanely commercialised in the USA.
Exactly..it originated here ..the festival of Samhain
Load More Replies...We had Hexennacht (Night of the witches) on 30. of April (Beltaine) where we thrived through the village and did pranks (like trick or treats but without treats). No car was outside the Garage or it got redecorated, no doorknob safe of mustard or tooth cream. Sadly it's no longer common so I'm into Halloween now. Speaking for Rhineland-Palatinate/Germany.
I remember doing trick or treat in the 70s and we had to give a trick or treat to get sweets. Mischief night was a bigger thing
Halloween originated in Ireland from the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain.
Halloween was celebrated more as a pagan thing in the Uk, until the total commercialisation of it/
Grocery shopping. Most Americans do their grocery shopping once a week, typically buying larger quantities of items to stock up. While in Europe, shopping is typically done every day or every other day. Also, grocery stores in the USA tend to be bigger and have larger aisles. Since many US cities are suburban, there is room to create much larger grocery stores with even larger parking lots. While Europeans might bring home their groceries on public transit or bikes, meaning they don't need to carry quite as much.
That's because in Europe shops and homes are in the same block or street. In USA blocks are typical only commercial, residential or industrial. So the distance between living and shopping is bigger, thus the need for cars, etc.
This is very true of the US. The closest grocery store to my house is 13 miles away.
Load More Replies...Yes, I would love to live in a quaint European village for my shopping needs - walk next door Mr. Varda's bread shop, and then pick up headlights at Ye Olde Auto Castle and finish up by going to Le Chat Noir to get my cat food and litter at the end of the block. That would be lovely.
I dont know about this. In my experience in Europe If you live in a city you often do smaller but more frequent groceries. Mostly because fridges and freezers are very small. But if you live in a village the supermarket is usually very far and you do a weekly groceries or even less. We usually buy every two weeks.
Yep. I go once every 2 weeks but i have a shop/butcher van come by every friday with everything you need but expensive.
Load More Replies...I buy my groceries once a week - because I am half German and organised :-)
The only reason I do my shopping daily or every other day is because I am totally disorganized. Unless you live at the center of a large city, people will normally do their shopping once a week.
I do grocery shopping like 2-3 times/day, for breakfast i just go 20m from my apartment flat and buy what ever i wish to cook or sandwiches for work, then middle of the day when back from work or whatever i pass like 10 diferent stores and just stop where it get my fancy and buy to cook or already made meal, or maybe i order...is great to live in a dam city and not having to stock up and plan meals etc
Load More Replies...As a person from the US, I can say I would love a more European shopping experience. I would love to shop for fresh produce and breads everyday rather than a weekly shopping trip. I think that would be so much more satisfying and healthy. Here everything is so full of preservatives to last between shopping trips that you lose that freshness. You got us on this front for sure.
But that's because of the vast distances. Like in Aussie, if you want fresh produce when in the bush then get your car and drive 5 to 8 hours..... even here in N France I need the car and the closest shop (expensive) is in a village and 20 minutes drive. Big supermarkets 40 minutes.
Load More Replies...I like buying groceries for a day or two and going every other day because it keeps things fresh and your less likely to waste, but I’m also from Europe living in America so it makes sense.
I think a person would waste if they get different stuff every week...some foods eaten will be consistent over time you know what you will eat and what you would.. I have a set amount of shopping I get every week. So it works for me,but I used to waste a lot.
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In America, we drive huge vehicles. Europeans tend to drive smaller compact cars. Since European cities are more dense, the cars reflect that. While in the USA, we tend to think bigger is better and often prefer trucks and SUVs. Also, in the USA gas is typically much cheaper, but overall Europeans tend to be safer drivers than Americans.
Unfortunately, consumerism propaganda is very strong and Europe is following US's example. SUVs are in the rise even though they need so much more fuel. Such a waste.
Unfortunately fuel comsumption is not even the only problem. Lots of roads, especially in dense cities or old towns, simply are not built to accommodate SUVs. Neither are most older car parks - a SUV usually needs 2 parking spaces there (or three, if it is a "typical SUV driver").
Load More Replies...This has always driven me crazy (see what i did there?) I have always loved small, efficient hatchbacks, and now they are all but extinct here. Bigger and bigger and bigger, and now everyone is crying about gas prices. Well...hm...let me show you this mirror. Also: I don't want to hear "but I have kids so I need this enormous assault vehicle". Two words: station and wagon.
