With the wedding season in full swing, many of us are excited to witness how two people venture on a journey together through life. We're eager for elegant ceremonies and magical moments, and we expect to cherish these memories for years to come. But in the real world, weddings are far from the dazzling and perfect affairs many of us imagine. Because you see, some couples seem to go out of their way to show everyone that taste really is a matter of preference.
To prove that some celebrations of love look like anything but fairy tales, members of the 'Trashy' subreddit shared snaps of the wild and tasteless things they’ve ever spotted at a wedding. With the tagline, "All things Trashy!", this online community has set out on a mission to expose the low-class nuptial disasters.
From outrageous invitations to mothers-in-law who turn up in bridal gowns, we at Bored Panda wrapped up a compilation of photos that vividly illustrate how bad things can get. Continue scrolling, upvote the ones you loved hating the most and be sure to share your own stories with us in the comments! And if you think you can handle even more wedding horror stories, check out our earlier publications about nightmare wedding guests and the most shame-worthy wedding examples.
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Since 2012, the 'Trashy' online group has amassed over 2.8 million members. A few thousand people scroll through the page at any given time and are always on the lookout for some juicy pictures to pop up at the top. The moderators stated that this is a humor subreddit where they forbid bullying or toxic behavior. Moreover, they don’t allow heated discussions about social and political topics, explaining that you’re not going to change the world by arguing in a place where people laugh at drunk people making fools of themselves in public.
According to the moderators, this is a perfect place for people to poke fun at "trashy stories, trashy glamour, all things fake, plastic, and downright trashy, low-class, no-class, white trash, bimbos, and damn proud." Those looking after the page also added that posts on the group need to be funny, and they need to be a celebration of trashiness. "If it makes you angry then it doesn’t belong here," the moderators added.
I Don't Care What Your Political Views Are, This Is Stupid As Hell For A Wedding Cake
This Wedding Photo
This Wedding Invite
But this does beg the question, what does trashy actually mean? Well, the internet meme database Know Your Meme stated that the term trashy is used in a derogatory way to describe something extremely low-quality or inappropriate. "It is used as an antonym of 'classy' and typically refers to human behavior that is undesirable. Someone who is considered 'trashy' or behaving in such a manner typically exhibits selfish or grotesque actions with no remorse, especially when being inconsiderate," they explained.
This Whole Situation
She deserves to be dumped but you lost me at revenge porn. That makes you as bad as her, if not worse. Don’t do that.
Weddings Are Fun
Wearing This Dress To A Wedding
Yes, of course, because someone else's wedding is about you and your dress.
*spends entire wedding worrying about my boobs breaking out of the dress*
Maybe MAYBE a nice design for a bathing suit you don’t wear in the sun (tan lines). 🤷♀️
Also don't sneeze because if you do those little triangles aren't covering anything up.
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Yeah... I vaguely remember this being posted somewhere a while back and everyone was shaming Kendall for wearing that to someone's wedding, but then the bride stepped in and said that she looked great and defended her because she was fine with it. I could be totally mixing up two "celebrity" things because I barely pay attention to my own life much less theirs.
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If it has a back, it might be on backwards.....I could totally see someone putting those straps in the back
Ummmm.....for a wedding? Lovely for many events but no, no, NO on a wedding. Maybe for a professional photo shoot for horizontal blinds? Do your window coverings look this good? No? But they SHOULD. Make sure the outside of your windows look even better than the inside. Breast...I mean best shades in the business. Do the rugs match the curtains? Make sure with our window coverings!
The black "dress" reminded me of that meme with a baithing suit for cats... catsbaithi...189dcf.jpg 
If I remember correctly this is Kendall Jenner at her friend’s wedding and the friend approved of the dress beforehand
Disgusting. Go get a real dress on, not a piece of tattered fabric.
The bride posted about this. She was asked if it was okay before the wedding, and she said yes. She thought it was a cute dress. If the bride has no issue with it, who are we to judge?
Lmao, the amount of s**t shaming over a dress that I'm reading says a lot more to me about people than that dress does...
There just looking for attention just like people who are not the bride wear white at the wedding.
She couldn't find a dress so she wore the fabric scraps from her Grandmother's latest quilting project.
I don't know what's worse: Wear white dress to someone's else wedding, or wear this? They looks great, but it's inappropriate for wedding
image nip slipping in the black one with kids around and not being able to get the dress back on (these would actualy be great for the "s**t you need to know" wedding above, with no kids or dress code)
We're they getting married at a strippers bar? Just trying to think where this dress would be considered appropriate.
maybe their going to the wedding that said they could wear whatever the f**k they wanted
Trust me it was solid black no holes or rips but a tiger got to her on the way to the wedding and it ripped her dress
Unless one is the bride I be call'n off my wedding and checking this out. Maybe they are my brides present to me. Maybe, I ought stop looking and start thinking of my bride cause she is my everything.