I love small cars. So much easier to maintain/park/drive/clean, etc.
Load More Replies..."Europeans tend to be safer drivers than Americans" there speaks someone who's never been to Italy!
I drive a Nissan Juke which is the smallest SUV on the road if I am not mistaken. It is small but for my cleaning business I have to have an SUV. It's very fuel efficient and roomy enough for my supplies when I put down the seats in the back. Until I bought this SUV I had always driven larger vehicles but is was unnecessary.
It shocked my when I watched a video of the American youtuber Doug de Muro calling a BMW X5 a "mid size suv". I was : "Mid size ??? It is humongous"
My son is 6'4"+, my husband is 6'3"... They don't fit in compact cars. 😆
Gas USED to be cheaper here in the US until you know who invaded another country.
It is still cheaper. The price of crude oil is set globally. Refining costs are similar. The difference is the amount of tax charged on it. And even after our wonderfully generous chancellor (/s) knocked 5p a litre off fuel duty, it is still about $8/US gallon.
Load More Replies...Anyone here get jitters trying to get out of a parking space after big vehicles park beside you?
You need good driving skills to negotiate the smaller road systems in Europe. Some road are still on the original Roman roads.
No we don't. In some areas larger vehicles are necessary because of jobs or weather, however sedans are still very popular.
There are many many people in the US who drive large trucks as their main vehicle but yet are not in construction or in any field where it’s actually needed.
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The term America. If you grew up in the US, you may think of America and the United States interchangeable. Most of the time we call the United States America and we call ourselves American. Even though there's also the whole rest of North America and all of South America. Many people can't understand why we refer to the US as America, and people from other countries often refer to our country as the US or the states.
As a result of this tendency to refer to the United States as 'America', many Canadians will correct you if you refer to them as 'American' or even 'North American'.
Canadian accent is a dead give away though. To my ear, it has a much softer tone than the American one does.
Load More Replies...America is just an abbreviated form of The United States of America. North America and South America refer to the continent of America as a whole. It's not exactly a difficult concept.
That's exactly what I was going to say! Also, 90% of the time you can infer what the speaker is referring to when they say American.
Load More Replies..."American" is the accepted demonym for citizens of the USA, and has been since its inception. Who goes to a customs agent and when asked their nationality says "Asian" or "European" or "African"? No sane person. You tell them your nationality by your country's demonym. So do "Americans". Don't like it? Too bad, it's not changing.
I’m Canadian. Technically that makes me an American lol.
Load More Replies...Exactly. The USA does not have a name, it has a description. In Spanish, they say Los Estados Unidenses, which translates to "United Statesians". That's never going to take off. American is widely used, and people from other countries in the Americas just call themselves by their country name, so it's all good.
Load More Replies...My dear friend lives in Texas. I call her Murrican 🇺🇸 She calls me Canajan. 🇨🇦 We fly each others flags for special occasions. 😁
Depends on where you are. When I'm in a country where English is not a second language, and I say I'm from the "United States," people will look at me blankly until I amend that to "America." Then they smile and say "Oh, America!"
Fashion. In the USA, we tend to dress casually all the time. Sweatpants, leggings and sweatshirts are normal to wear on a daily basis. While in Europe they tend to be more fashionable and dress up more often. Also, Americans tend to go with what's trendy, while in Europe they prefer a more classic look.
I'd disagree as fashion styles and preferences vary incredibly between countries.
I'd say it's quite regional, there are fashion obsessed places like Berlin or Düsseldorf but in my rural neck of the woods casual rules.
Load More Replies...This mostly goes for southern European countries. Up here in Scandinavia we could teach everybody a thing or two about dressing casually.
At least not Spain. Yes, if you go on the fancy districts the people will be better dressed. But in normal areas sweatpants to walk the dog or go to the bakery are super normal
Load More Replies...I think it varies from region to region. I am from Florida, a resort area where everyone wears shorts or summery dresses most of the time, and we wear bright colors a lot too. When I first moved to a northern city I was utterly amazed that my friends would look at a woman on the street, dressed in all black (in what I came to think of as 'city' ) and tell me what designer they were wearing, what collection it was, and whether or not I should be impressed. I had never considered fashion in that way before.