Are those two women trying to get made at the wedding? For the people go to the wedding sometimes to have sex on the grounds of the wedding for some kick.
A real woman knows you never upstage a bride at her wedding. These two look like broads.
Those "dresses" look neither hot, nor sexy. They look trashy and those women ought to display their wares elsewhere. A wedding is not a place for sluts to find a hook-up.
My Marine Corps bud upon being asked who he was bringing to my wedding "You know how there's always that one girl in a micro-mini dress two sizes too small? Yeah, that's who I'm bringing."
It depends on whose wedding it was. I've seen wedding "gowns" that cover less and in those situations this might be appropriate.
Well... depends on the wedding. I guess, there are weddings, where those dresses are totally appropriate and nobody would mind. It's a tiny bit too much for my personal taste, but since it's not my wedding 🤷♀️ Aside from all that... they both look gorgeous and if they feel confident and pretty in their dresses, why not?
Well yes - you have a beautiful body. Now stop being gross and rude and put on a sweater. And the other girl with the .....Roses? Eeewwww
Surely that's on backwards! That said, looking at how the gold dress is one sneeze away from a nip slip I'd imagine there were a bunch of similarly attired *ladies* at the wedding & that's just how their social group dress. Wouldn't be surprised if the bride was in something barely covering everything too. 😛🤣
Yes, not proper wedding attire but if the bride didn’t care, why should we? Still I’m curious as to how one gets into such a “garment.” I’m guessing some taping is used to affix the triangles to the skin to keep them relatively in place. I wonder how it worked for dancing in. If it is superglued it would be fine - and cooling.
I don't know. I still think Jaden Smith wearing a white Batman costume to a wedding takes the cake. I hope it was a personal joke between him and one of the people getting married otherwise it was annoyingly attention grabbing.
Which one? I mean I get it, one is definitely more scandalous than the other but pick one lol
She's a lesbian. She's trying to catch more females attention than anything any 1 man could ever offer. Yes they keep it quiet her mom/momanger doesn't won't ppl to know why is beyond me but any "boyfriend" she has ever had or will have will be bought and paid for if you get my drift.
How to say you're an attention where without saying your an attention whore...
When you can't wear white but still gotta steal the attention
Maybe it's a wedding for a couple of porn stars? I guess this "dress" would be appropriate in such an event.
Well, she's a Kardashian (actually Jenner, but whatever). This is practically a parka by their standards.
She asked the bride’s permission to wear it and the bride loved it. She only wore it to the reception, not the ceremony. I personally don’t care for the look, but no need to hate on her
People kept defending Kendall Jenner for wearing this to a wedding. I don't care if the dress is considered pretty (it's not) or she is a celebrity (debatable), it's a damn wedding. Maybe that's news to her, but there are people who don't want to have to see her half naked all day. (Also Hailey Bieber and her boob-roses-dress looks just as bad)
At least no discussion here if it's blue or golden...bit like we get used too: no pockets here
Maybe ok for just the dancing in the evening, but not for the ceremony in church. They both look beautiful though.
I'm gonna bet you're and old disgusting man that cant get laid to save his life
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if lesbians can keep it together when a woman wears that, the problem isn’t the dress. Women should be able to wear whatever they want and not be in fear of being assaulted. just be quiet if you don’t have anything nice to say.
Load More Replies...Since the wedding season is here to provide members of this online community with plenty of content, they don’t waste a second and share their hilarious snaps online. Although it’s important to note that taste is subjective — what is trashy to one person may be stylish to another! Moreover, we’re well aware that there is no such thing as a flawless wedding. You may have spent hours meticulously planning your big day, hoping everything to be perfect with a capital P. But the truth is, some things are simply out of your control. Whether it’s the caterer that canceled at the last minute or the ignorant plus ones who drink the open bar dry, some minor mishaps are simply unavoidable.
From A Bridal Facebook Group: Praying With All The Single Women Find A Man
"At our nephews wedding today. The bride offered a special gesture... Instead of throwing a bouquet toall the single girls, she took apart her bouquet and handed each girl a flower and prayed with each girl, to wait on the man that God has for them"
I like the idea of handing out parts of the bouquet to everyone but nah you keep your prayers and Jesus to yourself there lady.
The Groom Took His Laptop To His Wedding To Play A Game On His Computer
We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money
You can’t come to the wedding because we actually hate you. Now give us your money.
Wedding Photoshoot Idea: The Groom And The Bridesmaids…
These Bizarre Wedding Vowels ...
"The grooms vowels from the wedding of a family friend. We are genuinely concerned for her safety"
Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding
Allison Jackson, the owner of the Pineapple Productions, mentioned that it’s important to remember that your celebration speaks directly to your heart. "A wedding should be personal and reflective of the couple — their stories, shared interests, family backgrounds, personal styles and travels — versus something built on recycled ideas from other weddings," she explained. "I encourage couples to draw inspiration from the stories of how they met, what they did on their first date, and how they became engaged. It’s easy to find a few details from those stories that naturally translate into fun and unique elements on the wedding day."
Did Bud Light Sponsor The Wedding?
Thought This Was The Bride And Groom At First - Nope. Father And Stepmother Of The Bride, Wearing A White-Ish, Beaded Gown With A Train
Ran Across This On A Wedding Shaming Site And It Belongs Here
Agree with shaming a lot of this, but if a woman doesn't want to wear a bra, no matter what size she is, she shouldn't have to.
Another thing to keep in mind is the people you want to share these unique moments with. "Focus on the touch points that allow guests to be present throughout the weekend," Beth Helmstetter, a creative director at Beth Helmstetter Events advised. "For instance, if your ceremony has the possibility of being too hot or cold, make sure to address those issues with blankets, fans, and water. For the reception, always make sure you have enough servers and bartenders. If guests aren’t able to get a drink or wait too long for their meal, it doesn’t matter how beautiful or fun your wedding is. Guests will be focused on their needs not being met and they won’t be able to enjoy the celebration as you’ve intended them to."
Well He Is Wearing White Head To Toe!
Jaden Smith wearing a Batman suit to Kanye’s wedding is still a top tier moment
This Couple Thought The 20th Anniversary Of 9/11 Was A Great Theme For Their Wedding
Neither one could figure out how to be appropriate around humans. A match made in heaven.
Being This Drunk At Your Own Wedding
Most importantly, make sure you enjoy the experience and try to have fun! After all, people sometimes see their big day as the final destination when, in reality, it’s only the beginning of a long and exciting journey together. But if some things don’t go as planned, remember there’s always humor to be found in even the most unfortunate situations. So if you have a weird and amusing story to tell, don’t be shy and share your adventures with us in the comments.
When You Study Wedding Photography At Juuliard
Bride Asks Mil Not To Wear A White Dress, Mil Does Anyways
Seen This Wedding Photo On Fb
My Friend Went To A Wedding Where They Had A Guy Handing Out Martini Olives In A Bathtub Full Of Olives
Wedding Photo ...
What’s More Trashy? The Wedding Or The Caption?
This Wedding Dress
Eggs
Her Dress Was The Only Thing Not White At This Wedding ‘Merica....
Sharing This Very Normal And Appropriate Groom Outfit I Came Across On Twitter
Please Be Considerate About Peoples Choices At Your Wedding
At my sisters wedding she gave me 1 corn on the cob. That was it. That was all I had all day. I was not amused.
Great Wedding Photos..
White Trash Wedding
I Really Hope That This Is A Wind Up
Classy Wedding Cake
I mean it’s not good but if that skunk is a real cake it looks good, the baker has skills at least.
Why Has This Not Been Posted Here Yet? It’s Gold
At least it has walls. It’s better than the hay bale toilet I saw on BP the other day.
How On Earth Can Anyone Be This Tone Deaf...even If It Was A Joke, I'm Surprised There Wasn't Even A Small Part Of Their Thoughts That Went, "Oh, Maybe This Isn't A Great Idea!"
WHAT THE ACTUAL FÜCK????!!!! I would make a covid test, you have no taste!
He Wore This Hat To My Friend’s Wedding
I Can’t Imagine Seeing This At A Wedding
Why Would You Think This Is A Good Idea??
Promoting Your Mlm At Your Wedding
I'm All For People Who Go For Low-Budget Weddings, But Then There's This....
Not The Greatest Way To Way To Start You Wedding Day
Pretty Trashy For A Wedding
Umm… It’s A No From Me… Serial Killer Themed Center Pieces For Halloween Wedding
Animal Abuse! What A Nice Way To Celebrate Love!
I went to a wedding with a large vase at the center of each table with a few real fish in each. A drunk guy later broke one, and more drunk people tried grabbing at the fish to save them. Cruel disaster.
Trashy Wedding
It looks like it smells. Couldn’t find a place in the alley that wasn’t in front of a dumpster?