Yes, the Fashion week in Paris is soooo classic... not talking about the big name in fashion. (Sarcastic comment)
This is so strongly dependent not only on country, but also on local area but above all personal preference. For example in the Netherlands you get a great mix, but overly it's casual nowadays, even in banks or for salesmen.
Also depends on what industry you work in. I doubt a lawyer would wear sweat pants and leggings. I work in behavioral health and I can't wear that to work. Also, who cares what you wear when you are running errands. I've been clubbing in Europe where my European friends wore the same outfit every time we went out. That would be frowned upon in the US.
We dress casually because we have LIVES outside of work. We also enjoy walking around when we shop - dress clothing is less practical. We also don't generally hire people to do our household chores - we need to be comfortable. Eating picnic-style in our backyards is common. We often relax by watching sports, either in person (and having to climb many stairs in stadiums), or on television. Not a dressy activity. Americans USED to dress up more. That stopped with the Feminism of the 1970s.
Houses in America and Europe are pretty different. American homes tend to have more space between them, while in Europe, they're more closely stacked together. Most American homes have a yard while many European homes don't. And while many American homes are larger than the European homes, in Europe the outdoor communal spaces are very beautiful and super pedestrian friendly.
This is utter nonsense. It depends where you live, rural or city and which part of the country. I have a whopping garden here in France and no neighbours stuck to my house. She should get out more ...
Thank you! I've lived cheek-to-armpit in apartments, grew up on a farm, it's variable. And the "outdoor communal spaces" is... Ugh. Do these people *travel* or just go to hotels and look out the windows?!
Load More Replies...We european also can't relate to US shows or movies where people punch or jump through walls - try that here in Germany and either a brick or a concrete wall will break some bones
Yes, b/c Europe never has cheap, thin, lousy walls... /s/
Load More Replies...That's just because we have tons of space in America. There's no real need to stack people like in Europe unless you're in a really big city.
And houses in Europe are more solidly built. I was shocked at the flimsy walls and lack of insulation when travelling through the States.
Earthquake codes, You don’t have earthquakes in Europe. A brick house will bury you dead at the same Richter’s where a wooden frame house will just flex a little.
Load More Replies...Because of the centuries in which they were built, and the available land space, American homes are huge compared to British ones, and so much cheaper. In the USA, I owned what would be considered a fairly modest townhouse. Three bedrooms and two bathrooms on the top floor. Living, dining, kitchen, guest bathroom on the ground floor, and a finished basement with another bathroom, laundry and storage area and another massive room which led out to a back garden. Here in the UK my home has four bedrooms, but only two floors, and is less than half the size of my US house, but costs about 3x as much.
I live in America, specifically in Massachusetts in a very rural area. Houses here very a bit in size, but depending on which street you are on they can be relatively small one story affairs or they could be extremely large almost mansion-like houses. There are also a good number of houses in my town that were once or still are multi-generational. You can see where the original house was built, and then where extensions were added on as more generations were born and lived in the house. It really all depends on how much space is available, out here in the boonies we have lots of space, so we have relatively big yards and lots of room between the houses. In a big city, or even in a more medium sized city things are different.
This is not true at all ... It depends a lot. In my country (Belgium) it is standard to have a detached house with a big yard, in rural Italy and France too
Same in the UK. In my little village most houses are detached with large-ish gardens
Load More Replies...A lot of them are not true because the author of this article took "Europe" as a country ... Europe is a continent and each country in it can be very different than its direct neighbour
Also a lot of them are not true because they make broad generalizations about both Americans and Europeans that are true of some individuals and not of others. I don't think the article offers a very accurate picture of the US or Europe.
Load More Replies...True but have you noticed lots of non americans posting nice comments .... And would you like me to post nasty stuff about the Netherlands, Australia, France? I will if you want me to.
Load More Replies...Got to meet that quota of "America is different" articles... it must have been a couple weeks since the last one! Don't forget to post pictures from artists who "re-imagine Disney princesses", Bridezilla articles and toxic masculinity articles (it has been a while since I've seen one of those). Not that I think all of these articles are pointless, but they get repetitive.
Well, you have a mansplaining article, so that checks off the toxic mssculinity requirement. But yeah,no reimagined Disney prinvesses for days! What will they be this time? I resprctfully disagree that these articles ate not pointless, unlrss you count clicks.