Facebook Delivers This White Trash Wedding. I Guess They're Pissing? Best Man Is Also Wearing A Sidearm
Can someone please explain to those guys how to use zippers so they can go pee pee like grown ups???
Mil In A Lovely “Taupe” Dress (She’d Be Leaving My Wedding In A Hearse)
And The Cringe Award Goes To...
My Sister Is Getting Married.. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought
Some "Interesting" Guest Fashion Here
I Get So Misty Eyed At Weddings
From A Backyard Wedding In The Trashy College Party Part Of Town
Mother Of The Groom In A White Floor Length, Glittery Gown - Yikkkkkkkkes
This Wedding Photo Caption
Some Of My Favourite "Unique" Vintage Bridesmaids Dresses
Found One In The Wild, Lads. Worn. That Poor Bride...
On Today’s Episode Of “Sir, This Is Your Wedding”….
Why Would You Even Thinking Of Wearing This
Found This On Facebook. She Looks Great. Him…not So Much
My Cousins Wedding Cake...
Putting Your Honeyfund & Cashapp On Your Wedding Getaway Car
Am I The Only One Thinks This Is Tacky?
Found On Facebook. What Is Going On
Why on Earth would you agree to marry someone looking like that. I mean that dress is awful.
Translation: "Say Says 'I Do'" (But I Would Have Said "Hell Nooo!")
Gas Station Wedding
The Groom’s Idea Of Dressing For The Occasion…
Someone Hosted Their Wedding Today In The Welfare Office Parking Lot
Interesting Wedding Guest Attire At Luxury Resort
He Wore His Best Hat For The Wedding
Ah Yes. The Trailer Park Special
Mother In Law And Sister In Law Wore White
Not good etiquette but at least they didn’t wear an actual wedding dress like some of the inlaws on this list.
Yes… Classy..
Wedding Goals Indeed
Let Us Not Forget: Kurt Cobain Wore Pajamas To His Own Wedding
He's Kurt Cobain. It's not going to be normal. Don't care about this one.
Oh Yes Love Me A Good…spiderweb…cake
Found In A Local Facebook Buy/Sell Group
How Does No One Proofread These Things
Went To A Wedding Last Weekend. This Was The Bride
Found In An Oklahoma Wedding Resale Group. I Hate It Here
Posted On A Fb Wedding Planning Group I Am In
Every Girl's Dream Wedding
Stop shaming the jail weddings. These women are expressing their commitment when these guys are at their lowest. I don't judge this. I'm touched by it. It's beautiful that she wants him more than she wants a big blow out that people usually only throw to impress other people.
The Groom's Cake At A Family Member's Wedding
They Had A Wedding In Jail
Mother Of Groom Insists On Being In Son’s Wedding Portrait With Bust Of Deceased Husband
That’s Queen Victoria who was in mourning for her husband. Also lots of people have tributes to their deceased loved ones. I don’t find this one distasteful.
Wedding Dress For Sale - Never Used
Nah, leave this girl alone. She’s selling her dress because her ex is a jerk. She deserves her bit of revenge.
Found This Doozy In A Buy And Sell Group
A Barracks Wedding. How Much More Boot Can You Get?
Help Choosing A Venues…they’re The Same Picture…
How is this trashy? Both venues look nice. They’re also not the same venue. Sure they’re very similar but they’re not exactly alike.
I just don't understand this weird obsession with mothers of the groom, trying and failing, to out do the bride on her wedding day.
like you, i can't comprehend why it would even be attempted.
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So many grooms in daily or work attire.... it almost looks like they want to say, "not my idea this, but had to show up".
The grooms who don’t dress accordingly, where the bride does, clearly show no interest nor have any respect to make an effort. That’s kind of trashy.
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A bunch of these pictures are "Hey, look at these people going casual at their wedding", and while I admit that, for me, a wedding is a formal thing, maybe it isn't that way for everybody. Their wedding doesn't have to please me. It only has to please THEM. I think it would be awful for someone to say "This style isn't really 'me', but it's what everybody else expects, so that's what I'll do." Nah, mate. You do you.
I agree if they both are, but I think if only the groom is, it seems less like something they both agreed on and more like a lack of effort/investment.
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Is it odd that "white trash" is still a perfectly acceptable racial slur?
Not so sure about the racial part, but I find it really awful since no person anywhere should be called "trash" or "garbage" just for their living- and financial situation! Or even their taste. "Trash"-people are those who hurt animals, murder people for fun, rape people or take huge bribes to ruin a country.
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I think I prefer most of these weddings to the overblown, perfect, humorless, bridezilla fantasy ego-fests costing mountains of money.
The amount of judgemental nonsense here about how people choose to celebrate their relationships is bizarre.
I guess this is a personal thing, getting married and all.... I'm not sure why we should judge or shame others for their chosen way of celebrating (except the maga c**p, this should always be discouraged imo)
Agreed. About the maga: I would discourage that especially because it takes the happy day away from the couple and makes it about some other person who is not even there and couldn't care less about their existence. Same as a wedding themed to Putin, or even to Jesus Christ or some other god-thought entity. Weddings (at least those in western culture) are supposed to be about the bride and groom and a bit about the family. Not about the money or the fame or some other person who gets a cake in their likeness. You'll be placed as second (or even last) fiddle your whole life, statistically. Don't put yourself in that position on what is supposed to be the happiest day of your life!
Load More Replies... I gave up looking less than half way through. Tacky and tasteless on the whole.
I usually click on the original image amount to see all the pics on a thread, but I'd rather not for this one.. I honestly can't see anymore!
#36... the skunk cake one.... Is... Does the bouquet consist of a walrus baculum?
I don’t understand how #10 is trashy? If the single women were not looking for a relationship, I imagine they wouldn’t be included in her gesture.
First, it's not VOWELS...it's VOWS...buy a dictionary, look it up. Second, the really disgusting ones are the TRUMPERS...cake, guy in shorts has TRUMP socks, woman with MAGA dress. Did Donny finance their wedding?? These people are so tasteless...they must have not gotten their covid shots and can't taste anything anymore. Geez, don't show these anymore. All TRASH!!! And lady with the baby, I hope child protection got involved
I just don't understand this weird obsession with mothers of the groom, trying and failing, to out do the bride on her wedding day.
like you, i can't comprehend why it would even be attempted.
Load More Replies... So many grooms in daily or work attire.... it almost looks like they want to say, "not my idea this, but had to show up".
The grooms who don’t dress accordingly, where the bride does, clearly show no interest nor have any respect to make an effort. That’s kind of trashy.
Load More Replies... A bunch of these pictures are "Hey, look at these people going casual at their wedding", and while I admit that, for me, a wedding is a formal thing, maybe it isn't that way for everybody. Their wedding doesn't have to please me. It only has to please THEM. I think it would be awful for someone to say "This style isn't really 'me', but it's what everybody else expects, so that's what I'll do." Nah, mate. You do you.
I agree if they both are, but I think if only the groom is, it seems less like something they both agreed on and more like a lack of effort/investment.
Load More Replies... Is it odd that "white trash" is still a perfectly acceptable racial slur?
Not so sure about the racial part, but I find it really awful since no person anywhere should be called "trash" or "garbage" just for their living- and financial situation! Or even their taste. "Trash"-people are those who hurt animals, murder people for fun, rape people or take huge bribes to ruin a country.
Load More Replies... I think I prefer most of these weddings to the overblown, perfect, humorless, bridezilla fantasy ego-fests costing mountains of money.
The amount of judgemental nonsense here about how people choose to celebrate their relationships is bizarre.
I guess this is a personal thing, getting married and all.... I'm not sure why we should judge or shame others for their chosen way of celebrating (except the maga c**p, this should always be discouraged imo)
Agreed. About the maga: I would discourage that especially because it takes the happy day away from the couple and makes it about some other person who is not even there and couldn't care less about their existence. Same as a wedding themed to Putin, or even to Jesus Christ or some other god-thought entity. Weddings (at least those in western culture) are supposed to be about the bride and groom and a bit about the family. Not about the money or the fame or some other person who gets a cake in their likeness. You'll be placed as second (or even last) fiddle your whole life, statistically. Don't put yourself in that position on what is supposed to be the happiest day of your life!
Load More Replies... I gave up looking less than half way through. Tacky and tasteless on the whole.
I usually click on the original image amount to see all the pics on a thread, but I'd rather not for this one.. I honestly can't see anymore!
#36... the skunk cake one.... Is... Does the bouquet consist of a walrus baculum?
I don’t understand how #10 is trashy? If the single women were not looking for a relationship, I imagine they wouldn’t be included in her gesture.
First, it's not VOWELS...it's VOWS...buy a dictionary, look it up. Second, the really disgusting ones are the TRUMPERS...cake, guy in shorts has TRUMP socks, woman with MAGA dress. Did Donny finance their wedding?? These people are so tasteless...they must have not gotten their covid shots and can't taste anything anymore. Geez, don't show these anymore. All TRASH!!! And lady with the baby, I hope child protection got involved