Load More Replies...this annoys me because it says everything america does differently as a problem. its not. sure, a lot of things about the US suck, but being friendly? we don’t need to be critized for being friendly, nor for writing the month before the day.
It is almost like the United States are a whole country with their own customs, traditions, needs, and way of living! Who would have thought that exists in the world?
Load More Replies...You missed one of the most important things about USA living: air conditioning. For years, I got to be super comfortable all summer. Now I live back in the UK, and as global temperatures rise, it's so damn hot inside the house!
Yep, I understand you miss that. I (we) had a room downstairs for tv and all my books. like a second livingroom. I made that in a bedroom for us so Hubby could stay downstairs. Now I'm alone and summers coming ... I think these thick walls will keep me nice and cool in the summer. Upstairs is a nightmare if it's hot. I'll let the guests stay upstairs which makes certain the don't stay too long hahaha, just kidding.
Load More Replies...It seems like this is very, very, very, very familiar. As in: the exact same content as scores of other USA vs Europe BP posts. Why? Is there really nothing more interesting/original/entertaining out there?
I know very few Americans who wear shoes inside their house, just to start, so.... Let's admit that if you're comparing a large (geographically speaking) nation to a *continent*, the comparisons are often inaccurate.
Seriously. We don't. But it's one of BP's favorite things to point out. That and tipping. YAWN.
Load More Replies...I like these articles, but they are getting too repetitive. It would be nice if Australia, NZ, Asia or Africa were included more often.
First, I doubt most Europeans would consider most of these things "very weird", and second, no American other than some "woke" ningnong fishing for brownie points would even pretend to care if they did.
A lot of them are not true because the author of this article took "Europe" as a country ... Europe is a continent and each country in it can be very different than its direct neighbour
Also a lot of them are not true because they make broad generalizations about both Americans and Europeans that are true of some individuals and not of others. I don't think the article offers a very accurate picture of the US or Europe.
Load More Replies...True but have you noticed lots of non americans posting nice comments .... And would you like me to post nasty stuff about the Netherlands, Australia, France? I will if you want me to.
Load More Replies...Got to meet that quota of "America is different" articles... it must have been a couple weeks since the last one! Don't forget to post pictures from artists who "re-imagine Disney princesses", Bridezilla articles and toxic masculinity articles (it has been a while since I've seen one of those). Not that I think all of these articles are pointless, but they get repetitive.
Well, you have a mansplaining article, so that checks off the toxic mssculinity requirement. But yeah,no reimagined Disney prinvesses for days! What will they be this time? I resprctfully disagree that these articles ate not pointless, unlrss you count clicks.
Load More Replies...this annoys me because it says everything america does differently as a problem. its not. sure, a lot of things about the US suck, but being friendly? we don’t need to be critized for being friendly, nor for writing the month before the day.
It is almost like the United States are a whole country with their own customs, traditions, needs, and way of living! Who would have thought that exists in the world?
Load More Replies...You missed one of the most important things about USA living: air conditioning. For years, I got to be super comfortable all summer. Now I live back in the UK, and as global temperatures rise, it's so damn hot inside the house!
Yep, I understand you miss that. I (we) had a room downstairs for tv and all my books. like a second livingroom. I made that in a bedroom for us so Hubby could stay downstairs. Now I'm alone and summers coming ... I think these thick walls will keep me nice and cool in the summer. Upstairs is a nightmare if it's hot. I'll let the guests stay upstairs which makes certain the don't stay too long hahaha, just kidding.
Load More Replies...It seems like this is very, very, very, very familiar. As in: the exact same content as scores of other USA vs Europe BP posts. Why? Is there really nothing more interesting/original/entertaining out there?
I know very few Americans who wear shoes inside their house, just to start, so.... Let's admit that if you're comparing a large (geographically speaking) nation to a *continent*, the comparisons are often inaccurate.
Seriously. We don't. But it's one of BP's favorite things to point out. That and tipping. YAWN.
Load More Replies...I like these articles, but they are getting too repetitive. It would be nice if Australia, NZ, Asia or Africa were included more often.
First, I doubt most Europeans would consider most of these things "very weird", and second, no American other than some "woke" ningnong fishing for brownie points would even pretend to care if they did.
